dtsanderos Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Turned down for sex after making out, salvageable or move on? She said it cause she was seriously thinking about fucking you. Should’ve let her pull back like she did and just resume conversation like normal. Plus girls don’t always go all the way the first or second date. Takes steps. Very situations unique but sounds like you got weird when she pulled back and let it faze you or something	/r/seduction	19/04/24 06:10 AM
1	insta game (texting girl, already in her dms) Set it up the date. Let her wonder about you. Keep in touch every couple days to let her know you’re thinking about her in someway. Goto date be relaxed and enjoy yourself. Hook up. Game is simple when you don’t overthink it young fella. Seriously tho go outside or soemtbing enjoy your day and get off Reddit Good luck boss	/r/seduction	22/05/22 06:24 PM
1	insta game (texting girl, already in her dms) I don’t. Life your life and stay in touch here and there but keep in mind I’m a 26 yo man with a career in the states, so you gotta figure out what works with you. I think when I was in high school and doing the whole summer fling Thing I was kicking it w some chicks every few days. Ayy the good old days. Lol you got it man	/r/seduction	22/05/22 06:21 PM
1	insta game (texting girl, already in her dms) Phones are for setting up dates and building some comfort here and there. Set the date and get off the phone and focus on being productive in your life. She told you something about ballet. Say you look forward to hearing about that next time you guys kick it But have it be you, you know how to talk to people jsut stop overthinking it. Like I said talk to her somewhat, you don’t wanna ask her iut if her cat just died last night. And then bring it up after a few texts back and forth 👍 you got it …	/r/seduction	22/05/22 06:13 PM
2	In your experience what conversation topics seem to get girls excited and engaged? Work on your conversation skills as well. Not every girl is gonna be great at it but overall they’re typically better then guys. She might be not that interested, you might be over displaying your interest, or you just may be coming across as boring or soem shit. There’s hella context that goes into this stuff	/r/seduction	22/05/22 06:08 PM
1	insta game (texting girl, already in her dms) I like to make plans 4 days in advance or so. Any shorter and it’s not that much time, any longer and things can come up for them. Find what works for your tho and your schedule	/r/seduction	22/05/22 06:04 PM
1	insta game (texting girl, already in her dms) Talk to her about some topics you guys discussed originally. I hope you were listening to her on the date and not just having your tongues down each other’s throats? Use some statements. Say you hope she’s having a good first week of summer, or whatever and just make slight causal fun conversation. Don’t overthink it dog	/r/seduction	22/05/22 06:03 PM
3	What should I do? GOOD BE ALONE. Learn to be alone and love yourself and your life and the people and things you do have in it. And like I said there’s more to life then pussy. Get on your grind and work to fix your finances your mind and your body. Good luck bro truly	/r/seduction	22/05/22 06:01 PM
1	I am a very social person but I have a problem… You sound like your heads in the right place, and are having good low key conversations with these chicks. So you walking away literally has them wondering why tf didn’t this guy ask me for my number. Jsut ask for her number to get together sometime and talk more. Just relax and ask for it like you would literally any other person. You talk to hella chicks and hella people anyway, go for it man. Hope this helps	/r/seduction	22/05/22 05:53 PM
3	In your experience what conversation topics seem to get girls excited and engaged? Them. Literally them. Just be fun and don’t overvalidate them or be some therapist. Girls are fun to talk to	/r/seduction	22/05/22 05:50 PM
3	What should I do? You ain’t love shit. You’re horny dog. She’s another human being whose shit stinks prolly worse than us. Move on.	/r/seduction	22/05/22 05:48 PM
3	insta game (texting girl, already in her dms) Ayy good shit young king your games on point more then some of these other dudes tbh. While I advise strongly against drinking while young, foods a good idea. As to what to text her idfk, whatever you want. If you haven’t been needy blowing her shit up constantly, I’d just reconnect ask her how her weeks been. Talk to her. Then mention a semi specific date and time you guys should do. Then lock down a time right then or a say you’ll talk to her in a few days or soemtbing to lock in details. Focu…	/r/seduction	22/05/22 05:47 PM
4	What should I do? Jesus fuck, this is one single girl out of literal billions. Stop pedestalizing her so fucking hard and move on. Do you not have goals and ambitions in life? Focus on those instead of this girl whose disinterested. You already know deep down youre making her less interested by being obsessed. Move on and be a fucking man who has a life to enjoy. There’s more to life then just women and ruminating and whether they like you.	/r/seduction	22/05/22 05:41 PM
6	Touch and tension Lmao made your intentions hella clear too much too soon. This was essentially your first time meeting a chick and you couldn’t resist touching her in someway. She was interested enough to tell you what happened so that’s good, keep your dick in your pants and get to know a chick first. Get her number so you can talk more sometime. You ain’t gotta rush anything chief. Sexual tension is built by NOT touching, by NOT validating. By being relaxed and enjoying your time getting to know another person…	/r/seduction	22/05/22 05:38 PM
1	I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looks Cause they’re giving you choosing signs. But they’re old so they’re literally coming up to you and making it so easy. They prolly have af interest	/r/seduction	22/05/22 05:34 PM
1	Is it best to show interest or make her guess? Love bombing works because it is an incongruent action and leaves the women unsure of your intention ie whether you actually like them. Manipulative but yeah. Not necessary either	/r/seduction	22/05/22 05:33 PM
2	Do girls just not give a fuck about you? A woman, hot by your description, is babbling on about herself on a date and youre complaining? Uh okay. The issue with all this isn’t the topic of discussion it’s your frame in this whole situation. You are validating and empathizing them the entire time? Are you there to be some Fucking therapist or something? If so go get accredited and get paid to do all that, instead of being women’s emotional tampon instead. Women don’t respect that. I imagine your conversation are essentially boring as sh…	/r/seduction	22/05/22 05:28 PM