dxbfmby Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
122	But you bet your ass she wouldn't stay with you if you gained weight or stopped caring	dxbfmby	/r/MGTOW	09/01/20 06:51 PM
74	Advice on getting sex drive back... practically turning asexual smh	dxbfmby	/r/askTRP	20/03/20 12:50 AM
1	Would the TRP community appreciate a Red Pill themed travel book?	dxbfmby	/r/askTRP	10/10/20 10:44 PM
1	Yet another example of why to never, ever get married	dxbfmby	/r/MGTOW	01/07/20 10:33 PM
0	A case study: TRP/MGTOW when you're already far beyond the incel anger phase	dxbfmby	/r/askTRP	22/10/19 07:20 AM

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2	Peacocking still works In the service industry, yes. I am called sir every day by hotel or restaurant staff etc. But any Indian in any other line of work and they think they're on top of the world. For reference, I also used to run adventure trips in the UAE. It was known throughout the company that indian clients were the worst to work with, as rich Indians are the WORST kind of entitled. Entitled Arabs or westerners were so much more polite.	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/19 10:04 AM
7	Peacocking still works I think that comes with south asian men too. I live in Sri Lanka right now. Holy fuck, SL men have a superiority complex. Even if they have a pot belly and skinny arms they think they're the big man in the room. Indians by culture often cut the politeness and get to the point. A simple example would be in a coffee shop. A westerner might say "please can I get...?" whereas the Indian says "I want..." or "give me..."	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/19 11:06 AM
2	Peacocking still works Honestly not to be 'that guy's but this works much better for black guys. Within western society I think black guys can be a bit more outrageous - in the UK the ones who do well in the clubs rock the craziest hairstyles or neon clothes. For white guys, it has to be more subtle. AVOID the Game style peacocking. It worked for them because in LA everyone is insane, maybe it'd still work there. But in most cities it reverts to the more traditional peacocking. A nice watch and shoes for example. That…	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/19 10:56 AM
5	LTR. Is it worth it? What the fuck is this	/r/askTRP	02/11/19 04:33 PM
2	Girl leaves date crying Yeah she's a narcissist. I've been pretty lucky in that women I go on formal dates with are usually feminists in the good way; in other words pretty strong independent 'alpha' women who not only offer but sometimes insist on paying at least half the first date. When they do that I'll counter it and happily pick up the bill (unless she aggressively fights to split it) and agree she can cover date 2. But any woman that expects me to cover it is automatically getting hit with her share of it. I'd s…	/r/askTRP	29/10/19 04:00 PM
5	Gf said she is more attracted to mind, energy than looks and said a friend was objectively more beautiful than me. Nothing wrong with her referencing in that context. Thats actually some theory I disagree with. I've dated enough women to know there's a difference between a relevant reference and a disrespectful test. In your case, it was totally relevant. Talking about the team brought back memories of going to the game. Obviously those memories involve an ex so it just gives context to the story. I'd interpret the theory more along the lines of constantly talking about exes, making comparisons etc.	/r/askTRP	29/10/19 01:28 AM
8	Gf said she is more attracted to mind, energy than looks and said a friend was objectively more beautiful than me. Wtf is this creepy ass shit polluting the sub? If there's any doubt about fidelity, next her. If you really must track to satisfy your own mind, snapchat maps gives away their exact location. But beware that it can have bad results. I know of someone who's fiance didn't come home from a night out, he checked sc maps and she was at an afterparty with several friends he also had on snapchat. He drove there to pick her up but when he arrived she was getting railed in the bedroom whilst her friends …	/r/askTRP	29/10/19 01:21 AM
5	Accurate As a Brit, we agree. Only a peculiar subset of middle-aged people like the British office. Everyone else knows the American one trumps it.	/r/MGTOW	29/10/19 01:04 AM
1	I'm having a hard time accepting that we really are alone, how to deal with fact that most people (even friends) dont have your back? Bro the boys are like a personal QRF	/r/askTRP	25/10/19 06:15 PM
2	I'm having a hard time accepting that we really are alone, how to deal with fact that most people (even friends) dont have your back? Friendship is a tough one. I have friends spread worldwide but the only ones I know would 'have my back' are 2 or 3 old military buddies. Within reason we'd go to fucking jail for each other. . In my years as an adventure guide I've put my life in the hands of many friends on climbs etc but it's situational and I know they're not of the same substance in other situations. . Just remember, every man an emperor. You are your own castle. Have your own back. It's easy to see others with their great …	/r/askTRP	25/10/19 03:18 AM
2	Is it just me, or are european girls more feminine than American girls? It really baffles me. I'm from Liverpool by upbringing but never had the accent (about 45 mins out the centre). Then moved overseas and got a lot more confident/cultured. I went back for the first time in 14 months at Christmas, got laid a couple times in the week (one an Estonian stripper off tinder and one a Canadian student on a night out, go figure) but my 'peaky blinders' undercut, thick beard and shirt/chino/shoe combo got me called a "fucking mongy paedophile" by some random hoe in the st…	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 05:32 PM
1	Is it just me, or are european girls more feminine than American girls? Chilean girls too. God damn I've never met one that hasn't been a HB8-9 with that fire sexual vibe. Colombians and Ecuadorians can be kinda mixed. Some are hot but quite a lot are chubby (endomorph genetics) and have that kinda-Asian quechua/amazonian facial structure.	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 04:34 PM
1	Is it just me, or are european girls more feminine than American girls? For sure! I fucking hate UK women in the uk itself (explained later in the comment). They're so aggressive and hostile as you say, your entire approach needs to be different (I've not yet mastered a uk approach technique). Very quick to give you a "fuck off". In the city of Liverpool you actually need to abandon all you ever knew. Wear stylish clothes and be well groomed there and you're not getting laid. The HB9s go for wannabe gangsta douches in tracksuits (the fucking clubs allow it). If you'…	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 04:29 PM
3	Hit on by HB8 at club Realistically I think she was drink hunting, or looking for IG follows. The girls I used to live with would sometimes go out without a single cent. It was like a game - see if they can party the whole night for free. Even the uber would be on some beta's hard-earned money. But be complimented. This HB8 probably still saw you as the group alpha. They don't approach the loser of the group, it'd ruin their image in the club. They choose the hot guy and hope he's got the beta mindset to buy them dri…	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 04:17 PM
8	Low SMV women or post wall women are rude and disrespectful to me, high SMV women are more feminine and flirty with me? It's pretty much been answered already in that they despise high SMV men assuming all are assholes. Flip it the other way round. A lot of incels and betas despise high SMV women. Sure they'll masturbate about them but it's like the emo kids in school all hating on the 'cool kids'. Sure we're fed this idea that any girl can get laid easily but it's not as true as you think. I lived with 5 girls as the only guy. They were all slutty if they could be but sometimes they'd go out, act easy, dress hot…	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 04:09 PM
1	I got metoo'd. Reputation completely destroyed, cant get music gigs. To move, or to stay? Tfw when Kirrill hits reddit	/r/askTRP	23/10/19 03:55 PM
-1	A case study: TRP/MGTOW when you're already far beyond the incel anger phase The most BP victim comment I've ever heard. Refer back to basic TRP principles. Lift, get confident, improve your frame, change your style. I fully admit I'm an attractive guy now. I'm 6'4, dark hair, dark beard. But it could be very different. I have a big nose left crucked from mma and my ears stick out like an elephant. Without the beard I have no jaw but I've grown and styled it in a Dan Bilzerian style, longer at the bottom and front, shorter at the sides, but faded so it doesn't look too 9…	/r/askTRP	22/10/19 02:50 PM
-1	A case study: TRP/MGTOW when you're already far beyond the incel anger phase At what stage have I implied changing mentality changes the world fundamentally? But changing mentality does change your worldview fundamentally. And that's what matters. TRP and MGTOW are literally there to change people's mentality. Seeing yourself as a victim and not changing your mentality is 'bp af'... source: the 2nd highest scored post on TRP of all time is about stoicism.	/r/askTRP	22/10/19 12:56 PM
1	LTR of 3.5 Years that "loved" me to death cheated this weekend. Why and how to pursue? The imbalance is staggering too. If a taken guy goes out with the boys, the gf is gonna do everything in her power to find out what he's doing, is he cheating etc. She'll give him a curfew. This is "healthy" by society's standards. But if a guy had this same approach to a gf, it's "control" or "abuse". I'm anti-relationship. I said it at 18 and everyone was like "it's a phase", now I'm turning 25 with money and career and still stand by it I think my family and friends realise I mean it. But be …	/r/askTRP	22/10/19 06:43 AM
1	How do you escape being part of the 30% of the 18-30 incel group? Location is everything. I went from 1-3 girls a day (always at least one) in party hostels in Thailand to 0 since June because I worked in Borneo, Ecuador (in the jungle) and now Sri Lanka (where it's a snobby older backpacker scene; too many white-with-dreadlocks yoga types. In Hong Kong prior to Thailand I was getting 1 or 2 a week, so many English teachers out there living fast lives. I've just gone Monk Mode for the 6 months I'll be here. I suppose it's incel but not in the "nobody will fuck…	/r/askTRP	18/10/19 02:44 PM
1	Monk Mode? Currently in monk mode - 4 months into what will be 8 months of it. In my case it was sort of forced. I was getting laid 2-3x a day in my previous job (repping at a Thai party hostel) but by trade I’m an adventure guide. I was in Borneo and Ecuador over summer, not able to go find girls due to being 100% on duty 24/7. Now I’m in Sri Lanka and it’s much the same. I get weekends off but the backpacker scene here is all couples or kinda odd people, so there’s nobody worth approaching. As a result I…	/r/askTRP	15/10/19 10:02 AM
3	Don't you think that TRP is attracting the wrong type of girls? There’s a difference between TRP-influenced frame and being a Chad. If you’re at the stage of slaying copious amounts of cheap slut pussy, you’re making great progress, but you’re not in control of your frame (/personality) enough to be getting the higher SMV women who consider you more than a dick appointment. You don’t have to be an unbreakable douche if you want these women. Of course it’s all on a spectrum. I went from what I’d call “emotional fuckbuddies” (regular dating and ‘cute’ times bu…	/r/askTRP	09/10/19 03:42 PM
1	It’s so fucking hard to cold approach a girl these days because all of them go to bars/clubs to get hit on and act disgusted if you try to approach them during the day. Does anyone else agree? Absolute lack. I’m in Sri Lanka, it’s off-season, and I’d be fired immediately if I slept with any of the tour groups I lead. Right now I’m sat in a hostel with two Indian guys and the Sri Lankan staff as my only company. Around Christmas it should be tourist season and there’ll be more women around but until then it’s a desert.	/r/askTRP	06/10/19 03:05 PM
-3	It’s so fucking hard to cold approach a girl these days because all of them go to bars/clubs to get hit on and act disgusted if you try to approach them during the day. Does anyone else agree? It happens. Right now I’m massively into monk mode though so I’ve almost lost all drive to even approach. I’m working in a country with very little tourist footfall, locals aren’t my thing, so I’m dedicating the 6 months to absolute dedication to self betterment. Training 6 days a week and reading 3-4 books per week. I’m thinking of a blowout vacation in Thailand at the end of my contract to go bang hotties every night before the next job starts. Completely separate line of discussion but I can’…	/r/askTRP	06/10/19 10:24 AM
-2	It’s so fucking hard to cold approach a girl these days because all of them go to bars/clubs to get hit on and act disgusted if you try to approach them during the day. Does anyone else agree? This is completely false. Ugly girls are more likely to try their luck or express interest, possibly (though not conclusively) because they consider their league higher than it is. I get hit on by a lot of ugly girls, but I generally only fuck 9s. I’ll bend that to a 7 or 8 if it’s the only option in my environment. I am fortunate in that I’m 6’4, dark hair, dark beard, and have always kept in shape. I created my own internal RP program as a teenager before it existed as a Reddit concept. Hot gi…	/r/askTRP	06/10/19 07:52 AM
21	Why do I prefer to hit on less attractive girls? Dude this is club fucks. You don’t get an ‘in’, you get a ONS and you take the action to dictate whether that’ll be the 8 or the 5	/r/askTRP	26/09/19 11:44 AM
3	What I learned living out of my car in a gym parking lot Dude how far did you delve into the nightlife? It's expensive as fuck but it exists. Lan Kwai Fong and Soho (two streets apart) both have techno clubs that OPEN at 6am after final call everywhere else, and close around 3pm, if you're into drugs enough to last it out. Wan Chai wasn't my scene; too many old men with young prostitutes, but it's a good place for a social pub quiz or british style pub crawl. Also the best place for indie live music nights.	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/19 12:06 PM
15	What I learned living out of my car in a gym parking lot I will counter this argument about a smaller social circle, as somebody now living in my fourth country in as many years. Young expat life hugely expands your circle, and your opportunities, if you make the effort to go out and find it. Granted, it’s location-dependent. In Hong Kong, full of young English teachers and business interns, I had an extended network of 100+ people I could party with or at least grab a coffee with. In my current country I am truly alone; I have dozens of conversations…	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/19 06:28 AM
–	Fuck learning "tricks" or "tips". 99% of the time they dont work and just make you look stupid. Just learn about building self worth and the very basics of attraction and everything else will follow. Budapest also has a good party hostel scene I hear. I stayed as a guest and thrived off the anarchy so much they offered me a job. I was already working in my own industry in the region so I went and finished the last few weeks of a contract then moved out to there. You do get laid whenever you want but I think it’s all a bit of a sexualised bubble. I’ve always been cocky/outgoing and done ok with women but staying with family the last few weeks has created somewhat of a mental crash in me to th…	/r/seduction	06/07/19 10:19 PM
–	Fuck learning "tricks" or "tips". 99% of the time they dont work and just make you look stupid. Just learn about building self worth and the very basics of attraction and everything else will follow. Rep at a major party hostel. In other words, partying and socialising for a job.	/r/seduction	06/07/19 12:35 AM
–	Fuck learning "tricks" or "tips". 99% of the time they dont work and just make you look stupid. Just learn about building self worth and the very basics of attraction and everything else will follow. Some of these comments here suggest to me that there’s guys in here that seriously need to live with girls and just learn how they are as humans. Not everything is a shit test or analysis. I spent the last 2 months room-sharing with 4 girls and fucking a (new, different) girl 4-6 nights a week. Granted I was in an extremely sexualised environment and they weren’t necessarily ‘normal’ girls in that sense but I learnt a hell of a lot about their normality just by being there. OP; if you’re having …	/r/seduction	05/07/19 11:05 AM