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4

Yes. Nothing is stopping you from being happy single. Just you.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/25 12:28 AM
8

Being single is better than being in relationships you don’t want to be in
/r/ExRedPill09/03/25 12:49 AM
5

They have this need for women to be completely subservient to them. They think the man is weak for enjoying a safe normal relationship(something most people know they’d be lucky as fuck to have)
/r/ExRedPill08/03/25 01:24 AM
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Why would I marry a man I don’t find attractive?
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 12:39 PM
3

Just don’t be a POS
/r/ExRedPill26/02/25 10:41 AM
6

I’m 5’4. I’ve dated 5’4, I’ve dated 6’5. I don’t really care either way. I’d say I prefer 5’5 + but clearly that’s not hard and fast. I have a personal limit of guys having to weigh more than me. Weighing 134 pounds is more of an issue for me than being 5’4 is.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 08:20 PM
1

Yeah to me it’s preferred and perfect
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 02:08 AM
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I’m not the one in the cult. Don’t be condescending
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:33 PM
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That’s so disgusting your proud he pushed his batshit propaganda on you? I really hope you get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:31 PM
8

Men don’t take care of anything but themselves and they can barely do that. Men are in capable of feeling “love” or even just gratitude. They feel entitled to everything like a parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:23 PM
16

She is TIRED.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:16 PM
3

But women = bad. They ain’t gonna like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:14 PM
-1

Yes. Be better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:01 PM
4

Please you come out of the womb hating us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:52 AM
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You have no choice in the human beings in the world around you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:52 AM
7

Who needs an academy when you can just spend 20 years Interacting with men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:48 AM
1

Gay male 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:10 AM
1

There’s nothing healthy about marrying the first person you meet that’s insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:02 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️consequences of y’all’s behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:00 AM
9

To remind myself that men are the enemy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:59 AM
2

That’s literally even worse. Please god get help
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:34 PM
8

This that middle America shit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:29 PM
1

We’re less likely to be monsters than you sucks to suck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:12 PM
1

I’m right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:48 PM
1

That has nothing to do with love or not you can love crappy people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:56 PM
-1

Men don’t see sex as anything to do with love. Men fuck corpses, animals and children. It’s just a hole right? Stop being garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:19 PM
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Bestie I posted something like this a while back and they got triggered to high hell. Godspeed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:27 PM
2

I felt that so so deeply
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:09 PM
2

How tf are you finding multiple men you want to fuck, period?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:56 PM
0

Karma is a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:55 PM
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Men are incapable of feeling love. They just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:42 PM
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Becuase we do have to wait to respond to everything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:46 PM
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Just off the top of my head me and all my girlfriends are reading red white and royal blue right now, and we’re all kinda loosing our minds over it. Why? Because of the emotional rawness and vulnerability and communication between the characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:26 PM
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Bro do u want like my entire AO3 history
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:06 PM
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Bro she loves you who cares about anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:29 PM
1

The ones I read do lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:24 PM
0

Emotional openness is sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:48 PM
1

To me a guy being able to fight or having some big macho brovado isn’t it. It’s being defended too. When I say I’d like to feel safe and protected and taken care of i mean a guy who won’t let his family walk all over me and won’t let their friends belittle me. That they won’t belittle and bully me. I don’t want to feel scared of them. More importantly, emotionally unsafe with them. To know they’re going to be my first line of defense, that they have my back. Someone’s whose going to have my back…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:48 PM
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Girl you are hitting ALL the points I make here. They’re delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:16 PM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:44 AM
2

We complain about it constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:10 PM
3

Work on how you present yourself- fashion, hair/grooming can give you a lot of points. Hard to find. Be kind, be friendly, be funny. Girls love those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:12 AM
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Not for my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:19 AM
2

Anywhere? Literally anywhere. Gyms, parties, the local target.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:49 PM
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My dad had me in the 4H and the gym from young ages and it didn’t do shit for me. Was fat, still an fat, still am depressed and hate my appearance. Still lift, now box, Cest la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:48 PM
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This is so stupid holy fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:23 PM
1

Thank you! Also so cool congrats. I’m a real baby in my sport but YK how weirdos get
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:43 PM
0

Because sex is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:42 PM
1

Muay Thai
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:15 PM
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Shawty if you’re too cheap just say that. There will always be a man whose willing to do the real work to impress women, to prove he’s a competent suitor. You’re just gonna keep loosing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:15 PM
2

If the rash guard fits…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:10 AM
2

Oh no this isn’t new muscle this is belly fat (depression weight lol). Good for you though!!! I’ve been weight lifting for many years so I’m kinda too athletic for dudes to not be weird as fuck to me at this point sadly. But I will say dudes who are obsessed with proving they can physically overpower me when I mention those things deeeef weed themselves out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:21 AM
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I think he’s part of why
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:12 AM
1

I’ve gone for some wack looking dudes simply because they were kind and funny. It’s common
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:11 AM
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Brain damage is a wild argument because I’ve never sparred without a helmet and mouth guard. I’ve been kicked in the head, and the helmet eats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:09 AM
2

(Cries in gaining 5 pounds since taking up my sport) But yes friends who you can beat up and get beaten up by while giggling is a different level of sisterhood
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:07 AM
3

I’m 135 pounds and I have friends in Muay Thai who are less than that. Your weight doesn’t determine shit. Some of the best fighters in the game weigh less than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:06 AM
2

I do Muay Thai and I’ve been considering cross training. BJJ feels like a major tech bro hobby lol but it looks cool (read: the uniforms look cool)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:05 AM
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I train Muay Thai and do enjoy it very much but it doesn’t do anything for confidence. It actually makes me way more self conscious, and way less confident. But punching stuff and kicking stuff is fun and it’s been a good way to meet like minded (athletic and nerdy) girlfriends post uni. I will say the friendships do help with confidence though. My coaches have taken extra gentle care with me and I love them so much for it, and there is nothing better than giggling with your girlfriends while yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:04 AM
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because girls are mean But as far as makeup goes, I platonically really appreciate a woman with cool, or even normal and well done makeup. It’s a demonstration of a shared skill and hobby. It’s common ground for many of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:58 PM
2

Because normal men don’t have the weird hang ups you have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:59 AM
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I have only seen it the other way around. But personally I don’t post a guy unless it’s really serious bc I don’t want to hear about it. People have to give you their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:54 PM
2

A perosnally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 02:45 AM
0

Ooh someone’s feelings are hurt. It’s a felid full of red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:51 PM
2

Oh yeah absolutely not my experience. Guy in a college class who had to be removed for sexually harassing one girl (me, hi) and physically assaulting another is currently getting his MSW. My cousin is an MSW, we don’t speak bc her reaction to a photo I posted where my SH scars were a little visible was to Screenshot it and send it around as cringe embarrassing gossip, and the third is just an annoying, obnoxious, oblivious out of touch name dropping weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:13 PM
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(W flare)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:11 PM
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You sound like fun at parties
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:39 PM
3

Ooof I didn’t even think of landlords. Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:39 PM
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It’s not the “nerd” I care about. It’s the way that 3/4 (4 is just a great friend!) gave the same sociopathic bullshit egotistical asshole traits. Pharmacist, doctor, lawyer, accademic, accountant, lab science, all cool by me. I just don’t fuck with engineers bc of their personalities. Women don’t care that you’re a “nerd” it’s not 1985
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:35 PM
2

Maybe I’m from a place way too poor to have that problem (I did once work with crackheads though!) but I think one of my exes used to bartend at a place where Everyone was on coke now that you mention it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:33 PM
4

It’s not a super fun life. A lot of the waitresses I’ve worked with were a lot themselves too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:13 PM
8

Engineers. Been through too many and they’re all pretty weird and borderline psychopathic. Edit: Also, social workers. They’ve all been pretty evil imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:00 PM
5

Every time there’s been a guy server at a job I had he was a psycho. Like the guy who used to ask me why his wife, who he constantly cheated on, didn’t trust him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:58 PM
1

I think that’s a rich assessment considering how little the men in this sub actually know abt/understand/interact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:03 PM
0

It is how it works. You just don’t see unattractive women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:41 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:17 PM
0

Can’t be dishonest if it’s the truth men hate women these dayd
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:12 PM
-1

Im not going to say that because it is 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:00 PM
1

You get me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:00 PM
1

I’ve seen plenty. And I think that body type is unattractive. They look like beef jerky-dehydrated muscle. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:59 PM
0

Our lives both got pretty hectic at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:58 PM
0

Our lives both got pretty hectic at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:58 PM
0

Yes I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:56 PM
2

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:24 AM
0

Wherever you meet someone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:23 AM
-3

Not true. Attractive guys are assumed to have SO’s or spouses so we don’t approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:23 AM
1

This. My ex had a junkie dad who ODd, an abusive step dad who beat him and his mom, was kicked out at 16, dropped out of HS, and he was a fucking sweetheart and a gentleman and a charmer everyone liked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:22 AM
-5

I’ve been rejected, ghosted, and publicly humiliated many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:18 AM
0

Why are you so caught up on 50%? Why is the statistics important just fucking try
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:18 AM
-1

Bro what’s the risk she’s not gonna bust your kneecaps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:17 AM
-1

You get the point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:15 AM
1

All men do is complain about women using them (especially the ones bringing nothing to the table)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:54 PM
0

I have known quite a few of those women, and many of those men. And they’re fucking hot. It doesn’t mean shit. Sorry your bullshit value matrix is bullshit. Love me a beefy jacked guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:25 PM
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BMI is meaningless, especially for athletes/people with high muscle mass. I have had exes fall in both categories of overweight and obese for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:21 PM
2

That’s pretty irrelevant, especially considering that short guys carry weight and muscle nicer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:33 AM
2

They were pretty in the face and broad shouldered no one cares abt height
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:10 AM
3

Vintage average Joe was probably in way better shape (shit have you seen those 60s gym class curriculum? Or how hot most WW2 soldiers were?), and way more polite and respectful to women (Atleast in those days most of wife beaters showd you who they were early). We’re living in such a horrendous economic situation that no one can afford marriage or kids on TWO salaries. Also I’d say antisemitism is probably about the same as it was in the Middle Ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:54 PM
1

But if it’s not gonna happen why waste time and energy on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:31 PM
1

I’m probably what you would call a sexual recluse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:29 PM
1

I don’t get hit on, at all. I can remember the last time it happens and it’s been literal years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:28 PM
1

Men do it just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:26 PM
2

Not even just teens. Men fuck corpses, animals, and children. Of corse we don’t respect them, trust them, or look at them the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:44 PM
1

YES. Yes. So much. Not exactly “fashion” but showing decent pride and effort in apperance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:21 PM
1

If his perspective is that it’s hard miserable emotional labor, yet he’s comfortable putting that on me, that’s pretty deranged. If he’s a normal person who doesn’t see it that way, it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:42 PM
0

US.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:41 PM
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Because they don’t see unattractive women as human beings. “But that woman who could be a VS super model gets hit on a lot!” Yeah. And most of us don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:40 PM
5

I don’t get hit on. Many women are completely invisible to men, including myself. Yet we’re able to function
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:04 PM
3

Don’t have to anymore. If I never met these people, then maybe I would have stayed to that. I’d be fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:01 PM
1

See this is why I like guys in their 30s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:00 PM
0

I don’t understand the mass male hysteria of wanting to be “needed”. It’s beter to be wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:59 PM
3

People are very mean to me and very much do not like me in my daily life. I have very few friends. I just foster real connections with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:57 PM
2

You get me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:55 PM
1

Damn bro must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:00 PM
3

I lost a friend like that. Once he got a boyfriend everyone else was shit to him, no matter how much we tried to keep him included. Then he cries Everyone abandoned him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:59 PM
2

“Some subset of women” no that’s on men. You made it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:57 PM
2

Me too bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:02 PM
5

I mean that was more of a joke but I’m being serious it’s very rare to see a guy on dating apps who isn’t a walking red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:01 PM
3

Oh it’s not like a real thing I just noticed at some point that women prefer the more humanistic aspects of history where men preferred military and violent history. Women look at an archeological site and find evidence of a life lived, look at a pot and wonder about the family who owned it. Men get to the same sight and look for arrowheads. Idk it’s just a pattern I noticed in college. Men look at a war and examine its campaigns and strategies, women look at how that war effected the culture, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:59 PM
3

I’m sorry about that :( I hope your happier now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:56 PM
4

Maybe the first month or so but once he got mean, not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:54 PM
4

So sorry for your loss but I’m glad your father had that network of love and support. This is what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:53 PM
0

Without my bad experiences I’d probably be better off lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:51 PM
3

Your already single, why not Atleast be rich
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:50 PM
1

I mean I’ve done both those things in the past so
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:50 PM
4

That’s so sad though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:49 PM
3

Love to see it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:46 PM
1

I’m not the one who asked him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:46 PM
-1

It’s so sick and sad :( and then when you say that that’s all they want they get offended
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:45 PM
6

If I liked women I wouldn’t care what stupid shit men do. Unfortunately I’m stuck with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:42 PM
3

Yeah honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:41 PM
5

That’s exactly what I said I do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:27 AM
3

I’m not even talking about my own experiences this is what everyone I know experiences and men admit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:24 AM
3

That’s a shame. Maybe this is a regional thing. My entire life it’s very rare that I’ve known any men to actually want relationships. Def regional because it’s pretty near impossible to leave my country without either a 10+ hour car ride or a thousand dollar flight. I promise us unattractive women have to work on ourselves to no avail too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:04 AM
13

This is what men have been saying my entire life, ranging from massive media platforms to random strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:59 AM
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There’s only been like three weirdos making it about sex and yeah that’s the answer. Sex isn’t real intimacy it’s just sex. If men want to stop screaming that a holes a hole and they’ll fuck ugly women just for sex then we can talk. But men have made their opinion very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:58 AM
-1

Just masturbate that should be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:55 AM
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People forgot what happens when you assume. And they never learned it was rude to ask personal questions either. Godspeed man I’d probably loose my mind after the fifth time. It’s a minefield out there. There’s a reason so few women use the apps, bc they’re just so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:54 AM
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I’ve been trying for 3 years, I’ve had to accept it’s just not going to happen for me. Irrelevant and unimportant. Instead of being alone and neglected, find companionship and care through other streams!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:52 AM
9

I’m jealous of the women they date
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:41 AM
13

Where are you finding men who make plans?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:39 AM
4

When you say “not having someone to share things with”, share them with your friends!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:38 AM
3

I didn’t say women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:36 AM
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I graduated a few months back and I am not considered attractive. I tried to rush for a few weeks when I was a freshman, and I was 16 so “men” wasn’t exactly happening. But those girls were terrible to each other it was disgusting. Guys in my classes were never a big fan of me, young guys have never been in general. I think I made 2 or 3 friends in college at all. I was very shy for the vast majority of the time I was in college and by the time I was a little less scared of people I maybe had 3 …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:35 AM
-11

Exactly! So seek platonic companionship!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:31 AM
-2

No the fuck it is not. And if it is, you need to get your people to stop saying and acting like the exact opposite of what your saying. Sex is emotional for women. Men will fuck any hole they can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:29 AM
6

I like being a guys confidant. I like being everyone’s confidant. 🤷🏻‍♀️. I just think that there’s a simple solution to a lot of the “Incel rage”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:28 AM
3

I’ve yet to meet a man who made it remotely desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:26 AM
-1

But that’s so sad to me. Don’t you think it would be fulfilling and meaningful to have that depth?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:26 AM
7

You can have him then good luck 🫡. You also dug up like 5 month old drama that has nothing to do with the point here. Men show their interested in you in 2 ways. If they aren’t interested in doing that, that’s pretty weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:24 AM
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But you see it as a burden and harm and you want to do that to your partner while protecting your buddies? That’s a pretty cruel frame
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:22 AM
6

I hang out with quite a few history teachers and history students who often talk about close enough shit like that. But that gets me into the whole discussion of “girl history” and “boy history” which is its own weird phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:22 AM
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Men who are obsessed with keeping track of $2 usually have way more personality problems than that one. Case and point, this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:20 AM
8

Like I said it’s not the exact route I was asking about but it sure is a route. Same destination.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:18 AM
21

That’s pretty messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:17 AM
2

Love that for u!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:16 AM
-4

Eek both those things make my skin crawl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:16 AM
9

1 is a very fair point, But 2 is still confusing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:16 AM
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You’re a ray of sunshine too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:15 AM
3

Men: women aren’t funny Also men when a woman makes a joke:
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:15 AM
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That’s not burdening. That’s taking care of each other and supporting each other. But with that logic, it’s okay to “burden” the woman you claim to love but not your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:15 AM
4

Unimportant but “bitches love a stethoscope” is really fucking funny and you should put it on a tee shirt. Dating apps are kinda just garbage in general. You get a few normal people who are just giving it a shot, and another 95% that make you go “yeah im not shocked your single” It’s a monolith I can’t say I relate to but I have met Atleast one girl whose on weird shit like that. So I get it but dudes are no better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:13 AM
3

Okay, so then I’m happy to just stay single and be open to meeting a real normal person in the real world if I should be so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:10 AM
9

What’s funny though is how angry you are that I have a bad time dating and just decided to say fuck it and explore other avenues. It doesn’t effect you yet your so mad about me, a complete stranger, saying dating apps suck and are full of losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:08 AM
19

Not the point of the post but hey if it keeps you from screaming at your keyboard great for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:07 AM
0

For real. People are WAY too comfortable pretending their happy and it’s so creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:07 AM
-8

Your friendships don’t have love? Also, it’s called your hand. It does the job AND it’s free AND it can’t cheat on you 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:05 AM
4

Maintenance is so important! I work so hard when I’m in relationships to keep my personal life and my love live balanced and safe so I’m not completely fucked when we break up. Most of those things you can have with platonic relationships. Cohabitation, celebrating achievements, building a life together. You just have to prioritize these things, especially if you are unsuccessful in dating what’s the risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:05 AM
4

“Lowering your standards” I am not sleeping with a drug addict with 8 baby mamas my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:02 AM
7

But why don’t they want that from their buddies? It’s way better for your wellbeing. It’s safer and stable. It’s actually super hard for me to understand. Why not have ALL of those things with your friends? You should want ALL of those things with your friends AND your partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:02 AM
-5

Homie was a sociopath. If we want to start with that. Homie was a literal sociopath who pretended to be suicidal the day my dog died for attention. But I find this argument so funny because i genuinely enjoy being able to treat my friends and family members to nice things. I don’t like being made to feel less valuable than a $3 coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:00 AM
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That’s so sad though. It’s really nice I wish you got to experience it. A lot of my male friends have expressed to me that things we talk about they never get to tell their other male friends about and it breaks my heart bc they feel so alone so often when their best bro is having the same probelm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:58 AM
3

I’ve just yet to see it. Especially when it’s proposed as a “why are other relationships not enough for you” on here, and dudes rage out. What can’t they fill for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:57 AM
7

Show me the emotionally functional and competent, normal men on dating apps and I’ll show you a catfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:55 AM
12

What rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:54 AM
6

Wow what an insightful answer great job! Also dating apps just don’t work out for most people, including me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:47 AM
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See that’s what’s part of what confusing to me. For women our platonic relationships are very romantic in a way. We like to take care of each other and spoil each other and show each other off and are very explicit with our love. Why don’t guys do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:43 AM
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I’m 5’4 and 135, athletic. It’s even super hot modelesque chicks they do it too. she has one crooked tooth? A weird laugh? Her hair is the wrong color? Fuck her she’s disgusting let me never stop talking about that to my friends. Men are brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:31 PM
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That’s such horse shit. Being kind enough, and I’d say funnt is the greatest combo. And that shit can make any weird looking man hot to a woman. Men, on the other hand are completely unforgiving and the second a woman is slightly not good enough they throw the whole woman away
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:28 PM
1

Why would I try to be “the best version of myself” for a bunch of animals who couldn’t care less how much they hurt me? They don’t deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:53 AM
1

One hadn’t dated in many many years, one I believe is a closet case, one was just bored, and another, yeah. Rebound/filler. Personally I don’t don’t think that’s fair, I think you could miss out on really good people like that. Also how would I even know something like that lmao it’s none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:51 AM
1

Too old to waste time like that. Not happening. Men would never do that much self work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:33 AM
2

I have very low self esteem bc of things like this. I was very young the first time it happened so it’s hard to get out of. I was 18 and he was the first guy I ever dated. And way too old for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:59 AM
1

I don’t date very often, and I’ve only been dating for 3 ish years (but I’d say the year of covid doesn’t really count). But there have been atleast 3 of theses, and one more whose kinda complicated (was inlove with his ex, I was the fuller between them getting back together)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:50 AM
2

I’ve dated guys who didn’t like me. They just thought “we’ll she’s here and convenient so it’s better than nothing” I guess. They treat you terribly. One of them made fun of me whoever i complimented him (btw not weird things. Telling him he smelt good is the one I remember him ripping on the most). They make you a dirty little secret. They complain about everything yet never sleep with you or even try. You’re just something to do while their waiting around for better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:48 AM
1

I’ve dated guys who didn’t like me. They just thought “we’ll she’s here and convenient so it’s better than nothing” I guess. They treat you terribly. One of them made fun of me whoever i complimented him (btw not weird things. Telling him he smelt good is the one I remember him ripping on the most). They make you a dirty little secret. They complain about everything yet never sleep with you or even try. You’re just something to do while their waiting around for better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:47 AM
1

As a woman I crave a man like that, but it’s probably the parent issues
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:21 AM
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Once you’ve been through the ringer of “guy who just wasn’t into you so treated you like shit” once you don’t want to do it again. It’s terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:23 PM
3

I’m gonna say the studies because selection bias is a bitch. You ask a weird selection of 10 college girls and decide 90% of all women? As if.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:14 PM
2

I mean that’s what I’ve been doing all this time. The longing for romance and romantic connection hurts more than the need for sex, and so I fill that in with deep, nearly romantic friendships and it’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:11 PM
2

See that’s not your actual family. That’s your weird little nuclear family fantasy which doesn’t exist. This is weird. Seek psychiatric help. Your putting your entire life meaning on something which DOES NOT EXIST.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:23 PM
3

Not on the slightest, both are fairly private and respectful guys but girls are always all over them. It’s their personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:20 PM
4

I don’t know any women in my life who play hard and fast with that rule. We’ve all dated guys very close to, if not our own heights. Two of the most successful (sexually) men I know are both 5’4/5’5.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:15 PM
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Are you rlly that delusional? Plenty of women couldn’t care less about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:04 PM
5

Friendships, career, your ACTUAL family or chosen family (not kids), your hobbies/interests/passions, leading a meaningful life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:56 PM
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No they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:35 PM
2

I have my bachelors and I’m planning on going for my masters in the spring. Everyone tells me my life is over at 25 so what can you do 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:17 PM
2

I’m a college graduate, a waitress, a virgin, and have very few friends. I’m quite stunted, behind, and even regressed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:04 PM
2

I’m already too far behind I’m not being even more stunted romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:38 PM
1

LMAOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:38 PM
3

The 30 years olds have been way nicer and way more understanding. I can’t go out, they don’t want to. I’m too tired to do anything, so are they. I just said I don’t think I’m mature or better than anyone. And I don’t see what you want me to do. Pick up hobbies that make me miserable to fit in? Date young guys who are mean to me for my interests? I’d rather a loser whose understanding than some popular party boy who treats me like shit and picks on me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:28 PM
1

No lmao that’s why it’s so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:24 PM
1

LMAO I feel personally attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:59 PM
1

Like I mentioned in the post, suppose her track record is all middle, working, lower class dudes, or dudes of her own economic status
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:47 PM
1

It is though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:29 PM
8

I think going out and interacting with normal people is the best way to help it
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 04:54 PM
4

I tend to usually exclusively date older guys. Most of which were broke or at best working class. I have problems with both my parents but I don’t think that’s really the main reason for me. For me; Guys my age never wanted me. At best they were apathetic, at worst they were plain brutal and mean. So you stop looking to them for validation, the child not loved by the village will burn it down to feel it’s warmth. I don’t have normal 20 year old hobbies. I don’t think it makes me better than othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:12 PM
1

Honestly they sound a little insufferable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:23 PM
1

I’m curious what makes it a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:49 AM
0

I mean between 18-25, 5 years can be a big deal. I personally almost exclusively date older guys so I don’t think it’s rare
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:24 AM
2

I would say between 18-25 5 years can be a big deal. Sure at 30? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:30 AM
1

Like I said. Assume there’s an economic cross section, or there all working class or lower older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:27 AM
2

He knew that another 30 year old was gonna see right through his bullshit the way a 20 year old Wont. He knew it was a matter of time. Thank you I am too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:51 PM
1

I’m hoping that means your okay with it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:48 PM
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He pretended to be suicidal and to take up cutting the week my dog died (the first time he didn’t know but after that he continued for two weeks while I was having daily panic attacks and so grief stricken I couldn’t eat). I’m very close with a man who is very much like an older brother to me, and he was obsessed with this relationship. Like this dude is the only person who gave me advice to actually get rid of you, settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:48 PM
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No they are absolutely not. When you are conditioned to women you can simply turn off (phone, computer) the second you cum, all women’s needs are too demanding. That’s what we’re working with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:44 PM
0

Because it’s what we’re told our entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:43 PM
2

Or, here me out, just don’t sleep with drunk girls. It’s not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:37 PM
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When I broke up with my last ex he kept accusing me of taking up with other Men in my life. No, bro, your just pathologically insane
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:35 PM
0

It’s neither attractive or unattractive. If your cool and you have a kid you’re cool and you have a kid. I will say because men being good with kids is so attractive, seeing the the proof that they are a good father can be very hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:54 PM
3

Bro what do you people want you scream about women being evil if men pay on dates and then degrade them if men don’t what even is this Schrödingers woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:24 PM
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Not a privilege I have. Many women don’t. Yet we don’t sit here and cry about it like you do. Be a man and talk to girls and stop crying about it on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:27 AM
2

As if you would befriend a man. Just be nice. Find mutual interests.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 03:26 AM
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Then do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:12 AM
6

I’m one of those women. And guess what. I’m just chillin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:13 PM
6

Then be better. That aside. Many women don’t have those options either. And we just chill and suck it up and live
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:09 PM
3

You’re 5’8 you should have no trouble with women in the west (I’m assuming you’re based in the US, Canada or the UK?). The girls who are weird abt 6’ aren’t worth it anyway
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 07:07 PM
2

Shits embarrassing. Men can just be competent. There’s so little of them in the market that if your a competent man you have 0 trouble dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:34 PM
2

People don’t just deny their partner sex for fun. There is always a reason. Either a lack of attraction, tension/conflict and lack of love/safety/comfort. Your partner does not owe you sex, period, but especially if you’re an incompetent partner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:30 PM
1

No guy I’ve ever dated has wanted to sleep with me. Sometimes I think about it and it hurts a little but the other 99% of the time it was wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:29 PM
-1

I despise it. I’ve done it. It’s how I’ve landed some of my exes but I doubt I’ll do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:26 PM
19

Women don’t mind being single my guy. It’s the men who are gonna be single bc of that who are gonna be dramatic over it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:25 PM
5

That phrase is so funny to me because compared to my two grandmothers, there’s very little distinguishing my lifestyle from my paternal grandmother and great aunt, and compared to my insane maternal grandmother I promise I’m the better choice of a woman. She was batshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:26 PM
1

I try to make everyone feel very emotionally safe with me. I’m not very intimidating physically so. That’s kinda it. I’m very open abt my own struggles in hopes of making others know I’m a safe person to talk to. Try not to judge and to lead with empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:52 PM
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I could not give less of a fuck as long as you aren’t a weirdo whose obsessed with it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:15 PM
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It doesn’t effect shit. It doesn’t matter in the slightest either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:52 PM
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Nah it’s very hard to explain to people who don’t know that wold but it’s not a real hobby. Those guys are losers with 0 personality’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:50 PM
4

It doesn’t matter the job as long as it’s stable, gainful, and they are good at it (competency kink>>>). I have a weird thing abt not dating engineers. Bad luck with them lol. Not willing to date cops either I think being a doctor or teacher or vet is very attractive simply on the basis of helping people or animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:28 AM
2

I find a man who is stronger than me undeniably attractive but I don’t actually care YK? If a skinny guy is kind enough that’s really all I care about. But muscles? Not really. As an ex gym bro myself, I find the gym bro bullshit pathetically unattractive. I’d find someone who worked with their hands and was strong bc of that, or a man who had an actual athletic hobby (martial arts, Rec sports club/team, rock climbing etc) much more attractive than some roid head aesthetic lifter. Looks aren’t a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:57 PM
3

They slut shame women for having two bodies but have no self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:55 PM
13

Men are not attracted to nearly most women, they just don’t see women they aren’t attracted to as human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:44 PM
4

Bro just break up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:33 PM
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That has nothing to do with the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:35 PM
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She didn’t do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:34 PM
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The reality is every woman is going to be different. There is no safe rule. I’ve met man at the gym, I’ve met men at parties, I’ve met men OLD, and at uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:13 PM
10

If you are tossed into a pit on snakes and someone says “don’t worry! Only a couple of them are venomous!” You would not be comfortable would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:10 PM
8

We are telling you it is common. Just listen to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:08 PM
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If your wife doesn’t want to have sex with you, and she meets a new man who is good to her and does, then your behavior is the problem. This isn’t unfair. This is a very common phenomena and I am happy she is in a better relationship now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:07 PM
1

My gym. The gym guys I know outside of it. Customers at my job. People I went to hs with. Naturally thin girl who detests physical exercise, guy who spends half his day in the weight room. I say this as a girl who works out a lot. They don’t want us. Idk who the fuck wants us (usually weirdos with a muscle mommy fetish) but it ain’t them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:37 AM
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Very true. If I’m still single by 30 I’m gonna be a little worried abt the babies department
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:52 AM
2

I like ugly guys and personality bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:18 PM
0

I’m not outdoorsy either lol totally feel that. I enjoy air conditioned and no bugs thank you. I just don’t get it. I don’t care that they don’t workout. If they spend like 2 hours a day painting or gaming or whatever that’s cool by me. It just bums me out ifk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:39 PM
1

No that’s completely understandable to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:21 PM
1

I beg to differ. Being kind absolutely gets me going.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:10 PM
1

No that’s so fucking weird. Why can’t you be friends with people of the opposite sex that’s weird weird. I was very good friends with the only male server at my job because the girls were so mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:25 PM
1

I completely disagree. I didn’t think I’d be able to make new friends at my age but I’ve recently formed some nice meaningful relationships with people even older than myself. Join a new hobby I suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:45 PM
1

You form your own family. You create meaningful friendships and foster them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:29 PM
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I could not care less as long as he’s not sleeping around while he’s with me. Why would I care? He knows how to use his dick? Great!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:28 PM
0

No one actually cares about height. I’ve dated multiple guys who were my own height (5’4), had feelings for a guy who was 5’2 in college, and I don’t think besides him I’ve ever met any guys shorter than me. In my friend group there’s one guy whose 5’5 and two guys who are 6’+, and mister 5’5 pulls way more bc he’s sweet and goofy. Plenty of bald guys pull. My married neighbor with 3 kids is bald. Half the married men at my gym are bald. Shit happens and most women understand that that just happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:26 PM
4

Then check other mens bullshit. Also, men do the same shit to women, over WAY less. Women don’t trust men because they provoked themselves to be dangerous and untrustworthy. Men hate women because they saw one vapid IG model on a boat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:09 PM
1

She liked you and wanted you. It’s not that co fusing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:07 PM
1

I don’t know it’s weird here. Men who are fit don’t want to date women who are fit, but more so women who are just naturally extremely thin. Because of this environment as an active woman I absolutely detest “gym guys” and refuse to associate with them. I find their lack of any hobbies or interests beyond the gym quite pathetic. I will say lots of inactive men can be scared off or intimated by a highly active woman. I don’t consider myself that active, but if I do the math I probably “work out” …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:04 PM
2

Yeah. Food, live music, friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:54 AM
2

See that kidna shit really fucks with my self esteem. If you have to be drunk to tolerate me i don’t need that YK?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:29 PM
3

(I also really enjoy fried bar food)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:00 PM
4

That’s killer love it. As a Diet Coke at bars girlie I totally get it. It’s why I don’t like those guys that drink lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:00 PM
3

I’ve yet to meet them. At parties I go got the guys who are smoking for the night, that’s fine by me. But out?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:46 PM
2

It’s not how much. A first date shouldn’t be more than $5 for a coffee. It’s not about how much, it’s about the gesture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:46 PM
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Cougars usually just want sex, young guys usually just want sex. It’s even. Woman who go for older men are usually a mine felid of daddy issues and just want an older man to care about them and make them feel safe. And YK. They’re hot so, that’s cool too. Problem is, older men usually see that as an easy target for sex. They’ll do those things a little, lure you into a fake sense of safety and then pounce, then they change on you. They often DO Manipulate young women into sex. As someone whose b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:36 PM
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Maybe they’re not trying to meet someone at the time, or they aren’t interested in the people aproach if them. Personally, I refuse to date guys who are heavy drinkers so if Im at a bar or club with friends I don’t want anything to do with the men there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:30 PM
2

Where did you come up with that number? If you’re spending $70 on two cups of coffee you might be getting scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:28 PM
2

That’s how men made it clear they view us that’s not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:27 PM
1

Must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:27 PM
1

“Free meal” is a really weird and sick way to view it. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:26 PM
1

Roe was very much not upheald which is the current issue. Everyone has standards. This isn’t even mine, but It’s a very valid standard to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:26 PM
1

Lucky you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:11 AM
2

Great. So date them. Idk what to tell you we have different cultural norms
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:10 AM
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I do not know a single woman in a relationship who makes more than her female partner. We have a massive gender pay gap, even in suburban New York. After World War Two Americas political economy FORCED women to leave the work force so men could have their jobs. And so our grandmothers lived in a world where they needed a man to provide for them. And they raised their daughters to expect the same. And so, they raised their daughters (my generation) the same. That’s why we’re like this. It’s a his…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:10 AM
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Wtf are you talking about? If a man is going on all these dates that he’s financially tapped out, it says he’s a slut and is not seriously interested. Why would you date that guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:03 AM
2

I don’t believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:58 AM
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Yes. It’s a way of showing that you are interested in providing a comfortable life for the woman you’re perusing. It’s not prostitution. In the United States the majority of men are the sole or majority Dian coal earners in their household. It’s a demonstration of fitness as a partner. You are very mean and unkind in these comments. You’re calling American women prostitutes and saying we have no self respect over a social structure we were born into and did not choose and may of us are saying we…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:52 AM
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Dates don’t have to be expensive men just pick for them to be. We don’t have a choice. They do this to themselves. For my entire life I wanted men to pay simply because it’s the only way of telling If they’re actually interested. I still want them to offer to. I just won’t accept
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:48 AM
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In America things are not equal for one. And I said it was not about buying affection, it was about proving you’re interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:46 AM
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I have dated a guy who is my height (5’4) and have been very interested in another who was as well. I had a crush on a guy who was 5’2 or 5’3 in college. I don’t think, besides that guy, I’ve ever met any adult men shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:42 AM
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It’s just a cultural norm here. I was out with a male friend the other day and a waiter gave him the check assuming we were a couple. We split even. If a guy doesn’t want to pay for you, it screams “you are not worth even $5” and it is, to me, or in the past was, very insulting. It tells a woman that you are sleeping with so many women you can’t afford another. Now, after some things have happened, I get panic attacks if anyone tries to buy me anything. And that has made new problems. My friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:39 AM
7

Yes. It is that fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:36 AM
-3

Think about it this way: you’re telling a woman she is not even worth 15 euros.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:34 AM
7

When your already hurt your fuse is so much shorter bc you’re already hurt. It takes less to push you farther bc your starting point is already so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:33 AM
12

“Manipulation tactics” then says expecting you to be nice to them. Embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:33 AM
1

I feel this!!!! I like a grumpy guy but being kind is the most attractive thing to me. Non negotiable. Also: cute > sexy/hot 10000%. Love a cute look way more than the sexy/hot thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:32 AM
3

I don’t drink either and it’s so hard trying to date guys who are heavy drinkers. It makes me feel so bad abt myself and is supppppper triggering
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:30 AM
2

I agree with most of those but why good relationship with his family? Plenty of people just have shit families. Not their fault YK. Like it a guy had a shit toxic family would you want him to be close with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:43 PM
2

Not sure who that is or what he says but kindness is #1 for me. I don’t really have any physical type, and I’ve gone for dudes I never thought I would have simply bc they were so nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:41 PM
1

I work a lot, esp durring the times of days people expect to go on dates (specifically weekend nights. I’m a waitress.). Between work, fitness, and my friendships, idk when I’d even have time to date if I met someone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:40 PM
28

A first note should be do you realize those women don’t even actually look like that? They’re alllll edited lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:38 PM
6

Personally i hate physical contact with anyone except very few people. If some rando put his hands on me that would be my reason to ghost. I think every woman has different preferences so they answer is going to varry. There’s no set answer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:37 PM
2

They Deadass don’t exist. Men don’t talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:21 PM
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My HS psychology teacher was a man. He had a male student teacher (who was really great and I hope is having a prosperous career now!!!). My college psych prof was also a man. They all did great.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:50 PM
2

Not shooting my shot. My fear of rejection and body image issues kept me completely celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:48 PM
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The “shy good guy” is often closed minded, judgmental, insecure. Doesn’t go with my lifestyle of trying new things and experimenting in life. Usually have a comfortable life and lack any character bc of it. My experience with the bad boy? Had a tough life, worked hard to do the best they could with what they had. Kind because they know what it’s like to not be shown any kindness. Understanding of how complicated and hard my life is. Open to new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:48 PM
1

I’ve been on dating apps for the last few years on and off and they’ve never really worked out for me. There’s not many young men where I live in general so it’s pretty tough and dating apps are just honestly not popular here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:29 PM
2

I don’t know if it makes you a misogynist but in my opinion it makes you weird
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:26 PM
1

Not a man, just panromantic. If she’s nice, and we have anything in common, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:23 PM
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Gender equity. People date and marry for love. Sex isn’t a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:20 PM
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My bald, 56 year old, on SSI/disability, 5’8 father has no trouble getting bitches. Dude has HOES.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:19 PM
1

A few points: women are just going to have fun. The men? Idk what their problem is or why they won’t go bc their fat. That’s their problem. I don’t think you realize just how hard it is for the vast majority of women to not be “skinny fat”. I have small boobs and a small ass and still quite a soft stomach regardless of working out Atleast 10 hours a week. A decade ago women let an inch of stomach fat ruin their lives. Now we don’t care. Suck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:03 PM
1

I think you might just like men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:59 PM
1

My best friends is a guy and whenever we go out we split our checks, I drive most often (he drinks, I dont, he smokes, I dont, so it’s just easier. I’m not giving anything up to drive, he is), I’ve never had the need to ask him for any help but I remember in high school I had to teach him how to do some housework when his mom had surgery. But, in a lot of my same sex friendships? I give my girl friends rides places if they’re in a jam, we treat each other to coffee/ice cream/meals constantly, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:59 PM
1

I think for women, because a bad relationship can be soooo bad, they’d rather just be single. For me, it’s very easy to fill the hole with my friendships. My friendships are super emotionally intense and important to me. I also work a ton and if I’m not at work I train a ton, so if I was by some miracle to get into a relationship, idk where I’d find the time. Sometimes the loneliness really stings but it’s been 20 years, so you get used to it. If I haven’t had a serious relationship by now it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:53 PM
2

Where are you finding these nice guys? I would love to know. I’m a 20 year old woman. For the last 3 years I’ve maybe had 2-3 flings a year with absolute jackasses because that’s all I could get. Most women don’t have the options you seem to think they have. That being said, though, many of us are much more comfortable being single for a while than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:49 PM
1

I mean it comes from women’s experiences. Men won’t commit unless their light is on (cab theory)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:40 PM
1

I don’t give a fuck about fetish content. End of the day 99% of them are the same 5 foot tall 90 pound blond hair blue eye massive rack girl and that’s what 99% of men decided they deserve and won’t take anything less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:11 PM
1

Are you talking about the ones with a 23 inch waist or a 24 inch waist? The ones who are 4’11 of 5’? The ones with a facelift or just copious Botox and nose jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:10 PM
1

Tiny. Tiny waist. Young face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:56 PM
1

Only fans chicks still look like all other porn stars
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:39 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:49 PM
3

I’ve yet to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:49 PM
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Insecure women cry a lot. Insecure men cheat and kill you. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:49 PM
1

As far as “straight edge” goes, I don’t think you know just how hard it is to find guys who don’t drink. Even harder to find those with an actual personality. Idk abt other women who do drink etc but for me that would be a major point on their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:48 PM
1

I speak on behalf of the age gap girlies ™, we’re like this because our parents didn’t take care of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:44 PM
1

“You need to be a virgin but you also need to be completely ran through but if your ran through you have no value and no one’s going to marry you” and “no one cares about a woman’s success but if you don’t have a good job then you’re a leech” the hypocrisy is so loud
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:42 PM
1

Yeah. The high standards men have bc of porn are leading them to opt out of the dating pool becuase if they can’t have a porn star they want nothing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:31 PM
1

Safer. Society would be way less violent and safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:30 PM
1

And honestly even in the more male dominated hobbies, women are so isolated and excluded just be a friend to them and it’ll likely go farther.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:19 PM
1

My Muay Thai gym and Muay Thai class… Maybe it’s just because the men who own my gym have consistently proven themselves safe to women, and we’ve rewarded them with loyalty for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:18 PM
2

I’m pretty sure my gym has more women than men. Maybe it’s even. Tonight’s class as one example was 5 women, 3 men, and our 2 male coaches. Trying to do the maths for the total members, I’m pretty sure it’s exactly even unless I’m missing someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:17 AM
4

I don’t think it’s just ballroom dancing. An adult hobby sports team, some group fitness class, a martial arts gym/class, any group activity is a great way to meet new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:33 PM
2

Because it’s not dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:30 PM
3

You can agree that they’re handsome/good looking but not be into them. The same way you can feel your female friends are pretty and attractive but not be into it. It’s like saying your family member is a “handsome young man”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:19 PM
2

I hate to break it to you but I am a real perosn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:08 AM
2

How did you get past it? I’m 20 and it’s really painful and hard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:06 AM
7

Autistic femcel, yeah. Low key.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:05 AM
1

Often yeah. Every woman is different but many women go hyper sexual to cope with Sexual violence or heartbreak
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:04 AM
2

Every autistic woman I’m friends with is fairly close to my behavioral patterns, or even more sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:11 PM
3

Every autistic woman I’m friends with is fairly close to my behavioral patterns, or even more sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:10 PM
6

I am an autistic woman and I breakdown crying almost once a day, (some times, including tonight, it’s started by me getting sad about dinosaurs). I am incredibly social and friendly even if I have crippling social anxiety (also??? Socialization sounds like your talking about a poodle puppy). I have raging RSD (connected to my autism) so I would be absolutely destroyed if my S/O went an entire day without contacting me (and would likely , after a day of intense pain be completely over them, bc th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:12 AM
1

Totally disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:09 AM
8

You likely have and didn’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:08 AM
1

Registered sex offender? There is nothing enough to overlook that. Some criminal records I can forgive but hurting innocent people (DWI/DUI, DV, Child abuse, sexual offenses, staking, harassment, etc) can’t be forgiven.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:43 PM
4

It’s how I exist and feel. It sucks. so you focus on your hobbies, your friendships, and other meaningful outlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:38 PM
2

Being a man isn’t about any bullshit macho bs. It’s about being a stand up, trust worthy, safe person. Being secure in yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:23 PM
2

Take care of the people you love. Hold your head high. Think your actions through. Treat people with kindness, compassion and consideration. Be patient. Focus on your goals. Appreciate the value of your word.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:49 PM
2

As a woman on the spectrum, I’ve dated quite a few men who were mildly on the spectrum. I’m not opposed to it. But, it’s draining and hard, especially as an autistic woman myself. Autistic women are still held to social expectations of how a woman should be, and autistic men aren’t expected to be gentlemanly and polite. It’s aggravating as hell and would rather not do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:56 PM
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He’s an influencer party boy. How he looks has nothing to do with him being unattractive, that crap is what makes him unattractive. If he looked like that and Was a remotely normal person, sure, maybe. But he’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:51 PM
3

I understand your pain, but I wish you didn’t understand mine. Im sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:34 AM
1

Even tougher when that person doesn’t especially appreciate it. I managed to graduate college with honors, work multiple jobs, attend school full time, take my dad to radiation/acupuncture/doctors appointments, attempt to have some social or love life occasionally, work out daily, take care of a house and two dogs, and no one acknowledges shit in my family. And along with that: I didn’t get to do the traveling, studying abroad, spring break etc shit normal college kids do bc I had to support mys…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:35 AM
2

My dads been bald since he was about 30. He has zero trouble in the ladies department lol. His dating life is way more active than mine lol. Bald guys def pull
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:17 PM
4

Hi, I’m one of those women who lost her youth to taking care of her father. I had no college experiance, and I’m never going to recover from that social handicap. Whatever. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:15 PM
2

Oh no you’re absolutely right. This garbage pseudo science aproach doesn’t benifit anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:13 PM
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To me, romance is demonstrating that you /know/ your partner, and showing that. Showing that you are attentive to their desires wants and needs, and acting on that. Trying to bring them joy and comfort and peace. Last romantic thing someone I dated did for me was when my ex put on and tied my ice skates for me. Last romantic thing I did for someone I dated was I surprised them by fitting something into a date itineracy they thought we wouldn’t have time for. He was very surprised and happy it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:12 PM
1

I’d rather date a kind man with a compatible personality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:06 PM
1

Yes yes completely agree. But beyond that, in general. Any spending habits that don’t seem smart, maintainable and mature scare me off (flashy car but mid range salary, racks up high checks out with his friends, travels often). You can’t marry someone like that, YK?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:02 PM
2

Yeah but this doesn’t sound like a /quality/ relationship. He makes you pay for everything and only talks about himself? Yeah he sounds like a real winner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:10 AM
1

Yes and no. I have an equal love for soft, gentle, sweet guys, as I do take charge, strong and silent, tough guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:39 PM
2

The “nice guy #2” you just described? Yeah last night he had two hot girls laying in his lap, cuddling him all night and begging to take him home to make sure he got home safe. I know another nice guy #2. If he stopped sending mixed signals I’d have ridden him off into the sunset by now. I’ve repeatedly refused to let him pay for things for me. Women Your logic is flawed. Women love nice guys. I’m a slut for nice. You’re not just it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:32 PM
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It means that I couldn’t give a shit what someone’s personal lifestyle is unless it is directly affecting me. The question was “do you take this personally”. Unless it’s personally effecting me, no, why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:41 PM
1

Most men do mind. A lot. Can’t get a good job with no work experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:23 PM
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“Women ride the cock carrousel in college then settle down with a beta bux” “I really struggled to get any male attention and rarely dated so I’m actually a virgin even after graduating college” “What the fuck is wrong with you that no one wants you?” You’re damned either way You go out to bars/clubs/parties alot? Used up slut. You work too much/ don’t drink/aren’t very social so don’t do these things? Weird loser. It’s impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:05 AM
0

Men are way harsher on women who are late bloomers. I can’t say I feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:00 AM
3

I don’t give a fuck what you, or any random man does. I only care if you’re leading me on or rejecting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:42 AM
1

Yes. He was just kind and spoke to me. Nobody else at my gym does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:11 PM
1

Lmv?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:43 PM
1

I know quite a few men who married them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:20 PM
3

Every man i know is happy to date a hot bitch with no personality besides being a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:05 PM
10

Personally no. Being told by my ex he was poly but willing to settle for monog with me… I don’t think we ever came back to that. Weaponized in the first fight, “I didn’t even want to be monog”. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:04 PM
1

Absolutely!!!!! I’ve been saying this for a while honestly. Approach women more!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:22 AM
6

If I met a wonderful man who came with a kid or a couple I’d be happy to be a step mother. You guys are fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:36 AM
1

I absolutely agree. Part of the reason I don’t speak to my mother is the way her and her friends have treated waiters, bartenders and other young men in my presence. A woman tried to rape one of my male friends at a party and he was promptly gaslit by many men. It’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:04 PM
1

Violent, brutal rejection. If they have a girlfriend she will come after you. In the rare chance they’re interested, because you made the first move you have to take the financial burden in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:23 PM
2

In my experience yes. Source: being a chubby woman for 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:52 PM
1

I do with a lot of my friends for girl reasons. I think voluntarily, sure. Especially if I was on a solo hike/trip/etc I’d be like “can I send you my location just incase”.YK. For the girl reasons. BUT but. If they ASKED??? Eek idk🚩🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:45 AM
1

Jail time is kinda a red flag for me depending on the offense and most of all depending on what he’s doing NOW. Like if you’ve completely turned your life around and found a gainful career, and didn’t actually hurt anyone, (ie property crimes) who cares? Living alone at 18 is absolutely insane to expect of anyone. 25… yeah okay. After 25 it’s a little ??? But YK. Circumstances and context matter. My favorite of my exes was a guy who was a mechanic and a HS dropout. At 22 he was more self suffici…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:54 PM
1

I can promise you, as an ugly woman, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:49 PM
0

Yeah but if a guy gets rejected what happens? Nothing. He takes the L and tries again. A woman gets rejected? Congratulations the whole town also is gonna hear how crazy and creepy you are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:54 AM
-1

The fear of rejection is far too large. Unless I’m 20000% sure he likes me, it’s not gonna happen. And like even if I was, then why hasn’t he made a move?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:30 AM
1

Nah friends of friends is a hard no for me. I don’t want to be prostituted by my friends, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 08:27 PM
7

Men have been shitting on women for the tiniest things for years. For women, the “ick” is something that removes a man from the mental pedestal they have them on. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:54 AM
1

Edited for auto correct It just tells me a guy doesn’t actually like me that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:57 PM
7

It’s a really great way to tell a woman you’re really not that into her. Or that you’re fucking soooo many other women you can’t afford another date. So yeah. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:15 PM
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It’s really hard to find people who share your interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:30 AM
1

Literally not the slightest for me. I couldn’t care less honestly. In the past year I dated guys ranging from 5’4 (him and I were the same height) to 6’5. (I’m acting like I date a lot. There were, what, 3 in total? And between them was a guy who was like 5’7 or 5’8). It’s not the slightest factor. Personally for me attraction has a lot more to do with personality and a “pretty” face which is very subjective bc if I like someone I just find them beautiful no matter what they look like in my expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:45 PM
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I’m a personality guy. Kindness and good conversation makes a man 80 times more attractive. Idc about the jacked roid head over there, you’re smart and funny and sweet. That’s what makes you actually attractive, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:36 PM
1

Really good. My best friend since we were seniors in higschool is a guy. Completely platonic. Like his mom digs him about not dating me regularly and he’s never heard anything funnier. I swear this guy is like the brother I never had. We met through having the same gym crush and a crush on the same girl (im bi). We both have very regular dating lives. I’ve only had one instance where I guy got jealous over him (I posted videos of us at Japanese bbq for our college graduation) and for the record …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:35 PM
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Absolutely. It’s the public humiliation I can’t take.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:02 PM
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Can women “not handle rejection” in the violent way men can’t? Not really. But can women “not handle rejection” in other ways? Sure. I have extreme rejection sensitive dysphoria myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:57 PM
1

Nice conversation is usually all that it takes. Guy who works at my coffee shop who put a smiley face on my cup and is nice to me. Guy at my gym who had really nice conversations with me. Personally for me mutual friends skeeves me out. My co worker set me up with her friend and it feels really gross to me. For me online is shit because. I one can have a real conversation. Once in a blue moon a guy can actually have a good conversation on there but it’s rare. For me, I literally need there to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:58 PM
1

No they care about the status of dating a particular woman based on her appearance being widely desirable. “She needs to have a massive kardashian ass. Not really because I care but because that’s what everyone wants” mentality. The “I can’t date her because she’s XYZ race and my friends will make fun of me. I really like her but I can’t” “Im gonna go for the youngest thing I can fine because it’ll impress my friends but having a conversation with her hurts my brain”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:54 PM
1

Even if you’re right- which oh my god you are not in the slightest- You’re acting like men aren’t the same way (or worse). In my experience men are way worse when it comes to “dating for status/power/bragging points”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:23 PM
1

I’m pretty average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:04 PM
0

Fr!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:58 AM
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Yes, I, a single person, who has been legal for 2 years, am completely responsible for what a few women have said on podcasts about their particular comfort and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:43 AM
1

Super lightheaded sorry didn’t process it sentence right. I guess? I tended to be too obvious with my interest when I was younger, around 18 I finally learned to show none lol so I guess I do or try to be as blaze as them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:47 AM
1

I’m 20, I work 2 part time jobs, just finished 4 year college. No sex life, at all. Never had one. Been to 2/3 parties ever. Work straight through the weekend. Haven’t been on a date since November.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:43 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:41 AM
0

Okay, and?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:38 AM
1

It’s yet to happen 🤷🏻‍♀️. I’m demi so, attraction is a layered thing for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:38 AM
0

The problem is they just hang around for a few months anyway even though they don’t like me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:37 AM
2

Looking open?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:34 AM
-1

I’ve had to do that for the last 4 years. I’m over it. Tired of dating men who don’t want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:33 AM
1

God I wish I could be a sugar baby
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:31 AM
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This is so insanely wrong. Please god go touch grass. I’d say this is mine. Emotional intelligence Kindness Attraction Competence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:30 AM
6

It’s called a work life balance??? People have been doing it for centuries bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:22 AM
1

Where I live it’s impossibly to get by like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:21 AM
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This!!! I don’t think I’ve had a man approach me since… uh, maybe freshman year in college. It’s not a lot to ask imo but it’s really a dreamy fantasy at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:19 AM
12

A lot of guys think all a woman has to do to have a DD, a kardashian ass and a 23 inch waist is eat salads, drink green juice, and walk on the tredmill a few hours a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:16 AM
1

Most women I know do not want a guy like this, at all. I probably go for the biggest guys in terms of muscularity of all my friends and i rlly don’t play hard and fast with it, go for a wide array haha. Most girls I know like super skinny guys or beefier/dad bod types. Truth be told, most women I know aren’t picky with guys bodies in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:15 AM
1

I really admire and envy the “boys will be boys” shit. Not the “boys will be boys” as an excuse for abuse and toxicity, but the stupid little shit that’s just, so insane and weird and dumb that all you can say is “boys will be boys”. The guys at my Muay Thai gym who sit there giggling while they drag each other to the floor, or take any chance to sweep each other when they’re working on a bag or are so enthused asking you to punch them in the face. My little cousin who growing up would take any …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:01 PM
1

Yeah. And honestly it’s infuriating to watch it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:46 AM
1

Considering I almost always initiated the conversation between us. Yeah I’ve given up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:42 PM
0

I’m lonely touchless and sexless. and you’re still being too dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:34 AM
6

No for real. I was sooo into this guy but he won’t do shit about it and the lack of any initiative made me loose any attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:33 AM
0

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:16 PM
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Yes. this this this. It’s allll abt saftey
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:01 PM
1

If you’re a woman, always. My entire life it’s been demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:50 AM
1

The guy I’m into rn told me the last girl he talked to told him she only liked guys with dad bods. Apparently this is common now. Women don’t care what guys bodies look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:43 PM
1

In my experience women are considered creepy when their attraction isn’t reciprocated .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:44 PM
0

Theyre worse. If men were as picky as women are (aka much less picky) they’d get laid more haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:36 AM
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I have the opposite problem I have to keep asking my friends “is this guy hitting on me?”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:10 PM
25

My guy there is an entire “nice girls” sub
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:16 AM
3

That is exactly what I’m talking abt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:50 PM
4

You must be 10-20 years off date. Eveyone wants one of those now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:39 PM
9

Yessss this one. I think like 5’7-5’9 is usually so perfect proportion wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:38 PM
6

I fucking love boys with stretch marks yes please
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:37 PM
4

I’m attracted to fit men because I refuse to be heavier and stronger it’s embarrassing and I won’t do that. Also, I like to be thrown around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:37 PM
1

LMAO wait me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:16 PM
1

Rejection. It’s different for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:40 PM
1

Yes absolutely????
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:12 PM
1

No they’re both very nice and it’s pretty obvious it’s a welcome advance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:21 PM
2

I mean I’m only on the fence bc I don’t know how one feels abt me. And there’s nothing worth public humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:20 PM
1

Shawty it’s not up to me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:15 AM
1

Because I’m not trying to be the predatory fat girl. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:11 AM
1

It’s not really up to me. Can’t even tell how the one I really want feels abt me so 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:07 AM
1

Honestly, it totally can. There’s two guys who have my eye right now. One is much more conventionally attractive, but the other is much kinder, much more convivial with me, and that’s the one whose driving me crazy. Edit: note- I wasn’t even initially attracted to him. It hit me like a bus out of no where, after knowing him a week or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:04 AM
1

Cake day?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:43 AM
4

I refer to one of my exes as having “talked himself out of pussy”. So there’s that case. But beyond that extreme weird case, no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:27 AM
15

I don’t get attention. That’s why. I don’t have options. Every guy I’ve ever dated has told me he never found me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:26 AM
2

The thing about CNC y’all can’t seem to wrap your heads around is the consensual part of it. But A few notes: •women are shamed for wanting or enjoying sex, rape fantasy’s allow and escape from it. Same reason women like the “bad boy”. •women want to feel wanted, that extreme desire. •once again. Role play. Consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:25 AM
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As a woman, If you’re a woman who sees any male doctors by choice I instantly don’t trust you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:45 PM
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Because they give bad advice, they’re misogynists, they sell snake oil and prey on vulnerable men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:49 PM
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What men and women are you talking abt? The entire dating world is about “humbling” women these days. Go touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:48 PM
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Because asking people to “prove” their value is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:45 PM
1

2,4,8,11,12 is all I want
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:18 PM
1

If we are talking abt my one close male friend. He is A) asexual. And B) has expressed that he feels no romantic attraction towards me. C) when he does date, he has a very specific type (skinny, tall, long hair, stunning pretty idk how he pulls them tbh) which is not me. I am confidently clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 11:14 PM
1

Thank u <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:53 PM
1

Even as a woman I kinda always looked up to to Teddy Rosevelt more than anyone else. But female role model wise, I think I ended up looking up to the women I learned abt in Hebrew school from a young age. Ester, Franceska Mann, Hedy Lamarr. Also Elvira and Morticia Adam’s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:42 PM
8

Dolly FTW!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:37 PM
1

You’re a pathetic loser. Develop some self restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:55 AM
1

LI
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:25 PM
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That was maybe the second date? We met at a house party, hit it off, great night. First date was amazing. Second date was rocky from the start (he took a god damn nap, overslept, was an hour late, kinda bickery, made me pay for dinner) we went to do an activity, he was bitchy about me not being comfortable with PDA beyond a hand holding level, wouldn’t respect the boundary. On the way home (we’d driven to the other side of the island we live on) we stopped in a super store to grab some snacks an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:14 PM
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•he gained abt 50 pounds from all his photos •”all my exes are crazy” •wouldn’t stop talking about how much he wanted to fuck me •40 minutes of unsolicited gym advice (very out of shape, hadn’t stepped in a gym in 2 years. I’m a daily weight lifter) •hit me- in the middle of a store never the less. •touched my stomach
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:29 PM
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New York
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:10 AM
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Most of the people I went to highschool with have kids already, some on 2+. We graduated in 2019 and 2020. If you’re rich and have no perspective of the real world just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:07 PM
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Well your so obsessed with my posts and comments. Pretty creepy, look at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:09 PM
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I didn’t even give advice all I did was explain that there is no magical place. Stop looking for a magic answer, and get your shit together. Being called a creep won’t kill you. Too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:08 PM
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Yes. Men are ticking time bombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:56 PM
1

Jesus fuck man do you have a crush on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:53 PM
1

There is literally no way to give advice on the topic. Every single person has different preferences and boundaries. And more than that, not ever person is going to be attracted to every person who approaches them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:53 PM
1

It’s controlling. It’s just clothes and that’s mad weird
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:49 PM
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Like there’s no perfect answer. Even if there is one Goldilocks place or something, not every girl is gonna be into you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:32 PM
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Literally what do you want me to do about that? It’s always been that way. There is no “anymore”, this is just how it’s been.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:14 PM
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It can be appropriate or inappropriate anywhere. I’ve dated 3 guys at my gym. Some women are not okay with being hit on at the gym, I am. I’ve dated one guy I met on campus. I’ve also filed 4 sexual harassment reports (granted, only one against another student). I’ve dated a regular at my old job. One of my friends has to be walked out to her car every night bc she’s stalked by a regular at her job. I got a massive crush on a dude I met at a concert. One of my friends detests being hit on when h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:55 PM
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I workout a lot. No change. I’m not the attractive kind of gym body so, Cest la vie. I’ve tried different hair colors. I got male attention regularly for the only time in my life when I was blonde and the lowest weight of my life, which I’m roughly back to but have very dark brown hair now and get 0 male attention once again- granted I was 17, so being past prime probably has an effect on that. I’ve changed by sense of style around a few times. I like the one I have now the best. Sometimes if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:21 PM
2

Unattractive (bad face, no curves, fat stomach). Autistic. Not enough experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:15 PM
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“Wah we told women for the last 20 years all they were good for was a quick fuck and that we hated them and didn’t want to be in relationships so now women adapted to that”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:12 PM
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You do get that women have this problem too right? I can work out every day, but there’s still gonna be a million women slimmer than me with better bodies than me. I can try to improve my skin and hair but there’s still gonna be a million women who don’t even have to try. Jobs, socialmaxing, just to be worse off in the end? These problems all these issue can and do apply to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:54 PM
1

What romance? There is no romance anymore. Men just want convenient available sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:40 PM
1

I’m sorry do you think people should marry the first person they date? 6, 10, that’s so not many. People are like jeans. Not every pair you try on is going to fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:39 PM
1

If I took my headphones out and I look at you more than once, it’s a signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:38 PM
1

Most women don’t give a fuck abt height yall came up with this on your own
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:08 PM
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No, many women can not. It’s all so genetically based
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:18 PM
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Couple possible answers here. 1) maybe she just wasn’t that into you. Not every woman like muscular guys. 2) she’d been made fun of for being too touchy in the past. Personally I have that situation, where one ex partner would make fun of me if I ever touched/admired his body/muscles or ever complimented him, so I now refuse to ever do either. 3) she just didn’t know what her allowances were. Some people don’t like to be objectified like that. She was probably trying to be polite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:24 PM
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It makes your life easier if your leading. No one is bitching and whining that you’re nagging him to have basic competence if you just do everything yourself. It’s also simply safer to not let some guy have that much power over you. It’s honestly just easier. But the key here is I don’t think 90% of the ppl you’re talking about actually want it. It’s just the easiest option or one they were forced into
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:02 PM
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Honestly men are just as weird abt approaching, god forbid you even approach them, irl. They guys on dating apps are usually duds, one and a blue moon one will be okay. YK what they say, all the good men are dead or married
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:45 PM
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This generation of men is simply too incompetent which just forces you as a woman to have to lead because if you don’t, then no one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:42 PM
1

Love this tbh super true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:34 PM
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I think Men live to start harassing women for being ugly out of no where
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:15 PM
4

Here. I am here. We are all just out in the world and living out lives, and completely invisible to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:14 PM
4

I wanna know what y'all consider overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:40 PM
1

I would never approach first. its very very rare ill even fallow a guy on social media first. im not going to be labeled the creepy psycho bitch thanks. the way most woman make the first move is looking at you honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:39 PM
1

I am 99% certain that I will still be single at 25. Plenty, I’d say in this day and age with the way things are going, are and will be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:48 PM
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It keeps me reminded that men are the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:38 PM
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The guy I’m seeing ATM is 5’7. And the guy I was going out with before him? 5’5. Neither of them are rich by any means, or incredibly fit. They’re just nice guys who I’m comparable with and I find handsome. From what I’ve heard, both of these men have never struggled in the department of dating and sex. The guy before both of them was 5’8 too I believe but anything over 5’8 I consider tall so to each is own. I’m 5’4. All of this to say: height isn’t a problem for alot of people. Settle down with…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:47 PM
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Because the vast majority of them are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:40 PM
2

This is so off base and incorrect lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:36 PM
1

WOMEN. LISTEN TO THE WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:21 PM
1

In the words of call her daddy: “assume he’s in a 24 hour fuck fest with 6 other girls”. And then you won’t get hurt. The point; they’re going to do it anyway. Just accept it and stay distant and vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:10 PM
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I’ll tell you what I’ve been doing -focusing on building my own personal code of ethics and morals (very inspired by the philosophy of the good place if I’m being honest) -started volunteering at an animal shelter -considered the traits I wish I had, or find admirable, and worked harder to emulate them myself (kindness, patience, compassion, work ethic, trustworthiness). Personally, it was like I woke up and flipped a switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:07 PM
1

Being good with kids and animals, being kind/gentle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:30 PM
4

I feel the the very obvious, simple answer, is that sex is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:51 PM
2

They don’t like women, they like having sex with female anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:51 PM
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I’ve been telling y’all we’re not having sex either but you don’t believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:53 AM
1

Would be nice but he’d have to make at LEAST 300K to survive where I live lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:48 PM
2

Bingo! Nail on the head! Absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:47 PM
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And you have never been there I see
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:23 AM
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Yes Because they were all considered Pretty. Some women have to jump through constant hoops to not look at a man and instantly get screamed at for being a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:20 AM
1

Yes. I see it as a chore but I’ve never actually had to. I have accepted that I’ll never have satisfying sex. Cest la vie. YES
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:18 AM
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They’re not though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:17 AM
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Pretty privilege strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:16 AM
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Yes. But also I’ve accepted they’re never going to like me so, there’s that. Listen, I don’t eat so little that I’m too tired to get out of bed to do anything but work, go to class, or go to the gym because it’s fun. I don’t wear a push up bra with every outfit because it’s cheap. I hate hitting legs. You know what I have to do every 3 days because if I don’t men call me an ugly flat assed bitch? Hit legs. My “voice” isn’t my actual voice. It’s a fake, higher pitched softer one. Men complain abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:16 AM
1

Most men I know are in situations like this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:04 AM
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I’ll stick to my PMDD and miserable pain than risk the weight gain, thank you. No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:02 AM
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Yes those are three completely different things. Sex is just that. It’s just sex. Dating is going out. Spending time together. But there’s no labeling, obligation, commitment, misery. Etc. A relationship is commitment, labels, etc. As far as dating without sex, that’s fine by me. Great by me tbh. It’s too much of a hassle to be worth it for me. No one I’ve dated has ever had any desire to sleep with me and that’s completely fine. If I lost like 10, 20 pounds maybe I’d consider it if I was ever d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:58 AM
1

This isn’t really gender exclusive ??? Many, most, equally as many even women are best off giving up too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:52 AM
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Obviously this isn’t ALL women, but these are the things I can’t believe other women do when my male friends tell me they experience them and wish they would stop. • body shaming (height, package, hair). You don’t want it done to you? Don’t do it to them. If he’s not your type that’s fine. Everyone has their own. Just don’t be a bully abt it. But this is Ofc a two way street. All of these things are •neglecting your platonic relationships for your romantic relationships. There’s a balance. •bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:20 PM
1

I think everyone does little things to help themselves with insecurities. Makeup, hairstyles, clothing choices. To each is own. But I don’t think you have to, nor do I think you should be shamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:08 PM
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Personally yes. Emotional intimacy is very important to me. With romantic and platonic relationships, I value it a lot. BUT there is a time and a place. Know the line of trauma dumping, and if she says “this is more of a therapist thing than a me thing” respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:53 AM
1

I tend to be more into older men than younger men, but I don’t act on it bc… well Taylor swift wrote all those songs for a Damn reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:40 AM
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I disagree i prefer being single than wasting someone and my own time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:34 PM
1

asexual confusion intensifies Lmao. It’s absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:18 PM
4

For me it’s not an issue at all. One of my exes once told me a girl dumped him bc he had a fucked up family and that rlly broke my heart for him. That’s grossly shallow. I’d judge anyone who judged ppl based on their family, but I’d never judge someone for their fucked up family. I once told an ex he’d never meet my mother, Point blank. we don’t talk. She’s an alcoholic narcissist. He was very offended. Should have seen that as the first sign that he was a dud to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:16 PM
5

With my Rottweiler and my sobriety :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:20 PM
1

I was rly lucky, I had a single father who just raised me like a boy so I was in the gym with him at 11 pumping iron and never got these weird ass hang ups but I see it in friends and family and it makes me so mad and sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:20 PM
8

Plenary of ugly women want to be in relationships and can’t be. And they just chill abt it. Fill their life with other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:05 PM
3

The people pleasing “tendency” that women are groomed to have because were required to cater to Eveyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:22 AM
4

When you’re constantly shamed for liking things this is what heppens. Our whole lives everyone screams at us that everything we do makes us annoying, undesirable, worthless, bad, etc. it’s constantly pressure and constant contradictory opinions. It’s intense man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:14 AM
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I’m straight chillin :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:11 AM
21

I’d rather be alone than unhappy. Men are no better. This is what they deserve back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:08 AM
0

I’m just giving you reasons. Idk what you want from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:07 AM
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Idk where you’re from but if a dude was into tennis or golf where I live he’d be in the same category as women’s preferred sports lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:55 AM
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People identify a lot with their city/ state/ province/ national team. That’s who they cheer for. They have friends who also do. They make it a communal event. Ice skating, gymnastics, women’s teams. Unless it’s a big machismo rage fest where you can get plastered while you watch it most dudes will make fun of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:50 AM
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My other point still stands. Sports are boring. We don’t identify with the teams. Or, the sports were interested in men make fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:31 AM
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It doesn’t interest me at all. But i think it’s good for kids to be in something. I would encourage kids in my life to join the 4H personally. Showing livestock was fucking awesome lmao. But refereeing to watching it, or playing it or something it just has zero interest to me. Before you call me fat and lazy I lift weights at least 6 days a week, an hour a day, and do about the same in cardio. Playing wise, I try to get my friends to play tennis with me casually, they never want to , whatever. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:26 AM
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Why do you think women should be with men they don’t want to be with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:46 AM
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No. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:08 PM
1

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:02 PM
1

Women can be creepy too. I’d actually be hurt if I was called creepy, but not if I was called slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:12 PM
1

Most I have come to undertand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:57 AM
1

I’ve tried all big 3 dating apps. I don’t get matches. That’s so far removed from the point anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:29 PM
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Bill can also be self aware. I know no guy wants to be hit on by me, so I don’t harass them! That’s easy! If all the ‘bill’s decided to be less entitled the world would be a much better place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:12 PM
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Must be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:26 PM
3

Literally that. Texting, phone calls, social media interactions. If you haven’t gone on an actual date it’s talking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:25 PM
1

Dating means going out on dates. Talking ≠ dating, and a relationship comes after dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:03 PM
-3

“This is bill, yeah every time we invite bill out with us he tries to fuck my friends. Maybe we should stop inviting bill out it’s really creepy”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:02 PM
46

The Incel and femcel subs got taken down
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:57 PM
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My gym rat dad and alcholic mother would shock you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:25 PM
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I agree. Don’t be that creep who hits on the girls in your social circle it’s gross and predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:16 PM
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Because it’s a deadly exploitative industry. Because it gives men unrealistic expectations which they harass the fuck out of us for not meeting. Bc men become addicted to it. Because it dehumanizes women to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:29 PM
4

Women are gentle when they reject men bc they kill us when we hurt their feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:44 PM
1

That’s not rlly the point here. My point is that some dudes see a chick with a BMI 20 and scream that she’s fat and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:16 AM
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It’s pretty common in this day and age. Everyone wants to “humble” women, including women with their headphones on just trying to finish their workout apparently. The whole “hoes need to be humbled” culture is just crazy. Unfortunately my religion doesn’t do the whole nun thing lol. I’ve learned how to get on without romantic love and once you’re used to it it’s not that bad. You fill the hole with other things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:09 PM
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The gym, colleges. Dating apps. The second my headphones are low or off I have to hear something atleast once a day about how disgusting I look. Never said I had a good body. Just said that I spend 2 hours a day at the gym and eat in a 1000 calorie deficit. But the argument that “just go to the gym and eat in a deficit and then you’ll be hot” (or something idk what the actual point was) is pretty much bullshit and my lived experience is proof. Commit to? Commitment is a pipe stream that Darwinis…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:47 AM
1

I’m in the “healthy” range for my height but I’m still considered overweight by most people, especially men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 02:50 AM
2

I am a senior in college and a virgin I don’t know where the fuck y’all get the idea that young women are having any more sex then young men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:56 PM
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It’s not just weight Loss it’s just as much muscle building too? And I promise the guys at your “local gym” are the absolute nastiest to the women there. They hate us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:06 PM
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Homie you can workout 2 hours a day, be on a 1000 calorie deficit and these men will still complain about how disgusting you are. It’s hard to date as an ugly woman just accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:05 PM
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“Overweight” is completely subjective in meaning. And it would take both a woman and a man the same amount of time, probably even longer for the woman considering we don’t have testosterone which makes getting fit much easier. Not every woman is natural 90 pounds with “correct” curves like you seem to thinkz
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:00 PM
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You have never been an ugly woman and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 04:53 PM
1

yall cry abt single moms and then cry abt abortion pick a struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:06 PM
10

Your “facts” are all cherry picked and dubiously researched
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:53 PM
1

Anything and everything. Y’all complain about everything with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:20 AM
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They’re fucking brutal. Their favorite form of comedy. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:18 AM
1

Oh yeah all the time. At my gym, at UNI.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:45 AM
1

Huge. I was pretty much raised like a boy by my dad (boys clothes, archery, shooting, the 4H, weightlifting, dinosaurs, big dogs. Thanks dad <3) and missed out the female bullshit socialization (cleaning toys baby dolls princess crap 🤮. Once again, thanks dad. You’re a real one) and I lack the social grooming most women have which makes my quality of life and self worth much better. But on the other hand, from my mother I alwyas got the “men are the enemy” treatment. Specifically “girls want rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:43 AM
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Considering what both my parents look like, and what I look like, I’d be so much better off. Id be a good height (I am my mothers exact height, assuming I’d be my dads [5’9, 5’8-5’10 is my personal preference for reference] height), I’d have testosterone to work with, and considering I’m pretty swole already I’d be pretty solid, I’d likely be better off in my career of plan as a man, I’d be set.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:35 AM
1

Yes? You should make your partner cum. That’s kinda what your supposed to do during sex. You literally have 1 job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:31 AM
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At my gym none of the women interact much with each other, and the men absolutely want nothing to do with us (but that may be a regional beauty standard issue. Extremely thin, little to no muscle). They do, however, have no qualms about loudly talking about how ugly fat and disgusting we all are when they think we can’t hear them. I’m a woman and a gym rat and I adore joeys videos. They’re great. Especially when he complains about shit heads doing super sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:28 AM
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I’ll never ask a man out again because of the way they react. They either psychically attack you, scream and laugh in your face about how disgusting/fat/ugly you are in order to make a scene and embarrass you (or record it to do the same online), go along with it until they pull a “surprise this was all a joke you think I’d say yes to you?” Moment. They tell everyone how insane you are. Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:24 AM
1

Maybe you’re hanging out with shitty women???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:20 AM
2

Every man I’ve ever dated has admitted they never found me attractive, or never even pretended they did in the first place. He swore he was over his ex, they got back together a month later. He was also likely fucking someone else the whole time. He led me on for a year knowing I had feelings for him, leaning into it, all the while he was into someone else. He was fucking other people the entire time, tried to hit me up again while he was in a relationship We talked for like 6 months, he wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:19 AM
1

Most of my friends are men. They’re much more open about their feelings and easier to read
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:04 AM
2

Opting out honestly. Focus on your meaningful friendships and family relationships. Find fulfillment elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:25 PM
1

Take the microphones away from the morons. But honestly I don’t think it can be fixed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:22 PM
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When women communicate, it’s a “nag”, when they don’t and just leave bc you can’t act right it’s a problem. Your “preferences” are mysogonistic and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:13 AM
1

The problem is that y’all won’t date a 125 pound woman. That you’ll fuck 700 chicks but it’s a problem when a woman does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:11 AM
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Nope. I’d say it’s only gonna get worse
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:08 AM
2

Fuck no. It’s just how it is, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:30 AM
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Most of my friends are WGTOWs including myself, as are the majority of the women in my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:16 AM
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Yes. It’s completely dead. I have never heard of a man doing any of those things IRL. It’s completely transactional. Men get sex, women get brief amounts of validation/attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:12 AM
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Oh, so you’re a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:11 AM
3

Bruh the men in this sub hate women what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:08 AM
1

You asked a question I answered it the same exact way countless women agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:03 PM
3

Why is it so hard for you to accept that theres a healthy balance?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:03 PM
1

It is literally not I’m telling you why women loose desire
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:02 PM
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No, no they are not. I know this bc I was with my friend last night and we were both on tinder, looking at the opposite sex. And all the girls on his feed were very pretty and normal, and all the guys on mine were fucking rough and weird as hell. Normal hot guys don’t have to resort to dating apps, but normal nice girls do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:43 AM
1

We don’t want you to do anything. Shut the hell up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:41 AM
1

I’m what you’d call an invisible woman. I’m single, I don’t have sex. I am perfectly fine with being single, just enjoy my life without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:38 AM
1

Not being happy. Literally any reason I don’t want to be married anymore is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:36 AM
1

Never having a girlfriend as in never having a labeled relationship is fine, forever. 0 experience is a problem past 20
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:36 AM
1

You don’t understand that both get shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:35 AM
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This reminds me of something that happened with two friends of mine lately. Basically a friend of mine and I were talk about how it’s a shame there aren’t many alt guys where we live after we’d seen a very handsome punk guy at the mall. A male friend of ours went off about how gross that look was and how weird guys like that were. Meanwhile I still think about him… lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:30 AM
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Because 99% of men who say that shit don’t mean it. “Okay i cuddled with you for 2 minutes now you owe me sex!” It’s a manipulation tool. They don’t actually want it they just realized it was a trick that worked. Well, now it doesn’t anymore. I’ll cuddle my friends any day but never a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:22 AM
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You’re so close to getting the point but you just missed it. The problem isn’t physical attraction. 99% of the time it’s the husbands behavior. For example he doesn’t do any house work, he’s lazy, he constantly complains about being asked to old up his end of the bargain, he makes no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:19 AM
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Why the fuck do you think that would happen? That’s the most cracked out idea I’ve ever heard. Stop begging to be oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:17 AM
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She looks beautiful some people get wrinkles younger but that doesn’t make her any less gorgeous (and out of your Incel ass league)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:08 PM
1

This sub is just all incels now huh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:18 PM
1

They look good you’re mad weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:18 PM
1

You do see the difference don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:41 PM
1

In my experience they don’t know it’s fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:00 PM
1

The automod has seen some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:59 PM
0

I’m really sorry about your daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:54 PM
0

Must be nice. You’re probably not average then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:53 PM
1

If you look in enough history books I bet you can hit all 3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:15 AM
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What makes you think I didn’t want them anyway lmao. Some of them I did, truly. Honestly I think it would hurt the same. Atleast of they “used me” I’d have the validation of knowing I was Atleast good enough for that. Still feel shitty. I don’t know why they did it, maybe boredom, maybe convenience, hell if I know. You’re very nice, and I don’t agree but I appreciate the sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:09 AM
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I’ve literally never had anyone try or want to fuck me. Dated 4 guys or so, and none of them ever wanted to. Granted, 3 of them have admitted to never having been attracted to me in the first place. It was a forum for, and a term used to describe of people of all genders from what I remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:47 AM
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Apps do nothing for me. 2 years, got me no where, on the big 3, even some smaller ones. No matter the strategy i used, it went no where. They match, sometimes, and they just don’t answer. I definitely can’t and it’s fine, I’ve rlly accepted that I’m just not meant to be in a relationship. It still sucks, though, even once you accept it. It is what it is. I know im not pretty, but after years of Witnessing guys tear the prettiest women apart it gets kinda aggravating to see. Plenty of women I kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:25 AM
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Possibly, I’ve just yet to see it. All I hear constantly is men tearing apart what I’d consider a beautiful, normal human woman for the weirdest flaws it’s like they search for. It’s mindfucking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:19 AM
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For men to be happy, to make a commitment, to be nice. Men are fuckin brutal to pretty, nice, normal girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:14 AM
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There’s an old saying, all the good men are dead or taken. It seems to be the same for good looking lmao. The dating app surveys just, from what I’ve heard, idk first hand, have a selection bias problem, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:11 AM
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So the argument is (not telling you to agree with me, just explaining) is that men don’t realize they do care abt these things. Regular leggings or leggings that make your waist rlly small and your ass huge? Yeah men do notice that. Hip dips? The actual issue is frog ass, which yes, men notice. And they do ruin the “decently feminine figure and shape”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:08 AM
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That’s actually rlly funny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:06 AM
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Maybe it’s a regional thing. I can’t go to a gym, a bar, a music venue without hearing some guy completely tear a girl apart for something insane
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:05 AM
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I’ve gathered the impression that a lot of dating app studies have rlly skewed metrics as their self selected and ppl who are unhappy with their experiences are more likely to want to complain but I think that just reflects the attractive men not needing to resort to dating apps bc they can get a date anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:59 AM
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Who the fuck takes pride in being a 20 year old virgin? Just because I’m comfortable admitting it doesn’t mean I’m happy about it. I’m dead fucking serious I’m tired of constantly listening to guys tear apart a pretty girl just because they didn’t like one tooth in the back of her mouth (I’m so Deadass) or she had knobby knees or some stupid shit. It’s endless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:51 AM
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I think u like to stalk ppls accounts and that’s kinda weird but okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:47 AM
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Aw a fan I’m flattered
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:44 AM
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Not enemies but simply a threat
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:44 AM
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I’ve yet to meet one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:42 AM
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In my experience it’s the opposite. Every woman they see they need to point out how disgusting and ugly they are, even if They have to find something that no one in their right mind would notice, they need to find it and scream it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:42 AM
1

Some ppl just love each other man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 09:26 PM
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I don’t. My best ex boyfriend was a high school dropout. It’s all about competency and work ethic for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:42 PM
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Women get the same advice/ do the same things. They work out, they go to therapy, or often they just quit on dating and focus on their friendships and themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:03 PM
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No one is meeting anyone in my life for Atleast 6 months. That’s a hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:43 AM
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Okay but this isn’t the standard. Most guys you can’t cuddle with, ever, because they thing 5 minutes of that means you owe them sex. Women don’t show affection because it is almost always taken as a come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:51 PM
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In my experience STEM guys are kinda the worst. So I tend to avoid engineers and tech bros. I also don’t date cops. For the obvious reasons. Besides that I don’t give a shit what anyone does for a living as long as they can actually support themself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:45 PM
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“All the Women should have sex with me and only me. If they have sex with anyone else their a slut”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:34 PM
2

I’m so down for this. I would never give birth but having biological kids unfortunately does appeal to a very selfish primal part of my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:14 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:31 AM
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I don’t get why you’re so hell bent on this. there’s no changing ur mind like why are you so obsessed with this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:31 AM
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You get paid for providing a service. It’s a job. I blame both. But in ur little analogy the s/w is more likely the exploited factory worker so, you do u
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:30 AM
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If you’re a loser creep whose willing to pay for sex I don’t actually have sympathy for you. That’s weird. A jobs a job. Being a butcher doesn’t mean you’re a serial killer. Soliciting hookers just makes you a fucking weirdo. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:27 AM
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This post and thread was never about sex workers. Just John’s. That’s not the debate here. Paying for sex is simply weird. It flags for a lot of other shitty mentalities. It flags for sex addiction. It flags for dehumanization of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:20 AM
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Buying sex is just gross. I can’t explain it better than that. It’s a waste of money and shows me you’re financially irresponsible for one. There’s just a gross mentality to soliciting prostitution. It’s disturbing. I don’t care if a dude has a high body type with multiple genders. I prefer it actually honestly. But once you start paying for it, it’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:09 AM
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Wouldn’t bother me at all. Even if he was bi, pan, queer in any way, I wouldn’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:04 AM
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No it rlly grossed me out. Warning sign for a lot of icky morals and views on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:23 AM
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So, when women rely on a man for money she’s a gold digging slag with no worth who you’ll call ever name in the book, and when she does SW or OF she’s a whore and used up or some shit, and when she works that’s a problem too? Women DONT have these fake opportunities of a patreon boyfriend. YK what I’ve experienced from half the guys I’ve dated? Crying and complaining abt a $30 check I didn’t even ask them To pay. And if a woman gets an actually sugar daddy you have a problem with that too. It do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:20 PM
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“Women in their younger years prioritize sex and fun” have you met a 22 year old guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:04 PM
1

I don’t think it’s just men. Plenty of women fall into those groups too. Myself the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:49 PM
2

I want to feel emotionally safe with someone. Not feel like they’re going to constantly ridicule me, belittle me and make fun of me. I also would like to feel physically safe- in the safe that I dog wan to to have to even entertain the possibility of him killing me or harming me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:48 PM
2

Anti vaxers are a firm no, because of all the horrible ideology that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:19 PM
3

You get it, yeah. Good analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:17 PM
1

There’s alot of nuance to this question. How long have we been together, what is my income like, does he have investments or savings or is he totally reliant on me, what has the dynamic of our relationship been like before that, etc. very very depending.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:06 PM
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I like the way people treat me when I look “pretty”. Because only then am i treated like a human being. Only then do the majority of people treat me the way I treat everyone regardless of their appearance. As a woman you are allowed “imperfections” and quirks in your personality if you look a certain way. It’s the difference between a weirdo and a manic pixie dream girl basically. I do however enjoy the way certain styles of makeup can serve as a dog whistle to like minded people. IE, when I wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:02 PM
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Yeah, actually. One of my friends is a wonderful guy. Super generous, true gentleman, funny, inelegant, diverse interests and hobbies. Real sweetheart and he’s quite tall, which matters to a lot of people apparently. He seems to pick them like it’s his job. Crazy, mean, they cheat on him, emotionally abuse him, verbally abuse him, use him for his generosity. I feel terrible, they take advantage of his goodness and he always ends up alone, and getting hurt again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:15 AM
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You seem like a lot of fun at parties. That personality might be why boys don’t like you. Work on that, see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:13 AM
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Ppl have their own types. I’m being so FFR when I say I’ve gone feral for dudes of alllllll appearances and body types. Just mind your own business and let people like what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:12 AM
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I like older guys, just because they seem to be better behaved honestly. But as I’ve gotten older, I’ve actually been more into the slender body type than the jacked dudes. Been there, done that, bought the tote bag. People’s tastes change with age and experience. People tend to be more open with age, in my experience. Part of the reason I date older guys usually is that younger guys simply aren’t attracted to me where older guys get a lot more cool about a lot of stuff with age and experience. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:10 AM
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20 year old bisexual virgin here. I’ve literally never been pressured, shamed, or guilted by any of my male, female, or NB friends for being a virgin. Frankly I don’t believe that this is actually happening, most people don’t give a fuck what other people do with their sex lives unless their trying to screw that other person. You might want some new, not weird friends. Btw, slut shaming women who can literally buy and sell you is way more “19th century” than being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:07 AM
1

I absolutely use dating as self harm lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:04 AM
2

I think the nature of casual sex is treating eachother as objects and subhuman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:02 AM
1

You literally can though. You’re just a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:53 PM
1

I promise they happen for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:11 AM
1

The way something is used colloquially is more relevant than the dictionary definition
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:10 AM
1

Not in practicality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:09 AM
1

This is such a weird hypothetical that’s never happening
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:09 AM
1

You’re intentionally obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:08 AM
1

I promise everything isn’t “fine” in the relationship man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:08 AM
1

God your hopeless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:07 AM
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Everything’s probably not “fine” with the relationship of one partner, any gender, doesn’t want to have sex. There is Atleast a communication issue. If you’re gonna leave someone bc they don’t feel like it one night you may want to seek therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:06 AM
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Let’s word it this way: love languages are how you show, and best feel loved, period. With friends, family, and yes, partners. Love languages are ways you express your affections to Everyone you love. Your mom, your kids, your friends. Christmas gifts (GG) , family game night (QT), breakfast in bed for Mother’s Day (AOS), etc. So, would you want to fuck all of the people you love? No. It’s not a love language. It can be a factor of relationships, but it’s not a love language
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:05 AM
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That literally has nothing to do with the question. Do you know what a love language is? I’m not sure you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:01 AM
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Because it’s not a love language, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:59 AM
1

Neither one is selfish??? Weird take
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:58 AM
1

The shittiest guys I’ve dated had married middle class parents. The kindest, most considerate and caring partners I ever dated; one never met his dad and his mom had him at 16, one’s dad OD’d when he was 14 and was kicked out of his house at 17. They were great dudes, and great S/O’s. You’re a judgmental weirdo. Work on urself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:57 AM
1

Why would you care? You’re still getting what you want. You didn’t care enough to know this whole time, why do you care now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:52 AM
3

Dating is hell. Most guys just want a hole to fuck regularly, which is why they’ll concede to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:50 AM
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This is such a bad take. I don’t even know where to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:01 AM
2

If I had, if they wanna believe in god that’s super chill by me. My dads pretty agnostic but I was still fairly religious until a few years ago. I just want them to have the comfort of the connection to the culture
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:55 PM
1

There’s a scene in the Simpsons where Moe goes “well, there’s someone for Everyone right?” And the scene pans to someone on the other side of the world offing themselves. That’s how I feel it is for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:58 PM
1

Yes, sadly. I am culturally and ethically Jewish, and an atheist who if im being honest fucks very heavily with the ideas of TST. I’ve run into issues of dating ppl to only find out they’ve got quite a bit of antisemitism. I can’t duck with ppl who are bigoted against my own people, but Muslims, sikhs, Buddhist’s, Hindus, animists, etc as well. It’s a big red flag for me. I’ve also had the experience where I dated Christian guys who were respectful enough with my Judaism, but found out I was an …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:56 PM
1

I wouldn’t care. Bi, pan, ace, Demi. I really couldn’t care less who else you’ve been into in the past. I’m queer myself, bi and pan guys are super cool by me. Love em. I would hope my partner would trust me enough to tell me, considering my openness with my own identity and my very queer social circle. But if it’s something that’s very private for them, I’d understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:52 PM
2

I’m very jealous so I don’t really mind it either. I only get bothered when he’s a hypocrite abt it. For example, I wasn’t allowed to be pissed when this guy rambled abt how hot his friends new girl was for 10 minutes, but he was mad when I called his ex hot in passing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:50 PM
1

A BMI a of 18 is literally the. for underweight the BMI makes no account for muscle, as well, meaning a vast majority of ppl hitting anything in the 18s are still greatly unwell. Why are you do defensive of a deadly beauty standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:00 PM
1

It’s almost like the vast majority of ALL PEOPLE suck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:55 PM
1

It literally is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:54 PM
11

This! If I or my friends had any private spaces I’d do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:07 AM
8

I enjoy interacting with ppl. Plenty of ppl do. I, like many ppl I know, like going out to house shows and parties and shit like that. But most ppl don’t want to be bothered so I don’t bother them and stick to whoever I went to the event with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:00 AM
4

Very funny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:40 AM
1

Couldn’t care less but like, there’s no reason to do it. The right woman doesn’t give a fuck how tall you are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:13 AM
2

Kindness, compassion respecting people regardless of their differences, listening and actually professing what people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:11 AM
46

Homie, you may just be a little gay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:10 AM
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Because it’s dangerous for us. Edit: I’m telling you why women aren’t going to these places. We’re more vigilant than ever now, we’re more aware of the world than our mothers and grandmothers were. So we rlly don’t go to these places bc when we get attacked, when we go to court or the police we get told we were “asking for it”. So we have girls nights in, and go to concerts with our girlfriends, etc. I’m not looking for an argument, I’m just explaining it. Personally, I love pub food, but for sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:09 AM
1

Congratulations, you understand being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:09 AM
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It’s. It just me, alot of my friends got the same treatment. It is what it is I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:09 PM
1

I’m a redditor, why would I care? I don’t car abt ppl being on any social media, but I think the way they interact with that media can be concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:21 AM
3

Bro people are deg kinks it’s a very common normal kink don’t be a dick abt it. If she trusts you enough to let you do it that’s a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:20 AM
1

It depends on the person? I know that I weight more than most guys I date, it is what it is. Age is a weird thing, yeah, and I’ve dated guys 5’6 to 6’5, didn’t care either way. Everyone has their own preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:12 AM
9

I’ve been seeing ugly guys with hot chicks for a million years. Things even out eventually. And if the hot guys would like to come my way I’d be very happy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:01 AM
1

I don’t care if a guy fucks 800 women. Why would it matter? Soliciting prostitutes is a whole different issue. I’m not cool with dudes frequenting strip clubs either, though. There’s a difference between sleeping around and the commodification of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:52 AM
3

Paying for sex is a way bigger moral red flag than just dating a lot and being charismatic enough to get laid a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:34 AM
1

Having a hooker habbit is actually pretty weird to me, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:52 AM
1

Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:15 AM
1

That rlly has nothing to do with the question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:03 AM
1

Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:01 AM
1

Jesus I’d rather be alone than know I’m just a hole that’s tolerable enough to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:50 PM
11

I literally couldn’t care less. The more experience a man has the better. Less hassle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:59 PM
1

So it’s a no. Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:54 PM
1

But you weren’t actually attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:39 PM
1

Then don’t get married
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:31 PM
6

He sounds like a dreamboat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:27 PM
2

I mean yeah there’s that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:06 PM
1

Why does it effect you though?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:06 PM
2

Some ppl I know have had very stringent types
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:46 PM
1

I’m speaking about the guy who dated 10 chicks who were 5’2 blondes who all dressed the same, or a dude whose last 3 exes are curvy and Latina, for example. These ppl finding someone outside that attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:46 PM
3

Who cares. If ppl aren’t happy they shouldn’t stay unhappy. Let ppl do what they want it’s their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:44 PM
3

You’re against sobriety?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:42 PM
3

You sir are a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:41 PM
2

Yeah no in my experience everyone I’ve dated has had very different appearances, ethnicities, careers and personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:17 PM
4

I literally would not give a shit but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:14 PM
1

I’ve had such a random array of dudes, it’s always the most random ones
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:13 AM
3

I feel ur pain sis. Finding someone alt would be so nice but it feels like a pipe dream lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:01 AM
5

I feel like straight women tend to date alot more broadly then straight men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:57 AM
1

How do you find so many ppl that are that similar lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:55 AM
4

“Settle downnnnn”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:49 AM
7

I have no idea how to explain it, and no reference for comparison. But I don’t think a dick stimulates your clit and makes you cum in 2 minutes or less
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:26 AM
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I have 0 need for it. I’m very happy with my vibrator
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:14 AM
1

What it’s the truth lmao. Dudes make it quite abundantly aware that’s all we are, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:13 AM
2

[For reference, I am 5’5 and 150 pounds, so quite over weight. I have a very large, almost pregnancy like stomach. At my lowest weight (128 and in very bad health from a severe ED) I still carried weight in my stomach. I have a very poor body type and a poor face as well. I’d say maybe I’m a 5 or 6 with makeup.] I don’t get into relationships. I have brief flings, 3 months at longest. I started dating as a freshman in college, No one in high school ever had a crush on me. No one in HS ever liked…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:12 AM
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What in the fuck is this. neither. I won’t be with someone who doesn’t want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:54 AM
2

Everything LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:53 AM
1

Men, in my experience, don’t want romance. And they’re fucking mean about it. You compliment them? They ask you what’s wrong with you that your “into that”, no matter what you say. You get them a small thoughtful gift? They make fun of it and either break it or throw it away. You get them a grand gift? They make fun of you being a pathetic simp they can get to do whatever they want to their friends. You buy them tickets to something they’d like? They take their friend/brother/dad. You plan a tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:51 AM
1

Yes. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:48 AM
1

Because it’s a largely coercive, exploitative industry built on a great deal of slavery. It promotes the dehumanization of women. It prays on young girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:42 AM
2

Yes. My mentality with every guy I talk to/date is that he’s fucking Atleast 6 other people. It’s how you have to be, you’ve gotta be realistic. You’re not special, you’re not important to him, your just another hole on his roster. Keeps you from getting hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:39 AM
2

That is literally medically underweight. Men scare me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:35 AM
1

No. And it’s part of the reason I don’t even feel like starting this late in life. I’m gonna be shit at it, why try.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:33 AM
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Because I refuse to let someone have financial power over me. You have no freedom and are in massive danger if you rely on someone else for money. Also, dual income trap means both ppl have to work. Period. Lastly, I never plan on partnering. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:30 AM
2

Severe inability to trust, inability to communicate issues
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:37 PM
2

Most rlly don’t. As a woman who works out alot, it’s a big turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:55 PM
1

For me, there was not much other option for a long time. I only very recently started going out into the social scene but for my entire adolescent and adult life before that I was very socially isolated so I didn’t have much other option. They’re safe IN THE SENCE(and only in this sense) that there’s no risk of immediate rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:57 PM
2

“Date” and “have sex” are completely different things. More men want to have sex, sure, but more women want to date. BUT, as far as happy single women go, its because we found fulfillment in other things. The patriarchy lied to us all that getting married and breeding was the only way to be happy. News flash, it’s more likely to make you miserable. Women learn this faster, and more often, likely bc we are more aware of how the patriarchy is harming us. So, we find fulfillment in other ways. Frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:54 PM
1

20, nope. Never even did the “relationship” thing. Just little fings here and there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:49 PM
2

I went out with a B/C list standup comedian once. Oy vey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:02 AM
11

Seriously. If I found out someone I screwed thought I was “below average looking” I’d loose it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:02 PM
9

This is the exact logic though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:01 PM
1

None🙃. But I think one of two hookups per month is pretty standard for SINGLE women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:00 PM
2

I love the projecting. You clearly need some serious help, and you’re pretty chronically online. Go out in the real world. Meet real people. Most women don’t give a fuck about height. “Slightly wrong fashion” of being a sleaze and a creep, then it sucks to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:59 PM
1

What you see as a lack of sexual tension was probably just a lack of mutual attraction. If all you care about is making it known that all you want to do is fuck me, then get a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:57 PM
1

As someone who didn’t date in high school, and barely in college (nothing serious), it sucks. The earlier you start the more skills you get, the better you are at understanding and navigating the dating world. It’s like a sport, the younger you start the more advantages you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:01 AM
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No, as long as your clean I don’t care. I actually prefer that they know what they’re doing and what they like. Makes it easier for me. I don’t want or hear about it though. At all. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:56 AM
1

Personally, I expect no sexual comments, politeness to service staff, not drinking, being cautious about consent (even as simple as holding my hand), not expecting me to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:55 AM
1

It’s very very unattractive as far as I’m concerned. Want to get laid fast? Get a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:51 AM
11

Why does it bother you so much? Just ignore them and mind your own business it’s not that hard. Their body has no effect on you. They’re not “entitled” they’re just living their lives. Their body doesn’t make them any less entitled to love than anyone else’s. Overweight men have gotten a free pass for decades. Don’t like it? Don’t pursue them. But don’t be a weirdo and go out of your way to harass them, im sure you have your own flaws too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:50 AM
1

I don’t date very often, 4 short term flings in total, and I’ve never let anyone splurge on me in the very few ppl I’ve dated. I’ve Mostly dated working class, blue collar guys and students working part time jobs, so everything’s always been super low key. But if someone was trying to spend exorbitant amounts of money on me I’d probably be very anxious abt it bc of my money trauma from my mom. Financial irresponsibility is quite a turn off though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:33 AM
2

Way more common
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:50 PM
1

Personally I’m very turned off my financial irresponsibility. I can’t be in a relationship with that kinds of bs, I have enough hang ups about money as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:49 PM
1

You’re still ignoring the real point, which is that this information is completely meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:41 PM
1

There is absolute selection bias with the people willing to participate in a survey, and the people who are actually in your life and a much less biased group. Wtf do you men want? women to say hight matters? Your outraged. Women say it doesn’t? You throw a shit fit. You people are never gonna be happy FFS what even is the point of worrying abt this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:32 PM
1

Women have shamelessly hit on my dad infront of me my entire life. Clearly they did not care that he looked like Mr clean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:20 PM
2

I would he so grossed out I wouldn’t care if I was cheating or not is just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:20 PM
0

If your honesty reveals that your a shitty person, than that’s the issue. Not weather your honest or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:19 PM
1

You’re basing your conclusion off a Small N study and dating apps???? Ask most women in your life and social circle and they’ll tell you the same thing: They dont give a shit. Most will probably say they like guys Atleast a inch or two taller than them so they can wear heals. But beyond that, no one gives a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:18 PM
1

1-10 is a meaningless scale. It’s too complicated to rank it like that. This is like a 3 dimensional sliding scale kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:16 PM
1

You’re real confident about being a creep and a predator. Be honest with your intentions. This is pretty basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:14 PM
1

Days to weeks. Sometimes months.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:13 PM
1

Nah we absolutely can. I have more straight male friends than female friends. Guys I’ve known a very long time, who actively date, and have no attraction to me. It’s rlly not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:09 PM
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I have literally never given a fuck how tall a guy is. The only time I think anyone cares abt height is dating apps (bc the info is right there). If a guy aproached me, Is taller than me, great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:37 PM
1

I’m not saying that point is wrong tbh they are just way better at faking it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:55 PM
5

Abusively unhealthy attachment is so morally indefensible I can’t figure out how to make it make sense to you. You need to find fulfillment in yourself before you ruin some poor nice person’s life with your bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:47 PM
0

Sex isn’t intimacy anymore that died decades ago. The only real intimacy these days is from friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:46 PM
1

YES FOR THE MILLIONTH TIME physical attraction is such a SMALL part of it it’s barley anything. •safety (physical and emotional) •romantic attraction •compatibility •personality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:45 PM
1

I really couldn’t care less if a man or a woman I’m dating has a high body count. I prefer it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:43 PM
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20 and I still have the same one 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:34 PM
1

Dude you need SERIOUS help. You need a psychiatrist, not a relationship. It’s unhealthy to rely on an innocent bystander like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:33 PM
6

Haven’t in 20 years yet it barely comes to mind. You have a hand. Sort yourself out, you’ll live.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:31 PM
1

Just, a person. Pleanty of people are celibate for various reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:41 PM
1

I think it always has sucked, this is just a new flavor of suck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:40 PM
1

Sweetheart I don’t want ANY MAN walking remotely close to me when I’m walking home. I don’t care what race he is, he’s a threat. Period. If you get dropped in a snake pit, you’re gonna be nervous because you don’t know which ones are sweet little garden snakes and which ones have enough venom to kill 12 men. This is how life is as a woman. Every man is a likely, and possibly attacker. You have to be on edge at all times, that’s just how life is. I don’t care that survival precautions hurt Your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:02 PM
6

I’m sorry this sentence starts making one point and ends making a completely different one can you rephrase or explain
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:56 PM
7

It’s not “overused”, And it won’t be “overused” until GBV and IPV falls. Women have full reason to be defensive. Y’all cry that women pick the wrong guys, there is literally no way to tell whose fucking crazy and whose not. So we have to always be on the defense. Besides that, online women have the burden of having to try to gauge mens Intent, personality and if they are even a real person through the internet. Is this someone trying to catfish me? Is this someone who just wants to be friends, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:54 PM
6

We are afraid of getting murdered, raped, trafficked, etc. i don’t care if we’re “mean”. It’s life or death, we have to be standoffish to be safe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:44 PM
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That’s so weird that’s not something I could imagine judging anymore for what’s wrong with a low drive? Ppl are weird. I think it’s a symptom of the patriarchy, and that the patriarchy convinces everyone of the lie of what it means to be a “man”, ie to sleep around etc. sorry for ur experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:26 PM
2

I did clarify that I’m speaking as a general, but I am bi, and from the conversations I’ve had with my WLW friends it’s a split consensus
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:23 PM
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Oh I’d never stoop so low I’m just telling you crying about women having a public insta is a little weird and that’s just the tip of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:39 AM
1

For me, a MMF threesome is a huge fantasy (even though I’d never act on it) simply because I’d love the double attention, double care, double affection. It’s been a mainstay fantasy of mine for as long as I can recall. But I am also open to poly in general, so a three person relationship appeals to me a lot as well. Double the love!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:27 AM
1

Being financially responsible, and being cheap/frugal are different things. And being financially responsible (saving, living below your means) is very attractive, no matter your income.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:26 AM
2

Deer are so freakin cute
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:24 AM
1

This is a solid list
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:24 AM
2

Anyway, here’s mine •overly sexual in conversation, especially early on •needs to drink every time we’re together •road rage/aggressive when uncalled for •bravado/ toxic masculinity has a choke hold on him •lack of critical thinking skills, especially when it comes to religion. Accepts the status quo with no question. •pushy about gender roles •friends are all the exact same demographic as he is •unkind to other women/no female friends •unkind to animals, unkind in general •conservative (sociall…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:23 AM
2

Get to know a person. You’ll learn. Asking is cocky and rude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:16 AM
1

Your red flags ARE a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:16 AM
3

god it sounds like a fantasy. Dating someone whose also ace, or Atleast had a low sex drive would be a dream come true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:14 AM
2

A prison. Hell. A curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:14 AM
1

Uh I wouldn’t even have unprotected sex if I WAS married
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:13 AM
1

At least a million
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:12 AM
1

Women are less visual, more imaginative. [AS A GENERAL] men prefer to view porn, women prefer to read it. The visual does little to nothing for most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:11 AM
1

Take ur weird “alpha male” bs to another loser like you whose gonna fall for it. Don’t be a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:14 PM
1

Yes. this shouldn’t be a question. Be explicit about what you want, or else you’re a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:13 PM
1

Lying to get laid is fucking pathetic. When your poor and when your old all you have is your name and your word. Don’t fuck that up too. Along with that, from experience, Most dudes I’ve ever been really into, I was into because they were genuinely nice, kind, respectful and honest dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:11 PM
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I know a lot of men and women who have gotten married and/or remarried after 40. One woman in her 60s even. And I have a very very small social circle, that if I know half a dozen women over 40 who have gotten married, that’s a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:06 PM
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It’s not a “trap”. Not telling women all you want is sex, THAT is a trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:01 PM
2

It’s literally my experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:38 PM
6

It’s all pretty bad ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:18 PM
4

Like a baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:14 PM
2

That’s hot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:14 PM
4

YK it’s funny. I like women, and I like women wearing makeup, and I can tell she’s gonna look different when she takes off her black lipstick and eyeliner, but I still have a basic idea that, ghasp she’s still pretty! Tell me, incels, do you lack basic visual processing skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:39 PM
4

This
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:50 AM
18

It she says no or seems uninterested, LEAVE HER ALONE. Don’t be a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:50 AM
1

Personally not for me. I don’t like to intermix my love life and my social life, so it’s just a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:53 PM
4

I speak from experience as a Demi rom ace person, but it is LITERALLY ALL about personality. If you’re kind, pleasant, have a good personality, a good sense of humor, are respectful and convivial, there’s a good chance I’ll like you, /like that/. And once I do, I’m all abt you. I find every part of you pretty/handsome/cute etc. I like peoples features as they are unique to them, and I like them. It’s all personality, rlly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:50 PM
2

Not all women peruse men, not all men peruse women. Some ppl just have anxiety and would just rather wait for the the other person then risk brutal rejection. Cest la vie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:51 PM
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It’s weird to have to ask that question. Get to know someone. You’ll find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:13 PM
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He is very religious and was engaged to a very very lovely girl who went to school a few hours away. He mooned abt her day and night. I was 16 when I was a freshman in college, and he was a 22 y/o senior. He was just a very kind brotherly friend. He was not “in the friend zone” or whatever you may think. Also, you are assuming what he looked like. I’m sure he is not what you picture in your weird, jaded mind. He was my friend. It was something he offered when one day he realized we both were wai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:16 PM
1

Because relationships for women mean • unappreciated emotional labor • unappreciated domestic labor • general emotional distress • higher likelihood of abuse. Men treat the women they’re in relationships like shit. Most men don’t want to be in relationships, they want a “bang maid” as frank Reynolds put it. So they treat their partners like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:21 AM
1

Do you want quality or quantity? That’s the question. The ppl who are into you for a fit bod probably aren’t actually concerned with comparability or personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:18 AM
2

God women with cool makeup are so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:17 AM
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There are certain forms of masculinity that are endearing. The “boys will be boys” nature of “I’m gonna climb on the roof” “we’re 25 and gonna go have a mud fight” “vacuuming the front lawn to confuse the neighbors” “the stupidest bet you’ve ever heard”. Shits cute. Sometimes you meet a dude who gets what positive masculinity is and they’re great. Forehead kisses, side walk rule, “text me when you get home”. I used to have a friend who’d take the train 2 stops in the wrong direction to make sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:15 AM
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Most women don’t make moves on guys bc of how much fun they have at humiliating us when rejecting us. Never again thanks. Along with that they literally do nothing to show if their interested so, fuck it. Not worth the cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:12 AM
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Virginity isn’t real Bruh it’s a social construct that has 0 meaning. No STD? Clean. Cool. All that actually matters. Sex doesn’t make you “dirty”, sounds like the purity culture is rotting your brain. Ur fucking weird man,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:26 PM
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Bro that’s fucking weird if he’s clean who gives a fuck. Why wouldn’t you want someone whose experienced and confident and knows how to please a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:04 AM
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If you need to “argue” abt it, there is a goooood chance you should breakup. If you can’t talk about it calmly, you’re relationship isn’t working. If your not happy, you shouldn’t be in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:12 AM
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Dating for anyone of any gender or attraction is abt finding someone your compatible with, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:12 AM
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I used to date a guy who was a regular at my job. He knew a lot of staff, he came by to hang out with the dishwashers when it was slow. When we first met I had 0 interest in him. Casually polite, friendly enough. He was always just nice. Over time I developed a thing for him. Idk if he had one for me from the jump. Never asked. But I definitely got the interest over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:10 AM
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My last boyfriend was a highschool dropout. He was a mechanic, at 22 made like 60k a year. He’d been homeless at 16, and worked his ass off and made a life for himself, he was a great guy. One of my best boyfriends. Flash to another guy I dated. Bachelors in physics. He didn’t do Jack shit with it, he was a 28 year old basement gremlin for no reason but his own laziness, absolute asshole to me. There’s more, but there is no time lol. Point is, having a degree, not having a degree is unimportant.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:08 AM
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Ur right and you should say it. As a virgin, it is stupid as fuck to care abt. When dudes ask me, it’s an automatic turnoff. Stop giving a fuck, it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:03 AM
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I just don’t get why y’all do it. Unless someone asked, don’t send it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:33 PM
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Uh? Israel exists my man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:39 AM
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No they’re horrible and pointless on this end also. For starters, dating apps are actually not safe for us, at all. Just as deadly, if not more than irl meeting. But besides dating apps hookup culture sucks when being a woman dating men as well. It’s frankly pretty pointless, and hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:05 AM
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Stop assuming all women want kids. Many don’t. Your fatal flaw is that assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:51 PM
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Nah I’m Deadass that’s the mentality you’ve gotta adopt once you realize they’re all fucking a dozen other chicks it makes dating easier
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:20 PM
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My regular assumption is a 24 hour fuck fest with 7 other girls. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:52 PM
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Your first point is so wrong bro maybe 40 years ago but not today
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:49 PM
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I mean I’m not that old but I absolutely resent younger women already
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 04:45 PM
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