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| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Ultimately there is nothing inherently wrong with wanting to experience sex with a lot of people. But, as with many risky lifestyles, there are repercussions and most women hate that there is some kind of potential consequence for being extremely promiscuous. It would be akin to a man being upset that he partied his entire teens and early adulthood, did poorly in school due to his partying, and is now upset that led to some work being more difficult to acquire or completely unavailable. At the e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 07:49 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Right, because you making a baseless claim means I'm the delusional one. What a useless conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 05:34 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Even the most average woman can have sex with a different man every other day should she choose to. So although it's possible she may have some midlife crisis and start cheating as a result of her FOMO, it's more likely the woman who didn't sleep around simply valued sex with one man more than sex with many men, and the odds of her suddenly wanting to stray from her morals, lifestyle and belief system are low. We can obviously play all kinds of hypotheticals, but if one sticks to odds, the women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 05:30 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Whatever helps you sleep at night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 05:18 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?I'm not thinking of any number. I just know from life experience that it's not most. It all just depends which circles you're in and where you look. I know plenty of women who do and plenty who don't. I do think it's slightly more prevalent now than it was 10 or 20 years ago, but not by much. If there is a study you want to link, I'll look at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 05:17 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Some men just don't want to be with woman who has slept with every other man in town. It doesn't even have to tie back to his masculinity. As I'm sure there are women with the same preference. At the end of day, a man who cares about such things will not date a woman that has that reputation, so really it's a non-issue for either party. I'm only pointing out that women who sleep around are potentially lowering their appeal to a subset of men looking for a life partner. In most cases, this doesn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 05:11 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?You are free to live in your world. The real world will remain the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 03:04 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Given I hang around more men than women, I would say the latter. That said, most men won't voice their insecurities around their girl. But on the rare occasion they do, I try to provide some honest feedback. Assuming it's not just a vent session. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:57 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Depends on the situation. If it seemed appropriate to add my commentary on the topic, I wouldn't shy away. Is there something you're trying to get at here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:55 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?I specifically made a point that it's not a sole determining factor and that there are no failsafes for such behavior. If a person wants to cheat, they will find a way regardless of body count. THAT SAID, there is something to be said about a person who has had sex with a significant amount of others. At the very least, engaging in such behavior is easy and accessible for that person, and by that standard alone, it's not a crazy to assume it may make that person more susceptible to cheating. You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:52 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Well said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:45 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?If it's something they want to talk about, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:44 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?No reading comprehension issue here. You simply gave him a hard time for speaking for all men, yet used "we" when speaking in terms of women. If that's not an obvious double standard, then I don't know what is. You then made a personal attack because I pointed out the hypocrisy instead of correcting your shitty way of bringing a point across. 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:43 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?It's emasculating for some because it shows their girl is "easy". And, depending on the situation, that man now has to potentially interact or be in the same room with other men who have been inside his girl, especially if she has a high body count and still lives in the same city she accrued that number in. It's not a fun scenario for most men. This is just one example obviously. These aren't my own personal beliefs either, I'm just giving you an answer because I know of many men who think like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:39 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Except it's not most people, although it may seem that way depending on which side of the fence you're on. Most women who do not casually engage in sex are not going to be at the club with the women looking to hook up. They're going to naturally gravitate to women who have similar values, lifestyles and interests. And vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:33 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?If you say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:28 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Good point. But it's also important to acknowledge that just because she found a good man, doesn't mean that she didn't necessarily limit her options to some degree. Whether it makes any difference in the long run will be very situational for each woman engaging in hook up culture. Regardless of result, a woman having a high body count is something most men don't see as a positive when searching for their forever person. I'm assuming most women don't want to be with a man who slept with all her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:23 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Few are obsessed with your ex (that's more a woman's territory). For men, it has a lot more to do with loyalty. If all things are equal, the woman with 5 sexual partners in her past is a lot more likely to be loyal than the one with 50 sexual partners. It's not a guarantee but the odds are in favor of that assessment. So if I'm trying to find a forever woman that is likely to be and stay loyal, I'm going to look at her body count to get an idea of my odds. You may not like that, but that's how a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:10 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?Why do so many women think it's either virgin or "freak"? There are plenty of men who will find a woman with a relatively low count wife material. The issue is most men don't want to marry a woman who used to be the village bicycle, and everyone's had a ride. It's emasculating. Obviously some men don't care, but to allude to "no grown adult caring" is being naive. Simply put, being overly promiscuous will limit options with quality men to some extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 02:00 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?You really really wish that you spoke on behalf of all men, but please trust that you absolutely don't. Interesting that you point that out about him--which isn't wrong mind you--yet you use "we" when referring to women, as if you speak for all women. Why the double standard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 01:51 AM |
| – | Women who engaged in hookup culture, how do you expect a man to ever take you serious?It's not all black or white. There is such a thing as a "normalish" count and then there are women with 50+ sexual partners by the age of 22. I'm assuming he's referring to the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 01:45 AM |
| – | CMV: "Cooking with Kya" deserves the backlashJust my life experience. And to your point, you're not completely wrong. That said, on average, I find people on the right to be more about live and let live, whereas those on the left tend to shun and shame those who do not conform to their political beliefs. If you don't think like them, you're not just someone to be respected, you're to be attacked and ostracized for not being part of the hive and for straying from what the "group" thinks. I'm generalizing here, as you can find singular examp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 10:47 PM |
| – | "You can change your weight, but we can't change our height" is a failed attempt to shame women's preferencesSo if men can like what they like in women, women can too. A totally acceptable take and one I can agree with. That said, I think some women treat short men in the same way someone might treat a lazy person or a messy person, as if it's a choice for them. It's one of the few traits a man cannot realistically change so it's naturally going to piss shorter men off when women have that preference as it's not something they can control or improve. A fat woman can lose weight, workout to improve her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 10:40 PM |
| – | Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys.No idea what you're getting it. If you make yourself a doormat then get treated like a doormat, that's on you. If you're direct with women, they'll be direct with you. "Nice guys" hide their true intentions way too often then get angry that they've been friend zoned. Next time don't present yourself as a friend if you have romantic interests. If a women doesn't reciprocate, you don't hang around giving her your attention and resources unless that's something you want to do. And if it is, you don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 10:12 PM |
| – | CMV: "Cooking with Kya" deserves the backlashAre you sure you're not just angry because a woman is in the kitchen and enjoying herself? You'd think leftist women would be happy for other women succeeding, but I guess women embracing stereotypical roles will anger most leftist women cause patriarchy, oppression, or whatever buzz word is popular now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 10:04 PM |
| – | CMV: "Cooking with Kya" deserves the backlashStereotypical leftists don't actually care about rights, women, or anything else. They only care that you think and do exactly as the hive demands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 10:00 PM |
| – | Why do women say they want nice guys but there are subreddits making fun of nice guys.The only way you get stuck in the friend zone and get "used" is if you allow it. If a woman doesn't have romantic interest in you, you move on. If after that you decide to be her "friend" in the hopes to one day win her over, then that's on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 09:41 PM |
| – | Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equalityYes, because that's how all the interactions go. Excluding women from the behavior you shun, as if one has to look far to find asshole women on here (or anywhere), is just silly and shows your bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 08:21 PM |
| – | Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equalityYea, because women on here always use flowery language and aren't disparaging towards men at all. Not that it makes it right, but the assholery flows both ways. Omitting that is just being disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 08:01 PM |
| – | Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equalityFor better or worse, people gravitate towards where they feel heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 07:53 PM |
| – | Has online dating produced more positive or negative effects for you and why?You lack perspective because you're a woman on a dating app and get the benefit of having far more options where man will rarely drop you mid conversation for another woman, so you can chat far longer in most cases and still take it to the next step. And I'm not blaming you for that. It's your prerogative to do as you please. Not sure what you mean by weird. I presume you're on there to meet up. It's a complete waste of time chatting for a month when true chemistry is determined in person, not o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedImagine if I replaced her "buddy" with "toots" when replying to her. And that's just one example. How receptive would she be? No one would tolerate her tone in RL. It's only acceptable here because she gets to hide behind her keyboard and gets a pat on the back from the other female keyboard warriors on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 11:14 AM |
| -3 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedIt is when you blow those issues out of proportion and have solutions that are readily available. You linking some article that says some politically biased non-profit made an analysis that is inline with leftist ideology is not solid proof, especially when there is no actual study to be found. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 10:39 AM |
| -6 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedI never told you any of that. If that's what you got out of it then that's on you. You tried to play victim and pointed to the one and only thing you could even slightly hang your hat on, except you really can't because it's still totally in your power to resolve that issue and get an abortion any time you want. It's also in your power not to get pregnant, excluding rape. And if you have a problem with your rights in a particular state, keep in mind that those policies will be voted on by both m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 10:28 AM |
| -10 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedI'll take "analysis" from the "Gender Equity Policy Institute" with a heavy grain of salt, thank you. Especially when abortion is still legal under the premise that giving birth would be life threatening, even in those boogey-man states. That said, if this is still a major concern for you, it is in your power to move to a state that is more inline with the policies that you feel will benefit you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 10:10 AM |
| -10 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedNo one is stopping you from having an abortion. If your state decides they don't want it, you'll have all those blue states to pop into for that one or two potential abortions you might need in an entire lifetime. Is that the big thing you were gonna get me with? Now strap that helmet on and get to the front of the line, soldier. It's equality time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 09:50 AM |
| -4 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedNothing to do with policing. Just calling out the obvious attitude issue that is completely unwarranted that most of you women would blow a fuse over if the rolls were reversed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 09:40 AM |
| -4 | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedIn what area are women not seen as equals in the US? Do we need to strap a helmet on you and throw you on the frontlines or is you lacking "equality" just whatever you decide is slightly in favor of men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 09:38 AM |
| – | Why Do Men's Issues Often Get OverlookedYou need to relax with your tone, lady. The guy is being very respectful in his replies. Try doing the same instead of having a fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 09:17 AM |
| 3 | Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bulliesHe's even safer doing what he wants, if he wants to buy her gifts go right ahead, if he doesn't then don't That's like me telling a gambler he's good doing whatever he wants. If he wants to put $1000 in the slots machine, then go right ahead, when in reality it's just a bad move. But hey, to each their own. Just sharing my thoughts on the topic is all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 12:28 AM |
| 4 | Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bulliesSo edgy linking to the original post. I'm speaking with you because you made a claim and then backed it up by someone else's opinion. Good job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bulliesYes, so why even buy them? This is how some men get taken advantage of. Opportunistic women will use a man like this and condition him to get her things in return for affection. A man is safer not buying unnecessary gifts until there is a genuine relationship and feelings are being reciprocated way before any gift giving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 11:58 PM |
| 4 | Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bulliesAnd what are the relative differences? Any example you find for men, will be found on the other side of the table. I'd wager there are no real differences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bulliesMy point is the flowers worked because you were attracted to the man, not because he brought you flowers. Flowers are ineffective in the grand scheme of things. If he didn't bring you flowers, you'd find something else to compliment him on. Flowers on a first date are just unnecessary. Like here, you've done nothing and I mean nothing to deserve this but show up, and I'm already overinvesting and setting a precedent that I will buy your affection with gifts and gestures. What a horrible way to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 11:49 PM |
| 7 | Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bulliesAnd women can be kinder to women. I've seen asshats on both sides of the table treating their own like trash (and others). There is no point mentioning one over the other when it's clear it applies to both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 11:44 PM |
| 7 | Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bulliesIt's a nice gesture because you're attracted to him. It would be considered creepy or icky otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 11:33 PM |
| – | Has online dating produced more positive or negative effects for you and why?Commitment and seriousness has nothing to do with how long you chat on a superficial app when the point is to make real life connections. Like I said, the only reason that strategy works for you is because most men won't ghost you once you start a chat. Doesn't quite work that way for most men. Plus, as a man, I can tell you that although there may be women out there willing to meet after 4 weeks, most are time wasters. I've found way more success not entertaining women like this than vice versa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:34 PM |
| 0 | What is the dating experience like for an average man?The perfect analogy. 👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Has online dating produced more positive or negative effects for you and why?You don't have to "surrender" anything really. If you find someone interesting/attractive, immediately ask to meet up in some low pressure environment. No need to waste time talking forever. That's what I did and it was relatively effective. Chemistry is determined in person and you can pretty much tell instantly if it's there or not once you meet. And like the other person said, it doesn't stop you from potentially meeting someone in a more traditional way. It's just another venue to up your ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 01:26 AM |
| 5 | Has online dating produced more positive or negative effects for you and why?It's probably equally difficult to try and find a childfree woman in her 30's for a man who is childfree. It's just a small demographic both ways. I'm in that demo, but haven't been on a dating app in a while and found the person I'm dating now through mutual friends. I can only imagine going back on the apps today. Most women in their 30's on those apps are just looking for a provider and already have 1 or 2 kids. Sometimes from multiple people. It's a shitshow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Has online dating produced more positive or negative effects for you and why?Bingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 12:59 AM |
| 5 | Has online dating produced more positive or negative effects for you and why?Spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 12:59 AM |
| 4 | Has online dating produced more positive or negative effects for you and why?4 weeks? That's way too excessive imo. It's funny because I had the opposite rule. If a woman wasn't willing to cut through the BS and actually meet up in person--where potential for chemistry is actually determined--after about 3 to 5 text exchanges, then I'd stop investing. 4 weeks of chatting for a man on an online dating app is a waste of time in 99% of cases because a man is constantly competing with a plethora of other men, so at any point, the woman could find someone else more interestin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 12:57 AM |
| 13 | Women have more Ick’s than menDepends on the ick. I can think of several occasions that I've passed up on sex because something turned me off. And that something wasn't typically a visual thing either. I remember passing up on sex with a girl who brought me into her room and it was gross in there... pizza boxes, random crumbs and shit. Fuck that, I was out. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toIt is subjective, you're right. But for the most part, only fans is looked down upon because women (and some men) are monetizing their bodies in a mostly sexual and naked way (something that most men agree should be reserved for their partner). It's one step removed from prostitution and that too can be used to progress a person in life, if you look at it that way. Ultimately, you're not wrong, but it won't stop the majority of men from looking at it as a net negative when it comes to considerin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 04:32 AM |
| 1 | When single... Did/Do you care about what the opposite sex finds attractive?It's only sad when someone's entire existence becomes trying to appease what women like. It's completely reasonable for men to change certain aspects of their style or take advice that doesn't change them fundamentally, but helps improve their odds in what is already a competitive dating scene. Making reasonable changes to improve odds in any area of life is normal. Not everyone can just roll out of bed and get results. Some can, some get lucky doing nothing, and others have to put in additional… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:23 AM |
| 2 | When single... Did/Do you care about what the opposite sex finds attractive?Depends on the changes. If you're not taking on a new persona just for the sake of getting laid, then no. For example, if my hobbies are intact, if my morals are intact, but the only thing I've changed is my dress style because it makes me more attractive and suits me better, then I'm not changing me as a person, just changing my clothes. And that goes for many other things along the same line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | When single... Did/Do you care about what the opposite sex finds attractive?I don't subscribe to any pill as there is way too much nuance to beholden to a single hive. That said, of course I cared to a degree. I wasn't going to change who I fundamentally was as a person, but I took in advice to help improve my value in the dating scene. And seriously, there are low hanging fruit type things anyone can do to attract a better partner, so why not? I see it no different than when you go job hunting and you try to look the part to give yourself the best chance possible. Ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Women have a much higher libido than men on averageRight, because your limited and anecdotal experience somehow led you to an all inclusive claim that you can't prove and the only reason people could possibly disagree with you is because they're not alphas and not because you're just making baseless claims. What you have here is called a theory. Stop trying to present it as fact until you have a way to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Women have a much higher libido than men on averagethe female sexual desire is far greater than the male sexual proclivity That's a hefty claim with no comprehensive empirical evidence. Libido is such an individual thing that it's silly to make that claim. In my personal experience and from observation, men have a slightly higher sex drive on average. But it's more likely that this varies by so many factors that my personal data is irrelevant. I haven't seen any data that would lay any credence to the claim you made though. At best, it's a plaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 01:48 AM |
| 7 | Are the men here mostly on the younger side and single?38 and in a relationship. (no kids) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity toLook at how many women have Only fans. I think that's what he means by no dignity. Although, I doubt that any of it is exclusively a western issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 10:37 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".That's the irony on the left. Most of them are so self-righteous, yet I see more vitriol and double standards there than on the other side. Obviously I'm generalizing here, but one doesn't have to look far to find examples, reddit is full of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:57 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Ah, how about reddit? Notwithstanding, a select few subreddits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:40 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".You sort of nailed it in the end there. A strong economy--people not feeling like they're barely making ends meet--is the crux to a happier and more progressive society. No one is gonna solve anything when their own house isn't in order. No one is even going to care. That's why it's hard to give a vote to the current "progressive" party (yes, I'm talking about the left here) as most of their policies move people away from a thriving economy and into more reliance on the government. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:32 PM |
| 5 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Right, so if online safe spaces turn into echo-chambers and echo-chambers are inherently bad, we should probably start by disassembling reddit, and most other online platforms that lean heavily left and spew the same onesided rhetoric, yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 08:59 PM |
| 2 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.In my ideal world, only people who put morals and empathy, to a high regard, would be here. So you've already failed in your own world. Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 08:48 PM |
| 2 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Right, according to you and your self-righteous view of the world. See the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Yes, and I'm sure you're going to be judge, jury, and executioner in this mission of yours. Ironically you sound just as radical as the people you demonize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 12:09 PM |
| 1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.There are however many opinions that don't deserve that kind of protection and are trash. And who decides which opinion is valid and which isn't? You? As far as toxicity, it's hardly a male only problem. At the end of the day, if people want to air their grievances, whatever they may be, let them. No one is forced to engage if they don't want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 11:08 AM |
| 3 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Although I mostly agree with this, it's not always about starting a social justice movement for many of these men. It's sometimes cathartic to express frustration and have someone validate it, whether it's friends or online. I feel like we all need that sometimes, regardless of what we believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 11:04 AM |
| 3 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Good thing Gen Z can at least use their brain. If you're any example of that, I wouldn't be so sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 10:32 AM |
| 3 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Let me get this straight, you're okay with women generalizing men, but get up in arms that there is a group of men out there that generalize women and they shouldn't exist. So if I said women who generalize men shouldn't exist, that be okay with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 10:30 AM |
| 1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.It's always the same people who preach acceptance, inclusivity and equality that say the dumbest shit like "Incels are just men the world doesn't need. Whatever your race or class, incels are useless." Instead of trying to understand their woes and addressing them as human beings, even if they are somewhat misguided, she'd rather they not exist. Go figure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 10:26 AM |
| -3 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.If you don't want an answer, don't ask a question. It's clearly irritating you. Maybe it's time to touch grass and take in some fresh air? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:36 AM |
| 1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.I guess the should be a circle-jerk? Ironically that's more your position than mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:34 AM |
| 1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.All the ones you report. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:29 AM |
| -2 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Why do you even take it seriously? It's not like someone saying that has any power over you, yet you get so highly offended (and likely report them). And yes vitriol is the correct term here, just look how you write. I can sense you seething. It's not that serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:28 AM |
| – | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Pathetic and expected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:17 AM |
| 1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Echo chambers are fine as long as you know you're in an echo chamber. If I sub to a Toyota Tacoma group, I realize everyone in there is likely to think their vehicle is the best thing since sliced bread. No issue. The issue is censorship, and there is no doubt that the current left censors more than the right. Look at the old twitter vs the new twitter. Look at Zuckerburg coming out saying he was forced to delete/censor by the outgoing leftist government in the US and that he regrets doing so. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 07:15 AM |
| 3 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.And blue pillers are more in the government could do no wrong camp and everyone who doesn't take experimental vaccines is killing grandma camp. What's that got to do with what I said? My point is that just because someone has a theory or a criticism, doesn't mean they belong to some extremist group. Further, ideas, thoughts, concepts and anything else should stand on its own and should be discussed on its own. If it's a valid criticism, idea or debate, we shouldn't give a fuck what the other bel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:59 AM |
| -1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.There was nothing in your comment worth considering seriously enough to care about in the first place, much less waste my time debating it. Yet here you are, writing paragraph after paragraph. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:51 AM |
| 1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.You speak against hate but the vitriol you spew towards anyone who doesn't agree with you can be felt through the screen. Irony at its finest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:49 AM |
| 2 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.People might be able to more thoroughly share their ideas without overly sensitive people reporting everything that hurts their feelings or that doesn't fall in line with their ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:46 AM |
| 1 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Not all of it delusional. It's not black and white. There are debatable topics. Your position is akin to lumping people who present viable conspiracy theories into the same group of people who believe the earth is flat to discredit the individual who may have a valid point or two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:41 AM |
| 7 | There's limited safe & non-judgmental avenues/ spaces for men to genuinely express their frustrations with rejection & dating. I believe resolving this will help improve misogyny, incel hate towards women ect.Yea, unfortunately that's more of a political issue. The left loves to censor anything that doesn't fit in with their ideology. Places like reddit lean heavily left aside from a few subreddits. At the end of the day, the fix is to allow people to share their ideas/thoughts on major platforms without people having to constantly fear losing their accounts. Obviously there is more nuance here, but way too many ideas/thoughts/conversations, that are barely controversial or even offensive, don't make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:22 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNot sure why you're reaching for your own conclusions. I literally wrote it out for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:47 AM |
| – | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?Look at you mr.fancy word diarrhea. If working out doesn't do anything for you, then why you hitting the gym? It's almost as if effort produces results. And that goes for every area of life. Nothing to do with "just" world, numb nuts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 03:46 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt signals that she's promiscuous and not a great option for LTR/marriage. This is why men don't want a woman with a high body count. It doesn't matter if she's fucking dudes or only sucking their dicks. All else being equal, the majority of men will want the less promiscuous woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAnd? It still says the same thing about that woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 10:38 PM |
| -3 | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?Buddy, if you want to live in your weak ass mind state where you have an excuse for everything and don't/won't do the most basic of things you have control over then that's on you. Enjoy getting shit results that resemble your shit effort and mindset. It's a self fulfilling prophecy for dudes like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 10:36 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf some dude had intercourse with your mouth but nothing else happened, you better bet most men would consider that part of the count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?As a shorter dude who has dated women who have typically dated much taller men in their past, I can agree with this. Height is a factor but not all women see it as a dealbreaker as long as the dude is not half a foot below her height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 11:43 AM |
| -1 | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?No amount of "effort" can fix aesthetic flaws That's just false. A man who works out, get's lean/muscular is putting in effort and improving his aesthetic. A man who dresses well vs one who looks like dog shit because he wears raggy tee's and shorts that go over his knees is also putting in effort and improving his aesthetic. Sure, height is hard to overcome, but just about everything else can be improved through effort. Height alone isn't a deal breaker for most women. For a subset of women, su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?True. But keep in mind few men have the "looks" and the money. Further, looks are subjective, and just dressing right and getting a good haircut can put a dude above average in looks. Also, ambition can sometimes trump those higher earners. I've seen many HOT women date broke dudes because they had purpose and ambition. In other words, don't be a lazy fuck and most women won't care how much is in your wallet assuming you're not totally broke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?Where are these women? I've never once in my life heard a woman even mention 666 and I've been around a lot of shallow women (although I don't deny a minority exist out there). The shallowest I've seen usually care more about money/status than height and size. That said, of course height, money, and size are important to some women, but you certainly don't need a single 6 to be successful, assuming the goal is to have a relationship with a decent looking woman (7+). Obviously all else being equa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 11:25 AM |
| 1 | What do women like in men they AREN'T attracted to?Most men only spend time with women (in non group settings) because they want to fuck them. Maybe not there and then, but mark my word, more often than not, there is interest there, and given the chance, they'd be down to fuck. Gay dudes/family being the exception, and the extremely rare outlier. There are super easy ways to test for this but most women won't because most women not only know this to be true but they also love the validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 02:32 AM |
| 7 | What screams wife material to you?Says who? You? Loyalty is 100% doable long term. Shit, it might be a little less obvious, given how easy it is for people to cheat these days, but speaking in absolutes, as if there aren't perfectly loyal long term relationships, is just silly and jaded. I know people who have been in loving and loyal relationships for decades. Not everyone is prone to cheating. Maybe if you're 20ish (which I suspect you might be) and still meeting girls in clubs and tinder then it might seem like everyone is ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 11:36 AM |
| 5 | What screams wife material to you?Is there a reason you're projecting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 10:54 AM |
| 4 | What screams wife material to you?High sex drive, sense of humor, takes care of her body (does not have to be perfect), has unshakable loyalty and respects common sense boundaries. And just someone who respects me in general. Someone who would have my back do or die. Someone who communicates when something is missing or when something is wrong. Last but not least, someone that isn't overly extroverted or at least is willing to deal with my introverted ass. And to be clear, this would all be reciprocated. I think it's really stup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 07:12 AM |
| 11 | Why does the redpill advocate men not get married but berate and mock women who also choose not to marry or have children?Marriage is a joke to begin with and should be treated as basically a tradition more than anything else. People and circumstances change, and putting some pretend title on what is essentially just another term for 2 people in a relationship, is not going to change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Men need to be more shallow in their approach to datingFair, it's just not something I would put on a hobby list. I suppose it's a matter of semantics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Men need to be more shallow in their approach to datingI'm allowed to have an opinion and disagree. I'm sorry if it hurt your feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be more shallow in their approach to datingI get this sentiment but I think too many people use the "don't settle" excuse as a way to justify their inability to compromise and set realistic expectations. No one out there is going to be perfect. You're NOT settling if you don't get every checkbox on your list. Those are what we call unicorns. If one sets their expectation to some unrealistic standard, they'll likely be single forever. Yes, anyone can be happy being single (and should strive to be as a bare minimum), but all other things b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Men need to be more shallow in their approach to datingTo each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Men need to be more shallow in their approach to datingBecause I don't participate in wine tastings? You got me there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Men need to be more shallow in their approach to datingThat's because commonality that's lacking lust, desire, and attraction is just friendship. On the flip side, as long as there is insane levels of attraction, people will justify dating total opposites, hence the phrase "opposites attract." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:52 PM |
| -3 | Men need to be more shallow in their approach to datingYou mean that pretentious thing where people pretend they can smell the 7 different grape aromas by swirling their glass? Yea, I get it, but I think you missed the point. A hobby, to me, is something that requires some effort to achieve a result. I.e., Hiking, working out, painting, cooking. Not eating, drinking, and breathing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Men need to be more shallow in their approach to datingI'm sorry, getting shittered is not a hobby, regardless of how highbrow one tries to make it. That's like me saying vaping is a hobby because I host parties and compare vape flavors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:33 PM |
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