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None of those things are adequate third spaces. Even university campuses are not even adequate anymore. A third space should be like a school, where people just chat and interact with others randomly and consistently and it's expected. Things like arcades, bowling alleys and pubs used to have this culture for sure, and malls + public squares etc for teenagers. None of them have that open vibe anymore. Events or community groups don't count as a third place as they are organised
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 03:35 AM
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Third spaces aren't parks, unless you interact organically with strangers, acquaintances and friends alike and that's a social norm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:54 AM
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You are making the faulty assumption that feminists care about equality. They care about advocacy for womens' advancement in power. If women were advantaged in an area but the old theory says male power should exist there, they will continue to advocate for female advancement. University and education is the perfect example. Girls and women are doing better in almost every metric and men and boys are provably discriminated against when grading is done blind. Even the most intellectually honest f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 08:26 AM
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Feminism was formed under the assumption women had it worse overall and in far more ways and exclusively advocated for womens' rights. Anyone trying to say it is about equality of the sexes as an argument to wash feminists of the truth or make a No True Scotsman argument is deliberately sidestepping history and the real actions of feminists. Feminism should be seen as womens' rights activism. Intersectionality should be seen as activism for all those who belong to groupings deemed as low power. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 06:47 AM
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Constantly making gendered conversations about all issues regardless of the reality, only looking at one side and taking one side and then claiming derailment when the premise of it being a gender specific issue is rejected is also a massive dick move.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:49 PM
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Your second sentence is internally self referential to your first. Very ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:37 AM
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You do realise that statistic comes from a country where made to penetrate isn't rape right? Therefore 2% is the amount of women who penetrated someone without consent... See the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:37 PM
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Actually I think this is bullshit, most dark personalities fish until they get an enabler and get shut down by any skeptical person with critical thinking skills around behavioural patterns. It's exactly like scamming, even if you haven't been scammed befre you have to be pretty special to get scammed by most people' cons. The mastermind manipulator is an exception, a very rare minority of toxic people. If you don't get that you are just a mark lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:24 AM
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I love how the top responses from women are all some variant "men bad. women tolerate it" rather than actually locking in on a flaw women have independent of men. But who would have expected anything different really
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:19 AM
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This will always devolve into people picking apart the m word into their own value judgements because "IT BAD GUYS" and thus only bad things that person doesn't like in terms of social influence are manipulation and the rest is "just normal people stuff stop analysing it because you have no social skills" or them calling you a loser for thinking dating includes manipulation. Which is typical derailing. Manipulation does not have a value judgement. Call it social influencing if that makes you fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:12 AM
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Are you being deliberately obtuse? OP is saying that women have "standards" like that for men they don't like. If they like the man, time spent with his personality and him is enough to make them desire and enjoy it as long as he is spending time and energy on her, not needing money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:06 AM
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A lot of the most charismatic men are highly conventionally attractive and those who aren't are considered less charismatic despite acting the same way. Even with weightloss the anecdotes of men who became more attractive as to how their charisma was RECEIVED especially by women is night and day. Charisma is a multiplier to attraction as is attraction to charisma for women towards straight presenting men. There is also a halo effect that causes attractive men to be less inhibited, genuinely incr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:22 AM
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Which is the pragmatic and detached logic they as a stereotype accuse men of
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:13 AM
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Why is she still allowed to spam this sub after all these years?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:22 AM
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I think the argument is a huge portion of women are bisexual and heteroromantic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:07 PM
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Stop equating morality and physical appearance/charisma it makes you look either stupid or disingenuous. If women were doing that to ugly or unattractive men you have a point. But they aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:31 AM
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No it's not lol, patriarchy is a societal structure and value system. There's just as much control and domination in female gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:00 AM
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Women (especially modern feminists) act like only the 1880s to 1980s ever existed and the whole spectrum of historical gender relations and power dynamics exists only from those times (the modern times are too favourable to women, and anything older there wasn't often emancipation of the common man to where women could claim true oppression over some male peasant in most Western countries). The patriarchy as they claim it really only existed in any form for that century, now it's a conservative …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:43 PM
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Yeah women, often unconsciously see those men as tools to use, as human capital
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:28 PM
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Kindness even as a trait is less important than the displays of charisma that overlap with kindness, it is far better to be a complete selfish manipulator who uses altruistic display as a self benefit with confidence and performative giving with gregariousness than a perfectly average social skills background agreeable kind helper as a man. Women without even realising see the second kind of man as trustworthy, reliable and good yes, but that just leads to her thinking of the advantages she rece…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:12 PM
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I'm saying that kindness is not related to being chosen unless it comes with the charisma cues, which manipulative men use, and some of them add kindness to charisma, confidence, independence and competence to disarm and seduce. But only the attractive ones, whether physically or otherwise get the chance to have kindness cues increase a woman's desire and interest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:51 AM
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Can you even read? I said all those dark triad and dark characteristics mean these men use imitation of charisma cues to meet their goals which I listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:48 AM
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All 3 of them imitate charisma as a matter of course to get their goals met Admiration and high status for narcs Control and power for machs Freedom and hedonism for psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:41 AM
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Not at all lol, they are completely separate, you are either just arguing for the sake of it or an incredibly easy mark, it's incredibly common for unkind people to be warm and gregarious, and also for warmth and gregariousness to be used in a manipulative unkind way. Many many men use those as tools to appear kind and trustworthy to obtain sex, many women use them to appear powerful and popular in a feminine way with zero kindness behind it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:32 AM
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No, warmth and being gregarious can be, kindness is absolutely not. It can be seen as a positive trait. It is not a charisma cue though. The poster who said it is selected for after the looks, charisma, confidence is bang on tbh, and far too many women are self focused with kindness cues too, as in "is he kind to ME?" rather than is he kind to others, does he reward prosocial behaviour in others, does he give and help when appropriate to anyone? Which makes them vulnerable even more so to charmi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:54 AM
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Yes, but not many men see a woman and turn hurr durr monkey brain. That man either has something fucked in his head, an extreme libido where he's obsessed with sex when women aren't even there, or porn brain (women are sex objects).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:13 AM
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Women add abstraction to identity in all ways at a much higher rate in my experience. Whereas men often have a more historical and concrete idea of who they are, based on their story of what has happened
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:01 AM
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Telling on yourself here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:00 AM
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People are stupid, the worst people are generally the best at masking, mirroring and imitating confidence, competence and charisma cues. As well as mixing in lying, white lies, exaggeration, minimisation and general machiavellian and superficial behaviour to guide people's perception. That's why normies who just get by on social skills naturally and never have to think deeply about it and really consider what is going on are absolutely terrible at recruitment, dating, are vulnerable to marketing…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:49 AM
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Could it be that women aren't very direct or to the point on average so when they are it's usually aggressive or rude deliberately or expressing negativity so men learn that directness from women is an attack, thus making men more likely to respond badly, thus keeping women indirect more often
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:55 AM
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Yeah if anything gender affirming care would be treatment to make you lose your perfect hairline you have at 40 years old so you look more manly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:12 AM
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No, I'm just treating you correctly like your opinion is NPC level thoughtless, illogical and presumptuous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:51 PM
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Are you genuinely a bot? This is by no means the only explanation, nor the most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:20 PM
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You can argue that the friendship is not the same even if the abstract label of "friend" is equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:54 PM
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The man no longer wants a platonic relationship because his feelings are romantic and now he sees an asymmetry in the connection which means he has to self abandon and submit to her terms, which he doesn't want, or leave. It's the same as when women are sex zoned or friends with benefits zoned and want more, the other party wants to keep the status quo, you want to escalate, it takes consent and two parties desire to escalate but only one to end the relationship. So one can't make them meet your…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:26 PM
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This is not racially charged
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:20 AM
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This is because intersectional feminism is the predominant left leaning social framework, especially in millenials. A critique on white women from decent backgrounds only being feminists and not active on any other oppression because of their relative privilege. It ended up with those exact white women taking over LGBT, minority, disabled and deprived spaces and making all of them about women while creating a ranking system where being a woman is still the most oppressed factor, not being gay, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:45 PM
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Intersectional feminism is the status quo in left leaning spaces in the Western world. It's a paradoxical view because the theory was founded to critique middle class white women's myopic view of oppression and patriarchy to their world of privilege compared to everyone but rich white men and not factoring in the additive and multiplicative elements of race, sexuality, disability, socioeconomic status etc. But ironically middle class white women took over intersectionality and made LGBT, minorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:13 PM
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Because you can't have 25% of women "looksmatching" 5% of men. Think of looksmatching as if 100 representive people were paired up in order, and the people within 5 to either side of you are your looksmatch league. Basically, these women would have no chance if everyone was pairing with their equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:41 AM
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No, he's picturing completely matched women and men who are both above average (solely by not being fat) but unremarkable. Aka European average due to lower obesity. Most people in fact rate women as far more attractive than a looksmatched man. The average person would think a female 7 dressed well and in makeup and a chad in the 95th percentile are matched. And think a male 7, dressed well, in good shape and 6'0" with decent face is "punching up" with this "hottie"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:07 AM
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Well they aren't, that's the thing. Women dating up is about as successful as average men getting any woman. You gotta have girl game, or find the right lucky situation/ hot person with low self esteem. Trying to date hot men monogamously is where the average woman actually gets an insight into how difficult everything is for the average dude in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:58 AM
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I'm not commenting on that you clown. I'm 6'3" I'm commenting on how both those men would attract a lot of women if they weren't even that charismatic, let alone famous. At least get good examples of short guys who are not already good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:48 PM
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You honestly have no fucking idea and used very poor examples that don't prove your point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:39 PM
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Those are two extremely handsome men you fool, what a stupid example. Cruise is like the typical example of a mid level US chad (not a 10/10 but at least an 8). And Cillian Murphy is a very distinctive handsome guy, and if you know anything about women you know he has the eyes and lips that make women's mind and logic melt when you're hanging out and they keep looking at those two things. He's not a giga chad but when he was younger he was an extremely striking and beautiful man, and age has onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:29 PM
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Your last sentence is so fucking brainless and the opposite of reality. Women who are not hideous or fat are rated as cute, whereas guys who are literally average are called ugly. It's pretty clear you're delusional, and probably think normal men are below average and normal women are above average
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:43 AM
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This is bullshit, there are way more ugly girl, decent guy couples. Unless you have huge apex fallacy and only look at the 1% of men rich enough to transcend looks. And if an average guy is punching up it's usually because his personality, his attitude and his dick game are all very addictive, which is rare as fuck. If a woman is punching up it's usually out of convenience and scarcity mindset from the guy (who doesn't know his worth or lacks confidence) Women just rate other women as hotter tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:10 AM
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AWALT is the same concept as "Beware! Pitbulls bite" I.e. Do not listen to the dog mummies or your actual mummy who tells you the group is wonderful and lovely except for a few bad crazy ones, know the dangers and the patterns that are well documented and common, especially those that are likely to put you in trouble. If you think you have the most loving and sweet pitty, it can still maul you if you aren't watching for danger and are oblivious to the signs. I won't get bitten by a crazy fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:34 AM
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No, it's much more complicated than you think. You're being way too narrow minded and dogmatic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:37 PM
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You are crazy, men now have lower T, more effeminate behaviour, are weaker and grew up in softer times being trained to serve women on more than just a financial trade level
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:01 PM
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This relative way of looking at things misses the mark imo with your other point. If it is evolution and trait based, not just to compare men to other men, but to crave certain traits, then a much lower level of those traits overall changes a lot. If men have gotten much less masculine, and women want masculine men, while still tiering men compared to relevant population, then it makes a lot of sense that the tiering would get more strict in a population with less masculinity, ie a higher percen…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:53 PM
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No, it's women raising boys in the modern post sexual revolution era to be the theoretical good partner and a servant/submissive to women rather than the actual partner she was attracted to. And society in general also does this, as low T, non masculine men are far easier to control and keep in line with the system Men have never had anywhere near the frequency of little submissive servants with no masculinity except men born in the last 50 (especially last 40) years. Most of the beta male provi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:14 PM
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Yet more shit arguing, it's almost predictable at this point that many men (and most women) will argue by deliberately using the wrong logical quantifier and trying to rebut that. Or simplifying the argument incorrectly by using incorrect definitions. Here you fuck up badly by implying that men going for looks is the same as women going for looks. Firstly, the point is "Chad". Women go for super attractive top 10% men in this theory. Men select for looks, but their standards are much lower to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:36 PM
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It really isn't because poor people aren't going to stop making children
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:12 PM
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No, all races of men prefer their own race. All races of women prefer white men. Black people have both the strongest preference for women of their own race, and their women the weakest preference for white men over their own. So other than white women, black men are the most likely to date in their own race by preference
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:11 AM
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How many known killers did Tekashi run with? And even he doesn't have video evidence of him being a limp wristed bitch as an adult. You're delusional
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 06:41 AM
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You are truly stupid. He was a soft actor, then turns like that which just happens to be the perfect image for money making, and no, nobody says he was real, they say he was a try hard and acted stupid. Didn't know what he was doing. Multiple of his old friends said he was the same guy, but as soon as hood people would turn up he'd start acting (literally) gangsta/hard
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 03:24 AM
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Tupac was a character like a professional wrestler. If anyone that knew him for his image saw him out he ACTED like a real g. Couldn't break the illusion
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 01:15 AM
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Tupac was an actor before and during his "thug" days. Take that as you will He's the prime example of why you don't play gangsta
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 07:45 PM
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Well luckily they're my realities. It's my trademark. I don't like PIV on the first date but I do like having some fun. Just using it for an example of the "not counting"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:56 AM
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They definitely don't count getting their nipples sucked and having such a steamy makeout session both parties had marks despite the fact there's just as much passion and energy as sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:08 AM
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Most women in my experience would rather not hookup than hookup with suboptimal guys. But I don't think they're not promiscuous at all. The average girl who doesn't participate in hookup culture would 100% be out there if she had access to the guys she finds attractive and good to be around. If she finds very few of those guys show interest she will often go into lockdown mode. When a woman has low standards, low self esteem, or has realised her high standard men all do not want her, or they all…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:55 AM
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almost all young women wear makeup whenever they leave the house, and when they don't, people think they look sick. It's pretty obvious that makeup makes women seem more attractive facially than they are when applied with any kind of nuance, and 99.9%+ or men do not do this. When I go to university, around 95% or more of the women there are wearing some kind of makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:18 AM
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Only on Patrice O Neal's scale
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:47 PM
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I'm pretty confident this would 100% be fixed if makeup didn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:39 PM
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Where PPD women really are 7s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:33 PM
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Some women bitch and moan about it but subconsciously fucking love this kind of relationship. She is the important and adult one who makes everything happen and it makes her feel useful and needed, especially if the guy is a bummy dude who does have decent looks and sex game. It's really scary for a lot of ladies to be alone, and date men who aren't reliant on you so often they'll be very pissed off at his lack of being the man but completely content to stay in the relationship too, or tell them…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:34 AM
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No, the casual sex market was different before mobile phones and texting, let alone snapchat, Instagram, tinder. Simply because women weren't able to contact/know about so many attractive guys at the touch of a button, never having met
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:12 PM
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OLD and social media ruined the relativity scale that average guys with game could use to pull like studs. Women used to not be aware or at least not be able to easily contact a new man that had the goods and would only compare men to other men in her immediate vicinity and those she had a thing with. Now, women are seeing hot guys on social media, if not tinder all day, and talking to some of them. She never has a (relatively) clear and open mind about the men around her, and she knows of all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:28 AM
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Most "average" men never even come close to that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:09 AM
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Not quite. Billy, Brad and Chad all date Jane and have the same personality, all are passable but Chad is so hot and Brad is cute. She clicks with that personality, it's like an 8/10 personality to her Jane thinks Billy is a really sweet and funny guy, but might not be her type, but is happy to be friends with him. She rejects his offers to hang out but texts him Jane thinks Brad is a really cool guy and wants to keep seeing him as he seems her type, and hopefully he's really good at taking thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:16 PM
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What kind of brainless moron can't count them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:10 PM
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The average woman has plenty of tastes of what Stacy gets, (the lust, some men simping, men in dms, being told she's sexy, stuff brought for her. Everything coming easy with a medium subset of men It's pure scale difference for women. What plain jane doesn't ever see, she still can imagine exactly how it feels and what might happen when you're a stacy. Instead of one average joe taking you to a restaurant and paying, and guys buying you drinks once a right, and a simp buying you a $50 necklace i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:09 PM
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People make false equivalencies and poor logical counters all the time. They think because his preference is immoral/offensive that it means anything justifying that preference is incorrect and that the only facts or opinions that matter are good opinions. Tate is the master of how to be an effective pro wrestling heel. "he's an asshole and a cowardly piece of shit, but he has a point". That's how to make people boo the fuck out of you and want to see you burn rather than just not give a shit. E…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:25 AM
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100% a simp, someone who gives out his attention, money and resources away for nothing and with no discernment. And women feel very similarly about a past provider/simp not wanting to give to her as men do about a past slut not giving to him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:06 PM
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I hate it, I'm centre (right to young, left to old) socially for mostly pragmatic but accepting reasons, and moderate left on economic and governmental issues and all any fucker talks about is social issues, and I agree and disagree with everyone, but the polarised clowns a lot less. I live in NZ, and all I want is a economically left party that cares about poverty, economic equality, the many over the few, but rejects all this intersectional feminist crap and tells those lunatics to fuck off to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:05 AM
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In my experience, women cheat because they're checked out of the relationship but aren't prepared to stand on their own. Men cheat because they have an extremely high sex drive and want more women to satisfy it. Both of these types are lacking care for their partner. Cheating men seem more likely to be genuinely personality disordered whereas cheating women are more likely to just be normal but have lost happiness in their relationship. I can tell you one thing, I've got with a few taken women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:20 PM
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No, it's making a woman feel good. Which then projects into non evidence based feelings of comfort and safety
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:53 AM
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It's homosexual relationships and lying up that bring men's numbers up. I'd hazard a pretty educated guess that if we had an accurate data set, for lifetime partners, only including heterosexual sex between 2 people, the mean would obviously be the same but the women's median would be way way higher. The men's data would be heavily skewed right (ie the samples are mostly low, with a rapidly dwindling number higher), until a second peak right at the high end where the rare successfully promiscuou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:35 PM
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Covert communication, and being aware of individuals and groups signalling beyond words or obvious body language. Then more than being aware, being able to navigate these situations to get the outcome and impressions that you want. Very few unaware people just happen to end up charming and endearing. Women especially give out so much information with covert communication they expect people to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:24 PM
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It's not women bad you fool. It is what it is. Stop putting words in my mouth, grow up, and switch on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:40 AM
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Are you that ignorant? Politicians were almost always trained for years in how to talk, speak, the relational style. It's not how men speak at all naturally. Machiavelli himself was trying to write a book to explain exactly that, how as a man to act to gain political influence in Renaissance time. Educate yourself. Even something modern like 48 laws of power. Women don't need to be told that shit, they already get it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:11 AM
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And that is 100% not the same as how men communicate naturally. They had to be trained to do that shit. It doesn't come naturally or through socialisation for almost all men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:17 AM
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Don't be naive, this goes on everywhere in every room, it's just minimised in male spaces, and the threshold you must be talking about would be very high, because if you don't put up with any of this at all you'd have no one in your team after a day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:09 AM
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I'm trying to explain to you the very structure of these places and the way the hierarchy isn't completely rigid, and having to abide by strict HR policies means that even in the absence of women, that framework remains. A lot of men (especially those with no father figure) aren't masculine minded and mature, but can pretend to be in a male group. If these issues don't get squashed very quickly, it's not a masculine space You have to actually go past being a boy and grow into a man by force.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:49 PM
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You got power outside the feminine social bubble, and brought it back in, boss man can do what he wants and as long as he keeps them in line, and therefore mutiny doesn't happen it's often very successful for a man to lead only women. Iceberg Slim wrote about this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:19 PM
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Except that's just not true, almost all non-autistic men are worried and know some things are up, and edit themselves to fit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:16 PM
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That is not a fucking masculine space lmao, I said "mature and masculine men" any corporate or office job has the feminine structure all over it. Male spaces are either authoritarian and hierarchical, or egalitarian, and ruthless with crushing people getting out of line trying to assert themselves. The only masculine space where men ever speak in tongues is the elite business world, but not being bounded by feminine communication creates a totally different machiavellian and politicking environm…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:12 PM
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If everyone else is playing, and you aren't, you almost always come across as socially incompetent, and usually your assuredness in yourself is perceived as arrogance rather than confidence. Humans are social creatures, if you don't play the game, you will either have to become avoidant, powerful externally, or be so endearing people like you anyway despite being on your own level
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:05 PM
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Are you trolling or just extremely lacking in brain power? The whole feminine communication system is based on being fake and picking and choosing what information to share, depending on your intentions and what benefits you. Of course, everyone does that to some degree, but it's a game you can choose to play or not, it hides reality. Men are much more likely to actually share what they think and who they are, or say nothing. Women are much more likely to say what they think is the right thing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:01 PM
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Most men completely miss what's going on and the "unwritten rules" so to speak
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:49 PM
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I do not trust any man who succeeds in this kind of communication until he proves himself. 90% of men who do are psychopaths. That's why political and manipulative men are the most dangerous people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:48 PM
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Men are much much better at communicating what they think effectively and sharing accurate and relevant information. And much less avoidant of doing so. Most men who are actually mature and masculine would rather go this way. Doesn't mean they're smart or correct, but the middle aged and old men saying whatever the fuck is on their mind while everyone rolls their eyes is a trope for good reason. Women are much much better at navigating complex social systems where everyone communicates like a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:36 PM
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Girls usually have 3 types of male friends (not including any relationship where they've fucked around with the "friend" at all at any time) Guys she friendzoned that are useful Guys she likes and respects but doesn't think she has a chance with Guys she hangs with because of her boyfriend/beta friends/girlfriends. He can be either category but they wouldn't hang out if not for a third party. Unlike the other 2, he can also be unknown and usually lean towards what her friends say. Don't be the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:25 AM
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Reply to the person who stated this argument to begin with about intimate partners
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:05 PM
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Except your logic falls over when it's almost never guys she just met that are the intimate partners thar do it. It's guys she's willingly let into her life and usually dating. EDIT: People are actually usually very well behaved on a first date, and out of the dangerous men, most of those who lack the self control and/or charm to get the woman to want him before trying to take what he wants are in jail, or easy to spot a mile off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:18 AM
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To take it out of abstract here is a scenario. You are a normal looking, slim, single young woman in 1995 in a town of about 20,000 people You have no current guy you're seeing regularly. Your social group is medium sized and most of the men are your friends' boyfriends. The others are "not your type" You feel lonely, and like you want a boyfriend a lot You also feel frisky tonight even before you drink. You are more than open to meeting a guy, and your girlfriends say they'll help you find one …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:19 PM
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Imagine you are pickier at eating, and you used to be poor and think eating at McDonald's was satisfying, but you now work at a mid level restaurant as a chef, making high quality dishes. Now you know a lot of better dishes are right there, and you can get them sometimes financially. Would the McDonald's cheeseburger you used to love when drunk still hit the same when you feel like you can do better? You're still drunk at 3am. It's still the same cheeseburger. It will just feel below you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 08:05 PM
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All anime and BTS did was make awkward white women actually realise asian chads are actually attractive too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:05 AM
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It's always black chad though, or at least a relative chad to the white woman. Universal pairings are when all sorts of matchings of attractiveness take place. A much better example is asian women and white men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:00 AM
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Have you ever switched your brain on and realised you may be an asian Chad, and your experience as a top 10% asian guy is the same as a top 30% white guy? If an Asian dude is 5'11" and looks like one of the members from BTS went to the gym for 5 years used his experiences to say "this is BS," everyone would go "dude, you're just asian gigachad, that experience is nothing like a top 20% asian dude, let alone an average one"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:53 AM
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It's not even just picking bad men. Some women are so toxic (and toxic often doesn't even mean she's actually a bad person or dangerous, she just has a very immature and self serving view on dating) they have toxic relationships with great guys and then ask "why are all men like this". Usually they're fickle, hyperemotional and very poor at communicating, as well as having the expectation the relationship will just work without her putting in the effort and making sacrifices, or just caring abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:54 AM
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That only works for a women's way of perceiving things. Men don't give a fuck about status of a woman unless they are elitist in other contexts. If a girl is a dime with an ugly guy, guys will think "i want a chance at her, she's sexy and her man is worse than me". If a girl is average, with a hot boyfriend guys will think "oh yeah she's okay, meh". The only thing guys care about with a girl's boyfriend is what level of competition he is relative to the guy perceiving. In fact, lesser girls with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:59 PM
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You're being a clown and got called out, you womanlet
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:21 PM
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Whether hers or black pillers standards are realistic is a completely different argument. But if you think genetically your son would be better being taller, with wider build, and smart but you're a 5'2" unintelligent twig (hypothetical) it would take some ego to feel you can get a man who'll breed those traits into your kid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:09 AM
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I mean i'm 6'3" and like dating girls from 5'8" to 6'0" so i say go ahead, my 6'4" and 6'3" future sons will be happy with less competition. I don't actually agree with her on height being that important, but the lack of self awareness most women have over their own genetics often being sub par is quite funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:53 PM
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The difference between her thought and incel black pill is that black pillers are self aware that by their standards they shouldn't reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:47 PM
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Because you're fuckin' short, so you're screwing your kids with your genetics by your own standards. The only difference between your thought and black pill is black pillers are self aware that it's them who has bad genetics (by their own standards) so to reproduce would likely be selfish and burdening your kids with suboptimal chances
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:46 PM
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And that would make you the lower intellect one there every time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:52 AM
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Putting RP in with incel is like putting people who think racial differences exist in with the KKK. Countless very successful men who look at things analytically, especially if they know unsuccessful men who they respect as men think a hell of a lot of RP shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:21 AM
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No, that's black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:09 AM
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People that have more options are usually prone to both toxic, and healthy self centered behaviour to maximise their outcomes. Therefore their partners are less likely to be in control/get their wants fulfilled. Depending on your maturity/understanding you may see it either way. A lot of immature people see healthy boundaries and expectations as toxic, on the other hand, many people from dysfunctional upbringings or histories will see things as healthy and normal that are toxic in regards to sel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:41 PM
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Your last sentence is why your argument is wrong. That has caused all the change. Women now know of dozens of chads or even lesser brads who are still cute that exist, and the average girl can show a little skin, get good lighting, edits and angles with her makeup on and have more attractive guys than she would ever naturally meet matching her tinder. Chads and Brads getting access to every woman killed the game. Now like i said, average guys are getting hard no before even talking to an average…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:34 AM
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Sex and hookups used to be heavily proximity based. And even more so before mobile phones. A girl wants to get with a guy, well she only knows a few men at most that she could call, and they'd both need to be home, the logistics sucked. The only men that existed if she and her girls were at bars were the men in that bar or a guy where she could turn up at his house. It's not like women were an easy sell, but they were very much far far more open to men. Basically what would have used to be the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:50 PM
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All i'd say is 2 things that women that i get on with say about me. That i'm one of the kindest and most understanding men they've ever met Also that i'm one of the most flirtatious and charming men they've ever met. A lot of women (young women) don't get it, because their experience leads them to assume i'm faking one or the other. I fucking love guiding, helping, understanding and learning women. I also fucking love flirting, sexual tension, seducing and indulging the ladies animal brain. What…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:18 PM
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Yes because every confrontation is 1v1 face to face with a referee.. wake the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:52 AM
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And that is with men, especially in high crime "hoods" being far less likely to go to the police when assaulted by strangers at night
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:32 AM
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You are missing the point and are making yourself look idiotic. As someone else said, men are much more likely to be randomly be attacked by a stranger by CRIME STATS despite men being much less likely to report assault to the police. Like someone else said, women are just more neurotic about it, not in even as much danger. You can argue women have more potential threats, but men have a far far higher chance of potential threats becoming actual threats. Everybody that's ever been to clubs has se…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:31 AM
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Lots of men suck, but lots of men are good. You start at meh to bad as a dude and if you get the experience and try to improve you become good The huge huge majority of women are mediocre. They start off meh and don't need to learn how to get better. The average couple the man determines almost all of if the sex is good for both parties. It doesn't have to be that way though. That's why men talk about "freaks" in bed. It's not kink or BDSM based either, it's her being assertive, knowing him more…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:56 PM
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If women learned how to fuck really well they'd never have a problem. Just that 80%+ do not improve because they play follow the leader and are passive. They learn how to fuck by doing what their boyfriend wants and instead of translating that into trying all the things they've done with each new guy, what it seems they learned was to do what the guy wants. Men, we have to know what she wants more than she does and learn every time and remember and create everything. Most women barely improve af…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:14 PM
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Fact is, you can be both future material and present material and all of the emotional and intellectual stuff is irrelevant to if she wants to bang you or not. I know for a fact i bring a lot more emotional and intellectual satisfaction for women than most guys they get with, but i also flirt and seduce the whole time, while I'm literally talking about whatever i feel like. When you're not afraid to be vulnerable and say whatever the hell you feel like, if you're just perceptive to her and open …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:57 PM
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My point is that it was personal advice for a lady with a man who acts like that man was. If a man is aggressively trying to dominate and being disrespectful he usually wants a fight. The problem with what you are saying is most women use your logic as an excuse to be passive and take zero agency/pressure.. And most men are quite rigid in how they are used to fucking as women aren't varied. Thus women are more receptive to change. The average lady fucks how her boyfriends and partners wanted to.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:33 PM
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That's where you are actually failing to maximise then. Men know we have to be adaptable to be an all around great lover, and the best ones can lead but tailor it to the woman and love every minute. A lot of women have a similar attitude where they like x and y and will do it that way every time. Why wouldn't they? Whatever they do we get off. All i can say is a man with that attitude better love the most universal things women like or he's gonna fail. Unfortunately most common is guys liking bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:16 PM
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active does not equal dominant, assertive does not either. most women do not even do what you do, and their adaptation is completely limited to following actions or orders. Next time with a wannabe dom you should brat with him when he tells you to stop or shut up. That's the skill most women lack, is knowing how to actively harness the man's vibe even in submission. If I was a lady i'd have said "or what?" and then continued to dirty talk, (especially when he gets aggressive) when told to shut u…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:05 PM
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I mistakenly thought ~ was a replacement for ≠. I'll edit it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:55 PM
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~ means does not equal, or at least how i used it. You're completely right, and even a woman just being a little active and spontaneous, naughty and creative with it puts her up there. But the problem is almost all women I know think they're really good at sex and can really satisfy to the max, not understanding we act and process sex differently to them. So men act often when it was meh like a woman might if it was real good When a lady does what men are expected to, knows our body better than …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:09 AM
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Women never have the burden of performance or dominance so they just have sex how it happens. Most never learn how to be a sex goddess. Most men either crumble to the burden of those two, rise to it and get good, or don't care about their performance and just want to get off. Probably 30% of men are quite good, and maybe 5% of women but probably the opposite for quite bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:06 AM
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Most men that get laid will eventually find that most women are bad (more just meh to average) at sex and their whole perspective was a lie. You get most girls just chilling while you take them Women from day 1 are having almost always either very satisfactory or unsatisfactory sex so they know very quickly guys are mostly either doing it right, or wrong Men's illusion they had pretty good sex dies when they get that one lady who fucks like an animal, uninhibited, confident and at times assertiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:51 AM
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The problem isn't that women don't make consistent signals when they're into you, it's the fact there exists women who make the signals when they are either not, or become not when you do something they don't feel like knows them better than they do. After this first time, every guy gets hyper vigilant for no signals and assumes no, which although from a feminist lens is good, from a feminine sexuality lens is horrible. Also some women are so nervous/guilty/passive that they literally look like …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:31 PM
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Women lie down Men go up When it comes to sex, and the numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:58 AM
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When men are the ones driving initiation of interaction, the male perspective defines the societal outcome. If men stopped initiating even on social media, there wouldn't be any choice for most women if they continued acting as they do now. What may happen at first would be women will all flood the roads and pursue chads, which will overcrowd and cause women to give up or take the less desirable road for their own increased outcome, or stay on the road and only be allowed to drive it rarely, low…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:09 AM
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Some people are very poor at using logic in arguments and often think that fallacious rebuttal that don't even offer a logic based counter point is 100% rational
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 02:59 AM
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No, the excitement for ladies is nothing to do with real excitement from leading a packed and unique life, it's him being unpredictable, untamable and putting her on an emotional rollercoaster. Chad can be the most boring dude but if he treats her like Chad does he'll be more interesting than a beta male who has the fullest life possible, that guy is not interesting except as a door into the things he does that are cool. Chad can live at his parents house smoking weed and working out and he'll b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:02 AM
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Platonic can be a lot of things. You can be a beta who hovers around her and is a utility (many many variations of this). You can be the guy who she respects as masculine and a positive influence but wouldn't go with (this is where they might set you up directly). You can be the attractive guy who is fun and sometimes flirty that never made a move that she kinda wants. You can be the distant but always cool dude in her extended social circle (a social circle she thinks is awesome). You can be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:34 AM
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Lmao get off tik tok and get in the real world. There's a massive difference between creepy and just not being hot in real life. Of course the boundaries shift the hotter someone is but that goes for literally ANYTHING in life, the more you like someone, the more you find positive rather than negative. Huge difference between a weird old guy hitting on a woman and being crass and crude or trying to get with her, and an old guy having playful banter and teasing a little with no disrespect or inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:59 AM
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You are delusional. If you're a male 2 on looks, you get nothing unless you got confidence. That's the point. The female 2s would rather get used by a 4 or 5 Confidence works in different ways for different levels of attractiveness but always increases a man's abilities. If you're super hot as a guy it doesn't matter as much, you just need a baseline that will easily come from affirmation, but when you're going up against other Chads for the girl you want it matters. Chad vs Brad Cletus vs Billy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:56 PM
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Of course it fucking helps. What an idiotic conclusion. Any guy will get more than he would otherwise being confident, even a fuckin ugly dude will pull some 2s and 3s if he's talking to them like he knows he's the shit, and not in a way that means he thinks he looks good, but in a way that he believes he's just a fucking great guy who everyone loves. Women take notice of big dick energy, even if you're too ugly to fuck, they still really enjoy men who just have game and attitude, as long as he …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:46 PM
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Your second paragraph is completely the opposite of the real world. Almost every relationship works better overall when the woman is the needy one because of what each sex is attracted to in a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:34 PM
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It's not an individual problem, it's a symptom of wider societal issues. You can only change peoples beliefs over time, not force them to act differently in deeply emotional and non rational endeavours. Nor, like with money, can you expect people to act non selfishly in something considered so important. To pretend it doesn't cause problems for many people and it's all just great and we're all free and happy is ridiculous. The endless search for more is now applied to love and partners through s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:52 AM
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I want people to think about the complexity of ethics, freedom and power. As soon as any rule is imparted a market is no longer free, and everyone has different views, therefore the powerful impact the rules. Which means no one is free anywhere and someone is controlling things via power. Then you must ask why the rules are where they are and it goes on and on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:13 AM
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Basically, as soon as you put a single rule/law in, it ceases to be free, and where a person or group draw the line is always different, and in every society, the powerful can leverage that into more influence on rules. I do not believe there is ever equilibrium in anarchy due to human nature, at some point there are going to be people imparting power and saying "no, you can't do that" or "you must do this" In a day one society you might say that it is a meritocracy, but generation two, people i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:04 AM
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That's a very individualistic way to look at it. If society is being harmed in general, there is usually at least moral shame pushed by the powers that be, if not laws and regulations, even if it's a personal freedom harmless to society if only a few do it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:37 AM
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there are plenty of ways to tilt the system to balance it differently without throwing it out, good and bad. Comparing USA to Norway, Germany, UK, Australia is more fair, because the argument is that powerful and rich corrupt the system to differing degrees so that the market is not free and it is not a meritocracy. You can include a lot of differing ideas under that framework
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:25 AM
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The concept of free market is fine in theory, but we've never seen it done without those at the top corrupting the natural flow of wealth by the use of power
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:59 AM
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Like I said, there's a lot more questions you have to answer than that. It is not so simple to have no rules except consent and justify that compared to other contexts. This is just for thought, not to debate your idea btw. Ethics are fucking hard and not clear and binary What is consent, how is it obtained? Why is it needed? Between whom? Are there any boundaries on consent and why? Why not just let people be completely free sexually to do whatever they want regardless of consent? What is your …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:32 AM
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What about incest as an example? "Ew gross, that is an exception" Where should exceptions be then? How does society determine consent? Where do morals come in, legally or otherwise? It's not so simple, the borders between full liberty and anarchic disorder are only perceived through how much order there would be in whatever context. And order almost always comes from rules and authority, however enacted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:05 AM
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This is such a predictable and stupid comment. It's not based off of the importance, it's based off the type of market and who benefits. Basically if you want to have a liberal, free sexual market where everyone does who they want, but there are still rules, laws, morality involved where should we draw lines? My argument is if the status quo can be harmful to society, even if many individuals enjoy their freedom, but it doesn't break any laws and is considered socially acceptable or even correct…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 12:03 AM
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I think the sticking point here is how much people believe that markets of any kind become unbalanced based off meritocracy and the cream rising to the top or based off the false perception of meritocracy and the masses being convinced that letting the wealthy have more and more ways to continue their success in a zero sum game is correct. Where people make choices and believe in systems that do not benefit most people and society at large. If we want, as a society to make the liberal choice of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:39 PM
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I find it extremely ironic that most of the people who support the free and liberal, non monogamous dating market where the rich get richer also despise the same concepts in business and with monetary wealth. Not saying that is you, but almost everyone I know with that attitude is also anti neo liberal, anti capitalist. Poor people just don't work hard enough to be rich. I/They have more wealth because I/they are just smarter and harder working than you We don't need to do a thing about it excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:19 PM
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It all falls apart when you realise a 9/10 guy still finds 6/10 girls hot enough to sleep with but not to date. Chad is not monogamous, and if he is that just means Brad gets flooded with girls, not average Joes getting a girlfriend. The dating market for men is like free market capitalism if you use women as wealth in that analogy. Everyone can't be rich and the rich get richer, with a finite supply of wealth you convince the middle class that they are more like the rich and could be rich one d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:00 PM
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Women's sex drive being raised will just result in Chads having more women and the sex toy and erotic industries exploding. The fact is, if a woman is on the borderline of wanting to sleep with a guy casually and new sex drive pushes her over it, he's already an attractive guy to her, and these non Chad above average guys usually have a small type or niche of girls that will find them to be a chad. If no women treats you like you're a cute and desirable guy already, then sex drive won't change t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:51 PM
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Men don't force beauty standards, if anything other women do, for both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:46 AM
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You want a hot guy, who does that. And my point is this fucking disney fantasy is not helpful or healthy. And it's fucking women up, not being able to understand great men are out there because none of them are perfect and make the lady feel like she thinks she should 100% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:36 AM
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True love doesn't happen when you live in a dreamworld of someone as hot as your fantasy loving you. Unless you're super hot yourself, and vet men correctly to both be likeable yourself, and test for his morality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:57 AM
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Most of you are not hot enough and not the mary sue of the story in real life. The storybook men are often toxic lovebombers who act like absolute degenerates or dangerous men to everyone else but a lovesick little puppy to the one mary sue in the story. Novels for women are like porn for men. They're harmful and create unachievable fantasies of being the main character/stud. I've read enough female written books with romance in them to know that the tropes are just as generic and predictable as…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:13 AM
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We're talking body you fool. You can literally wear no makeup and not do your hair while dressing like a hobo for years while having that body then groom for a day and your body didn't change
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:32 PM
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I'm talking the "physique of her dreams" You gotta do a bit of cardio, posterior chain and general toning on weights for that. With amazing diet, or at least moderate training volume. Or some sport like swimming. And even then, the typical gym bunny doesn't have THAT much better aesthetics than an active girl (sport, walking, outdoor hobbies) with good calorie management Not even comparable I agree but for women the effort to return ratio goes up hugely with even a tiny bit of work, but then the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:57 AM
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A hot physique for a woman really doesn't take a lot of effort at the gym if she's doing the work in the kitchen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:32 AM
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First rule of women's attraction. Just because they dont "like" something doesn't mean they don't respond with attraction to it. Toxic is the number one word of such. Most women don't even respect completely unattractive things enough to call a man with them toxic. Toxic is almost always stuff attractive men do or that make men attractive that women feel uncomfortable or anxious about. The britney song Toxic is PERFECT for describing the general female use of "toxic"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:56 PM
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Asking women questions with a politically incorrect premise, or potentially non socially acceptable answers or connotations is like asking wealthy Russians in the West if they support putin. Even if the answer is yes, they will almost all either deny it or attack your hidden intentions or morality for asking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:44 PM
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Yeah so? Beauty is common, so women with the tools to be desirable are everywhere. Rich men are rare, let alone rich handsome, charming men. Even men considered universally sexy are rarer than their counterpart. Makes perfect sense they should be as picky as they want. Because most women are competing for either of those kinds of men depending on her life stage. Just like the vast majority of men are competing for the above average women, almost all women are competing for the attention of the u…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:11 AM
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Women by a mile. People are dumb, the average person rates a matched looks couple as the woman more attractive. Therefore they believe a 70 percentile guy as upper average and a 70 percentile woman as hot. Even I instinctively feel this. Take a point off the girl and add one to the guy for ALL of you and you'll probably be accurate Even so, i see mostly looks matched couples, with a decent but nowhere near majority not so. But i live in a small town in a reasonably liberal country with very libe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:32 AM
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No, it destroys the concept that fewer people will be supporting the older generation because we know the elites will ensure mass immigration to keep the economic lie going
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:16 PM
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Immigration destroys that concept. Capitalists suppress wages via immigrants and also stop the growth illusion bubble from bursting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:55 PM
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Talking is definitely an interesting one, because I personally have a hell of a lot of success completely driving things with my expressiveness and creative conversation. Especially because i don't keep one energy going, i lead them down an ADHD maze of bullshit as I'm entertaining myself by telling stories, chatting shit, flirting and giving serious advice all in one minute. They can't pinpoint what I am and I'm totally in control of the vibe and unflappable with their testing Stark contrast to…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 11:23 AM
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Chad doesn't care how mysterious and interesting your life is. He also doesn't care how easily you can get other guys. Nor does he fall for average janes who are unremarkable in the looks department and just standard in personality. It's not a romance novel, and if it is,99% chance you're not the main character who gets all she wants If all the ok to semi cute girls realised and internalised this (45-75 percentile) they'd actually be able to focus on learning to be charming helpful sweethearts a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:56 AM
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The main thing that it gives women is an excuse when they do things they want but might be externally shamed for. Leading to the second thing it does, makes them not give a shit about the groupthink and appearance to their friends. I think almost every young lady knows a guy she's always felt attracted to who is a big nope from a social perspective. Usually this is the bad boy but very often it is a guy that's considered either strange or unattractive that she personally disagrees with. This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:02 PM
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Nothing to do with height. It's body fat and clothes fit. Met a group of natty bodybuilders, but none of them were cut at this point, not one of them looked more than just a bulky American football/rugby player, but when they flexed and took their shirts off drunk you could see how big their arms and chest were with muscle. Most of them had baggy t shirts on because they're too big in the arms and chest for non tailored shirts that have the right lengths
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:31 AM
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Black women all love the white meat, it's just taboo to openly say it and a lot of them barely interact with hot white guys. Black girls like Chad as much and probably more than Tyrone but Chad doesn't interact with them and their community would shame them. It's similar to how most women have always had urges to sleep around but social shame made them either not do it or keep it low key. Let's just say if Chads were common in the hood they'd be bouncing the most black women out of anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:00 AM
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If you are looking like jackie chan in 2021 but younger you will get no girls as an asian guy but if you are jackie chad from 1980 suddenly all the white girls will be feeling a bit yellow. And jackie is still fit, but his body hasn't been top tier aesthetic for decades. In clothes he normally looks like an active asian dude but nothing special ever since rush hour If you got the hot body (work for it you fool!) average or above face and not too short you will pull so many hot girls because you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:49 AM
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6 inches (10%) 6 feet (15%) 6 figures (5%) 6 pack (maybe 5-10%?, most really skinny, not strong) Very quickly it gets ridiculous even if there is decent correlation between height and money and penis size
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:12 PM
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Anthony Kiedis, little talent AND a pedo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:56 PM
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No, in today's society it is ok to victim blame if it's not a precious woman. If it's a man, he will get told practical advice LIKE HE SHOULD to avoid getting victimised and targeted by bad people. Megabyte has a far more valid point. He's making a scenario where you go out and make stupid decisions and get targeted and victimised by a criminal. The point is that anyone with a brain could not do this, but only men are consistently blamed for the things under their control which made them a targe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:20 PM
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Women really do see far more men punching up than more accurate perceivers would. Women think average range women are ok - very pretty Women think average range men are ugly - ok Men think similarly of other men. Everyone puts men a rung or two below the a woman that is their looksmatch on percentile. This is the 30-70 percentile people (in a place with only mild- moderate obesity rates) Anecdotally I see men AND women both think men are punching up with their percentile looks match. And think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:57 AM
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Lmao you are totally delusional, most women that are normal attractiveness are getting dms from some hot guys. 60% of men aren't sexless? What world are you living in? if anything these days it might be more than that over the frame of any given year for men under 30. For casual sex that number is probably up around 70-75% If you discount monogamous taken men it might be over 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:26 AM
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You forget instagram thirst. Most young women have instagrams where they can see and be dm'd by chad brandon and tyrone. The 80/20 isn't 20% of men having a girlfriend. It's 20% of men having 80% of the sex. The supply and demand is literally different, the only thing a man has in person in regards to numbers is much less access to competition. Fuckable guys vs fuckable girls is like 40 vs 99 %. And this is just people who can get any action with a member of the opposite sex with desire. those 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:34 AM
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Yeah, women all use it as an ego game. They all want to be the one that is better than the other girls and they want womanisers to pick them but not other women. Anecdotally you see so many women talk shit about a guy being a insert player slur with guys and girls alike, then when he gives her attention next week she's all his
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:59 PM
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When you watch porn, all the guys packing 6.5"+ are always leaving more than an inch, most more than 2 out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:20 AM
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Yes most pretty women are youthful looking, but it's more the age rather than the features imo. there are pretty women with all of those features and a lot with none of them, symmetry and ratios are key rather than large or small like a baby. They're different enough to clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:34 AM
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You're talking in fantasy land not in real life. in real life the 6'3" good looking big guy who is 31 is pulling in person just as easy as the pretty model boy of 20 who is 5'7" and skinny fat or lean. especially if it comes to an arena with proper conversation. And that's only with a super apex facial looks guy. Most of the girls who love your type AND don't like my described type at all are literally 11-17 year olds. If your man is fucking kids he'll be the winner for sure Women find the first…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:27 AM
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The gap between women and men in preferring youthful looks is so so far beyond what you're acting like. Youthfulness is the most important thing for men bar prettiness, and the physical is so much more important than the mental and personality traits. Youthfulness to women is nowhere near masculine looks, size or even things like grooming or smile. And traits like confidence, dominance, charisma are just as if not more important for women feeling attracted to a man. A man who has everything exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:07 AM
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In my area there are much more fat and ugly women dating good looking guys than better looking women than their guy to start with, and usually in that case the difference is smaller. Also, women are rated higher on looks by both genders, therefore a perceived looks match is often a female 40th percentile with a male 60th percentile. Many non social butterfly men i know who are handsome but have something missing in their package are fucking fat girls and still not being treated right. Despite th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 05:21 AM
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It does generate the stats from the chosen age group though......
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:47 PM
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Not sure i fully agree, it may be a chicken and egg thing, and women are often more straight up these days with ugly dudes. However 99% of women handle rejection with a worse attitude than all but the most messed up guys AND men coddle women more to try to not trigger their insecure asses so it is a little rich for women to shame insecure men. Hardly any men shame women because they think they have a chance when they don't with him. Ladies often do that to men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:56 PM
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This is terrible logic. Women and men have different brains. Women being more mature as a percentage of their maturity does not imply that they are more mature overall. Men have a lot more capability to become far more mature and responsible than women do, if they grow up. Women generally are far more mature until the age of about 21 where they stop maturing almost completely emotionally. Whereas men catch up around 22 years old, given they aren't stunted and continue to mature and get wiser for…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:53 AM
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Much more money is lost through the rich exploiting the country compared to the poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:33 AM
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Low maintenance and femininity are clearly distinct in that comment. And the first sentence makes it even more obvious he's referring to low maintenance as low levels of "beauty bullshit" and that the feminine he's referring to is completely separate to maintenance for him, therefore "beauty bullshit" is separate to femininity and he's talking about all femininity not based on that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:46 AM
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I'm not miserable or bitter, I'm deconstructing your logic of the assertion that "There is no such thing as a low maintenance girl/woman who is also feminine." Combined with your reply, saying you do understand femininity is not solely about appearance and that you clearly understood what the guy you're referring to meant by "maintenance" and "femininity" I am convinced your argument was in bad faith. Someone strongly disagreeing with your assertion and pointing out when you are lacking logic do…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:33 AM
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Well why would you make such a disingenuous comment then? You say there is no such thing as a low maintenance girl who is also feminine. You then talk solely about appearance and upkeep which is under the category of maintenance. If you knew there was other reasons you could be feminine without these things (clearly referring to beauty maintenance from the original comment) you wouldn't argue that the two are so interlinked you CANNOT be both feminine and low maintenance With your statement stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 03:13 AM
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Yes, it's only women who get told their body should be a certain way. Men have a far more unrealistic body ideal to live up to. The ripped movie star has a nutritionist, a workout plan, supplements and for his shirt off scene hasn't drunk water in a day to look shredded. The big buff ripped gym rat is on steroids and works out 10x a week. To be lean and noticeably muscular for men is very difficult (and that's the minimum for a guy with non pretty boy looks to be considered hot, and EVERY action…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:33 AM
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It's sad but kinda hilarious that you think femininity is solely appearance. So off base
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 01:04 AM
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You are so dumb dude. He dumped her off because she was too clingy and annoying.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:55 AM
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My bro is 5'7" and he had a 6'1" chick that was obsessed with him after he laid that pipe. Stop thinking height matters once she's been with you. If you're the man she's not gonna give a fuck how short you are or what others have to say about it, once she's shown to be into you at least (ie not a deal breaker)
/r/askTRP17/01/21 05:31 AM
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Nope. It's 100% women failing to know size. You know most of the "big cocks" in PORN are below 7 inches. I watched a lot of the online POV porn in my day and extremely rarely did i see a guy who had a clearly larger cock than mine and I'm about 6.5 inches at max. Girls tell me i have a big dick. The average porn cock is smaller than mine but I highly doubt people would guess 6-6.25 inches rather than 7-7.25. I asked 2 how long they thought it was and the average answer was 7.5 inches Mandingo wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:01 AM
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I would say maybe slightly but more so would be a moderate amount of men with sub 5 inches being too hung up to hook up with women. I doubt hung guys do it much more than average. But I'd hazard a guess small dicked guys do it a lot less. Although out of my friends the guy with maybe the smallest has had the most women and left them all satisfied
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:45 AM
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Your size estimates are so far off reality is the point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:08 AM
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7 inches is top 1%. There's a tiny chance of even sleeping with someone that big. It's like saying 125 IQ is "above average" or 6'5" is "above average". So many women have stories of guys that were too big, and i doubt all of them were fucking the 1 in 250 7.5 inch+ guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:56 AM
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That's incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:50 PM
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The average dick is 5.2 inches or 5.5 (self reported so ya know.. probably bullshit) I'm literally telling you 7 is 99th percentile and probably what you think 8-8.5 is. 80-85% of guys are smaller than 6 6 inches is like 6 foot. 7 is like 6'5". 7.5 is like 6'10" in rarity. The variation in male length is much smallerthan you think. Between 4.5 and 6 are about 70% of guys Basically the cocks you think are huge horse cocks are probably 6.5-7. And average 5-5.75. The normal porn guys are like 6-6.5…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:28 PM
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I'm correcting your perception on what big actually is so you know for the future
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:24 PM
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Bro 7 inches is 1% 6 is like top 20% Most porn dicks are 6-6.5 and the big cock porn around 7
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:12 PM
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Yes but there was barely any data in that study from USA OR Germany. So any comment on those nationalities is almost certainly self reported or at least self measured. And it exposes the supposed database usage as a lie by the site. 2 315 total out of 15000. And the Germans measured with a ruler (which is inaccurate) while Americans didn't measure erect length at all for most of the sample. Did you know they also removed anyone from the sample who complained about small penis size. It looks like…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:06 PM
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That's you moralising not anywhere close to truth like what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:33 PM
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Sex and attraction is different for men and women. Get over it. Accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:13 PM
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You just don't get male attraction it seems. There's nothing wrong with it being this way, it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:06 PM
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This guy doesn't know what he's talking about. Veale dataset has no German or USA data in it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:03 PM
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Noticing because they are there and look okay (which is the barrier to sex, not being ugly) is not the same as thinking a woman is genuinely attractive. Have you noticed men will screw a lot less attractive women than they will date or show to their friends and family. Passing the boner test is a small majority of women for the average guy. Not close to that are women a man thinks are actually cute. For me when i go out, about 40-50% of women i could see myself bedding, but maybe 10-15% i find c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:50 PM
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Uh dude the only study that matters is the kings college London study. Scientifically measured over 20 countries and 15,000 peopleAll the rest are self measured, self reported or too small data sets. In that the average was 5.16 inches. The veale dataset it is but it's clearly wrong just by where you say the data is from. That and NONE of the other studies are even valid so veale+ others will cause male lying to come in as with 99% of penis size studies being 0.3 minimum above the only scientifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:35 PM
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Are you stupid or just obtuse. It's not some giant insult to women. Most men find women that are not ugly to them good enough to fuck but a woman that really makes you take notice of her looks is not common
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 07:26 PM
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You know what's even crazier? The 5.5 average is wrong and it is more like 5.2 when the man is being measured scientifically not by himself. It's more like 98-99th percentile
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:39 PM
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When scientists measured it was 5.2". When men did it themselves it was 5.5" Men even fudged that to be bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:35 PM
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6.3 inches is top 2% for perspective on how unlikely that is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 01:30 PM
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The one with self reports was 5.5 average. Measured was 5.2. I'm 6'3" so i know what you're saying. I measured 6'2.5" when i was 18 so I'd say 6'2"-6'3". Now I'm 6'3 on the button and say 6'3"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 12:54 PM
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Guys that have a larger than 6 inch penis are in the 90th percentile from the scientifically measured British study where the average was 5.2 inches. Guys that have below 5 inches are only 35th percentile and below. The way women talk you'd expect the numbers to be 50th percentile and 5th percentile respectively
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:24 AM
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Not in NZ. We have good looking men and below average women compared to other European dominated countries. I think the fact that most men instinctively diminish their male competition and most women big up women and put down men warps perception. I often see decent to good looking men with a good looking girl and ugly or average men call him ugly and wonder what she's doing with him. Also see average woman with above average guy and the girls think she's pretty and he's not And regardless most …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:27 AM
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95%+ of women must be damaged then with what they prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 07:48 AM
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It's not equivalent between the genders. Women are far more likely to completely neglect character for attraction, whereas men are actually attracted to good character in of itself (although many women are tricksters). A man being a sweetheart is not attractive by itself to women. It's just a multiplier to already sexy men if he has a big amount of caring whilst still being masculine A woman being a sweetheart is, provided she is not ugly to the point of no start. trying to make that the same is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 02:06 AM
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Bad people can have good traits. And women look for any good traits like a junkie looking for crack in bad boys they're hot for
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 01:57 AM
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No, what happens is women see a hot guy, and take any shred of humanity and project it on him. "He helps at the animal shelter, he's so caring". Or he says "sometimes i get angry when my bad childhood gets triggered and I lose control" after a while of charming and seducing her. She thinks he's so in touch with his feelings and not scared to be vulnerable Despite the fact she knows him through friends and that he's a cheating addict who is blatantly disrespectful to others with disregard for any…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 01:48 AM
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That only works if the other party isn't fighting back. If they are your advice is idiotic as you've just let the person you're restraining get punched in the head without having a defence
/r/PussyPassDenied24/11/20 09:10 PM
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1-10 is stupid. A 5 should be totally in the middle of the bell curve. Patrice o Neal's 1-30 is better. From his mouth 1-10: ugly bitches 10-20 :aight bitches 20-30: hot bitches Most girls that guys rate a 5 are 7-12 on his scale. So 2.3-4 standardised. And it's important because it allows so much room to grade cute girls differently. Like a small town "hottie" is often around the 20 range, and a big city model type is still only probably 25. The hottest girls you've ever seen might be a 24-28 d…
/r/askTRP01/11/20 05:03 AM
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And take off 2/3 an inch. 6.5 inches is top 3% whereas 5.5, rather than being the bottom end of average like you assume, is actually about 60th percentile
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:55 PM
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This is why you use the patrice o neal 1-30 scale which kinda uses the 0-1 style too. 1-10= ugly bitches 10-20=Aight bitches 20-30= Fine bitches It makes you realistic when you translate to 1-10. A girl i was talking to was very cute and to my tastes and i thought of her as like an 8 but when i put her on that scale she's probably 17-18 which is 6 (although on a bell curve this is a top 20% girl). Most hotties that a guy would call a 9 in my small town would be maximum a 22. 25+ are model/hollyw…
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:40 PM
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The reality is the average dick on a man is around 5.2 inches. If you put it up about 20% to assume small dicks fuck less and big dicks more it's still like 5.5 that girls see on average. High budget old school style porn probably has an average of 6.75. Modern porn with mostly low-mid production probably about 6-6.25. Girls know that's not normal
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:06 AM
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Yeah average of 6 would be like saying average height is 6' stats wise. It's 5.2 on the mass scale scientifically measured one from the uk
/r/askTRP23/09/20 11:08 AM
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That's "ripped". "Jacked" would be like a modern pro wrestler (they're less comically huge and more realistic these days)
/r/askTRP11/09/20 10:57 PM
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We don't get much bonding hormone release until we're fucking the same girl for a while. Females get the most oxytocin they'll get with you the first time. Dopamine isn't a bond it just makes us feel accomplished and want to repeat what we did to get it - ie fucking. It goes and if you don't know or build a connection with the girl you have no bond. Women reflect your mood, they can sense your discomfort and are very paranoid at the best of times about giving their body to men who don't want the…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 08:46 PM
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Nothing to do with faithfulness. Most men only enter monogamy because they want to (for different reasons for a 4/10 simp compared to a 9/10 chad obviously). If they had access to unlimited woman they'd still do what they desire. Some men want a relationship and find monogamy is the right fit for their wants, or it is far easier than trying to manage women's crazy shit when they want you to themselves. Some can manage a harem of girlfriends, some others do it with fuckbuddies. Because men mostly…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:15 AM
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It's like tit size. Locker room talk is comparing sizes but bigger is only better in the average range, freak show tits/cocks have no practical advantage except fetish and many disadvantages come with it. Every man has his own boob preferences due to practical reasons. 90% don't like tiny tits. But 90% also find small-medium tits in the normal range fine to great. But bigger than big is for bragging to other men. Few men find giant tits the best or even better than perky medium tits practically …
/r/askTRP03/08/20 05:43 AM
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Given 6.5" is 95th percentile+ in real stats girls who think they fucked a guy with 8-9 inches were probably with a guy below 7. Even if they think big cocks are average they'd be talking about 6 inches. I pack a girthy 6.5 inch and from porn and online i thought i was probably top 30% but turns out I'm top 5% length and 1% girth. I was so confused when girls told me i had a really big cock. 7 inches is as rare as a legit 6'7" guy. One of my mates who's inexperienced with women was convinced his…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:08 AM
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And he didnt even mention makeup! Or heels and push up bras
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/20 11:23 PM
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Stop watching porn. You can't tell the difference between reality and porn plots
/r/askTRP15/07/20 07:13 AM
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You are stupid. Projecting height as being attractive to men like it is for you. Most attractive women are between 5'3" to 5'7" as like 85% of women are in that range and height has a very small correlation to how sexy a woman looks
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:35 PM
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It makes me hate being my authentic self. I can admit mistakes easily and apologise and forgive also quickly and where it is warranted. But the way some people act when one tries to make things right is so juvenile, inflammatory and confrontational that many times i won't do it at all. It is very important to me to make things right as well as i can but the way some people respond indicates a lack of character
/r/askTRP22/06/20 05:55 AM
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Some women, usually those with kids, or studying without a family have betabucks even in their early 20s, especially in more conservative areas. Often beta bucks aren't devoid of masculine and attractive traits. If they are they often get dumped quick. Betas who are somewhat masculine and very predictable and stable are perfect for keeping around while you study. A 24F girl i was fooling around with opened her relationship looking for romance. I think she wants to branch swing but only to someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 08:44 PM
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If you felt worthless as an unattractive woman... I'm sorry to say it hun but you'd be a suicide statistic living as a man. And attractive men that get treated as well as an average woman are top 1-5%. Even then both men and women are bitter to attractive men in the workplace at job interviews etc You wouldn't know social neglect and loneliness til you become an average man. Lady, you compare your looksmatch man at both levels he'll be treated worse in almost every way. You just FEEL it's so bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:38 PM
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I'm 6'2.5" and when girls ask i say 6'3" but when guys ask i say 6'2" on a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:09 AM
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patrice was also 2 metres tall and the most physically imposing size wise man in almost any room, put that with his huge charisma and he commands attention
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 11:53 AM
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90% of fights start out with an altercation and talk before it's go time.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 03:34 AM
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this is typical BJJ fantasy land thinking. It takes years to be effective and natural in a fight situation with pure BJJ. If you know how to box, you can very quickly develop the ability to both give, and avoid damage in a fist fight. 90% of fights are both predictable, as in you get fair warning a fight is gonna happen, and on the feet with untrained strikers exclusively. BJJ after only two months is only effective if you're lucky, the other guy has no idea how to fight and it's a 1v1 fight. It…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 02:53 AM
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No, Boxing is much better for a real fight if you have onnly limited experience. Boxing for a few months will give you the ability to take on most men, even those a bit bigger than you in a real fight. The same amount in BJJ will see you know barely how to get in guard when you're already rocked on the ground by the other guy
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:43 AM
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if you are an 8 or 9 you will look great with a shaved head
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:56 PM
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Yes but that won't happen. Again, use your brain. It has to be proven. And with the way the system wants to believe accusers it takes an overwhelming amount of evidence to convict someone for making false accusations. Someone who was actually raped would have no evidence beyond reasonable doubt to prove they're lying. Your point is nonsense in practicality.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/18 09:29 PM
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Use your brain please. Not true does not equal false. It isn't so binary. There is a lot of area where no one will be convicted
/r/PussyPassDenied25/10/18 09:20 PM
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Now imagine NPD male support or ASPD support. Because most BPD are women they make them a victim
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/18 05:30 AM
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Starting fights creates danger and if there's no safety reason to fight then there is no point, especially in public. Control your urges or be a fucking weak minded animal
/r/askTRP09/07/18 03:04 AM
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5'7"... So you want 75% of girls for the short guys? Cos the average chick is 5'4"-5-5"
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 12:05 AM
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I could give anecdotes from my life about countless men i know acting exactly as i said but i'm not stupid enough to believe anecdotes make a theory. And are you really that deluded to think with all that you've said you have logic on your side? Describing what you write as logical is as logical as calling something with a penis female. It is pure emotion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:59 AM
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You accuse me of making things up and then your last paragraph is pure anecdote. Again, you missed the point. Next time don't skip stats class to go to debating tournaments sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:38 AM
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Next time make sure you actually understand the concept before you use evidence that supports your misaligned view of what this is about. What people ideally want has nothing to do with what they'll accept. Men like hot women and try to punch up but they will still accept a women on a lower level as a desired partner. Nothing about those studies suggests "the opposite" is actually happening. This is online dating you're talking about, not the real world. Next you'll tell me that men all overrate…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:40 AM
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Yes and hypergamy doesn't work in the real world. The only way to fix that is to make normal and lower tier women think that high tier men are not going to date them and they need to get realistic (which was true in the past and is mostly true now) Unfortunately western society pushes the opposite message
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 05:02 AM
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The other thing that makes this problem worse is most men value sex higher than relationships and the apex males don't have to commit to bed multiple women, meaning there's even less men available that women want to date at the top. Everyone knows low value men don't make women happy in relationships, Like I said, the problem is there's not enough men that women see as high value for each woman to have their own fulfilling relationship. But women do crave relationships so some settle down at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:29 AM
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To put is succinctly, women are not attracted to their male counterpart and thus women are fighting for a much smaller pool of men at every level of SMV. And this means women get left out and pair down, taking eligible men from the next tier down of women Of course you could never quantify the numbers to see the actual effect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:15 AM
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The big problem isn't that it's overrated. No one really thinks low value commitment is good and women want it. The problem is that women as a whole want a higher value man than they can realistically attain on the balance of probability. So the 6/10 woman 'settles' for a 6/10 man, not a 4/10 man as you'd expect. And this is with rating on a bell curve, not linear This means a huge proportion of women are going for a much smaller percentage of men and therefore either end up settling, or alone. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:06 AM
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No shit. I understand that perfectly. It's the fact that most women want higher value men than they deserve and think their value is equal to chad who just wanted a hole rather than chad's less popular, only decent looking brother brad who would date them as an equal. Most men are low value by default and I don't blame women for not going with them. It's the above average but not exceptional guys who are losing out. As a whole women don't seem to understand that their value is determined by who …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 02:50 AM
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Better than nothing is a really high bar for women. Only excellent men make the grade, unless they're drunk when some above average men can do well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:55 AM
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Except a lot of women would rather pine for chad, not get laid and cry every night about being lonely than pick out of average joe and fatso moe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 12:14 AM
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You literally just criticized someone for showing confirmation bias...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 09:25 PM
4

Named after the new zealand race car designer and driver Bruce McClaren
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 10:10 PM
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Being raped would give you huge trauma but you would still have all your rights and freedoms. You would be supported and helped by many people and organisations free of charge Being falsely accused could mean you're shunned by everyone who knows you, can't get a job, are assaulted or abused due to an accusation, kicked out of school have to go through a trial and have your name drawn through the mud throughout your community and country. And that's it, unless you are convicted in which your life…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/17 02:22 AM
1

I heard him speak and i knew straight away he was from new zealand and turns out he was raised by an alcoholic grandmother in a small shithole town here and basically left on his own through childhood and adolescence. No wonder he's both dominant and extremely fucked in the head
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 10:30 AM
8

My friend (who is a womaniser and gets whatever women he wants) always got this from girls he went on dates with or was dating. It usually means you have a strong frame and dominant presence. He's always been non serious and aloof but girls can tell it's not out of insecurity, more because he doesn't give a fuck about what they think of him and is entertaining himself
/r/askTRP23/06/17 09:00 AM
0

statistically 100% of people are shorter than you, 98% of guys
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 02:28 AM
2

I am a music producer who has produced nothing, I have over 1000 tracks started. None finished. The main problem for me is that my brain gives me extreme signals to do literally anything else stimulating when i'm bored. And usually I only last 20 minutes to an hour even on stuff i love before i get bored. My boredom causes extreme aggravation and high anxiety whereas the average man's causes mild irritation (judging by other people I've talked to about this). This is the one main ADHD symptom th…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:45 AM
1

Problem is that escapism can help a lot but you can't run from your life forever and everyone in our society has got to do some boring shit.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:44 AM
15

Unfortunately for people who actually do have adhd this relationship is different. The body does not produce enough dopamine to start with which means the dopamine chasing isn't caused by instant gratification and desensitization but rather the brain is still sensitive but doesn't produce enough naturally. This is one of the few symptoms shared by almost all with ADHD . Thus without medication to flood the dopamine pathways (which then causes desensitization) discipline is often as hard to achie…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 09:09 AM
0

You do realise a slut is the female equivalent to a creep right. Sluts are unattractive and unliked by men and used for their resources (sex) that men want if they even interact with them at all. Sluts make men feel the same gut feeling of disgust as creeps make women feel
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 01:41 AM
3

if you're masculine most chicks won't care and at 5'11" and masculine even the height hoes will probably think you're taller than the magic number
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:05 AM
3

That last sentence is just as valid to refer to your beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 02:16 AM
0

You're too emotionally invested to look outside of what you want women to be, to what they are, And no, it isn't naive. And how the fuck is it dehumanizing to say that a trait is common in men but not in women? Because it's not a positive thing so it dehumanizes them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 02:08 AM
0

It's only dehumanizing if you think of loyalty without fault as a very common human trait. It's not. It is a fairly common trait in men and extremely uncommon in women except for their children. It's never women who fuck up their own life out of loyalty and a bond to other people with no benefit at all to them. Only times women do things that seem like that is for their kids or when they're infatuated. Keep in mind RP knows women can and do show loyalty often. But never without fault except to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:32 PM
3

No he's really not one of the most talented singers in the world. He's a very good singer but like this guy says you can find them everywhere. He's not got a mind blowing talent, just got famous.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:00 PM
5

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 03:39 AM
5

Feminism comes to countries with a high standard of living not the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 02:46 AM
1

I live in New Zealand which is slightly more left than USA but the left right split is less prevalent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 02:17 AM
1

I beg to differ, If you go into a place with a true hierarchy I see it often. It might be more subtle though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 02:13 AM
1

Guys are a lot harsher and put those below them down a lot more than you seem to think. Not just the omegas although they get it worse and from all men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 02:01 AM
1

Yes I would say that. Keep in mind though it's very relative to where guys sit. Like top 10% alphas (usually only the insecure ones) will do that to average and even above average guys and those guys in turn do it to the bottom tier guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:52 AM
1

I understand your confusion. But i would say it's like the omegas are at a point where any girl is considered out of their league. Most of the time if they like a hideous girl who is actually in their league they get less shaming but still some. And you've gotta remember there are guys who are okay looking but their social skills alone make them omega So they can be equivalent in looks to girls and be considered below. Oh and maybe if i mentioned my high school was a boys only school that might …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:45 AM
2

Yeah pretty much. The guys that respect AND like him are the ones i mean by friends. They treat the dude as an equal. A lot of these omegas can be liked but not respected by other men and that's when they talk down and make fun of guys who they don't mind being around. I remember being made fun of for liking a girl that the cool dudes thought was more in their league but when i got with her the omegas i knew were in awe that i was the kind of guy that got hot girls and talked still to these guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:36 AM
2

They're desexualised by women and men who aren't acquainted with them. Their friends generally treat them like a normal dude and talk about girls. In high school I was the alpha around the omegas and omega and bullied by the alphas so I know both. I was an average dude and where people saw me was totally dependent on how they met me and who their group was
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:28 AM
2

I'm talking about when you have women respond positively to how you're acting. Like they're interested in communication and like you. Average dudes have this happen sometimes The bottom men don't even experience that, if they try to interact with women they don't like it and have closed body language and negative facial expression
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 01:19 AM
3

Yeah if you line up 5 random guys together from all across the population at the same age there would most likely be 1 guy who gets laid. One thing that i have noticed talking to popular dudes who kill it (top 10%) is they, like women don't seem to understand just how many guys don't get any because all their boys get laid, most of the guys who go to the same parties they do get some and all they see is other top 20% guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 11:45 PM
3

In my social group maybe 10% of the guys in the group have any sex outside of relationships or FWB at least. And these guys are the studs of our group. We all go out a lot and can get dates but not casual sex. I would say our group is average for guys that go out and hit the clubs. What I think a lot of women don't see is that way below average out on the town is probably nearer to bottom 40% than bottom 20%. And these guys are statistically average and get no girls. Only the above average guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 11:37 PM
3

Probably innocent going to jail or being convicted because there's a very small percentage of criminals in the population, let alone who go to court, are acquitted of a crime they committed and then go on to kill someone I know
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 07:47 AM
9

I hope you're the innocent that goes to jail then
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/17 07:40 AM
1

You're so crazy you think you're not crazy nor unreasonasble
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 04:51 AM
1

Jack Johnson is a good artist to play
/r/askTRP14/02/17 10:43 AM
2

No, asians are still easy to tell for 1 or 2 generations. I know a girl who has a chinese grandmother but is otherwise white and when i met her she had enough of a hint of asian for me to think about it. And that's only with one grandparent
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 01:31 AM
2

Vince Vaughn just looks overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 03:51 AM
3

Nope they would rather find a man that's more powerful and also wealthier than them but these men don't exist in any meaningful number. If a 60 year old billionaire wanted to be with them this bullshit you talk about will go away real quick. plus you don't seem to understand what AWALT even means
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 02:26 AM
3

It's got nothingto do with social acceptableness. It's all about the different thongs men and women look for in a partner. Men look for beauty and femininity in many women which is lacking in women 35+ and women look for wealth, dominance and power in one man which is lacking for men in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:23 AM
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You mean the idiot dad and useless family who have to be controlled by the responsible and intelligent woman who finds it hard to keep her head because her family is so useless without her trope. Because that is most definitely more negative towards men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:16 AM
1

I heard the bottom 10% of men is similar to the top 10% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 04:48 AM
1

Yeah but ladies are almost never incels. They can always get laid if that is a priority. incel is someone who actively tries to get sex but can't or who has actively tried to but given up. there's a lot of other types that are close though. Me for example in my BP days charmed girls and had them into me on a few occasions but my inner insecurities paralysed me from doing anything so I was like a half incel. Then there are the female version of incels who are alone and can't get a date because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 12:42 AM
1

that will never happen. Women will never take accountability for their shortcomings and try to fix it because they are mostly incapable of logically thinking about why they fail. They always blame external factors or put unspecified blame on themselves without thinking about why it's their fault or what they can do. If there was a real red pill site for women who failed and want to fix it it'd have to be gentle advice coddling and taking the heat off the women that visit. Even a lot of men can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 04:15 AM
1

In my country it's weird because our men are considered attractive overall and women not. So i see so many couples where the man is much more handsome than the women is beautiful but they're probably equivalent on a bell curve a lot of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 02:42 AM
2

This has happened to my friend many times. I wouldn't quite say he's a Chad but he's ridiculously charming and girls can't get enough. He met a girl and started seeing her casually as that's what she told him she wanted and he agreed. He saw her a few times and they fucked every time. Then he goes over for dinner and after he met her mum he realised she'd been calling him her boyfriend and telling everyone they were dating. He got with another girl at a party and told her. She went nuts at him a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/17 02:10 AM
3

No team women isn't about women being loyal to each other all the time. It's about women always backing each other up against men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 08:33 PM
2

Yes i do. You still don't understand what this guy was saying. It's totally normal to be in that state. Only a few men ever attain the ability to kill the ego and truly do whatever they want without trying to gain something. I'm like you as well. I understand exactly why you do what you do, But there are men who are exactly like that and these are the true alphas. If you go by the philosophy of only giving what you get it shows that you only care about getting and giving is only to get. That is …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:57 PM
3

You're an idiot. The whole point is that you get to a position where you don't care if you give more than you get because nothing phases you. You do what you want without regard for transactions. And that includes not doing things if you don't want to as well. No, you clearly don't do things because you love your friends, you do things looking for future benefit from them which is exactly nice guy behaviour except you're doing it to your mates
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:38 PM
6

The madonna-whore complex is strong with this one
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 02:55 AM
1

The inability to understand the abstract is the sign of low intelligence. I'd be surprised if sipssparklingwater had an iq in double digits
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 07:06 AM
8

Yes but the older men who can get younger women are the ones the older women see as perfect for them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/17 12:04 PM
1

Yeah over 6'1" it's a lot easier but it doesn't get any more so over like 6'5". I basically would consider myself totally average and i'm overweight but being 6'3" I get such an advantage over dudes that i can pull as easily as 5'9-5'11" guys who are better than me in every other way by a bit
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 06:40 AM
1

Wow dude you're super special and unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 12:52 AM
2

I have ADHD and it makes my default state dopamine hunting. When i take my medication I feel like a normal person who isn't at the mercy of thrill seeking
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 05:58 AM
1

True, But women as a whole love "shitty men" and then talk about how bad they are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 10:22 PM
1

It shows a lack of self control instinctively men don't like because paternity is not something that is known for fact in natural conditions. If your woman is going to hoe around who knows if her kid is yours. And many hot women show restraint and judgement. And yes, low value women get hit on less. But really, all she has to do is go to the club and dance on a guy and odds are she can get laid too. Most men are thirsty enough that any woman that shows interest is in. Being hit on = more chances…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 05:33 AM
2

Men and women are different. A slutty man is not the same value as a slutty man evolutionarily
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 05:28 AM
2

No. These alphas don't care because they're seeing the women as sexual objects, not romantic prospects. If an 'alpha' dude wanted a relationship he'd care even more than a beta because he's got choices, and also that he will know first hand how messed up a lot of sluts are compared to low n-count girls. All men know instinctively that slutty women = bad partners
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 04:52 AM
1

Yeah girls can be fun to be around. Personally me and my dudes only hang with girls to get a mixed crowd while going out because it makes it easier to get other people to have fun with us and it also helps us lighten up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 04:57 AM
1

If you're not a heterosexual or bisexual man then there's no place for you to disagree. You don't know what men see in women. You only know what you see. It's not that you have any evidence to think that the men in this thread are lying or not reflective of the general population. You just feel like they must be wrong because you don't want to admit due to ego that women and most likely yourself as an extension are a lot less interesting to men than you feel they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 12:12 AM
1

Nothing that attracts men on first meeting anyway. Most women are annoying and vapid. Very unlikable and unintelligent. Spending time with them is a negative. Even when they're attracted and try to be fun and charming, showing interest in conversation and me as a person, without sexuality they have nothing i couldn't get from a male friend. Most women don't ever give me any reason to judge them positively as anything other than a sexual being. It upsets women to hear this. They want to think tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 11:53 PM
1

I would argue that women are the ones who objectify themselves. If a woman brings anything more than sexuality to the table then men won't just think of her just as a sex object no matter how hot she is. Maybe primarily as that, but not exclusively. This is one thing women struggle to understand. Most men (especially BP men) are very quick to fall for a women who has anything at all going for her outside of sexuality. Problem is most women just dangle their sexuality to attract men and it works …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 11:35 PM
3

You do realise that women like them because of fame not looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/16 09:00 AM
25

Most people i know that voted for Hillary are misandrists and rub it in peoples faces. See it's easy to label the voters as something but it's never the caricature that's real. Most Trump supporters stayed quiet
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 11:55 PM
1

He's talking about oxytosin. Dopamine is the only reason they still get with guys, for the thrill. Never for love
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 10:10 PM
2

and ariana grande looks 10
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 02:43 AM
26

They need validation, not dick. dick is just the bet way to get it
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 12:04 PM
6

I disagree. The ignorance most woman seem to show to how their lack of responsibility and precaution can put them at greater risk is reinforced by the way they reassure each other. Say a woman was groped in an alley by herself. Her friends would all assure her that it wasn't her fault and there was nothing she could do. This is where it breaks down, because there was something she could have done. Problem is, women seem to really dislike hearing things that make them or other women feel upset an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 04:26 AM
6

Nah her equivalent would be skinny fat, average height, ok face
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 10:47 PM
19

Should have asked her what toys she likes with her happy meal
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 11:24 AM
4

I'd speculate that it's not the women being better, rather that men are more trustworthy in regards to being a side piece, So women have more reliable, less vindictive people to cheat with than men do
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 03:07 AM
5

Being obese seems to bring on puberty quicker in girls. I remember the only younger girls my height at primary school were fatties. And another example is my sister. She was overweight and started puberty at 9 or 10. She was taller than me (equivalently) at 12 and only the other big girls seemed to compare. To put that in perspective she is 5'3" fully grown and i'm 6'3". A lot of those girls are done growing up by 13-14.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 06:24 AM
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Even guys who have moderate disabilities can be desirable to women. I can pull tail and i have mild cerebral palsy rendering my left side useless for fine motor control. I know a guy with one leg missing below the knee and a deformed arm and he pulls and hits the gym
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 12:42 AM
2

What i mean is a girl's feelings come into it more and hypergamy is subjective in any location, or when a guy is unique or whatever when it's more primal attraction to how a woman looks for men
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 10:10 AM
2

Most of the time a man's scale is based off where he stands though. The guy who rates a 5 will be high smv and the man who rates her a 9 will be low smv comparatively to each other most of the time. Girls are a little more random than that
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 09:29 AM
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When you're rich and handsome with status like him women line up so the illusion of true love and unicorns can be maintained being blue pill. When you can get whatever you want you can remain naive easily
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 09:11 AM
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The footballer is 6'2", built well and looks like this So he's not exactly got anything less than the forestry worker other than alpha traits. (he's much more handsome with a better body than the other guy)
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:51 AM
2

Those maybe things aren't thinks they overtly say either, at least not at the same time as discussing sex. They try to imply you should do more for them in order to make you feel guilt
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 12:44 AM
5

A deep voice isn't always optimal. I speak around E2 (lowest note on a guitar normally) and I often can't be heard over the bass when clubbing even when speaking very loudly. I have to often go right up to the ear and almost yell. Don't worry that much about pitch unless your voice is very high. worry about resonance and power (boomy voice) which you get from breathing properly from your diaphragm and using your lower back muscles to support your breath.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 07:08 PM
2

Yeah, for mine a 6'5"+ guy gets novelty points but for pure attraction they're below the 6'3"/ 6'4" guys.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:41 AM
1

This is what causes my father and I to battle. Neither of us ever thinks we're wrong so any disagreement always escalates
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:26 AM
3

Being above 6'5" actually puts you in the freak zone. If you're built you can rock it though. I'd say 6'2"-6'4" is the sweet spot for height. Anyone under like 5'7" is in the same boat unless you're a midget. basically all short dudes are gonna get the same shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 12:50 AM
2

In real life it's better but still not great. I'm quite tall and decent looking but a bit overweight with a burly build and I get IOI/trying to gain my attention when i go out frequently but only by HB<4/10. I'm not a top tier dude but i'm above average. Point is that these unattractive girls are at least more realistic outside of their online bubble. These girls rightly see the top guys they want as unattainable but the next tier down (the guys girls rate as average but are actually 7-8s) are s…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 05:19 AM
3

yeah because you're not attractive to them due to insecurity. And that causes them to look for things they don't like rather than what they do. If you owned your shit i guarantee yo'd get no height comments or if you did it would at most be a playful neg
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:46 AM
7

These people aren't all morons. they're testing to see if you are.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 06:42 AM
5

He's talking about the sexual marketplace. This is where young women have all the power to choose. The only way for a man to be able to be in demand is to have multiple women choose him above all other men. Men as a whole aren't shit in the market. The point of this post is to show the NEED to raise SMV to even have a chance at competing. Men who are pure alpha in behaviour can still be outshined by wealthy or high status men easily. You missed the point totally. If you don't have the ability to…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 06:53 AM
1

Russians get better premiums on car insurance with a car camera
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 10:00 AM
0

Women like men who are aggressive and masculine yes, but to get them to understand what you want you have to speak in their language (act how they do). Passive-aggression and then demands is how females approach changing things about a man so they understand exactly what a man means when he exhibits those behaviours.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 03:59 AM
2

Black artists have been banned for misogyny. NZ and Australia banned Odd Future and their leader Tyler the Creator for alleged terrorist and anti police attitudes but it's more likely that it was really due to feminist complaints
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 04:45 AM
3

Not just any height though, dude is a strong 6'5". That coupled with status and fame is all he would have needed to get those models and celebrity women
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 03:04 AM
19

Only use in being friends with women is networking and even then it's not great
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 11:54 PM
0

I think he would have more enjoyment with hotter girls and wouldn't have to put in much effort. I want him to get the best girls and have the most fun he can. My point is, he puts in zero effort. If he put just a tiny bit of effort in he could have his pick. By effort I actually just mean picking targets based on attractiveness not perceived receptiveness. Because with his game and looks most of them will be receptive ultimately.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 05:37 AM
1

What about if you are intoxicated and you wouldn't hit that sober? I know a friend who is a Chad and is picky sober and on social media because he can be but as soon as he's drunk he seems to be like a hunter looking for easy prey so he often hooks up with ugly girls that are just the easiest or approach him first. I think it's because he's never had to actually put in any effort so he doesn't know how to pull girls that aren't down for him straight away. Lucky for him this is only about 20%. I …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 12:41 AM
1

Most people use "exclusive" and "LTR" interchangeably.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 08:01 AM
1

Not too firm because everyone knows the tactic of looking masculine and it looks like AMOGing/overcompensation when it's like a vice.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 11:25 PM
6

Lots of people on TRP see black and white with left and right. You're either a good, manly, smart conservative or a bad, weak idiotic liberal. A lot of them would actually be traditional liberals.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 11:20 AM
1

There's also the ones who women think they can beat into submission but can't
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 04:01 AM
2

The dilemma of the classic liberal
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 02:20 AM
9

Most Porsches cost more than most Toyotas, but some don't. Some Toyotas are MORE EXPENSIVE! This proves they are the same thing
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 10:25 AM
2

New Zealand has been a feminazi infested country for years. But the only saving grace is most average people don't fall for the bullshit here.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 12:55 PM
2

And at least the man knows the truth. So he knows why he can't be fulfilled
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:56 AM
2

I think you're right. IDGAF about what others think at all. But my lack of ability to achieve even the smallest goals or to persist in anything has meant I avoid trying to do things because nothing good will happen. Only anxiety and failure. I have a brain injury which caused mild cerebral palsy, but more relevant is my extreme ADHD-like lack of executive function and focus. I get extreme anxiety from lack of stimulation and also from not being able to concentrate on and complete things i need t…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 12:42 PM
2

I totally get that man. Internal stimuli are almost impossible to find when you're depressed. I'm similar to you. IDGAF about what other people think. But I also neglect myself
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 07:04 AM
4

Good post. I'm an AFC My problem has been that IDGAF about anything at all, not even myself. I have never had any ability to motivate myself internally. Not sure how to work on this
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 07:01 AM
2

This makes perfect sense to me. Because i'm exactly how you described. I went on programs for gifted kids and it was better but still I had the same problem. It used to get me upset seeing kids who were so much less intelligent than me (but still smart) have such an easy time comparatively but now I realise it's my fault and I have to work at my weaknesses a lot more to show my real potential.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 12:37 AM
-1

IQ means very little. My IQ is around 160 but I'm achieving very little. Partly due to a brain injury that gives me ADHD like lack of working memory and focus. But also due to my lack of discipline I can't seem to fix and perhaps Aspergers along with mood disorders make these harder to overcome. But still, i should be doing better. Point being, it's hard work and drive that gets you places not pure brains. On the odds of probability I've never met someone with a higher IQ yet I'm failing at life…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 09:40 AM
10

What you think is over 160 is probably over 120
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 08:35 AM
1

Even then it's just rehashing essay style writing. But I suppose at least they're still putting their mind on writing.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 11:21 AM
2

I'm not OP in case you were confused. But I'm glad my writing was good enough for you to confuse me with someone deserving of praise.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 11:19 AM
1

These days no-one improves their writing outside of school. And even in school they only teach you to write what they want with specific structures. I've just finished high school and although they taught me about essay writing and I write more like an adult than when I was 12. I didn't learn shit in regards to writing skills. I learnt parts of speech, and essay skills but fuck all else. Point being, teenager is now where most people peak at writing because of the lack of a need to write later o…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 08:13 AM
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I'm an uncomfortable cross between the two. I was completely incel for longer than most guys (kissing included) and I have social anxiety. This means that i really don't like meeting up with girls. I could hide behind a screen and game girls well enough that some showed interest but the fact that i'd never done anything caused me to be avoidant. I'm 18 and I've gamed enough girls on fb to be in double figures if i met up with them. I've started to socialise and go out in the past couple of years…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 12:08 PM
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Hood betas are the most dangerous people at parties or clubs in my opinion. Cause 99% of shit that goes down.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 06:52 AM
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Most of the betas are thugs that cover their insecurity up by acting like they're the shit. But unlike guys that fake it til they make it, these guys show obvious beta traits whenever they're in a relationship. They're so often clingy and jealous with oneitis. That's the 'hood' beta.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 01:25 AM
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I think this is true for most women of low class cultures in any given location. I'm from New Zealand and Maori girls are generally the same as these African-American women, in fact, I'd say the more typical of a Maori upbringing they have the more prevalent this is. At parties they act stuck up and bitchy, like they're trying to be an alpha female and they also put up the facade of being in control and amused mastery when something unfavourable happens.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 12:00 PM
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Some women are the opposite. They act like a cunt all the time and use apologies as a manupilation tool to try to keep whatever they want going. Most people accept apologies too much
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 01:36 AM
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Ronaldo is basically Chad+++++. Extremely famous sportsman who is one of the best in the world. Incredibly wealthy and looks like a male model. He probably didn't want any women having any kid of control over his life because he can raise his kids how he wants and bang HB9+ daily. He's alpha bucks but being so wealthy women see the bucks first.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 08:51 PM
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Sometimes you can ask them that exact thing and it shocks them. "What's in it for me?" gets them qualifying and thinking about what they've actually got
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 10:58 AM
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I'm an INTP which is interesting and seems right. Most of the people in here will be -NT- Through the nature of the redpill i think
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 09:58 AM
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I have the same problem, when a girl is actually hot I still don't care about her individually at all but I'm much less RP/alpha in how I deal with her. I sometimes qualify myself, or text twice and come off as clingy. But I talk to heaps at once and have some that want me so it's not lack of abundance, it's lack of showing abundance, likely not because I'm thirsty but because I'm lonely. I never feel lonely but i act like a lonely person.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 10:45 AM
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My attitude is always "I can take whatever you're giving! Fuck you for punishing me. I won't do what you want." The attitude they want is "I didn't like that, maybe next time i'll think better." I've always had problems with authority of any kind though so I'd guess i'm a minority in that regard.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:37 AM
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I firmly believe OP is correct. I'm very stubborn and negative reinforcement never once worked on me as my parents would want it. My dad is quite alpha so it's not them being pushovers, it's just that negative reinforcement only causes anger and resentment from me towards the punisher. I think a lot of guys are like this. Of course I'm not the same as all guys but negative reinforcement is generally the way of people who are either unaware or not in control
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 07:29 AM
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I'm a kiwi and my school had a haka that we all learnt and performed when our rugby team played at home. Despite most of the white boys like myself not wanting to learn it, I used to perform it with full heart because you can feel the power and masculine energy running through you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QA9Pmi2X5wM here is a video of my old school doing this haka
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 03:06 AM
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Don't necessarily speak deeper in pitch, the resonance from your chest is the most important detail. The fact that dropping pitch is the most natural way for the untrained to do this is why it's said so often. I have problems with my voice being too deep in loud rooms, especially with music playing so I actually raise the pitch of my voice but ensure i still have that boom to my voice.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 05:55 AM
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Those guys aren't top 5%, they are top 0.01%. It seems that most redpillers underrate how rare the truly top guys are. Also percentages seem to be part of the reason, if you see top 5% as 1 out of 20 guys you'll realise that theses guys are a lot less than what you assume and that also applies to the arbitrary top 20%.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 02:25 AM
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My sister might be a nice girl sometimes but she's an absolutely horrible girlfriend the kind of which you hard next in a week. (she's only 15 so maybe something could slightly change). It takes a real strong alpha who can also dish out countless comfort tests to keep her happy because she's crazy. Not gonna happen ever. Her current bf is alpha as fuck apart from being typical blue pill loyal. But she uses comfort tests as the leverage. He fails and she goes next level crazy because he doesn't c…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 03:23 AM
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Spot on. And if they do anything resembling a shit test it's almost certainly just a roleplay/tease thing. they want you to put them in their place but generally they also like being treated nice so they're very hard to fail tests
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 02:05 AM
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There's another level of submissive girl that if you establish total dominance immediately they are like jelly. The main difference in the ones i'm talking about is there's not the shit test barrage that others give, they're so attracted to dominance they submit without challenge
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 11:08 AM
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This really works. i am extremely good with names, I'm almost obsessive with knowing people's names in that anyone who i can possibly interact with I memorize. I remember when i started high school i would overhear conversations and remember names it allowed me to fit in a tiny bit better. But now remembering names is a power play in attracting positive interactions with people from around town. I find that everyone else forgets a lot more than i do so they're always impressed that I remember so…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:05 AM
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I saw the comments you're addressing and I made similar points on that thread. Good quality post.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 01:39 AM
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Why are some of you guys trying to blame your bad luck on height and his ability to get some on his height? Yes height lures them to match, but it was almost all his text game that got him likely laid. I'm 6'3" and not attractive to women that I haven't met without game. If you're 5'8" for example and really think you need something like that to draw them in; then lift, take pictures with girls or of you doing cool shit. OP wouldn't have got shit without game. TL;DR Height or other attractive fa…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 11:17 PM
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I can fake empathy really easily. I think the same goes for me, depression has numbed me to others. My problem is that this depression involves rage and anger which makes me very quickly turn from mostly alpha behaviours (which are how I am when calm) to just being a pure asshole and more beta when i'm angry. If I could work out my anger I would seem like an alpha leader and gain respect rather than a bossy asshole with none. The latter was what everyone thought of me as until i changed my ways …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 11:04 PM
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I realised this a year or so ago before i found trp. I was always an alpha acting person but being bullied and my ignorance of my lack of empathy (which meant i didn't get why i wasn't liked) made me gradually more of a pussy as from intermediate (6th/7th grade) to high schooil I changed from always in trouble to avoiding it and that made me all the worse. Then years later I thought about it and realised that i really don't care about other people in general and that my avoidant behaviour was ru…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 11:41 AM
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Yeah I'm 6'2.5 and one time I was talking to this guy and his girl. She mentioned how tall I was and asked my height. I said 6'2" and then she asked him (He was probably 6ft even) and he hesitated for a second, eyed me and said 6'1". Probably the same effect
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 12:22 PM
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Here in New Zealand it's unconditionally 16.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 09:17 PM
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the "slow, old and feeble" motif is excellent as well. Very good job! I wonder how many BP men and women would understand even after the idea of the rabbit as a women was shown.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 12:46 AM
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OmLaLa Machiavellian I believe you. Do you smoke? Because that often makes speaking voices sound like someone is trying to change it
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:31 AM
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My parents aren't married but live together. I have a double barrelled name. Interestingly, my mother had 2 sisters who both had only daughters (although one aunt used ivf to get a child). My father has a brother (without child) and two sisters (both who married and had kids. Thus I'm the only one who will carry either one of my grandfather's names if i choose to marry, but since i have a double barrel I carry both.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 11:09 AM
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Yeah, my girth is exactly the cut off point she mentioned. First time using a condom crushed my dick Not desirable to be that size. I'd gladly take 1-1.5 inches off my girth
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 10:42 PM
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Her younger self would probably tell this bitter crone to "fuck off"
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 10:35 PM
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I think you might just be on to something! Maybe if someone fleshes it out there could be a full thread on this idea.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 04:30 AM
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In my experience, a lot of guys can't take true banter. As you said, either they feel insulted and emasculated or they're trying to AMOG hard. Often the softer kind of testing jokes are better for these types. By that I mean stuff that's obviously fictional, complete over the top bullshit (non-threatening) rather than a joke with elements of reality thrown in (more threatening). Only problem is it's a lot less adaptable and not as funny in general. Although the upside is generally it works with …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 01:24 AM
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I'm not the most self confident but I'm extremely confident with agreeing and amplifying, simply because the way my friends and I joke is very similar to how interested girls shit test. It seems to me that other guys who I can have this kind of banter with take girls less seriously and thus succeed more. I think that how you interact with friends impacts how easy it is to interact with girls
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 11:57 PM
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Dude I have Cerebral Palsy (albeit mild) and I can still lift (kind of) and do cardio. But I don't gym because my body can barely handle a game of soccer and training once a week as it is so if i go to the gym I won't be able to play
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 10:19 AM
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I'm overweight at 6'3" 220 but I never get seen as fat by any people because i'm built big so your point is right by my experience. At my current muscle mass I should be 185-195 ideally but it doesn't matter to women so much
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 04:43 AM
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It is hamstering because these reasons are bullshit rationalisations and not the real reason they did it
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 04:37 AM
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I'm wanting to start lifting and bettering myself physically but I'm disabled (left arm and leg have very little muscle control and flexibility) e.g. I can do about 235 on both legs at the leg press with no consistant workout but only about 25 max is my left leg. I'm built big but slightly overweight (right arm is well above average size wise but a bit fatty, left arm is average for a guy who doesn't lift or do any heavy use) How can I lift in ways that i can do individual limbs and not get frus…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 04:39 AM
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