dryduneden Archive

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1	Do you understand what men mean when men say that the risk is not worth the reward, in reference to women today, and approaching women, and being in relationships with women? get a prenup? Better yet, don't get married in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 12:25 AM
–	Most women have no desire to use their bodies to soothe the egos of insecure men. I don't like when people ask "Why should I do X" questions when nothing stops them from not doing X	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 03:17 PM
2	Q4W: Which of the following is most concerning in a potential partner, and why? Which do you find most acceptable? I'd have to disagree. You can't "shake off" a past, but I don't see why it'd make critiquing and advising against replicating that past to be hypocritical. Acknowledging one's mistakes and experiences, and using those as foundations for advice is perfectly reasonable imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 11:31 PM
7	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior The post is about how being valued ONLY for long term viability isn't a compliment. The assertion that being valued for both is ideal is assumed, and the rest of the discussion is about in which case it is better to be only one and not the other. The thesis of the post is that being both > being only hookup material > being only marriage material. Cherrypicking only the "only hookup material > only marriage material" part to claim that men only care about being hookup material is fallacious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 11:16 PM
3	Q4W: Which of the following is most concerning in a potential partner, and why? Which do you find most acceptable? Why isn't it possible? That's completely wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 11:00 PM
1	Q4W: Which of the following is most concerning in a potential partner, and why? Which do you find most acceptable? It'd only be hypocritical if you were still in those ratios, no? It's not hypocritical to do something in the past and then move past it and advise against it in hindsight. Not to say that any of these ratios are necessarily worth advising against, but I do think framing it as hypocrisy is odd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 10:59 PM
5	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior Because being desired feels good. It's hard to describe but it's like someone trusting you as a go-to for a job. It just feels good. i don't think the social status value of ''getting a gf/hooking up'' changed so much from older gens changed this much, so why did this obsession start? It has, though. Women have more freedom than ever to choose partners or to go solo. There's a clearly different dynamic between getting married out of near-necessity and getting married out of chocie	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 10:33 PM
7	Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superior The problem is that this conversation completely lacks all nuance, thoufh. If someone can see a future with a person, that means they find them attractive enough to bang for the rest of their lives. Yeah, that's the case for most people. There's exceptions though, and people will look for indicators they may be in that exception. The men here: 😡😡 I only want to be valued as a sex god 😡😡 how dare you tell me you see other qualities in me besides pure throbbing sexual attraction Who is saying this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/24 10:26 PM
15	Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with? You're just rephrasing why he sees it as an insult	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 08:29 PM
1	Blue Pill men: Would you be happy being the marriage material or someone she would have casual sex with? In most cases they are. In the other minority of cases, they aren't. And the guy took the comment as implying that he's in that "other cases" category, which he doesn't want to be in	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 03:52 PM