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Normal, attractive people, should only be attracted to people attracted to them. this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 01:14 AM
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This is nothing new and is a side effect of society not taking women's sexuality seriously. I love attractive men and I am thirsty af! Who isn't, honestly? It's ridiculous that people think just because I am a woman I am incapable of caring about how a man looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 12:02 AM
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this list is actually pretty accurate. however, if ugly men realized they will never get a woman who fits all this criteria, we wouldn't have the dating crisis we do on dating sites where no is swiping right on dudes because they only want attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 09:35 PM
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this is biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:08 AM
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There was a study (I'd have to search for it) that showed more fearful women prefer more dominant and aggressive men. it's called being codependent. that is by no means healthy or normal. usually relationships like that are doomed to fail with both parties (esp the woman) needing years of therapy to recover from the mess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:05 AM
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not if she has PCOS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:03 AM
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We men really aren't that picky about other things, but we care a lot about fertility. as a I mentioned earlier, this means men should be attracted to older women with illnesses like PCOS that reverses their fertility period
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:03 AM
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a nice and tight young vagina? Instead of an used up loose old and baggy one? that's not how the female anatomy works, buddy. plz stay in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:01 AM
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only rare exceptions like George Clooney. as a woman in here 20s, I can guarantee you that I do not find older guys attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:56 AM
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Male sex drive is a desire to impregnate. to reiterate my previous point, if that's the case then men should be attracted to older women with illnesses like PCOS that cause them to be infertile in their youth and fertile past the age of 30 when most women lose their fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:54 AM
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unless they are rich or really good at grooming (i.e. pedophiles)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:49 AM
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why are you pointing out the exceptions and pretending they are the rule? the numbers are what matter here. the fact is that the vast majority of women of color age very well. I am Pakistani and not a single adult in my family under the age of 55 has any wrinkles!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:48 AM
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apparently sex gets better as you grow older!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:46 AM
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interestingly enough, there are medical conditions that reverse the age requirements of childbirth. if a woman has PCOS, she will be infertile under the age of 30-35 but fertile after that. using the logic shared by men in this thread, women with PCOS should theoretically become more attractive to men past that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:45 AM
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it's to assert dominance over women. I communicate with an incel regularly who is nearing 30. he clearly finds women in that age range attractive as he's went on multiple dates with them- they just never lead anywhere and he's salty about that. in an argument once he confessed that he will be a 30 year old virgin soon, so he's looking forward to getting his revenge when women want him once he's older/wealthier and women his age who once rejected him become ugly and undesirable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 12:42 AM
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this is 100% true. I have observed this as well. women with alpha personalities end up with decent guys who treat them well. meanwhile submissive and stereotypically feminine women usually end up with abusive jerks. just another reason for women to act more masculine! it really does improve your dating prospects significantly. good guys love women who take charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 03:30 AM
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woman in her 20s. I have a male best friend, 2 good guy friends from work who I hang out with a lot, 3-5 guy friends I travel and go to hackathons with. I have a group of around 8 girl friends who are also women in tech. however, the woman I have the deepest bond with is probably my own sister. gender doesn't matter when it comes to friendships with me. interests matter more. I prefer nerds in the hard sciences since I don't have to talk about boring crap with them. I think there definitely is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 03:52 AM
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...that's...not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 05:11 AM
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that's bullshit. women want to be the BEST he ever had.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:33 AM
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men can't be cuckolded either. paternity tests are really easy to obtain these days. also, I am a woman who prefers virgin (or low n) men. we aren't as rare as you make us out to be. we are just socially conditioned to lower our standards and tolerate men's promiscuous behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 12:32 AM
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men whine more about it. what is the female version of an incel? exactly. there are nerdy girls who can't get laid, so they put in effort, try to look more attractive, etc. and boom. find a boyfriend in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:27 AM
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yea, anger destroys people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 08:48 PM
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That is true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 06:25 AM
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men fuck over women financially more often than you would realize. this is why a women shouldn't date guys poorer than them!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 12:34 AM
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Nope. In many cultures, long hair is considered masculine. Therefore, it cannot be objectively argued that short hair is masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:39 PM
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What? A woman has two options: 1) focus on her career 2) focus on pleasing a man. If a man fails to provide financial security, she's wasting her time on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:38 PM
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How can you guarantee your spouse won't cheat on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:37 PM
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you claimed to have witnessed me throwing a tantrum. so I am asking you- do I know you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:30 PM
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who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:21 PM
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the fuck are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:40 PM
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have you been asleep for all of human history? have you really never heard all those jokes about women keeping men in chains after marriage, authors like F Scott Fitzgerald who didn't have a single positive female character in their novels, the stereotype that women are bimbos among male scientists and engineers, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:23 PM
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my ENTJ ex spent more time with his friends so I was spared. thank God lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:20 PM
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this is why I avoid men who are too attractive. trust issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:12 PM
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sounds ESFP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:11 PM
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Yes. My last relationship taught me that just because a man is sensitive doesn't mean he is empathetic and a good man. Emotional men can be just as selfish and abusive as aloof men. In fact, they are worse because their actions are non-logical and they are excellent at emotional manipulation. I have basically learned that any man is capable of hurting me, even the ones who look soft and kind have a dark side. I will no longer be ignoring red flags and leaving relationships as soon as I start spo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:08 PM
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lmaoooooooooooo I literally spat out the water I was drinking on my keyboard. someone give this person gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 02:13 AM
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in Japan, WOMEN are the ones who are choosing to not marry. the MEN can't get laid so they're starting to develop weird fetishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 02:07 AM
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yea, man! I remember the good ol' days when men started marching on the streets for the right to vote, have paternity/maternity leave, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 02:04 AM
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Pissing on the streets is not illegal, and if it is, it's a nonsensical law because other species do it all the time. What makes it worse if a human does it? Your comment is full of fallacies. The second example involves more than one party and thus isn't an issue of exercising bodily autonomy, and rather, an issue of non-consensual vouyerism. It can be argued that you are stripping another person off their bodily autonomy because you're forcing them to watch you have sex. Remember, it's only il…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 08:04 PM
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Lol what you're describing as "bad girls" are just vulnerable girls. Not the same thing. Also, there's a strong class element to your choice of victims, which makes me believe you choose these victims simply because they belong to the same low class as you. Men who come from wealth have an entirely different criteria. One thing their victims all have in common is low self-esteem, which is found more commonly in good girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 06:03 PM
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That...only happens in porn videos. I'm sorry to break this to you, but the vast majority of victims of sexual abuse get abused by romantic partners. And y'all aren't dating bad girls so they're safe from the manipulation, heart break, and rape in a romantic relationships. Bad girls know how to set boundaries and will likely have an entire group of people who will kick your ass if you wrong them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 04:54 PM
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Lol. Again, that's not what I meant by "bad". I'm talking about women who are known for being cold, distant, aloof, and bitchy. Why TF you bringing drugs into this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:37 AM
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Decent guys don't care about a girl's reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 07:11 AM
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Good for you. If you can understand those are your standards, you must understand that they are mine too. I do not like manwhores for the same reason. I'm repulsed by men who have a reputation for being sexually aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 12:51 AM
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No, what I am saying is that there is a difference between a manwhore and a man who is actually desired by women. I've met manwhores who will literally fuck anything that moves. Why would I want to be with a man with a community dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 12:23 AM
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Re-read what I said. Everyone will notice if you defy expectations. Noticing something isn't always a positive thing. Secondly, you're bringing up yet another false analogy. In the situation I'm describing, people are defying negative expectations in a positive manner. In your example, people are defying positive expectations in a negative manner. Strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 12:20 AM
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I don't believe you for several reasons, but I'll focus on one. Your answer displays a fundamental lack of empathy for women (i.e. referring to them with dehumanizing names like "slut"). I am a firm believer that a man who disrespects one woman, will disrespect any woman when he can, which means you are just proving my premise is correct (that both good and bad girls are equally fucked). Finally, you're falsely assuming you're a catch, when your comment suggests you are a part of the pool that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 12:18 AM
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Nope. Not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 12:13 AM
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No, I'm not attracted to manwhores. I don't want an STI.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 09:14 PM
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Lmao. I wanna see y'all try that on on an actual bad girl (i.e. Rihanna). This sounds like something that only happens in the fantasy of abusive men. In reality, men use good girl's naivety and bad girl's reputations to justify abusing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:54 PM
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That's not what I argued at all. I said you will never be appreciated for doing what's expected of you, but everyone will notice if you defy their expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:59 PM
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It was a poor analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:46 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:57 PM
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Read the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:57 PM
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Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:56 PM
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Yes, the only other one I can think of is that men can and will use your reputation to justify abusing you. But again, with education you can learn to spot and avoid those kinds of men. Also, good girls are not sheltered from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:16 AM
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Wtf. Exercising bodily autonomy is not illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:14 AM
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You and I have different definitions of the word "bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:13 AM
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link?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:56 PM
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huh, I am a woman and I was the opposite. I suck at basic arithmetic but love logic problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:43 PM
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this is very similar to what happened to me. I used to study political science. was never "exposed" to STEM as much as I was to the humanities (mainly because I had ADHD and all my teachers hated me except my history teacher, who made me develop a love for politics). halfway through my poli sci degree I realized I fucking hated it and did not want to spend my life doing it. ended up switching to IT with a minor in math, now becoming a data scientist. best decision of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:42 PM
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but "working memory" automatically puts people with ADHD at a huge disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:33 PM
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have you both been tested for ADHD? people with ADHD have poor working memory which causes them to perform poorly on timed tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:32 PM
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Richard Feynman's IQ was 125, which is the average for all Master's/PhD students.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:31 PM
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lol. I hate to break it to you guys (namely: Americans who are obsessed with pretending they are "independent") but in a healthy relationship, *no one* is independent. both partners depend on each other in different ways. whether it's emotional support, sexual needs, safety and well-being, child rearing, housekeeping, or financial means...if your partner is not contributing, or if they are contributing too much, the relationship will not last.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 05:09 PM
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This is fake af. Ain't no way those dudes with 6 packs were messaging her. These are clearly fake profiles 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 07:39 PM
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Women will be more attracted to you if you work on your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:27 AM
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Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:27 AM
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Did you try a different therapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:26 AM
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Relationships are on a pedestal because they are important. As I stated in the description, so many companies like Amazon would not be here today if their founders were not married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:25 AM
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oh, I didn't know I am supposed to respond to those lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:21 PM
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...but people are having a discussion in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:44 PM
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I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:05 PM
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How is this circle-jerking?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:17 PM
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I have only done this once and that's because he was the only guy who wasn't into me and I found that intriguing. However, I realized he's actually quite boring and my brain was just making me find him interesting because he was rejecting me. I dropped him pretty quickly after that. Now I just debate with him occasionally but only because it means nothing to me. I'll argue with anyone over anything lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:15 PM
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Men do this too tho, and it's worse because men actually lead you on. I had a guy tell me I was "an option" when what he should've said is "I'm not interested".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:08 PM
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women like attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:36 AM
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most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:35 AM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:26 AM
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seriously? you're telling me you showered every day as a teenager and young adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:26 AM
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they would help them appear more attractive to women!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:17 AM
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how old were you when you actually started showering regularly, though. I'd assume at least 30+
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:17 AM
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it's a small sample size, but hey. I'd argue it's a good representation of the overall population.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:11 AM
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congratulations, you missed the entire point of this post. women AREN'T as attractive as men think we are. we just "fuss around" and use tactics to fake it. why don't men do that same? what's stopping them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:07 AM
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I live in a co-ed dorm and I have smelt the men's floors/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:05 AM
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sad, but probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:04 AM
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I am studying computer science.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:01 AM
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that's because the majority of women actually put in effort into looking nice, practicing basic hygiene, and having a good personality. sadly, the same cannot be said of the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:34 AM
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you're thinking of conventionally attractive women only. I would argue women who aren't so have to work even harder than men since men are more shallow than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:31 AM
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also, even women who want commitment are usually smart enough to avoid commitment-phobic men. the only ones who stay with fuckboys are those who have low self-esteem or are survivors of abuse who are just repeating patterns they've seen at home. it is not healthy or normal to have a different level of attachment in partners, and those types of relationships are usually the ones that don't last or end up with a whole lot of resentment and dead bedrooms...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:25 AM
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