dumbumbedeill Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	CMV online dating for most men is a complete waste of time Haha yeah and it are not decent matches iether mostly gargoils with to many issues to count on one hand. Apparently my pictures are not good enough for a normal girl that put actual effort in her self development.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 01:28 AM
1	"You'll find someone when you least expect it" is only true for women and boomers Noo man, the means of production belong to the people!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 12:56 PM
1	"You'll find someone when you least expect it" is only true for women and boomers Redistribution of pussy	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/23 10:41 AM
2	"You'll find someone when you least expect it" is only true for women and boomers End stage capitalism, the commodification of love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 05:56 PM
1	“A man has never picked a woman based on how hard she worked to get into a relationship with him.” Same for men	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/23 01:32 PM
-1	Key to Male Dating Success Its disheartening but your right, if she thinks she is better then u you will potentially be left.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 07:27 AM
1	Divorce reasons Yeah, but then you include data from non couples, which is more bias. Its like including 5 men that all say thier wife should have worked harder without asking how thier wife felt about it. Thereafter adding that to the the data of couples, its redicilous. Without these individual participants its 35% blaming the wife. Of those 35% blamed only around 10% of woman agrees. 19% of woman though they should have worked harder but the men didn't think so. I think we men might have to low standards for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 02:37 PM
1	Divorce reasons Thus, most participants believed their ex-partners should have worked harder, but at the couple level, there were more couples in which both partners agreed that the wife did not need to work harder than there were couples in which both partners agreed the husband did not need to work harder. When asked who filed for the divorce, 63.5% of participants indicated that the woman filed for divorce and only 25% participants indicated that the man filed for divorce. I am not sure, i think the particip…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 01:32 AM
2	Divorce reasons It seems that guys are less likely to blame woman according to the data, while this unjustified. They take a major part of the responsibility even if its the wife that should have worked harder. I mean my point is, that we don't know who objectively who was wrong in the relationship so can't make any conclusions. It could be that woman break up and blame men for not bieng attracted to them anymore, which is the stereotype. Only that pre -marital counseling is beneficial, probably because most of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 12:54 AM
1	Divorce reasons Further, at the couple level, 70.6% of couples showed a pattern in which the women believed their ex-husbands should have worked harder to save their relationships while their ex-husbands did not believe they, themselves, should have worked harder. Only 11.7% agreed that the husband should have worked harder and 11.7% had the husband endorse that he should have worked harder with the wife disagreeing. Conversely, only 35.3% of couples displayed the pattern in which the men blamed their ex-wives …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 12:48 AM
-1	Divorce reasons I mean most woman wanted that the guy worked harder to save the marriage, while only a small percentage of men agreed with that statement that they should have worked harder. What does "working harder mean", is the guy horrible or do some woman have absurd standards? Most guys disagreed that they should have worked harder to save the marriage. If your a pig you should have work harder, but woman can also be very entiteld. There are plenty that want a certain life style, certain hight, education.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 12:14 AM
-1	Divorce reasons This data set is so bad, how many made something up, created issues just to justify thier behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 09:44 PM
–	Most of men's dating advice revolves around physically escalating. Women, what are your thoughts about this? You need to create sexual tension, even for the ladies commenting here that they like it slow. If there is no sexual tension they don't think your worthy of seeing a second time. Some need that gratified imediatly, i have had chances come up that i didn't want to consume because i wanted more depth, never heard from them again. The thing is, these could have grown into more if i had taken the opportunity. You need to embody the fantasy, and its your task to figure out what that is during the fir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/23 08:37 PM
1	A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendship Broh anybody using u for chores is not your friend, just choose your relationships carefully. I know this might have happened in your teenage years, but that girl was using your attraction for her own benefit. Just be friends with woman your not attracted to, i am. That reduces the chance of this bullshit to zero.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 04:19 PM
0	The gamification of the dating marketplace - the nature of women and brutally competitive landspace requires constant adjustment/change in strategy (even micro) to appeal to this dynamic. This results in loss of authenticity/natural progression of things. Its like saying every men would cheat if he could get a younger woman. It depends on a persons moral compass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 08:35 PM
0	The gamification of the dating marketplace - the nature of women and brutally competitive landspace requires constant adjustment/change in strategy (even micro) to appeal to this dynamic. This results in loss of authenticity/natural progression of things. The secret is to filter out the woman who are like this, so maybe you should raise your own standards. If you start playing thier games you will end up with the opposite. I know from experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 04:41 PM
2	The gamification of the dating marketplace - the nature of women and brutally competitive landspace requires constant adjustment/change in strategy (even micro) to appeal to this dynamic. This results in loss of authenticity/natural progression of things. How fucking dehumanizing is it anyway, just manipulate away because its just a plate incapable of feelings. It indeed might land you some hook ups but its going to be sooo superficial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 01:37 AM
1	The gamification of the dating marketplace - the nature of women and brutally competitive landspace requires constant adjustment/change in strategy (even micro) to appeal to this dynamic. This results in loss of authenticity/natural progression of things. The emotional spikings is wierd asf because it means you need to be abusive every now and then. If that's the only thing that keeps her interested she most likely has issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 12:47 AM
2	Isn't the "Red Pill" supposed to be a harsh truth, yet it seems incredibly easy to believe? Well, after you come out of an abusive relationship with a woman your view of the other sex can get really fucked up. If you blame yourself for everything that went wrong then this harsh truth, the rp, can be the way you see how the world works. Rp describes woman as abusive in general, so its really easy to identify with, love becomes a power struggle. You win or you lose and u need to keep your partner guessing about your intentions to win the battle. The reward for keeping her guessing is "lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 02:40 AM
1	CMV: Theory: Women arent shallow like men in terms of looks: They instead are hyper-sensitive to neurotypicality Why, so many woman just are just as flawed as men, atleast the ones i met. Everybody has a cross to carry, don't worry. Also if you don't see that woman are imperfect then your opening up yourself to manipulation. I met sexual deviants, insecure woman, manipulative woman and a some good ones that i should have appreciated more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 02:57 AM
0	How often do you see relationships where the man is significantly more attractive than the woman? I see it mostly with friends that are not very emotionally intelligent	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 02:33 AM
1	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? It was not advice, just something to keep in mind, life can turn around quickly. Also not every place is as primitive as America, here we setteled that discussion a long time ago and i think feminism should evolve. You can abord it upto 24 weeks when it is basically a little human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 02:41 AM
1	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? There was no advice in my first statement, just a future possibility. Yes and that's alright, but they always talk about how men victimize woman and never the other way around. How is it different them red pill communities blaming woman for thier problems. Everybody is just interested in thier own self interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 07:52 PM
1	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? Look how Johnny was treated, do you think people will easily believe you as the "stronger sex", especially if its something more subtile like emotional manipulation and isolation. I didn't even realized at first what happened, i was blindly in love and thought woman in general where good because as society we generally portray them like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 07:51 PM
1	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? Noo, i came out of it after 1,5 year, but if society would want to structurally improve things it might be useful for woman to start looking in the mirror and accept that they could be partly responsible for that problem. Maybe we could learn woman not to take advantage of emotions just like we learn men that they shoudn't hit woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 04:54 PM
2	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? No not really, but hate can blind you for a while. Especially if there no resources to help you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 04:46 PM
3	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? Yeah i know, but its easy to generalize after coming out of an abusive relationship without anybody really understanding what i went true. There is not mutch emphazis on how woman abuse men in this society, its mostly the other way around. I also think the current strain of feminism isn't really self reflective and mostly about gaining more power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 04:13 PM
7	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? Nah i had a controlling mom and thereafter a controlling gf that dumped me at a really stressful time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 02:36 PM
8	What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill? Until she isn't, suddenly loses feelings and cheats on you with another guy without any good explanation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 01:54 PM
0	CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can make Yes its all about working as a team, woman have to communicate and take the inniative and men need to be responsive and also try to do something about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 12:55 AM
16	CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can make Well, take the inniative then instead of blaming the guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 12:11 AM
1	The Red Pill Rage Loop Yeah, honestly i think its over a 100 easily. I am talking from experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 03:05 PM
2	Active dates are excellent first dates All depends on your genes, i wasn't that lucky. So i have to train to be average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 05:00 PM
1	Active dates are excellent first dates Depends, if you in very good physical condition, if your doing worse then the guy next to you will look bad. Woman pick the winners in the end. So only do something of ur really good at it, top 10% procent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/23 03:14 PM
8	CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big joke That reality makes me rather sad though, i really love making somebody feel safe and cared for but its unattractive ( although many women would rationalize its not) especially in the beginning. But feelings are irrational and to evoke them you have to play games a lot of the time, which is super frustrating to me. I have the feeling that a lot of woman don't know themselves well enough to recognize this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 06:10 PM
16	CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big joke Its why the red pill ideas work, you make them insecure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/23 02:26 PM
1	How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"? Guess what some of the most intelligent and socially complex animals are birds xd	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 10:27 PM
3	How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"? I would argue the opposite, mating for life makes it more complex because there is more investment involved. You also need to be able to assess if the other pinguin won't screw you over in some way for his/her own benefit. If you fail to make a good judgement there could be a heavy price to pay, even death. All this behaviour is motivated by emotions and desires, in other words instincts. Things that show up that you can't control, we might be better at inhibiting our reactions to those feelings…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 09:01 PM
2	How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"? Yeah the alpha guy was often toxic, girl doesn't realise this and was addicted to highs and lows of the relationship. Confusing addiction with love, will find only abusive guys until she realizes whats wrong. Dump any guy that is stable because thats "boring" ot "not love".	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 06:00 PM
7	How much truth is there to the Red-pill concept of "Alpha Widow"? Humans are just animals though, don't assume that were automatically more emotionally complex because we can process more information. There is a reason we test anti depressants on animals. By the way there is this clip of a heartbroken pinguïn on youtube who 's mate was stolen. I kinda emphatize with the fellow, now exactly how it feels, including the anger: https://youtu.be/HrHeKcZV7vA	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/23 05:59 PM
9	Relationships are based on might makes right. There is no real negotiating power between the sexes. Relationships come in multiple forms in nature, the best ones are mutual beneficial, the worst are parasitic. Atleast that's the case if you have empathy and care for your partner. If you are a sociopath then you could be happy with anything that benefits you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 11:56 PM
–	Most PEOPLE are undateable. Women are just held to a lower standard when it comes to undateable behavior You dont have to better, you just need to make her insecure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 11:15 AM
1	Most PEOPLE are undateable. Women are just held to a lower standard when it comes to undateable behavior A good startagy is to make your partner think she is not good enough, gives you all the power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 07:45 PM
2	Most PEOPLE are undateable. Women are just held to a lower standard when it comes to undateable behavior Yes, and then suggest working on it together but then get dumped because your not good enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/23 11:15 AM
38	Having integrity and respect is often a hindrance to dating Not having morality is actually the only cheat code in this world, i just don't think it will make you happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 01:39 AM
1	Has a woman ever exposed you to your flaws? No the one i dated was absolutely useless, supported her with everything and dropped me at the worst moment. The only thing i learned from it is to never accept any bs from a woman, treat me with respect always or i drop you like a bag of shit. Could only critisize me, was always my fault and never apolegized for any of her wrong doings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 02:12 AM
–	Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's character So childish, your one of those woman you were talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 12:32 AM
6	Modern dating is ruined, and it's not just because of the women, men are also to blame Come on both have incels, plenty of woman stay single forever because nobody was good enough..Same for men... Men are over represented on reddit but go to twoxchromosomes and those woman are just as toxic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/23 02:08 PM
4	CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense. Depends if you care about body count and want a girl that does not sleep on every first date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 09:20 PM
3	realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in men Wtf, why has a good man a lot of earnings potential, did you ever hear about Jesus? Its all about the love for your fellow men and kindness. Not what some toxic bitches might be interested in, you filthy currency husseler.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 07:29 PM
1	If a woman has guys friends are they all trying to get with her or are they truly friends? The woman were trying to get with me or i was trying to get with the womans	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/23 11:57 PM
3	What do women actually gain by getting into a committed relationship with a Red Pill man? Its called intermittent conditioning, you can do it with mice as well. Its just really toxic because you combine love with stress. It generates really high highs because of the lows, some people confuse this with love. So if u date one of these girls and your a nice stable guy you will end up alone or in a sexles marriage because "its not love" in thier eyes. You shoudn't entertain this sort of bullshit though, just try to find a girl that has more emotional intelligence then a goldfish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 01:25 PM
7	What do women actually gain by getting into a committed relationship with a Red Pill man? They get addictive drama instead of a stable relationship. Some girls really want that, so i am not to worried about what they get out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/23 10:10 AM
1	Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 either I don't even know my cmv man, on tinder its 5/6 in real life an 7/8.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 09:37 PM
1	Do you honestly think that out of all the men approaching or expressing interest in a woman the number seeking genuine relationships are non-existent or minuscule I keep my expectations low, don't want to give of any desperate vibe, therefore its mostly sexual because that's what woman are attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 08:21 AM
5	What is worse to you: getting no female attention whatsoever, or getting female attention from the worst, lowest women only? I honestly glady would stay single forever, if she doesn't bring anything to the table, why would i care about it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 06:35 AM
1	What do you dislike about female behavior with regards to sex and dating? What changes from women would you like to see? Mostly matching overweight woman, ghosting, planning a date and cancelling last moment, the desinterest if i dont have a job, the constant competition, the need to be always entertaining, the knive in my back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/23 10:48 AM
1	Are men far more accepting to neurodivergence than women when it comes to dating? Nooo don't think so, probably there is a similar percentage of neuro divergents between the different sexes. Depending on the kind of disorder your should avoid these people, especially if they are narcasistic or borderline. Problem is, these kinds of people are really attractive to both men and women who are insecure. Bieng socially impaired as man, ASD, is offcourse a death sentence. It dis qualifies you for a lot of potential candidates if you don't overcome your social challenges.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 01:43 AM
2	90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypes Haha men, if this is what it takes to get a girl i would rather stay single 🤢🤮🤣. Life already sucks hard enough without some judgemental bitch next to you that drops you anytime you break your act.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/23 02:01 PM
4	How much resistance to the Red Pill is just resistance to the politics and presentation of the Red Pill i.e. how would you feel if concepts like looksmaxxing, preselection, The Wall, etc. came from a neutral or left-wing perspective? Yeah, i convinced some feminist of some of the ideas of the red pill while sleeping with them. Just don't mention "red pill" and be progressive in all other ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 02:34 AM
5	Marriage is an L for men Well, if she ends the marriage your free to find new woman. In the end your will have the same result as you would have if you were single all the time. So how is it an L?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 04:26 PM
1	I'm convinced that about 5-10% of men ruin it for everyone Are you kidding me bruh, after my bad experience i let woman work for it. Didn't need to wash anything off, some like it, although it can get abusive. Its not a good way to establish a healthy relationship, that's why i have let it go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 03:47 AM
6	I'm convinced that about 5-10% of men ruin it for everyone Honestly, it took 1,5 years to recover from all the toxic views i got from one cluster b chick that stabbed me in the back. First relationship to, felt like i won the jackpot!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/23 03:24 AM
1	The Red Pill Rage Loop Men, i think all of this stems out of insecurity. Its true that the bad boy phenomena is a thing. But this happens in high school and college. Its about emotional maturity, these bad boys use emotionally abusive tactics. The relationship that result from that are ugly and painful. A mature woman will recognize it and be turned off, especially if she is looking for something serious. Just get comfortabele with approaching woman and dealing with rejection. You need to learn how to read body langua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/23 04:04 AM
2	The Red Pill Rage Loop I just want you to know your spot on. Also the red pill with its emotional cycle repeats the roller coaster of emotions you experience during an abusive relationship. Its like getting a new fix, only instead filled with love your filled with hate (it really poisons a person). You believe that woman have no heart and even blame yourself for the break up. That you have to master the dark arts (manipulatieve tactics to establish your value (emotional abuse)) to find love. Instead the real conclusio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/23 03:42 AM
1	Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want? Excitement, if your not exciting to her and boring you will lose her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/23 01:27 PM
3	if a woman leaves you and goes to another one, you're the problem you couldn't provide, and when the opposite occurs you're a filthy cheater. that's new equality the demand. Maybe just a certain percentage of woman is just really toxic and selfish. Any experience with those can give you a skewed view on the topic. The problem is that we only adress toxic behavior of man in society and not woman. I for instance think it is fucked up to use a man to meet emotionel needs while you know he is into you and your not. Still a lot of guys are used for this and woman are not actively scoffed by society for this kind of behavior. A situation like that can easily lead to emoti…	/r/MensRights	01/09/22 03:13 PM