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This isn't a false accusation.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 07:32 PM
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You're describing men as having an uncontrollable addiction that drives them to rape women if they can't find a willing partner and wondering why so many men are having trouble getting laid? If you really feel that men are barely-restrained sex monsters, haven't you answered your own question?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:34 AM
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Aside from his voice? His transphobia, misogyny, pseudo-intellectualism, and the fact that he tells people to take responsibility for their lives, but when his wife got cancer he got addicted to benzos. He has no business giving anyone life advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:48 PM
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WHAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:20 PM
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Tupac's "Keep Ya Head Up": Since we all came from a woman, got our name from a woman, and our game from a woman. I wonder why we take from women, why we rape our women, do we hate our women? I think its time we killed for our women, be real to our women, try to heal our women, cus if we dont we'll have a race of babies that will hate the ladies, who make the babies. And since a man can't make one he has no right to tell a woman when and where to create one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:58 PM
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If you want to hear from actual women, that's one place where you can do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:51 PM
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For women to have sex, they just have to smile and open the legs Instructions unclear, I am maniacally grinning from ear to ear in happy baby pose and no one in this Arby's is offering to rail me, OP please advise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:49 PM
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You should read this post and some of the comments. There's a good chance those guys' wives expressed their needs many, many times and were ignored. That was my experience. My ex-husband didn't care about my unhappiness until I was leaving him. https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/11dy5kc/you_cannot_make_him_understand/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:37 PM
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Same with Canadian Kermit the Frog (Jordan Peterson)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:32 PM
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I still think about that (fake, sadly) picture of Joseph Gordon-Levitt wearing thigh high stockings and garters that made the rounds several years ago. 🥵 The men of this sub have no clue what women actually like, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:27 PM
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"Andrew in Drag" by the Magnetic Fields could be your love song.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:03 PM
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Men wearing makeup, nail polish, heels, wigs, etc. is insanely hot. More of this, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:02 PM
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I'm bisexual and married to a wonderful man, but if something ever happens and I find myself single again, I will not date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:49 PM
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Lying to a woman to trick her into having sex with you has consequences - who could have guessed? I don't know if what you did was technically a crime, but I think it probably should be, and I can understand why she would call you a rapist. You took away her ability to give FULL, informed consent. You obtained something that you would not have gotten without deception. That's a crime when it applies to property. Why is a woman's body worth less than someone's property?
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:52 PM
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Your reply isn't showing up here, but it is in my inbox. The issue is that she does not agree retroactively. She has every right to be upset with me, but she does not have a right to threaten me on every level by labelling me a rapist. You just stated that I had her consent. She cannot decide after the fact that she did not consent and that I raped her, when she in fact consented. That is my point. I regret not being truthful for her and I feel terrible holding that inside of me, I understand it…
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:41 PM
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If he read what you've shared here, he would immediately know that it was about him. So would his abusive wife, potentially putting him at even greater risk. Have you told him you're sharing these details publicly on Reddit?
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:31 PM
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If you truly want differing perspectives, post this on /r/twoxchromosomes and see what people there say about it.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:18 PM
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And I for sure would not want a "friend" to share this kind of stuff about me with strangers, down to where I live and the specifics of my family life.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:12 PM
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Are you a professional of some sort? If a therapist or medical professional publicly shared this level of specific, personal detail about a client or patient without their consent, they'd be putting their licensure at risk.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:09 PM
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She was a willing participant in our activities Clearly she does not agree. I didn't force her in any manner You did not use "force," but you did use trickery, dishonesty, and deception to obtain her consent.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:01 PM
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If someone lies in order to get money or property, it's called fraud or theft. If someone lies about their identity to get access to a location, it's called trespassing. What do we call it when someone lies to get sex?
/r/MensRights27/02/23 04:46 PM
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If I were you (or if I were your lawyer), I think I'd be more concerned about how these Reddit conversations would look if they were discovered and brought up in court, but if getting reassurance from strangers on Reddit is worth that risk to you, by all means go for it.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 04:39 PM
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How does he feel about you sharing all these specific details with strangers on Reddit? Including which state he lives in? Are you endangering him further by doing so?
/r/MensRights27/02/23 03:52 PM
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"Rape by deception," "sexual coercion," and/or "sexual assault" might be the right words in this situation.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 03:45 PM
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You didn't just "not disclose your sexual history." She asked you a direct, specific question about your activities the night before, and you lied to her, knowing full well that if you told her the truth, she would NOT consent to having sex with you. Did you use a condom? Can you be certain that you didn't transmit a disease from your date to your ex? Have you mentioned these public Reddit posts to your lawyer, by the way?
/r/MensRights27/02/23 03:25 PM
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This was someone who I have had sex with hundreds of times It does not matter how many times you had sex with her before. mind you I did not force her to have sex with me in anyway, it was mutual The fact stands that if you had not deceived/coerced her, she would not have had sex with you. "Mutual" is not the correct word, since you had to lie to her to get her into bed with you.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 01:30 PM
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You lied to someone in order to bang them. "An honest and considerate man" isn't a phrase that a reasonable person would apply to you.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 12:37 PM
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What do you find disgusting about onlyfans links in women's bios, then? I'm trying to understand why someone who is fine with porn would find an onlyfans link in a woman's bio "disgusting" and consider women on Onlyfans to be like subhuman "sex robots." The only real difference I can see is that with Onlyfans, the woman is clearly in control of what she films, photographs, and shares.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 11:40 PM
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Men here say that if a woman lies about being on birth control and has sex with a man, it's rape/SA. Lying in order to get laid is considered rape on this subreddit.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 10:21 PM
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an honest and considerate man Except for all the lying, infidelity, and deception.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 10:20 PM
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Is a link to an onlyfans account in a social media profile "pornographic"?
/r/MensRights26/02/23 09:33 PM
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Are you disgusted by porn?
/r/MensRights26/02/23 07:13 PM
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Whenever I stumble upon this I'm automatically turned off Why are you "stumbling upon" so many women's Instagram and Reddit bios?
/r/MensRights26/02/23 02:08 PM
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You're either deluded or simply trying to distract from the fact that you have zero evidence to back up your assertions. Either way, there is no point in me continuing this conversation.
/r/MensRights25/02/23 08:22 PM
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I looked her up over a week ago when we were having this conversation. The author is a health and beauty writer, and a former editor of Cosmopolitan magazine. Do you really think Cosmo and tabloids like the Daily Mail are bastions of modern-day feminist thought? But even if she were a "respected prominent feminist writer," this opinion piece does nothing to prove that feminists somehow derailed male birth control efforts. You don't have a legitimate source for your claims about feminists "squash…
/r/MensRights25/02/23 07:50 PM
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It's happening in this thread. People are scolding OP, telling her she's going to be a miserable lovely cat lady and die alone. Or that she's contributing to the fall of civilization or whatever. It's absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:03 PM
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Aren’t you basically contributing to ensuring that Idiocracy becomes real? I don't see how that's my problem. If you want someone to blame, blame politicians and religious leaders who ban sex ed, push abstinence-only, who make birth control, emergency contraception, and abortions more difficult to access, who oppose universal healthcare and even the Affordable Care Act, who don't want to give women paid maternity leave like most civilized countries do, etc etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:01 PM
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I'm in my late thirties and I'm so glad I don't have kids and that I married a kind, attentive, vasectomied man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:54 PM
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The maternal mortality rate in the US is double that of other developed nations. Abortion bans and restrictions make it worse. It was a problem even before Roe got overturned. Where I live, abortion is legal, but there is a law that says you must wait 24 hours for an abortion. This law applies even if your fetus is dead inside of you. So your fetus is pronounced dead and you are sent home to wait, risking infection and complications, before you can get the medical treatment you need. Because of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:46 PM
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People can and do die in childbirth. The maternal mortality rate in the US is double that of other wealthy, developed nations. The risk has increased in places where abortion has been banned or restricted. For example: https://www.texastribune.org/2022/08/03/texas-abortion-law-pregnancy/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:38 PM
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Badgering women is not the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:31 PM
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I'm not on dating apps, but plenty of my friends have screenshots of hateful messages they've gotten from guys. Some guys seem to get triggered if they think they're being ignored (even if she was just busy working or sleeping and that's why she didn't reply right away). And they lash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:49 AM
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But men don't have to "get" girls or even go on any dates with them in order to treat them badly on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:33 PM
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What is the overriding thought when you see an attractive man? "Oh, that guy is hot. Anyway, where was I..." I do not want to "obtain" a man upon seeing him, and I've never thought, "Wow, that guy sure looks hot to me because he seems successful!" UPS delivery guys can be hot. Baristas can be hot. Bartenders can be hot. Flight attendants can be hot. Hotness is not correlated with status, and that initial noticing of "Wow, he's hot" doesn't correlate with me wanting to take any further action ("o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:28 PM
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Are men angry at the very attractive men for turning the women off from the apps? Odd assumption to make. It's not just attractive guys doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:13 PM
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Men use phrases like "shortage of willing females" and "the gravy train that women have enjoyed" and wonder why women don't want to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:03 PM
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I swear 95% of this sub is men talking to other men about what they think women want. Or men talking to women and telling women what women want. I don't think you're wrong, OP, I just think a statement like "Nobody wants to marry a chronically broke or mentally unstable hot guy" is so obvious that I'm surprised it needs to be stated. And a lot of the comments are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:12 PM
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Honestly a LOT of guys who think they're too ugly, too short, too wrong-bonestructured or whatever are totally normal looking or even attractive, but they've convinced themselves they're hideous and doomed to inceldom for life. There's some kind of fatalistic body dysmorphia going on. Their problem with women isn't their height or bone structure, it's their misogyny, refusal to see women as entirely human, bad attitude, and victim complex. But it's a lot easier and more comforting to blame somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:17 PM
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I was married to a guy who was addicted to porn and video games, who yelled at me, hit my cat, threw things, and forced me to hurt myself as "punishment" for making "mistakes." When did “average” no longer cut it? This guy was way below average. He was abusive. I think what changed was that I started writing in a journal every day, and after a few months of doing that and reading back through the journals, I suddenly realized how pathetic and delusional I sounded. "I love him a lot, but today he…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:42 AM
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I'm not getting why you can't establish a firm boundary about the relationship, skip the going out on the town part, and have sex without needing to pay her for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:21 PM
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If they want to have unpaid sex with you, then why would you need to propose an arrangement that involves paying them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:06 PM
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Why aren't these women interested in having unpaid sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:56 PM
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Would you be able to maintain your belief in a woman's attraction to you if you were paying her to have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:52 PM
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You're having trouble finding women who are interested in you and okay with you not wanting an actual relationship right now, and you think offering them money in exchange for sex might improve your chances? Lol, try it, see how it goes, and report back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 08:14 PM
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It is more much more stable than non-exclusivity. Plus, with work, school, chores, and everything else, I already would like more quality time with my partner. If we were both devoting time and energy to having sex or relationships with other people, it would mean even less given to our relationship, and I don't want that. I know you said you're not asking "why not polyamory" but my poly pals have problems and seeing them struggle does make a strong argument for exclusivity as the better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:57 PM
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Not if I say so. I've given you sources. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-happy-children-spouse-partner-relationship-unmarried-a8931816.html
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:35 PM
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Women don't "disappear into the abyss" if they don't have kids or a husband by age 40, lol. They keep doing their thing while being generally happier and longer-lived than any other group in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:29 PM
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Unmarried, childless women are the happiest demographic of the population. They also live longer, on average, than married women. The "sad lonely cat lady" trope is an easily disproven myth. Check it out: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:44 PM
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That's a tabloid opinion piece in the Daily Mail from 13 years ago that doesn't say anything about feminists "squashing" male birth control. The author is not a "prominent feminist" and it doesn't mention anything about a panel(??) being made up of feminists.
/r/MensRights16/02/23 12:52 PM
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So... no source for the "feminists squashed the last male birth control drug" claim? Carol Tobias is not a feminist. There's nothing feminist about the Daily Mail opinion piece from 2010, either. And opinion pieces in tabloid newspapers don't stop drug trials.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 07:24 PM
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Do you have a source for that other than the opinion piece from the Daily Mail? Women being vocally opposed to something is not sufficient to stop it from happening - see Roe v. Wade getting overturned last summer. As far as I know, most male birth control studies have been halted due to safety/side effect concerns.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 06:59 PM
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There was a post the other day claiming that a trans woman feminist academic named R.W. Connell wanted to castrate all men in order to achieve feminist goals. I read some of her book, and of course that's not at all what she was saying. She advocated for an expansion in society's notions about what the male body can do and what it is for (because currently, it's often only seen as a tool for war, violence, dominance, and power). She suggested that men could have an increased role in the very emb…
/r/MensRights25/01/23 06:54 PM
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What we see in her statement is the idea men are here to provide for women. It's interesting that you see that, because it's not at all what she said. She talks about an equal partnership, someone who values fairness, someone who wants to do their share in the home. This book was primarily a guide to help women be successful at work. It's about the opposite of being provided for by a man.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 06:33 PM
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I'm glad you reconsidered.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 04:51 PM
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Hey, speaking of masculinity discussions in academia, why'd your RW Connell post and all your comments there disappear?
/r/MensRights24/01/23 03:37 PM
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It was in a discussion of the APA guidelines for the treatment of men and boys. A discussion where? In what context? If you truly believe that feminists' secret evil plan is to forcibly castrate men en masse... I really don't know what to tell you, other than I don't think that is a belief that is in touch with reality. And there's not much I can do to argue against it, right? If you think it's a secret evil plan, there's nothing I can say to disprove it. If I point out that the text you quoted …
/r/MensRights22/01/23 08:57 PM
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You said you went to check the original source. Where did you come across the quotes in the first place? What agenda were they possibly trying to push with these quotes? You de-gender a body by removing the gender-based societal restrictions and expectations on what a person can and should do with their body. Our culture often sees men's bodies as both violent and expendable, and that is messed up. Just as a relatively mundane example, my husband is a nurse, but people constantly assume he's a d…
/r/MensRights22/01/23 08:04 PM
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I wasn't listening. I was anticipating. I was waiting to hear a sentence or even just a couple of words that proved what I wanted to believe: that I had found the misandrist, the ground zero of the war on men Is that what happened when you read/cherry-picked the quotes in your original post and presented them as evidence of a literal mass castration campaign being advocated for by feminists (a sentence I can't even type without laughing at its absurdity)?
/r/MensRights22/01/23 07:44 PM
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Anything from Andy Ngo's website should be categorized as spam.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 07:31 PM
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Okay. I wish you the best of luck in your crusade to hold Sigmund Freud accountable for his language and theories about "castration anxiety." Please also hold him accountable for "penis envy" and the idea that "clitoral orgasms" are immature while you're at it, if you have time. I'm going to go back to trying to regain my right to bodily autonomy now.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 07:28 PM
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It's a very common transphobic belief that trans women are fetishists. You assumed that a trans woman was a fetishist rather than assuming the much more likely scenario - she's referencing Freud. You could ask yourself why you made such an assumption about a trans woman. "Using an act of sexual violence as a method of trying to talk about the psychological experiences of others" was pioneered and popularized by Freud, not this obscure author.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 07:22 PM
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Yep, I get it. You have a transphobic axe to grind. I made a mistake when I assumed that your post was written in good faith. It won't happen again.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 07:07 PM
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She mentions "castration" on a total of four pages of the 324 page book Masculinities, and it's always in the context of "castration anxiety," which is a Freudian term. The author is a trans woman, as OP stated in the title of the post.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 06:28 PM
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Also, if you have an issue with all the castration and phallus talk, take that up with Freud and Lacan. That's their stuff.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 06:15 PM
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Had you ever heard of this author before today? I'm a feminist and a librarian and this was the first I'd ever heard of her. I went to college in the late 90s and took a women's studies class while I was there. She was never mentioned. Never heard of her until OP posted this and misrepresented a few quotes of hers. Also, I want to reiterate that she wasn't saying what OP is trying to convince people she is saying. OP is succeeding in convincing readers here that an influential(?) feminist trans …
/r/MensRights22/01/23 06:14 PM
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A simpler explanation would be that she talks about castration a lot because Freud talked about castration a whole lot, and she's referring to Freud, as she said in the text. It's a common transphobic belief that all trans women are fetishists.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 06:06 PM
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Why would little boys be reading dense, thirty year old academic textbooks that use words like "hegemony" and refer to Freudian and Lacanian psychology?
/r/MensRights22/01/23 06:03 PM
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Not sure what happened to your comment where you linked me a transphobic video, but here's the reply I attempted to send you before it vanished: I'm not going to watch an hour-long transphobic video, but thanks for clarifying that you had an anti-trans agenda when you made your post. I'm here because someone shared one of my posts on this sub and it got brigaded, so credit goes to your fellow subreddit members for "inviting" me. Sorry to un-echo your echo chamber.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 05:12 PM
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Of course defenders of the patriarchy fear that men will be turned into women. You hear it all the time in "Culture War" discourse. "They want to feminize men! It's a war on masculinity! Where have all the manly men gone? They want to trans your kids!" And you're doing it here, too. Saying, "Look, this feminist trans woman wants to chop off your balls!" It's wild to me that you are doing the exact thing she's describing without even realizing it. I wish you all the best.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 04:47 PM
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1.) Most trans people (and most people generally) have never heard of this person. 2.) She is not "advocating for mass castration." OP either misread or disingenuously misrepresented this text, which is admittedly hard to understand because it's written for academics. She isn't saying "men must be castrated to achieve equality." She's saying that male hegemony (power, dominance) is so deeply engrained in our culture that when people critique male hegemony, some men react with Freudian "fear of c…
/r/MensRights22/01/23 04:06 PM
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That's unfortunate. Thanks for pointing out the transphobia embedded in this conversation, too, that deserves to be called out.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 03:45 PM
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She's not "advocating for mass castration." She's saying that male hegemony is so engrained in our culture that when people start to critique male hegemony, some men react by seeing it as a threat to their manhood. They feel the Freudian "fear of castration" and fear that this critiquing means someone wants to turn men into women. Ironically, this is exactly the fear you're displaying here, and so are a LOT of folks in the comment section. If anything, you're proving her point! There are pages u…
/r/MensRights22/01/23 03:22 PM
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The first rule of debate is to determine whether a potential debate partner is worth debating. You don't know "most" of what I believe with regards to gender, gender equality, and gender roles, but before even bothering to find out, you assume that my beliefs must be wrong. And your grammar sucks. I'll pass.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 10:16 PM
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I don't think you understand what a Reddit Cares reports is, or how it can be used to harass people. Google it if you want. Have a good day.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 03:19 PM
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You were one of several. Did you just send your two comments, or did you also send the Reddit Cares reports? Or was that someone else from this lovely subreddit?
/r/MensRights21/01/23 03:11 PM
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Someone linked a post I made here, slapped a misrepresentative title on it, and incited people to brigade it. You were one of them.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 02:45 PM
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