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What the minor differences?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 07:55 PM
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How do you approach women? If you don’t use apps
/r/askTRP30/09/19 10:02 AM
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Got any suggestions other than Tom?
/r/askTRP10/08/19 03:27 PM
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Il check it out- yep one is an inch taller, other 2 inches taller- so not too bad
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:21 AM
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When you mean keep the hamster running, what you mean? Keep it sexual?
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:36 PM
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So kiss is not about emotions. It’s about what you achieve with the kiss? So don’t go for kiss unless before you have a chance to f close? So those chumps who kiss first date it’s pointless?
/r/askTRP28/06/19 07:41 AM
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What about second date?
/r/askTRP27/06/19 10:23 PM
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What about how often to kiss on first and second dates? I always feel I’m trying to get too many kissing sessions
/r/askTRP27/06/19 10:19 PM
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So in those circumstances if I plan something in the future the correct approach is to listen but not discuss it or “treat” her. I.e don’t fall for the shit, just be in your own frame. I sometimes wonder how being in your own frame is not similar to not giving a shit about other people? If I don’t speak and listen to what people have to say, or even talk a little about myself- then I will just come across like an alpha bro
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:30 AM
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Thanks! So in those cases best to avoid even platings? Seems I dodged a bullet then- girl told me she was emotional cos she got abused by her ex.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:12 AM
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For those who are abuse victims from ex’s? Why is that a red flag? What problems will it cause if you plate them or worse LTR them?
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:07 AM
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do you use tinder? Or day game?
/r/askTRP24/06/19 07:12 PM
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So I found out the reason. I made a gay tinder with a diff name cos my friend (he gay) says it’s way more busy. And tried it for like a few hours and got a shit ton of matches. Made my profile but to everyone (straight and gay)then got bored and deleted it. She knows I don’t use social media and she can’t see much of me online. So she’s paranoid I’m some weirdo. Anyway I won’t apologise cos I am free to do what I want. But I dunno if worth explaining cos she’s still moody but speaking? Diff name…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:05 PM
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Il try and explain because I’ve had the exact same problem as you. Basically in real life no one is this alpha male that we describe in books. We are just people who are not stoic not always gaming chicks but having some conversations and chatting about each other’s lives. Sex is something that comes after you learn about each other. You gotta live a little and enjoy the company not be a poster of I am Kal Drogo. He’s a book character, he doesn’t exist in this days society.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:04 PM
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Thanks brother!
/r/askTRP23/06/19 03:52 PM
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The only thing I can think of is that she said I tried to touch her too much or that sometimes I put my hands on her throat when we started to passionately kiss (she said she had been abused by her ex afterwards) or the way I took her to my place? I’m totally not sure because I thought I was quite “player vibe”- smooth and quite unprovokable... Edit: so thought about it more. There was a moment where we had a misunderstanding earlier and also a discussion about racism that I think were too heavy…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:45 AM
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Need some advice. The girl messaged me out of the blue saying she doesn’t wanna see me. I give a bad vibe. She says. Prob cos I told her come to my place. I realised maybe I should just let it drop or maybe discuss it with her?
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:03 AM
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Maybe you are too easily available. women gain a lot more interest when you dread or become busy. It’s like the popular guy in a class- everyone wants to be round him but he’s not available easily
/r/askTRP22/06/19 04:33 PM
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Thanks, much appreciated. I tried gaming less but she tries to test more. From my experience with other women she enjoys being lead but she’s a bit scared of letting go. She mentioned something about abusive ex dunno if it means much. Anyway il try next date directly at my place, if she rejects it out right guess il next her
/r/askTRP21/06/19 09:55 PM
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I wrote details of the whole date on the main ask trp- could you look at that instead please? Should be in my post history
/r/askTRP21/06/19 09:45 PM
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Thanks brother!
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:33 PM
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Yeah I was a bit but I remember to be aloof and amused so I used that to mask it a bit. Next time though il be more my way without speaking and more doing. Thanks a lot brother. As for next date I see her- should I do same thing or go out somewhere else then say we going to my place? Atm I feel like not speaking f to her for a bit and then arrange next meet
/r/askTRP21/06/19 07:26 PM
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I went upstairs and dropped my stuff off. Guess I should have just stayed up stairs. She waiting downstairs for me lol. Man guess I learn. She messaged me straight away when I got back saying I left my water bottle in her bag. Not gonna bother with reply and I’m seeing another plate tonight. So as for details: initially she tried to hold back and not kiss me. When we got on the balcony of the art gallery and a bit of push and pull- I pulled her gently close and we kissed. Later we had a few more…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:54 PM
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So I got a q. This girl who I mentioned earlier. 2nd date and I wanted her to come to my place. As we reach the place she says she thinks I’m a fuck boy. And says it through out the rest of the date. Even saying don’t do this don’t hold me on the waist etc. Obv just laugh and ignore or smile. She doesn’t resist but just speak this. Anyway she never came to my place and I didn’t push it- but she mentioned she thinks I’m a fuck boy. Not sure what that means?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:22 PM
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I felt it was to provoke a response. She asked if our next date I planned was gonna be long cos it started quite early(3pm). I’ve had plans after so I said not late. She then said “cos someone else asked me out on a date and I will go with them after”. I replied with that’s ok. Next day she tells me she’s free the day before our date if I wanna meet too and I had to change the date time anyway to later and she was happy with that. She knows I’m in demand, and I get checked out a lot when we walk…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:35 AM
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One of my plates said she was seeing other guys. Should I tell her the same? Or is it pointless to tell them?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:24 AM
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Kinda did that mistake with a plate. I think best I can do now is not give her too much attention and never bring it up. Also when a woman asks if you want to hear about her ex abusive tendencies- I’m not interested, so just change the subject?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:16 AM
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If you do something wrong to a woman, like be rude to her cos you misread something or bad mood- you think it’s ok to apologise?
/r/askTRP21/06/19 04:13 AM
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Did you read anything for night game? I don’t drink and I struggle with night game. I dance and have fun but when girls try dancing with me I feel like I dunno what to do and chatting to girls is a waste since the music so loud...
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:55 PM
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How did you meet your gf?
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:43 PM
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Alright il try that. I mean if I feel I’m boring, I’m sure she will be. My dates are usually shit. Walks take a big part of it rather than sit drink and chat or action stuff. What’s your typical date venues/ process? Do you aim for f close on first date?
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:35 PM
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Only problem is I don’t drink and very few places here serve non alcoholic cocktails
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:30 PM
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I’m open to learning night game- where should I look for the stuff? Night game is my weakness- I’ve never scored at a club
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:30 PM
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Yep I felt that but with the amount that she talks about herself it’s starting to feel a bit too much work. What does prudish mean? So I went on a date earlier this week and we went walking and she showed me some places- I was leading but later she wanted to show me some place. I tried to get some sexual but you know walking isn’t exactly sexual. We chatted and had some fun- she said- oh this was a date? A date for me is restaurant. And I was like nah that’s boring- I want good company and chill…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:27 PM
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That’s the thing tho man. I asked twice and she indirectly said no. But keeps texting
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:19 PM
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Damn it! I’m an idiot. See this is where I wonder if I learn from my mistakes. Alright another q- girl I asked to meet from tinder- she says she’s not ready but messages a lot. I messaged says il see ya- cos it seemed she didn’t wanna meet. And I wasn’t gonna keep asking. I actually said that. I should just joke a lot more
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:10 PM
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It’s in the past now since I don’t have tinder. Deleted it a few days ago. But my opener was: so you like pastry? And she replies with: why? Do you like pastry? And it was the same kinda parrot garbage. It felt like some low interest and garbage so I nexted it.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:06 PM
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What I noticed I did/ do is not apply the same rules of waiting and playing abundance cos I want it faster. I don’t wanna wait. Then I say fuck it. Go too ham. Go too single
/r/askTRP12/06/19 06:52 AM
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Think you are presuming too much. There’s no harm in trying something- even if people give you a shit look, if you re honest people appreciate it. Finding someone attractive is not a crime.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:37 AM
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This comment needs more upvotes. This is the bane of abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 04:43 PM
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How you conform her to your requirements? The dread game to make her realise good and bad behaviour?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:54 PM
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Not all of it. Still reading rational male and sex god method atm but other stuff yep. Anything in particular you can suggest?
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:46 PM
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Alright- I remember something about it in pook- I’ll check it out. Damn I thought I was amazing to chat to but god i need to relearn this shit. Thanks man
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:38 PM
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What about if you want your girl to trim the shit out of them pubes? Direct?
/r/askTRP02/06/19 11:36 PM
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It’s the first time it ever happened and yeah I felt the same about the no kiss first date. I still struggle to mix conversation about our study course and themselves and making it sexual. Should I just avoid talking much about courses? Focus on them? I mean I study a subject which takes all your mind (med) Side note: I’ve been quite conscious in my previous relationships I’ve usually been the one giving more affection. In only one where I went pure asshole did it reverse. I hear people on this …
/r/askTRP02/06/19 08:40 PM
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Hey I got a q. So I went on a date recently and was at least aiming for kiss close. Date went ok, I felt it was too much joking and she had already put a time constraint that she had to see her landlord. So this and the when I went for the kiss she said “not on the first date”- made me feel they were signs of low interest. I tested waters by deciding to say I didn’t feel like we had a vibe and it was nice to meet you. This in retrospect from the lack of iois. She was comfortable with me touching…
/r/askTRP02/06/19 09:47 AM
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Well I scored, thanks for the help. One thing I feel I might need to improve on is escalation, we were walking around so was a bit tricky. You say get girls wanting you so much, I’ve noticed giving less kisses and contact helps; but is there others you can suggest?
/r/askTRP28/05/19 10:10 PM
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Thanks a lot! I got a new date today so I’ll try and use plausible deniability to help with the lay!
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:41 PM
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Well about the questions- sure I can act aloof and cocky but for that there needs to be some conversation. If we aren't having that, it just becomes a stand up comedy routine? I'm known to be a bit of a cocky asshole but didn't really think it was possible to have sex first date? ​ She sounded nervous, and probably relaxed later. Yep when things are too difficult and weird, then I agree the appetite for sex goes out of the window- it's just not enjoyable. ​ I have a question about tinder. I know…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:00 PM
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First date- hadn't spoken much before so we started chatting- and I kinda did the wrong thing about rushing into building rapport- what's your job? After which she got a bit closed cos of "interview" questions. We had ice cream and were sitting down and she went kinda full close down- didn't want to speak much cos I was trying to get to know her by asking a few qs. It got to the point where we left the ice cream store and I told her- if you aren't into this, we can reorganise this some other day…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:44 AM
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Don’t get me wrong I’ve read a lot of it. But as much as I can read everything, I’ve thought of actually going outside and approaching women. I still read the side bar, but thanks for the heads up. I’ll check it out.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:37 AM
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Yep I guess I made the mistake of rushing it. What should I do now? Wait a few days and then reorganise?
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:31 AM
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Not sure what Plausible deniability is... I chose to kinda avoid and made it like I didn’t see the problem? I was thinking of giving her a couple of days and reorganising the date? Edit: Just read about it- nope I didn’t think of it. Guess it’s similar to what another guy said that I should have done another normal date lead it to my place.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:18 AM
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Think you should also note- what the other guy said is correct. But also your relationship is over- salvaging it is a waste of time. If you want respect you earn it. Even you wouldn’t respect yourself, else would not let her do this to you.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 01:26 PM
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I don’t think they look for orbiters always. They just want the cream of the crop. If you are hot, you don’t have to do too much- obviously be charming in as few words as possible. Meet and then trp becomes the game. It’s just a way to meet people, it’s just harder to use the app if you aren’t physically beautiful- facially more than bodily.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:13 PM
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Well tinder is garbage. The women on there are too. Success on there is odd. I would get a lot of matches- very few responded to “sex?” And some wanted friendships (stupid I know). As much as they are emotional, if we show we are mentally secure guys then we have a chance. The rest is very multifactorial, which is why this ends up being a numbers game
/r/askTRP21/05/19 11:38 AM
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THis really hit home for me- all my friends think im drowing in pussy but atm- its a pure desert dry spell. I've been approaching chicks etc, but so far nothing. When ever I give a girl a bit too much attention- they run the fuck away. But at the same time- I don't want chicks making moves on me- I'm the one who does that. Now I've been thinking of chatting them up a bit with some push and pull- I think that's been my issue. Not enough negs/ too much "charm". Always things to focus on.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:16 AM
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I’m a bit confused on how if he doesn’t chase women, how does he ask women for dates or make advances?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 11:18 PM
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Tom torero
/r/askTRP15/05/19 05:55 AM
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The crazy thing is, I’ve had women end the relationship after realising that I’m not gonna bend to their will
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:10 PM
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Think this is it. I see many muscular guys who just have a fit in the background face. Being masculine has more than one aspect to consider. No one has all of them.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:09 PM
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Thanks man. Yep focusing on the small steps- funny thing is I’m considered good looking, and social. Just goes to show there’s always something you gotta improve
/r/askTRP13/05/19 05:15 PM
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Well she never replied after but that was the plan. Man this is getting ducking depressing with the I have a bf/ guy excuse
/r/askTRP13/05/19 05:10 PM
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Well so far think she gone and not reading it. Time to move on.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 03:43 PM
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Tried it out. Will see what happens- the number of times I get the I’m seeing someone bullshit is stupid
/r/askTRP13/05/19 02:48 PM
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Done
/r/askTRP05/05/19 05:12 PM
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Cheers
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:28 PM
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Got a link?
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:25 PM
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I would have just listened and let it go to silence, no sympathy and do something else whilst she talks. Forcing a topic change just seems unnecessary, and sure you come across like a dick but alpha does not mean being unnecessarily a dick. It’s about standing for what you believe in and not letting people walk over you. You forcing the topic makes you look like someone who doesn’t like her past and can’t handle hearing it.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 06:15 PM
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Drop it. If it gets complicated, it’s often not worth it
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:14 PM
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Yeah I’m down for some assignments. How we do this?
/r/askTRP28/04/19 07:52 AM
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The thing is I hardly ever see them regardless cos they aren’t in my classes. But you are definitely right, I’ve been very hesitant about taking my advantages. I’ve been more concerned about reputation
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:47 AM
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Cool, thanks for explaination. What did you mean by "Mine 3 your hips a little bit?" I'll check out youtube! Cheers man, appreciate it!
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:59 PM
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gotcha. completely agree
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:58 PM
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Ah ok then I’m not going crazy. Could you please explain the escalation principles? Maybe I’ve missing something that I might have not explained. Another issue I have which might sound stupid is that I have no damn clue how to dance with girls in night clubs. With my friends it’s all good. Like am I meant to balance holding her with dancing myself?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:38 PM
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Well in a nutshell. I can get numbers. Dates don’t always materialise. Often some just don’t message or say they busy. The ones that I do meet, chemistry can be a bit shit which forces me sometimes to use some charisma to make them talk. But again you can’t polish a turd. The ones that I’ve gone on dates- I usually go for a kiss on first date at least. Often there’s a bit of hesitance but usually the go for it. I’ve been looking at the Anti dump method- but it takes longer for any escalation by …
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:29 PM
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When you say escalate you mean transition to fucking? I’m not sure if I should just go out in the day and walk around for an hour and get some numbers??
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:23 PM
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A few from tinder. Some from day game. I deleted tinder tho cos it’s garbage
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:21 PM
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Got a q- how you dance with girls? Grab them round the waist or what? I get approached but feels weird to dance with them
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:46 PM
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Dude is gonna be living at the gym at this rate
/r/askTRP13/04/19 02:46 PM
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Thanks a lot dude! I’ll def try that stuff. I think this Sunday girl just ignoring me- so time to leave the plate and move on!
/r/askTRP12/04/19 06:52 PM
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I think you might be right. I’m a student so money for exciting stuff can be hard sometimes. Any suggestions? Or you mean treating her more like a kid and having a playful side About that yeah I was faking shit but I thought it was a test. Since reading here don’t message much, only logistics and shit- I’ve been trying to text like a stoic dude. But guess you gotta speak like a charismatic person... I asked her when she was free and she said she would let me know. Last time I was with her, IOI w…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 04:53 PM
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Yeah I've been wondering myself. Cos Im generally known to be charismatic. I think maybe I was just coming across as too needy by too many spontaneous making out... It was a first date. I think I do a lot of the spontaneous making out shit- I can barely remember a chick ever starting them- I guess I made myself too available. ​ In your experience what is a normal amount to make out with a girl that you ain't gonna fuck that night?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:58 PM
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That which requires force to maintain is beyond hope.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:46 AM
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Honestly speaking people jump oneitis too much but in this case it’s more you are giving this too much importance. The trick is not to have the perfect lines ready but to be relaxed and calm when approach. To accept that failure might happen and if it does, accept it and learn. You are describing some textbook signs of overthinking- and that’s cos of your anxiety from failing to speak to her. When you regret talking to her each day you come home thinking about her more and it just takes over.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:48 PM
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Simple. You describe her good qualities without identifying her bad qualities.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:02 PM
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But after you get numbers don’t you need to build some form of interest? Or save that for those who meet you?
/r/askTRP05/04/19 06:45 AM
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