drphillovestoparty Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Ok no worries	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 03:33 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Only posts I've mentioned anything about domination have been this one	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 03:14 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening No. But on a thread where the OP asks how to be more dominant, in not sure why you'd start nagging me when I give advice concerning exactly what he is asking. If he asked how to make a piece of furniture to give a woman, and I answered, you would tell me how not all women like furniture. When in reality the majority of women wouldn't mind some quality hand made pieces if it came their way. If you get my drift. Anyways take it easy.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 02:35 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening And I think it's bullshit Too many men these days lack masculinity.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 02:27 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening I'm not defensive at all. A caveat could be said for anyone's advice. A borderline lesbian tomboy would probably not want me for a partner, and I don't feel a need to change anything as the vast majority of women respond the same. As I said, I've seen countless times first hand the way women respond to certain actions.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 02:23 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Advice on reddit is worth what you pay for it. Dominance is just one aspect of interacting with women for myself.. I also enjoy sharing a sense of humour, exciting hobbies, all kinds of things. If OP had asked how to flirt with women I could have given him advice on that. He didn't, he specifically asked how to he more dominant/masculine, and I provided my opinion. I can give all kinds of general dating advice, some of it would include through my own success to conclude the majority of women enj…	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 02:11 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening I don't think so. As I said I'm a pretty chill guy. But I've gotten to know women pretty well over the years. I don't care if it's creepy or not, without fail when I'm making out with a woman, a little hair tug goes a long way. You sound a little uptight.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 01:48 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening In my experience the majority of women enjoy a man who takes the lead- as well as some light dominance- pinning hands down, pulling hair, dirty talk. Also being picked up and manhandled. It was surprised me as I've gotten older just how many women enjoy this. I've dated hard core feminist women who told me how much they enjoyed myself taking the lead, and one in particular who also shared her most personal fantasy, which is consensual non consent. Meanwhile her male feminist friends were jealous…	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 01:31 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Im not sure what exactly your point is. OP asked how to be more dominant/intimidating. Maybe he wants more of an edge or whatever. He didn't ask if it was attractive to women. I'm giving him tips on how to be more dominant/less of a non-threatening mr nice guy as he is concerned that he is leaning too much to that side. I never said he would fail with women if he came across as a guy who wasn't particularly dominant/masculine or whatever else he is insecure about. Most women enjoy a man who take…	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 12:49 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening I never said all do. The majority who are comfortable with their sexuality enjoy being submissive and taking direction, in my experience. A minority may be into taking the lead but that is a turn off for myself. Op was also asking how to come across as more dominant to women. Dominating in the bedroom may be one way to get over his "nice guy" vibes he is worrying about giving off. As I said, I'm a pretty chill guy. However after much experience with women, I learned in general they want a guy wh…	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 11:43 PM
1	Are women even sexually attracted to men? Ok, so whining on reddit and continuing to not enjoy feminine conpany is your big plan? You are going on strike? Lol Women will often give signals, it's not that hard to initiate a conversation. Yes it can be awkward and feel like work, but if you're into her why let the opportunity go to waste?	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 02:28 PM
3	Are women even sexually attracted to men? Yes, they are. They may not be as quick to readily engage in casual sex with complete strangers as a man would be, as it is riskier for them, but they are definitely attracted to men and enjoy sex with men. Otherwise there wouldn't be one night stands, FWB, open relationships, and other casual sex that does go on quite a bit, and always has. Not to mention relationship stuff. But yeah, I've had enough FWB and ONS and been in LTR's enough to know that sometimes women just want to get laid, can ce…	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 11:30 PM
3	Are women even sexually attracted to men? Lol you aren't even that short.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 11:03 PM
8	Are women even sexually attracted to men? Lolnsomw strong incel talk coming through here. She gave you an honest answer.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 11:01 PM
1	Are women even sexually attracted to men? It's just societal norms dude. Guy goes after girl. Sucks if you aren't a people person, have to work past it and do what you can.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 10:56 PM
5	Are women even sexually attracted to men? If they are barely attracted, why do they seek out dates and sex with men? Especially casually at times?	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 10:54 PM
1	Are women even sexually attracted to men? Dude you are overthinking this stuff way too much	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 10:52 PM
2	Are women even sexually attracted to men? Maybe a larger number of males is unattractive to the average woman, than vise versa Thst doesn't mean women aren't attracted to men, it means they may be pickier about who they get naked with.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 10:21 PM
17	Are women even sexually attracted to men? Also have the whole pregnancy risk	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 10:18 PM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening To me it is either used to describe a guy physically, or used to describe personality/mannerisms- decisive, direct, doesn't put up with nagging etc. Also being competent in certain areas- Don't have to call someone to fix every little thing with the house, etc.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 05:53 PM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Anyways my point was that toxic traits have nothing to do with masculinity, they are just toxic traits. A masculine man can be toxic. A feminine man can be toxic. Someone's grandma could be toxic . Etc. But for some reason in our society we focus on examples of masculine men behaving badly and pretend there is some issue. While ignoring a lot of toxic shit modern women do, for example. Now we aren't teaching many young men these days masculine competency and behavior and would serve them well, b…	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 06:08 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Exactly. That is my point, masculinity is a good thing, and is tossed around too much in terms like "toxic masculinity". Meanwhile I hear more and more women complain about a lack of masculinity with modern men.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 05:58 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Ok, and I haven't changed my stance on anything.lol. not sure what your point was to begin with. All good.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 05:36 AM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Not wanting to be wrong is having a huge ego, and has nothing to do with masculinity. Masculinity is being physically and mentally strong and capable, male, able to think without emotions clouding judgement, etc.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 05:26 AM
0	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Re read what I said. Toxic people exist.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 04:35 AM
3	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Lol I'm sure many will be offended. Couldn't care less, speaking from experience so whatever.	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/22 10:48 PM
-5	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Yep, vast majority of male feminists are just trying to get into her pants, from my personal observations.	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/22 04:51 PM
3	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening How is masculinity and stereotypical masculine man toxic? Strong, looks after family. Capable in all kinds of scenarios. I think masculinity needs to be celebrated more, women are certainly craving more of it.	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/22 04:35 PM
1	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Username checks out lol.	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/22 04:33 PM
5	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening If you are into feminism, chances are you aren't giving vibes that you have no problem telling a woman she needs to wear that sexy little dress you like when you arrive, and for you to control the interaction from there. She probably can't visualize you dominating her and telling her what to do sexually. Sometimes they want to be dominated and used as sex objects (for the right guy) as it makes them feel attractive, sexy, and submissive. Do you ever give it to them a bit rough? Properly satisfyi…	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/22 04:31 PM
1	My Red pill friend got a bitter taste of reality. No, broken home definition is a broken marriage. Being glad you were divorced doesn't mean it was the best overall outcome for your life, let alone society. Men are especially financially wrecked by divorce. Divorced men have much higher suicide rates than the rest of the population. Children are at an obvious disadvantage being raised in a single parent household. More likely to not graduate high school, end up in prison, substance abuse issues etc. The stats show this again and again. Juat bec…	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/22 12:21 AM
2	My Red pill friend got a bitter taste of reality. If you think divorce is all fine and good, you need to reevaluate your thinking. The reason for divorce is just taking the discussion further. However the important take away is that broken homes are far too prevalent in our society.	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/22 11:21 PM
2	My Red pill friend got a bitter taste of reality. Well yeah that is basically the same thing I'm saying, chicken or the egg, people get married then many divorce, this lack of proper family structure is not great for kids growing up, and society in general. Divorce is a problem when the kid grows up without a dad fully in the picture, and a man has to pay alimony in addition to child support in some cases, having to start all over financially	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/22 12:52 AM
2	My Red pill friend got a bitter taste of reality. Yeah I get that. I was just saying i think it started out with advice to understand what you are getting into when entering a relationship with a single parent. I think being hateful towards a single mom is different than choosing not to get involved with one.	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/22 08:19 PM
-4	My Red pill friend got a bitter taste of reality. Yes the divorce machine isn't great for society. I don't view all these single parents as a great thing for society in general.	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/22 08:04 PM
2	My Red pill friend got a bitter taste of reality. The fact she initially went home with him then called an uber is telling. Women won't usually go to a guys place unless they are open to sex. Sounds like he turned her off/put up red flags for her	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/22 07:53 PM
0	My Red pill friend got a bitter taste of reality. I think it started with some basic advice of understanding that a single mom can come with baggage, especially with more than one kid. For a guy to enter into that, the kid will never view him as the real dad in the majority of cases, and the step-dad won't have the same kind of authority with the kid as the biological dad would. However it will still cost the step dad financially for the kid, and at the end of the day the kid obviously comes before the new husband if push comes to shove. It jus…	/r/ExRedPill	23/01/22 07:51 PM
2	How can a virgin explore his sexuality without porn? Find a woman?	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/22 05:33 PM
1	What do you guys think of Richard Cooper? Was there any point in time where you agreed with him on many topics? I've noticed he isn't on rule zero anymore.	/r/ExRedPill	15/01/22 06:33 PM
2	What do you guys think of Richard Cooper? Was there any point in time where you agreed with him on many topics? Initially I liked some of his advice. He does have some decent, very basic advice he is constantly going on about "do the work" "best version of yourself" But I got tired of the same very basic advice. Also seems he thinks any guy who isn't an "entrepreneur" making well into six figs a loser. He goes on and on about single moms and not to date them, which is fine but it seems to the point he drills home from his own experience of dating many single moms and now he is bitter. He doesn't strike me…	/r/ExRedPill	15/01/22 06:20 PM
1	My experience with Corey Wayne You probably need to learn to relax and not let anxieties take over. You may lack confidence with women which will come across in subtle ways to her.	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/22 05:55 PM
4	My experience with Corey Wayne Sounds like you are taking it a bit too literally and not able to relax because you are trying to remember details in a book to guide a human interaction (which are complex) Remember girls like a sense of humour. Are you able to relax and have one around these girls? Sounds like you are uptight as hell because you are too concerned about being a "beta" which ultimately is an issue of putting her on a pedestal. And following some strict guidelines in a book written by some random.dude. not saying…	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/22 04:01 AM
3	I Challenge Red Piller's on Twitter to Box. Why Are They All Spineless Bitch Ass Punks? I don't see what challenging some stranger to a boxing match has to do with anything. Seems like you are just trying to prove yourself after getting bullied as a kid. Kind of juvenile to be honest. Want to fight bro? Lol. Not everyone cares about toughness or wants to get into a physical fight over ego. Grade 9 mentality, not really "alpha" to go around challenging strangers to a fight. Actually comes across as low value behavior. just being honest.	/r/ExRedPill	12/01/22 06:11 PM
3	I wanna have a stance on this from you guys. Something that redpill never talks about. I’ll link the video down there and my question next to it. Either you would be ok with that or not. Not my cup of tea personally, but other guys would be fine with this or even enjoy watching her get nailed. To each their own I guess lol.	/r/ExRedPill	11/01/22 06:12 PM
3	I wanna have a stance on this from you guys. Something that redpill never talks about. I’ll link the video down there and my question next to it. The spinning plates thing is what you do as a single guy. The idea is when you have a ltr the plate spinning stops. Unless your woman is bi and you invite girls to join you two. Not a good idea to have an open relationship with a ltr where she sees different guys. Maybe some of these guys claim to have that deal with their woman when they sleep with others and she doesn't. I've never seen anyone do this in real life, aside from what I mentioned above with the woman being bi and enjoying other wo…	/r/ExRedPill	11/01/22 03:59 PM
1	I wanna have a stance on this from you guys. Something that redpill never talks about. I’ll link the video down there and my question next to it. The spinning plates thing is what you do as a single guy. The idea is when you have a ltr the plate spinning stops. Unless your woman is bi and you invite girls to join you two. Not a good idea to have an open relationship with a ltr where she sees different guys.	/r/ExRedPill	11/01/22 03:59 PM
1	I wanna have a stance on this from you guys. Something that redpill never talks about. I’ll link the video down there and my question next to it. The spinning plates thing is what you do as a single guy. The idea is when you have a ltr the plate spinning stops. Unless your woman is bi and you invite girls to join you two. Not a good idea to have an open relationship with a ltr where she sees different guys.	/r/ExRedPill	11/01/22 03:59 PM
1	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt I'm getting bored with this. I've entertained you this far but you seem all triggered and ignorant of basic facts in our society. I'm done responding.	/r/ExRedPill	07/01/22 02:52 AM
1	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt As I said, I was speaking to the OP, and not you. I didn't share my experience to hear your detailed opinion on it, don't care, and don't wish to debate. You can use whatever term you'd like. Fact is the good looking guy will get laid from tinder far easier than the less good looking guy. Society and biology reward good looks, in both men and women. Look on any dating sub here, you'll have guy after guy complaining about the fact they can't get any matches using OLD. Meanwhile a good looking or …	/r/ExRedPill	07/01/22 02:28 AM
1	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt And? Women will often choose to have sex with good looking men. Maybe "rewarding" isn't really the right term, because the women are doing it for their own pleasure. But from a man's point of view, often it will be a man with certain looks that is rewarded with attention and sex from the opposite sex. Just the way it is.	/r/ExRedPill	07/01/22 12:24 AM
1	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt I never said that at all. When did I say once that women were shallow? Or that they would sleep with any good looking man? That is a completely different statement than what I said. Which is that a good looking man will have more options for casual sex in his lifetime than a less good looking man. Especially in this tinder age. This doesn't mean a handsome man can pick any woman, or all women will find this man attractive or want to sleep with him. It just means on average, in general, he will h…	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 11:52 PM
1	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt You can type and argue all you want, my point still stands and I understand how I come to the conclusions I do. To be honest I'm not really interested in reading all that and continuing this conversation. My advice was to the OP, not you. I didn't type it to have some long drawn out debate with you. You seem triggered at the idea that good looking men have an easier time finding women who find them sexually attractive and act on it. I don't know why this triggers you to write long winded paragra…	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 11:25 PM
1	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt I've had a lot of sexual success, and I know much of it has been due to being born tall/not bad looking, as well as keeping in shape. Of course women don't walk up to some good looking guy and say fuck me baby most of the time. I never claimed it was an everyday occurrence. I've also never said it takes no work on the guys part, or that it is the only thing that matters. I also said that incel types tend to exaggerate it. But I've had many times where I've had sex with a woman after knowing her …	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 10:21 PM
1	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt My point is that good looking guys will often have more opportunity for casual sex than less good looking guys. Just in terms of casual sex- tinder and bar hook ups etc. Ive seen it with my own eyes, not much to discuss. I have no idea if good looking people are better or worse in bed, in my experience it depends on the sexual chemistry between two people. Anywayd that discussion has little to do with my statement. I stated that the OP needed to accept this and not dwell on it, and move on with …	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 09:37 PM
1	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt Pretty boy Is just one type of attractive. In general though- a tall, fit/strong, attractive/masculine looking guy will attract more women for lust than a guy who is the opposite of that. As for being able to please the woman, it depends on the guy. I am nearly 40 and am likely much better at pleasuring women than when I was in my early 20s, because of experience. Some guys care about putting in effort to please her, others don't. More experience can be beneficial, if it is used beneficially.	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 09:01 PM
1	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt In my experience in general: a good looking, fit tall guy will have much more opportunity for casual sex than a short, not handsome, overweight dude. Again this is in general. If the hot guy is a social idiot that will hinder him. Some less attractive guys can play in a band or he charismatic so increase their chances. But in general, women will choose "hot" guys for casual sex when they can. Especially in this day and age of tinder. Put a profile of a 6'2 fit handsome guy and a 5'6 overweight b…	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 08:38 PM
1	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt Yeah, my point was simply that some men will have more opportunity than others to enjoy casual sex with women. As I also said, he needs to move on from this fact of life and not get absorbed by black pill thinking.	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 08:34 PM
1	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt It was nothing to do with rewarding him lol. It is just that he is who women will want to fuck most often if he has sex appeal. Of course normal to below average guys get laid as well, but a good looking guy with sex appeal has much more opportunity. I experienced this myself growing up. My friends would be jealous at times with opportunities I had with girls. The difference was that I was a good looking guy so had these opportunities. Incel types may have a kind of thinking that a good looking …	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 07:50 PM
1	had to post this here lol I don't think you get it. He is a metrosexual type of dude. Not really my thing but I've watched a few of his videos and he is pretty lighthearted and has some good messages for dudes in regards to setting goals, fitness etc. Some guys are into grooming and style or at least need a clue sometimes. So are all the women's channels out there regarding style, fitness, and grooming, cultish as well? So a man isn't allowed to have a platform if he is into grooming, skincare and style? Nothing cultish …	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/22 08:18 PM
0	Average looking male slipping back into redpill You need a break from the internet dude lol. Do you really want to catch feelings for a chick whose 5'2 and 400 pounds? Stop getting involved in this stuff and get some hobbies and healthy friends.	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/22 10:24 PM
6	Yupb just buy new clothes, they’ll definitely change your facial structure and height but wadevo. guy looks fine, get over yourself. Maybe your lack of success with women as more to do with you spending your time analyzing how men look and how you perceive racial stereotypes, than getting out and making yourself a bit more interesting to talk to.	/r/ExRedPill	27/12/21 05:55 AM
3	Older women and dating Ok thanks for your reply. Was just curious. I'm a guy the same age and dating. Not doing too bad though/have my stuff together. Interesting to hear women's experiences dating though. Not all women this age have been taking care of all these aspects though I can tell you that lol. But I'm sure lots of guys out there that could improve.	/r/ExRedPill	26/12/21 05:21 PM
1	Older women and dating can you elaborate on "the same amount of work". Do you mean keeping in shape etc?	/r/ExRedPill	26/12/21 05:02 PM
22	Older women and dating i think generally people will date within their age group, maybe on average the woman will be a few years younger than the guy I have noticed. But you don't get some 47 year old picking up 21 year olds just based on his "SMV" unless it is a cope way of saying he pays her bills in return for sexual favors. Personally I am about to turn 40 and generally look for woman my own age, maybe a few years younger. As for attractiveness of men/women I think if someone takes care of themselves, works out,…	/r/ExRedPill	26/12/21 04:57 PM
1	Bitterness about my situation Look into fun hobbies, where there will be women around. You will enjoy yourself and get out of your own head long enough to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You will have a chance to chat with the women, and have something in common to talk about.	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/21 04:54 AM
2	My brother is falling deeper and deeper into Red Pill-type ideology, and I am getting exasperated trying to pull him out of it. First I would suggest with the latest episode of rule zero: "toxic red pill ideals" on utube. They go over a lot of the toxic ideas out there currently that young inexperienced guys may latch onto and consider absolute truths, and also highlight the importance of finding a good woman and maintaining a healthy relationship. It was one of their best episodes imo and most of the stuff they put out in the last year or so has moved away from the more topic ideas. Its a bunch of dudes in their 30s and…	/r/ExRedPill	12/12/21 09:47 PM
2	Why do people believe and give Coach Red Pill so much validity? that's all it is. These guys can give off a confident/charismatic vibe, speaking of wise experience and all this. Young guys won't see through it and will eat it up. If he came across as a bumbling mumbling boring middle aged guy saying the exact same thing, he would have about 4 followers.	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/21 10:07 PM
8	My brother is falling deeper and deeper into Red Pill-type ideology, and I am getting exasperated trying to pull him out of it. Red pill ideology for the most part tells you to get your shit on order- go to the gym, get marketable skills and make good money, dress well, etc. Become "high value" which does work assuming your personality is fine. Sounds like your bro is getting into "game" stuff to try and overcompensate for being a bit socially awkward or whatever. Best thing would be for him to loose weight and focus on himself and keep an eye out for a compatible gf. If he makes the attempt to get sex the focus of his l…	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/21 06:12 PM
2	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt Yep, fact of life.	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/21 03:17 PM
3	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt I never said any of that. You completely missed what I said. His initial gripe is that casual sex with women is in fact a reward for some men, due to their looks/personality. This is true, and he needs to work past that. A relationship with the right woman may help with his outlook on life, among other things such as browsing black pill content.	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/21 02:03 PM
3	Massive blackpill dropped by my own aunt He is upset because he doesn't fit the mold of the guy who women his age go around having casual sex with, you know the hot guy or whatever. It sucks but is a fact of life, most men are selected by women when they want stability and long term loyalty. A minority are the type women are sexually attracted enough to engage in casual sex with. While this sucks, complaining about it won't make him tall dark and handsome, or even make him feel better. These guys go down dark rabbit holes online.. I ag…	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/21 06:02 AM
2	My boyfriend is a Red Piller and it’s ruining our relationship. Be strait up with him. Tell him it's pushing you away.	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/21 12:20 AM
1	Is it ok if I don't want to pay for a woman on a first date? Dude you don't ask that before the date lol. Honestly it makes you seem cheap and low value. I have no issue paying if I ask her out, and we get along and there is a spark. However often I find women will offer to pay. If I think we will see each other again, I will pay. If not, I agree and she pays her way. If she doesn't offer i chalk it up and pay. Saying that- first date i never go for a full meal, always a drink. That way if we don't get along ive bought a drink, not paid for dinner for two…	/r/ExRedPill	04/12/21 06:08 PM
1	Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men? That was my point. Socioeconomic class can play a larger role than attraction, when a woman is looking to settle down. A well educated woman who is a director or something, will choose the less attractive guy who is in her socioeconomic league, rather than a guy who may be better looking but has an average job. She will want someone to fit in at the dinner parties and with family and social circle expectations. However if she is looking for a fling she will choose the looks. Depends on her Socio…	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/21 09:42 PM
1	Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men? Just speaking from my own experience. As a trades guy, I've had situations where I've been rejected because of my occupation/lack of status compared to a higher status job such as lawyer/Dr/finance guy etc. This isn't all women but there is certainly a prevalence among women to admire their friend who married the well off Dr or realtor or whatever. Especially a woman in a profession like this, would rarely give an "average Joe" type a chance, whereas many men in this bracket are likely fine dati…	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/21 08:14 PM
1	Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men? I agree with that. I was just disagreeing with the notion that success drives more than anything else. But true success won't make up for a shit personality or whatever else. But all in all a lot of women would love to date the Dr or high powered lawyer over the carpenter. Doesn't mean the average guy won't find love, but that is how the success plays into it, and doesn't have much to do with female lust, as I talked about	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/21 02:11 PM
5	Redpill side effects include... I'm not a huge fan of it overall, but nothing wrong with spinning plates/casually dating multiple women amd having casual sex. I wouldn't advise it for life bit ive really enjoyed my exciting times as a bachelor. Not only in the moment, but fun memories that will leave me with a smile on my face later in life.	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/21 01:49 AM
1	Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men? It depends what the woman is looking for imo. If she is looking for more of a raw sexual encounter, she will pick a good looking, fit/somewhat muscular dude (I think bodybuilder look is overkill). Women do in fact at times have very lustful interest in men, and it is often looks/build/personality that brings this on. Kind of thing where you are banging her after just meeting her, and having a quick drink On the other side, when she is looking to settle down and looking for a long term mate, she …	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/21 10:17 PM
2	Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men? Also depends what the woman is looking for. If she is looking for a more casual relationship of raw sex, then she will value a good looking muscular (not bodybuilder IMO) look. If she is looking more long term, she will lean towards personality, stability- less chance to cheat, good stable job to provide, all the "beta male" stuff. Of course there is overlap but women will pick different men for what they are searching for at that point in life.	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/21 08:41 PM
1	A woman stopped dating me because I was a virgin. How do I keep from getting redpilled after this happened? Next time don't mention it at all. If it's all awkward in bed then mention it afterwords.	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/21 08:28 PM
3	The experience that made me blackpilled. You should have made your intentions clear from the start. Sounds like you put yourself in the friend zone, were too slow to escalate things to get out of it (inviting her places as a friend isn't escalating. She just thought you were her buddy) then when she eventually met a guy who made his intentions clear with her and wasn't afraid to be sexual around her, you blame him and her and your looks and the rest of it. You have to make your intentions clear with women from the start. Otherwise you …	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/21 03:02 AM
1	Where to get laid when you live with your parents? Get a creepy van	/r/seduction	15/11/21 12:52 AM
1	sad about never having a girlfriend How old are you?	/r/ExRedPill	20/10/21 02:39 AM
1	How to stop treating every girl as an option? It is good to be experienced with multiple women, but if you want a GF, you have to focus on that. I'm lucky as well in that I get quite a few matches using online dating. I've had a bunch of dates lately. Had a great first date the other night with a girl who seems very possibly gf material, have a date with a different girl tomorrow night, so for now I'm not going on dating sites. Having options doesn't mean it is great to have 30 chciks you are talking too at once. It means you can obtain wha…	/r/ExRedPill	20/10/21 01:33 AM
0	Picky =\= higher standards He is not wrong. It's social media and dating sites.	/r/ExRedPill	20/10/21 01:26 AM
2	Sigma male gotta be the dumbest shit ever? Its cringey as fuck	/r/ExRedPill	20/10/21 01:23 AM
1	Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work? Awesome answer thanks	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 11:04 PM
2	Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work? Cool, thanks	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 09:00 PM
1	Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work? when you say attracted. Does that mean if no risk of physical harm, pregnancy, social conformity, etc. Would you have sex with him quickly based on that alone? like that guy is hot i want him inside me...? women's sex drives and comfort with this seem to be all over..	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 07:44 PM
2	Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work? so if you're on a date with a guy do you wonder how big/nice his cock is? assuming the personality thing is going well..	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 07:32 PM
1	Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work? father material would be if she is looking long term though. Will be a different guy than she chooses for a shorter term strictly sexual relationship.	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 07:20 PM
1	Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work? that is one thing that has always left me wondering though. I've had plenty of casual sex over the years, sometimes very quickly. So these women were horny and wanted sex, and I was their type or whatever, or we had a drink and flirting built up enough for sex. it didn't take multiple dates, sometimes one drink was enough, time wise. So obviously women get as horny and sexual as men, but don't engage quite as easily overall, maybe because of safety or pregnancy risk? or do they make a guy wait…	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 07:19 PM
2	Do you think there should be a mental health recovery program who graduate high school still virgins? time to stop thinking yourself as a "boy" you are a man, or soon will be if you're in high school. It is up to a man to go out and find his place in the world, get dates etc. If you need society to give you access to sex, you are a failed man, and your anger would just translate towards men that women choose to have sex with, over the pity sex given like you are suggesting. How many women have you asked out recently? do you work out? dress well? have interesting hobbies? big plans for post sec…	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 07:07 PM
4	Muscles/bodybuilder looks actually hurt men when it comes to dating (in most cases) you won't get ripped and bulky if you lift weights, it takes time and a lot of commitment. But you will get some muscle, tone up, and fit your clothes better. Lifting weights is healthy and will help your sexual attractiveness with women. Being a big bodybuilder type who lives in the gym likely won't go all that far with most women. Lifting weights does not mean you will look like a roided out body builder two weeks from now.	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 06:51 PM
2	Muscles/bodybuilder looks actually hurt men when it comes to dating (in most cases) I'd say in my experience being fit/toned/strong looking is good. Big bodybuilder look (which i've never had) doesn't go too far with a lot of women. However a few hours a week of lifting weights will make you toned/fit looking, not big and bulky which entails endless hours and strict diet and possibly supplements.	/r/ExRedPill	19/10/21 06:48 PM
2	What’s the point of not becoming an incel or taking the black pill if the majority of women around you are either feminists, bisexual, or hate autistic men? you are over thinking your interactions with women way too much. I find on the internet, you can hang around places where everyone is focused on feminism and internalized misogyny and the rest of it. But in real life, girls and women don't go around on dates talking about feminism and label everything as harshly as you put it. other women really won't care if you date a self proclaimed feminist or not, or will think about if you are putting a girl on a pedestal or not. Men who put women on pedes…	/r/ExRedPill	14/10/21 03:08 AM
1	Do women really have that many options ? It's not particularly hard to get, sometimes you have to do work to be in a situation to get it.	/r/ExRedPill	13/10/21 06:57 AM
1	Do women really have that many options ? I know what you are saying, seems a lot of guys look for hook ups and most women are looking for ltr online. But women still enjoy sex, do you ever meet a guy and just want his penis inside u? Or is your sex drive not as strong.	/r/ExRedPill	13/10/21 05:40 AM
1	Do women really have that many options ? Most men have a sex life, maybe not all the time it can be hit or miss, but to say most men don't have sex just isn't true. If you aren't, work on your social skills, dress and grooming/hygiene, and go to the gym. Ask women out, be friendly, don't be afraid to mess up, expect to be rejected a lot, it's just part of it. Getting sex as a guy is like many things in life, it takes work if it's something you need to build up to.	/r/ExRedPill	13/10/21 05:37 AM
1	Do women really have that many options ? Do you go to the gym? Dress well? Casual sex can be fun, but it also gets old after a number of years. It also doesn't fall into the lap of most guys, you have to put in the work to be fit, stylish, and direct about what you want. You aren't wrong for wanting to be sexual with women, that is basic biology. But it takes work to get to a point where you have fwb on a regular basis. But it can be fun and builds good experience and kowledge for a man.	/r/ExRedPill	13/10/21 05:32 AM
1	had to post this here lol You have to actually watch some of alpha Ms videos. He is a good dude, doesn't take himself seriously, videos are light hearted and have some good info for guys. He is big into grooming and looks, think more metrosexual than anything redpill. He is not redpill at all. Probably why he was millions of subscribers, while Rollo Tomassi has under 100k.	/r/ExRedPill	13/10/21 05:20 AM