eJohnR Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Plates found out about eachother Side note: I played aloof and told both of them I didn't know what they were talking about when I talked to them 1 on 1 last weekend. It sounds like you don't have a choice. If you now come clean after playing aloof you'll lose their respect and your frame. Why didn't you come clean in the first place? You lose a plate?! So what, there's billions more. Sounds like a lack of outcome independence and abundance. Just be upfront in future that you're seeing other people. Avoids any future drama.	/r/askTRP	28/11/15 08:21 PM
2	Redpill music Couple I've been listening to lately: J. Cole - No Role Modelz "Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved" "She think I'm spoiled and I'm rich cause I can have any bitch I got defensive and said "Nah, I was the same without it" But then I thought back, back to a better me Before I was a B-list celebrity Before I started callin' bitches "bitches" so heavily Back when you could get a platinum plaque without no melody You wasn't sweatin' me" Lil Wayne - 6 Foot 7 Foot "Had my heart broken by this wom…	/r/askTRP	23/11/15 10:38 PM
2	Fitness Books I've just started reading Bigger Leaner Stronger after recommendations from /r/Fitness. It covers everything from setting your goals, managing your expectations, diet, supplements, workout routines. Everything is cited and backed by scientific and academic research. Should be a good starting point.	/r/askTRP	28/10/15 12:05 PM
1	Need advice on Shit Test. Admittedly a soft next was a bit harsh, but I considered it quite rude and was being a little butt hurt. Instead of seeing the positive side of it as you outlined I looked at it negatively. That's something I'm aware of and working on. Given your perspective on it it's actually quite endearing. Thanks for providing that perspective.	/r/askTRP	26/10/15 04:20 PM
28	Kaley Cuoco's Husband Files For Alimony - women collectively lose their shit A Romanian Ex-GF used to say the same thing all the time too. Her mother was head of the he house though, despite a fairly masculine father; I still feel sorry for the guy. It was clear he wanted a son and got two daughters when he showered me with gifts of old army equipment.	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/15 08:39 AM
3	How do i cutoff the nonessesntial stuff from my life? Absolutely this. When I started reading TRP a month or so ago and began to realise the negative assets in my life (Video Games, Facebook, DotA2, Porn) I just cut them out. Took my PS4 and everything associated with it to CeX and got £350 for it; used that to buy some TRP related literature and Gym equipment. Deleted DotA and Facebook and now I waste considerably less time on both my phone and my laptop. It feels extreme, but if you don't get rid of it completely you'll just keep falling back int…	/r/askTRP	22/10/15 08:37 AM
3	The Red Flags of my recent little fling: Plus lessons learnt from my mistakes (FR) Holy shit was this eye opening! You just listed every red flag I missed in my last LTR that led me to TRP! Even down to her nationality.. Hopefully in future I won't need hindsight to see this. Thanks for that.	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/15 04:13 PM
2	Should I comment on her behaviour? Or behave like "don't care"? In all honesty. Get out. I had a LDR, (Bournemouth to London) so nothing in comparison to yours, with a girl who never initiated conversation and played games like this. I wasted ten months with her before I woke up. Follow the advice already given above. Go no contact, let her come to you, and if she doesn't, you have your answer. You're worth so much more.	/r/askTRP	09/10/15 04:29 PM
3	The player "squinty eyes and concerned" look There's a video that describes Bill Clinton doing this as a heavy brow is a sign of masculinity/high testosterone levels. Might be worth a watch: https://youtu.be/BwVrWaiqsYQ	/r/askTRP	29/09/15 01:13 PM
4	Regarding lifting as seen on /r/theredpill today, how can I apply that to myself as a hardcore ectomorph? Yep. This! I used to think I was an ectomorph, but once I started counting calories I found I was actually eating at a deficit everyday. Ectomorph was just a useful scapegoat for lack of effort.	/r/askTRP	21/09/15 12:06 PM
4	Busy girls Move on. Make no contact with her and focus on girls who want to spend time with you. If she ever did she'll get in touch	/r/askTRP	15/09/15 08:48 AM