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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | What are your dating dealbreakers?After a recent experience, if they claim 'Sapiosexual' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:46 PM |
| 15 | This so random!!This is a real fetish... I knew a guy who had it and liked watching women inhale through the nose...... 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:40 PM |
| 5 | I got a "wyd" DM from a female friend I haven't heard from in foreverI've gotten a lot more action on OLD today, I'm assuming they think we will be extra thirsty and off guard?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 12:49 AM |
| 11 | We need men for what, exactly? All the help they offer us?Love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:13 AM |
| 121 | We need men for what, exactly? All the help they offer us?Thanks to learning how to fix planes, I figured out I could fix basically anything in a house. For anything else, I'll call the property manager. And then I'll stand there watching the repair person so I can learn something. Forget being helpless. I'm childfree, but if I ever had a daughter I would teach her everything I know about tools, home repair, mechanics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 04:57 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜Full disclosure: I can't smell... but I've always recieved crazy amounts of compliments with pretty much any Thierry Mugler scent. Particularly Angel and Alien. Oh how I wish I knew what I'm missing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 12:15 AM |
| 14 | What FDS principle has helped you the most?Don't tell them about your mental health issues as it can be used against you. Prior I actually thought I owed them this info. Almost UPFRONT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:31 AM |
| 16 | Ya love to see it 🗞 💁🏼♀️I'd also like to thank the mods here in general. Sometimes I'll get a notification of a response I can already see its some jerk but it disappears with a quickness, which makes me feel so much more comfortable posting here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 11:44 PM |
| 16 | Ya love to see it 🗞 💁🏼♀️And I thought I was proud when my favorite FB group This Cat Is C H O N K Y was advertised in Times Square 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 08:54 PM |
| 42 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!I knew I was in the right place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 10:35 AM |
| 112 | What’s the deal with military men?As a female veteran I'm telling you avoid avoid avoid. The sexual assault levels alone were absolutely alarming per capita. Most of them cheated when we went overseas. The toxic masculinity is off the charts and they have serious hero complexes about themselves even though a large portion of them never see combat and if they do, that's nothing you wanna deal with. They tend to hold the worst politics. They will constantly be traveling leaving you behind which will take a toll on everything. If y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 07:21 AM |
| 25 | The absolute river of SHIT that are the 38 to 49 year old LVMs on OLD. They smashed headfirst into THE WALL.33-43 is my current range and I'm already questioning my attraction to men in general. It's literally like 1/200 I find attractive. That's pretty bad. There's only 1 in the past 2 years of OLD that's gotten my motor going and hes a LVM anyway. I know my range mentioned is lower but my god do they age terrible where I live. Even baldness happens younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 06:07 AM |
| 26 | Somebody needs to hear this... life without you is his punishment.Unfortunately I think mine is happy with his new one, while I've been wading through absolute trash that are even lower value than he was this whole time since the breakup. There's a serious karma imbalance between he and I relationship wise lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 05:32 AM |
| 3 | I'm not wrongI literally have no sense of smell, but even I imagine the stench of chemicals when I see these fly by night gift sets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 08:26 PM |
| 13 | Anyone here dealt with their issues relating to emotional neglect?Sigh.... my parents both had rough childhoods. They did not deal and in turn it caused them to be severely emotionally neglectful. It completely has informed my life and relationships since then and I've been doing the most reflection on it the past 2 years. I have forgiven them which was a big step because it meant I realized it was not me or my fault how I was treated. Realizing it's not you is half the battle. That really opened the door to me to work on how I see the world and myself now. I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 14 | You are not better than your friends if you have a man.One thing I've noticed..... every single one of my married or coupled friends has problems or is unsure of the relationship. But in the same breath will be harping on me about finding a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:58 PM |
| 9 | These boots were made for walkin'!Yaassss! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 12:36 AM |
| 9 | You Don't Own MeI also get hype on These Boots Were Made For Walking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Did anyone else have older ADULT male online “friends” that you look back on and cringe?I had one, but I'm fairly certain he was not into women and he got me an autographed soap opera magazine of my favorite Passions actress at a Passions convention. I met him through running a site for said actress. This was late 90s/2000. Aaaaaand now that I'm thinking about it that means I had given him my address..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 10:29 PM |
| 17 | This website has helped me determine if a man was married. Here is how it works.It's also worth it to run their full name through your county (and maybe surrounding counties) court docket online. You can find marriage and divorce, other stuff and it's free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 08:57 PM |
| 73 | Ladies, THIS is how men view you when you do wifey shit before they've earned it. Stop embarrassing yourselves with simple bitch nonsense.This is a pretty eye opening book in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 05:46 AM |
| 59 | Can We Talk About Lesbian Pickmeishas who are always outraged on behalf of men and have “advice” for straight women that’s always about settling for less? They are NOT your friends.Looks like her account is only a few months old and a lot of her comments tend to be removed from PinkPill for being all But Whataboutisms. Including one removed from FDS. I'm calling troll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 01:48 AM |
| 23 | Is it not near impossible to find men who dont watch porn?I think I'm like a 2 on the Kinsey scale but never cared to act on it, but something tells me one day in my 50s I'm gonna say screw it and find myself a nice lady friend to have cat children with and do art. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:29 AM |
| 45 | Is it not near impossible to find men who dont watch porn?If you google porn usage in men, Google's top statistic is 98% of men have reported watching porn in the past 6 months as per one study. I guess take that as you will as far as being the truth but it would not surprise me. Its everywhere, easy and free and pretty much encouraged these days. I can see the degeneracy seeping in through dating apps because even just the difference between 2014 (last time I was on) to now I see waaaay more profiles now professing their needs for Dom/sub, cuckolding,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 11:59 PM |
| 6 | Naomi gets it!I've always gravitated towards traditionally masculine things, the family 'business' was joining the military so I did at 18 and became an aircraft mechanic. I noticed a lot of pickmeisha behavior from women troops who were trying to survive and be accepted because of how cutthroat they are to women. (I still cant believe I put myself through 14 years of the worst of male behavior. If you can imagine it, it happened to me or I saw it with my own eyes) There was a huge culture of pitting the few … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:55 PM |
| 5 | Post your list of physical no-go's in men (Straight up honest thread)Butt Chins or prominent Quagmire like chins in general Bald Beards and moustaches Jacked up teeth Overly sweaty damp looking types Excess body hair Tattoos on the hands or above the collar bones Those gauges that stretch giant holes in your ears Cheap Walmart serial killer glasses Overly masculine faces in general i.e. heavy brow bone and giant block heads, I like softer faces. (Probably why I watch so many K Dramas now) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:59 AM |
| 30 | So this happened...They really mention THIS sub the most, even over PinkPill and the others | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 11:18 PM |
| 17 | Best and Worst Cities for HVMOklahoma City is abysmal for men. They also physically age here at an alarming rate because taking care of yourself isn't considered manly here. Doesn't help its full of "I'm not a feminist because" Pickmeisha women that happily marry and procreate with them. I'm not a native to Oklahoma but am kind of stuck here now due to cost of living and VA hospital access or else I'd be back on the east coast yesterday. I'm fine dying here single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:18 AM |
| 24 | Thank you to this sub, for helping me start spring cleaning earlyI've only been here a month and its completely changed my way of thinking and doing for the better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 11:42 PM |
| 3 | LOL some lurker decided to sexualize my dog after I posted on here saying how happy I was that I adopted her. Talk about projection!I had one sexualize my cats because I had 'Has cats' on my Plenty of Fish profile and I ignored his message. Male depravity. Makes you wonder what they do to THEIR pets behind closed doors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 09:23 PM |
| 31 | Another man who “found out” the woman he’s dating is an FDS member 🙄I feel like when there are these posts where some dude expresses horror and OuTrAgE at finding out about FDS, it's fake and just them trying to draw negative attention and trolls to the sub by making up stories. All it does is end up leading more women here. That's pretty much how I found it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 02:25 AM |
| 14 | OLD : Immediately asks for a number.Also keep in mind they will tell lies like "I'm not getting notifications on this app, can I have your number?" to try to get your number faster. I've noticed this is the number one lie they tell to get it. Edit to add: the classic "it's easier for me to text than use this app, can I get your number?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 3 | What's your "power" makeup?I seldom wear any now but when I do it could be a red eyeshadow or an electric blue eyeliner. I love bright colors on the eye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:46 AM |
| 32 | Hot Tip for weeding out LVM on OLD - cross-check their profile on seeking arrangementsCross checking whose on fetlife and what their weird kinks are has been very eye opening too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 02:14 PM |
| 12 | Listen to Your Body - Strange physical and mental manifestationsI have a panic disorder as it is, but when I was in a Forever Girlfriend relationship with my ex everything seemed fine except I would wake up with horrendous panic attacks monthly where I basically had amnesia for a few minutes. Going on 2 years post breakup and I haven't had one since. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or are the WORST, sketchiest LVM on Plenty of Fish? I had a shockingly bad experience...Plenty of Trash. I'm on there but don't really use it and forget it until I get a message. The most recent was a guy whose opening line was how he was an addict living with his sponsor and how he doesn't drive and just got out of a serious relationship. Is that supposed to reel me in? It's also the app I've been most verbally and sexually harassed on. I block everyone now who messages me because of the high rate of hate messages I got from men who were angry I ignored their first message. Edit t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 06:23 PM |
| 22 | No female friends?It took a few tries but I actually made a close friend on Bumble BFF so I recommend it to anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:22 PM |
| 8 | i promise i quit OLD now. there is NOTHING in my profile that indicates an interest in bdsm, just that i’m a feminist. ALSO SIS THAT HAIR. went down well past his shoulders and thin on top!No matter how many times/places I state monogamous on my profile, I get polys messaging me to join their throuples etc. These men don't care and don't listen. I get the weird kinksters too even though my profile is very vanilla. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 05:51 AM |
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