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And so be it. It’s insanely cruel, but if these guys can’t find women and create new offspring, their genes won’t be passed on while the guys who can, will. Maybe it’s a Reddit thing, but so much of these discussions are based off of OLD. It is still very easy to meet people in real life if you’re patient, put yourself out there, and build your real life social network I absolutely agree that in OLD, women over estimate their attractiveness. In real life however, things come back down to.., real…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:10 PM
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There are so many generalizations and assumptions in this post and comments! I don't have a strong correlation of age gaps being beneficial or a problem for relationships. I've seen them fail badly and be extremely successful half the time, just like relationships where both partners are similar in age. Assuming much younger means more than 10 years, as with any relationship, values, needs, and goals tend to be better indicators of success than common interests or life experiences. I think a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:41 PM
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My (39m) dating life keeps getting better as I get older. I am very fortunate that I look like I'm 30 years old, so that helps. Having a career, your shit together, and not being a complete immature ass hat helps. Being in shape makes things really easy as well. I've noticed the more lean I am, the more attention from women I get. Being 39 with discipline and a lot of resources helps. My experience in real life differs a lot from OLD though. Most, if not all OLD matches were around my age or sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:20 PM
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Without looking at any data, do both sexes have same obesity figures? (18 to 25 and 25 to 40 year old)? This post would be more compelling if it noted that 65 percent of woman are obese while only 20 percent of men are. I suspect it's even though. I will give OP some credit on this issue and how it relates to OLD. During my brief OLD stint, half the women I matched w I would never talk to in real life due to their size. With equally in pay and women no longer as dependent on men for survival, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:20 PM
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Yeah. I may take my height and color for granted (6', white). I have 2 kids already, so I am at some disadvantage. It is really true about how OLD means men have to date way below their standards while women are able to date way above their standards. However, I believe that this only results in matches and first dates. It doesn't result in sex or relationships and therefore, both sexes are left unhappy. I'm sorry that OLD doesn't result in ANY matches for people. My only advice is to ditch OLD,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:40 PM
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When a guy can't get laid, is it implied he can't at all by lowering his standards? Or is it implied he can't get laid by someone he's attracted to? I stopped online dating because I would constantly match with women that looked good online, but then didn't look very good in real life and were the types of people I'd never hang out with. In turn, this results in me not having sex by choice, as I have access to it if I lower my standards, but I choose not to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:01 AM
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Fair point. Now the real question, are the female and male sample groups sexless by choice? I'd bet a very small portion of the male group is while a very large portion of the female group is....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 06:52 AM
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As a guy? Easy. Hookup material. I'm assuming the 20% of guys who are actually hookup material probably would say relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:18 AM
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It's also possible they need to lower standards. I'm a normal weight but have no problem with larger women approaching me in bar or concert settings. I'd assume that men that have every box checked may have problems with girls of equal attractiveness, but probably not if they lowered their standards. If you have to lower your standards and be with someone you're not even into just for the sake of being with someone though, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:56 PM
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Hopefully they are looking for high value bald guys too
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 12:29 AM
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She looks damn good for 43. Better then half the 25 year olds out there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/20 09:19 PM
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I'd wreck her, but wouldn't lie to her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/18 11:36 PM
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10 inch is really rare. May not even fit inside her unless she's 7 feet tall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/18 05:14 PM
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Can't even tell if she's cute with all the filters
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/18 05:41 PM
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She's a monster
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/18 06:49 PM
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Get fixed. Problem solved. Cream pies for everyone and peace of mind. Best decision I ever made.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 07:06 PM
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I've seen guys do this too. I generally agree with hypergamy theory, but men can also do same shit. Example is a dude getting cut while LTR is content w being fat. Dudes will get a side piece mad men style. Good for the girl if get LTR is an unmotivated slob playing xbox all day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/18 04:13 PM
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if you have had the same poontang for 16 years, like me, you will be lasting long, even going raw dog. Have sex more often.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 02:20 PM
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While I agree that it's not the other dudes problem when dealing with a married or LTR women, why would you boost her ego and give her your time? If men are banging women in relationships without predjutice, doesn't that just fuel the hypergamy cycle? If more men had restraint and didn't fuck around w taken women, I could assure you hypergamy would sharply decline. Even alpha dgaf Chads still can't control themselves for hot pussy, even if that hot pussy is taken.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 07:17 PM
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It's true. As we all know, women that are as low as 4s can go to any bar and find a suitor by 12 am after only 3 or 4 cocktails. As a man, you better be in damn good shape and have awesome game, and above average looks if you're gonna pick up a moderately attractive women in this scenario. Add in logistics and cock blockers, the odds come pretty stacked. If she says you can have a side piece, ask her to set you up with one of your choice then.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/18 02:45 PM
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This is quite the situation. I can see the allure of swinging, as you can both find a piece. However, doing it exclusively independent of each other is just ending relationship. See if she's receptive to you both going with another couple. It works for a lot of people. Otherwise, dump her ass
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/18 02:28 PM
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What is chubby exactly? That sounds like a girl with maybe a little extra weight like a muffin top. If so, that's 70 percent of women. If you're talking fat arms, double chin and a BIF (that's a butt in front fyi), then maybe raise your standards. If you're chubby yourself, then yes you should hit the chubbys. I agree w posters on here though. Don't waste your time. Be productive. A chubby woman is just a reflection of her lack of self control, laziness, and inability to experience any discomfor…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 02:17 PM
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I'd hit it. Pump n dump. She'll probably still settle for short term relationships cause she likes the attention too much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/18 02:08 PM
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It's not time wasted. It will work.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:53 PM
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People of opposite sex are attracted to people that look and are healthy.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:52 PM
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You'll be healtheir and have something to do. People that are stronger are harder to kill and More useful in general
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:49 PM
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Damn that girl you're with looks good. Yeah you need to lift or just lose weight. You're lucky you don't have glasses or are bald yet. Eat high protein diet, have 500 cal deficit and do cardio and lift. Do for 6 months
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:46 PM
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The majority of ultra feminist men and women in my region and age range (32 to 35) do not have kids or only have one. It occurred to me that this dynamic may counter the feminist movement since there will be less offspring raised in feminist households (Or none at all). Could this mean that this movement has already peaked?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 02:21 PM
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Question for OP. What if your wife did same thing as you at party? Would you be bothered?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/18 02:36 PM
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I live in Puyallup too. Been saying it for years, Pacific NW has the worst selection of girls in country. Very feminst. Very entitled. Very content being low sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 10:05 PM
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I don't have a single girl friend or know any between age 28 and 35. Half my guy friends in this range are single though. Where are all the chicks if far more dudes are single? Mgtow? Typical or emerging trend for the older millennial?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 02:00 PM
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Just be strong when she comes crawling back. Don't take her back.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 06:07 AM
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Yeah I shouldn't assume cause beauty is in eyes of beholder. I just thought it was unusual since I saw a lot of examples of it from people I knew
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:06 PM
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Ha I don't care. but I just noticed a correlation. I would assume these guys would have females that were highly desirable since, in theory, they should be as well since they are in upper 20 percent for physique. Not judging, just thought it was interesting since lifting is talked about so much here
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:57 PM
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That's pretty good actually. I understand guys have different tastes but it seems like a pattern
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:39 PM
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Some do. Maybe not homeless, but jobless. Some women take care of these dudes. A guy with game and IDGAF attitude will likely get more attractive and young women then a guy with status and looks that lacks game and cares too much. I think the high status guys do better w hot girls once they hit late 20s early 30s, but they are hitting the wall or have kuds by then.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:11 PM
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They love the IDGAF attitude from guys, regardless of looks or status.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 05:53 AM
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We read this story in my high school anthropology class
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 03:07 PM
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I'd say get you body fat percentage to around 12 percent asap then bulk in fall
/r/askTRP17/05/18 06:33 PM
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It's all about game. I worked with this little stout dude who was 5 foot 3 from Boston. He was like a little leprechaun. He was arrogant as fuck and took no shit from anyone. He banged the hottest intern at our office within a week.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:26 AM
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Those dudes are top .01 percent
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:23 AM
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I agree, but I do think it only helps you if you have more money, power
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 04:41 AM
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Ok cool I wasn't sure. Guess I can recant my statement. Just a spoiled ho.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 03:53 AM
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20 years? That makes her what, 38? NEXT
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 12:57 AM
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One detail over looked in this post was that the wife was also successful as an optometrist. Isn't that a straight up eye doctor? She was probably taking in as much cash as the husband, She had a lot of control in this situation. If the dude had lower smv and lower salary, big recipe for disaster. She also had everything she ever wanted, except DP. While AWALT, you can severly keep them in check if you make far more and are more successful. Career women that have money are more likely to cheat I…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 12:38 AM
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Most hb5 to 7 think they are hb8 to 10, especially if under 30 years old.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 02:57 AM
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Well, she put herself in that situation by drinking. If you want to be safe, just lay in bed and in morning when she sobers up you can smash. Nowadays you can't be too sure though.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:40 PM
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Something isn't right if you have been following TRP for 4 years with zero lays. I'd change things up a bit because clearly whatever you're doing isn't working. Over 4 years, assuming you're less than 15% body fat, and hit a bar every Friday or Saturday, you should be having decent girls approach you once they are a few drinks deep, so long as you give a smile or eye contact.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:29 PM
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He is definitely put on a pedestal by some, but overrated he is not. If you look at some of the greatest American entrepreneurs that shaped history, they faced multiple instances where the company was on brink of financial collapse. Steve Jobs and Walt Disney come to mind. People like Jobs, Disney, and Musk care more about their vision than making money. It's one reason why they are so successful, since they believe so strongly, even in face of all odds. They were never trying to be businessnen.…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 02:22 PM
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Damn dude, in retrospect, this would have been perfect situation for that but I didn't think of it. At least from what I could see, these girls left club alone. They were looking though
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:19 PM
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Thanks dude. Yeah she may have been out of my league, hard to tell w all the makeup. It sucks cause I have decent day game, but my night game has been off lately.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:00 PM
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Don't get too caught up in Instagram posts. They are very superficial and never tell the whole story.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:41 PM
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Are you serious? My first lay was at a house party. I just got drunk AF with this girl and took her into my friends bedroom. It wasn't the best sex and was a huge risk, but it was easy. It was an asshole move to my friend, as we wrecked his bed. Now that I'm older and house parties are less common with me, I can definitely attest that they have the highest likelihood to lead to sex, outside of maybe partying in a hotel. Just go in and scope out a bedroom, bathroom, closet, tool shed, whatever, g…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:37 PM
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If the dude has a hot wife, you could always swing.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 12:45 AM
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They are sexy if done right and not too many. Entire lower back or neck tattoos are distracting
/r/askTRP05/05/18 03:39 PM
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No need to be a douche about it. Some of the most intelligent and mentally capable men out there are very skinny. They spend more time in research and academia than lifting. In a physical way, they probably are beta, but in leading their respective "tribe", are surely alpha. Steve jobs, Bill Gates, Stephen hawking, Prince. These guys were likely physically weak.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 03:35 PM
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This is pretty good, but keep in mind some conservative values, such as strong religious focus and ignoring scientific facts seems contrary to the points you raised.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 03:29 PM
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Damn. I'll take care of her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/18 04:59 AM
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I don't have a source and guys do get friend zoned, but this whole thing looks fake
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/18 04:55 AM
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I work for local government. I find more and more women hold government jobs, with exception of construction (though, even some in that field). I have noticed that many government leadership positions are handed to women who don't qualify for them. Many lack vision or the ability to discipline their staff. While there are many well documented issues with women in work place, including over emotional management styles, lots of time off for health issues, and inability to take risks, I think we ar…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 02:46 PM
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Shes gotta be 47
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/18 03:26 AM
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Is that mama joon?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/18 03:23 AM
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The warriors
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:17 AM
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This dude was a boss. He straight up owned that entire situation.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 03:49 PM
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Even if guy is beta, it's legit possible his SMV may be declining faster than hers. If the guy isn't improving and content with mediocrity, good for her. But if she is dumping a high status man just to think she can get back on the CC, she's obviously delusional. She'll also come crawling back
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 06:11 PM
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81st dates impression of her vag It's like throwing a hot dog down the hall way
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/18 07:25 PM
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My understanding is 8 is pretty rare. Must be a big, wide open girl or doesn't know what she's really in for. This looks like a joke
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/18 07:21 PM
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Yeah probably, but no way regularly.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 02:45 PM
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There seems to be a shorter supply of good looking 21 to 30 yo females in the Pacific NW
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 03:36 AM
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I've noticed a lot of ultra liberal women just straight up leave the dating game. They just backpack, rock climb, kayak, etc. This seems common up here in Seattle. Straight up just denying themselves pleasure. Usually white females, late 20s, educated, middle class upbringing, went to UW. Lives in Seattle.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 03:20 PM
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They could be swingers too.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 03:17 PM
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I generally agree with the OP. One thing I do like about porn though is that you take away a lot of women's power by having it at your disposal. Instead of going through shit tests and having to earn sex, you can just rub one out and tell her to eff off. This is only applicable to married life as a last resort if you don't have any plates or no dread game going though.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 02:49 PM
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Very interesting article with some good points. With my experiences, I have tended to get better outcomes when I hide my cards. Women are truly messed up in the head and want to figure things out themselves. Its like they perceive you as high value if you don't let them know you are sexually interested. If you're telling em you want to knock boots right out of the gate, they'll most likely lose attraction to you since you have already validated their ego. Women always want what they can't have a…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 03:32 PM
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No. I still cum and it feels great. Even better is knowing I can cum inside bitches and not worried about unwanted offspring.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 01:43 PM
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I'm not completely sold on the status argument. I see low smv and low status males pull attractive girls all the time simply because they have great game. The woman may leave a LTR with a low status dude, but there are still lots of good looking women that flock to them.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 05:24 PM
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This is pretty good and something I have been struggling with in my marriage. Been together 16 years, married for 7. Two kids, house, vacations, six figure job, attractive and ripped, yet my wife is going through a mid life crisis. She's loaded on anti depressants, ultra caffeinated in morning and stoned as fuck in evening. Addicted to attention and was txting dudes behind my back. Wants to be single and even leave the kids, yet, I fuck the shit out of her, making her scream and cum everywhere. …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 05:12 PM
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Great post and so true. Seems even more prevelent with attractive women.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 03:40 PM
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