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Red Pill Theorydsrpta/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 07:25 PM
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Red Pill Theorydsrpta/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 06:35 PM
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Every time I hear stuff like this it makes me wonder what type of "religion" the "Christians" were peddling. I had it drilled into me that our bodies are temples- what we eat and drink and allow/do can "desecrate" us. Matthew 15:10 After Jesus called the crowd to Him, He said to them, “Hear and understand. 11 It is not what enters into the mouth that defiles the man, but what proceeds out of the mouth, this defiles the man.” I also was raised that pleasures of the flesh are "wants" not "needs" a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 03:08 PM
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I don't doubt your statistics, but it doesn't define causation vs correlation. Stable people tend to get married, stable people tend to raise better children. If they didn't get married, they'd still be the same people, and would have the same children. Take off the bias against marriage for a second. Let's look at sexual partners (N count) and divorce risk: http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html The value of population statistics is the relative risk ratio.…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 11:20 PM
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Good observations. One of the things that Eph 5 harps on which most Christians don't focus on is the example that Paul uses to discuss Jesus' love for the Church. He says TWICE: love your wife as your own body (Eph 5: v28 v33). In other words, love your wife as yourself. Putting your wife above yourself goes against this. You are to love yourself first, and then to that extent love your wife. Likewise, the greatest command is.. love God AND love your neighbor as yourself. It's interesting becaus…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 06:52 PM
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Ah, crap my submission didn't show up cause of links. Let's try this again. The well being of your children is CORRELATED with marriage, not caused by marriage. Good people tend to get married, good people tend to have well off, low diseased, well educated children. Marriage is not the cause. Yes and no. Although correlation does not imply causation we also know that statistically children are more likely to experience family disruption and instability when they are born out of wedlock in cohabi…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 01:43 PM
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TRP, as it currently exists on reddit, is primarily geared towards an atheist world view. However, as you will note on the sidebar is one of the links (http://dalrock.wordpress.com/) and he provides statistical and insightful commentary into how feminized Christianity has become. Generally, when you encounter the RP you will view it in a particular lens. Some go pick up artist/spin plates, some go mens rights, some go MGTOW, and the split that is least often talked about is some go even more rel…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 01:36 PM
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The caveat is that that they actually need to "follow" their faith. Christianity preaches abstinence before marriage. Most "Christians" don't follow this. These are Christians in name only and typically the Christian manosphere calls them "churchians" However, the ones that do will also be adhering to other parts of their faith such as daily reading their bible, praying, being mentored or discipled, and other stuff like that. If you find me a Christian virgin it's likely that she is devout in ot…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 10:02 PM
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The well being of your children -- poverty, STDs, violence, teen pregnancy, high school and college graduation rates, emotional well being, etc. Look up the single mother vs single father vs 2 parents statistics. Arguably you can do this without getting married though, but you'll still get hit with child support either way if she decides to leave. Other than that, unless you're religious (which I am) nope.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 09:53 PM
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https://dalrock.wordpress.com/ Dalrock is one of the links on TRP's sidebar, and part of "Christian manosphere" as is my blog too. Donal Graeme's side bar has most of the links to the Christian manosphere blogs: https://donalgraeme.wordpress.com/
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 02:08 PM
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Could be gut biome related. The alcohol method is probably NOT the best way to do this as another person has stated. I'd go the antibiotic method which kills off most of the gut biome and then you can supplement a large amount of probiotics from supplements or good yogurts. Alternatively, the fecal transplant. Here's an example of the power of the fecal transplant going the wrong way because the patient got one from an obese woman: http://www.bbc.com/news/health-31168511 Could be FODMAPs. http:/…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 09:53 PM
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It's not "oneitis"... yet. This is like a man getting the phone number of an attractive woman. He texted her but she hasn't texted him back yet, and he's getting a bit worried. The opposite one oneitis is the alpha widow.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 02:40 AM
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That make sense. Oneitis would then just be one form of priority or idolization.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:12 PM
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Most human beings are religious by nature, and that will likely never change. If you think about it, society today is still 100% religious. The only difference is that instead of seeking the approval of a man called "God," men seek the approval of a woman called "wife." We're still religious, but we simply use a different word than "religion" to connote the same thing. Instead of saying "my religion," we say "my personal beliefs." Instead of laboring to win the approval of their God, men labor t…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 09:58 PM
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Yeah, Sunday "church" is like pretty much any other group. People come because they feel like they want to belong, or they come for the community, or they come for other various reasons like "doing the right thing" or living in fear of going to hell. It's not really different than any other group when it comes down it although it shouldn't be that way. The hypocrisy is the worst part in my opinion. I don't think significant prosperity in a civilization and Christianity can coexist -- love of mon…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:06 AM
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I was discussing this with some of my IRL friends. He grew up in a similar situation as you under parents that fear mongered and shamed him into being afraid of hell and everything. He's not a Christian anymore either. One of the things we discussed is the difference between performance and desire. When you "feel" like you have to perform to be "good" you're going to be motivated out of fear to do well. This is not something exclusive to Christianity as asian parents fear monger their kids into …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 01:45 AM
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They were both married prior to the rise of game and the manosphere.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 02:20 PM
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Something like this is easier to understand on epigenetics based on the title: Plastics Derived Endocrine Disruptors (BPA, DEHP and DBP) Induce Epigenetic Transgenerational Inheritance of Obesity, Reproductive Disease and Sperm Epimutations http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0055387 Epigenetic transgenerational inheritance: Should obesity-prevention policies be reconsidered? http://www.synesisjournal.com/vol2_g/2011.2_G18-26_Niculescu_abstract.html Obesity, in parti…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 06:23 PM
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No amount of working out will change your genetics Actually, this is not true: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epigenetics_of_physical_exercise
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 05:32 PM
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Late response. Of the ones listed on Donal's blog. For the Christian masculinity section. I would also include Donal who is Catholic: Alpha is Assumed -- Martel is protestant I think Calculated Bravery -- LDS Free Northerner -- Protestant From the Depths to the Wilderness -- Catholic Lamentably Sane -- not sure. Reflections on Christianity and the Manosphere -- myself, protestant non-denom Of the Christian blogs, recommended: Dalrock (who is on TRP sidebar) is a protestant. Brilliant social comm…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 01:43 AM
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Basically, my point is that perception matters in terms of what is "attractive" (and therefore "alpha" or "beta"), especially if you don't have an objective standard. Obviously, you have one for yourself and so you can potentially judge a relationship according to that, but that's not necessarily how she's going to judge it and she may not even want to judge it by anywhere close to that standard either. Hence, without objective standards (or in reality objective morality) we're all just saying r…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 08:05 AM
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I'm against violence in relationships. However, that argument doesn't fly. So here's some thought provoking questions: What "determines" a healthy relationship? Is it because you said so? You already said it can't be consensus because historically accepted doesn't fly. So what is it? Many would say RPW is hearkening back to 1950s. Why not the ability to slap women? Why can you pick and choose what to accept then? That's a slippery slope. Additionally, masculine dominance is attractive after all:…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 05:04 AM
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A bit of commentary first: Slapping a woman for being foolish was accepted and deemed manly and a good way to put a woman in her place so to speak up until the 1960s or so. Hence, the slapping of women even from various films: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZaEP51rtmg Now, instead of being called an alpha in this case for slapping her and when she didn't call down he realized it was a lost cause and dumping her, the vast majority in this comment field is calling him a beta loser who can't cont…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 04:44 AM
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Donal Graeme has pretty much THE list of Christian and Christian masculinity blogs on his sidebar if you're looking for manosphere bloggers: https://donalgraeme.wordpress.com/ I blog mostly on Christian masculinity (albeit I'm single atm looking to marry, aware of the considerable risks): https://deepstrength.wordpress.com/
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 04:16 AM
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You may want to look into the other M: meditation. If you go through pubmed and even google searches you'll see that meditation has profound positive effects on mood and anxiety issues. /r/meditation has some good stuff in their FAQ to get you started: http://www.reddit.com/r/Meditation/wiki/faq
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 06:04 AM
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We -- the Christian manosphere -- discussed this over on Dalrock's blog (one of the sidebar links) a few weeks ago if anyone is interested. https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2015/01/18/he-left-out-harlots/
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 12:08 AM
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In the mean time, how many guys could the firm have hired instead who would have made more of the opportunity? Yep. It's probably not as brutal as law, but the same thing applies with all types of professionals not just law: dentists, doctors, nurses, PTs, OTs, SLPs, etc. Sadly, there are grave predictions of medical personnel shortage as the baby boomers start to retire, but they keep admitting 55-60% women into medical school and the like often over more qualified men. lol.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 11:15 PM
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These are RP concepts that show you're pretty much making a mountain out of a molehill: You're projecting how a woman thinks onto him. Men don't marry women for money. What men and women bring to a relationship are often two different things. Wife goggles. If anything, what you're feeling is some unintended dread. Or in other words, the main thing that increased "SMV" of the husband should do for a wife is make her more enthusiastic about pleasing her man. Enthusiasm for each other is a good thi…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 11:04 PM
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Good post but it suffers from the two different ways that men and women view each other's sexual attractiveness: Mens' sexual valuation in women is based on their physical attraction. If there were say 5 women who were 8s, the fact that they are all 8s does not make them any less attractive. On the other hand, the criteria which women have attractiveness is based in inherently fluid and tied to hierarchical structures. Status and money are two obvious ones: one is always better, and one man alwa…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:28 AM
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I agree with you, but it's tangential to the point that was being made. The short generalization is that feminists are masculinized women (e.g. aping male behavior) even though as you explained their goals go beyond that. The feminists quotes show, if you reverse the genders, traditional stereotypical masculine behavior.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 10:12 PM
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Correct. Good job looking at the big picture!
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 08:30 PM
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This is a good point. Let me use your logic to go a bit further though which supports mine. The caricature is not the same as the real thing which is indeed correct. However, the caricature is simply a "blueprint" or "instructions" per se of a set of thinking. When such a blueprint of thinking is applied by the real thing (e.g. men) then it will help them grow into a masculine frame. However, I still think you are correct in the sense that there is some amount of dilution. My response to that is…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 08:17 PM
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I am also around here occasionally. http://deepstrength.wordpress.com/
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 04:27 AM
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If you think about it from a man's perspective of a nagging wife pretty much anything she says is going to come off as criticism to him. Even her compliments are going to feel like she is trying to butter him up, so that the next time when he does something that she doesn't like she can rip into him again. This is why getting through to a man with your words does nothing. You have to win him with your actions and behavior. Yes, that means every time he does something you don't agree with you hav…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 03:29 AM
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I'm not arguing per se, it's usually a discussion when something that's an agreement or voiced expectation (usually mutual), or similar was not met. I never raise my voice or call names, I take my time to understand his side and my side first alone, and make very certain my reasoning is logical and it's not a shit test before taking to him about something that bothers me, and otherwise in our relationship I am happy to follow his lead. It's just every now and then, I feel like he's not taking ou…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 02:51 AM
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This is the question that needs to be answered to give any type of viable answer. If not, then he can do whatever he wants. If so, then the answer is obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 04:38 PM
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Duh. Arch Sex Behav. 2013 Oct;42(7):1191-8. doi: 10.1007/s10508-012-0058-9. Epub 2012 Dec 22. Slimmer women's waist is associated with better erectile function in men independent of age. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23264164
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:48 PM
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The Internet tends to be notoriously harsh on women. In my opinion, due to porn oversaturation. Yet, there is porn of millions of different types because look at that men prefer a wide variety of tastes. To be quite frank though, it doesn't matter. If your SO is happy with your appearance then why are you worried? You're going to implode your relationship because of your dissatisfaction when there is no problem in the first place. Don't do that. There's always someone better looking. So what. In…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 03:15 AM
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I disagree with redpillshadow here. How you say it matters much more than what you say especially in an instance like this. "yeah, I shouldn't really have run the dishwasher if you wanted to take a bath." The key is DO NOT APOLOGIZE, First, imagine saying this with strong eye contact, a smirk and a teasing tone. Then, imagine saying this with no eye contact, head down, and apologetically in a soft, supplicating tone like you did something wrong. Remember, non-verbals are 85-90% of communication.…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 07:27 PM
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As opposed to the Norah Vincent who actually lived as a man for 18 months: http://abcnews.go.com/2020/Entertainment/story?id=1526982&singlePage=true Vincent says she's healed now and glad to be rid of Ned. But her views about men have changed forever. "Men are suffering. They have different problems than women have, but they don't have it better," she said. "They need our sympathy. They need our love, and maybe they need each other more than anything else. They need to be together." Ironically, …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 02:25 PM
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Him: "No it's okay. I will figure it out" Me: "Are you sure? I'll honestly be equally happy either way." Him: "No baby. I've let finances keep me from enjoying myself in the past. I'm not doing that anymore." Me: "Okay :) if you're comfortable with it then I am too." I actually have a slightly different opinion than some of the women here (as a RP man). This is OK in my opinion. If you want to improve then don't talk about your feelings but rather affirm his judgment. Saying that you'll be happy…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 11:03 PM
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Real rape statistics. Total and completed rapes have gone down as the population has increased. http://i.imgur.com/FqAPDuE.png http://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/fvsv9410.pdf Somehow, that has increased total rapes so that a significant minority of the population has been raped. /s
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 03:36 PM
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Yep. Generally, men can only learn to be men from other men. Women, who have no experience being men, cannot teach men to be men.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 01:36 PM
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Ah, yes, rape culture. http://i.imgur.com/FqAPDuE.png So you're telling me there is "rape culture" when the number of total and completed rapes has declined more than 58% since 1995? Laughable at best.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 04:28 PM
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Shrug. I'm not the one resorting to Red Herrings and Appeal to Ridicule.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:39 PM
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What I am saying is that believing a bunch of bullshit lies in order to fit into some idea of where you belong and paying money along the way is similar to a blue pill husband. Then my previous conclusion stands: So basically it comes down to the fact that you think Christianity is wrong. All right, there's no discussion to be had from that.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:09 PM
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I already addressed it with the post on authority. However, I'll elaborate further. First, being under an authority (wife, employee, child, law abiding citizen, etc), and being an authority (husband, boss, parent, government) has nothing to do with blue pill or red pill. You can be in any one of those positions -- authority or under authority -- and be blue pill or red pill. Red pill and blue pill is about seeing human nature. Thus, it follows that you can be in any one of those positions and ac…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 08:42 PM
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So basically it comes down to the fact that you think Christianity is wrong. All right, there's no discussion to be had from that.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:12 PM
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But this whole Christian concept of "turn the other cheek" is just about the most cowardly bullshit I can ever imagine. It's basically telling people that if they are wronged they shouldn't try to take revenge because someone else (god) will settle the score for them. The Norse gods would call a man a coward for not settling his own debts. Completely disagreed. Let me give you an analogy. When a women shit tests you what do you do? Do you take it seriously? Do you try to prove your point by expl…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:31 PM
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Your analogy does not hold water. Does the fact that most men here are employees under their bosses make them red pill or blue pill? No. Men can be "red pill" (see the truth of human nature) and be attractive (act confidently, boldly, and hold their own opinions) even though they are under someone else's authority in their life. Does the fact that children are under their parents authority make them blue or red pill? No. There's plenty of attractive high school athletes who women flock to. Does …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:18 PM
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Do you obey the rules and live as a pussy, or do you break the rules and take comfort from Christ's forgiveness? Disagreed. Your argument is predicated on believing that "breaking rules" is attractive (which is true but it's not the only thing that is attractive). However, if you want to put it that way then Christians are called to live according to Christ. This includes going against societal norms and potentially breaking laws if they conflict with God. This is a confidence and boldness that …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 05:53 PM
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I would also suggest rock climbing if there are any gyms or outdoor areas in your locale. The ratio is usually around between 2:1 to 4:1 men to women, and there's usually a heck of a lot friendly people willing to help you out as well. Main con is that it's somewhat niche so you do have to spend some money.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 12:21 AM
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Not quite. It's actually worse in many parts. Feminism has insidiously crept into the church, and it looks like it's secular counterpart. In churchianity (not Christianity) the women are hypergamous much like their secular counterparts, except they expect men to be godly on top of it. They have a long list, and they add spiritual things on top of it. There's a reason why the "Jesus is my boyfriend" culture exists... because no man can live up to the standard of God.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 12:15 AM
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It's been posted before but science: Slimmer women's waist is associated with better erectile function in men independent of age. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23264164
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 01:29 PM
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I'm a man. The sweet spot for me is hair in mid-shoulder blade length to mid-low back. Anything above the shoulders is too short.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/14 10:14 PM
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Read and be amazed. Also, interesting topic to bring up with girls, especially because you can tease them about it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Digit_ratio
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 01:45 AM
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Excellent analogy. I think of it this way: PUAs have known for a while that the way to be attractive is to break rapport. If you're a "nice guy" you validate a woman or agree with everything she says. What are you to her? You're basically another woman -- part of the herd who she asks to validate her and agree with her opinion. However, if you're a "man" you're not afraid to disagree with her, to set boundaries, to tease her, to call her out if she's acting bratty, etc. You're not there to valid…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 07:44 PM
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What do you do when you suddenly realize you're hamstering about something? What steps do you take to control your hamster, so it isn't as big of a problem next time? How would you advise or teach other women to control their hamsters?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:44 PM
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The irony: No woman shames men like George Clooney for dating women 15+ years younger than him. It's only "bad" or "creepy" or "shameful" if the man is unknown or unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 06:51 PM
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You cannot help people change that don't want to change. In fact, even if they come to you for advice, but vehemently disagree with any advice you give they are not likely to change. This is one of the truths that you learn when you work with people in any occupation, but especially in the medical and fitness fields. Those who don't want to lose weight won't lose weight. Those who don't want to stop drinking even though they know it's bad for them won't stop drinking. Those who don't want to sto…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/14 04:30 AM
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