Because they have no incentive to take the risk when the majority of men are simps Infront of them all the time. If they have incentive for something, they'll put the hard work in that, like trying to court the alpha man, but not the average joe
So if you couldn't achieve your goals, due to whatever reason, its natural to feel insecure and not confident about your situation. What should one do to improve your self esteem in such situations
Conservative way of life like our parents had. Guaranteed arrange marriage, and extramarital relations shunned. There were some cons but i think the pros are more than cons
Society needs to revert back to conservative idea of marriage. Both parties have responsibilities in a marriage, extra marital affairs are punished, early marriage is encouraged . This is the only way to curb this problem imho.