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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	False allegations of abuse	Lawyers	dumbdumbdimsum	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/25 07:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What does your lawyer do for you? I’m in a similar boat. I’m trying to balance out what my lawyer does for me and my questions. As well as how do I spend my time efficiently gather evidence, making notes, and streamline all of that for the lawyer so they can work quickly. I may look into divorce lawyers and coaches so the questions that I need to ask don’t cost $150/question.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/25 05:31 PM
1	False allegations of abuse I’m in CA. You’re referring to the restraining order from her to me correct? Not her to the kids? Lawyer said there is pretty much zero chance of that happening in my scenario. We talked about getting stuff filed and then putting in temporary orders due to her drugs use and what not. But the lawyer acted like it wouldn’t matter if we added on a RO for me in terms of speediness and what not	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/25 08:04 PM
1	False allegations of abuse So filing first just so the allegations look questionable when looked at post filing a divorce? Meaning why didnt my wife file for divorce sooner if I was the abuser?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/25 04:18 PM
1	False allegations of abuse What happened with your kids as far as custody?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/25 04:16 PM
1	False allegations of abuse She was as of like 6 months ago. But I don’t know what meds she’s taking now. Why?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/25 04:13 PM
1	False allegations of abuse What does it matter if I file first?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/25 04:13 PM