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| – | How will things change for me?If you think youre gonna somehow magically be drowning in women because you're more "independent", think again. Nothing will change if you don't change your mindset and grow up. All moving does in your case = better logistics. | /r/seduction | 18/07/17 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Where do you take a girl out after exchanging numbers ?Ideally in a row. Ur taking a gal on an adventure essentially. Don't be that guy that sits at a cafe with her for hrs and just talks. Quickest way to the friendzone. Not to say u can't schedule a different date for breakfast, lunch, and dinner in the same day. Not as uncommon as u think. Up ur game (whether in person or online like tinder) and it becomes a norm when u have options my man. | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 03:57 PM |
| – | Where do you take a girl out after exchanging numbers ?Search bar is ur best friend for this topic broski. Here's a quick and dirty version: -drinks - coffee, tea, whatevs u want. Ur feeling each other out in an open public space so she knows ur safe and u know she ain't a psycho that's gonna poke holes in ur condoms. If no connection, don't be afraid to cut losses and leave date early. If good, go to point below. -if date progresses well, y'all clicking and vibing, bounce asap. Go to a park, a zoo, bowling, walk in the park, pool, basically some ty… | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 12:35 AM |
| 1 | How did you get good with women ?This. I wouldn't say it's more of changing urself per say, more so of learning how to present urself in the best way possible. I believe everyone knows, at their core, who they are, what they're interested in, etc. While identity is constantly being molded and refined in ur 20's, u for the most part, know what interests u and makes u tick. Now it's more of a matter of understanding yourself, accepting yourself and all ur little quirks, and ultimately being comfortable with this identity uve made… | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 04:07 PM |
| 1 | How did you get good with women ?I'm going to have to respectfully disagree. Yes, I do agree on the fact that u CAN'T attract every single girl u meet, u can attract a majority of them if u play ur cards right. Learn ur advantages and use them. For instance, I'm a minority. I used to believe that my race was a great hindrance to me getting with girls. Turns out, it wasn't, but more of my self confidence and how I presented myself. A large majority of women I've been with, has never been with or even considered a minority in ter… | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 03:54 PM |
| 2 | How did you get good with women ?Work on improving yourself first. Can't stress this enough. U gotta make urself an attractive person in order to attract others. Find hobbies and become awesome at em. Know everyone in that crew and befriend them. Get out. Be social. Talk to everyone. It'll decrease ur stress once u internalized that hot chick is just another person ur talking to. Once u figure out what drives u/passionate about, then u can work on the technical shit like body language and then "game". I'd emphasize body languag… | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 05:01 AM |
| 3 | How to tailor online profile for hook-ups?Agreed with prior comment. Ditch emojis. Quickest way to give off a sexual vibe, topless main pic showing ur abs and muscles. Bonus points if it isn't a selfie. That way, if u match, u know it's because they're interested in what they see. No one will outright say theyre down to hookup and even if they do, most of em will end up flaking. Meetup in person asap and play the game. I can't tell u how many times I've hooked up with a girl on the first date even if she blatantly has "not here for hook… | /r/seduction | 26/10/16 04:51 AM |
| – | Asked about "my background" on Tinder, how should I respond?Tell her you'll disclose your background over a drink. That way, you meetup, and can charm her with your game. Personally, being a minority myself so I empathise with your predicament, I think it's better to just be honest from the get go and not hide your identity. If they can't look past that, those gals tend to be the ones you don't want to keep around anyways. That being said, keeping it a mystery on tinder and then disclosing over drinks has been money. Plus, gives you much more material to… | /r/seduction | 23/10/16 06:52 AM |
| – | Your race/ethnicity won't stop you from doing well with women in general, it will only affect you with certain kinds of girls that I talk about in this thread.Being of Asian minority myself, u won't know till u try. Some just never had the opportunity (in other words, been approached by an Asian or other ethnic minority) or have really bad pickup experiences at clubs, etc. Furthermore, u win some, u lose some. Some will be really attracted to u and some just won't no matter how tight ur game is or how universally attractive u are. Just accept that it is their decision just like it's urs in terms of who ur attracted to and act accordingly. That being s… | /r/seduction | 20/08/16 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Topics for text chat with a girl?We got a sharp one folks. | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 06:11 PM |
| – | Topics for text chat with a girl?Texting should only be minimal and for setting up a date/logistics. AFTER uve done the horizontal shuffle, now that's a different ballpark. Ask this question again then. | /r/seduction | 05/07/16 04:43 AM |
| 2 | [FR]First FR and first K close! Cute Jewish girl from tinder.First off, not bad. Second, it's a date. Don't be too hard on urself and focus only on the mistakes. Ur getting to know someone and see if their comparability meshes with urs. There's bound to be blunders and whatnot. Learn to enjoy the experience my man. Third, just shoot her a text. Say something like, "hey there's this spot I want to check out. Meet me there blah time on blah day." If she's down to meet again, Ull work something out. If not, onto the next one. Good luck broski. | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 07:56 PM |
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