dunndundun0601 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Did anyone else screw up a relationship because of trp? I think you definitely should! Ex RP beeds to see the impact TRP has on EVERYTHING! It'd be good to have a women's perspective.	/r/ExRedPill	29/03/22 10:49 AM
2	Randomly approached by a hot girl, and she gave me her number That's awesome!!! Its really does happen like this.	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/22 02:06 PM
7	Disingenuous to say "Not all Women Are the Same" .....what???	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/22 10:21 PM
3	What do you think of sh*ttesting? They're bullshit games that BOTH genders play and its fucked up. Complete dealbreaker that you cant open your mouth and have a conversation. I also find it ironic that RPmen have an issue with women shit testing when their ENTIRE persona is a shit test. PEOPLE suck on both sides!	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/22 11:31 AM
11	Would it be more accurate to say women want men who talk about their emotions rather than express them? That's a people thing... I cant think of very many men who watch a woman throw tantrum, yes, scream and throw things at them and say "I freaking love her!" Because that's toxic af and unhealthy. In the first scenario you just described a man taking his anger out on a woman. The second described how adults communicate. I'm not understanding your lack of understanding.	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/22 01:24 PM
10	What if I don’t want a “traditional woman”? They want to keep the people they deem bottom of the barrel at the bottom, even if it means going against their own self interest. As long as they can be better than someone! Saw it all throughout the pandemic	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/22 12:58 PM
3	What if I don’t want a “traditional woman”? 100%! You definitely want to fund someone you wouldn't mind hanging out with and sharing laughs or silence! Because one day the sex may stop and the looks could fade but you'll still be able to laugh, have a good time and be present with them!	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/22 12:56 PM
1	What if I don’t want a “traditional woman”? And you can only support a family of 4 if you're an athlete that is either top performing, REALLY good with money or you have other streams of income! If not, they're broke too. I agree! Always different strokes for different folks. But when it comes to "traditional women", the way RP describes it, they don't want wives, they want pets. They way they describe it is like a need to be needed so that THEY can save the girl and wisk her away and give her the best mediocre life he can afford. All so …	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/22 12:53 PM
4	The red pill are animals Because they don't value each other or themselves. All their "clout" comes from their proximity to other people or things, never from themselves. How many women can you get? How much money fo you make? How many girls can you pull? According to TRP, any time a woman comes into contact with another man, her value decreases. In the same breath, the more women a man can make contact with, the higher his value... the men of TRP don't even value or respect themselves enough to even fathom a man bringi…	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/22 01:35 PM
6	The advice I tell all my female friends when they ask me where all the good men have gone. Most good men look like "nice guys". That's not true at all. "Good men" dont have a "look" and tbh, it lowkey seems like you tried to rebrand "nice guys" as good men. Fact of the matter is good people dont look like ANYTHING, they're just good people.You have to actively get to know them and allow yourself to be vulnerable. And please, do not ever tell your female friends they cant find a good man if they're out hooking up. Because again, that's not true! Good people like to fuck too. Good peopl…	/r/ExRedPill	04/03/22 12:57 PM
1	Single moms and pregnancy I'm CF and this made me chuckle, but its also concerning the amount of people that actually think like this and honestly believe it. BC is never 100% effective, even if you're using multiple methods at once! It also reminds me of that argument where children of single mothers are so messed up because the single mothers are trying to raise men but they can't so they fail and we end up with men like RP community... ALL the fault of the mother with absolutely no mention of the completely, 100% abse…	/r/ExRedPill	01/03/22 02:24 PM
11	What are they leading? Yup! We should've better better, we should've picked better men, we should've known it was all manipulation. Its always turned back onto the woman instead of turned I to a conversation about how they're gonna call out that behavior when they see other men do it!...	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/22 08:56 PM
12	What are they leading? Completely lack control anywhere else in life and can only get in in a relationship where "men are supposed to be in charge". Its like it's their default control. This absolutely includes men with and without money. I was "led" right off a cliff where I ACTUALLY found myself and they found homelessness. It gives me a chuckle to think that me asking valid questions like "what's the plan?" Was challenging his manhood and not "allowing" him to lead! 😂	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/22 08:54 PM
1	I hate that Red Pillers expected me to submit and take care of family matters, but simultaneously lorded the relationship over me and making me fear being dumped off on the streets constantly if I didn't do as they expected. The worst part being that expectations would change constantly. Lmmfao wtf, I literally never said that! My point is go after who you want to because looks don't mean they're going to treat you better or worse. 😂😂 but you really thought you did something with the copy and paste! We're LITERALLY saying the same thing, you're just doing your absolute best to be confrontational.	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/22 12:51 PM
1	Is being with the hottest women really all that like I think it is? I don't need a man's perspective, I understand exactly what happened and why...but thanks!	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/22 05:22 AM
1	I hate that Red Pillers expected me to submit and take care of family matters, but simultaneously lorded the relationship over me and making me fear being dumped off on the streets constantly if I didn't do as they expected. The worst part being that expectations would change constantly. I'm telling you from experience that good personalities and "nice guys" are just as traumatizing. Having a good personality doesn't mean you cant do damage, if anything it makes it easier for you because you can ease people into abuse. So for you to suggest that she cant have someone attractive AND with a good personality suggest that maybe you, yourself wouldn't be able to rise to the occasion of doing better! It also suggests average looking people treat their significant others better and as …	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/22 12:50 AM
5	I hate that Red Pillers expected me to submit and take care of family matters, but simultaneously lorded the relationship over me and making me fear being dumped off on the streets constantly if I didn't do as they expected. The worst part being that expectations would change constantly. Lmao you're kidding, right?! Are you really suggesting that she go for a less better looking guy because they actually try to make the relationship work?? You REALLY just said to lower your standards so that they can be treated better.... do you hear how manipulative that is??? Because, news flash! They're WORSE! They're just as abusive and cause just as much trauma. Source: my dating history!	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/22 12:30 AM
1	I hate that Red Pillers expected me to submit and take care of family matters, but simultaneously lorded the relationship over me and making me fear being dumped off on the streets constantly if I didn't do as they expected. The worst part being that expectations would change constantly. This is EXACTLY what it's like to date Red Pill! Its horrifying and exhausting. You genuinely love them but they're so convinced that they're never going bc to get love or done need/deserve it that they use it against us. It's so fucking twisted. Definitely doesn't help that I grew up with a mother EXACTLY like that she wasn't even RP. They're manipulative and attentive. Pay attention to all the things you wish you had and then use it as a carrot on a string. If you want this, you have to do thi…	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/22 12:28 AM
2	Is being with the hottest women really all that like I think it is? It does. Idk what percentage I would give it though. It's not even over protective, its territorial and controlling.	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/22 08:35 PM
2	Just another guy realizing he can be better. Healing is essential for a good relationship with yourself and by extension, everyone else because they'll gravitate towards the good energy. I literally just made a comment in another post about how TRP messed me up as fir a bit as a woman because of the games that were played on me. Healing keeps you and people you love from unnecessary pain in relationships. Not to say that there won't be any! But the difference is manageable.	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/22 02:47 PM
1	Having a job and being dependable doesn't make you "beta" Lmao you can't generalize an entire group of women then talk about TRP agenda not making sense. You're either still hanging on to hate for this specific group of women or you need to explore those biases while expelling TRP!	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/22 02:39 PM
14	Is being with the hottest women really all that like I think it is? Not even in the slightest. What exactly to you imagine these guy's lives are like?? And I can answer you 100% As someone who has been the attractive woman in the relationship... there's nothing magical going on! Tbh, 9/10 they weren't ACTUALLY interested in who I was, just the "clout" I came with. It was pretty messed up! It was like being a doll in a glass case that was only brought out when other MEN could pat him on the back and tell him how dope they were for "pulling me" they were all wildl…	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/22 02:25 PM
14	The redpill destroyed my self esteem. Any advice. I'm a 6'1 black female and could give two stones about height. I told some guy on tinder I didn't care he was 5'9 and he accused me of making fun of him and blocked me. A lot of times its men standing on their own way, a lot like you are out of fear of rejection and embarrassment. Red pill isn't reality. In reality, people dont care. And if they do, those aren't your people. You gotta keep looking! And the ones that put extra emphasis on it are probably not people you want to be with. Eventually…	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/22 11:00 PM
9	It's a common sentiment within the Red Pill and Pickup communities to idealize Eastern European as "traditionally feminine" and "submissive" in contrast w/ feminist Western women. What these guys are totally oblivious to is that this veneer of "trad. femininity" is informed by a culture of violence. A lot of them know and actively encourage the same behavior. I remember when my ex fiance started talking about KS. I immediately told him that he encourages violence against women and says they deserve to be hit and need to be put in their place.... he basically said "yeah, so?". They know! And they are down for it because a n alarming number truly believe that they're entitled to women as posession and dont even see us as people... just a hole to brag to the buddies about.	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/22 03:10 PM
2	The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is… Whatever floats your boat, bro. All it takes it a Google search!	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/22 09:28 PM
21	I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it. A man secure in himself will take the time to figure you out and most likely already know the gold digger vibe. I can say with certainty the men worried about gold digger most likely dont have gold to be dug. Men with money know it's a "hot girl magnet" and dont even sweat a lot of women for this reason. THEY know what to look out for and aren't actively using their money to lure women in like TRP! And if they are, they're not gonna shame you for taking the bait... its what they set the bait out…	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/22 03:36 PM
11	The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is… Women don't fall in love through orgasm.... If they do, then I didn't get the memo!	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/22 03:21 PM
37	I think my girlfriend is just using me for sex, and unlike the red pill promise, I fucking hate it. His whole vibe seems to be "I have a place to stay, lots of money and I can give her a car, what more could she possibly want?!" Completely misses multiple marks and is pretty much focused on the fact that he's unbelievably baffled that this single mother isn't falling over herself trying to lock him down.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/22 02:57 PM
12	I think my girlfriend is just using me for sex, and unlike the red pill promise, I fucking hate it. Who are you as a person?? Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually available or are you just able to "provide"? Having these things doesn't make you a good man or a good candidate for a partner.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/22 02:53 PM
20	I think my girlfriend is just using me for sex, and unlike the red pill promise, I fucking hate it. Sounds like you're gaslighting yourself into believing there's an ACTUAL relationship to be had. There isn't because you're super entitled.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/22 02:50 PM
1	I think my girlfriend is just using me for sex, and unlike the red pill promise, I fucking hate it. You definitely need to move on. You're 3000% not ready to be married to ANYONE, especially this single mother! You sounds super manipulative and tbh, maybe you're not as good of a guy as you think you may be which is why she hasn't introduced you to her kid. If you FEEL like she's using you and you're incapable of having a conversation with her, you don't need to be together. You're not going to get whatever it is you're looking for from her. She's made that VERY clear... so why do you keep peru…	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/22 02:48 PM
4	Trying to make a point The millionaires and billionaires who have been married to the same women for 20 years. The plethora of articles stating that men are more successful when they choose and stick to one solid woman. It's just a quick Google search. The more recent research that single, childless women are the happiest people in the world; Not rich guys who are banging girl after girl. But TBH, Stop wasting your time! There is no amount of scientific backed evidence that will change his mind because his ENTIRE iden…	/r/ExRedPill	15/02/22 01:56 AM
1	What do redpillers really know? They know that they need another man's approval for all that they do. If another man isn't cheering them on, it's not worth it. Unless it adds value to them in this other man's eyes, iys not worth it. Girl they've had a crush on since middle school shows interest? Their buddy says she's not "HV" or her "SMV" is wack, so they pass her up... then get irrationally bitter when they see her happy AF with another man... so they have to make up stories to make themselves feel better! Stories ALL involv…	/r/ExRedPill	13/02/22 11:30 PM
11	Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works? Because its not the job of women to make men learn anything easy! You don't need a women's group to know how to interact with them or to learn that RP isn't the way... millions of men do it everyday just by actually getting to know women as ACTUAL human beings and people instead of sex objects. Listen to what they're saying, not what you'd rather do. Really think about it, what sane, self respecting women would actively choose to go into a space where women are considered less than and talked ab…	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 02:03 PM
2	my boyfriend is becoming a 'redpill' guy and im scared 100%! Exactly how my 8 year relationship ended...rp had a huge hand in it.	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 02:00 PM
4	my boyfriend is becoming a 'redpill' guy and im scared Had an ex of 8 years all of a sudden start watching and agreeing with Kevin Samuels. Is been financially supporting him for 4 years and he ACTUALLY looked at me and asked what I brought to the table (like I wasn't buying everything on it!). Told me he's destined for financial success and expects to have a wife of equal "quality"... he essentially told me after 8 years a 4 having me support him, that I needed to be "high value" by the time his millions come rolling in or I'd be replaced. He found…	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 01:56 PM
5	Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existing This is awesome! I hope it works out!	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/22 05:19 PM
2	Red pilled men are the beta males they complain about You don't "come by" it, you seek it out. And unfortunately that's the hard part. Use discernment when doing so and you'll eventually find a group that's healthy and encouraging... But waiting to come by the opportunity is a losing game.	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/22 01:06 PM
2	Red pilled men are the beta males they complain about At alsome point you have to make the choice to seek it out. It doesn't find you, you have to find it. Until you actively make the choice to go join a group or sport or make new and better friends, you'll always be in a cycle.	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/22 02:20 PM
2	Red pilled men are the beta males they complain about Agreed	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/22 02:17 PM
3	Save yourself from the fear tactics used in marketing. 100%!	/r/ExRedPill	28/01/22 09:52 PM
2	My gf recently told me that men who are “Hoes” are dicks and don’t respect women but at the same time I wonder why those men have such high body counts if women don’t like men like that. This too!	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/22 08:34 AM
6	Anyone else realize that Red Pill and PUA tactics attract the very wrong women? The completely ignore the fact that these women are "crazy" because they ALREADY think low of themselves and probably have traumatic pasts. THEN you have men LITERALLY manipulating and coercing them into "relationships" or sex so the guy can get some ass and female attention. Once they get through using you, they're on to the next. But not before lying to you for months about how special you are to them, how much they wanttobe with you, etc... but then men get confused when they don't go quietly…	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/22 08:30 AM
4	Am I Wrong to be mad at my single mother for raising me without a dad and doing such a poor job? You read your post and be honest with where you are emotionally and you can 100% answer that question yourself. No! It does not!	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/22 02:19 PM
16	Am I Wrong to be mad at my single mother for raising me without a dad and doing such a poor job? You need to realize that even if they were in a committed relationship ir married, he STILL could've left. The amount of single mothers isn't what it is because all of these women had one night stands. Committed relationships and marriage don't equal stable parents or even involved ones	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/22 02:17 PM
3	My gf recently told me that men who are “Hoes” are dicks and don’t respect women but at the same time I wonder why those men have such high body counts if women don’t like men like that. Because of a shitty mix of narcissism, coercion and assholery. NEVER take a man's body count as him being attractive. He mist likely lied, manipulated or coerced his way into getting laid. Something that is all too common!	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/22 01:26 AM
24	Why are single red pill men angry at single mothers? The irony of his statement is also that single mother almost NEVER die alone. They have kids, grandkids, friends, life partners, significant others. Its men with his mentality that die alone. By the time they're 50 they're either trying to convince people they're happy chasing 20 year olds while everyone around them has long lasting relationships.. OR they'll finally decide to settle down with one of those "worthless" women they impregnated, try to hurt up and find a partner and try to finally h…	/r/ExRedPill	18/01/22 06:41 PM
11	Do men prefer women without much of a sexually promiscuous past? Tbh, it doesn't seem like they know what they want, imo. What is really considered promiscuous to RP? In the RP world, it seems to be any woman who has had sex with a man other than the one attempting to pursue you. Which makes absolutely no sense. It's one thing to have a preference. But to demand that a woman have no sexual history while they've been sleeping with/attempting to sleep with whatever will say okay is hypocritical. It depends on the age. Younger guys 18-24 can PROBABLY get away wi…	/r/ExRedPill	18/01/22 02:03 PM
10	Do older men legitimately try to hit on younger women and how does that go? In my experience (8yo to now) it's not cool. It 100% happens and It's wierd and creepy. Maybe its because I've been hit on by older men since I was a LITERAL child. But as an adult, the thought is so unappealing to me because of the experiences I've had. I also know women who feel the same although they aren't "all women". I don't think there are as many young women rushing to marry or be in relationships with older guys as people are told. Kinda one of those things that's more normal depending …	/r/ExRedPill	02/09/21 01:52 PM
2	Do women only want alpha men? No. The concept of "Alpha males" is completely subjective. What you think SHOULD be attractive in a mate may be the complete opposite of what the woman ACTUALLY finds attractive in a mate. The "alphas" are usually throwing money around, talking about all the women they COULD have and are usually empty beneath the surface to me... but to someone else that's extremely attractive.	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/21 02:54 PM
1	What things led up to the current day gender war we have today? Pretty much what I was gonna say! This shift definitely started when women were given more rights.	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/21 11:57 AM
8	The sexual dichotomy of most women is what is making it impossible for me to leave the redpill Tbh, its sounds like you finally learned that there is LITERALLY no way to know if someone is "bad" or "good". Going to church and being a virgin doesn't make you a "good girl" just like going to church and being a god fearing Christian doesn't make you a "good boy". Some people suck and some people will use you to get what they want. This is why you pick the cheap/free dates and refrain from purchasing "relationship" gifts. So that you can get to know the person you're trying to "court"(read: s…	/r/ExRedPill	08/08/21 01:06 PM