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dzy1/r/seduction04/05/11 09:40 PM
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ok just making sure lol
/r/seduction15/02/16 03:41 PM
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The fact that are you are trying to judge them as "high quality". Bro if you like her and she likes you, go with it and explore. Stop window shopping for the "perfect" one.
/r/seduction15/02/16 02:38 PM
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Good job! Imo next time go for the number. Also if the guy interacted with the both of you and even though he recognized her introduce yourself, say hi, shake his hand, and be a presence. But overall, good job breaking out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction13/02/16 06:14 PM
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Assuming it's a good kiss. Stay close keep eye contact, smile and do it again.
/r/seduction12/02/16 11:43 PM
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Usually one day before I like to send a quick check in text to make sure no plans have changed, like "we still on for tomorrow night?" Unless you guys are already chatting up a storm naturally, its better not to contact her much before hand.
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:47 PM
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Look man, sometimes its hard to analyze yourself. If you are doing all this by yourself, maybe theres something you aren't able to see that others can. I'd say get a buddy to help you out and analyze what you are doing wrong. Or sign up for some of those classes with a PUA (I know seddit doesn't like that word but whatever) and they can analyze what they see. Everyone pretty much sees themselves as normal and average, because thats what we see everyday and are what we are used to. Get some outsi…
/r/seduction23/04/13 05:15 PM
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Can I party with you guys sometime?!
/r/seduction02/02/12 04:16 AM
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Theres 3 main types of closes. Close - You get her number Kiss Close - You get her number and a Kiss/Makeout F Close - Fuck close, #'s and Kissing is optional lol
/r/seduction21/05/11 12:07 AM
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lion tamer, astronaut....just pick something outrageous...
/r/seduction20/05/11 07:19 AM
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See I feel that way about day game. I can solo all night long, but bring me out to the day, its like i'm a fucking vampire
/r/seduction20/05/11 06:32 AM
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upvote for having the balls to go out by yourself. Honestly I have my most success sarging alone. It forces you to approach when you don't have a safety group. Heres some tips: 1. Talk to ANYONE to get into the zone - Be it a guy or girl even the creeper wall dude. Get yourself used to talking to people. 2. Don't be a wall flower, always try to be talking to someone if you are stationary. 3. Have FUN. 4. Don't underestimate the power of instant wings. If the dude is cool, let help him help you. …
/r/seduction20/05/11 05:56 AM
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Never give a straight answer when they ask the first time. HB: What do you do Me: I'm an Illusionist. HB: Wtf really? Me: Haha no..etc etc Just go with it, and enjoy yourself. You are there to have fun.
/r/seduction20/05/11 05:45 AM
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This is during the Day, girls don't have their bitch shields up. Go direct, and close. Just don't build it up and make it seem like a big deal.
/r/seduction19/05/11 04:52 PM
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What I'm saying is you should start
/r/seduction19/05/11 04:07 PM
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agreed, use it to your advantage.
/r/seduction19/05/11 04:00 PM
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Get used to talking to people. Meet a social group (friends). Read sidebar/pick up ONE set of materials (mystery, style, etc etc) practice practice practice
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:59 PM
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Of course its possible you just read all day long and don't apply. My rule is follow one overarching philosophy/guru of pickup. Anything else you learn to bounce it against that style and use or don't use based upon that. Calibration
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:56 PM
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Don't confuse with oneitis with meeting a girl thats right for you. Ultimately the goal of seduction (or should imo) is to meet the one you want to meet, get the girl you want to get. If you are latching onto every different girl you meet...that might be oneitis...if you really dig the girl, its not oneitis to pursue her.
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:54 PM
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we don't, or you don't? You seem to be speaking for her, did she tell you this? You definitely don't to call too often..too needy and too relationship..y Texts are low investment and can be done more regularly.
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:52 PM
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Awesome replies +1 Gonna give these rplies to my friend who has a little bit of a height issue (at least in his mind)
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:50 PM
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Did you # close? You cant' make a connection if you don't have a conversation with her.
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:47 PM
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I personally like to text first, low investment and if she is buys much easier for her to reply
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:45 PM
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Movies are hard first dates...not a fan
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:43 PM
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If I can assume you guys are semi-regularly texting back and forth, set it up a day or two. If the waters isn't as warm, dont' shoot for a commit, steer the conversation/texts into things YOU are doing and basically if she says "oh thats cool/interesting" throw her a pebble and be like, "you should tag/come along...etc".
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:41 PM
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"Maybe another time" isn't a complete blow off. She just wants you to suggest another time, but is also a lower investment than saying "how about [x] day". Go into a different threat with her in a day or two talk about something else. Dinner is a very big investment for a girl do less datey things first.
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:38 PM
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Theres NOTHING wrong with texting. Don't sit on a number too long, texts are low investments for the both of you, shoot her a text that same night or the day after and bring back any sort of feelings/connections you guys had when meeting (basically bringing her back into the zone u guys were in). I would only call her if she regularly responds to my texts.
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:36 PM
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1a. Either way works. You can run more complicated game with a wing, but if you are starting out, soloing is much more helpful to your game than going with a wing. The problem with a wing or group is you get caught being comfortable in your group and it hinders your willingness to approach. If you are at a club alone, you'll be miserable enough for some human interaction that you will be more inclined to approach either men or women. Of course it does help to have someone to discuss game with yo…
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:32 PM
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Good shit on approaching day game...props. If you are doing day game, go direct. Here is the ABC of pickup: Always Be Closing
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:26 PM
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First don't want so long to text. You want to bring back the feelings of that moment when you guys met asap. Texting next day is not desperate...especially if you met at a club you need to get back in contact asap. You basically waited too long and she had too much time to think about the whole situation.
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:18 PM
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No, win, and cheat on purpose to win. Then pretend as if you didn't cheat at all, and make a huge deal of it. Its playful and they love it.
/r/seduction12/05/11 08:42 PM
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theres nothing wrong with wearing glasses...just get a pair that fit your style/face. and what does that even have to do with k or f close?!
/r/seduction05/05/11 10:21 PM
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have you read this? http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gjqim/the_definitive_seddit_inner_game_collection/
/r/seduction05/05/11 10:05 PM
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she'll be hooked and byte the bait
/r/seduction05/05/11 09:50 PM
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thank you kind sir
/r/seduction05/05/11 09:49 PM
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they wont' think its a big deal if you don't. But you have to really deep down believe that, it would help you tremendously.
/r/seduction05/05/11 09:48 PM
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no harm in trying. But like i said don't focus on her, she'll get jealous, profit. Don't be mean/malicious about it though keep her in the loop but don't focus on her.
/r/seduction05/05/11 09:46 PM
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if you knew pua material you'd be fine...but even if you don't i'd still go hav fun, hit on other girls and ignore her. Don't concentrate on her the whole night...infact just dedicate like 20% of your time to her and 80% to other girls if you are comfortable doing that.
/r/seduction05/05/11 09:29 PM
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yes as long as you aren't a purple tentacle monster...you'll b fine...it'll probably work even if you were a purple tentacle monster.
/r/seduction05/05/11 09:27 PM
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I agree the FR's on this board aren't exactly what you call great...long wordy and they don't really give much insight as to the game they used the thing they said, etc.
/r/seduction05/05/11 08:19 PM
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I think you are afraid that even if you close it won't amount to anything because they are also talking to other guys etc. Its an inner game issue. But regardless you don't have to iso etc to close. Just # close it and get back together some other time without all the other distractions. ABC - Always Be Closing
/r/seduction05/05/11 08:15 PM
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Should have made a move during the hug, go for the kiss at least. But I think it is probably a form of LMR. She thinks you are expecting to go in and have sex, so she purposely did those things to keep you and herself from doing that. And use smiley faces sporadically.
/r/seduction05/05/11 08:11 PM
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"I'm actually in [business trip town] right now." Theres no need to be crazy quirky be direct on this one. If she says "Have fun!" reply with "Don't tell me what to do :-P" If she relies with "okay don't!" reply with "Thats still telling me what to do." If you travel alot that line is money.
/r/seduction05/05/11 04:38 PM
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It actually is very intimidating for multiple guys to approach girls. It also shows you need someone there to make you feel like you can approach. Rule of thumb is to always approach alone. Wingman should be in sight of you. Work out how long before he joins the set
/r/seduction05/05/11 05:27 AM
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lol u said it better
/r/seduction05/05/11 12:23 AM
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lol its a good way to build up some easy momentum. Get the AA out of the way. Once you feel comfortable open with a purpose. Like Style says, just open, if you find out you don't like anyone in the set, just eject. I admit not the best way to game, but its all about adapting and getting in that "groove"
/r/seduction05/05/11 12:22 AM
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The way I see it, friend zone the bachlorette. Do just enough push/pull, CF to get her on your side. I feel like effort/time is better spent on targets you can get something out of. I admit "hit on" is a bad term to use actually...
/r/seduction05/05/11 12:20 AM
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well always deliver with a smile :). And changing the subject lightens the way it is delivered. Or following with those other ridiculous lines automatically gives it CF merit.
/r/seduction04/05/11 11:56 PM
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haha upvote for making me smile, props on day game and moving set
/r/seduction04/05/11 11:54 PM
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you are probably still noticing something that a lot of other guys already notice...which doesn't really set you apart. Whoever opens the set first has dibs...don't break that golden rule. Since it looks like he opened first, don't kick him out of his set if he is still in it. As a wingman you are there to support his set and not overtake it.
/r/seduction04/05/11 11:47 PM
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forgot this one, thnx
/r/seduction04/05/11 11:26 PM
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soo much bantering..., learn a few club/bar games to play. I rocked the marry fuck kill game last night, hands down awesome.
/r/seduction04/05/11 11:25 PM
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she says she feels like a drowned rat. "You look it too" I reply nice
/r/seduction04/05/11 10:54 PM
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good advice, follow it
/r/seduction04/05/11 10:09 PM
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good shit
/r/seduction04/05/11 10:08 PM
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apologize, then bust her on it later after u r forgiven.
/r/seduction04/05/11 10:01 PM
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Somehow I knew this line would be in here
/r/seduction04/05/11 10:00 PM
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Say "It shows experience! But you are in luck today, I happen to be a hand moisturizer salesman!" Never give a direct compliment (always push/pull). If you give a compliment, always give a neg after. Ex: "Thats a cute dress! Too bad YOU aren't my type."
/r/seduction04/05/11 09:39 PM
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keep her on as a friend on the side, and go game other girls. Next time you are with her and you start light/medium kino'ing say "don't get the wrong idea, you are just like a friend to me", then go game someone else. You are showing higher value by not placing her first and you have other girls in your life. When her relationship ends or by her own choice she'll give you the open, don't force it.
/r/seduction04/05/11 09:27 PM
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keep her on as a friend on the side, and go game other girls. Next time you are with her and you start light/medium kino'ing say "don't get the wrong idea, you are just like a friend to me", then go game someone else. You are showing higher value by not placing her first and you have other girls in your life. When her relationship ends or by her own choice she'll give you the open, don't force it.
/r/seduction04/05/11 09:20 PM
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keep her on as a friend on the side, and go game other girls. Next time you are with her and you start light/medium kino'ing say "don't get the wrong idea, you are just like a friend to me", then go game someone else. You are showing higher value by not placing her first and you have other girls in your life. When her relationship ends or by her own choice she'll give you the open, don't force it.
/r/seduction04/05/11 09:20 PM
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def more a what i call a "shotgun approach" you open direct as many as possible, your failure rate might be higher but you are going to have successes just by the sheer number of opens.
/r/seduction04/05/11 09:10 PM
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only thing i think you should have done is give her a neg for even thinking you were hitting on her, verbally say you are putting HER into your friend zone, then game as normal.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:59 PM
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lol last statement sounds like it needs a challenge accepted. You and I just have a different definition of seduction/gaming. To each their own.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:54 PM
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lol last statement sounds like it needs a challenge accepted. You and I just have a different definition of seduction/gaming. To each their own.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:54 PM
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Like Mystery said, fake it till you make it. You sir, get an upvote. Great stuff on getting into a set before she got there to fake the friends thing, glorious.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:50 PM
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Like Mystery said, fake it till you make it. You sir, get an upvote. Great stuff on getting into a set before she got there to fake the friends thing, glorious.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:50 PM
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I don't think you are challenging yourself with this girl. It sounds like are you pretty caught up with this one. By challenging yourself with this girl, you are giving a fuck. By not being able to leave a book after reading half of it, you are giving a fuck.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:44 PM
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haha nice on the lick. When you are out of your element, it does feel nice to try to work the floor and open as many sets as possible to get into the groove. Sorry you didn't catch the MILF. I really do have to get over the race thing, but its more of a comfort zone than anything else.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:36 PM
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Day game is hard, much harder imo than at clubs/bars, so props for having the balls to approach. For day game go more direct, less gamey, it has more impact. But canned lines and openers work regardless of the environment. Since you are new at it stick to canned materials, and when you feel more comfortable then start adapting your own stuff into it.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:33 PM
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I don't really think this is game, buddy. Both you and others are in an altered state of mind caused by something even stronger than alcohol.
/r/seduction04/05/11 08:29 PM
1

Do a basic two step to the beat in front of girl. Extend hand, if she takes it, IOI. Dance for a bit holding her hand. Turn her into you. Don't get too touchy feely dancing behind her. Keep one hand on her hip and one keep on holding her hand.
/r/seduction04/05/11 12:26 AM
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you learn something new everyday, just because you don't have a interest or a common interest now doesn't mean it won't be there eventually. First step, go talk to her. common interest just makes it easier to ask for her number. Otherwise just say "you seem like a cool person to hang out with, give me your number" and extend your phone. Don't "ask" for her # ie: "Can i have your number?" Just say it as a statement while handing the phone. Most girls will almost never say "no", they'll avoid conf…
/r/seduction04/05/11 12:22 AM
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lol theres no magical switch you flip to get a girl. go talk to her, find common interest etc, ask for her #
/r/seduction04/05/11 12:13 AM
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Well it doesn't sound like you ran solid game at all here. You didn't disarm the guys, nor did it sound like you did anything to ramp up attraction or build any comfort with this girl. You saw some IOIs and reacted, thats about it. Wouldn't put too much weight into this number. Reply with (if you haven't already): Well I'll take the house and dog, you can have the kid and car. Please, lets just keep this civil.
/r/seduction03/05/11 11:52 PM
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Nice, I'm co 08, we should do some sarging
/r/seduction03/05/11 10:19 PM
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noticed you on the seddit map, did you goto SC?
/r/seduction03/05/11 10:07 PM
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