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Inner Game drueberries/r/seduction24/01/22 03:51 AM
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Wait are you saying we should be speaking louder or more quiet?
/r/seduction13/01/26 12:39 AM
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I've recently realised this is a big reason I'm not doing too well with women lately
/r/seduction13/01/26 12:03 AM
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I am halfway through the book: Letting Go by David Hawkins. It's exactly what I've been looking for and is the perfect guide for improving your inner world on a deep level. Recommend!
/r/seduction16/12/25 03:07 AM
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As a DJ, this made me cringe. But also explains why I do it, haha.
/r/seduction30/11/25 12:15 AM
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It sounds like you want him to make a move. Many girls will say nothing is going to happen and then it does. Once the girl can see that you respect their boundaries then she will feel safe, then sex will likely happen. Very counter intuitive, but this is why they call it "game".
/r/seduction28/04/25 12:02 AM
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It's better to have loved and lost. I think most people agree with that sentiment.
/r/seduction03/02/25 12:57 AM
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Sing!
/r/seduction30/08/24 02:36 AM
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I have a muscle condition which affects my facial expressions. As my condition has worsened over the years I have become acutely aware that I make new people feel uncomfortable even when I am in a calm, relaxed and open mindset. There is still work to be done to increase my energy level and ability to communicate, but I've come to terms that dating is just going to be a lot harder for me.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:31 AM
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I seem to give off relationship vibes when I really just want casual hookup. The problem is that if I am overtly sexual and we don't hook up, then I have ruined the opportunity for friendship.
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:59 AM
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This is the main thing holding me back with women. Asymmetric smile due to muscle condition. Kind of looks like I'm having a stroke when I smile. The alternative is to not smile which then gives of serial killer vibes. I guess I have to compensate in every possible other way.
/r/seduction21/10/22 12:46 AM
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I was seeing 3 girls at once for a couple months. Only one of them knew. Then I went like 2 years barely hooking up with anyone. When it rains it pours...
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:34 AM
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Reschedule 1 hour before is a flake. Maybe 2 hours depending on how far you have to travel. I've rescheduled a date an hour beforehand and never got a second chance, which I think is fair enough.
/r/seduction17/08/22 01:32 AM
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I ain't never get flaked again
/r/seduction17/08/22 01:28 AM
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I believe am slightly autistic. The girl I dated recently said I am a "sweetie". Then a week later started saying she doesn't want anything serious. I feel I come off as not being masculine, especially my tone of voice. I'm working on this though.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:22 AM
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Depends what music they play I guess
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:22 PM
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Exactly what I just went through. But to be honest the timing was pretty bad for both of us. I just moved away from the city she moved into a few months earlier.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:21 AM
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"Oh... you're still here?"
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:26 AM
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I like to discuss Elon Musk's latest progress on the Starship program.
/r/seduction10/06/22 02:10 AM
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Motivation will be too low to push through a night out. In my experience.
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:59 AM
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With all due respect. Woman don't understand what is attractive to them. They could meet a man who ticks all the boxes and still not be attracted. Men who have seduced large number of women have a better idea of what is attractive.
/r/seduction01/02/22 02:21 AM
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After hearing your voice, it all makes sense now. Is your tone of voice something you have actively worked on?
/r/seduction10/01/22 07:06 AM
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Exactly. We always forget those times like they were nothing. But it was probably painful moment for the woman.
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:37 AM
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As someone with an asymmetrical face due to muscle condition. This is close to home. For me there is usually attraction until I pull a big smile, and they see I am not symmetrical. The sexual tension fades after that point, pretty much every time. The "Chemistry" is simply the feeling a girl gets when they are on a date with a guy who is attractive.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:40 PM
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+1 for Sam Harris Meditation app. It's very good
/r/seduction03/01/19 10:04 AM
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A short intense exercise session before going out would help. Other then that, if I want to stay out past 2am I need stimulants.
/r/seduction01/12/18 10:57 AM
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Adderall. It's ok it you only have it occasionally. ​ ​
/r/seduction01/12/18 10:18 AM
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You must be very busy
/r/seduction13/09/18 08:45 AM
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It's all in your head. I have a form of muscular dystrophy. Can barely walk and my legs are like twigs. Over the years I have simply built my confidence by having more social and sexual experiences. I still have body issues when getting touchy in bed but for the most part I don't give a fuck anymore. When women can see that you have a debilitating condition but coping well, they will be attracted to you. Just be honest about it. Ive been with quite attractive women over the last couple years but…
/r/seduction07/09/18 08:05 AM
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