| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 100 | Lost interest in women | duck__man | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 04:34 AM | |
| 14 | Just watched Kramer vs Kramer | duck__man | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/25 12:39 AM | |
| 0 | Picked up a college girl, as a late 40s guy | Dating After Divorce | duck__man | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 09:01 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Picked up a college girl, as a late 40s guyIt's the only post because people like you go through post histories, so I delete my previous posts every few months. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Picked up a college girl, as a late 40s guyIt's not dormant, I just delete my post history every few months cos creeps love to go through my comments and previous posts | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Picked up a college girl, as a late 40s guyI don't care, I'm not marrying her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Picked up a college girl, as a late 40s guyDo 50 year old women stay away from guys who could be their sons? No they don't | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 06:20 PM |
| 3 | How did you press on; when they rewrote truth and turned everyone against you?You press on by banging other chicks! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 09:07 AM |
| 4 | First meeting with divorce lawyer, left me feeling deflated and unsupportedRun!!!! And never get a female lawyer, she’s on your stbx’s sjde!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/25 03:38 PM |
| 13 | Social Media to Men: Abusive Wives are HILARIOUS!!!The worst is when the wife won’t have sex with you. I should have totally gotten a mistress. But no I was too honorable, and then she left me for some caveman looking dude and I’m sure she’s not celibate with him. I would never accept a sexless situation again. I’m not looking for a roommate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/25 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else just feel like a total pussy when it's almost all done?Is this a good thing for people who went through a divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/25 12:51 AM |
| 2 | First dateDid you smash? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/25 12:50 AM |
| 3 | First dateYup, filtering out girls who just want free drinks or free dinner is key | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/25 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else just feel like a total pussy when it's almost all done?Yeah it’s called exposure therapy. I also would let places affect me and then I realized if those places affect me it means that my ex is still controlling me. That helped me get over it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else just feel like a total pussy when it's almost all done?Can you explain? What questions do you get? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/25 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else just feel like a total pussy when it's almost all done?You can also learn to pull your own tooth out but it’s also helpful to hire a professional | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/25 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Dating Age RangeYeah, too young and they’ll make fun of you or make little digs about your age. That’s not fun | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/25 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Dating Age RangeYeah they have been pumped and dumped by so many guy that any action you take no matter how well intentioned, they’ll look at it through the lense of their jerk ex boyfriends and judge you even though you did nothing wrong. It gets so annoying and exhausting | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/25 11:55 PM |
| 4 | 50 something yo Divorced Cougars picking up 30 year oldsYeah they go through a hoe phase with a bunch of one night stands, then realize it's degrading and not what they want, and then they make the next guy wait for 2 months for sex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/25 04:28 AM |
| 9 | 2nd wife?”You’re with the wrong woman. Dump her and keep looking | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Attorney dropped me 2 months before final hearing.You found one in a million | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/25 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Attorney dropped me 2 months before final hearing.Your first mistake was getting a female lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/25 05:12 AM |
| 2 | HappinessDude, sorry to say but she got her back blown out when you guys were separated by one night stands | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 07:32 AM |
| 3 | HappinessYou're close, but not quite there. It's not that women don't have close friends, they do. But they are very selfish, catty and love backstabbing their friends. They have no idea what is honor, duty and loyalty. No idea whatsoever. And here's the thing. Once you need something and once she has a better option, that same lack of honor duty and loyalty is what will make it so easy for her to leave you and jump on someone else's cock. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 07:31 AM |
| 12 | After 20 years she blindsides me with “i dont want to be married anymore”Your first mistake is looking for a fault in you to make sense of why she's leaving. Like whether you cheated, whether you're a good dad. Plenty of us here haven't cheated and are good fathers and are still getting divorced. This society tells women that they don't need to be wives, they can ride the cock carousel. The fact that you won't be under the same roof as your son is a terrifying thought to men, but women do not care one bit. And the fact that you'll be blind in 20 years means that she … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Just watched Kramer vs KramerThanks for the recommendation. Divorce American Style from the 60s with Dick Van Dyke is great too. They show the asset split negotiation with lawyers, I was like that was me!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/25 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Just watched Kramer vs KramerRented on Amazon prime for $4 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/25 05:26 AM |
| 5 | How the FuckYou know how when your team loses the championship you feel terrible the next day but then it feels easier and easier. That’s how it is with divorce. After a while you’ll it won’t sting as bad | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/25 01:14 AM |
| 9 | Just watched Kramer vs KramerPretty much all single fathers perform better than single mothers | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else dealt with a destroyed sex drive even though they are happily with another partner?What’s your age? (Approximate) Is your sex drive low because sex is bad? Do you have trouble maintaining erection? Do you have trouble ejaculating? If sex is bad because of erection and ejaculation issues that’s why you don’t want to initiate. Try going to a strip club to see if that kick starts your libido. It doesn’t matter who pumps up the tires as long as your girlfriend rides the bike | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/25 12:48 AM |
| 4 | This Marcus Aurelius quote is helping me- maybe it will help youHis wife cheated on him with a gladiator | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Lost interest in womenDo you think it's cos you were 10 years younger? I don't know how old you are, but lets say you were 35 then and 45 now, isn't it expected for a 35 year old to go on more dates than a 45 year old? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/25 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Erotically ConditionedYes, but our brains are elastic. With time you will be able to make connections with someone else. I don't even remember what my ex looked like after 1.5 years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/25 10:54 PM |
| 0 | A Guy I Work With…..Most people here are calling you a douche, so good job lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/25 05:37 AM |
| -13 | A Guy I Work With…..Fake | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/25 07:14 AM |
| 2 | How to stop thinking about them?Haha yup, green haired slobs | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/25 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Lost interest in womenWhat changed? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/25 08:09 AM |
| 4 | Alimony & BitternessI should have included cohabitation in my agreement | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Anyone attribute COVIDs lock down to the down fall of the marriage?Yikes! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/25 10:35 PM |
| 4 | STBXW wants to date after she moves outDid she sleep with this guy in the bar or go to his house? How can you even look at her knowing some guy was pumping her and she enjoyed it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/25 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Anyone attribute COVIDs lock down to the down fall of the marriage?Why did you blame her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/25 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Anyone attribute COVIDs lock down to the down fall of the marriage?How so? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/25 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What would you have done differently?I take downvotes as a positive sign :-) I didn't want to have another man raise my kids, so me and my ex stuck it out until the kids were 18. It was the best thing I did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/24 10:36 AM |
| -3 | What would you have done differently?How old are the kids? Stick it out until they’re 18 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/24 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Lost interest in womenIt's incredible, why didn't you text me good morning, why didn't you ask me how my day was, why didn't you plan something to do this weekend, why didn't you ask me how my mom was even though I told you she had the sniffles 2 weeks ago, it's just relentless | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/24 05:55 AM |
| 4 | How do you really be happy for your ex wife?Why would I be happy for her? She betrayed the vows we gave in front of God, family and friends. Why? Because I got covid and couldn't walk and gained weight. She said she lost intimate feelings for me and fell in love with some guy who slid into her Instagram DMs. Fuck that hoe PS I lost all the weight I gained during covid, and then some | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/24 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Lost interest in womenModern western women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/24 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Lost interest in womenExactly, they're overstepping their bounds | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/24 01:52 AM |
| 5 | Lost interest in womenYeah, before I got divorced, in order to prevent the divorce I agreed to all my ex wife's demands and it only sped up the divorce process lol I'm much better at saying no now, but it's annoying i have to go through these shit tests | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Lost interest in womenYou will not find a person who cares more about work life balance than me. But if I was laid off next month I would be saying "I wish I didn't miss that deadline". I don't work OT a lot, but when there's something urgent, it has to be done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Lost interest in womenI agree, but there's a deadline and work needs to get done. If it's not there goes the bonus and probably the job when the next round of layoffs hits. It already feels bad to put in the extra hours without my girlfriend whining about it and making it even worse. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Lost interest in womenThanks, will read both | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Lost interest in womenI went after my divorce, and the therapist was like "there's not much more I can do to help you" so I stopped going. But when this woman heard I went and stopped, she was like you have to keep going. Basically she thinks the therapist will take her side, so she wants me to go not to better myself, but for her thoughts to be validated by the therapist. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 07:40 PM |
| 8 | Lost interest in womenThere's truth to this | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Lost interest in womenThat's what it seems like to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 07:37 PM |
| 18 | Lost interest in womenI don't even want a dog. I don't want to have to walk them and feed them and pick up their poop. I want complete freedom. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Dating in 2024 is oddShe really loves sex. She probably has other FWBs too | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/24 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Is no alimony a win?Per week | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 06:29 AM |
| 3 | Telling friends and colleagues about pending divorce finalizationtell no one | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/24 12:44 AM |
| -6 | My brother in laws divorce settlementWrong | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/24 12:26 AM |
| 1 | I can’t wrap my head around how she is doing so wellWas she hiding her phone in the last few months? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 05:43 AM |
| 1 | I can’t wrap my head around how she is doing so wellMy ex wife found an instagram rapper to replace me lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 05:42 AM |
| 9 | I can’t wrap my head around how she is doing so wellShe was sad a year or two ago but you don’t notice cos you were busy. Now she’s told you it’s over and she’s relieved. She also probably is dating someone else, if not she’s at least talking to some guys on FB or IG | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/24 05:39 AM |
| 1 | What does online dating look like for you?100% want them, but top 20% of guys aren’t going to waste time with bottom 20% women | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | To my friends and family: Where were you when I needed youNever | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/23 04:29 PM |
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