drunkenpossum Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Does age really matter in pickup? Of course it does. Women have age preferences the same way guys do. Women generally prefer to men the same age or slightly older (1-5 years). There are exceptions of course but this is the general rule of thumb	/r/seduction	23/07/26 08:05 PM
108	How To Make Any Boring Conversation Flirty Dead internet theory	/r/seduction	25/06/26 10:02 AM
0	Why Do Guys Think That Beautiful Women Are Harder To Pull Than Average Looking Women? I keep seeing this myth that average women get hit on more than 9-10s and it’s just not true in my experience . If you ever spend time around a true 9-10 or talk to one you’ll easily see why. The amount of male attention a true 9-10 gets is overwhelming. We’re talking getting hit on at the bar everytime they go out (often times multiple times), and oftentimes in public. Instagram DMs full of guys trying to talk to them. 100s of likes per day on the dating apps. Also I’m a guy who has been with t…	/r/seduction	15/06/26 10:09 PM
16	Why Do Guys Think That Beautiful Women Are Harder To Pull Than Average Looking Women? “6 - 8’s are getting hit on much more than 9s/10s” Not a chance. If you spend time around a true 9-10 it is absurd the amount of constant attention they get from men. It almost makes you feel bad for them how overwhelming it can be	/r/seduction	15/06/26 10:03 PM
35	Cold approach honestly changed my life Yeah I feel you. Ever since getting on my grind with Peloton and Bowflex (quenching my thirst with an ice cold refreshing strawberry kiwi BodyArmor, of course). I’ve seen great results. Therapy with BetterHelp followed by a delicious bowl from Chipotle is what I do for my mental game. Also important to keep your hygiene on par with great products such as Old Spice with their new and improved aluminum-free formula (Totally not an ad for my app Shawty where you record conversations with women with…	/r/seduction	06/06/26 06:13 PM
20	Trying to find the easiest way to get a threesome Get two women on your roster who are bisexual/bi-curious and bring up the idea independently to them. That’s how it worked for me	/r/seduction	05/06/26 03:05 PM
67	Potential 3some need help I had a stroke trying to read this	/r/seduction	20/05/26 07:30 PM
15	I really want 8s and 9s but I only can attract 5s and 6s Go look at his Twitter. It’s like all anti-black and anti-Indian Great Replacement Theory shit now.	/r/seduction	31/03/26 03:45 AM
18	I really want 8s and 9s but I only can attract 5s and 6s Hoe math used to have some really good vids about how game works. Kinda crazy he went off the deep end and is a race realist schizo-poster these days	/r/seduction	31/03/26 02:34 AM
12	Never know how to text for hookups or respond usually I honestly recommend against this approach as there are women out there who will be open to hooking up with you and something casual if you are charming/charismatic enough in person but will be turned off from it if you just state on the app right off the bat. Now I’m not advocating for lying and if she asks you for your intentions you should be honest but I think you turn off a lot of women unnecessarily by just telling them you just want to fuck them before you ever meet in person to develop c…	/r/seduction	10/03/26 11:17 PM
–	"The bar is in hell"... yeah for attractive men I do find that a lot of women nowadays have a "I love being mean to men" type of personality. It can be very off-putting. Sometimes its from genuine burnout from lots of awful encounters with men but sometimes it feels like its a cultural thing they're adopting from their friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/26 04:19 PM
27	Be very careful of who you tell about game. The “covert rules of seduction” lmao. I do very well with women, I just don’t need validation enough to post on Reddit about how my “cuck” coworker is totally mad at how chad i am for “honeydicking” a woman in the office	/r/seduction	08/01/26 04:31 PM
83	Be very careful of who you tell about game. I thought this sub was finally rid of cringe PUA lingo and self-aggrandizing The sole intent of this post was to brag on the internet about how you’re fucking your coworker	/r/seduction	08/01/26 03:57 PM
1	Girl that I like has genital herpes. Is it worth continuing? It is insane. Patients will have worse reactions to herpes diagnoses than cancer diagnoses	/r/seduction	23/12/25 08:13 PM
3	Girl that I like has genital herpes. Is it worth continuing? If I liked them enough yeah I would, especially if she took antivirals. I’d also use condoms until the relationship became serious and long-term	/r/seduction	23/12/25 08:08 PM
11	Girl that I like has genital herpes. Is it worth continuing? To play devil’s advocate to the other posts here: Something like 70% of the population has HSV-1 and 15-20% has HSV-2. The vast majority of people who have HSV do not know they have it because in most people it’s asymptomatic. So if you’re casually dating/sleeping around (like much of the people in this subreddit) then you’re coming into contact with HSV very regularly anyways and there’s a good chance you may even have it yourself. They don’t even test for asymptomatic HSV on STI panels anymore…	/r/seduction	23/12/25 07:53 PM
3	20M in college and I want to hookup with a milf/cougar any advice? In my experience most “cougar” aged women (late 30s-early 50s) aren’t really into very young men in the 18-24 age range. I didn’t start getting attention or success from women 10+ years older than me until I got into my late 20s, and even then these women told me they generally preferred men around their own age. Not saying there aren’t older women out there that are into sleeping with very young men but I think they’re in the minority and you’ll generally be more successful with women around yo…	/r/seduction	26/10/25 05:46 PM
1	How to get rid of STDs paranoia? This is a very common OCD theme. I would find a therapist who is experienced with treating OCD and possibly think about going on an SSRI if the response to therapy is inadequate	/r/seduction	26/10/25 02:24 AM
8	How much does big arms/good physique help pulling on a night out? It helps a ton and the guys here saying otherwise are kidding themselves. I’ve dated while I was skinnier and also dated when I put on a lot of muscle and filled out my frame and the difference is night and day.	/r/seduction	25/10/25 02:51 PM
3	Juggling various women and I don’t feel anything There’s nothing wrong with it (considering you’re not lying to these women or leading them on) but at least once a week we get these posts on here of men trying to paint this romantic image of themselves as the womanizer who secretly hates it and wants real love when in actuality they love the lifestyle of juggling multiple women and are trying to score internet points by subtle bragging about how women find them so appealing	/r/seduction	17/10/25 09:07 PM
12	Juggling various women and I don’t feel anything Oh no another “so many women want me and I don’t like it wahhh woe is me” post. Bullshit. You secretly love juggling these women. If you didn’t then you would be cutting things off with them and not continuing to fuck around with them.	/r/seduction	17/10/25 02:54 PM
10	How do you feel about the idea of audio recording dates to review how you came across and remember details? This is cringe	/r/seduction	09/09/25 10:31 PM
66	At what age did you find yourself pulling the most women? Same, I truly think 30s is the golden age of dating for most guys if you stay in shape, take care of yourself, and are decently successful. A big reason being why is that you are attractive to the widest age range of women at this age; women anywhere from 21-45ish will be open to dating men in their 30s	/r/seduction	05/09/25 02:10 AM
19	Older waitress flirted with me at a salsa club, gave me her number, but our 'date' felt like I was just a ride for her — what happened? Inviting a taken woman over to your place is a very bad idea, especially in the age of widespread location sharing	/r/seduction	07/08/25 02:41 AM
7	What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true? Your wife is in the minority. Women generally care way less about body count than men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 01:57 PM
7	What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true? Based on talking to gay friends, the bi stigma is not nearly as bad in the gay community as it is in the lesbian community.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 01:55 PM
4	What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true? Most men I’ve met (barring the super religious and conservative) have no problems dating bi women. Most women I’ve met are not ok with dating bi men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 01:53 PM
1	When setting up a date with a girl, do you pick her up at home or meet at the venue? It’s understandably very nerve wracking for women to have a guy they don’t yet to pick them up. Always opt to meet at the place for the first date	/r/seduction	29/03/25 03:39 AM
76	New here. Is “Seduction” in this sub the same as PUA in the old days, or is it seduction as in social competence and reading vibes and energies? This sub used to be a PUA sub back in the day but in recent years, it's been much more grounded and much less toxic in its advice given. Also way less sexist towards women than it used to be. There is much more of a focus now on being socially competent and naturally playing off energy like you said, rather than the robotic gamesmanship you used to see in PUA communities. Also, the cringe PUA terminology you used to see ("kino" "HB9" "FR") is largely gone.	/r/seduction	27/03/25 11:18 PM
13	liberal vs conservative states for day game, which do you prefer? It’s really more of an urban/rural divide as major urban city centers in tend to be liberal and attract liberal people regardless of the state’s dominant political party. That being said I’ve dated rural maga women and urban liberal/feminist women and I heavily prefer the latter. I’m definitely biased as a more liberal person myself but conservative Trump supporting women in my experience tend to be either 1. Batshit insane 2. Dumb as rocks 3. Have children by age 22 4. Are racist. Or any combo …	/r/seduction	28/02/25 03:32 AM
19	How Nice Guys can be more mysterious Excellent advice in a sub usually full of bad advice. Good job.	/r/seduction	24/02/25 05:10 PM
54	How to get Laid or find a FWB in a Rural Area? Gotta move to the city. Being single in a rural area is awful.	/r/seduction	20/02/25 04:53 PM
11	To all the experienced guys here: Does casual sex increase happiness? Agreed. The happiest and most fulfilled I have been sexually has been in these exact situations.	/r/seduction	20/02/25 04:38 PM
16	To all the experienced guys here: Does casual sex increase happiness? Absolutely. The happiest times of my life have been when im single and independent, pursuing my own goals while still being able to explore with a variety of women sexually. It's also a massive ego and self-esteem boost to have multiple women wanting you sexually.	/r/seduction	20/02/25 04:35 PM
3	Dating apps are still hard even for someone with hundreds of matches Yep same here. With online dating there’s usually a clear mutual attraction with matches and clear romantic availability status (no husband/bf). So generally makes things straightforward. Been with dozens of women over the past 2 years with 95% of them coming off apps. Also my text game is good which usually leads to dates. I could probably do even better with approaching irl but I’m in my 30s now, generally an introvert and I don’t like going out anymore or randomly approaching strangers, and I…	/r/seduction	18/02/25 07:38 PM
33	Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number. Yeah these women just weren’t interested in you. If they were interested they would’ve approved the follow request and followed you back.	/r/seduction	24/01/25 06:28 PM
2	Inviting a girl to your place within the first 3 dates? “Wanna split a bottle of wine at my place tonight?” “I’m cooking tonight at my place, wanna join?” It’s not rocket science, don’t overthink it.	/r/seduction	19/01/25 12:10 AM
1	How can I have sex with this person?? What % of this community do yall think is on the spectrum? This post and some of the comments have me thinking at least 60%	/r/seduction	15/12/24 09:44 PM
8	What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events? Yep, I live in a top 10 US city by population and most of the singles events here are male-dominated. At speed dating events, male tickets sometimes often sell out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 06:30 PM
–	The age gap stigma is a silly modern social construct which has been perpetuated by womens jealousy and is actually a product of hookup culture + feminism If you think a 28 year old woman dating a 19 year old guy is wrong, especially to the point of “ripping her to shreds” online you are legitimately mentally ill. In fact your entire post sounds unhinged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 01:05 AM
11	Men should (and are) show less sympathy towards women's issues in dating and in general The incel thought process and fantasies are hilarious to read	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 04:09 AM
42	Our Time for Dating Is Running Out Faster Than You Think Too rambly. Most guys only get more attractive and desirable as we age. If you go by online dating data, women peak in attractiveness/desirability at age 20 while men peak in their 40s. Honestly my advice to young men would be to not worry too much about settling down while young, because if you stay in shape and are successful in your career you will kill it in your 30s with dating. I’m 30 now and the amount of looks and female attention I get is literally 10x more than when I was age 20.	/r/seduction	09/11/24 05:45 PM
–	Relationships ruin men Lmao if he has gotten dumped 5 times in a row it’s time to do some looking inward	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 05:38 PM
84	Direction needed for neighbourhood milf Don’t be a fucking idiot. Going after a married woman who is your next door neighbor is not only asking for disaster, but is also complete scumbag behavior.	/r/seduction	04/11/24 06:42 PM
24	Same Day Lay After Flight To Japan Why do all of these type of posts always include saying: “Guys around me thought I was the fucking man and started openly applauding at my game but they’re all losers lol.” “One dude said I was the most charismatic and best person I ever met and offered for me to fuck his wife” “The girl said I was the most manliest manly masculine man she had ever talked to.” It’s like yall have to perform self-fellatio every other sentence. I can feel the insecurity pouring off the screen.	/r/seduction	04/11/24 12:16 AM
64	What are some of your go-to witty remarks? This is the only good and non-autistic answer in this post	/r/seduction	02/11/24 02:26 AM
15	I'm a total mess with women. 24 yo M. As a fellow med student I’d bet money you’re just not a good conversationalist. I’ve known so many med student guys who wonder why they’re bad with women. Then I see them talk to girls and all they can talk about is med school or themselves and I see the hoes getting scared in real time.	/r/seduction	01/11/24 07:58 PM
17	5 Steps To Getting Laid On Tinder Generally always true when it comes to getting consistent casual sex as a male	/r/seduction	27/10/24 03:57 AM
27	5 Steps To Getting Laid On Tinder This is some of the best advice I’ve seen on this sub in a while. However, of course, you gotta be fairly physically attractive to pull this off with some consistency	/r/seduction	27/10/24 02:18 AM
1	How do you lads get women through Instagram or Facebook. I don’t know where all these assumptions are coming from. I never said use insta as your primary tool nor did I say forgo your in-person game for instagram. Simply use it as a supplementary tool. There’s been multiple times where I’ve followed a girl I met or knew IRL, things faded out for some reason, then I reconnected with her months/years later over commenting on her story or something and we ended up hanging out. If I had just gotten her number that would’ve probably never happened. Instagr…	/r/seduction	11/10/24 11:09 PM
17	Ethical rules in dating multiple women? 50-80% of the US population has HSV-1, most people are asymptomatic and don’t know they have it. Avoiding herpes is pretty much impossible if you’re dating. They don’t even test for asymptomatic herpes in routine STD tests anymore because the tests cause more trouble than they solve (person finds out they have HSV-1 antibodies since most people have it, and they proceed to have a mental breakdown and accuse their spouse of cheating).	/r/seduction	11/10/24 06:38 PM
47	Ethical rules in dating multiple women? Never feel guilty unless the exclusivity talk comes up and is agreed upon or can be explicitly inferred from the situation (agreed upon to be bf and gf, yall are saying yall love each other, yall are living together, etc.) Use condoms	/r/seduction	11/10/24 06:16 PM
8	How do you lads get women through Instagram or Facebook. As usual guys here are overthinking it. IG is a great dating tool. You can follow women you know and over time create organic interaction and convo by liking and commenting on her stories. This can and will lead to dates and hangouts. You can also see what girls have interest in you if they are consistently liking your pics and stories. You don’t have to be rich or famous either. Just have a decently well put together collection of pics that shows you’re a normal person and not a weirdo/creep.	/r/seduction	06/10/24 05:52 PM
29	Does Therapy help with the game? Lol I’m just imagining being a therapist listening to people talk about their darkest traumas all day and then your new client comes in asking you how to get laid.	/r/seduction	28/09/24 05:42 PM
1	Advice Lots of younger women will send guys snaps they have no romantic interest in because they like the attention and validation. That's what it sounds like what's going here, especially since she ignored your request to hang out. A girl who was genuinely interested in you would be eager to set up a meeting if you suggested it.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 06:33 PM
1	Hinge prompt feedback No it’s not, talk to any woman on the apps and they’ll tell you they get tons of messages from guys who make things sexual on the app before even meeting and how they immediately find it a turnoff. If the girl hints at something sexual on the app or if her profile is very sexual then go for it but in general it’s a bad idea.	/r/seduction	05/09/24 12:41 PM
2	Hinge prompt feedback It absolutely will not come across that way. Rule #1 of dating apps is to not make any type of sexual references whatsoever.	/r/seduction	05/09/24 03:34 AM
5	Hinge prompt feedback Lmao this has gotta be a troll	/r/seduction	05/09/24 03:30 AM
3	Insecure You need therapy my friend	/r/seduction	04/09/24 01:36 PM
83	How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guy It’s going to be tricky to get casual partners consistently (especially off of apps) if you don’t physically stand out in any particular way. Think buff, tall, handsome face or any combo of the 3. Women get casual sex offers constantly (talk to any female friend of at least average attractiveness who’s on a dating app and see how many likes and offers for sex she gets) so they’re generally gonna be picky about who they choose to have casual sex with. My best advice would be to work on your physi…	/r/seduction	25/08/24 10:36 PM
44	Looking for flings, hookups; but all the women i meet want a relationship. The real answer is that women value straight-up physical attractiveness above all else when it comes to casual relationships. Game comes secondary to that. If you aren't a standout guy in physical attractiveness, getting casual relationships with women is going to be a challenge. Women have their pick of the litter when it comes to casual relationships because they have endless opportunities for it, they generally want tall and buff/muscular men as casual partners. I'm very tall but used to be v…	/r/seduction	23/08/24 05:26 PM
2	Men who couldn't get any women to talk to them to getting women to sleep with you, what changed? You're right, the bar isnt that high for most men. If you present yourself well and put on muscle it'll go a long way. A lot of the guys who get stuck in the blackpill ideology arent even unattractive either. If you look at incel/ForeverAlone communities a lot of the guys are of average or even above-average attractiveness. They just find comfort in this perpetual self-defeating ideology.	/r/seduction	16/08/24 10:22 PM
11	When and how should you ask a girl to come over and watch a movie? I used to think the same as you, that if I just invited women over they would get offended and it would kill my chances. I eventually just started straight up asking women and was surprised how many said yes. Some would say no and suggest going on a date first, but I never had a woman be so offended by me asking that she stopped talking to me. Just go for it and ask. The key for success is to establish good rapport first over text and give off the impression that you aren't a creep or dangerous.…	/r/seduction	16/08/24 10:00 PM
3	Anyone here get good at game in their 30s? Yeah dating in your 30s as a guy is overall tremendously better than the 20s for multiple reasons: Most guys peak in physical attractiveness to women in their 30s-early 40s based on studies. Wider age range of women willing to date you. Women anywhere from early 20s to 40s will date men in their 30s. Usually more established in career/life in your 30s, which increases your perceived attractiveness/ability to provide. Better conversational skills, more emotional maturity, more confidence. My game…	/r/seduction	15/08/24 12:16 AM
0	If new to an area, is it okay to ask the girl about potential date spots? Girls want decisiveness. Offering a place and time is always the best move.	/r/seduction	07/08/24 05:53 AM
3	How to stop Catching Feelings when dating? I’ll echo what other guys have said and say don’t lose that feeling. It’s good to be intimate and affectionate during sex, even if it’s with a casual partner. As you get more experience with women you’ll start getting a better idea of what you truly want in a spouse which will result in you not getting too attached to girls that don’t fully fit that standard or girls that don’t care about you. You have to understand that the girl moving away doesn’t always mean something inherently wrong with yo…	/r/seduction	26/07/24 02:44 AM
3	Do you think formerly promiscuous women are mostly disadvantaged in the dating market at least when it comes to getting commitment /marriage? This is the dumbest take I have ever read on this sub. Go read the comments of literally any famous hot women’s instagram. Have you ever had irl guy friends? Talking about how hot some famous women are comes up all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 04:21 PM
3	Do you think formerly promiscuous women are mostly disadvantaged in the dating market at least when it comes to getting commitment /marriage? Yeah none of the guys in my graduate program have problems finding women. A handful of them punch well above their weight too. Women are starting to heavily outpace men in education and they want men who are similarly educated and ambitious. Educated women don’t want a bartender or warehouse worker who spends all his free time doing drugs and playing video games.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/24 04:11 PM
2	Have you ever known of a man who is cute, and personable yet was a #totalfail at casual sex or hookup culture? It’s an experience thing for a lot of people. The more casual sex you have, typically the better you get at it. Both with getting women to do it with you and avoiding the emotional attachment. It’s no surprise your buddy is falling for ONS after jumping straight into casual sex when all his previous romantic experience has been LTRs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 10:09 PM
1	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy Great job addressing my points! I hope one of your loved ones never opens up to you about how they needed pharmaceutical treatment for mental illness, based on how you view people who take them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 12:17 AM
1	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy Based on your initial reply I can tell you lack reading comprehension. It's ok, let me help you out and reiterate that I was not simping for big pharma in my argument defending the use of antidepressants in certain people. I mentioned specifically tricyclic antidepressants/wellbutrin/SSRIs are almost all generic now. There are no drug reps hawking SSRIs to doctors anymore. They are not name-brand manufactured by big pharmaceutical companies. Their patents have expired and they are manufactured b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 11:28 PM
-1	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy Wow you’re so right dude, those pharma companies (who don’t even sell SSRIs anymore now that most of them have had their patents expire) are making an absolute KILLING off of those $9 generic Lexapro prescriptions. RAKING in money. And yes? Obesity is one of the worst things you can be for your health. If Ozempic helps an obese person reach a healthy BMI then that’s a massive morbidity and mortality benefit. Don’t take antibiotics next time you have an infection. Good ol big pharma is just pushi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 07:59 PM
4	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy It is not an extremely minuscule amount of people. Once again it is clear you have never worked in any kind of healthcare nor have you had severe depression run in your family. I see patients regularly who have told me antidepressants saved their lives. Many of them tried therapy extensively before trying medication. Antidepressants do help people. You could argue that they’re somewhat overprescribed and I might agree with you, but you’re not making that argument; you’re saying they are only eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 10:56 PM
6	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy You said the only reason anyone would need anti-depressants is because they didn’t pursue proper mental healthcare. When it is blatantly obvious to anyone who has ever worked in healthcare that there are tons of patients who pursue therapy, exercise, live a good life and even after all that still require medication for their depression/anxiety/mental illness/etc. You’re just straight up wrong and you have no idea what you’re talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 10:49 PM
5	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy Absolutely not. Mental illness has an absolutely massive genetic component to it. The vast majority of mental illness is inherited in some form.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 10:33 PM
7	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy Absolutely false. Some people have such huge genetic predispositions to mental illness that they can live a perfect life and still get struck by depression and mental illness. For some of these people antidepressants can absolutely be a lifesaver.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:24 PM
13	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy Laughably bad advice from the red pill guys yet again. Lifting weights is great and everyone should do it but it’s not gonna cure OCD, bipolar, personality disorders, severe depression, etc. Men should go to therapy if they feel they need to. It helped me a ton and I’m a better communicator because of it and more in tune with my emotions. Edit: Getting downvoted for saying therapy helps lmao, this sub is brain broken. Keep telling your depressed male friends to man up and lift weights and contin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:22 PM
7	Older women over 30 and revenge fantasy You’re right that the obvious answer is men don’t seek out mental healthcare or any kind of healthcare as much compared to women. It’s seen as a sign of weakness to seek mental health care as a man. We bottle up our emotions and don’t talk to anyone about it until one day we put a gun to our head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/24 09:21 PM
2	Most guys need to stand out more, however guys over here overestimate how much they need to stand out You insinuated in your comment that having a men’s support group would inherently get negative reactions from women, did you not? I’m telling you that if you have spent any amount of time talking to women in real life you would realize virtually none of them would have a problem with this. And I do not attend this guy’s support group so I couldn’t tell you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 08:24 PM
2	Most guys need to stand out more, however guys over here overestimate how much they need to stand out Lmao more manufactured victimhood. If by female agenda you mean not calling them sluts/whores/bitches and not talking about how women are the bane of society then yeah you’re probably right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 08:19 PM
5	Most guys need to stand out more, however guys over here overestimate how much they need to stand out You’re manufacturing victimhood. 95+% of women would see absolutely no problem with men’s support groups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 08:13 PM
5	Most guys need to stand out more, however guys over here overestimate how much they need to stand out I have talked to countless women who have said they wish more men did exactly this, find spaces to talk about their emotions with other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 08:07 PM
1	Most guys need to stand out more, however guys over here overestimate how much they need to stand out A lot of your post is exactly right. If you are an average looking guy but you have good social skills and you put yourself in social/workspaces where there are women, you will eventually get laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 08:00 PM
2	Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women? Great job not reading my comment fully. There are average dudes that play bass in cover bands in big cities that fuck hot women, there are male servers at restaurants who are complete losers but have great social skills/sense of humor who fuck hot women, go to any hospital and you can find a completely average looking male nurse who is fucking hot nurses simply because they know how to socialize well with women and show an ounce of ambition in something. If you are Lizzo, you’re dating a guy tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 07:43 PM
3	Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women? I’m using an obvious example but the point I’m trying to make is that mediocre and average looking men can land very attractive women if they are good in other areas of their character. Really funny but average looking men land hot women all the time, average men who are really skilled in certain, attractive hobbies like being a musician land hot women all the time, men who are average but successful land hot women all the time. Meanwhile as a woman you can be super successful, funny, skilled, h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 07:17 PM
1	Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women? Men absolutely do care. Physical appearance matters exponentially more for women than men. Ugly but successful men land supermodel wives all the time (see Jay-Z, Luke Combs, Seal, etc.), not just celebrities but more attainable positions too. I’ve seen loads of ugly doctors with gorgeous wives. Meanwhile fat and/or ugly women celebrities or ugly women in power rarely end up with attractive men. No guy in this sub wants to date a fat, ugly chick. Your physical appearance restricts your upward dat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 06:51 PM
10	There is a certain irony behind the RPs line of logic of “young women have less baggage” when the RP encourages behaviors that give young women emotional baggage The red pill guys are complete hypocrites. They say the IG model type girls are ruining dating yet that’s exclusively the type of women they go after. Many of them say having a family is one of the most important things as a man but many of them are in their 40s-50s living the club lifestyle continuing to chase young IG model women and they have no children. Very few of these guys practice what they preach. Hate on the TradCon guys all you want (and I have lots of issues with them) but at least …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 06:29 PM
2	Why are men seemingly uninterested in marriage now? Online dating. Something like the top 20% of men get 80% of the likes from women. For a lot of those 20% of men there’s not a ton of incentive to settle down with average/above average women if you’re getting lots of attention from women. I think the solution is that women need to start being honest and realistic about their own attractiveness and stop only giving chances to the top 10% of men (who are just going to use you for casual sex unless you’re also in the top 10% of attractiveness of wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/24 04:30 AM