dudeness-aberdeen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Curious to hear from trans men about misandry I used to be friends with one. And in our short conversations they lamented their choice and told me they miss the attention and had lost their “hot lesbian” vibe. They were pretty butch before they transitioned, so I think they felt as though they already had one foot over the fence and “were basically a man because they played sports.” Nope, bro. Not even close.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/01/26 03:52 PM
32	What are some notable examples of male disposability? I used to work with petroleum. We handled it in large quantities via pump truck and large storage tanks. When we did get the occasional female worker, management would rapidly transition them into tertiary jobs that didn’t handle the fuel as much or at all. They would end up in accounting, the quality lab, dispatching or management trainees. I never cared much. The jobs all paid the same and needed to get done. I asked one of our big wigs once, why no women stayed in jobs actually pumping gas or…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/07/25 12:16 PM
6	The fact that Men’s Mental Health Month is in June in the US is such a pisstake You’re preaching to the choir, homie. Wait until I tell you that Father’s Day and my graduation are this month.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/06/25 05:28 PM
9	Have you ever had a failed relationship because your girlfriend/wife pressured you to give up your hobbies? I can see his ladies point, but that does not make it valid. There are things I’d be embarrassed to tell people, if my wife did them for a job. (Cam girl or MLM). I’d be in my right to let her know I’d rather her have a different job. She likely was embarrassed telling people what he did. “My bf is an engineer “ is more succinct than “he makes YouTube videos “. People understand one and will have obvious questions about the other. Like I said, I see where she’s coming from. But it’s from a place…	/r/MenSupportMen	13/12/24 12:18 PM
9	Hypocrisy of Therapists, I have had some terrible ones, bro. I had a guy that broke me down on my first visit. I still don't understand exactly why he felt like he needed to do that? I was not hiding anything and being super candid. The guy just started poking and hit the right spot and just PRESSED. I've had ones that made me feel terrible for advocating for myself. Ive had them just not listen and forget details. becoming a therapist doesn't make you a good person. I guess thats why you always hear the cliche about fi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/11/24 01:24 PM
12	Are these “liberal men” in the room with us right now? Come get your people.	/r/EverydayMisandry	06/11/24 12:58 PM
6	Getting Called ‘Beta’ as a New Dad—How Do I Stay Confident for My Daughter? I would not be around people that used super wack labels? Especially to the extent that I hard it, AND it was directed to me? My dude. These are not your people.	/r/MenSupportMen	05/10/24 01:54 AM
10	Has anyone else been sexualized ad a child? Yeah. When I was YOUNG too. Not just the typical, handsome boy! Stuff, either. It’s really hard for me when I see posts by ladies all mad that a dude asked them to smile or some gross person sexualized them. I mean, That was my life until I was old enough to stop people pleasing and going to church.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/10/24 05:29 PM
9	Destiny: ''if a guy fucks up he's alone forever if a girl fucks up she gets her face cut off by a homicidal dude'' ??? Dude I’ve been rejected so many times. I’d be clinically depressed 24/7 if I let that shit get to me.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/09/24 04:25 PM
11	On a leftist subreddit. Feminists claim to care about men, while also saying we commit “a lot of physical and mental violence to women and children” and that we deserve to be treated like shit… Oh yeah. They were the “good ones”. Lol. I know exactly what that meant.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/09/24 12:11 AM
13	On a leftist subreddit. Feminists claim to care about men, while also saying we commit “a lot of physical and mental violence to women and children” and that we deserve to be treated like shit… No lie.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/09/24 05:05 PM
55	On a leftist subreddit. Feminists claim to care about men, while also saying we commit “a lot of physical and mental violence to women and children” and that we deserve to be treated like shit… Almost word for word what my racist ass, old relatives used to say about black people. Fucking gross.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/09/24 12:21 PM
15	Why do women commit less crime I think it’s a combo of chivalry theory and breadwinner pressure. I would absolutely commit a crime to feed my family before I’d ask my wife to. I’d do years in prison to see my wife, son, and animals all provided for. I’m not saying all the statistics are dudes out committing crimes to put food in the pantry. But the pressure on men to provide, regardless of the circumstances, should not go ignored. Thanks for doing your work!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/06/24 01:48 PM
3	Why Do I Get The Ick When Men Are Emotional Around Me? Oh jee. This guy is really going though something. How can I take that as a slight? No way somebody would EVER not want ME?!?! He MUST be an abusive pos. Who would actually abuse somebody by talking about being sad? /s wtf is wrong with this lady? I can’t imagine the level of entitlement she must feel.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/05/24 11:55 AM
4	as a trans man, how do i fit into male advocacy? “Living in pain they did not personally cause.” I hear you. Thanks. This is well written and I appreciate hearing your perspective.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/01/24 07:40 PM
1	You would think with how hard society negatively obsesses over incels, we could have actually stopped so much time, energy and resources from being wasted and instead invested into some sort of mental health campaign for them and romantically-struggling men in general, instead of scapegoating them If people start actually doing something, who will do all the handwringing?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/01/24 10:02 PM
4	VERY BIG VERY EXCITING UPDATE! Congratulations! I bet that was a huge weight off of your shoulders. Now try and take care of yourself, dude!!	/r/MenSupportMen	26/05/23 02:41 PM
12	Gender dysphoria made me understand how important masculinity is to most men This guy gets it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/03/23 01:44 AM
4	I’m an alcoholic, it’s getting really bad, and I don’t know how to stop R/stopdrinking I joined Reddit just to try the sub out. Read a post or two. You might find some solidarity. I sure did. 3 years plus, sober right here, homie! Alcohol is great, until it’s not. People will support your drinking, until they won’t. We have booze pushed in our faces on tv and all forms of media. It’s at every celebration and every party. It’s super easy to succumb to notion of drinking, every so often, if not daily. I used it to deal with severe anxiety and social issues. It stuck w…	/r/MenSupportMen	18/09/22 01:12 PM
2	I decided that I am seeking reparations as a survivor before contributing to society Get yours, homie. I’m happy for you. To hear it being described as reparations was very eye opening, for me. Thanks for the insight. I hope you crush it, in stocks.	/r/MenSupportMen	21/08/22 02:31 PM
8	Can't Deny It Anymore That’s just toxic femininity.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/01/22 02:38 PM
6	Six Men Tell Their Stories of Sexual Assault in the Military (Published 2019) Happened to a dude in my shop. I imagine it’s a much bigger problem than leadership let’s on.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/01/22 02:14 PM
5	Being your own father I relate to your post, so much. My dad is a super selfish, self absorbed, narcissist and my mother was a big enabler. Everything I’ve learned about being a man/who I am, was done despite my parents failed attempts. I began pretty early (like you) in my 20’s to realize that I couldnt model my life after my parents. I started to cherry pick what attributes I thought were wholesome and honorable for a man, and try to emulate them. It made no difference where I got the example from. I’ve admired old…	/r/MenSupportMen	16/12/21 01:14 PM
4	LWMA supports unions and r/antiwork's efforts to help Kelloggs' workers Right on. They totally should!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/12/21 12:50 PM
65	Am I the only one who notices that gender roles are more rigid for men than are for women? You ain’t wrong. I chose to stay home with my boy when my wife went back to work after maternity leave. We tried daycare and relatives for a year or so, but it was sucky and not worth the hassle. We analyzed our finances and with my retirement and some good stock moves, I was able to swing not working. It’s funny to me how a woman could choose to work OR stay home with their kid and get praise regardless of the choice and the chorus of “you GO girrrrlll!!!” I had people actively being assholes t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/11/21 03:20 PM
9	Anyone else abused by their dads at a young age still struggling into adulthood? I didn’t get the exact same treatment you did, but verbal abuse, manipulation, and hitting were all things I experienced. I’m in my 40’s now and I’ve addressed my issues by self medicating. Up until two years ago, anyways, I’d just drink myself stupid all the time and forget about life. I also would engage in only super masculine activities and work/careers in order to overcompensate for how insecure I was. I’m still struggling. Recognizing the issues is a big step, that’s about where I’m at, th…	/r/MenSupportMen	19/10/21 01:49 PM
1	How do men here feel about being the 'providers and protectors' of women? I’ve always been ok with it. Where I started to have problems was as I got older and my body and health started failing me. It’s not the physical and mental ailments themselves I struggle with as much as People can’t accept when you are busted. I can deal with a fucked up leg, back problems, depression, and even cancer. I can’t deal with people that are used to seeing me in peak shape that can’t tolerate me taking time to let my body or mind heal.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/10/21 12:07 PM
2	Stoic practice as a toolbox for mental health The Happiness Lab podcast did an episode on Stoicism and the ancient stoic philosophers. It resonated so much with me as a way of thinking.	/r/MenSupportMen	03/08/21 03:08 AM
12	Started a discussion about whether or not men when going to the doctor are asked if they are feeling safe in their relationships. Not surprised but still disappointed by the responses No. Not ever. I’m 43 years old and have never been asked that by anyone, let alone a medical professional. I do get asked about my guns and wether or not I have thoughts of harming myself or others pretty routinely.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/07/21 12:48 PM