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I cannot stand people who victimize themselves. If you turn yourself into the victim, then someone has to be the bad guy--and if you're not really a victim of anything, you end up demonizing someone who's done nothing wrong to you. That's exactly what these girls are doing with this twitter campaign.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 10:38 PM
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That's really exactly how to describe the realization, I like that phrase. (And congrats on the improvement!)
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 03:46 PM
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I'm assuming this is in the context of a committed relationship? I'd definitely give it a go in that case. I'm always willing to take advice from people I love and respect, especially if they can demonstrate how well that advice has worked for them.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 02:24 PM
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Thank you kindly! :3c
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 01:51 PM
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Social justice is supposed to be a sort of blanket term for seeking equality for all types of people (covers race, gender, fat acceptance, disability, etc.), but most people use it as an excuse to be incredibly mean to people they consider 'privileged'.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 01:51 PM
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Basically I had no red pill inclinations before finding this sub and was actually a totally embarrassing tumblr SJW. I found the sub by running a Reddit search for femininity. I'm not totally sure what made it click for me--as you can probably guess by my admittance to engaging in social justice on the tumblrs, I clearly was not great at critical thinking. But click it did, and I realized my personality was kind of awful. So here I am, still doing my best to better myself based off femininity bl…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 12:59 AM
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You need to cut that dude out of your life, first of all. I know you don't want to and you say he's a positive influence, but there's a good chance that you'll pass up a good guy because 'it's not him' him being, you know, the dude you're hung up on. Take it from someone who's still working on being hung up on a guy who didn't want me, it WILL become a huge barrier to your future relationships if you do not deal with it asap and the most effective way to do that is to cut him out of your life.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 10:40 PM
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Oil is also a really good option for shaving (especially the lady parts), I use baby oil.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 02:56 PM
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I don't even know where to start... everything she makes looks great, she looks great!
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 06:53 PM
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Try focusing on improving yourself and your immediate environment. At 17 there may not be a lot you can do other than working internally. However, focusing on things to improve about yourself will help give you purpose and improve your self-esteem.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 05:16 PM
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I've been browsing this blog since you submitted it and I'm hooked! I'm a sucker for that 50s aesthetic, even though it doesn't really match up with reality--now or then.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 07:31 PM
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I used to wear pantyhose with all my formal wear until my late teens, at my mom's insistence. These days I prefer thigh highs or tights.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 03:47 PM
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I usually wear my nails bare but trimmed and shaped. Sometimes I'll put on a nail strengthening clear polish if I remember. I want to start wearing some actual color on my nails, maybe some simple but elegant designs, but I'm not sure where I want to start. I recently subscribed to /r/redditlaqueristas for inspiration. A lot of the stuff is kind of garish, but there's good material too.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 12:10 AM
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Becoming more feminine and less naggy doesn't really entail 'changing [your] personality completely'. You're their partner, not their mother. You have no right to be pushy with them. Learn to let go and not make such a big deal out of things, even when they upset you, and you'll find you're much more attractive to potential mates. It just sounds to me like you know what's wrong and aren't willing to change it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 04:59 PM
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Since most of your other problems have already been covered, I'll offer up some advice I haven't seen yet: I would start with accumulating a large number of activities that are friendly to your disability. If you're not sure that you can handle a location with your disability, invite a trusted friend who knows your situation to go along with you and check it out. This way, if you have to turn down a location, you'll be prepared with another one right off the bat. 'I can't do X because I have a c…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 09:02 PM
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My instinct is to say she might have had some insecurity issues. A guy being 'too alpha' is a very real thing for girls who are insecure because they don't get the constant affirmations of their greatness that more beta guys and female friends tend to hand out.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 10:52 PM
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I'm not saying everyone with a media addiction is depressed, that would be silly! But it seems like he started out motivated and ambitious (all the smarts in the world won't get you into a prestigious university program without a good amount of effort), which makes me think that there's some kind of extenuating circumstance. However, if he's not even willing to get help for what's obviously a problem, I would advise that she just leaves him. You can't waste time on people like that, even if it i…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 07:58 PM
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I'm not sure Allison is being totally honest with you or herself. This seems like a fairly clear case of depression to me. For people who suffer from depression, often the symptoms don't come out so much in our attitude (which is easy to fake, especially if you've been struggling for awhile) but in our actual actions (the laying around, not going to class, etc.) Unfortunately, in a case like that there's not much she can do. He has to make a concentrated effort to seek help and learn how to cope…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 07:43 PM
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Recently I've realized I have a laziness problem, so I'm stepping it up as of this week. robot voice Work it, make it, do it, makes us harder, better, faster, stronger....
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 04:54 PM
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Most places don't check your post history unless you post something controversial and they want to start bringing out the ad hominem attacks, so I wouldn't worry! They're all very nice and helpful from what I've seen there (:
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 05:26 PM
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/r/FemaleFashionAdvice might be a better place to ask! Specify whatever requirements you have in terms of 'look' (IE adult, classy, feminine, modest, whatever) and any ideas you may have for color/cut and they'll be able to find you something.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 05:22 PM
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Thanks for the help (: I'll be looking forward to your threads!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 03:14 PM
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You know, it might be a lack of familiarity issue. I didn't really interact with any men as a kid--my family is 'blessed' with mostly female children and we're very insular, so not a lot of family friends (male or female). There was my dad, my brother, and my oldest cousin, but that's it, and I had a very bad relationship with my dad. As a kid all my friends were female, and now my only male friends are gay. (Not that they're not real men, just that it's different from being friends with straigh…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 02:56 PM
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Men in general definitely, but it's worse around men I'm attracted to. I get a little bit of general nervousness, get REALLY worried about making conversation, but I also worry really hard about my body language and how I'm presenting myself.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 02:33 PM
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Single here obvs. Does anyone else have a problem with being TOO intimidated by men? It's hard to be at my best with a guy when I'm at 100% levels of nervousness. Only happens with men, I can talk to women just fine, so it's not a pure social anxiety issue.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 02:05 PM
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I haven't had the opportunity to try a Korean BB cream, sadly. But East Asian cosmetics in general are a good way to go if you're very light-skinned as far as I hear! They have some interesting skincare philosophies about pampering the skin and maintaining its top layer instead of scrubbing everything off to progressively reveal newer and newer skin too, so you might be interested in looking into that if you're looking for ways to spruce up your skin care routine too. Try /r/AsianBeauty, I think…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/14 07:44 PM
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Have you tried Korean BB cream brands? They tend to go much lighter than US brands.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 07:30 PM
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I feel like I'm still stuck in my teenage years behaviorally and interest-wise, so this year is the year of personality development for me--I want to get at least one 'adult' hobby, preferably one that can make me a little money. I also want to be more selfless, friendly, and approachable. This year I plan to sort of 'inherit' the housekeeping from my mom too, since I have more free time and am more able-bodied. I'm also in the process of losing weight, but that doesn't really fit into my 'year …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/14 04:28 PM
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I used to be a super-embarrassing tumblr feminist. I see it on one hand as part of growing up on the internet and being all young and impressionable-like. I was not very strong at thinking for myself at the time I discovered tumblr and its bizarre brand of social justice. On the other hand, it's pretty unfortunate because I feel like it socially stunted me in a lot of ways and really annoyed the people around me--I lost a lot of friends and missed out on potential friendships, especially startin…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 03:21 PM
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Yeah, sorry, I should have made it more clear the kind of party I was talking about! :P Nerdy guys are the best IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 06:05 PM
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I guess it depends on what kind of group's parties you go to, which I suppose I should have mentioned... the kind of parties I've attended there isn't really a hook-up scene or a lot of drinking, but I hang out with quieter, nerdier types; I imagine if you go to an actual frat party or something that's not conducive to the goals of most girls here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/13 05:46 PM
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There's no point in going to college to get anything other than a practical degree unless you have the money to pay for it without taking out loans. It seems more reasonable to just hang out where your local college guys hang out and tag along to college parties with friends who do attend school rather than dropping up to 100k on a degree you don't plan to use. That said, college is a great place to meet people. There's always all kinds of activities geared towards your interests going on. So wh…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/13 05:04 PM
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My mom was raised strictly Catholic and I was too until my parents divorced when I was a kid and my mom became a lapsed Catholic. My family was considered personae non gratae for a long time in our church because my grandmother and then my mother both got divorces. I guess you could say seeing the rejection brought on my family by their rejection of traditional gender roles* has motivated me to become a more feminine woman, instead of being like the women of my mom and grandma's generation. I th…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/13 05:43 PM
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Not sarcastic!
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 11:40 PM
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When you put it that way it comes off as much more sensible and not at all creepy. Thank you for helping me understand!
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 11:30 PM
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I always thought it was more of a health thing, as well as a few other things mentioned by the article like being cheaper, easier to impress, less picky, etc. The idea that there would be some element of molding and changing a girl that was appealing involved honestly never occurred to me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 11:23 PM
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Some of the stuff there makes sense, like having less emotional baggage and being easier to impress, but other stuff just creeps me out, like the idea that you can 'raise her right'! Not sure if it was just bad phrasing or a legitimately disturbing idea...
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 11:09 PM
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I think that the age limit is a little silly--the logic behind it as sound, but having it as a top-ten sign about whether or not you should make a girl your wife is just wild to me. Maybe that's my bitter 20-year-old self talking though? Other than that, it all sounds pretty common sense.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 10:26 PM
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I saw the title of this post and thought, 'sounds like my future!' I feel your fear on this, haha.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/13 05:55 PM
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I was raised by a single mom (I have a dad out there, we just aren't close) so I never learned how to interact with men appropriately and was actually scared of them up until college... still kind of am. Most of me being here is trying to learn how men think, so I know how to interact with them and don't have to be afraid. RP theories seem most accurate to me based on personal experience, so this is what I decided to go with. Not sure how good I am at putting it into practice, but I try. There s…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/13 07:11 PM
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Since you mentioned it and I'm a little unclear, in what ways did you make it clear that you really liked this guy without it seeming weird or desperate?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/13 11:19 PM
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If you wait for everything to fall perfectly into place, you'll likely not have a child until you're middle-aged (if ever), and I honestly don't think that's a good idea. I'm a child of my mother's old age (not old-old, she was in her 30s when she had me) and I was born with a ton of health problems vs. my brother, who's in stellar health and was born when she was 20. We're basically a living example of why it's better to have kids before you hit your 30s in terms of your child's health.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 01:54 PM
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Definitely not a bad article, but I would honestly disagree that it's an 'incurable' disease. I think plenty of people have sufficient mental willpower to uphold their personal beliefs even when that's not what society presents as correct.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/13 10:12 PM
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I don't think Dana or the article itself are commenting on the quality of public schools but the fact that they generally present their subjects through a leftist lens, which includes a feminist slant. Of course, if you disagree with presenting information in that way then that does probably affect your opinion of the quality of history, English and other classes where that becomes noticeable (I don't really see how someone can make algebra feminist).
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/13 10:11 PM
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In a really bizarre reversal of this, one time I convinced my mom to chop all her hair off because it was 'chic' and 'fashionable' (this was not during my feminist phase). I still feel kind of guilty about it, she didn't look very good. On the bright side, I now know better than to ever tell an older woman to cut her hair off.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/13 10:24 PM
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I am extremely puzzled by the racism I encounter on TRP and RPW because in my experience racial minorities in America (where a lot of red pill-ers seem to be from) tend to maintain considerably more traditional gender roles than white people do. You'd think they'd gain more by opening themselves to these communities instead of pushing them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/13 11:04 PM
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You really don't think I plan to?
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/13 09:30 PM
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Oh look, a nice, bright pink/red circle right over my part of Ohio. That sure explains a lot. Along with... living in Ohio, I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/13 12:16 PM
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High heels are easier to wear the more you wear them. If you're going to be doing housework in them, invest in a good insole or whatever those are called and try a pair with a bit of a thicker heel to help you balance. It's such a nice thing to do for him and such a small issue assuming you don't have some kind of physical disability, why complain?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/13 09:09 PM
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I can provide my own input for that first question. I'm on an anti-psychotic for bipolar disorder type 2, as well as a number of other medications for physical disabilities and mental impairment. This is a lifelong problem for me, I've been in and out of treatment for physical and mental problems since I was a toddler. I'm willing to wager I'm in the minority, though--most red pill-leaning people seem to be physically and mentally healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 08:22 PM
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I'm surprised to see all these other ladies here around my age! I was under the impression most women who actually post here (not that I post with any frequency, mostly a lurker) were a little older.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/13 11:15 AM
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This is a big problem I run into. It's no longer socially acceptable to approach people you don't know in public just to strike up conversation most of the time, so the people who do so are usually people who have no regard for social skills.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/13 02:30 AM
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I am in much the same situation as you, so I'm very interested to see the responses to this. I hope you get the help you need.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/13 10:19 PM
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