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| 2 | How do you like Zac Afron physique?Women saying the want a little muscle they just mean lower body fat so the muscles are more obvious and pop. The actual amount of muscles arent relevant until you get to serious gymrat stage. If women wont fuck you because of you lifting, they probably wouldnt fuck you if you werent lifting. Can you find gymbunnies and avoid this entirely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Men are not sexual savages, they have been taught they areThis video talks about this. (4m long)Feminism harms men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:08 AM |
| -1 | The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative.Talking about straight women dating it isn't an interest in men like a fucking hobby. Even asexuals and autistics understand that an interest in a hobby is fundamentally different than desire for romance. You and I are literally saying the same goddamned thing that women like more types than Chad and you're the only one getting pissy about it. Fuck off with your insults to me, your beef aint with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:24 AM |
| – | The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative.Your type is no, which functionally identical to men who aren't Chad. Anytime women say AMALT you dont list out every single exception and I'm not going to when I say AWALT. The 5% or whatever that are lesbian or asexual aren't relevant to the topic of straight dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:00 AM |
| – | The fact that women are so easily influenced by trends, what other women find attractive and the approval of their peers completely discredits their whole “we can’t control who we are attracted to” narrative.Sort of but not like that. Only Becky and Stacy are like how you describe. ALL the women have the hive mind, it is wanting to be picked by a good man, and emotionally catfighting other women to stand out. Only the hot ones will flirt and use us for sex do the height shit or insist on expensive dates. It's the girls you wont fuck or date long term that have more types than just Chad. You're not expected to fuck women you're not attracted to but they are in the women pool even if their opinion doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?You're right and that's the problem. They think they want it, maybe they even believe it, but then when you do they tell you to man up to respect you less. I didnt guess this, I lived it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?Are you even a guy? I have had girlfriends. They claim they want the weaker parts of you, but they dont. Once you open up to them they will tell you to get a therapist and treat you differently. Taking women at their word on this is a joke. Women openly talk about it- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_i7CWwNleoo It's not just manospheres- https://old.reddit.com/r/Healthygamergg/comments/xc31fk/should_men_never_show_emotional_weakness_to_women/ Examples- https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/he-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?who has never cried about himself* in front of a woman Crying over a movie or something external is the only type of vulnerable emotions allowed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Trad Wives are UnethicalWomen berating their husbands as a behind the scenes SJW is a tale as old as time. "Behind every good man is a good women telling him to tie his shoes" that is part of the tradcon way. Women held clubs and societies for SJW shit like not wearing birds on hats because it was bad for bird populations. Men who beat their wives for doing what they are supposed to do are fucked. Even Roman days had a society where they petitioned the wealthy to fix shit or construct it. It was honorable and came with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:16 PM |
| 3 | The fundamental difference between “red pill” and “blue pill” is how rigidly “roles” are defined in a romantic relationshipYou are right, and thats why you have to use both ideas. BPers are more "correct" but it's idealized AF, a utopia, and not actually practical to use exclusively for the most part. BP LTRs only work when both parties realize it's actually a lot of work to stay together longer than 3 years. The honeymoon hormones wear off because they only exist to keep couples together long enough for kids to get to pottytraining ages. Our biology isn't designed for lifelong partners without constant effort to ke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 07:01 PM |
| – | Manosphere influencers are a plagueIn my RP days I only got weak minded women, or women treating me like an ATM. The weak ones might love you but they are clingy AF. If they dont do their girl talk then they will not shut up and expect you to do everything for them. RP isnt the whole answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 06:52 PM |
| – | Manosphere influencers are a plagueSome chick said something once and it stuck with me "Women fucking hate Andrew Tate and run to the hills, why tf would you ever listen to him, you'll make them run away, listen to men they actually admire" I mean it was half bullshit because they admire Chad but that first half is true. If you only listen to RPers then women run, mock you and treat you like you're out to get them. The rest of the advice is dogshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?Pretty much that, yes. but its like when they want a pony they dont actually want it they just say they do. Then when they get it they shit on him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 05:10 PM |
| – | Trad Wives are UnethicalI honestly dont see how you can ask wtf the connection between feminism and economic justice is and then run headfirst blindly into the point. Feminists want their own money or they will take it from you or some other man just like you thats better looking. Barely more civilized version of when starving masses kill off despot leaders. The females view us as a fucking threat dude and they will not shut up about it, how do you not get the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 05:05 PM |
| – | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?Says the guy who has never cried in front of a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:58 PM |
| – | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?The women view showing other emotions besides anger is being vulnerable. So saying "the movie was sad" is not vulnerable you are saying an opinion. Saying "I was sad from watching the movie" or crying because of the movie is vulnerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?Rarely. If you are there for her insecurities and hold her and just listen to whatever fucked up shit she went through before you, she loves that. in my case she asked me to avoid certain words or things to comfort her. But the second I opened up about my insecurities she told me she would for a while but I had to get better. I made no demand like that of he when she was telling me what words stung but I literally could not be given equal treatment. Ultimately it came back to male emotions are f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Trad Wives are UnethicalIf women cant CHOOSE to do whatever they want for money or career goals, that's the economic injustice. If they can only choose low paying jobs or using a man for his money then they dont have enough options and we get fucked over by them. They'll take half in the divorce and not let him see his kids because women are vindictive AF and would just burn the world down if she felt like the world forced her that was her only way to get ahead to get money of her own. I dunno man, I dont view the peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:42 PM |
| – | Trad Wives are UnethicalOur capitalist system is largly wrong for allowing harm done to innocent but average and below average ability people. expound plz? Is this something about disabled people again? Like, I get that blind people can't really work except by feel, and we dont need people like basketweavers anymore when a machine can make a basket for cheap. I know there's got to be some middle ground somewhere short of stealing from people who barely doing better financially than the blind person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Theory: Most guys (and girls too) that are struggling, are just not in the correct circles that match their personality.Exactly. If guys like my old squad would stop giving the girls shit then they would stop hiding so much in the games they do play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:26 PM |
| 5 | Is gossiping more common amongst woman or men?There was another study based on bathroom graffiti that women tend to use more vulgarity in their insults. Between that and this I think that there is some kind of truth in there I just dont know what it is. I have met women that were dogshit meangirl types, but they were in a clique by themselves and everyone avoided them and would get away from their office as soon as they saw one coming. Or desk back in high school. I havent seen a single male meangirls. I dont think it's critical to say an o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Is gossiping more common amongst woman or men?There was somebody on tiktok that talked about gossip used to be treated as positive when men did it. Then women started doing it and then it became a woman thing and bad. They brought up other things that had had the same treatment: nail polish, high heels, makeup, wigs, certain jobs like seamstress or knitting, a few others. They had way more facts and sources than I can remember lol. The backstabbyness and such I dont really see after mid20s but ymmv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 04:49 AM |
| – | There's a lot of stay at home wife/mom relationships, they just occur under the disguise of the woman having a fun job like a yoga/fitness instructor or running a shop.OK fine, but those satm yoga cat cafe wives are what? 0.5% of the population? How many business owners you think exist in the average city, much less women owners. Women just dont view equality the way we do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 03:44 AM |
| 9 | what do men really think of female virgins?This kinda my same problem. Its not the actual body count. Some guys talk about it as if they're fucking another guy because they're fucking a nonvirgin girl, absolutely unhinged shit. I dont want/need to wait until marriage but sex is emotional to me. Just lusting someone physically is not gratifying and IMO I don't think I could even stay hard trying to fuck someone I felt nothing for. hoe phase means we dont treat sex the same or have the same values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 03:25 AM |
| – | Theory: Most guys (and girls too) that are struggling, are just not in the correct circles that match their personality.The split on gamers is 51:49 dudes to girls so not that niche. Had a person on my team that never talked on mic, they accidently left unmuted and afk outed themselves as a girl. Absolutely trashed her and nobody took her seriously after that and always gave shit on her calls when we lost. Not every guy, I wasnt trashing her, but I didnt speak up until after it had happened a few times and the group fell appart after that. They dont play many of the fps because you really need mic and almost nobo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Many men seem to have a misunderstanding of how preferences or boundaries work, and often lash out defensively because of this.Not have and eat the cake. Arguing a opinion they dont even have. Constant devil advocate so they are never wrong about anything because they never actually said their real opinion. Using an opinion like a test drive on a car. Schrodingers asshole, but for ideas not jokes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys even like women? Why?My perspective limited. Women will cross the street out of fear and I'm just walking same as them. There is this pervasive pain that comes from being treated like a monster by strangers and i'm just existing. I do listen to women and remember what they have to say. "Men are afraid of losing their ego and women are afraid of losing their life" like I get what they're doing but it doesn't make it any less hurtful to be constantly treated like a threat. I don't hate women but I wish they would be m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Do you think a mans politics can keep him from getting laid?repost under AM because male Most women care a lot about their rights to their bodies and their life. So any man they think doesnt care about that as much as they do, they are quick to say that's the reason you can't get laid. Progressive women hate conservative men and conservative women hate progressive men. What the woman judges as bad depends on her. In the city just assume everybody is progressive. And out of town assume everybody over 35 is conservative; everybody under 35 is mixed bag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Do you think a mans politics can keep him from getting laid?shit, my bad, I'm fuckin blind I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:35 AM |
| – | what do men really think of female virgins?? for you. What about girls that waited, then the husband died or divorced, and they only fucked the husband? So not a virgin but only ever had sex while they were married. on my life I know 2 girls like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:32 AM |
| 2 | what do men really think of female virgins?I do care about body count. Doesnt need to be a virgin but if she's fucked alot of guys then we dont view sex the same way. To me it's more than just the lust, I need emotional connection too. If she wants sex on a first date then she ain't it for me. I kinda get wanting somebody unspoiled but its not like you fucking a dude just because somebody else was there before. As long as we can agree that sex is is both physical and emotional closeness then I cant get pissed she had that connection befo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsNot trying to cyv, but as it's been said to me... women see managing things like appointments, anniversaries, remembering what needs bought or done around the house as just as much work as actually doing it and call it the mental load. So if you are making more, she is doing a lot of the other work that doesn't pay the bills (like remembering to pay the bills lol). So if you make the same money then she expects you to do the same amount of mental load and will stop fucking because to her it's no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:16 AM |
| – | So-called "chads" and "bad boys" often have more success with women simply because do a ton of cold approaches.Kind of agree? Even 99% failure rate if you approach 100 times you still get 1 girl. Chad has better than 1% obviously. Badboys kinda like more than the most attractive girls IMO? I dunno, one of my buddies goes for girls I'd say are only a little above average. Goes for 6-10/10 not just the top girls like Chad. Also Chads don't internalize the rejection. He says wtf was wrong with her, not wtf is wrong w/ me. He's immune to it and assumes the problem was her not himself. A normal dude getting r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 02:04 AM |
| – | Do you think a mans politics can keep him from getting laid?Most women care a lot about their rights to their bodies and their life. So any man they think doesnt care about that as much as they do, they are quick to say that's the reason you can't get laid. Progressive women hate conservative men and conservative women hate progressive men. What the woman judges as bad depends on her. In the city just assume everybody is progressive and out of town assume everybody over 35 is conservative. Everybody under 35 is mixed bag in the country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Many men seem to have a misunderstanding of how preferences or boundaries work, and often lash out defensively because of this.You're perfectly describing preferences and boundaries. It's not controlling in a bad way if a girl tells her BF to not flirt. They're dating and agree to limited scope of control with mutual consent. That mutual consent can be revoked at any time. He can agree to stop flirting, no issue. He can say he won't (revoke consent) and then one of them can leave the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Many men seem to have a misunderstanding of how preferences or boundaries work, and often lash out defensively because of this.Eh, kind of controlling but not really the big win. With relationships you enter into an informal verbal contract. Most people's contract include a fidelity clause. They're trying to hold you accountable to what you agreed to. If your boss orders you to get back to work from your third smoke break, they're controlling you but you'd already agreed to the arrangement of a limited scope of control way before then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Many men seem to have a misunderstanding of how preferences or boundaries work, and often lash out defensively because of this.In order for something to be a boundary it has to be something being done to you, not something being done with your knowledge or periphery. Eh, a boundary is where one person ends and another person begins. A sphere of control, responsibility, obligation, feelings, etc. is the inside of the boundary. People say "don't talk to me like that' and call it a boundary but that's a request/demand not a boundary. The boundary is that the person doing the requesting chooses to not be in conversations th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:28 AM |
| – | The Confidence Effect: Why Women Are Attracted to Men Who Believe in ThemselvesTo my understanding, women read men for potential threats constantly. So they hold an invisible barrier to men until he does or says something to deviate from that standard. Confidence is the easy out for that barrier. If you are withdrawn then the women pick up on it quick and give you more scrutiny. "what else is he hiding" mentality. Much more attractive women have this barrier less? Or it's easier to pass? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys even like women? Why?Assuming it's true? Run your own studies if you doubt the science. In any case, yes boys are hurt. how feminism harms men (4m vid) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Do you guys even like women? Why?note: observation without judgement This is a male behavior, not a female one. article about one of the studies reddit discourse about the article | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 04:37 PM |
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