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dvallej/r/seduction01/09/12 01:31 PM
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dvallej/r/seduction13/06/12 04:02 PM
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long story short: i only have had one gf, was a one night stand that turned into fuck buddies that turn into a relationship. after 2.5y we ended it because thing where not the same. 6 months she goes to college in italy and now after 4 years she just graduated. during this time we have sometimes talk like 2 or 3 times a year, but lately we have talk a lot more in a more close way. during this time we both have have flings but nothing serious. i want to give it another try with her, how should i …
/r/seduction17/04/13 07:09 PM
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i have only had one GF. it started as a one night then fuck buddies then a relationship, we were together 2.5y, we did not fight, but things were just not good for a while. after a few months she moves to italy and after going to college there she will be back. she was there for like 4 years. for most of the time we talked 2 or 3 times a year in a very casual manner. but a couple of times a week in the last 2 months and then she told me she is coming back and the talks have been better lately. i…
/r/seduction13/04/13 05:35 PM
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the normal pick up thecnics does not work in shy or introvert girls
/r/seduction05/02/13 11:15 PM
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how do you hit on shy or geeky girls? (going for something serius, not a one night stand or anything) and where is a good place to meet geeky girls?
/r/seduction05/02/13 07:49 PM
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Ill have to try that, thx
/r/seduction15/01/13 01:01 PM
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ill keep that in mind
/r/seduction15/01/13 12:17 AM
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so how do i flirt?
/r/seduction15/01/13 12:16 AM
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you are living the dream, good luck to you ill have to keep trying
/r/seduction14/01/13 11:50 PM
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apparently im not a beautiful or unique snowflake that is pretty similar to my situation in a completely different setting, and i did carry most of that fear of rejection and the nice boy attitude until now (im 28) thanks a lot
/r/seduction14/01/13 10:31 PM
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i have probably being too afraid of the outcome in the past, now i have been getting into the "what is the worst that would happen" mentality
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:29 PM
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i have slowly trying that, need to keep it up
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:27 PM
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text about what? and right away? the next day? the next week?
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:26 PM
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wow, that is a great advice, ill start trying those, wish me luck
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:07 PM
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ill have to star taking risk then. is not that easy because that is not much part of my personality, but ill try
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:06 PM
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what you do after getting a number in a bar? i know that you are probably gonna say call her, but i have being "recovering" from AA and i have got to the point of talking to girls at bars and actially i have gotten a couple of numbers, but sober back at home i have not done anything with them (specially because i have a bad memory and when i ask her phone the contact reads "girl at [pubs name]")
/r/seduction14/01/13 09:05 PM
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i probably have done that, often. ill work on it but according to the last part you are either acquainted with the girl, in the friendzone, or doing her, is that right?
/r/seduction14/01/13 08:58 PM
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this weekend a female friend of mine told me that i came off as one for the friend zone, im a nice guy but i dont want to keep on giving the "friend zone" vibe that has follow me over the years i use to be very timid but since i started reading this subreddit i have improved (slowly) and being able to aproach girls and even get a few numbers (and im yet to do anithing with said numbers) but i really need to stop this friend zone actitude. what can i do?
/r/seduction14/01/13 06:16 PM
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no
/r/seduction28/12/12 09:48 PM
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thx, ill start dialing it down then
/r/seduction11/09/12 07:39 PM
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just curious, why #5?
/r/seduction11/09/12 05:41 PM
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you could quote the "Awkward silence" scene from pulp fiction, that have save me from a couple of really Awkward silences. but im just talking out of my ass here, im no expert
/r/seduction28/08/12 07:54 PM
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i think that the correct question would be: how to know if she is? probably the answer is to go and find out, but i really could use some clues before aproaching
/r/seduction20/06/12 04:29 PM
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this can, and should, be a post be itself, more people (like me) should read it
/r/seduction20/06/12 01:57 PM
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dude, i have the same problem that you have, and reading this subreddit made me realice how clase i have been and how many times i have lost the chance, i have to start going for it too
/r/seduction15/06/12 02:20 PM
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i think im not ready for that "just confidence" approach yet, but thx for the advice. wich of those methos do you think work best for a new guy here?
/r/seduction13/06/12 06:09 PM
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i know that ill have to be turned down a lot to star to get the abilities, but i know people that can, by instinct, read any room and to know which girls are the best targets and even what to say to most of them to get a good start. that is why i wanted some help
/r/seduction13/06/12 04:26 PM
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