eagerbeaver1414 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Is America the greatest country in the world for dating? I'm from the midwest. I've travelled the world, been in Rio at night, and walked the streets of many Queens neighborhoods at night. The only time I ever feared for my life was in small town Wisconsin. Bunch of rednecks jumped me.	/r/seduction	06/07/22 03:41 AM
6	Anyone ever take dance classes? I really need to do this. The thing is, I'm a musician and have been playing salsa groups for over 20 years now, but I never actually participated in the lessons. I actively dislike dancing which is why, but I have to acknowledge how powerful it clearly is. I see it every gig. And now I'm recently single. Sooooo.....	/r/seduction	29/06/22 01:53 AM
6	Should you ‘sexualise’ topics early on? If yes, then how? I take "as soon as possible" to mean "as soon as it won't be creepy".	/r/seduction	09/10/20 07:51 PM
5	“Let’s have a threesome with your boyfriend” I agree with dan2737. Confidence is key here, and a "neutral voice with a poker face", even if you are good a poker, isn't going to be nearly as effective at projecting confidence as a little humor or sarcasm. It could easily be perceived as being defensive. Humor is very effective, and making a joke suggesting you are gay also shows her that you are confidant enough in your own sexuality that you don't care if she thinks you are gay. I think it is a great move.	/r/seduction	04/11/18 10:42 AM
10	“Let’s have a threesome with your boyfriend” "I believe it is pronounced, menage-a-trois".	/r/seduction	04/11/18 10:37 AM
3	The best response to "I thought you were gay?" "Well, three times doesn't make you gay I hope."	/r/seduction	06/08/17 07:57 PM
17	[FR] Field Report: Tinder date brought her dog, f-closed three hours later "that implies I want to go on a second date..." Nicely played.	/r/seduction	14/07/16 12:41 PM
3	Would you date a giant female ITT: Lots of 6'+ tall men are not unsurprisingly fine with this.	/r/seduction	13/07/16 11:17 AM
1	This is the most important advice you'll ever read. I call it "The Trick." Heh I actually did try as an approach going up to some girls and stuttering my ass off (on purpose) as if I couldn't think of anything to say. Not sure why I did it, and it didn't work, but it still makes me laugh.	/r/seduction	16/07/15 12:13 AM
2	An Unusual Book For Inner Game Somehow I had a hunch you were going to write this. I read this a lot when suffering from performance anxiety issues as a musician.	/r/seduction	17/06/15 01:12 AM
22	Just had the shortest date in my life. 31? DOWNVOTED. How dare you. /s	/r/seduction	21/03/15 04:35 PM
4	How to make her WANT you. How does this comment have this many negative votes?	/r/seduction	05/01/15 01:40 PM
1	Men: what is something about a girl's appearence that would instantly put you off? I know I am in the minority here, but no, not even a gloss. I guess it is comes down to what I would like to kiss, and I find flavored glosses to be absolutely gross,and I also don't like the textures of anything applied to the lips.	/r/seduction	21/12/14 11:10 AM
-2	Men: what is something about a girl's appearence that would instantly put you off? Any makeup on the lips. And to a lesser extent, any makeup not on the eyes (such as face powder).	/r/seduction	21/12/14 01:28 AM
1	Best ways to dance? Well, they exist, but the clientele is usually from the same era as the music. This can be acceptable for 80s, but, being a child of the 80s myself, I'm not ready to pick up women in their 50s!	/r/seduction	18/04/14 03:38 PM
1	Best ways to dance? This has been my biggest weak spot...almost a source of anxiety, which is why I totally avoid the clubs. My problem is, I simply do not enjoy the music. If they played motown, or even some good 80s stuff, I'd enjoy it. But I just can't get past how (in my opinion, I know people here will disagree) lame dance club music is. It is predictable, lacks melody, and only is there to provide a repetitive pulse. I'm not a good enough actor to even get close to seem like I'm having a good time.	/r/seduction	18/04/14 03:08 PM
1	A Beginners Guide for What to Say No. I met my girlfriend on the side of the road on my jog while she was walking.	/r/seduction	11/11/13 10:46 PM
26	A Beginners Guide for What to Say Try employing the 3-second rule. Just go up to her with nothing to say. Sounds scary, but more often than not, the situation presents itself with something. "Hi" works well. I met my current girlfriend on a cold approach. "Hi...I just felt compelled to stop and meet you." I have, at a bar when there are 2 girls at a table together, sat down at their table and simply said "Entertain me." I'm not saying it was a great approach, but it was bold, and I did it with a good attitude, and conversation f…	/r/seduction	11/11/13 08:06 PM
1	Prague is introducing "singles only" dating cars in the middle compartment of every subway train. How would you approach a girl here? A bukkake party ain't complete without error bars.	/r/seduction	31/10/13 07:54 PM
6	Some good insights into the realities women face from Louis CK. I don't see how this is anything to do with liberal, conservative, or any sort of political ideology. I did, however, laugh. Which I kind of think was the point.	/r/seduction	06/08/13 07:33 PM
3	FREE FLIRTING PDF - everybody should read it just to know more. As soon as I saw that (about flirting with roughly the same attractiveness) I was like "whoa, this is BS". This mentality not only limits you, but probably impedes your whole entire approach, harming you with even less desirable women.	/r/seduction	03/04/13 09:36 PM
5	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. Hehe. I was kind of kidding by the comment, but not in a doubtful way at all. I've put my time in on "The Game", and am in a LTR with a wonderful gal now...who also lets me play Diablo when I choose :). Joking aside however, I do think the analogy here is quite valid. It isn't about winning the game, but it is about honing your skills (and not getting upset when you fail!).	/r/seduction	26/02/13 07:57 PM
16	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. To think, all of those hours I spent on Diablo may actually help me get laid! ;)	/r/seduction	26/02/13 06:20 PM
2	Is this a good opener? From a semi-AFC/still total noob who happens to have had 100% success with it. Definitely a great line...I could see it failing if, for instance, you actually aren't cute at all. It still forces her to make a judgement about you before you've been able to work any other magic. Nevertheless, if I were still single, I'd probably try it a few times!	/r/seduction	24/11/12 12:53 AM
3	1 year in. 14 things I wish I knew. I am not surprised that this approach works. I prefer a slightly kinder and subtler approach however. I agree with bearXential that you shouldn't lose your temper or yell. But if a girl does something very wrong, like, for instance, showing up 20 min late to our first date and blowing it off like it isn't a big deal, or just simply not doing something that she said she'd do, like call, or whatever....to call them out on it. I believe they are looking for someone strong enough to stand up to them…	/r/seduction	29/10/12 03:57 PM
37	Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip. I have a hunch he's not looking for a steady relationship.	/r/seduction	27/10/12 01:19 PM
2	[FR] I can't believe this worked... Way to go man! When I was single, I was amazed at how infrequently I struck out on a random approach, even though AA made me sure it wouldn't ever work.	/r/seduction	14/09/12 03:09 AM
3	Im a noob, made first 5 aproaches today. Better than expected! You aren't a noob anymore!	/r/seduction	01/09/12 02:36 PM
1	I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out. Negging was already addressed by some earlier comments...anyone who is trying to be mean is doing it wrong. But you are also doing it wrong if you are over complimentary or just kissing ass. Women want to be challenged. And even though the uber hot girl has her own self esteem issues, she's still been told a million times how hot she is, and she's looking for someone else. If you can be playfully challenging in a way that makes it clear to her that she has to prove herself to you, you've just go…	/r/seduction	18/08/12 01:47 AM
3	[NPR] Wrap it up fellas: Gonorrhea now only has 1 effective antibiotic, and its only a matter of time before that one is ineffective. I'm sure he doesn't think that it kills specifically 99.9%. But if it doesn't kill 100%, it leaves x%, and even if x << 1, (x+1)n where n is a large number of generations of bacteria means you have just created a new super-breed.	/r/seduction	10/08/12 05:04 PM
2	Long Story: I fucked a cheerleader from my university last night (solid 9 or 10) Here's my advice to Seddit, looking for some follow-up advice myself too I don't think you were being a douchebag, and while that can work, what is more important is that you were challenging to her. You put her in the position that she had to prove herself to you, and you don't actually have to be mean or a douchebag to do this. It was a great move, and that more than anything got you laid. She respects a guy who is willing to tell her the truth, not kiss up for the chance at having sex with her. As for your other problem, yeah, alcohol, performance anxiety, don't w…	/r/seduction	09/08/12 12:47 AM