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DISCUSSIONdrunk_fish1/r/RedPillWomen22/11/18 10:17 AM
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drunk_fish1/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 01:09 PM
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Marry a grown up who doesn't listen to gossip and isn't interested in your past sexual relationships. That's what I did anyway x
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 04:14 PM
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I don't agree with marrying a man that is more into you than you are into him. Marriage takes work and it's harder to do with a guy you're not so into. I dated a guy for two years like that and in the end I couldn't bear for him to touch me. The guy I married I have been with for 20 years and I still adore him and work hard to keep him and LOVE his touch even still x
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 08:10 PM
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Ok, lots to unpack here but I think firstly you need to take responsibility for yourself and decide what you want from a relationship. Are you attracted to men like your father? If you like to be the protector and leader, believe me, there are men out there for you but they are not what red pillers would call alphas. Some guys out there would do anything to have a large, strong, powerful, dominant woman like you but they will be the submissive one. Two dominants in a relationship just doesn't wo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/19 06:55 PM
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I was the same as you, obsessed with these traditionalist religions until I realised it was really more about being allowed to be feminine and being a stay at home mother with a husband who leads being seen as a positive thing rather than a negative thing as it is in our world. I like that part of it but wouldn't want the pressure that comes with it. I also don't believe in the book of Mormon so that might be a bit of a barrier personally...
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 08:40 PM
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If he seems happy, maybe have a think about anything you might want to try rather than trying to think what he might like. If you have an unmet fantasy that you can be open about, then maybe he will have some that he hasn't opened up about thus far. But don't rush or force anything. You have a long time ahead of you, enjoy what you have now and if something crops up that you'd like to try in the future, mention it to him x
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/19 10:14 PM
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What is it about you that makes you think you're unattractive? If he saw your profile pics and they were accurate to what you currently look like, I doubt it was that but to be honest, girls in their early 20's are pretty much all attractive. I think he probably thought you were lying when you said you were a virgin, if he told you he was looking for a hookup, then that's what he wanted. When he met you he probably got the sense that you weren't in fact lying and he's not enough of a scoundrel t…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 06:08 PM
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We have a Dominant/submissive dynamic to our relationship, him having another sub makes him seem more Dominant which I like. He also makes me feel very, very secure as his sub plus we have a very solid relationship outside of this dynamic. I feel very secure that he would not be looking to replace me which I think is a lot of peoples fear when they open up their relationship x
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 10:26 AM
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I'm open to my husband taking on another woman but he doesn't want to share me so I wouldn't do it myself. This is after being together 20 years, married, kids, mortgage so we are very solid and committed and we have a dynamic in our relationship that lends itself to that lifestyle. I would never accept this in any other relationship x
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 10:17 AM
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I agree you need to take care of you. OCD is a difficult mental illness, constantly trying to make him happy puts pressure on him and as you've seen, causes you to lose yourself. He fell in love with the carefree, confident woman he married, you need to get her back for your sake and hopefully it'll help your marriage too but at the very least it will help you x
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 09:36 PM
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I'm thinking your line backer was put off by your masculinity rather than the joke and the gun. There has to be polarity for attraction to happen. For instance, I have a fairly masculine outlook but a feminine way of life, as in, I'm black and white in my views but I like to dress pretty and decorate my home and I'm physically small. My husband has a fairly feminine, gentle outlook toward me (others find him overly honest lol) but takes the masculine role and works hard of being physically large…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 11:54 AM
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My guy prefers me hairless and tbh it makes me feel sexier and more confident. But some guys prefer different x
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 09:48 AM
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UK size 8 or American size 8?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 08:39 AM
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No I used the regular one, it says not to use it there on mine too but tbh Ive been using it there for a long time and not had any issues x
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 08:32 AM
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I'm scared to wax all the way through if you get what I mean. Bikini line fine, but further under and back, I use veet since I can't afford a salon either.Might be worth a try? Just be careful round the back with the veet, some people say it stings a bit for them but I don't suffer with that x
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 09:13 AM
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I don't watch porn and I like my man very neatly trimmed in the front and bald in the back lol, I like the ice cream analogy! My man isn't big into porn but he likes it completely bare front to back and honestly, I think it looks better. I've been doing it for years and had no sanitary issues x
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 09:11 AM
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Honestly de-cluttering will make a big difference especially if he's dealing with ocd. Having your space clear helps you to feel more in control and calmer and will hopefully give him the headspace to deal with intrusive thoughts. If he's not interested in sex than you need to work on yourself, eat healthily, take care of your body, meditate. It might be worth seeing if your dr will clear you for yoga as it can be gentle on the heart but still challenging and make you feel good. Buy yourself sex…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 10:03 AM
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Firstly, de-clutter. As a home schooler myself, I know you likely have a ton of stuff in your home that you feel guilty about not getting round to using and you keep it because you think you'll use it eventually. You won't. Kids can learn just about anything from the internet these days so get rid of EVERYTHING that doesn't spark joy (I recommend reading Mari Kondo's The Life Changing Magic Of Tidying Up). That will take you a good 4 to 6 month to get through the main bulk of that but it is lite…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 12:09 AM
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your SO told you what she said? Mine would have brushed off a comment like that and forgotten about it (i get those comments a lot, I don't know if I'm ugly or something or what lol). Curious as to why he told you...
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 11:15 AM
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Having read your edits and not the comments, I think he's right, I think he might be a sociopath or at least have a personality disorder and this is what vetting is for. Normal people don't break up with a person because they didn't tell them about their sexual abuse in the 'right' way. I told my husband in a similar way, it's hard to talk about it all at once, my husband supported me, because he's a normal person. Get away from this one if you can, before he destroys you x
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/19 11:00 AM
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My husband prefers me naked too or in ropes lol, I buy sexy underwear for me, to make me feel sexy and confident during the day. No point doing it for hubby as he just takes it all right off lol
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/19 11:39 PM
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Not repellent, just not relevant to attracting a mate. If you have a passion for something, that's great, pursue it, men like passionate woman. But if you are pursuing a career to improve your status and impress people, you're wasting your time. I have a career in something I absolutely love but I do it part time now as my first priority is my kids. That's pretty much how it's going to pan out in the end if you want a family, university will get you a part time job and a whole lot of debt.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 07:03 PM
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I like to keep Queen Gorgo from 300 in my head. She has this really powerful inner strength but she would never stand in the way of her husband. She knows he's a good man and she trusts his judgement, she will express her opinion without apology if he asks for it and she will fiercely stand by him AND she is super feminine. You can have a strong personality without being disagreeable. You can be fierce alongside being open and feminine. I'd save submissiveness for marriage but definitely take on…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 06:44 PM
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I used Mari Kondo's 'The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up' to de-clutter and re-organise x
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 11:53 PM
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I wasn't really making reference to his desirability, just that if he's talking about alphas and betas, he's probably come across trp and is actually more beta by nature and what he's shown you was a deliberate act rather than what he's really like. If you like him, then apologize and try again. Nobody's telling you what to find attractive
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:53 PM
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hi, I'm 41 and married. In colder weather I wear skirts, jumper dresses or skinny jeans with heeled boots and floaty maxi dresses with sandals in the summer for every day wear. I wear a fair amount of make-up but keep the colours neutral and natural mostly but my husband likes me in red lipstick. I trim and paint my own nails and for hair, it's a good idea to practice some updoes. My husband likes braids on me and fifties style updoes. Grooming your body hair and wearing sexy underwear does wond…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 10:44 AM
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Lol he's totally trying to play you. True alpha's don't need to play games. This guy is a beta with baggage, avoid!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 10:24 AM
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I suspect that if this guy talked about betas then he's a beta trying to be alpha. I personally like a nice mix of both traits in a genuine guy. Your guy doesn't sound genuine and I very much doubt he was really upset about you parting ways x
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 10:19 AM
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I would hold off. I feel like part of being a rp woman is being able to budget and live within his means ensuring he doesn't feel inadequate x
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 01:41 PM
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Yes, my husband knows I compete with a certain other woman. I think he loves having women silently fighting over him lol plus the competition keeps me in good shape haha
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 12:52 PM
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Men and women both like a good conquest. My husband loves that I'm confident and fierce around other men but for him I would (literally) kneel at his feet on his command. Likewise, he does treat me like a princess and takes care of me but he's a strong confident man and he certainly wasn't a wet blanket when we were first dating. Don't be submissive around him to attract him, be yourself, yes work on being feminine but you want him to fall in love with you as a person or move on quickly to someo…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 10:03 AM
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Alcohol lowers your inhibitions and makes you more impulsive. It may not have been the peer pressure at all, in fact, it's more likely that your hints that he should stop triggered the impulsiveness in him. I'm the same, once I've had a couple I end up finishing the bottle. If I go out with friends, I end up puking. My captain put a three drink limit on me and being me, I usually like it when he tells me what to do but even his rules didn't stop me last time I was out. In every day life, I have …
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 06:59 PM
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You have to speak to him openly and honestly about where you're at. Does he even know that this is a deal breaker and you're thinking of leaving? I honestly told my guy that I wasn't having kids past 30 because i have a family history of health problems. I would have stayed with my guy without kids because I loved him but he had to know there was a limit as to how long I was going to wait. As it happened, I had my first child at 29 and second at 31 and stopped there. He did want kids and marriag…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/19 08:39 PM
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Another reason both men and women cheat is that they want a better reflection of themselves (in combination with the above) in another person so trying to ensure that you're both happy with yourselves and what you're striving for will help x
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 11:08 AM
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It's not better, those men on TRP are going through stuff and I can't really speak for them but there's always a lot of talk about the anger phase and that must stem from their lack of success with women over a period of time. From a woman perspective though, some of us are here having been raised with feminist ideals and in the end came to the realisation that 'having it all', bearing all of the 'mental load' and bossing our husbands around like they're children doesn't actually make us happy a…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 09:21 PM
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I am a woman of a certain age and I've become a lot more selfish in bed with age lol, because I also don't want to live the rest of my life without sexual satisfaction. You really need to have a Frank and honest discussion with him outside of the bedroom. Let him know that you want him to make you climax and that means being responsive to you. If he's not willing then you have a decision to make but the vast, vast majority of men want to satisfy their wives.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 08:46 AM
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I used to be the same until I changed my priorities to Him. Now I take the time to exercise, eat well and take care of myself for him it doesn't feel selfish any more. It's a change of mind set. When you devote yourself to your husband these things come more naturally x
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 12:39 PM
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Having kids younger is easier, people underestimate the physical toll it takes on your body to carry, birth and feed a child along with the sleep deprivation and 24/7 nature of parenting. I stopped having children at 31 and even that was tough. If you can work part time and have flexibility, that is perfect for having a child. It's your decision of course though! Xx
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 10:29 AM
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Yes, I like being overpowered or put in my place if needed though that's more of a kink thing for me. In every day life we work pretty well together so no real need x
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 08:10 PM
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If you're single, I'd imagine college is a great place to meet a guy as you know he has ambition and is working toward them so being at college is a good start! x
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 09:48 AM
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My husband and I are in our forties and we exercise at home four or five times a week, people our age are amazed by how fit we look, we don't even do that much! I'm thinking of taking up pole fitness this year though lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 09:45 AM
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I read her book, The Life Changing Magic Of Tidying Up and it quite literally changed my life. I'm looking forward to watching it on Netflix! x
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 09:40 AM
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And whining about her wearing shorts and completely losing frame is like RP rule number one or something! I dress modestly for my man whether he's with me or not because I don't want him to think of me as low value and I want to be only for him. He's never ever had to ask or mention my clothes, never mind lose his s### over it!
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 06:20 PM
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sorry, I don't want to doxx myself since I'm on a few kinky pages on here lol x
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 06:06 PM
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I enjoyed that book and implemented some thing that really helped me too. So glad you're finding your way in your relationship xx
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 05:29 PM
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I would find that sexy but I'm kinda weird lol
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 11:04 AM
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Yeah, he's not an 'alpha', he's super insecure! I mean seriously insecure and if he can't earn your submission without throwing the bible at you he's failing at even being red pill. I've never read psychology and I can see right through this guy just from your post. You're not married, therefore you're vetting, get him gone!
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 01:17 AM
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Get all my daily tasks completed by mid day, lose the Christmas weight, complete my YouTube fitness channel, stretch every day, work on building up my captain x
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/19 06:43 PM
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I'm surprised you're having difficulty with this one. You're a plate, move on, you can do better xx
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/19 06:38 PM
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Some guys are into telling women how to look/making her more attractive/making her more sexual/bimbofication and some girls are into being made into his doll kinda thing, I would love it if my guy did that to me lol. If you're dating, you're vetting so it's all down to what you want from a guy at this point. If you're not into it, you're not into it x
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/19 03:22 PM
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my sister has bpd and I've had to cut her out of my life to keep my sanity and prevent her from trying to tear my family apart. Everyone is different and it's not her fault she's that way but she was toxic to my life x
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 10:39 PM
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After seeing my mum go through two horrible divorces, I would rather be alone than settle for Mr Good Enough so I went for Mr Perfect. You don't know he's perfect though until you know him inside out, there's no point fearing losing someone you don't know as he may not even be Mr Good Enough. You are vetting until you are married x
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 10:31 PM
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I think he's insecure and doesn't want other guys to find you attractive. However, make up on women makes us look professional and/or put together so my husband doesn't get to decide if I wear makeup or not, he gets a say in how I do my makeup only. If makeup is very important to you, you do need to have some boundaries and standards even in a RP relationship, most especially when you're not married and therefor still vetting x
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 08:28 PM
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I would have sacrificed children to be with my husband because I love him. A similar conversation came up with us where he never wanted children 'yet' and I didn't want children after 30 due to a strong family history of cancer. I was 29 when I fell pregnant with my first. Just a month before he decided he wanted to try for children, I was enquiring into counselling to deal with the fact that I wasn't going to have children. I knew I wanted children from the start and that I wouldn't have childr…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 10:02 PM
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So far we've only gone so far as to say to our boys that playing video games will not get him respect or a girlfriend lol. Obviously if they did something with it like create videos or mods or platforms it would be different but just playing them is a waste of time. Other than that, they see my husband and I living our lives which happens to be quite red pill x
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 08:10 PM
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I'm on a tight budget so I do my own hair cuts (thanks youtube tutorials), my own nails and facials and I shave instead of wax. I moisturize with coconut oil and use supermarket make-up apart from foundation, I have to spend money on foundation. I pluck my own eyebrows and I don't need to colour my hair as I'm blessed with rich, chocolatey brown natural colour. I work out at home using dumbells and eat healthily. I look pretty darn good at my age on that budget too! x
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 11:57 AM
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I feel like you'll be in a situation where he basically owns you on his own terms if you let him take your virginity. I wouldn't trust him to restore it and you will stay stuck if you stay with him x
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 10:16 PM
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Exactly, why is this other man single and 40? If he were such a great catch, he would have been snapped up by now x
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 10:12 PM
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It's better to be direct and quickly work through the guys that are a waste of time than it is to avoid being direct and well...wasting time x
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 10:56 AM
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If he's fine on holiday, then you are wanted, it's just getting into the right headspace during the day to day grind and I'm not sure what you can do about that. You can't change other people, only yourself. I used to have a low libido and my husband basically re-focused on himself and his work instead to trying to get sex from me. He started working out, making new friends and started his own business, this took a lot of pressure off me and of course made him more of a catch. Now my libido is h…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/18 10:42 AM
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People are always negative about starting a family (with good reason it turns out lol, kids really are hard work and expensive!) I had plenty of people tell me I shouldn't do it and we were crazy and we waited till we were 29 and 32, had our own house and were married. There was literally no reason not to start a family, we were 'perfect' candidates lol. But I would say, trust your husband, he only wants the best for his family. A year isn't long to wait x
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/18 11:51 AM
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Yikes, that sounds manipulative and controlling. I'd pick my friend if a guy put me in that situation on purpose just because I'm not down with being manipulated!
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/18 11:44 AM
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You really have to play it by ear before deciding on hard and fast rules. My husband and I share the same friends so it would be awkward if he couldn't talk to the women and I couldn't talk to the guys. He has some female friends from work which he goes out with as a group, male friends present also, I couldn't really prevent him from going out on work do's because there are females present, that would be controlling. If, however, he had a female bestie and wanted to go out for a night with her …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/18 11:40 AM
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Guess you figured out why he's not too successful with the ladies...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/18 01:24 AM
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Oh and as some others have said, co-sleeping and baby wearing in a sling is a game changer, that was my secret with my second child! x
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 09:32 AM
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I would suggest, while you're cooking or something, simply say off the cuff 'I'm so tired, I just need one day a week to sleep in' and then literally leave it. Don't defend your need, don't argue, whatever he he says just reply 'mmmm' and find a spot where you can change the subject. See if he takes it on, most decent men will think on it after their initial defensiveness x
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 09:29 AM
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My husband and I have been together almost twenty years. We work together so there's that and we have kids which was definitely something that got us talking for a long time. We enjoy an interesting and varied sex life, his libido has reduced a little but it's still very high which is lucky as mine is through the roof atm so that takes up a fair amount of time lol. But mostly we enjoy watching films together, hanging out with friends together, going out places together. Talking for hours becomes…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 10:25 PM
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It's not your sleep problem, it's having a baby and it's a two person job. If he wants you to surrender to him, he has to earn it. He's not earning it by criticizing you during the hardest time of your life. You don't need to whine or complain at him but do tell him not to criticize as it isn't helpful. I agree with the other comment that you need to take care of yourself the best you can and be kind to yourself. Sleep deprivation from having a baby is no joke, you have to take it seriously and …
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 10:11 PM
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What you've got to remember is that men who come to the red pill are beta's that are being denied their primary drive and are being continually rejected. My husband is a sweet, loving, respectful man who is confident and successful. He's dealt very little with rejection and as such, is not an angry, cynical, bitter person. NOT all men are like that x
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 01:09 PM
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I am naturally submissive but only to my man and only because he's worthy of it. When it comes to finding marriage material, you can be soft, gentle and feminine but you need some sort of inner strength and energy that radiates that only the RIGHT guy can bring you to heel, not every guy. Also, I'm very feminine but I'm an ex athlete who lifts weights and has a physically demanding job, I'm also a boss at work and roll up my sleeves and chip in whenever I need to. Feminity isn't about being weak…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 10:08 AM
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Don't bother with keto, it's not working if you can't adhere to it. Learn what works for you as an individual. Take your time, lift some weights, start with 10 mins per day but diet is everything. The pinch of nom website has some great low fat recipes. Try those to start with. Once you get used to prepping and cooking, learn about counting macros and track EVERYTHING, adjust your macros as you go along and take diet breaks every couple of weeks at MAINTENANCE kcals. Most importantly, educate yo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/18 09:21 AM
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Stupid autocorrect lol, just to clarify, that was supposed to be no 'zero days' x
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 11:04 AM
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I started by having relaxing soaks in the bathroom while reading rather than showering. Somehow it just seems easier to sit in the bath than stand in the shower when you're not feeling up to much. Also, I exercise every day as that really helps to make you feel better. I started with just a few sit ups at first and now a year later, I have a full hour a day routine. I read a thing on reddit a few years ago about having no 'zero data's, you should do at least one thing, no matter how small, that …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 11:03 AM
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We've got a busy week so most meals this week will have to be quick and easy but I'm going to make up for it at the weekend by making my husbands favourites. Macaroni cheese on Saturday and Roast on Sunday. During the week my quick meals are going to be chicken salad wraps, pasta bake with salad, veggie burgers, stir fry and, as always, pizza friday lol x
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 05:34 PM
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Same here, femininity is strength!
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 10:24 AM
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Ah, ok, I see x
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 04:37 PM
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we work together btw so I know what he gets up to x
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 04:10 PM
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sometimes dread game comes with the territory. My husband is very devoted but at work, all the women swoon at him. Gets my heckled up but also makes me work harder to keep him. He doesn't do anything to elicit the swoons, he's just fit, good looking, has presence and is the boss x
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 04:09 PM
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Hugh jackman right!? He IS the exception but still not sure I'd be attracted to him if I were 20 x
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 11:33 AM
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Agree, my sex drive has gone crazy at age 40 and I expect it's my hormones due to impending menopause. I hit my peak of hotness at 22 though. And at 18 I was interested guys aged 28-ish. I wouldn't have gone near a guy over forty.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 11:24 AM
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I was expecting talk of anal, deep throat and kinkiness lol but all very helpful, thank you for sharing x
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 11:17 AM
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My husband and I work together on our business 7 days per week, we've been married 12 years and he still makes time for me in the evenings at least once a week and we still go out on dates if someone takes care of the kids! X
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 11:16 AM
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Sexual attraction is so, so important. Why is a Dr selling himself to you? He shouldn't have to, is he unattractive? If you're not sexually attracted to him, you will not be able to keep him, you won't be able to satisfy him and you'll either leave him for someone sexier or he'll cheat with someone more enthusiastic x
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 10:56 AM
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Er, at a couple of months in I expect him to still be taking me out on dates!
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 12:01 AM
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Open mindedness, willingness, enthusiasm and my husband has asked me to improve my flexibility lol x
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/18 04:04 PM
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You're not married, know what your limits and boundaries are. Some women might be ok with that behaviour if think they might be able to change him but for me, that would be unbearable and I would move on. I married an amazing guy because I have high standards and low tolerance. I can't be 'first mate' to someone who doesn't deserve me x
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 07:36 PM
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Sounds really positive, you need to know your value to hold out for the right guy. I'm sorry he took it badly. Leaving someone is awful, I know xx
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 01:05 PM
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Ah, how did he take it? How are you holding up?
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 10:31 AM
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I think it's extremely common to have those party years. For a lot of us this period helps us grow and learn what we want from life. I grew up very sheltered, I need this time to get to know who I was away from my parents. I met my life partner at 22 at a point where I'd decided not to date at all for a couple of years but I already knew what I wanted from life at that point and Mr Right came along at just the right time. Our past didn't affect our decision to be together, he's a natural alpha a…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/18 12:05 PM
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I'm talking about the great sense of humor used in the posts, not how they're being treated obviously. Never mind...
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/18 12:00 PM
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Do you guys live together? It says he lives with family but you can't get fit because of his diet? Reading posts make me realise how lucky I am to have a guy who takes care of himself and has a high sex drive. He pushes me to keep up with him. But I never would have married him if I didn't take care of myself and I wasn't a strong confident woman. Men want a woman who is a challenge but will melt only for him. Your guy sounds complacent, I agree he needs to know what your deal breakers are so he…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/18 11:59 AM
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Having scrolled down, I'm so glad you've had so many SANE responses on here! RPW is about embracing and your husband respecting your role in the family as wife, mother and caregiver and supporting and respecting your husbands role as provider. He is crossing those boundaries and coming up with, frankly, insane conditions. I kept my body aside from a few stretch marks but guess what, my boobs are saggier, not because of pregnancy, but because I'm forty!!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 11:34 PM
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Pregnancy and birth won't kill your sex drive. Literal years of torturous sleep deprivation will kill it. Try four months on two hours per night TOTAL, that's between being woken up every 40 to 60 minutes. And it never really ends, not for about 7yrs. But it is temporary, my husband and I have sex every day and love it now our kids are 10 and 8. He's gonna have to suck it up and be a man a bit if he wants kids!
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 11:22 PM
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That is a pretty funny thread tho...
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 10:54 PM
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