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| 3 | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.ah yes this is a good point. Well, pursuing some other hobbies will not only lead to more overall life satisfaction and more friendships, but it will also for sure lead to more success dating (gives you something to talk about and/or go and do and also leads to more opportunities to organically develop relationships with women!) | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 5 | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.Photos where you’re doing something that you enjoy! Maybe you’re at a bar, having a beer with a friend. Maybe you’re walking your dog. Whatever! When I was single I would choose between photos of myself from when I was treeplanting, travelling, snowboarding, dancing (I’m part of a dance group), hiking, pictures with my dog, pictures with my parents dogs lol, and maybe a couple photos of me with a close friend or two, doing something goofy. I have lots of hobbies and activities I enjoy, and am a … | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 07:09 PM |
| 5 | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.As long as your ex isn’t in the photos, use them. I’ve taken some fantastic photos of my boyfriend and I hope that if we broke up, he would use the pictures I’ve taken of him. | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveI wouldn’t say that female friendships work that way - at least none that I’ve had. If I were to poke fun at a female friends insecurities, they would look at me like “what the fuck is your problem?” Actually just recently a close friend of mine was complaining about how her boyfriend does this sometimes and she doesn’t understand why, she doesn’t find it funny and thinks it’s cheap humour. She’s asked him to stop. I think that your approach probably works with casual sex or fwbs, but is not a g… | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 06:04 PM |
| 9 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveI can very honestly say to you that my current boyfriend absolutely didnt use this tactic when we first met and started platonically hanging out. It has worked on me in the past, yes. It just comes across as really disingenuous and manipulative - and it doesn’t feel good to be on the receiving end of, even if it works. | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 06:55 AM |
| 6 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveI absolutely hate it when guys do this and am INSTANTLY turned off, just FYI. Maybe this works on some women but definitely not all. I am WAY more likely to be attracted to a guy if he’s talking to me in a nice and natural way - it’s often either really obvious what guys are doing when they try this “pull” thing, or else they just look like an asshole. | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 04:22 AM |
| 3 | The one secret of online dating that I didn't tell Buzzfeed when they interviewed me?but the thing is, is when I used dating apps (I'm in a relationship now) very attractive guys DID add me on Instagram. I just didn't really care if they did or not. I care a lot about my own looks and the looks of the men I date and sleep with. I just care a lot about other things/find other attributes even more attractive than good looks, like confidence or intellect or humour. Of course, I get an ego boost when someone hits on me. But ultimately, I find it a major turnoff when someone is obvio… | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 3 | The one secret of online dating that I didn't tell Buzzfeed when they interviewed me?So in other words... you only have interest in women who have interest in you? Lol so I must be ugly because I don’t care if random dudes add me on Instagram. Noted! | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | The one secret of online dating that I didn't tell Buzzfeed when they interviewed me?Look I have to be honest with you. As a woman, profiles like yours are the ones I swipe left on so fast because I figure you’re kind of full of shit and trying to win women over instead of just being yourself. Also, I’ve never even once thought about how I want guys on tinder to add me on Instagram. | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 03:52 PM |
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