duascoisas Archive

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75	How do you perceive big d*ck energy? My experience was the opposite. The guys who had big dicks were always the quietest. Not in a shy/introvert/socially inept way. What I’ve noticed is “average-small” guys will always find a way to “ask the group” really weird questions like, hey does size matter? Big sick guys simply don’t engage. It’s like they are indifferent to the concept of a penis. They don’t respond to overly sexual prompts either. On the friends knowing, you’re 100% right. Their friends know and hate them a tiny little bi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/22 07:48 AM
4	Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to say One of my exes did this thing, he’d easily agree at first then a few seconds later: “wait, actually no”. Lol I would point it out that he was just a contrarian for no reason, since he’d agree with me at first. But yes, he insisted on the “no” regardless. I noticed myself become increasingly concerned with “seeming rational” around him. It got to a point where I showed no emotion at all, because being “emotional” was the opposite of “rational” right? Thank God I broke up with him, finally.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/22 06:16 AM
1	Are women becoming more openly contemptuous and hostile towards unattractive men in dating and social situations? It’s not payback, it’s women finally stating their preferences. It only feels like payback or revenge because society thinks all women want is a “nice guy” with a “good personality”. This is because all the media depicts only this. (Thanks woody Allen).	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 02:36 PM
68	The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling. 100%. I’m just starting to accept that my goals for partnership will not be met within the western conception of love and marriage. It’s simply not sustainable.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/22 05:37 AM
33	This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our cultures 100%. I just take what works for me and my circumstance, and keep the rest for later. But what you describe is something that exists in the larger feminist movement. There’s a clear demarcation between a western (read: white) woman’s view of feminism vs everyone else. I’m not trying to be divisive, but this is why terms like intersectionality exist. As listeners/readers/members of this community, we have to select and filter and sometimes adapt certain concepts to really fit our local contexts. …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/12/21 06:38 AM
12	Is marriage always a good idea for a woman with assets? Another way to ask this question, which I think helps us be more honest is: in what circumstances is marriage a good deal for women? I don’t know but I feel the consensus in the world and here is: marriage is not that good. Marriage is a mechanism, not a goal. It’s a mechanism that helps women “cope” and navigate an extremely patriarchal society. It’s “good” because in some cases, it eventually leads to a betterment in the woman’s financial situation and brings some security for her children if …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 03:57 AM
87	Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you. Girl, trust. We as women tend to forget (or ignore): men don’t want to, and don’t know how to have friendships. I know it’s a broad statement so I will clarify what I mean. We as women sense immediately whether or not we want to or will develop an emotional connection. Well, tbh, we can predict whether the guy in front of us has the capacity and the will to develop that with us. Even when we reach our conclusions, we still try to get a friendship going. The problem is, we’ve shifted gears, they …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 04:13 PM
84	PSA: For the love of God, STOP faking your orgasms ladies! The thing about this, is that some of us are unsure of how they might react. And I don’t mean just ego. Ego is the least of it. I mean violence. I think in some cultures it’s less probable that men will react violently if women are honest about their (lack of) pleasure. In my experience, and in my culture, even in the most intimate of relationships, self-preservation remains a priority. So we lie to keep alive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/21 12:58 PM
44	Great read! Why Sex-Positive Feminism Is Falling Out of Fashion... Let's hope that's the case. Posted archive link so no paywall. Thank you for sharing this article. I really appreciate you and others taking the time to share articles and in general some well-thought out pieces that help us understand the position. This is a position I’m leaning closer to, but it’s so difficult to articulate it. I’m an artist, and a lot of my work over the past years has been around sex and sexuality. I think back to speeches and exhibitions I’ve participated where I, too, promoted this liberal feminist idea of sexual pleasure and self-exp…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 04:39 PM