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approach anxiety has to do with the legitimate concern you're unable to handle what possibly happens next... to beat approach anxiety in the longrun you must feel like you can talk your way into and out of a lot of things. culture yourself, talk to strangers, eventually you'll be able to ramble for hours. don't be affected by blowouts. if you feel an approach is going poorly just carry on your night [leave] with face saving body language [slow, not rushed, calm, etc] even if you've been talking …
/r/seduction10/07/13 05:29 AM
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women are emotional+ and emotions make cowards of us all
/r/seduction06/07/13 06:38 PM
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embarrassing
/r/seduction06/07/13 06:35 PM
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smile and say 'hi!' "i saw you from across the street and i knew i'd be kickin myself all day if i didn't come meet you"
/r/seduction05/07/13 05:45 PM
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instead of ejecting you say: "what's her name?"
/r/seduction04/07/13 10:22 AM
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alcohol is a crutch
/r/seduction02/07/13 11:22 AM
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body language
/r/seduction02/07/13 11:15 AM
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oppa
/r/seduction29/06/13 04:49 PM
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platitudes
/r/seduction28/06/13 10:28 AM
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after a couple iois try dialing down your energy level; become less animated but not less amused
/r/seduction17/06/13 04:52 AM
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likely not enough comfort
/r/seduction17/06/13 04:25 AM
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is this guy for real
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:21 AM
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wtf are you talking about
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:10 AM
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"pokemon cards?"
/r/seduction10/06/13 02:01 PM
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mystery, roissy, roosh
/r/seduction10/06/13 06:51 AM
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with your fist
/r/seduction05/05/13 04:46 AM
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^ lol clearly not over it
/r/seduction02/05/13 11:52 AM
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op is all platitudes
/r/seduction02/05/13 11:48 AM
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but I'm thinking something along the lines of: "because I don't need anyone's help meeting girls" (with a cheeky grin on my face). This both tells of confidence and engages and implies the girl I am talking to. lol, no it doesnt
/r/seduction11/07/12 08:23 AM
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most guys don't have the balls to start a conversation with a stranger, especially strange women. if you want to bait them the most important thing for you to do is to use 'approach invitations.' approach invitations are: smiling, using eye contact, opening up your body language, and being within physical proximity. if you make prolonged eye contact (a couple seconds) and smile a lot, guys will become encouraged. if you do those things and also buzz around them they'll say something if they're i…
/r/seduction10/07/12 09:59 PM
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i'm not disagreeing with your sentiment but tucker has explicitly done things just to hurt others. just read his website.
/r/seduction10/07/12 06:48 PM
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just because a lot of people have your problem doesn't mean it's easier said than done... not giving a fuck about the opinions of random strangers is pretty damn easy.
/r/seduction08/07/12 07:36 PM
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white lie; say you got into a bicycle accident and bruised your johnson.
/r/seduction05/07/12 05:00 AM
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if i was you i'd approach women with the line, "can you help me find my mommy??" and then just start laughing like a maniac. your problems tho probably stem from weak body language. i'm imagining you invest way too much of your body into the interaction. remember these are strangers, your words and tone shouldn't be apprehensive but your body language should. until they're qualified you shouldn't devote your body language to them. think of it as something they 'earn' instead of something they ge…
/r/seduction05/07/12 03:30 AM
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nothin' wrong with drinkin'
/r/seduction05/07/12 03:08 AM
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keep the place clean but not too clean; have cool trinkets around with anecdotes in mind; don't apologize for the place being a mess if it is; don't smoke/drink too much when you're at your pad. i know a lot of people feel comfortable in their homes so they tend to overdo it; have snacks handy; have a decent bar: gin, tequila, vodka, scotch, beer, wine--mixers don't hurt either; keep a photo album of your friends/family. with that in mind it's always funny to have an old yearbook on hand; condom…
/r/seduction05/07/12 02:31 AM
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disqualify; disagree and call yourself ugly. bring attention to one of your imperfections, preferably one that she also shares (eg. "naw i'm ugly. like look, we both have these boney fingers" or whatever.) didn't bother reading more than your title so let me know how it turns out.
/r/seduction03/07/12 08:44 PM
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here're some pearls on managing orbiting friends: you open the friend if you can and you try to get them both in on some banter. spend the first minute talking to the friend then try to include the girl you're attracted to. you can maybe look over at her too before that first minute is up as a way to get her attention. try not to talk for more than one minute. then either: her friend will respond) if her friend responds ponder it for a second then ask hb-jane doe what she thinks of x answer. thi…
/r/seduction03/07/12 09:51 AM
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A lot of advice on here on seddit does repeat itself in different ways. tl;dr My advice is feel good about yourself. Discover your passions. Live inside the frame in your frame. Meet people. thanks for your patronage
/r/seduction03/07/12 07:58 AM
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in the past 4 days i've had only one day 2 success story (and it only ended in k-close,) whereas i've: -missed out on a "fool's mate" threesome -got a fake number from a girl i actually liked -received no reply to a text -was stonewalled after a successful open but poor follow-through (lord she was hot... just my type too) -lost numerous other sets i can't count (at least 6) and to top it off: -nearly got into a fight. guy was serious. had that crazed look in his eyes reserved for dudes who just…
/r/seduction02/07/12 08:43 AM
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i'd stop referring to your lovelife as an instance
/r/seduction30/06/12 09:20 PM
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totally. i am so fucking guilty of this it's nasty.
/r/seduction28/06/12 07:30 AM
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unless they're winging you shouldn't be hanging out with your friend group anyway (if you're trying to game.) you gotta explore the bar on your own and report back.
/r/seduction28/06/12 07:22 AM
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my game gets less provocative without alcohol but i can close either way. drunk or sober if i try and take a sensed opportunity i can usually make it happen.. but sometimes being tipsy will slow down the old reaction time. like the other week this hb10 slipped away from me in what i'd characterize as a single solitary moment of nonchalance. i've replayed it in my mind and i see how i could've closed* but the booze had me all puckered up and before i even realized it she was gone. *disclaimer: i …
/r/seduction28/06/12 05:11 AM
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you just have to get lucky. last week i met a really intelligent woman; week before that i met a total dunce. /themoreyouknow
/r/seduction28/06/12 04:42 AM
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eye contact and early kino
/r/seduction26/06/12 12:14 AM
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i can't believe people actually flirt this way
/r/seduction25/06/12 10:29 AM
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Christ you're fucking annoying
/r/seduction21/06/12 01:24 AM
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make one good friend and crash parties together. best years of my life...
/r/seduction14/06/12 10:42 PM
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even canned goods expire
/r/seduction13/06/12 10:02 PM
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unless facebook is your only choice you should never look her up (unless you're really only looking for a friend! funny enough facebook really is a place for friends.) seriously, it's a hundred times harder to game on facebook than in person unless you had a really strong frame when you met her (i'm near certain you didn't.) if it's an option it's always better to hang out with her and her friends (also bring someone along so you come across as normal.) it doesn't take much time to ask her out; …
/r/seduction12/06/12 05:32 AM
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take a shower with her
/r/seduction12/06/12 03:31 AM
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i bet lisa is actually an hb8
/r/seduction12/06/12 03:22 AM
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your current flair makes this a good comment
/r/seduction11/06/12 07:56 AM
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"so whose cycle do you all synchronize to?" there's always one girl in every group who'll think this is funny. granted a lot of chicks get bothered by dudes who talk about menstruation but on the other hand who gives a shit?
/r/seduction10/06/12 10:54 PM
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prostitutes, my friend
/r/seduction10/06/12 05:04 AM
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used clothing stores are a great place to run day game, with men and women.
/r/seduction10/06/12 04:34 AM
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a lot of women won't use the number even if they dig you. think about how awkward those first few moments on the phone are: "hey, this is sally you gave me your number the other day?" is way harder to say than it is for me to type. it's always best to exchange numbers, serving two functions: weeds them out; women who are interested won't have a problem with exchanging numbers. knowing this'll help you feel out your day 2. puts the ball in both courts, so to speak; you both now have the agency to…
/r/seduction10/06/12 04:04 AM
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lol this post turned out to be nothing like the title implies. maybe she doesn't want you because you make shitty thread titles? hth
/r/seduction05/06/12 11:36 AM
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oldest trick in the book but it's imperative you ignore any of your awkward impulses while high and go for escalation when you can.
/r/seduction03/06/12 08:47 PM
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Women see right through you when you're being fake, ahahahahahahahahaha
/r/seduction02/06/12 11:51 PM
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sleeping around is not nasty unless you're tapping dirty ass
/r/seduction29/05/12 08:11 AM
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talk about your mutual friend, embarrassing them being the most socially accepted. this means the shit has to be funny, can't just trash on him and give up his intimate secrets. honestly my favorite thing to say to somebody i just met is: "hey nice to meet you, let's have a really hard drink."
/r/seduction25/05/12 10:03 PM
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never have i wasted so much money.
/r/seduction25/05/12 09:50 AM
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a flask is a good accessory and it'll never hurt your chances unless she's a puritan. if the general vibe is "drinking" then a flask will always be a legit way to drink hard liquid alcohol. hell, even street boozin' will be granted a touch of class when taken from a flask. ymmv on top hats, monocles and pocketwatches.
/r/seduction25/05/12 09:47 AM
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anybody can get laid. first you put down the persecution complex, then you bang anybody who's willing--as you say you look like mr. bean and quentin tarantino, don't you? a man who has browridge like leno has chin. lemme ask you: you think there aren't ugly bitches in the world? you ugly bastard, there are chicks who look like you do right now. don't forget: with the little gangly beards and everything. there is of course a woman for you; this isn't a "DO MORE APPROACHES BRO"-style intervention …
/r/seduction25/05/12 09:38 AM
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a dime might get less propositions than less beautiful women but relatively speaking elephants and whales are both large creatures.
/r/seduction24/05/12 10:39 PM
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i handle approach anxiety the same way i deal with a phone call i don't want to make--before you know it the ringing is over and you're halfway through your first sentence. like good phone technique, it's all about speaking calmly and controlling your words and tone. if you feed into anxiety (start speaking fast, breathing fast, etc) it will sublimate openly and it'll blow you out. the trick to being cool is to just be calm and speak slow with intent.
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:58 AM
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i'll sometimes pay and when they say "thanks" i'll have a good laugh while i tell them that they're paying for the next venue.
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:56 AM
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i think 1/4 of all males can effectively talk to women and 1/8 can open strangers with comfort. a lot of people might disagree but i think a lot of dudes can game pretty well if given the opportunity. seems the most common hurdle is AA and limiting their playing field.
/r/seduction22/05/12 02:19 AM
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i went out alone last night and i cannot stress how important it is to open men as well. i met way more women talkin' to dudes than cold approaching chicks.
/r/seduction20/05/12 06:23 AM
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i asked your dad and he said it was cool if we went and got an ice cream cone.
/r/seduction18/05/12 11:11 PM
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"oh, ok."
/r/seduction18/05/12 10:38 PM
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i primarily post in askseddit and it's an unbearable place. please institute at least this one rule: -require context. not a fucking litany but some context of the issue. a lot of guys will make a post that's literally: does this girl like me? how do i know if i fucked up? that's all they'll say. period. it's not just boring to read it's also impossible to give this douchebag any meaningful advice. so #1 for improving askseddit: make a list of rules about how to make a post. they should be able …
/r/seduction18/05/12 10:37 PM
0

sounds like oneitis--i'd sever and move on.
/r/seduction16/05/12 12:21 AM
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just imagine you've already slept with her.
/r/seduction11/05/12 06:02 AM
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