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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Supervised visits huh		dubdad22683	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/25 10:33 AM

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4	Did you guys ever let one get away, bc I did and it makes this betrayal + divorce 10X worse Just so you know. I went the other route. I was the second man this woman slept with. She was obsessed with me to the point of stalking. Good parents. Zero red flags. We were together for 15 years and married for nine. She cheated on me 8 years out of those nine. She said she considered herself single for that part of her life and she honestly couldn't tell me how many men she randomly slept with. When we met she was playing piano at her church and working at the YMCA. The moment she got into co…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/26 05:47 PM
6	Should I feel some type of way? Dude by the second week I was already screwing my daughter's former babysitter who was 22(I was 35) She ditched you. She has no say on what you do with your life anymore. You get the unique opportunity to meet new, younger, prettier, more into you women. Leave yourself open be confident keep your head up and pay attention to who's paying attention to you and flirt with them. Not that it matters but I've literally doubled my body count since my divorce 10 years ago and I would do it all again.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/26 07:47 AM
1	Is anyone involved in a one way relationship? Think about her as a child who doesn't know any better. Are you going to get mad at a child and yell at them? They literally don't get it. More words will never help. The only thing that helps is removing yourself whenever there is disrespect until they realize their error. You. Will. Almost. Never. Get. Accountability. From. A. Woman. You don't expect your child to be accountable, don't expect your woman to be accountable either. Whenever she says something that pisses you off, just remember it…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/26 07:42 AM
3	She is insinuating things that never happened. Not sure how to respond. Information and understanding just never revenge. It ages you prematurely	/r/Divorce_Men	18/07/26 10:54 PM
3	How to be the Other Man? If it rhymes it must be true	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/25 10:50 PM
2	Managing intimacy without commitment ? Exactly. OP has poopy brain right now and needs to get back to remembering what made him desirable in the first place. Do things you like dude. Do things you feel confident in because women love confidence	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/25 06:57 AM
2	First big treat to yourself? ::Pulls up a chair:: "Go on"	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/25 11:12 AM
2	First big treat to yourself? Ayooo same🤣🤣. Really big change from what I was used to I'll tell you that much.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/25 11:11 AM
2	First big treat to yourself? New pussy with no strings. No expectations. Just hours of hot sweaty exhausting sex. It had been a full year and a half. I think I painted the ceiling. The whole place look like a Jackson Pollock painting	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/25 11:10 AM
2	Ex wife’s new contact name. Need ideas! Sir, I do believe you've won.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/25 07:18 AM
1	Ex wife’s new contact name. Need ideas! Mine is "the child" cuz she acts like she's freaking 12	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/25 07:18 AM
1	Supervised visits huh No I didn't marry this one I learned from the first one. This way I get to keep my house and she can go live in the camper with her boyfriend	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/25 03:21 PM
1	Supervised visits huh I did a lot of journaling to my daughter that I lost with the last divorce and it definitely did help a lot. All I hope is that I haven't reacted to all of this two poorly with the walls of text. Thank you again honestly	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/25 02:47 PM
2	Supervised visits huh I already started on law help.org and applied for a pro bono based on income. Technically my company is in the red so that kind of helps the indigent claim out. I'm so glad you posted this and I'm going to do exactly what you're saying because it's what I feel I need to be doing anyways. I might come back and update this post later but thank you that was the most helpful thing I've heard since she left. There's also the part where she never came home after the hospital. We have stairs at my hous…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/25 01:39 PM
1	Supervised visits huh Yeah I really wish that I was in the position to hire a lawyer. Full disclosure, the burglary and DV charge was with my ex over 10 years ago. 6 years after the incident my ex's husband adopted my daughter and they claimed abandonment even though there was a permanent restraining order against me. She tried to get me for 15 years but she had no evidence. This woman all I did was raise my voice louder than was necessary and it was genuinely out of frustration because she constantly lied to me and …	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/25 12:32 PM