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You sound/come across as being tilted towards negative thinking in your current way of being. While all the things you say are probably in a sense true, flooding your consciousness with solely negative thoughts is going to destroy you and crush your enjoyment of life. Don't do that to yourself. Try writing out your thoughts for fifteen minutes and look at them from a distance to detach from them. Make a counter list of things that are, undeniably also true, but positive. Notice how you feel. It'…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 04:04 PM
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tbh I've allways thought this was a dumb meme... "good women are hard to find", just the mathematics behind it are ridiculous, say only 1 in 200 women are "good", that mwans you plan on somehow finding that 0.5% of people and succesfully transitioning into a relationship.. assuminh a 1/50 conversation rate, that's 1/1000 odds of finding "the one", but that's assuming there is no competition, which there is. It's mathematically impossible for every guy to find a "good woman" based on those odds, …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 03:43 PM
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Yeah just practice. It's about making numbers in the beginning and starting small then building up. There is no other proven method and it's not complicated, if you want the method I'll tell you
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 03:36 PM
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Why are you guys having a discussion on the internet instead of taking action RIGHT NOW?:)
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:44 PM
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It continues to astound me how wildly talented a surprising majority of people are at not taking effective action. P.S. OP: should you really be writing this article or actually doing what you've been postponing by writing it?? P.P.S. Note to self: should I even be posting this reply to begin with or am I stalling as well SHIT???!
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:37 PM
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A takeaway for everyone: l o c a t i o n m a x Don't put yourself in an environment where you naturally lose. Maximize your location first; i.e. pick a winning battleground. Don't try to win in a losing environment due to pride or sunk cost fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:31 PM
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I learned I need to keep myself more accountable. Started tracking what ACTIONS I take during the day and what their objective RESULTS are for: material/monetary, social/status, emotions and virtue (being a "good" person). It's eye opening. Lot's of small actions you can reason away are actually a lot more damaging then I thought. Also became more positive due to noticing the virtue in other actions I take.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:27 PM
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Girls are teenagers no matter their official age. Everything is processed on a teenage level of cognitive awareness: "friend", "foe", "better than me", "worse than me", "fun!", "not fun!". Don't project maturity or responsibility onto something that just ain't there.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 02:22 PM
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Surprised at the comments here. First of all, you don't know what kind of childhood your Dad had until you know. People take their Dad's (when they have them) for granted as these objects that suddenly sprung into life in their 30s with no backstory. Usually 90% of what your Dad is, is because of how he was parented. Second, have empathy for your Dad. Having even one child means sacrificing at least 50% of your life and time; forced to work a job to make pay; weekends gone to sports; vacations f…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 05:27 PM
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Coffee. I seriously used to feel exhausted after social contact with groups, but with 2 cups of coffee I get enough dopamine release to be authentically interested in trite & fluff conversations. Coffee has turned me into an extravert basically.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 11:36 AM
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Why is it inevitable that living together daily would lead to a loss of attraction?
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 12:28 PM
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Well the whole happy family meme was the reason they opened the doors to divorce in the first place. 95% was married but the narrative was that many women were unhappily married and oppressed. So we needed to allow for easier divorce so that more people could be "happily" married. Now the floodgates are open and it will probably take a full-blown societal collapse before we might get a reactionary reset. In any case it's an interesting idea to live during the peak of human affluence while likely…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 01:59 PM
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I agree with all these points on a conceptual level. It does make you wonder though why society hasn't collapsed yet. This experiment has been running for multiple decades already... but anyone can see it will lead to wreckage down the road. The hot chicks only bang Chad but can't lock him down. Settle for beta's in their 30s and divorce. The Chads have no incentive to lock down until they feel like it. Then remarry in their 40s, 50s, 60s. The beta males get nothing and know it, will start to re…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 01:26 PM
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Fair enough, they might just be that dumb lol
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 02:36 PM
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I find it hard to believe that women don't have the foresight of their impending Wall sentence. So it really doesn't make sense for them to put party time at such a premium...
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 02:35 PM
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This story does make me wonder about the logic of The Wall. Why would a woman necessarily wait until her 30s to get hitched and a stable man? Why not just grab an alpha man in your 20s while you're still good looking?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 11:22 AM
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Good post. It's basically Self-Awareness 101. Millennial (me included) need to get this.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 09:39 PM
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The post is fine. I'm talking about the random website link offering paid services without any face to the name or credentials.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 10:58 AM
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I find the website of this contributor to be shady and distrustful as there is no "about" page or any information about the company, it's vision or it's credentials.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 09:58 AM
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In OP's defense. The way I pictured this move playing out was a little more lenient. I imagined him meaning this: You acknowledge the new person's presence in a socially acceptable and kind way: but you are curt and low investment about it. Basically you give the exact barebones but socially acceptable minimum of interest and acknowledgment. The other person will now feel acknowledged, but will be placed at a disadvantage. They can't rightfully demand more attention than you've given them. And a…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 01:33 PM
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It doesn't seem like you really understand the Red Pill or the self development community. All your points are theoretical. In practice, the real life people AND the internet people I've seen have followed the pattern I stated above. "but if someone does these things solely for satisfying their goals with women, they stop after the goals have been reached" Seriously what are you talking about? This never happens. We have an innate desire as men to climb ladders to a higher destination. I'm reall…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 09:49 AM
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Yes I understand where you're coming from and I would agree if it was that simple. However in my subjective experience, bettering yourself to have better experiences with women is often a rite of passage, only just at the very beginning of a lifelong journey of self-development. For many guys having sex with hot women is simply what they most immediately want. After going through the suffering and the victories of sexual conquest, eventually you may or may not learn you want more things, or diff…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 07:39 PM
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You're right. To be more specific I take objection to the way emotions were handled in that FR example. They simply weren't dealt with in a way that would lead to solutions. And because I did not want to type out a long response I chose to be dismissive, which was lazy on my part. The most effective way to deal with emotions in your FR is threefold: Emotions that fall into the category: What am I feeling and why? Asking this question can lead to insights and greater emotional intelligence. Emoti…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 07:35 PM
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The "everyone is different and follows a different path"-spiel is all nice and it's probably even true. But despite everyone being a special genetic snowflake we still commonly agree to follow "best practices", which are not unique, but do predictably give results we want. We all drive cars, we all put our money in a bank, we all follow manners and social norms set in place to optimize the civilization experience. The Red Pill is simply a collection of "best practices" for a certain domain of li…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 03:58 PM
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Your title seems like it came straight off the boat from RSDnation to trp. With regards to your "3 things that went well / 3 things to improve structure" what you really want to watch out for is troll feedback. The main problem that I see with game guys trying to reflect is that they suck at self-reflection. A lot of the "insights" men develop in these FR's end up being pointless and useless. Let me use your examples to illustrate, then offer a solution: "There were several instances in which I …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 03:48 PM
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I love how you switched the frame to suffering rather than pleasure. Check out David Goggins you remind me of him.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 02:05 PM
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Love it. Getting that straight up Davey Goggins vibe from this one.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 11:59 AM
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Excessive partaking of any dopamine drip hobby (tv shows, gaming, movies, reddit) should be frowned upon. But there's nothing wrong with these activities intrinsically, per se. If it's in moderation, it's simply a form of relaxation and in that case: do what works for you.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 11:43 AM
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hey man I just want to say congrats on making the change
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 11:32 AM
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wtf his kids were even ADOPTED they weren't even his
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 11:20 AM
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Excellent guide for when you're past a certain stage. However, for anyone with AA, I would recommend doing some brutal drills to start out: Approach 50 people per day (men/women/elderly/children) for 4 days in a row Approach 50 night game sets in 50 minutes (only women, but of ANY smv level; hot/fat/cute/whatever) the next 10 times you go out If you think these drills are challenging or you "can't do it", no matter what your skill level is, it means you still have AA.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 11:49 AM
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Will post a more substantial riposte tomorrow; but anecdotally I can vouch that 50% of my LC was thanks to sluts (10+ lay count on their part). 10 of the women I banged through cold approach or tinder were inherently slutty girls. That is more than would be suggested by chance. i.e. the 'slut factor' is real
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 08:03 PM
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Very erudite explanation, I hadn't heard that term before 'disqualification paradigm', but it covers the phenomenon exactly. Any chance you might want to open a trp thread on it?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 02:54 PM
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I have done the direct route, and at the very best it would give me a 1/30 close rate (on tinder). I just know more texting back and forth seems to be necessary to close the date. It's tinder, so they already like you...
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:10 AM
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What's AA? I'd guess approach anxiety but it doesn't seem to fit the cateogries you're talking about.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:07 AM
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I know this is exactly what the theory says, and I've followed this for the longest time: short & simple + avoid 'chat dates'. It just didn't work. Any time I'd try to close the date they'd have some kind of excuse. Now I try doing the storytelling thing. I will just spin elaborate stories on the fly, trying to take her on a short emotional journey over text, in the hope this will differentiate me from the 10 other online suitors in my competition. It seems to work a lot better, because I get gi…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:07 AM
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True. If your daygame is solid you can leave such a good impression that you don't need any fancy textgame and can afford to be stoic and aloof. However you don't have this luxury over online game. Some people (guilty!) are not willing to put in the effort to become competent at daygame and therefore have no other choice than to learn the art of fancy textgame to convert online prospects into real life dates. I just want to make gamers conscious of the fact aloof and stoic DOES NOT WORK in onlin…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 03:19 PM
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Roosh is a leader. All other Red Pill giants are writers. I love Heartiste and his writing is massively entertaining, but I would not follow him because he's not a leader. I love Rollo and thanks to his infallible logic I feel like I actually "understand" women for the first time in my life. But he is not a leader. Roosh's writing isn't as entertaining as Heartiste. He is not as scientifically profound as Rollo. His cultural critique is peanuts compared to a Mencius Moldbug. But he's the only on…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 10:46 AM
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Different women will like different things. I think you are vastly overgeneralizing. This 193 cm alpha you describe may just happen to be HER alpha. Some women like athleticly muscular, others like bulky muscular, others like hipster high fashion, others like dominant power suits. If you're going to view the world this way you will not make yourself happy. What you should be asking yourself is: how is he making her "feel"? That is what women (actually all people) care about in the end. How does …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 12:53 PM
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What is your story of getting unstuck and building a rotation of girls starting from little to nothing? In June I decided to follow Roosh's program. I decided I would make 100 approaches. It took me about 52 approaches before I got my first bang. The more I approached, the better my odds went up. I went from one interested girl for every 25 approaches, to 1/20, to 1/15 and now I'm hovering around 1/10. That means I have a 10% chance, on every approach, to get at least a number. I reached 100 app…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 01:04 PM
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