drusteeby Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Rant: I don't see the point of doing night game He's a glad sorcerer.	/r/seduction	12/02/22 08:48 PM
4	Can’t get hard (28M> There are also people who can smoke a pack a day and not get cancer. Also respectfully, you're 50. You didn't have instant porn on demand at your fingertips when you were 13.	/r/seduction	03/01/22 04:35 AM
1	Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me. Or maybe she needed to cancel on everyone cuz something else actually came up?	/r/seduction	20/07/21 03:04 AM
4	If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined quality You have to redefine success. If my goal is to have fun it doesn't matter what the dice roll is.	/r/seduction	06/06/21 04:39 PM
1	What does it mean? “ok I hope all is good." Of course you do, you don't need to say it. "Let me know when you’re free so we can arrange a date” This line alone will work wonders, try it out on your next match. Try suggesting a date location first, something you both like to do. Guy: "So you like walking in the park, eh?" Girl: "Yeah it's one of my hobbies" Guy: "Me too, when are you free?" That's all it takes. Remember, you didn't fail, you just found someone incompatible if that ends up being the case.	/r/seduction	04/06/21 10:58 PM
15	If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined quality But success and failure are not 100% dependent on us as you claim in the last parah. Wrong, it's the outcome that we have no control over, I decide if I was successful or not. Sorry for the bluntness	/r/seduction	04/06/21 10:27 PM
5	What does it mean? Is it normal for us as guys though to wonder what we did wrong and overthink any possible why reason however small it is. Yep. It seems counter intuitive but the most attractive thing is to walk away. It shows you have options (even if you don't at the moment) and have an abundance mindset.	/r/seduction	04/06/21 01:39 PM
28	How to build a social circle post college, especially one that will help me meet women? Look for classes in a hobby you're interested in, preferably locally.	/r/seduction	02/05/21 02:30 AM
1	I think someone has made a Artificial Intelligence to spam this subreddit Straight to the point, why waste time with pleasantries?	/r/seduction	01/05/21 08:03 PM
6	I think someone has made a Artificial Intelligence to spam this subreddit You're welcome, usually I charge for this verbal gold.	/r/seduction	01/05/21 04:28 PM
46	I think someone has made a Artificial Intelligence to spam this subreddit Thanks for noticing my maroon sweater, wanna bang? Thanks for noticing my maroon sweater, is this the train to your place or mine? Thanks for noticing my maroon sweater, it looks better on your floor. Thanks for noticing my maroon sweater, I was just noticing all of you. Thanks for noticing my maroon sweater, sex? Thanks for noticing my maroon sweater, I love you. Thanks for noticing my maroon sweater, but it's actually burgundy.	/r/seduction	01/05/21 04:12 PM
6	Meeting people without dating apps these days? 🖕🎣🖕	/r/seduction	28/04/21 03:11 AM
2	Meeting people without dating apps these days? Pretty sure that's directed at people that think otherwise. Translation: "If you don't think looks matter, they do, get over it"	/r/seduction	28/04/21 03:10 AM
17	I’m 27, a virgin, living at home, jobless, struggling with mental illness. I’m lonely and horny just like everyone else but idk where to start OLD = Online dating	/r/seduction	25/04/21 05:20 AM
6	If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be? For the long haul, do you think low self esteem in a partner leads you to taking them for granted and losing interest? I like to think of it this way. It's hard for someone to love you when you don't love yourself. When you don't love yourself, you're less likely to do the things that truly make you happy. If you don't express what makes you happy your partner will be less likely to know about it and it'd extremely hard for a partner to provide that for you.	/r/seduction	24/04/21 06:46 PM
9	First cold approach in months, rejected but worth it It's a common problem with communicating with women. They don't take words at face value, they often think there's some hidden meaning because that's how they communicate.	/r/seduction	18/04/21 02:16 AM
10	First cold approach in months, rejected but worth it Good luck queen	/r/seduction	18/04/21 02:05 AM
10	First cold approach in months, rejected but worth it Not sure what your problem is?	/r/seduction	18/04/21 02:01 AM
9	First cold approach in months, rejected but worth it I don't even know if you are a women.	/r/seduction	18/04/21 01:59 AM
13	First cold approach in months, rejected but worth it Are you autistic?	/r/seduction	18/04/21 01:42 AM
17	First cold approach in months, rejected but worth it Youre adding intended meaning to words that doesn't exist. "I had to ask because I thought you were so beautiful" is what he was saying. No one is special, get off your high horse.	/r/seduction	18/04/21 01:11 AM
6	First cold approach in months, rejected but worth it No offense but you're not making any sense.	/r/seduction	18/04/21 01:01 AM
7	First cold approach in months, rejected but worth it He never said that though...	/r/seduction	18/04/21 12:46 AM
4	You'll never feel ready... so you fucking force yourself to take action anyway Unless you're a hollywood celebrity then it doesn't matter and it won't help you in the slightest.	/r/seduction	16/04/21 04:10 PM
1	Having a difficult time even justifying the effort of romance or dating. NMN causes liver problems and cancer. Source? All studies I've seen show it safe for human consumption up to 500mg per day, higher doses not tested. You will never be able to ear anything that will make you live significantly longer. It's against human/mamal biology You know there are mammals that live significantly longer than humans, right? Whales live to 200+. It's not "against" biology, whatever that means. Biology is an ever changing study of life, not a set of rules that life has to abide …	/r/seduction	15/03/21 06:19 AM
5	Having a difficult time even justifying the effort of romance or dating. It won't be in 20 years. Hell even now you can get Metformin, Berberine, NMN, and other supplements proven to reduce aging.	/r/seduction	15/03/21 04:54 AM
-1	Having a difficult time even justifying the effort of romance or dating. With anti-aging medicine significantly advancing you could easily live to 100 or longer.	/r/seduction	15/03/21 04:34 AM
6	My tinder date turned out to be taller than me. Good bot, this is the number I'm using from now on. 7 > 3	/r/seduction	06/03/21 05:38 PM
-1	Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date? Nah I'm gonna quit wasting my time like I would if I went on a date with you. The problem isn't your comfort level, the problem is that you think men that make you uncomfortable are automatically gropists.	/r/seduction	18/02/21 05:33 PM
1	Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date? I just told you, literally being closer without touching makes a huge difference for building rapport.	/r/seduction	18/02/21 05:24 PM
3	Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date? It's concerning that you automatically assume that someone that sits to your left or right is because "a man wants to get a feel". That's very rude and assumptive.	/r/seduction	18/02/21 05:21 PM
6	Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date? Directly across literally puts a physical barrier between you and your date that makes me uncomfortable. If I'm on a date with someone the first step is to get comfortable becoming closer, not necessarily touching, but proximity makes a huge difference. I like to sit at the corner of the bar stools for the same reason.	/r/seduction	18/02/21 04:58 PM
6	Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date? If it's dinner with a four table top I would sit not across but in the adjacent chair. It's more intimate than all the way across.	/r/seduction	18/02/21 04:51 PM
1	The false time constraint works - First approach Models by Mark Manson is the gold standard.	/r/seduction	16/02/21 05:59 AM
3	To any guy here suffering from confidence issues, a much needed read. Here's a pretty extensive write up on the subject: https://www.theschooloflife.com/thebookoflife/self-love/ EDIT: I'll add on, what "it's hard to love someone who doesn't love themselves" is really trying to say is that we tend to, as humans, project our subconscious thoughts into subconscious actions that are "readable" by other people subconsciously. If I'm constantly saying to myself "I'm an ugly POS", that will reflect in my mannerisms somehow. Maybe it's a slumped posture, maybe a timid voi…	/r/seduction	27/08/20 02:38 PM
3	Focus on yourself and only things that you actually can affect. It's only awkward if you make it awkward. You should sincerely have the attitude of "who cares?". If it's awkward for her, who cares, not your problem.	/r/seduction	01/08/20 09:23 PM
–	The Fear Of Rejection is a symptom of trying to Fit In Think of the old habits as water flowing down a river, moving easily because the water has eroded the rock away and it's dug into the ground. Learning a new habit is like attempting to create a new branch or tributary where the ground was at water level before. At first the water is going to resist going down a new path, because it's easier to go down the old path. But after time, if the new path is continuously taken, the trench gets deeper and deeper as the water erodes the rock away and it be…	/r/seduction	06/03/20 03:27 AM
13	I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest. Intellectualizing is a HUGE problem and you're not alone. Now I'm not religious, but I've read a lot about Buddhism, and one of his teachings paraphrases into "don't believe anything unless you know it to be true". Now ask yourself, do you really know what is taught in "Models" is true unless you experience it for yourself? Sure it may be believeably true for others, but unless it's true for yourself does it really matter?	/r/seduction	13/02/20 07:04 AM
2	You can truly never know if a girl is interested in you until you approach Well done Gents! Shall we retire to the tea room and discuss our reports of the field?	/r/seduction	06/02/20 06:28 AM
–	“Woman falls in love with you for everything that you are, she spends the relationship trying to change you into everything that you’re not. If she succeeds she will dump you for a guy who is what you were when she met you.” -Dante Nero Being open minded does not mean liking everything, being open minded means understanding and accepting reality. I had a girl I really liked break up with me a month or so ago, now we only dated for a few weeks but she cut it off and I was of course a bit upset and disappointed. Despite these feelings, I understood that it was something that was out of my control and accepted it for what it was and moved on fairly quickly. Open mindedness means understanding, you don't have to agree, just underst…	/r/seduction	17/12/19 05:07 AM
3	FIRST APPROACH EVEEEER!! Agreed, and I believe it's the same for girls too. Not everybody was born the way they look. I lost a lot of weight and it feels great when a girl says I look good. There are some things that people control about their looks and some things that they don't. The key is to have awareness about what they did choose and compliment that.	/r/seduction	06/08/19 12:48 AM
1	Had the best Cold Approach ever Actually actually? Or actually actually actually?	/r/seduction	20/01/18 12:56 AM
–	3 steps to stop giving a fuck (and stop seeking validation) With some videos on here the content can get lost in the boredom, totally NOT the case with yours. Well done, subscribed!	/r/seduction	11/04/17 12:11 AM