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| 173 | How do you protect yourself from bad women? | dutchmangab | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 05:46 PM |
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| 2 | Something a woman can do that gets you weak at the knees?This does not apply to all men, but a single firm slap and squeeze of a buttcheek works for me. Bonus points if it's in public and hard enough for people to hear 😂 I'm weird I guess. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 12:59 PM |
| 3 | I got a guy’s number!!!Awesome! | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | AlcoholIf you are like me, you won't be able tot get a boner after a few drinks. 1 or 2 decent beers and I'm on the water. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Want to get laid fast? The easiest way to attract your local ladiesIf you have an unlucky summer in my country. You can go 2 years without being shirtless in a (appropriate) public setting. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 06:39 AM |
| 7 | How the hell do some people have such interesting dating lives or sex life?Once you been with a someone (gender doesn't really matter) you consider less attractive, but you had better sex with them than someone more attractive, that changes things. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do Hollywood Romances Happen IRL? Despite people all around you esp online calling BS on movie style love relationships?Simply because of chance I think? Just because something is highly unlikely to happen doesn't mean it won't happen. Let's say the odds of finding a romance story relationship are 1 in 5.000.000. That means that when you just look at the total number of ocurences, you'll still have a decent number. These just aren't odds you want to rely on. Also you hear about these kinds of stories more often because they defy the odds. You don't hear about Dave and Jenny who had hook-up that turned into a rela… | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 02:34 PM |
| 0 | My gf still wants me but needs space and thinks we should be friends for nowI think you should put a healthy amount of pressure on her. Wether you want to be friends of her is up to you, but I wouldn't let her have her space and come back when it's convenient for her. One of you should decide it's over and be prepared to be the one to make that decision. | /r/seduction | 14/01/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How can I meet a SO and not seem weird bc I've never had any social media besides Reddit at 29?I've removed all of them except for reddit and de-personalised(deleted my old and made a new one) twitter. Just tell them the truth about why you don't have one. For me it distracted me too much from the goals(learning languages and emigrating) I wanted to reach in life and made me feel bad about seeing people on there who have already achieved them. The girls for whom this is a dealbreaker are not girls you want to be with in my opinion. I had a girlfriend for whom this was close to a dealbreak… | /r/seduction | 30/12/18 03:45 PM |
| 1 | online dating: good or bad?If it makes you feel better, I haven't met most of my matches on dating apps. Just got lucky that the ones who did had some crazy story. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | online dating: good or bad?I can't make everyone love me.. 💁♂️ | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | online dating: good or bad?I feel like the intention/goal with which they were created is good. However in my opinion they have come full circle to the point were in my experience its easier to meet people in bars or club. I still use dating apps, but only to try and meet unique girls that I would not encounter normally. A Colombian girl who was trying to get in the Austrian Olympic team for bobsleighing for example. Meet the other women in real life. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you protect yourself from bad women?It's more about identifying it. One of the abusers was pretty obvious (physical) about it so I ended that swiftly. But the minor transgressions is definitely something I lack adressing in as a generally relaxed person. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you protect yourself from bad women?Because two of the three times it happened it wasn't very direct like she punched me, started big fights or something along those lines. I broke off with the one who tried to physically harm me immediately. One of the more subtle girls was later in the relationship continually acusing me of of cheating, not supporting her emotionally, underplayed my achievements (nothing was ever good enough) & any small misfortune (most weren't within my control anyway) that happened was my fault. She left me d… | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 12:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you protect yourself from bad women?Thanks for sharing your story. It's very appreciated. My lack of experience doesn't really give me much to respond with, but I hope all is better out there for now. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 11:32 AM |
| 3 | How do you protect yourself from bad women?One of the girls I met accused me of just that. I didn't really think a lot of it cause she was the first one who did that. Reading what others wrote I guess I've been really lucky with the abusive girls earlier in life. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you protect yourself from bad women?Thanks for the replies everyone! | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 09:16 PM |
| 16 | How do you protect yourself from bad women?That sounds rough.. I couldn't really tolerate it for long the first time. As it was very direct abuse. The second time was more subtle and I didn't really notice it, but she left me after I was in a car accident. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | How to ask if she has a boyfriend without asking directly?When apropriate, I mention I'm going on a first or second date and ask her what she has lined up. If she has a boyfriend it will come up unless she's looking for a new one. If she responds no boyfriend but lots of dates, tease her about that. Same with if she says she has nothing lined up. Edit: nothing wrong with asking directly tho. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Kinky Ladyr/lostredditors | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 06:41 AM |
| 14 | I'm not attracted to white guys.Say you also don't date white guys/girls and high-five her or something | /r/seduction | 22/10/18 08:25 AM |
| 10 | Why You Should Aim To Feel Like A Pathetic Anxious Pick-Up Newbiehong kong underdeveloped Really? | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What are the next steps after your hand is in her pants?Just do what you want to do | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | What are the next steps after your hand is in her pants?Play with her pussy..? Have sex with her? | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What are the next steps after your hand is in her pants?Play with her pussy..? Have sex with her? | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Why do men worry about being seen as a friend/being friendzoned and not worried about being seen as an acquaintance?Most people in the friendzone are in the acquaintancezone | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Mentioning my country completely kills the conversation. What should I do?Can you speak the language of the European country you're in? If so, say you're from there. | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Wow a 9-5 life is hardDamn.. In my country the HR jobs are like one of those relax jobs basically and a lot of girls do that work. Almost every guy at my work, who works in marketing or HR gets a girlfriend out of it. | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 06:12 PM |
| 34 | Wow a 9-5 life is hard32 hours is not a lot. You have 3 days a week off | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 05:25 PM |
| 16 | Girl I've been talking to wants me to come over and give her a massage soon...Make sure you CUT YOUR NAILS! Look up some massage instruction videos find out if she has a specific massage in mind and look for that. If she doesn't have a request tell her you'll surprise her buy some basic unscented massage oil Also just act like the removal of clothes is the most normal thing ever. | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Girls think I'm younger than I am and I think it blows my chancesCan you grow a beard? | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 02:16 PM |
| 14 | Real women know good looks are a rapidly depreciating asset and if they wait too long they will lose their edge to the next generation of 18 year olds. Also the harsher the rejection the more meaningless the woman because women of power and prestige are fine tuned in reputation and class. Good luck.What? | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever had sex with anyone you’ve met on reddit? When and how did it happen?https://m.9gag.com/ Still exists | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever had sex with anyone you’ve met on reddit? When and how did it happen?She was and my type physically to. We had a short(a few weeks) thing going on until I did my india trip. It was only a 25 min drive to see her. | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever had sex with anyone you’ve met on reddit? When and how did it happen?Not reddit, but 9gag. With the friends I had back then we had this ridiculous challenge to send each other printscreens in which we would display show off how we were being smooth. There was this post about names and this potentially(maybe it wasn't her) cute girl mentioned she was named after a bacteria. To which I say something in the sense that her name is fitting cause her beauty is infectious. We then tried to 'out smooth' each other on the comment section. She gave me her number to my surp… | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | My female friends never seem to introduce me to other women...Do these girls attend/host parties? Your question made me think about my personal social situation be cause I've never thought about this. In my situation, only my friends who attend or hosts parties introduce me to their friends regardless of gender. Do these friends go(more so if they hosts) to parties(excluding ladies night) and not invite you? | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 01:52 PM |
| 3 | How guys were seducing girls in 20th century, before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started?I'm not sure about the how. I talked about this with two of my aunts about this a few years ago when they were tipsy. Around the age of 20-27 they all seemed to be worried about not getting married. The thing it seems is that the cards were more favourable to men back then. Women(I suspect us men are guilty of this as well) are more picky these days. The stories all went something like this: uncle meets aunt, uncle likes aunt, aunt joyful about having found a man. It was simply easier back then … | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 07:24 PM |
| 2 | What were your most memorable approaches?I had one about 2 years ago. The approach(non-pick-up) turned into a date that lasted till the last train departed to the city she was staying and a holiday romance. I live in a Dutch city(not Amsterdam) which has a big pitoresque old style innercity which gets a lot of tourists in the weekends There was this foreign girl who seemed worried and was looking around. So being the helpful person I am I just asked if I could help her. She apparently lost her friend and I helped her find her friend. W… | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 11:21 AM |
| 2 | why does she think i will be friends with her and not change my behaviour after she becomes a non sexual option?You underestimate my power | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I gave a girl my number (17)Is it really that much extra effort to say a sentence or two? | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 05:50 PM |
| 3 | I gave a girl my number (17)For a next time: do not give it to her immediately when she asks for it. Give her some sort of light-hearted challenge. This also gives her something to use in her message to you. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 11:22 AM |
| 1 | I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward?I meant it's an uphill battle to get what you want from these girls relationship wise(friendship, romantic, sexual, etc). | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward?If you have plenty of friends who like to eat out for dinners I'd cancel on the plans. Even if you think of something funny (others have provided good material) to say in response they 'framing' you for a free food. You can win, but its an uphill battle. Go to dinners with people you know will be great company instead. If you're like me and have friends who hate going to restaurants. Use them to go to a restaurant you like and not have to sit alone. Just say "Sure. I know a great place" and make… | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 08:12 PM |
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