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Thank you for this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:33 AM
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Here’s another tale in projection. I made comment on my social media that solo parenting was sometimes hard and I often have to make difficult decisions. I live away from family, have little support but I get by. I did not mention him, nor cast aspersions, directly or indirectly but this was CLEARLY an attack my exhusband/father of my children. He went ape shit on me. Unbelievable. A week later and I’m still mad about it. My feelings are valid. Don’t hang your guilt on me. Get therapy. A girlfri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:11 AM
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Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:02 AM
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I like the predictive text suggesting “lol”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:28 AM
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Parenting goals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:27 AM
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YEAH BUT DID HE GET THE GIRL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:20 AM
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Love this movie too. Mike Myers is hilarious in it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:06 AM
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I really enjoyed that movie. Recommend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:04 AM
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Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:21 AM
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And comparatively there is an over supply of men in China right? All the more reason for women there to apply FDS and land a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:41 AM
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Love it and now it’s my photo background. Thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:42 PM
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Reminding myself of this, not while dating, but instead while navigating the waters of separation and divorce. My soon to be ex-husband gives me plenty of opportunity to practice being silent and I’ll just keep walking...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:24 AM
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I read recently boys can be exposed to porn at 9 years old (probably younger now). My son is 6 and I am absolutely terrified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 12:53 AM
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Colleague told me recently on a flight the guy sitting next to her was watching porn. I couldn’t believe it, but sadly not at all surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 12:50 AM
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The jester? Fuck off. She’s got her own back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:58 AM
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Oh I love this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:12 AM
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True dis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:21 AM
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Amazing. Love your work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:42 AM
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This. Bloody love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:38 AM
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I really enjoyed the series and movies, but this interesting. I’ve never thought of it this way, but I think you’re on to something here..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:12 AM
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I felt really sad when I read your “cuddling” experience. This is extremely shitty behaviour and I’m sorry it happened to you. I would also be in that “used”feeling camp if it were me.But despite this awful time, it seems you’ve risen above it and it’s give you clarity. Thanks for sharing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 01:01 AM
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Yeah I think it’s spot on. I married a man I pursued and clearly I loved him more than he did me... devoted myself to him well... it went to shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 05:44 AM
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This is actually heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 05:43 AM
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I loved reading this. I love this sub too! Well done!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:01 PM
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It’s almost unbelievable when it happens too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:16 PM
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Simple really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 11:15 PM
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Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:34 AM
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It’s absolutely revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 12:34 AM
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Thanks for sharing your experience! It sounds as though this has been empowering for you and it has been for me reading. Well done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 12:32 AM
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FFS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 07:35 AM
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That’s interesting! I must admit I am yet to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 07:34 AM
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I am going to try your masturbation technique. I probably look at porn once a fortnight. I don’t want to do that anymore, it’s boring and I want to feel as empowered as you are and take control. Do you use tools or just yourself? If you don’t mind me enquiring? Thank you for your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 07:31 AM
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Goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 07:20 AM
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I’ll be echoing that sentiment to my own daughter... and son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 02:46 AM
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I’m saving this post. I appreciate the time you took to write and share. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:49 PM
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Same. Marriage, kids and it was all about him. Hindsight is a gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:48 PM
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Yep. In the bin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:10 PM
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Agree wholeheartedly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:10 PM
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Spot on. This was in a time when I hate a fairly low self-worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 07:43 AM
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Omg yeah. My ex did this all the time and still does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:52 AM
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I fully support this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 11:21 PM
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Yes me too. Honestly? I’ve only just come out of it. It’s fucking liberating and beautiful on this side, but it did take significant time for me to arrive here (this is sub has been a huge help too). You never want to hear it when your deep in it: but you need time to arrive and with that comes the value of insight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 01:42 AM
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Even though you met up with him, you blocked his advances and to me that’s progress. Acknowledge this victory and don’t be so hard on yourself - you did well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 05:12 AM
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Don’t underestimate foreplay. Effective foreplay can bring an orgasm on promptly in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 10:14 PM
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I like this. Simple. Strong. Easy to get my head around. By removing the emotion in this approach it cuts through the mental BS I do so often get caught up in. Bravo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 10:02 PM
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Favourite analogy of this is: put on your own oxygen mask first before you help others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 12:50 AM
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The timing of this post for me is impeccable. I have already read it 3 times. I’ve been on and off again with a man for about a year (we were both working on ourselves and dealing with the aftermath of previous relationship trauma). I switched on the “badass bitch mentality” you’ve described after some significant personal growth (this subreddit has helped tremendously with that! 🙏🏻)- and low and behold he comes to me wanting more. Well he can earn it if he wants it. It would be very easy for me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 05:44 AM
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I met my husband in his first year of med school. Supported his study and speciality training, financially and emotionally. Sacrificed my own studies and career. Had two beautiful children with him. Moved interstate so he could commence a PhD. The weekend we arrived (after I packed up our entire house, kids, quit my job said goodbye to my friends and family) he told me he didn’t love me anymore. Within a few months he is practically living with a new partner, 10 years younger. She is a med stude…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:26 AM
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Can confirm. Source: am starter wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 07:26 AM
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