dumbleberry Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Which book impacted you the most and would be your first pick as a gift to someone? I love the 5 agreements as #5: be skeptical, but learn to listen is essential for myself. All about love by Bell Hooks	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 09:13 PM
1	Which book impacted you the most and would be your first pick as a gift to someone? The body keeps score is such a must read for anyone who wants to outlive their trauma. It was a hard book to get through but so essential in my healing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 09:07 PM
31	"I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage" I think the other problem isn’t the men we have yet to meet; it’s the men who are already in our lives: our fathers, brothers, friends, coworkers etc. I believe This is where the work has to be done long term. These are the relationships where we may have allowed behaviours to go unchallenged for years, where pushing back against what we know to be wrong becomes a test of mental resilience. We may have even noticed the manipulations in times past, but for the sake of keeping the relationship all…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/22 09:51 PM
11	First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!! Came here to write just this… thank yourself for being courageous enough to date again post break up & and on growing and regconizing red flags. Thank you for sharing your progress, Im sure this experience has helped you know yourself better.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 02:05 AM
4	It is SO easy for women to access sex Facts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/22 03:04 AM
8	Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life? I agree. Men will try every which way to get you to move in with them, saying it’s for you or us. Meanwhile their concern is strictly dickly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 06:41 PM
3	Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman. What in the actual.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 12:52 AM
18	I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off? You know, I had to make a cup after this comment and then reread.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 07:01 PM
8	I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boys He could have had stomach issues..., 🤷🏾‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 03:27 AM
2	Do not discuss your finances/nest egg with men you are dating! I say I’m broke, penniless, even destitute. No one needs to know what you have and where you have it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/21 05:45 AM
2	Is this where the "PickMe" epithet hails from? I laughed so hard I pulled a muscle in my neck. Ok I’m giving it a bad rap. The emotional core of the show was that relationship. However the first 3 seasons did have some highs and lows not related to that relationship at all. I can’t speak for after season 3.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/20 04:04 AM
8	Is this where the "PickMe" epithet hails from? I laughed so hard I pulled a muscle in my neck. Even Scandal (shondas other show) was painfully full of this. The whole premise of the show was a pickme in love with the president. that’s it folks I’ve spoiled scandal. That’s the whole show. Olivia loves the president. The president is married. Olivia’s lip trembles and she cries.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/20 08:00 PM
3	The Value of Block and Delete Thank you!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/20 11:17 PM
3	The Value of Block and Delete Where to start?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/20 07:06 AM
3	New meme format [OC] Spent half of the year sad about not sharing meals with someone. Then started taking myself out / uber eats or preparing the types of food I love,again. All the space I have from being alone, I now choose to fill with self love, self adoration, and gentleness. And food I want 🥰😋	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/20 06:35 PM
2	Don't let your ego play you Preach! Thank you!🙌🏾. I wish I read this on Monday, but “those who don’t Hear, will Feel.” The lesson hit though. And I’m better for it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/20 05:19 PM
1	It’s not worth it in the long run Please talk about it. It’s incredibly relevant to the sub which often touches about self-esteem, self love, self reliance, and how to choose your own destiny in this fucking patriarchy I honestly thank you for being so open in your post just now… I too have considered it. Your bravery and your courage and speaking your truth on this forum is not only inspiring but it honestly may help another woman who comes across your post and they too are considering going into SW	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/20 01:59 PM
3	HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge. Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 04:53 AM