dwiggs81 Archive

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-1	Which advice would you give to someone (man) who lacks charisma? Ask the DM if you can use a point-buy system instead of rolling stats. My DM let us re-roll everything if the total stat block added to less than 85.	/r/seduction	09/06/25 03:05 PM
1	can you call girls that aren't your girlfriend dear or babe? Woman I've been talking to for a bit sometimes calls me "my guy", or "my dude." I call her "sweetie" every once in a while, which is kind of a callback to last Christmas when we did a zoom fan reading of a Dr. Who Christmas special where I was The Dr. and she was River Song. It feels kinda good when she calls me my guy, and it just kinda slips out without my thinking about it when I call her sweetie. Nothing has been awkward about this ever. I think this may be the key. If you're trying to put e…	/r/seduction	25/03/22 03:33 PM
1	A Dating Guide for the Introverted Analytical Man No, the person I had in my life told me that book clubs, jazz clubs, poetry slams, and other types of chill activities were for "low status chumps," and since I was about a 3 on the looks scale I needed to up my social game by getting used to being out in the clubs. If a friend wants to meet me out somewhere I have no problem meeting them at clubs, but I really prefere card or board game nights where actual conversation can happen. I have since left this toxic person behind me. I don't need to l…	/r/seduction	25/12/21 05:21 AM
10	A Dating Guide for the Introverted Analytical Man Thank you for this. As the described introverted analytical man described in this, I've had my self-esteem ripped to shreds many times by well-meaning yet toxic friends who were definitely more club hook up culture savvy. And they perceived my not wanting to go out like them as a personal failing, so I became a "project" that they needed to fix, because they saw I was unhappy and didn't know any other way to help me get out of my shell.	/r/seduction	18/12/21 04:35 PM
1	Pro Tip: Stop thinking about seduction Yes and no. The two most fulfilling relationships I've ever been in and the best dates I've had weren't planned in the slightest. I was just talking with the girl, responding honestly and truthfully to her, paying attention, and things just worked. The moment of getting that first kiss was the most organic thing in the world and like it just felt right. The times I've been out with my mental list of openers, stories, fall back stories, if-then loops, and whatnot, I was paying attention but only …	/r/seduction	26/11/21 12:47 AM
1	[deleted by user] This is the most excellent response I've ever been given, and I've made this comment many many times. Thank you.	/r/seduction	02/10/21 01:20 AM
1	[deleted by user] The problem I see with that kind of advice is that, for example, what if being myself involves wearing tuna fish in my shoes? I'm being myself, but nobody would want to be around me if that was truly how I felt most comfortable. I know that's a little ridiculous and an extreme example, but I think you could understand where I'm coming from.	/r/seduction	01/10/21 08:45 PM
2	Why are men so persistent? I wonder what society would look like if we did away with the whole "different genders think/feel/process information differently" mantra. Do men really look at appearances first, or are we brought up to look at how pretty someone is? Are women really completely uninterested in sex? One thing that I was brought up to believe is that as a man, all I had to do was be successful in life, and women would be drawn to that sense of stability and safety. As a single 39 y.o., I can attest that this is n…	/r/seduction	23/08/21 03:30 AM
3	Why are men so persistent? I am on the spectrum, but not so much that anyone would notice unless they were looking for it. Noticing signals and hints is mostly impossible in the moment, but looking back it's obvious. Because of this I've missed so many opportunities with amazing women, and have pursued dead ends for literal years. At this point in my dating life, I usually think everything is a "No" unless she expressly places my hand on her boob and says "We're fucking tonight."	/r/seduction	23/08/21 03:21 AM
0	[deleted by user] Which is why I added the part about asking the fish about its friends, and what they would want in bait. Thereby quickly gaining lots of knowledge in a short time, which can then be indexed and collated into finding a nice middle ground which can then be used in spreading a wider net. But I suppose it would fail in giving one a sense of superiority over other, less experienced fishermen. So there's that.	/r/seduction	10/08/21 04:12 AM
0	[deleted by user] Let's really look at this analogy a little deeper, shall we? In this analogy, are we assuming that the woman in question is the fish? A mindless, impulse-driven animal mostly identical to every single other one whose main focus is procreating? If so, you're off to a great start. The fisherman I'm going to assume is the man who gets laid a lot. And if so, I can see where one might think that this correlates. This "fisherman" has obviously, through careful study and trial and error, found a way to…	/r/seduction	10/08/21 03:43 AM
1	Very awkward date If a woman demands to be treated "like a woman" tell her that she needs to get on her knees and "treat me like a man." Stereotypes cut both ways, and if a woman expects traditional gender norms well then she better live up to her end of the bargain.	/r/seduction	17/07/21 07:03 PM
2	How to stop pedestalizing women. I feel like a lot of the comments on this post can be solved with a very quick and easy piece of advice. If you're in a relationship and don't feel like you can honestly communicate your feelings , then it's time to get out. I read too many comments from Men that just seemed to flip-flop between two sides of the same problem, namely treating a woman like a goddess and just going along with whatever she says because that's what's traditionally expected of men to do, or the other side which is tre…	/r/seduction	12/06/21 12:05 AM
1	Cold Approach Best of luck to you. I know getting over social anxiety hangups is a long and bumpy process. I'm just in the middle of my own journey to self-improvement, and it took me a while to even know the right questions to ask to find the answers that I wanted. Stop thinking of dating as a game that that you need to conquer and you'll start seeing at least more meaningful conversations. If you need a script to run off, keep it simple until conversation starts flowing naturally. Also, my favorite maxim is…	/r/seduction	24/05/21 12:04 AM
2	Cold Approach Main question I have for you is, are YOU having fun? Or is it obvious that you are there specifically to pick up a woman? Because trust me, they can tell when you're being disingenuous like that. Honestly, most people can. Ever had a conversation with a time-share salesman? No matter how nice the guy is, it's obvious that he's trying to sell you something. And when you're in a social area like a mall, by yourself, just hanging out, it's plain to see that you're only there to try working game. Bu…	/r/seduction	23/05/21 04:09 AM