dtjkk Archive

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7	"I'm a feminist", I said two nights ago for the first time. And it wasn't weird. "Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering." There is much wisdom in these words. A lot of people here have already realized that hate leads to suffering, so in many ways recovering from the red pill is peeling back the layers of the "hate onion" all the way down to fear. If we realize that anger comes from a place of fear, and are able to be honest with ourselves about what we're afraid of, we will realize there is more courage in accep…	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/20 11:58 PM
2	I want to forget the redpill You ever watch Queer Eye on Netflix? Watch that. There are plenty of dudes that start out looking conventionally "unattractive" but completely transform with simple changes. The thing about being "attractive" is that anyone can look better without even changing their body. They can get a haircut, revamp their wardrobe to wear better fitting/more flattering clothes, and change how they view and carry themselves so people can actually see their personality shine through. The Fab Five represent the…	/r/ExRedPill	20/12/19 08:03 PM
1	Felt like I acted “beta” around my girl last night & recently and don’t know what to do about it You're right, she could just be stressed or burnt out. You would know that better than anyone else, but you can't know if you never ask. Communication is key, especially about the things we worry about the most. Good luck man!	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/19 08:52 PM
3	Felt like I acted “beta” around my girl last night & recently and don’t know what to do about it Something about her and her response to you makes you feel insecure if you're not feeling that way around other girls. The last thing it sounds like you should do is read too much into her behavior. Your gf may have a million different things going on. But none of that should directly affect you because: 1.) You are NOT responsible for her happiness. I repeat: you are NOT responsible for her, or anyone else's happiness, ever. Only yours. 2.) We're all just doing our best, and partners typically …	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/19 08:32 PM
8	Man the red pill really fucked me up.. Good on you, brother. Creating value is the way to go! EDIT: I should add that creating value tends to inspire and attract other creators. In order to create, you need to have a positive mindset, so you will slowly see your life transform as you build a network of more positive people who add to your life too.	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/19 09:51 PM
32	Man the red pill really fucked me up.. You need friends who aren't resentful of successful women. A healthier attitude is learning from others' success instead of blaming them for our lack of it. While systemic issues exist on a macro scale, they tend to affect women more. On a micro scale, however, we're seeing more women overcome these issues than in the past. That's a sign of resilience and better support systems, something men could use more of. Regardless of group identity, strength comes from building each other up, not tearing…	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/19 09:15 PM
7	Giving her plausible deniability for going back to your place i.e. "Come meet my dog", "I want to show you something!" etc... But what happens on the taxi back to her place or yours? Depends on your level, and how well your night has been up to that point. By your level, I mean how far have you gotten already, and how good is your demonstration of intent? If you've built up a lot of sexual energy and already kissed or made out with her, feel free to continue. But if you haven't, save that for your place. Either she needs to see whether you're worth a damn, she just needs to warm up in a more intimate setting, she doesn't know what she wants and can go either way with you, or…	/r/seduction	23/10/16 09:36 AM
5	Does a intellectual, zen-like and collected personality work? Everyone is being really nice here. I'll just answer your main question with: no, but yes if you work on a few things. First thing I want to say, from someone who used to be you, is have some fun. Seriously. Do anything to get out of your head!!!! Literally anything. I used alcohol as a crutch because it made me more talkative, but I realized at one point I needed more things to talk about besides intellectual stuff. You might lead a few fun and interesting conversations by sharing your knowledg…	/r/seduction	31/05/16 11:12 PM
3	Feminists are awesome when it comes to getting laid, am I the only guy who has experienced this? Not alone, I only date feminists. I don't think feminist game is a thing because it's too narrow a population to pursue. Also seduction kind of only works when you generalize women, and feminists are very much individuals. Not only that but they are usually smart enough to see through most pickup techniques. Finally, feminists aren't usually down for dating guys that aren't feminist, or misogynist/sexist in any way.... like a large percentage (majority?) of PUA's. For anyone considering it, I sa…	/r/seduction	27/08/15 12:36 AM