| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 9 | Escalating from friendship | Escalation & Calibration | dykjozo | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 12:56 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Do people often fall In love with their therapist?I like fast cars. I wanna become racist | /r/seduction | 22/07/26 02:24 PM |
| 1 | i just had sex with someone that i met on dating apps and now i can’t leave him alone ( i was thinking i can do casual) but it turns out i want him real badSounds like "ego" thing. You are saying he did not treat you like a person so you just want an aproval that you are human.. | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 01:23 PM |
| 1 | How do i portray myself as non needy?What about being person that genuinely enjoys company of the other person, where neither of you needs anyone | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Escalating from friendshipTho one thing is she says friendship is for life, once a friend, she cannot see a guy in any other way. (she did not say it in response to anything I done, or said. Rather she brought that up few times before when her friend of 10 years made an advance towards her in big talk / grand gesture style and got really reactive when rejected) And seems to ignore direct question in messages and a day later send me something random. So trying to thread lightly. But I get it. She owes me a dinner at her p… | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Escalating from friendshipThe last event was when I was at her place and when I was putting on my shoes to leave, she spread her arms, asked if she wants me to hug her. Came up to her, hugged her hard, squeezed her butt. My guess is if it was uncomfortable she would say something or cut down the contact, but tbh she seems to be reacting in more feminine way. We were not really in "touch/ hug zone" before recently, first time she said I am sucking energy from her. Then one time we were chilling and smacked her butt few ti… | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Escalating from friendshipYea, being "available" is my problem as well. Though its more like general setting for me, basically procrastination. Working on it. Turned off notifications on all socials. If there is something important they can call me. Turned off green dots signaling activity. And basically limited texting women. It was basically feeding the neediness. Texting only unimportant stuff that I dont mind being ignored. A quick call and one can get uninterrupted attention. If she does not answer or call back late… | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 02:31 PM |
| 4 | Escalating from friendshipThanks, really good advice and it kinda supports my approach. I reckon I am somewhere between the close friend and acquaintance. So far I am introducing the sexual "angle" into her mind. Push pull flirting, breaking the touch barrier. And she seems to be reacting well to it, at first she was like i am sucking energy from her by touch and later said it recharges her. Even asking for a touch. Grand gesture is really a bad idea, since it more likely takes her off-guard, such things give even me an … | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Was I too available?Deep breaths and tell yourself you are overthinking. Everything is okay. If it does not workout it is okay. Detach yourself from it and have fun | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How to stop caring whether she texts you or notStop texting, start calling instead | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Should I text her if I am not able to think of a way to ask in-person?what about calling her? | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over my fear of women? 28M[ Removed by Reddit ] | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 12:24 PM |
| 1 | You Fixed Your Body and Bank Account - But Still No GirlsYea being okay with yourself is a baseline, relationships are just bonus not everyone gets | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 11:13 PM |
| 1 | You Fixed Your Body and Bank Account - But Still No GirlsWhat if i bench 30 kilos more? Or where is the point where women start throwing at me??? Is it in relation to my bodyweight or it is flat number like 100kgs f.e.? Asking for a friend anyways | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 11:11 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter