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Sounds like everything is going great, but you don’t have any goals written so it’s not clear why you’re here. Most guys come here for sex problems , but you didn’t mention anything, so you must be putting her through the matress 3x per day right?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/25 04:40 PM
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Only my wife said yes, 3 hours hike with just us two, maybe 10 words spoken, like “you see that bird.” Typically I lead the conversation. I did celebrate a professional victory with her, few words were spoken then too You went on a hike and are whining about not talking. “Few words spoken” is so butthurt and victim mentality. You went on a camping trip and having a good time shouldn’t depend on your wife’s behavior, and don’t moan about what a bitch she was here. What makes your OYS lazy is that…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 08:29 PM
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You’re OYS is lazy and passive, so I’ll reply with the sticky comment you should have read: “The vast majority of you guys don't actually do anything. No actual actions. You just whinge, piss, and moan about your wife. It's a pathetic whine fest and every single one of you sucks ass. I'd rather have this thread be empty than have it filled with your mopey ass bullshit. We're not your accountabilibuddy, we're not your personal livejournal. Have you done something this week? If you haven't, fuck o…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/25 04:50 PM
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I’ll reach out to some friends to chat through logistics this coming week Are you a communist and you need the committee to approve your breakup? Usually here is it’s codependency but ive never seen discussing with friends. Oh and you have home ownership throple? Well misery loves company. Endless ways dudes will self sabotage. You give this girl your bank account too? Anyone else access? Unlimited simping. I can’t even form the idea; do you have majority ownership or can you even trigger a sale…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/25 01:01 AM
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You’re way deep into one-itus, way too much focus on her. You’re scared to lose her - ask your self why. We can all guess but you got way less reasons to worry without kids and marriage- you could walk out the door and never pay a dime or have any interaction or consequence. You’ve only been together 3 years? Think back to what you did before that- what does this girl really add to your life? Is it really that hard to find another 40 year old if that’s what you like? Start doing more for you sep…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 10:12 PM
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Here’s a plan: Eat no more than 1500 calories until you get under 200lbs. Ignore anything else, don’t waste your time thinking about it. Once you stay under 1500 , scroll/read all you want through the bullshit, but you’re just bullshitting yourself unless you stop at 1500.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/25 04:47 PM
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So I’m breaking my rule of not replying to anyone who hasn’t put in the work of 10 OYS because you’re so far off doing anything effective. It’s like asking the captain of a long line fishing boat you want to catch some salmon, him saying be here 5am, and then not getting on the boat when it leaves the harbor, and then walking 5k steps in a circle thinking that will help you catch fish. Why are you here if you’re not following the program? You’re writing down a lot of extra shit here and not doin…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/25 08:08 PM
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Why can’t you tell her you don’t approve 1:1 time with men?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/25 07:55 PM
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Why do you think eating 10 hamburgers at lunch is better than thru the day? What a load of bullshit with “fasting.” Just eat 2 hamburgers. You won’t die, people have not eaten anything for weeks and been fine. This is literally only for your benefit to not be fat. If I have ice cream at 8pm and then breakfast at 8am is that supposed to be successful? Stop bullshitting yourself. The only thing you should be reading is the calories on the package and making sure you don’t eat more than 1200/day un…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/25 12:08 AM
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Someone here wrote that most problems are lack of alpha, but guys always apply max beta, and DEER about it, and I’ve never seen a successful report. So funny how BB just run away from doing what works for m’lady. This girl is being a total asshole to you and you’re worried about her comfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/24 07:22 PM
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Getting an initiation accepted during PMS week was already a quantum jump. That’s a terrible, scarcity mindset. When you feel like you want to bang, you’re inviting her to an opportunity to please you. If she declines does it matter the reason? Anything other than moving on with your day is just validating her excuses.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/24 09:38 PM
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I haven't had sex in over a month now. She is treating you like a pouting child because if she can assuage you with a peck to avoid you having a tantrum that’s a good trade off. She’s just making sure the plow horse doesn’t sit down and can smell , but not taste, the carrot.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 05:21 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4o8123/dont_communicate_leave_communication_is/
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 12:04 AM
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Maybe you’re stressed out because your bench press is the same as a 12 year old kid?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 10:53 PM
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Does the roommate ever complicate your process?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 09:50 PM
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Maybe you’re stressed out because your bench press is the same as a 12 year old kid?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 09:41 PM
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I’d say less than 1% make it to OYS #10, and doubt you have the discipline to do it, but you really need the help. Also stop screwing off with your lifting and just do stronglifts 5x5.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/24 07:49 PM
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You probably have a covert contract for: if I’m a nice guy to her and solve all her problems, she’ll want more sex- oldest game played.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 08:50 PM
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save/pay yourself first, put X-dollars direct deposited into a taxable investment account (make another one at another broker) and never take it out. Save first, then spend what’s leftover.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/23 09:09 PM
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You could easily afford a $1.5mm house but your wife is spending it at Amazon, no wonder Bezos is rich.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/23 08:59 PM
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Read next: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/ty6649/sex_and_the_obsession_thereof/
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/23 05:40 AM
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You’re thirsty because you have a validation problem. That should be your top focus to solve right now. Here’s a good start: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/ab7vt5/validation_needs_that_can_poison_your_sex_life/
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/23 05:48 PM
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Late 20s, 5'10" ~155lbs. lifting has been inconsistent Yeah no shit! Anyway, to anyone else reading this losers whining, OYS is just a tool, but you need to do the work yourself. It’s meant to help you focus your work. Just holding a hammer in your hand won’t drive the nail, it won’t make you a carpenter.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/23 05:40 PM
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You’re an alcoholic and nothing will improve in your life until you fix that.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 08:54 PM
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What is this chick doing for you? How is she making your life significantly better to risk half your current net worth and a huge portion of future earnings? Sounds like she’s trying to “stick the landing,” with you as a her beta and of you act up after the first year after a kid you’re paying for it for decades. You met when she was 33, sounds like her first options didn’t work out and she’s “settling” with you. https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/comment-page-3/
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 09:37 PM
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You’re doing a ton of work in a lot of areas but not really focused other than lifting. Focus on the top 3 areas, write down a metric and then go for that, no need to write about swim lessons for kids. I think you’ve identified an important area of resentment and anger, and these weren’t easy for me either, but I eventually figured out it doesn’t help me move forward to my goals and mission. And realizing it’s all my fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 09:16 PM
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Yes, more physical activity can only help. Maybe try consistent physical chores like folding laundry, pulling weeds, walking dog. Yelling just gives her the power to get a reaction from you.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 08:52 PM
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You’re off to a good start, but it’s the just the beginning. Relax, try and reduce your anger, channel it into productive action. Resentment and butthurt aren’t helpful and a reaction of your ego.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 05:13 PM
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Yeah, it’s like the focus here is on shit you can actually change with effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/23 03:30 PM
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Be real- does she weigh more than you?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/23 04:45 AM
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College over zoom due to Covid tons of student loan debt (I'm a trained economist), yet I earn minimum wage. mfw (You must have some weird persona/lazy because the unemployment rate is the lowest ever and you can’t find a desk job? Just give up and go work for the government or an insurance company.) College is such a great scam, unlimited debt with the strongest guarantees for repayment, total morons that don’t think they’re the mark, no accountability of these fools ever get real jobs.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/23 04:37 AM
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What’s your mission? What do you want to accomplish other than telling us/convincing yourself you found a princess thats NAWALT? That your validation is being sedated with girls? That you’re an addict that has handful of months of sobriety? Call your shot and work towards it, no one is going to suck you off here.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/23 04:33 AM
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Not talking about sex in next OYS challenge: Impossible.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 06:27 PM
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G19 is a great choice, and it helped me a ton to take a course at an outside dirt range with instructors that could push my limits . If you don’t know any shooters that can recommend one, maybe look up IDPA locally and ask who they recommend.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/23 06:27 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/ty6649/sex_and_the_obsession_thereof/
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/23 05:39 PM
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Does it make sense to cut when you have no muscles to show? You should read the dancing monkey article.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/23 04:26 PM
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What are you goals? What effort did you make? What’s your mission? Start talking about what’s important to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/23 05:03 AM
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The goals should be at the top, not an afterthought of your self congratulatory successful life. Why are you here?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/23 07:31 PM
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Why are you so afraid of writing down your lift numbers? Why can’t you write a specific, measurable goal ? Why are are you just sharing your feelings? Why can’t you write down “I want to do X this many times per week?”
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/23 07:27 PM
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I'd previously spoken about the need to increase my assertiveness Doesn’t get more passive than that. Enjoy letting life happen to you and getting table scraps and being at the back of the line. And you’re in sales? Where are your metrics?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/23 04:44 AM
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Women, and people, treat you as bad as you let them - u/rstonept
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/23 06:51 PM
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This was a better response, sounds like you have a goal to figure out what you want - write that down every week. How about some small goals like lifting- what are those stats? This will help you be a less confused spaz.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/23 06:51 PM
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Progress being made getting a nude selfie? Wow maybe next time she can send you some used bath water. Covert contract - girls aren’t going to make you feel better dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/23 07:58 PM
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You need to read NMMNG again because you have massive covert contracts. Also try not to be a butthurt pussy and channel the anger into something productive in your life like kids, friends/family, finances. Your butthurt victim lashing out is just stepping on your dick.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/23 07:15 PM
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109 days ago Alphasprout called you out on your first OYS I hate your OYS. All you talk about is what's inside of your head, instead of what you actually did. Nothing changed. (But you did tell us you went to the store, what a badass).
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/23 02:04 AM
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For some reason MRP attracts the LARPers, guys who love parroting vocab with total nonsense. And when they get called out, it’s always yes right and then more nonsense about their feelings and what they need to do- but not actually doing anything. That’s your situation: not doing any work.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/23 09:22 PM
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This is dogshit. Read this, apply next week, and if you don’t I hope you’re banned: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/sz6a0p/the_purpose_of_oys_a_reminder/ https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/jw7qxz/how_to_own_your_shit_a_guide_for_retards/
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/23 05:16 PM
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It’s so weird to me seeing “tear into me” “rip me a new one for how much I suck.” If a fat-ass said the same thing, why would I waste my time? 75% in this country are obese, and it’s no bother to me. Maybe it’s good for me because when I walk into a room the heads snap and eyes grow wide. The guys usually look down quickly, but I notice some of the girls keep staring, like people are still talking to them and they keep staring. I’ve noticed girls holding their breath and staring into my eyes and…
/r/askMRP08/02/23 08:01 PM
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Can’t go wrong with G19. Please also get a plastic click in holster, outside wasteband, so you’re not fumbling with it. Also get real live training, best outdoors with steel, but not sitting on a folding chair at the gun store.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/23 04:09 AM
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You seem to have a lot of good things going, but focusing on just a few goals could help you progress faster. Suggest: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/izj8l8/execution_focus_and_self_evaluation/
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/23 05:44 PM
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Yea dude you’re deep in anger phase and you’re directing it at the wrong person - you need to direct to yourself. You’re in a really bad spot and you need to stop being a whiney angry bitch to avoid blowing up your life. Start acting attractive- does an attractive man not give kisses and silent treatment?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/23 07:11 PM
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I told my wife once I get the new job I can financially afford to file for divorce You are a total pussy bitch using a fake external reason for your actions, revealing no ownership of your actions. So don’t get mad when other people treat you like the pussy bitch that you are because you suck. Happy new year paying for a house where your ex can get plowed by Chad happily as many times a day in every way.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/22 05:50 AM
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ultimatums are for dipshits who suck
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/22 05:43 AM
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You’re doing good being honest here, that’s critical to overcoming the ego resistance to change. You’re just starting out and realizing how much you screwed up for years, but if you do the work, you’ll be fine. Watching Rian Stone’s videos helped me relax and kill the bitch emotions. For your next OYS, stop talking about feelings and daydreams of the future and write about what you actually did.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 04:34 PM
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Whether it’s smushing donuts, banging the gas station girl, knocking up the babysitter, or “walked right up to her and then grabbed both of her breasts,” OYS is always good for a laugh!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/22 11:21 PM
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How much time do you have from running out of money?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 09:25 PM
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How do video games help you? You say you have these problems in your life but you have hours for zoning out? Seems like escapism which just kicks the can down the road.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 09:19 PM
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Remembering it was all my fault helped me focus my anger to productivity. Because it’s all your fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 07:47 PM
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If you’re talking about arguing with her, you’re arguing.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/22 03:18 AM
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It helps me to think about a good coach/boss reaction to me when I screwed up- they didn’t get pissy, angry, etc, they kept it professional and went on with their day. I didn’t feel resentment or frustration from them. And you’re probably rewarding bad behavior by being physically available to her or arguing with her. There’s no point. If you want to bang and she doesn’t, literally move on to the next thing you want to do. Don’t reward her by beta comfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/22 06:16 PM
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If you have use a business card, you’re unattractive. She’s already used your professional contacts for social proof/connections. What if she’s a total dipshit or psycho, what’s the point of having any connection to her?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/22 09:10 PM
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"fuck me (and feed me) or fuck you" speech (which I feel coming) That beta delusion need to go from the sidebar, ultimatums are for dipshits who suck and don’t have better options. Anyway, try leading on the better food, maybe you’ll learn some lessons about leading in other areas. And remember when you’re chewing that overcooked, dry pork chop, it’s all your fault that you suck and can’t supervise dinner.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/22 05:17 PM
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connected on email professionally, and she pinged our mutual friends immediately to say we met. A girl that freely gives sex is a slut, a man who freely gives resources is a $i m p. She’s using you and you’re getting nothing in return. Play the game or get played.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/22 05:10 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/22 06:11 PM
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This is very weird to see, in 4 years here I’ve never seen a girl start up ceo written about, some workaholics, but that is a rare, strange, unnatural delusion for this older women to pursue this and secondly, for you to want to be with her. A female start up lead is like the antithesis of femininity, like a dominatrix. She has a mission, and it has nothing to do with you, so whatever delusions you have about her please abandon. Think dude, what does this women bring for you? Beta bragging about…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/22 06:10 PM
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It’s always the shroom guys who can’t write a coherent thought, hmm…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/22 02:56 AM
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Steve Jobs didn’t invent the cell phone, but he arguable made the most useful product in the world, certainly the most value able company in the world. You’re the coach for the man in the arena, not a ivory tower writer. Sure you know all the academics, but that’s because it makes you more effective, not just to argue endlessly on the internet.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 08:23 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/
/r/askMRP27/08/22 03:52 PM
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How are you so poor?? The check in girl at the gym makes $20hr, Costco pays $20hr and benefits, what the hell is going on? $50 per lawn x 5 lawns per day x 5 days x 52 weeks is $65,000.
/r/askMRP23/08/22 10:20 PM
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I recently heard a discussion about values and practice, where we value many things such as fun and fitness. The fat man may say he values fitness and eating clean yet has 30% BF and can’t lift his fat ass over the pull up bar even once. Values are bullshit, at most a description of someone’s practice or Frame. We see this with girls so much it’s all watch what they do, not what (values) they say. As couch u/rstonept says: You don’t lose Frame, it’s your worldview. -and your frame is to feel sha…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/22 10:06 PM
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OP: “I eat pretty clean” Stats: 222lbs, 22% BF. You’re bullshitting yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/22 05:12 PM
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Man who “worried she'd fall prey to hookup culture. AFAIK she hasn't yet. So I have resolved to try to give her the knowledge to help avoid that trap.” and wants to help others avoid their daughters becoming feminist whores but paid to send her to the feminist whorehouse is now butthurt - I think that’s the proper summary. My mild assessment of college and response to you wasn’t nasty whatsoever, and I encourage you to do the work and cure your ignorance- no need to add to your unending list of …
/r/askMRP02/08/22 06:05 PM
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Sitting on your ass watching videos and scrolling isn’t work, it’s mental masturbation and ego-soothing. There’s a few that improve, but they actually do work instead of waste their lives whining on the tubes. Woe to him who confuses activity with accomplishment. Rian is too humble, and under appreciated and produces gems like “be attractive, don’t be unattractive,” and if any tards want some actual help check out: https://m.youtube.com/c/RianStone.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/22 05:33 PM
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It’s a good question - how to keep a daughter from a triple digit notch count by age 21. What if you are sending her far away from your home, only seeing you a few times per year, away from her family where most social rules are practiced. You’ll pay nearly 100k or more for her to have no responsibilities, other than dragging her ass sit in a chair by 10am a few hours per week. Then she’s with thousands of similar idiots on basically a sex island where she’ll be brainwashed to hate her parents, …
/r/askMRP02/08/22 05:17 PM
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You’re mentally weak and have a victim mentality when it’s simply your fault for not being happy. What exactly is missing from your life?? There are no goals written.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/22 04:05 PM
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Here’s the secret: there’s nothing stopping you from living your life, stop being a victim and blaming others for your feeling and start taking responsibility.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/22 03:43 PM
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You’re a reactive, butthurt pussy wasting your life on revenge fantasy against mean mommy who won’t touch your dick. You wrote about 1 rejection, did you only initiate once in the past week? You doing the gym bag routine? Got other things to do in the evening? Stop talking about your feelings and day dreams and start writing what you’re doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/22 06:47 PM
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Maybe you’re not cut out to be a doctor if you “don’t know what happened” during the test of the culmination of your entire life’s education, because I would expect all my hard work to result in a good outcome. I’m sure wasting your life hanging out with degenerates will help. I hope you never have responsibility for peoples lives until you grow the fuck up.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/22 08:13 PM
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Do you ever think that Covid is just a big shit test that all the betas are failing? Why would you “isolate” (except when trying to earn $$) from something where 90% of people already been infected and everyone will contract that’s basically harmless? I’ve had worse hangover than Covid.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/22 08:08 PM
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u/ImpatientZen has a great comment, but I want to emphasize start living your life and stop wasting your life on worry, planning, and reacting. It’s all a waste getting in your head. Just stop thinking about her and her reactions. But pain is information and I think you’re right about the zany girlfriend. Be a leader here and give her priorities that are more important than another dramatic dumbass trouble-magnet. Wife is married with 3 kids- how does she have time to waste with that idiot? You’…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/22 07:23 PM
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To be honest $2500/mo sounds reasonable for 5 kids and alimony, could contested reduce that further? If not , why contest? And the alimony ends at 10 years? Does CS go though college?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/22 10:23 PM
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Please keep writing how this goes, it’s a great example of how much it costs to be a moron and ignore all the experience and advice you get here.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/22 08:54 PM
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What does lawyer thinks about pushing 50/59 but then figuring out with your ex later? Like have her watch the kids a bit more? And if the kids are in school, how much babysitting do you need? They’re at school atleast 7 hours and usually there’s cheap daycare after. Imagine where you’d be without expensive professional help in this case- what does that say about the other areas in your life?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/22 01:19 AM
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We also talked about the logistics of breaking up (I’d take the main bedroom, she’d take the spare) Enjoy hearing your new roommate get pounded while you’re trying to sleep on a Tuesday night. She’s hysterical bonding and trying to let you down easy to kill the puppy.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 10:09 PM
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Do any of these girls try to add value or are they just using you too? Do you think you’re the prize if you’re worried about the “caliber” of women? What does that even mean when I doubt any of them can help your life in a meaningful way such as giving you a job, increasing revenue to your business, helping you get more fit or better at a skill/hobby? Read and reflect: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/ab7vt5/validation_needs_that_can_poison_your_sex_life/ https://www.reddit.com/r…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 08:23 PM
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I just started trying different tools, see how they work, and yes STFU worked great in the beginning, but did tend to piss her off and I would have to go overt and say “I’m done talking about this.” But that’s the reactive way. Now I just choose based on the mood- do I have time and want to have fun? Agree and amplify. A bit busy? Pressure flip, this one is super effective on my wife, totally gets her hamster going on how she could attempt to accomplish what she knows only I can do, like fix som…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/22 04:20 AM
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First kid is intense, but sleep gets better quickly especially that you’ve done the work and realized only you will do anything so solve the issues. Good example of owning your shit, thanks for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 06:19 PM
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I was concerned because I thought that I took the best years of a woman's life and didn't leave her better than I found her. Or that she was a stay at home Mom for a decade so literally everyday was the weekend. She probably doesn’t have any plans to work either (because you’ll be paying for her).
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/22 08:15 PM
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Get control of your emotions and stop acting like a little girl and having a tantrum. Stop arguing with wife, grow up.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/22 08:42 PM
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Enjoy prison dipshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 06:59 PM
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OYS 38: First is getting bills and other household expenses paid on time. There's no reason why I haven't gotten up to date on all of the latest payments two weeks in to the month. You need to take up to 30 minutes and put all your shit on autopay ASAP. If you fuck up your credit score you’ll be paying for that mistake for years and tens of thousands of $$.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 05:12 PM
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I am feeling sexually rejected by you. And that's not your problem. But when I feel sexually rejected, I don't feel good about me." She said thank you for sharing, we kissed for 10 seconds “Oh my little weak bitch of another child to manage is being a crybaby again, maybe if I give him a kiss he’ll feel better. Anyway, back to living the way I want.” Fuck your feelings dude, that’s what got you into this mess. Strength, leadership, excitement, fun are what she values. Your feelings are wrong and…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 07:25 PM
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I am feeling sexually rejected by you. And that's not your problem. But when I feel sexually rejected, I don't feel good about me." She said thank you for sharing, we kissed for 10 seconds “Oh my little weak bitch of another child to manage is being a crybaby again, maybe if I give him a kiss he’ll feel better. Anyway, back to living the way I want.” Fuck your feelings dude, that’s what got you into this mess. Strength, leadership, excitement, fun are what she values. Your feelings are wrong and…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 07:25 PM
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One of the guy teachers in my high school ran off and moved out with a student the day she turned 18. Wonder if it worked out for them. Anyway, you’re full of shit if you think babysitting and working out take up all your time.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 08:45 PM
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You’re stuck in the victim mentality loop: She’s doing you wrong, making you feel bad, and you’re trying to find ways to punish her. Wake up and break the cycle and end that mental model. Good example of leaving to have fun with your kid: you created a valuable activity, she wasn’t adding value and therefore didn’t earn the reward of joining you. But do you see how it started with you creating value? For everyone else- being a whiney bitch doesn’t bring any value. Also thank you for posting a re…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 07:02 PM
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u/rstonept has a video that may help: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QPsmy_qSZKY After years of beta blowups and butthurt, you’ve suddenly overcome that, and now you’re butthurt she doesn’t believe you. Rian also said you need to be a source of joy, excitement , energy for her or else removing your negative self is only a benefit.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/22 06:42 PM
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When was the last time you had a “blowup?” When was the last time you felt butthurt after a rejection? What’s a normal initiation look like for you? Sounds Covert “if I don’t blow up she’ll bang me.” This whole OYS seems defensive and especially your body comp stuff seems to satisfy a need to control vs a desire for personal enjoyment.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/22 02:40 AM
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Your mindset is way off and preventing you from progressing. Stop trying to control, just do the work for one. Stop being weak and ‘apathetic,’ that’s victim talk. If you’re weak and can’t control your emotions, you’re going to get played. Why are you giving your gifts to her if you’re not getting what you want? Why so scared of losing her? I've gone long periods of time without blowing up about my need for sex in a Pompeii of whining. There it is, pathetic, weak, scared. Writing these answers d…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/22 10:37 PM
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Where do you want your marriage to be? What goals are you working toward that you can write down here?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/22 09:52 PM
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Likewise, I found it hard to relax on the trip. I think it’s toxic shame: that you’re not good enough for her attraction, that you're afraid you can’t replace her. Or you can’t relax because your worried about getting scolded if something goes wrong. She’s going to sense that, others will too, and they’ll take advantage. The shame and anxiety don’t help. You’re making good progress, fun to see.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/22 11:08 PM
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You referring to the fact that if I am taking care of the kids or doing chores, then that gives her the free time to fingerfick the phone? Bingo. You’re deep into anger phase, it’s hard to hear but it will get a lot better if you relax, control your emotions, realize it’s all your fault and start doing the work. So your dick is on the fritz for a bit, it’s not forever.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/22 02:22 PM
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You need to stop enabling her phone addiction when picking up her slack. Oh and you’re not addicted to porn, you’re just sedating and fearful of setting standards/boundaries.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/22 05:29 AM
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Squatting every other day has given me really fucking tight hip flexors which as a result has been giving me lower back tightness and discomfort. Stop squatting that much, just skip that lift and don’t squat again until the pain is gone or else you’ll get injured and won’t do able to do shit for a month or more.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/21 10:01 PM
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Your feelings are wrong and you’re wrong for having them. - u/rstonept He’s got great lessons, check him out for more. Also: https://markmanson.net/fuck-your-feelings When you’re goal/mission focused, you’ll start to see situations as helping or not achieve your goals. Even you’re own feelings- am I angry and that motivates me to work harder toward my goal or am I a butthurt bitch and will let shaming distract me? Also it’s hilarious to me you had 10 years with with gal and you’re lamenting “wha…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/21 04:45 AM
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You’ve been here a year but got a way to go dude. now I'm feeling the full social censure 1-Your feelings are wrong and you’re wrong for having them. I've gotten constant shaming, guilting, berating 2- Give no fucks to those who don’t bring value.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 08:17 PM
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“ Why go, you ask? Because the clock is fucking ticking. The real valuable commodity in life is time. How do I want to spend my time alive? Who do I want to spend it with?” Solid. Own your decisions -I’m going here because I want to. But get that abundance mindset as your motivator , not just avoiding being lazy or FOMO.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/21 07:19 PM
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Yes u/AlphalfaSprout is right - focus on the fat. Doing 5x5 will help you lose the fat - why are you jerking off with machines? How tall are you and write down your calorie goals
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/21 06:55 PM
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What is it with you not following the program or doing the work? You’re on #40 and it’s the same nonsense over and over again, not writing goals, no writing any actions except washing your ass in the morning. You need a fire under your ass, and your positive affirmations are an attempt to distract from what a loser you are and avoid doing the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/21 02:26 AM
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You suck! You’re a weak little victim about to blow up your life and blame everyone but yourself. You’re so high value yet you want to beg your rode hard and put to bed wet ex for attention ?? “ giving yourself freely to over 25 guys” haha was it like a hotdog in a hallway? How does sloppy 25x seconds taste like? Loser!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/21 07:24 AM
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OYS #40 goals: Reinforce positive action (nonsense) • Add positive affirmations to meditation sessions (jerk-off nonsense) • Clean out garage to use home gym again (prerequisite for OYS) • Shower, dress and do hair every morning (Same thing my 4 year old does by herself*) Great job wasting your life. *for real, by 730am my 4 year old has eaten breakfast, brushed her teeth, dressed and put in hair clips and is ready for school. BY HER SELF.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/21 06:57 AM
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In all sincerity, please keep sharing. You’ve achieved what many can’t, but for the few that do, could benefit from your mindset and strategy. Many say they can’t do what they want due to wealth/work, so without that constraint, what will you do?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/21 06:32 AM
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You got a lot of work to do around validation and Frame. Plus that’s covert contract (doubtful you will ask for someone’s approval). Spend some time reflecting on why you feel the approval of others is necessary.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 10:20 PM
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Where are the goals here??
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 05:52 PM
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I have always worked out Bench:160lbs Deadlift: 160lbs Me 6ft 206lbs 23%
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/21 05:43 AM
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I am ok with this, and not angry. But it pisses me off that afterwards she is all nice things about me (how nice I am, and how good, and bla, bla, bla). You’re a butthurt bitch and she’s trying to keep her beta happy with some compliments. Good job pleasing mommy. I’d be angry too if I could only bench half my bodyweight. You’re in the anger phase, try to relax and don’t be such a baby.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/21 05:37 AM
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Lesson here is to stop calibrating my moods to hers. Horns gave me great advice on the YouTube OYS video: “you should feel exactly the same when you wake up if you did or didn’t have sex the night before.” Women follow the man’s energy, but it’s so much better to be happy and content for your self. You only hold yourself back being upset.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 07:06 PM
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You’re fatter than ever after 2 plus years writing your nonsense so I’m not surprised you didn’t write a goal weight. I just want to warn others this poster is an alcoholic, butthurt victim of his own ego who does zero work.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 06:52 PM
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This is a marathon dude, glad to see you have some reasonable specific goals you can hit. Now start executing, focus all the anger on the fact that it’s your fault. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/izj8l8/execution_focus_and_self_evaluation/ It’s your fault that caused the situation to cause your anger. The great thing is that you can change and fix these issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 08:17 PM
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So that’s it, do your worst. I deserve it. Your life is your own punishment.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 06:29 PM
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You’re 32 and still a sergeant? Did you get busted down or something? I hear soldiers fresh out of boot at given E4 these days..
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 05:35 AM
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That was savage dude, awesome assist.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 05:33 AM
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This post is like a 3 plate deadlift- newbs ain’t going to be able to pick it up. Further, It’s like a newb walking into the gym, seeing a guy do his 3 plate set, asking for advice and then telling that lifter he’s wrong. And then saying I’ll get there quick by whining and saying it’s not fair he can’t lift 3 plates. The total fantasy of some of the egos in here are insane.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 03:27 AM
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just be a normal, nice person to her instead of avoiding her or being cold to a fault. That’s your butthurt wanting to get revenge. I think it’s an ego defense to redirect the blame. try and focus when you have that feeling and realize it’s a lack of your frame and boundaries, and revenge doesn’t help. Rian u/rstonept has a great video about not punishing when the tables have turned because that doesn’t alight with your goals. Story time: just last week I was doing my normal touching , feeling h…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 03:18 AM
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I don’t know if you’ve ever had a puppy, but imagine being mad because it keeps pissing in the floor. Every time it pisses you whine and say it’s such a mess, it’s ruing the carpet and will be expensive to replace, it’s a pain to clean up, and it will do it again soon. Imagine living like that and doing nothing to change the situation. You could beat the dog, give it away, always keep it outside. The dog has no idea why you’re mad, even when you keep explaining it, and even if it did understand,…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 01:09 AM
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Doesn’t take much to slay way more than average : https://www.justjared.com/photo-gallery/4475945/leonardo-dicaprio-malibu-beach-day-03/
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 10:32 PM
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Lifts (all dumbbell) BP 65lbs, I realized I’m killing it on my gym/running gains. Hell yah. Great confidence, solid frame. Love when dudes include the wife weight, I’m always curious given the amount of shit guys put up with if she’s atleast cute or looks like a beach ball.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 03:48 PM
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Yea I’m a victim
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 07:57 PM
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It’s pointless to advise you because you’re too scared to do any work. All your writings are whiney nonsense and and empty jargon. But for everyone else, this is an example of spending years being a pussy and dancing monkey. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/74yepr/the_dancing_monkey_attraction_improvement/ You’re fantasizing about running away from mommy but too scared to not do dishes. Gee wonder how that’s going to work out for you. You’re not a catch because you don’t believe …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 07:44 PM
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Damn that sucks for us, especially all his writings gone. Guess I’m lucky for being here when he was sharing the gift of a better way of life and how to get there. The live chats with him and Horns were such a help and gift to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 07:59 PM
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Try doing just 1 goal area for the next week and next OYS. You’re too scattered and like you said, not focusing on major progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 05:11 PM
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Texting just shows her you’re r too much of a pussy to enforce a boundary.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/21 04:22 PM
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I mentioned what she had done that caused me not to answer her and she DEER’d. I pointed out how all I wanted was an apology not for her to get defensive about it. Awesome use of Pressure Flip. This guy know he’s the prize.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/21 04:15 PM
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Well you could hit the bench press a bit more…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 09:21 PM
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I think you’ve diagnosed the situation perfectly but I don’t think you’re recognizing she’s trying to break your boundaries. Going through this as a kid (incl custody lawsuits), I imagine this bitch barely has 2 pennies to rub together, and at age 15 I think the courts would not want to disrupt the status quo. Son has a lot of sway in what he wants to do too. My dad never talked to me about it, nor denigrated my mom in any way. I doubt talking to her would help, and I wouldn’t put any “settlemen…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/21 04:37 PM
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Dude you’ve been doing OYS for like 2 years and your progress is minimal, probably because you’re not doing the work and you’re afraid of your wife. You say you’ve read NMMNG multiple times yet you can’t set simple easy boundaries: I’d really like to break totally free of the honey do requests. So passive and pathetic like you can’t say no, like she’s a prison guard. No wonder she isn’t attracted to you, you’re weak. Anyway, there’s a term called Mental point of origin, ever heard of it? Should …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/21 05:12 AM
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Whats your daily calorie limit and P/C/F split? What’s your goal weight for Oct 1? Lots of other guys have done this, you can too.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/21 10:52 PM
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but I’d really like to break totally free of the honey do requests. You’re such a bitch. After years of reading MRP you haven’t started to use the basic tools. No wonder she treats you like a bitch, because you act like one. You’re writing is so passive and just complaining about everything. You entire frame is that your wife is oppressing you. I look at you and you’re punching yourself in the nuts and complaining that it hurts. quest to do at least one small selfish thing each day Obviously you…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/21 05:16 PM
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At the end of the day, I don’t feel any different and it didn’t really solve any of my “issues”. No shit huh. You still are being the victim looking outside yourself for validation. That’s the whole point of MRP - getting your dick wet is just the hook for the true freedom of self actualization. The pussy is a novelty of life, not the goal, nor will it help you achieve anything. Wow you’re dense. Hint: nothing will make you feel better except for you putting in the work. Pussy or anything isn’t …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/21 05:26 AM
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What possible reason does a 2 year old stay up until 11pm? You’re such a wet blanket dude, being petty about your closet space, how is that even on your list of the tons of shit you haven’t been owning in your life? Starting from smallest to largest? And do you really think she knows what she’s doing with finances? She’s just doing it because you’ve abandoned it. You’ll learn quickly about finances if you get divorced.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/21 05:11 AM
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I got rule 9'd again. No responsibility on your part right? You’re an emotional, scared, lazy bitch. That’s not going to change unless you stop blaming others for your situation and do the work. The tools are here, will you use them?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 04:56 PM
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So much comedy gold in these newbie OYS posts, they’re oblivious.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 04:35 PM
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I think part of the issue is that unless I say I want to spend time together (with or without sex) we have almost no non-logistical interaction. She is intensely involved in a 12 step program (not addiction/alcoholism) and spends most of her waking time involved with it. We don't even go to bed at the same time as she wants to get up early to meditate. Why the neediness? What do you want here? Why do you care if you go to sleep at same time? You could be a leader and go on a vacation with just h…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 04:31 PM
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Read this, and put some goals in your OYS. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/izj8l8/execution_focus_and_self_evaluation/ I think you’re going to struggle lifting without eating more.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 10:33 PM
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What’s your goal weight? Write that down and when you want to hit that. Then make a plan and stick to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/21 06:56 PM
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Any goals to share in addition to this pity party? Stop being a victim, you put yourself into this mental cage
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/21 06:51 PM
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Awesome to hear your success! Really appreciate the gifts of your investment here and the benefits to my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/21 05:04 PM
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My wife spends most of the time I'm at home watching Netflix on her phone. That shit is such poison , the drama, screen time, and waste of life. How much could she be accomplishing during that time? Would you let your kid have that much screen time? Try using those same tools to motivate her to something more productive that brings value to your life. That’s why she’s in your life- to bring you value.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 06:58 PM
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I’d tell her when she’s using a bad tone to fix it or the conversation is over. leaving at a time when it does not arouse suspicion, i.e. spending more time at work the next day. I cannot even imagine these words or actions, but you’re a pussy and until you stop it nothing will change for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/21 08:59 PM
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What’s the problem then? (The problem is you’re butthurt and you don’t have O-I because you haven’t done the work to attract other options) Be attractive - don’t be unattractive. Try to step up the fun - be like Leo DiCaprio.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/21 02:57 AM
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You’re being a pussy and trying to protect your ego by not initiating. Don’t ever expect a women to initiate, that’s your job. Initiate, shoot your shot, and if she declines then do something else you want to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 07:01 PM
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I'm engaging too much in verbal intercourse. The need to be right and explain why is pervasive and hard to shake. But I've seen time and again that it has no long term benefit. Internalize this and execute STFU. Every time you argue that’s just pushing BJ further away. Also, why don’t you try planning something fun, and inviting her along? And stop trying to read her mind and second guessing all your activities.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 06:58 PM
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Any other ideas on handling these outbursts and personal attacks? Have you tried not being a pussy? Have you tried to not reward her poor behavior by doing something more interesting/useful to your life?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 09:15 PM
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Great example of austim: confusion, sperging, and no value add from this post. Can it be cured? More importantly, should it be cured? Don’t we need some betas to keep the lights on? Who’s going to keep the greens nice when I’m golfing with clients? I think the main issue with autists is they don’t even realize their affliction , nor ever question why they’re missing out on so much. They don’t seem to care about what grinding bullshit they endure.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/21 03:57 PM
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You are the OYS autist of the year. Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/d6hd97/manning_101_and_the_mrp_end_game/ Now pick out the skills you want, write it down in your OYS as a goal, and work towards it. For example, What’s your goal weight? Tracking calories is a habit to achieve that, but what is your calorie goal, and how many days are you hitting it?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 04:31 PM
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What the fuck is this shit. no lifts, no goals, no action and you’re 35. You can bullshit yourself all day long, but don’t waste our time.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/21 06:14 PM
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Relax dude, Read the Wiki on the sidebar and read about the anger phase. Take it way slow on the lifting. I took the advice to channel my anger into lifting but made the mistake of pushing way past my endurance and got injured for about 2 months. Smile, enjoy, and consistency and form will get you way farther than being pissed and jerking shit around and getting hurt. Lifting is for you, enjoy and embrace for long term. You’re deep into anger phase, and you should read about it before you fuck t…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/21 06:07 PM
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How fat are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/21 07:12 PM
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Hey you need to calm down, control your bitch feeling, and shut the fuck up when you’re about to say something stupid to your wife. You’re deep into anger phase, and you should read about it before you fuck things up for yourself. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/i4s3p8/understanding_the_anger_phase/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 06:03 PM
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Now I know why it’s called cuck island..
/r/askMRP18/05/21 10:28 PM
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At no point did I ask my wife what she wanted to do. I said let's go. She said okay and followed. Newsflash: girls are boring. It’s all on you to make it fun. The answer is partly that I'm trying to save her and partly because I do want good conversation from her. It would signify that she's interested in me. I'm covertly seeking her approval. Neither of these are attractive behaviors and I need to kill them. Dude you’re bringing up some very good observations and reflections. Excellent work and…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/21 05:35 PM
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OYS #11: 5/11: w172, 5x5 BSD: 155/195/195. Age 36, 3 kids 6 under. Body: Goals: body weight 180 and controlling bodyfat. Work: slower progress here, but have tried harder to increase protein mix to 40% and consistory tracking cals. Need to spend more time here but its lower priority. Need to learn more about managing nutrition and potential change program away from 5x5 as that’s all I’ve done for 2.5 years. In the past 2 months I have overcome more limiting beliefs, but more importantly I’m star…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 04:48 PM
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E2 Paid $1,900 per month for at least 190hrs of work = $10hr. Babysitters in high school make $20 cash where I live.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/21 05:47 PM
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Enjoy the suck. I just don’t understand if your goal is to be an officer and you have a degree why you enlisted.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/21 10:40 PM
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What do you mean by dual contract? You’re going to enlist and then hope to get an OCS spot?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 10:35 PM
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If there’s a USMC ROTC at a nearby college, go hit them up, they’ll have you lo right, lef righting, column left marching quick. There’s YouTube vids you can play with someone calling drill and you can practice. I have no idea what they want you to learn in the chair force, but I never saw any dumb ass jarhead that couldn’t drill.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/21 04:25 AM
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“ Most of my fun and outgoing behavior is fake at this point. MRP tells me to be cocky and funny and enjoy my awesome life, so I do that. But it's not really authentic. It's for others, not me ” The problem with your victim mentality is you don’t want to do the work and then you blame others when you do get what you want. That’s what women do, bitch and whine and do nothing and what happens to them? They get plowed, they fill a container. The first step might be addressing your bitch mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 01:12 AM
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You sound depressed and like a wet blanket victim bitch. You’re not a victim- you’re either stupid or lazy and that’s why you’re here. It’s all your fault so do something to fix it. It’s like if the front door was open on a cold day and you were complaining about being cold everywhere in the house - fix the fucking problems you have for yourself dude. You locked yourself in this cage, we shouldn’t tolerate you complaining about it. Go have some fun with your boy, following/helping dad is a top j…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 04:20 PM
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I was going to break my rule of replying to anyone before OYS 10 with actual help, but then I saw you’re a fat vegetarian who doesn’t lift. Anyway this might help: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=fB_ESE2XwOU
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/21 06:48 PM
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Hmm, I wonder what tool you could use, I think it’s mentioned around here...STFU? Ever heard of that? https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/4ynsog/jesus_titty_fucking_christ_n00bs/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 04:31 PM
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Upvote for maintaining standards.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 07:58 PM
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“ I've done yet another gay ass fuck me or fuck you speech, trying to negotiate desire. I've lost count of these and my wife doesn't give a shit anymore either, ” Because you’re all talk , just like a women. She’s confused and repulsed because you’re not acting like a man. Think of your life like an airplane , you had a good take off, but mid flight the engine died and your gliding now. You going to fix things to get where you want or just sit back? Or maybe a your boat has been adrift awhile, a…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 07:51 PM
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Dear u/beneficial_secret_81, I’m glad you could put down the fork long enough to go though my OYS history. I do hope my experience of maintaining a lean, sexy physique inspires your journey. As noted in my stats, we’re both the same height yet you are a full disgusting 70lbs heavier. My question for you is, can you get under 200lbs so you can stop being a fat ass?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 07:25 PM
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Own Your Shit Weekly - January 26, 2021 OYS Week 2 - 243lb/6ft, 30% bodyfat 1500 calories a day my ass, the scale don’t lie only down 4lbs in 10 weeks as a mega fat ass. I’ve seen a trend where these fat asses come in here, spaz out doing 4-5 workouts and running per week, and never lose a pound. Then they disappear. Also imagine giving dating advice as a fat ass probably married to another fat ass, lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 05:18 PM
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“ I also started wondering if it was a good thing that I've allowed myself to be the one that holds boundaries. There's a lot of she's down that line of thought, and it comes down to I can't control how she handles our kid. I can only control me.” Good you’ve recognized you need to stop seeking validation from her “look at what I did mommy, am I a good boy? “ talk. And yeah, feel free to lead and help your family, were you waiting on our permission? Also, one of the many lessons I’ve learned is …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 04:12 PM
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Cool - super miss the YouTube live reviews, you rocked it and it was hilarious hearing your roasts live.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 06:50 PM
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Based on your weight, the only thing your doing 3x/wk is Prancing around doing Zumba and yoga . That isn’t working out, nor is it lifting. The lesson you should learn from MRP is that all the pain can go away if you put in the work. So next time you’re being a butthurt pussy, remind yourself it’s your fault. Anything you fail to achieve, any mistake, nearly everything that occurs in your life is your fault. The only way to change is to put in the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/21 06:45 PM
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I’d suggest a CPA that does taxes and ask how can I take advantage of all the pretax accounts and ask for a table of how much you would save in taxes. Free money.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 08:23 PM
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Lifting is not a suggestion: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/9l4fij/lifting_is_not_a_suggestion/
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 08:20 PM
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I’m not sure you got enough muscle to look good cutting that hard dude. If that’s your 1RM for bench at body weight, you’re chest is flat as paper.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 03:11 AM
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You’re maxing out your tax-advantaged accounts first right? An HSA is literally free money. I’d recommend a year savings before paying off the house, that should be your last debt to pay off.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 03:06 AM
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That’s a whole lot of words for saying you’ve done jack shit. Stop feeding your pie hole. PS- even if you lost another 40lbs you’d still be fat whiney bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/21 07:57 PM
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“ I realize the landscape is difficult for guys under 6ft tall” Hilarious that leftovers make demands. Think how poor her options are if height is the top value. They can cry to their cats. You’re ripped and no kids? Should be easy dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 08:19 PM
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“ I'm in great physical health” .... let my eating and drinking habits get the best of me since. Drinking way too much lately (3-6 beers per day)” You’re an alcoholic. You won’t have any improvement until you manage your addiction.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 07:41 PM
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Thank you Blarg for responding. yes I think part of the motivation for jacking off was avoiding effort of initiating. Also I think some of my desire for every 2 days is pathetically nothing better to do in the evenings.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 05:13 PM
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“ Because I'm afraid of the unknown, and freedom is the unknown. I don't know what it's like to truly have choice so I'm afraid to put myself in a situation where I do. I tell myself I resent her because she keeps me confined, but it's the opposite. I need her to keep me confined because I'm afraid to be free.” Wow this helps me.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 02:23 PM
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OYS #10 (2.5 years trying to follow the program) 3/23: w168, 5x5 BSD: 155/195/195. Age 36, 3 kids 6 under. What if being attractive isn’t how I want to normally act? I shouldn’t do it, but if I want to get laid I need to? My social life is weak. Before COVID I had many social events through work but that’s all gone, and people I try and connect with don’t want to meet up. Need to work on this because I’m acting boring. Sex: I am having the most frequent sex and some of the best sessions ever in …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 02:08 PM
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I’m going to give you the knowledge to earn hundreds of thousands of dollars, less years working and potential early retirement. Or you could give that all up and waste a bunch of time by day trading and excel fingerbanging. https://freakonomics.com/podcast/stupidest-money/ Which way do you choose?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/21 05:30 PM
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I’ve written to you before, you’re deep into self-victim mentality. You’re not owning your shit when you blame your wife, blame work, etc such as this: —“ spent my whole day volunteering for some important work that needed done. I didn’t want to do it, but I martyred myself for the benefit of the cause.” And —“ My wife doesn’t respect my time.” She doesn’t know because you’ve never set that boundary. Do you get mad at your kids when they draw on the wall with crayons the first time? They don’t f…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/21 05:57 PM
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The most important action is to change his mindset to support his Mental point of origin. She’s been invited to join his life. It’s his ship, that he built. He didn’t join her ship (girls don’t have/build ships, they float around or get dragged behind another ship until they can jump on a better ship) Maybe that helps. He needs to lead her to help him run his ship. If she has time to lay around for days she’a not helping. He can help set the vision of where the ship is going and how awesome it i…
/r/RPChristians09/03/21 06:44 PM
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Why are you rewarding her poor behavior? Why does she get to enjoy your hard work and presence when she’s not meeting your expectations? Her role is to support you and your mission. Your frame is weak, read more about that. Hint: do not talk and victim puke to her, lead her with action. Also amazingly poor advice, blaming him, and making excuses for her in this thread.
/r/RPChristians03/03/21 06:36 PM
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I think you’ll get better results enforcing boundaries with actions and the removal of your presence/attention. You think Leo DiCaprio gets in fight with his chicks? There’s an endless supply of under 25 year old gals waiting to jump on his boat. Be Leo. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/comment/cwgn5sb I have been a bit lazy / preoccupied recently but so many events that recently happened that would have torn me up years ago passed by like a strong breeze. Such wisdom and …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/21 04:28 AM
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Absolutely you need partners with skin in the game, otherwise no incentive for them to take it seriously.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/21 08:29 PM
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What would you differently if you “started over?” Why aren’t you doing that now? (Hint: has nothing to do with your wife.) Also there is no “starting over” in life, you either do the work, or not and live in denial about about all the greatness that would happen if it wasn’t for X. The X is you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/21 07:38 PM
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It’s called Frame, not debate class. You shouldn’t DEER at all, nor be explicit telling her the door is there. Super weak dude, do you say that to your kids when they piss you off? The more weakness you show by being scared and debating the more she will think you’re a pussy and look for stronger options.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/21 07:32 PM
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You’re DEER-ing because you’re scared, I’m not sure exactly what but I’m just pointing out your weakness that your writing reveals. You’re thrashing around mentally with no plan that I see other than lifting. You got a lot you want to fix; more sex, better initiating, less jacking off, killing ego, butthurt, etc. Think of one issue you want to work on, have some focus, show some resolve and follow through. Treat as an educational experience to and don’t take it serious. Just try, and be totally …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/21 06:31 AM
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Dude you need to start thinking for yourself. You’re slowly acknowledging your victim mentality but you got a way to go. You have the power to be happy and confident, make that choice. It’s been 3 years here for you, and you’re barely starting to take action. Read NMMNG, and stop being so scared because you can handle life.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 07:39 PM
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Wait, there’s a farm animal sleeping in bed? Your wife has a sheep in her bed? Have you ever heard the phrase “texting is for logistics only?” Also you should probably be Rule 9-ed.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 09:54 PM
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“Got called out for “being passive and waiting” for houses to go on the market. “ You had such a cringe response. You’ll look back on this and know why which will help confirm your progress. Read about the anger phase and butthurt and put all that energy into the gym.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/21 09:48 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/9l4fij/lifting_is_not_a_suggestion/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/21 07:19 PM
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Job was teaching her and using the pressure flip technique- wow the Bible is redpill
/r/RPChristians28/01/21 06:30 PM
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You’ve been here over 6 months and never posted your lifts, even the pussies that just do bands and cardio post something. Good job on the porn, I’m working on that too. Solid improvement on ego too.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 05:28 PM
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Dude, you’re sneaking around because you’re scared. Scared of doing the work, scared of holding boundaries, etc. Running away and not not doing the work isn’t going to help you handle your relationships and you‘ll probably have the same problems again and again. You’re a dancing monkey and you’re so happy mommy have you those blowies because that’s how you feel better about yourself. You’ll do whatever it takes to get validation from her. Like Horns said to me, you shouldn’t feel any different i…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 05:08 PM
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It’s fucked because you’re accepting others’ judgement on your actions. Why are you letting someone criticize you? You know how you pass a shit test? By DNGAF, and then be more attractive by AA/AM- the opposite of accepting the test as valid. Maybe, just maybe, you’re approval/recognizing of this criticism is causing you to “question your self worth.”
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 03:55 AM
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Wow solid man, it took me over a year to really learn to withdraw my presence and attention for even the small stuff. I’m conflicted because chit chat, quick kiss doesnt take any time/effort on my part, and doesn’t impede my mission, and seems giving a punishment for her, but it was strongly received. Me not responding to her blabbing about her friends or whatever she said was me being on edge and mad- when I was smiling and giving her hugs back the whole time. My exact thoughts on bonus point f…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 05:33 PM
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“ invitation to “talk” at later date her rationale being some sort of negotiated settlement about me leaving her alone certain days and us having sex other set days. I told her I’d rather just fuck my wife all the time, then STFU. We’ll see if she actually initiates the “talk”. I’m hoping she doesn’t. Too much room for me to shove my foot in my mouth” Hey pussy, how about you start doing what you want, and not doing what you don’t want. Tell her no, don’t feel like talking about it. If she persi…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 05:13 PM
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“ I’m internalizing the belief that I will not be praised or given validation from anyone for anything I do. Paired along with the fact that I will be criticized often and tested non-stop. I’m mostly OK with that, but when I get to a low point and everything is difficult, it comes up again. I question my worth and my reason for being. ” This mindset is fucked dude. Also There’s a difference between being tested and disrespected, figure that out and have a spine.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 04:58 PM
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Where in MRP did you read you should workout 4x per week?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/21 04:07 PM
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“I suck at details, and defining what is ‘productive.’ It has to be quantitative and not just based on my feelings, because I’ve given myself too many passes in the past. I’m considering calling it ‘work,’ writing goals on my goal board the night before and getting those done the next day.“ This is a great realization. You need to direct your life , and not confuse Activity for Accomplishment. But more importantly good to hear about less stress with your kids , it can be frustrating at those age…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/21 04:58 PM
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5x5 for 2 years, not lifting enough, like 2x week, did have steady progress until like 6mo ago. I get really sore inner quads after squatting for like 3 days, so I’ve been skipping squats to work on upper body which is progressing. I’m not eating enough, probably 3 day week hitting calorie goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 08:28 PM
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Spazzing here: “ Abundance: I have none. I want some. I pressed pause on the thots for now. I need to sort what I’m trying to accomplish first. My initial thought was a search for abundance. T-Hots: Not sure what the fuck I’m doing. I’ve spent an inordinate amount of time lately chatting with Thots. Not sure where this is going or why I’m doing it. I don’t think this one is actually validation, maybe seeking abundance. Could be elaborate self sabotage. I probably can’t handle it at the moment. R…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 06:33 PM
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You’re spazzing out. Relax. Have some fun and enjoy. How’s the social life? Hearing about others bigger problems helped me appreciate the abundance I had, sharing/giving really brought some satisfaction. Share some of your deadlift abundance with me haha. I can’t get above 230. Try focusing on killing the anxious feelings. Recognize they don’t help. I don’t think trying to be happy will bring happiness, try satisfaction with your actions, what makes you proud when you reflect on your actions?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 06:43 AM
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Write down your lifts next time. You’re deep into victim mindset, maybe try controlling your emotions now while you learn. Don’t allow yourself to show anger, bitterness, etc. Get in the gym if you start feeling it. At this point, To quote Rian Stone: emotions are wrong and you’re wrong for having them.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/21 11:13 PM
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There’s a ton of good posts on not arguing, but can’t find them all but here’s a good one: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/a2ndes/dont_argue/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/21 10:53 PM
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There’s a ton of good posts on not arguing, but can’t find them all but here’s a good one: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/a2ndes/dont_argue/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/21 10:53 PM
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You’re tying your mood to her/events in some of your examples. That’s not being an oak. If she doesn’t want to bang, that’s her loss. Build up sometimes through the day to initiating, kino and then stop. I’ve been initiating in random times/places just for the fun of it with total outcome independence. Make it fun, give that a try. Kill your butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 11:50 PM
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Victim mindset is the root of butthurt which is the outcome of failed covert contract, and potentially subconsciously the motivator to generate covert contracts. “I’m doing all this work or specifically this action with the unsaid expectation you’ll be attracted and get physical with me. But I blame you when you don’t follow through and therefore you’ve victimized me.” This the covert contract mental model and there’s a whole book and posts about it. “I’m resentful and angry again. I know I shou…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 11:12 PM
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I’ve had similar bouts of lack of confidence and frustration, and those feelings don’t seem to help at all. You have a victim covert contract mentality. You’re tying your confidence and moods to outcomes. Eliminate that. Having fun, being grateful, more social events helped me with this. You’re probably giving her too much attention/time/verbal discourse because you have a covert contract this will get you laid. How much time are you spending away from her? Increase this. Quash your whining and …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 06:57 PM
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Try this: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/a2ndes/dont_argue/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb Now reflect on 2 ideas: Jesus did not argue. Joseph has zero words attributed to him in the Bible.
/r/RPChristians12/01/21 05:53 PM
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OYS 9. Age 36, 3 kids under 6, 6ft 170lbs. Need to work on What do I do that impresses me. Judge myself and set my standards. Topics for future: social and financial. I’m leading and it’s just a Better way to be: happy, fun, confident. No argue, whining, complaining, Thanks to u/weakandsensitive and horns for the livestream, so much easier to have a complete discussion and assessment. Plus your abundance and confidence really shows and is a good example. Relationship field report: Background is …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 05:42 PM
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re: being too alpha. Do you think Leo DiCaprio ever gets mad at his girlfriends? No, he does what he wants and has endless options and if the girl gets upset (or turns 25), it’s just next up. Anger, shouting, complaining, fighting with girls reveals to them your a pansy weak beta, and it’s repulsive. You cannot be red pilled and argue with women. #8 and #9 probably helped the most. Sorry for what you endured, please read the sidebar to avoid further chaos. And stop being a whiny pansy.
/r/RPChristians12/01/21 06:10 AM
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Re: Finances. You’re frame is total nonsense here. You’re debating with her and gauging your actions on her responses, revealing your insecurities. I hope you educate yourself and avoid further undermining your value. Read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/8hii49/60_dod_week_6_finances/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb There are some excellent posts about how to manage family finances in an effective way, which is a change from blue pill “she knows just as much as I do” and …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 05:07 PM
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“ I’m continuing to talk with this cute girl at the gym who’s always eager to talk to me and gives me lots of compliments. Married to beta bux. I’m into her as well, a bit too much for my own good. I fight off all of my beta tendencies (always wanting to compliment her, etc). ” And she doesn’t get to see all your unattractive behaviors like your wife does. Another example where you don’t think you’re the prize because what value does this girl offer besides sex? And sex is the minimum a girl sho…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/21 07:15 PM
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I’d recommend you write this in your OYS as a reminder how unattractive you are despite you being in your prime years.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/21 06:59 PM
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So her family has to suffer so she can help other people? Anyway, you got to square this shit away, and lead her towards her primarily responsibilities at home, as these are the expectations you have for a woman in your life. You said you were lazy so good luck with all this, but it’s an opportunity to improve your leadership abilities which you will need so you don’t get back in the same situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/20 02:13 AM
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If you’re making so much why is your wife working? Especially with a toddler. Think about the marginal tax rate for her - pushing 40% or more all in. What’s the point?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 03:05 PM
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Outstanding physical improvement.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 06:48 PM
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Stop worry about her “acceptance.” You don’t need permission to keep yourself healthy. Stop putting any effort to argue. But she will sense if you’re lifting just to impress her.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/20 03:43 PM
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I can understand your view based on what I wrote, but doing MRP has resulted in doing more for me than ever. Lifting is one, and skiing. Of the last 20 times on the mtn she’s been once and damn did I have some great rides. I need to get out the house for myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/20 06:28 PM
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The big milly isn’t what it was, but I like how you’re betting on yourself and enjoying some finer things now. I haven’t found a better way to increase returns on a larger net worth outside of index investing. A $200k salary might only add $50k in savings and on $1mm that’s only 5% and decreasing annually. Thanks for doing this, huge impact to my life, such a better way to live.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/20 07:36 PM
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Thank you for reviewing. 1) Did you bring kids to your Caribbean vacation? I don’t have childcare yet that will watch them 4 days straight, and Willis feel guilty going on my own. I do need to work on this. 2) I am open to help here as I don’t understand what her words mean, especially when she says she gets into eventually. Literally 9/10 when I initiate, but she randomly says these things sometimes. She just seemed more into in years past. I reread https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comme…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/20 02:13 AM
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You know what will really help you? Doing the work, taking action, not daydreaming and feeling sorry for yourself. Lifting and working towards your goals is the most effective way to help you “processes” your fee fees. You’re a grown ass man, stop being such a scared pansy Of course you shouldn’t care what others might say, but you should think, “wow writing I’m a shattered puzzle is such a bitch thing to say, maybe I should do things that help move me forward.” Say it: You’re not a fish, you’re…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/20 06:44 PM
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You’re doing pretty good, and sounds like no danger of going Rambo. But I think you have some validation /insecurity . Read: Validation needs that can poison your sex life. On Walmart.com I saw a bunch of racks back in stock. Not sure how lifting and climbing are going to work out for you. As you gain muscle weight, that will put even more stress on your joints/tendons. One benefit of climbing gym is super social girls and no fatties, great spot to chat it up. Read Dave Ramsey and start planning…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/20 06:22 PM
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I think your problem is that you don’t have anything better to do in your life. I’m sure you’re always hanging around her like a hungry dog hoping for a pat on the head. How do you have time/stomach for this shit: “My main issue this week was realizing I get hurt by things she does and then I react. I sat down and made a list of those things and then began processing them - what happened, how’d it make me feel, how did I react, what’s my impression of the person, how do I do the same thing, etc”…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 09:18 PM
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Why haven’t you posted your lifts that led to so much swole?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 03:29 PM
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OYS #8 35, 8yrs married. 3kids under 6, weight 171, 6ft, bf% ~16. All 5x5: bench: 145, squat: 185, dead: 205, ohp: 105. Goals: get out of house more (plan ski trips),lift more. Money+Fun : I am being boring. It’s all my responsibility to do fun stuff but it’s complicated with 3 kids, and wife rarely has ideas. Seems strange when I ask for ideas for next weeks and she has none. But I do lead and guide her help with logistics. Friends are wary of COVID and are not meeting. One of the most importan…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 03:28 PM
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Let’s recap: you say again you’re not sure I’m retarded, but then say I made two good points. Do you usually agree with retards in your life? Since you’re the one who is slow to think, I’ll be simple. Be authentic here (no need to think for a few days about responses or defend yourself) because even though you might get grilled, at least your blue pill bitch mentality will be clearly seen. It’s about identifying blind spots. Start thinking for yourself, and if someone provides useful advice, no …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/20 05:50 AM
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That’s my point- don’t be focused on getting out of your head, be focused on Action.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 11:36 PM
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You have no kids. What is the downside of doing whatever you want and not being a pansy ass worrying about your wife? Your goals suck, like a child who can’t manage their bedtime. Your mission is bullshit ironically. Almost a year here with little progress...
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 06:22 PM
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How many people did you have and what were they doing not bringing in revenue? Why did you speak to a lawyer? Great job by the way leading the meal, see how you can actually enjoy your life by DOING it vs being a scared pansy in your head?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 06:17 PM
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It takes you a few days to know if someone else is retarded? I can tell instantly, like when someone is considering having a kid with a girl who was planning to leave just a few months prior.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 06:45 AM
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I think she’s feeling dread with your quick changes and trying to placate you. Did she give you the ILYBINILWY speech? Why are you so focused on partnership with her? You have a fantasy that if she has more responsibilities/knowledge about finances she will love you more. She doesn’t care about money.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 10:25 PM
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Where are you goals besides business?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 10:17 PM
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Best lesson from MRP for me was to stop letting fear get in the way of action.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 10:11 PM
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Hey you didn’t finish telling us how you lost hundreds of thousands of dollars, how did it go? Why did you do all that farm work when you didn’t want to? What other things do you do that you don’t want? Did you explicitly vocalize this to her? “ If I am the prize, then she can join me in what I want my life to be about. This is the first time I’ve stated that my marriage will not be centered around her (or any) woman.” Are you back to the weekly “where are we at” talks?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 08:50 PM
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You need Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey. Look at your top 3 expenses: housing, food, cars. Cutting Netflix isn’t going to have the same impact as selling $500/mo SUV for something you can afford.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/20 08:41 PM
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Oh, why would I ever question that you are doing the work when you haven’t done jack shit for the past year? Why would I think you’ve stopped lying? So how about you have some discipline and follow the program? This is your problem: no discipline resulting in no work and no progress. Until you find a better motivation than banging your wife, you’re just a dancing monkey.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/20 08:37 PM
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You’ve been here over a year and only gotten fatter: “ Own Your Shit Weekly - October 29, 2019 bluepillbandit 1y OYS #1 Stats Age: 40- 6'3" 93kg”. You’re an undisciplined, defensive liar wasting your life and everyone’s time here. On Nov 17th you bullshitted all sorts of goals like quitting drinking, losing weight, “exercising” for 10 mins per day, etc, and after just one week you gave up! Why don’t you try actually doing something instead of bullshitting yourself and journaling? You create cove…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 04:10 AM
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Stop depending on your wife’s moods to influence yours. You need to be happy and confident, that has little to do with her. Listen to the livestream from u/weakandsensitive for the Nov 10 oys https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=BLOvcFzYwQA. Lot of good discussion of positive mindset, which you’re missing.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 10:03 PM
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You’ve been here over a year and only gotten fatter: “ Own Your Shit Weekly - October 29, 2019 bluepillbandit 1y OYS #1 Stats Age: 40- 6'3" 93kg”. You’re an undisciplined, defensive liar wasting your life and everyone’s time here. You’re desperate sleeking sexual validation and trying to pathetically negotiate desire . “ Wife does make a habit of using “sickness” as an excuse not to have sex. I’m assuming at this point I’m just not attractive enough and am not gaming enough to build the tension.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 06:59 PM
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What do you want? What are your goals? Then take action. You’re wife saying “be authentic “ is because you’re a scared, whiny, pussy bitch that does nothing but try and hide and avoid reality. The way you’re going to get better is by taking action and failing, then realizing you’re fine and can handle it. Why do you want to stain your “wife’s” portch? Your whole post is victim-based. Do you realize you’re the only one to blame?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 07:07 AM
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You are so autistic I can’t believe you an adult. You’re beyond help if you can’t read and understand the sidebar. You haven’t don’t shit or gotten serious about anything other than being the biggest pussy I have ever heard of. Slugs have more spine than you. You have zero mental point of origin. Let u/sodarishnod be the example of no MPO and a good laugh at how shitty your life can be if you’re a pussy bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/20 06:35 AM
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You’re totally avoiding basic questions to protect your ego. I guarantee you will not improve/change without admitting a failed approach resulting in not achieving the outcome you want. You can barely even say what you want, because that will clearly reveal you’re not getting it. Stop being a pussy and just say I fucked up here, I want to change and I’ll do the work. Back to clown-world: so you kept paying a bunch of people for months who weren’t bringing in revenue?? Well just like in your pers…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/20 05:53 PM
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You are so fucked up you don’t even realize you are. Is it your ego that’s preventing you from seeing reality? At least you admitted you slacked on doing anything. How do you “make” $330k and then have nothing? Was it at least fun to light that on fire? Keep it coming dude! Just let it all out, confess to us instead of bothering your friends, at least we can get a good laugh! Ok did she ever work? Build more than 10% of the net worth? I’ll assume no, so this is all your hard work and house, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 06:42 PM
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Don’t you think it’s a covert contract by saying I’ve been doing all this work and you should be banging me? But if you don’t bang me I’ll cheat? You think going to a nice hotel for a night or two is elaborate and expensive? Are you too butthurt to have any fun? Your ego is afraid of failure and you’re butthurt. You will be fine not banging for a bit. Don’t take her rejections personally, don’t get bitter, it doesn’t help. Lead, have fun. Don’t be a victim bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 04:28 AM
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Dude- this might be the first week you’ve written down the same goal (90kg), congrats. But what is going to get you there is consist calorie tracking and eating under your limit. I think you’re an alcoholic, and you couldn’t even make it 30 days dry, and you “had a serious talk” with your wife too. The clear sign of an alcoholic is lying, all the time , about everything. All you do is write bullshit here and accomplish nothing. Train for 10 minutes - haha what a joke!! “ Own Your Shit Weekly - O…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 04:18 AM
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What are you doing to lead your relationship? You still seem attracted to her- write what kino/initiations you’re doing. What fun or meaningful activities are you doing with your fam? You’re very plough-horse proud with your work, but you do realize 30% + goes to govt and then half to her? WTF are these “rules?”( no touching, can’t eat at the table with the family on ‘her’ nights, the only conversation is logistics, ) Wtf you can’t eat with your family in your own house?? You can’t talk about wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 10:57 PM
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“become a man worth fucking. Well, I am that man. “ “Hi guys, I want to bang my wife more but I’m too busy doing home owner board and little league stuff, and she doesn’t find me attractive- what magic tricks can I learn to fix this without any change in my mental models or behavior? I heard there was a red pill I could just take?” You’re a dancing monkey who has a victim complex. You’re getting butthurt at her rejections- very unattractive. I’ve been there. But good job kino and initiating, bec…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 10:45 PM
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Ok I’ll accept that, I had only thought of covert contracts as an expectation of action or effort, not her leaving me alone. And I certainly wasn’t motivated by a reward of being left alone. But I will not be shushed/ scolded in my own house busted ass or not!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 10:23 PM
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OYS #7 35, 8yrs married. 3kids under 6, weight 171 (-1), 6ft, bf% ~16. All 5x5: bench: 155, squat: 205, dead: 225, ohp: 105. I worked over the weekend remodeling my bathroom and it was the hardest physically I’ve worked in years. Long days, bruises, small cuts, shit in my eyes; got a lot done, and Im proud I did more than I thought I could do. I come down sat night to have a drink alone and watch the game, and at 830pm she’s trying to go to sleep and says I’m being too loud. I’m ducking beat so …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 07:33 PM
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“Hi guys, I want to bang my wife more but I’m too busy doing home owner board and little league stuff, and she doesn’t find me attractive- what magic tricks can I learn to fix this without any change in my mental models or behavior? I heard there was a red pill I could just take?”
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 04:57 PM
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He’s confusing activity with accomplishments.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 07:55 PM
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Woah dude, slow your roll, you have way too many different goals and some are pretty aggressive so you’re going to be stressed and not calm and controlled. 22lbs in 3 months isn’t gong to happen. set a calorie target and hit that daily, especially because you’re so small now. It’s habit/behavior that’s going to move you forward. “ Have tried to state my case that I'm not someone that enjoys being nagged or talked down to.” You are fucking up here, don’t negotiate how you want to be treated. Set …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 07:53 PM
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You applied for a job with no salary range posted or any idea? Did you ask the initial recruiter? What basis do you have for the upside salary via promotions?
/r/askMRP04/11/20 06:01 PM
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Write down in next OYS your system for losing weight and how you’ve followed it. May help others to see your example. “ I feel severe resentment.” Resent your dumb-ass self for being a retard. Are you mad at children for their “lies” about the tooth fairy? Channel your butthurt into improving your pathetic lifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/20 04:48 PM
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Why are you afraid of living alone?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/20 04:42 PM
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I asked what do you want it to be, not for excuses on why it won’t get better. How frequent would you like sex? (25 years take 25 months to fix, you’ve been posting for 18 months and shown 0 mental or sex progress because you’re delusional. You’ve started self censoring your posts in fear of further exposing your delusional ego. Why don’t you cut the bullshit, answer simple questions and start small steps of doing the work).
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 10:42 PM
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Do you feel dumb bullshitting your self to anonymous dudes on the internet? 6+ beers daily is clearly alcohol abuse. I replied about your nonsense goals back in June, and you haven’t done shit since then and now you write “get consistency.” Well you consistently bullshit and do and say nothing so congrats! Why are you here if you won’t follow the program and do any work?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 07:34 PM
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Uhm, the title of this subreddit says sexual strategy for married men. You’re on track for 2x annually - you good with that? If not, how about including what your goal for frequency is with your OYS. Maybe if you write it down it will help your delusional avoidance.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 06:02 PM
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When’s the last time you had sex?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 02:00 PM
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Last week you wrote: “ Until 10 days ago I have been drinking a minimum of 6 beers a night every night. ” Plus you’ve been here a year, and you just wrote hundreds of words of nonsense, and you’re too afraid of failure to even write 1 goal. Why not ask your doctor to screen you?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 01:53 PM
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Any plans to address your alcoholism?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 06:03 AM
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Imagine you come home and you smell shit, like that strong whiff and immediately you search for the source, which is a huge dump in the middle of the hallway. But your wife is there holding some in her hand, which she then smears on her chest, and then extends her hand and walks toward you. You’re revolted and shocked and start backing away.. This is what she feels if you have this talk: “ overt conversation with my wife about my needs and that I was going to follow it up with another conversati…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 06:00 AM
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You sound as fun as dark sink hole, you haven’t done much in the past 2 years, and no your goals such as “more time on hobbies” aren’t specific. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/20 02:11 AM
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It’s about 5:1 me giving kino, and for a day or two after sex, I feel totally fine and don’t notice the lack of her touch. I do like your idea of not waiting and just do it and stop the entitlement.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 08:20 PM
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You’ve been here years and you’re still “in her frame” and have a dead bedroom? When’s the last time you had sex? What do you want it to be? How much kino are you doing? What’s the plan? What are your specific goals?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 05:35 PM
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I hope you seek treatment for your addiction for your sake and your family. Maybe a friend can talk with you, or you can visit an AA meeting. There’s no point in addressing any other of your issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 05:40 AM
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You’re an alcoholic and full of bullshit and excuses and I don’t think anything is going to improve until you work on your addiction.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 02:38 AM
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Now that your victim puke is over, what’s the gym plan? Lifting is an OYS requirement. Read total money makeover by Dave Ramsey. You must get a huge tax return, must be nice. MRP is like being born in America, you can make it rich but you gotta work.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 06:06 PM
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Your answer doesn’t square with this: “ I know you're supposed to initiate all the time, but with kids, work, life bed time initiations are the reality. Makes leaving basically impossible. You've rejected me, so now i'm going to the gym at 11PM.” What’s the truth? Do you have control of your life or not? Why can’t you make 9pm free for you and her? Why are you blaming the kids? You think divorce is going to help the kids? A dad who isn’t a beta bitch would be better. When banging on a rock to br…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 05:52 PM
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OYS #6 35, 8yrs married. 3kids under 6, weight 171 (-1), 6ft, bf% ~16. All 5x5: bench: 155, squat: 205, dead: 225, ohp: 105. After 2 years here, little changes have added up and I still need to do the work. I need to believe in myself, that things will be ok, and to have faith. What’s important: Family, health/body, friends, giving back. Attraction and leadership. Top problem of the week: Strong butthurt feelings about her not spending time with me/no kino from her. I take words/rejections too p…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 05:25 PM
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Last week: “Regarding the initiations: the vast majority of the initiations are at bed time. I know you're supposed to initiate all the time, but with kids, work, life bed time initiations are the reality. Makes leaving basically impossible. You've rejected me, so now i'm going to the gym at 11PM or I'm going to go build a table in the garage. I have lots of progress on myself. Almost zero progress on my relationship. And yes I agree something isn't right. Not sure if it something I'm overlookin…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 05:18 PM
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Relax Rambo- nuking your family isn’t the next step if you’re not even trying to get your needs met. You need 1 month for every year to fix - it’s only been 6mos here. You need to try kino and game/flirt more. Try that little step and see how it goes. Touching and kisses during the day doesn’t always immediately progress to sex. It’s like a whole article was written about this... Also ask yourself why can’t I manage my time so that by 9pm you and wife are free of kids? What needs to change? Thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 06:26 PM
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Good work avoiding simple questions, hope that works out for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 05:50 AM
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Since you’re putting your needs last, why are you complaining about them not being met? You’ve listed lots of reasons/excuses that are more important. Do you think you might be over looking something?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 05:02 AM
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You’re doing 5x5 and lifting 3x week and can only do 130 bench at 200lbs- you’re lying about something, are you a liar or do you want to admit the truth? You’re still fat. What target weight would fix that? Write it down on your next OYS .
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 10:57 PM
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There’s an article about initiating, and if she turns you down , you’re ready to head to the gym like you were planning on that. Don’t reward her with your presence and emotional validation when she’s not meeting your needs. Why is it hard for you to have an alternate plan? Don’t you have a house? Shit always needs repair so you can at least head to Home Depot if she rejects your initiation . Don’t be butthurt, but I guess if you’re ok going 2 mo without you’ve accepted it. Something isn’t right…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 07:17 PM
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Do you think you are depending on her to have fun? Start living your life and do stuff you want to do , and invite her (or not). I struggled with this, thinking about what she may find fun, or if she/kids could handle it. Then I went fishing by myself and it was ducking rad.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 05:00 PM
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Epic ownage. Funny how he replies no one has talked to him like that before and he doesn’t realize it’s not because people were afraid they just knew he was a bitch loser and wasn’t worth the effort. Satellite operator is specifically apt for a fat little bullshitting midget.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 04:45 PM
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You weigh over 200lbs and can only bench 130. You’re either over 60 years or a lazy bullshitter. And fat. Got any goals you’d like to share? Why are you here?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 04:26 PM
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You’re in a bad place right now, and while mentally escaping with games is appealing, it’s the pussy way. Maybe you don’t care about losing half your money and more for years or some random dude banging your wife and hanging around your kids. Keep on mashing the joystick.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 04:20 PM
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Weld test didn’t go as you hoped? Because it’s a dice roll or because you didn’t put the work in to pass it? Why can’t you say you failed it? You are full of excuses, own your fuck ups.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 10:12 PM
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Wow so STFU and fogging worked to minimize arguments for you? Shocking! Like I said last week, you’re trying to cut down a tree with a hammer because you felt like the saw wouldn’t work. It’s you that doesn’t work. Literally the first advice from the first pinned post is STFU, and it took you 18 months to try it. She’s become your god, and you think all your beta supplication and sacrifice will impress her. You’re a simp. How long since you had sex sodarishnod? Read: https://www.reddit.com/r/mar…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 06:48 PM
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Before you get banned , post your age and lifts. You know, reading the directions cause you’re a smarty college guy I bet you can.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/20 05:20 PM
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You are bullshitting yourself by saying you have taken all the advice here. You have not. 2 glaring examples: Weekly “where are we at talks” = ignoring advice to STFU Requesting sex = ignoring Kino and attractive advice. You need to start figuring out if the advice is working to get what you want. These are tools. I wouldn’t use a hammer chop down a tree because I tried a different tool called a saw and it worked way better to achieve the goal I want of chopping the tree down. The goal is to cho…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/20 04:37 PM
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Wow another dude here for a year that can’t bench over 100lbs. Glad to hear you respect lifting websites, but maybe you can respect the program here and start StrongLifts 5x5 and actually lift some weights? There’s even a free app that’s really simple. Edit: OMFG 4+ years you’ve been posting. Why? Why do this if it’s not working for you? Why waste your and our time writing about doing fuck all? Do I want to know the answer...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/20 06:06 PM
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Your first OYS was 4/9/19, 18 months ago. What advice here says share a list of reasons why your wife should stay with you? Or having weekly “where are we at” talk? Why lie that you’ve “taken all the advice?” It looks like your mission is: keep my fat old disrespectful roommate from leaving my delusional ass. Then you come here and try and bullshit anon internet people. Enjoy the ride buddy!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/20 04:44 PM
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Do you think all your excuses are helping you overcome your fears and grow? Why don’t you try being a man and commit to putting in the work of 2x lofting per week. If you can’t manage your schedule to do that, you’re either full of shit, or another beta plow horse that will be worked to death and no one will care (there’s a good post about that). I remember a coworker who used to come in on weekends, and my only thought was why does it take you more time to do the same work? 5 years later no one…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/20 04:13 PM
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Since you’ve ignored all the sidebar knowledge and good advice so far, do you think you can handle when she moves out/fucks other guys? Since your roommate has told you she plans on leaving and taking half (or more) or your net worth, and plenty of future income, are you in a good spot or do you you think stoping your delusions will help? (BTW all the talking with her is just you helping her build the case in her mind that you’re worthless and bad)
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 07:20 PM
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You’ve been posting here over 1.5 years, and your lifts have gone down in the past year - how is that possible?? And your lifts suck, and I say that because my lifts suck and yours are worse than mine.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 04:59 PM
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You’ve been posting here 2 years, saying you’ve been lifting, and your bench press has gone down from 95lbs to 82lbs - Are you a women? Are you missing an arm? I was under-eating for the first 6 months: eat way more eggs, drink 1000 cal protein shake every night, and as much meat as you can eat during the day. Are you even lifting 1x week? Can you you commit to that or even 2x week? You can’t find time for lifting?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 04:53 PM
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OYS #5 35, 8yrs married. 3kids under 6, weight 171 (-1), 6ft, bf% ~16. All 5x5: bench: 155, squat: 205, dead: 225, ohp: 105. This OYS writing process has helped my resolve greatly, and combined with /u/sepean post really helped me start trying one new thing, and all these small actions are adding up big. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/izj8l8/execution_focus_and_self_evaluation/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb Physical: Goals: 185 bench, 2xBW dead, 2xBW sqt. 180lbs, not keeping…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 04:37 PM
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You are totally self deluded when you’re so worried about losing her you think a fat old hag adds any value to your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 06:00 PM
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OYS #5 35, 8yrs married. 3kids under 6, weight 171 (-1), 6ft, bf% ~16. All 5x5: bench: 155, squat: 205, dead: 215, ohp: 105. I haven’t played video games 10+ years, no smoking, no whining/complaining, no DEER. Goal: 180lbs, not keeping up with the calorie needs to get there, but I continue to try and track. My motivation to gain weight is a general self challenge and belief and experience of hitting my goals. I want to be stronger to support long term health and attractiveness. Mindset issues: V…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 05:41 PM
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Dude, I cannot imagine a 155lb. 5”4 women as hot, especially at 50. Ever hear of oneitis? The pain will be worse the more you BS yourself. Mila Kunis is 5”4 and weighs 120 and she looks normal, how can another 35lbs of blubber be attractive??
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 06:09 PM
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OYS #4 35, 8yrs married. 3kids under 6, weight 171 (-1), 6ft, bf% ~16. All 5x5: bench: 155, squat: 205, dead: 215, ohp: 105. Goal: 180lbs, not keeping up with the calorie needs to get there, but I continue to try and track. My motivation to gain weight is a general self challenge and belief and experience of hitting my goals. I want to be stronger to support long term health. Thank you /u/weakandsensitive for your time and advice reviewing live, and it does really help to label timestamps. NO! I…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 05:41 PM
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OYS #3 35, 8yrs married. 3kids under 6, weight 171 (-1), 6ft, bf% ~16. All 5x5: bench: 155, squat: 205, dead: 215, ohp: 105. Thanks for /u/weakandsensitive for reviewing my #2 OYS live- ego hit on my lifting progress as it’s been about 18 months, and yes I’m working on attitude especially with kids. Goals: -180lb weight by year end. That’s 2lb/mo and I’ve barely gained 2lbs in the past 8. I’ve been missing calorie targets because I feel nauseous eating 3,000 daily. I have improved breakfast inta…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/20 04:41 AM
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OYS #2 35, 8yrs married. 3kids under 6, weight 171 (-1), 6ft, bf% ~16. All 5x5: bench: 155, squat: 205, dead: 215, ohp: 105. I don’t: complain anymore, self deprecate, argue, miss lifting, give advice/convince. Read: Rational male, NMMNG, rian Stone vids, sidebar. Goals: 180lb weight by year end. That’s 2lb/mo and I’ve barely gained 2lbs in the past 8. I’ve been missing calorie targets because I feel nauseous eating 3,000 daily. 1/7 days met, but I have improved breakfast intake to nearly 1000ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 04:39 PM
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I have 1, and we’ve met up in 3rd world countries, AK hunts/fish , HI stuff (probably saved me from drowning). Some of the best experiences of my life. Visits have dropped off, mostly due to me feeling guilty about leaving wife to watch 3 young kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 06:03 PM
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Yes I agree, and heard a similar insight about food from Rian Stone. The weird/sad aspect is that frequency hasn’t changed at all for the past 9 years and I’m happy at the same level now, that it was the displayed desire I wasn’t satisfied with.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 05:57 PM
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Finances: Start with Dave Ramsey “total money makeover.” Also mr money mustache and Bogleheads. Most important step is realizing you are responsible whether you or her are budgeting, so make sure it’s taken care of.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 04:42 PM
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OYS #1 35, 8yrs married. 3kids under 6, weight 172, 6ft, bf% ~16. All 5x5: bench: 155, squat: 205, dead: 215, ohp: 105. I’m grateful for this community for helping me kill complacencies and become a stronger man and father. I don’t: complain anymore, self deprecate, argue, miss lifting, give advice/convince. Read: Rational male, NMMNG, rian Stone vids, sidebar. Goals: 180lb weight by year end. That’s 2lb/mo and I’ve barely gained 4lbs in the past 8. I’ve been missing calorie targets because I fe…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 03:48 PM
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Less than a month ago you reported 95kg weight, now you’re up 3 (6.6lbs)?? You get your dick wet 1 time and you’re off the wagon? You are much better writing specific actions, stick with writing down the goal, reviewing if you made it or not, then what you need to do. Like do you have a weight goal? What is it? A protein goal? What is it? Stop with the vague “plan” like get back to reading. Write down: I will read 50 pages this week, meditate 3x on these days, etc. You’re not a man if you can’t …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/20 05:07 PM
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What is your mission? To feel validated by your wife? That’s seems to be your highest priority right now. I know the ego hit sucks when she turns you down, but you’ve got to change your mindset. Be the prize , control your mood and enjoy your great fun life. Don’t even worry about what she thinks or might be thinking. Weirdly another guy I replied too has the same obsession with initiating daily. Dude you need to GAME her, not badger. It’s a dance not a chore. Maybe another way to get over your …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 06:00 PM
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Median age of death: 80. Even shitlib wiki shows the data that morality is basically 0 for under age 60: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mortality_due_to_COVID-19 Given the importance of these data , I’m shocked they aren’t at the top of every new story. You’d like this reporter: https://mobile.twitter.com/AlexBerenson
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/20 08:08 PM
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Wait, you hit all your morning routines in the past week when prior you hit none? That’s a big change! Beware going Rambo, it’s an admission you’re a scared , confused bitch that can’t handle modern life which is the easiest time to be alive. You’re probably going Rambo because you’re in your head all the time, ignoring/escaping reality and your jolted when you do have to interact with wife. You’re been a space cadet from day 1 here, but you’re getting better. Start using this as a dairy to to w…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/20 04:50 AM
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I’m glad to see you can admit failing on the morning routine- and the only damaged is your ego, but I hope you gain the confidence to set a goal and work toward it instead of wallowing in fear and passivity over fear of failing. It’s ok to fail because most of the time you can handle the consequences. Own your choices. Awesome to see bed time going better. Don’t give up and give in to despair. You’re a man and can influence your environment. Enjoy these small quick wins, because it gets harder b…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 06:28 PM
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Blarg gave you a crystal ball and you smashed it like a angry chimp. Your immaturity has consequences and your only way out of this volitle (1st infant and family drama) is to lead, not add fuel. When saying “no,” frame as saying yes to something more important. SAHM have tons of free time, infants sleep more than awake, and just sit/lay all day. Lead her to something more important. You are correct in not wanting to enable BIL behavior, but you can’t do it out of spite, especially toward family…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 05:32 PM
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They’re afraid. There are real consequences to opposing the narrative, professionally and socially, and many stories of UK police showing up and arresting people for tweeting wrongthink. The west has been the exception to tyranny, freedom isn’t common, nor free, and looks like not enough people want to pay the price. Not sure words help anymore, use your “red pill” knowledge socially and avoid debates and follow your mission. Think of the suffering the apostles glad endured - why do you think yo…
/r/askRPC06/06/20 03:37 PM
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Post your lifts and body fat so we know if you’re doing the work or if we’re wasting our time on you. Post some measurable goals, anything! Are men so afraid of failure they cant write a goal? So much fear, sad it’s paralyzing for so many, myself included.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 08:04 PM
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I’m glad you’re open to following the program. Copy paste these routines you want to change into your OYS going forward. You’ve got a lot of time wasted in those routines, why can’t 10yo walk the dog? Why are young kids staying up until 10pm?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 07:08 PM
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Great improvement on being more specific with your goals, but stop with the “I will” and feeling/rambling. Follow the process and stop worrying how you feel about it and acceptance/ need to work - it’s all poetic nonsense. Your plan for the week is weak. Write in a reply below: “This is my morning routine x,y,z. I followed it #/7 times this week.” If that includes getting up at 6am, write that down. Write down fucking something that you can “fail” at! This is what No more me nice guy is talking …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 05:07 AM
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Stop with the generalities and excuses. Write down the routine, not “I’ll get into one.” Write down a specific goal first, have feeling about it later.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/20 04:59 PM
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I agree with your 3/10 rating because your goals are not specific, so how would you know if you achieved? Write down what you will do better. You’re in sales, the numbers are the measure of accomplishment. Initiate every night is something you can measure- but it won’t help you. How about writing how many times per week you have sex, and that your goal is once more frequently. Then you’ll see the gap. Read the post on validation because I doubt you need sex daily, so that’s why I wouldn’t go Ram…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 06:47 PM
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You need $1,000 right now cash emergency fund. Without this small issues will become worse. You need to live below your means (income). If you’re an average W2 (paycheck) employee, you need to be saving at least 15% of gross to have the hope of retirement and flexibility to handle life emergencies. Read Dave Ramsey “total money makeover.” Read Mr money mustache for ways to reduce frivolous spending. -Saving is the first step to investing. Edit- Let me rephrase: If you don’t have $1,000 cash emer…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 02:21 PM
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Look for a sale/coupon to a Big 5 or Dicks sports for 2in weight set with a 7ft bar. Walmart had china squat cage for $250, works fine. All in <$500.
/r/askMRP17/05/20 06:27 PM
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I had to login just to upvote this dragging
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