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I dont get why get why you want to deny that theres not that these guys who act like they should be entitled to get laid because they were nice and then lash out when they dont get it, you know these guys exist. So many women would tell you that. My girlfriend would tell you that. Shes had to with a couple of these " nice guys" . She was in prison ( im an ex con myself as well) and one of her pen pals who went out of his way to send her letters and gifts acted like that entitled him to a sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:34 PM
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They can't because that undoes all the modern ideas regarding consent. lol no the fuck it doesnt. It's hard for women to say "I wish he would he would grab me, drag me into the bathroom at work or in public, and have his way with me." but ALSO "read my mind and only do this when I want it to happen and I'm sexually attracted to you". Without the latter qualifier that's just women saying 'please sexually assault women more'. Without the latter qualifier that's just women saying 'please sexually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:14 AM
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There are shit tests but i get a kick of how many dorks there are that think everything a chick does is a shit test lol. and i see more women advice other women to do the Push/pull on men. as a seduction tactic that is one that people have always exggerated the effectiveness of. It can help in some cases but only to a degree.The reality is you dont want to come across as desperate but the answer to that is it to not go full retard. in the other direciton because its not going to make most people…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:33 AM
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You should pay more attention to what people do but you should also pay attention to what people say for context and most chicks are being honest when it comes to what they want and some are very blunt to where it pisses men off when they admit how much confidence in a man matters to them, how much a mans success matters etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:01 AM
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Men are just as likely to be victims of abusive women as women are of abusive men. amd yeah both these male and female victims wouldnt have gotten involved with their abusive in the first place if they didn't find them attractive or exciting no shit. There are both men and women who could work on being a little wiser, who need to spot and not ignore red flags, who need to work on their self esteem. There are men and women who are just more prone to falling victims to abusers and abusers target t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:50 AM
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What do you mean valuing honestly over excitment? there has to be excitment, apart of excitement is a mutual physical attraction and theres a chemistry between two personalties which creates the spark. every man or woman wants excitement but what exciting, whats fun, whats boring differs to different sorts of people. and abusers and anti social people are typically manipulative, they mask themselves to appear as more charming, they get people to believe they are honest and some men and women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:23 AM
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Nice guys provide security and comfort mostly no. When people talk about " nice guys" in a negative away or a guy being too nice they are not talking about genuine nice guys, they are talking about entitled self proclaimed nice guys or they are talking about guys who are desperate people pleasers or guys who are really passive or just pushovers. None of these things do well in providing good security and comfort to women unless you are talking about predatory women who want to take advantage of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:55 AM
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Its not falsly attributed to that, thats a very real thing. Theres Plenty of guys who act like the should be entitled to a woman fucking them because they claim they are nice. and regarding your second part yeah theres men who think that, theres nothing wrong with seeing yourself as an upgrade to that but its about how you go from that, if you take that and become bitter at women, if you victim blame any women whos been abused and generalize them as in not appreciating kindness then yeah thats p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:37 AM
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If he gos on about how nice he is and acts as if that should entitle him to a woman fucking him, if he lashs out after being rejected then yeah thats a " nice guy" tm and why focus on the women who date guys who mistreat them? theres always going to women who date men who mistreat them and theres always going to be men who dating women who mistreat them , men are just as likely to be victims of abuse. The reality is these people had enough of an mutual attraction and chemistry to begin a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:24 AM
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genuine nice people dont go on about how nice they are and act entitled to someone because of that. Thats why " nice guy" or " nice girl" is used in qouations and used sarcastically in a derogatory way, these people are not genuinely nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:10 AM
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Dude thats fucking stupid, thats a fringe minority of women. its so weird how often guys want to bring that up and complain about the women who do that. This nice guy greivence bullshit is so pathetic. and those female guards are scummy themselves, those women are predators, they are rapists- an inmate cant consent no matter how much he was willing and begging for it. I wish i could have fucked this one female guard we had but no matter what it would have been rape on her part. both me and my gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:04 AM
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I mean hypergamy has been declining for a while. Theres more and more couples where the woman makes more than the man. Its become more normalized and it be even more normalized. Now of course most women would prefer a man make more because why wouldn't they? but theres a difference between a preference and a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:31 AM
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Anxious attached people keep attracting avoidant attached people. Only a minority of people is actually securely attached. Most of the time it’s the toxic anxious-avoidant dynamic. You rarely see two avoidants or two anxious people together. Opposites attract. Anxiously attached women are not attracted to avoidant men because they are avoidant, they are not going out there way to get involved with avoidant man. Its just there's alot of avoidant man and The thing is those avoidant men seem secure…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:40 PM
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Again completely wrong. I’m specifically talking about character, not just aesthetics. Good girls like bad guys because they want to “save” or “change” th.em. They want to be the one who turned the bad guy into a good one. Whenever a a good girl likes a bad guy its despite him being a bad guy, its despite his bad qualities in favor of the good qualites and the connection they have. ( and the physical attraction of course) The women who actually like bad guys and are attracted to those qualities …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:40 PM
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Again you’re proving that you don’t seem to know a lot about women. It’s 2026, but it’s still not normal to see people all sleeved up. I don’t think any guy would look at a woman who has tattoos all over her body (and not just some small cute ones, I’m talking about sleeves, neck etc) and would think “yeah that’s a good Christian girl”. If a guy is sleeved up to his neck that is certainly a message he wants to convey. Though you might be a bit subjective on that topic, as you said you were a cri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:39 PM
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You talk about tattoos like its 1980 and not the 2020s, half of people have them now lol, theres alot of doctors who are sleeved up now lol. Who looks at people at with tatoos now and think thats a bad boy/girl ! ? haha. Women like physically fit and attractive guys and yeah like i said there are women who dig motorcyles and stunts etc but in general that is alot more more appealing to men than women. any guy who has had a motorcycle will tell you this. Also the last part of your comment is wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:24 PM
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Men need to understand womens primal sexuality and nobody is willing to say what it is. wtf are you talking about bro? women and people in general are more open about their sexuality than ever before. and what womens primal sexuality is differs among different women and thats the beauty of it. Women differ immensely in their sex drives and the kind of sex they like, theres vanilla women and then theres really kinky women who are really into BDSM, women who are really submissive, theres femdoms. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:47 PM
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well It doesn't work in making you more appealing to most people. But good on you to admit that you have /can be an egotisal asshole, we all have had our asshole moments. the real assholes are the ones who never want to acknowledge that and admit to flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:39 PM
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Plenty of chicks do though, dont get why you want to deny it. yeah theres women who would make fun of their height, yeah there heights are not ideal especially jeffs but so what its stupid to just fixate on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 09:04 AM
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ok so fucking what.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:52 AM
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Jeff nippard is like 5'2 but chicks dig the guy, both him and mike have larger female audiences than mike o'hearn and mike is a really funny and charismatic guy. Their heights are not ideal but they have alot going for them and im not just talking money/success.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:32 AM
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By choosing one youre essentially simping / showing your low value is this comment a joke or for real? lol. Your only simping and showing low value if you act desperate, simply choosing what you want and shooting your shot is not being desperate.
/r/seduction31/12/25 11:51 PM
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The kind of cockiness you are thinking about is the kind that most women would find unattractive but there is a playful endearing kind of cockiness exhbited by kind dudes that would most women can dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:04 PM
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I think this is such a shit talking point. Women could say if men stopped dating mean girls there wouldnt be any mean girls. Its dumb either way because theres always gonna be people like that and we shouldn't just blame mens toxic behavior on women because theres women that date toxic men and we shouldnt blame womens toxic behavior on men because theres men that date toxic women. We should just blame individuals for their own toxic behavior. Most men and women are not rewarding toxic behavior. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:54 PM
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I disagree with that. People dont just do things because of that. a man or woman being toxic makes them less appealing the majority of the population, becoming less toxic would make them more appealing to a higher number of people but as of right they still appeal to enough people. so for many its just not a strong incentive to change because they would appeal to a higher number of people. and because they are toxic they like other toxic people. like attracts like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:50 PM
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Its a stupid argument because the overwhelmingly majority of women are not going out there way to chose men who are more likely to hurt them. A guy being outwardly selfish would not make him more appealing to most women and the fact that even has to be said is dumb. The only woman who would only find a guy more appealing for that is a woman who is more toxic in that way herself. and The thing about sociopathic men and women is they are manipulators who mask themselves as charming and caring. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:46 PM
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Why do you wish you could be cocky? that would only make you more appealing to a minority of people who are toxic. i used to be cocky, you dont want to be cocky bro. Just focus on being confident, assertive, strong, having back bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:34 PM
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Why would a guy reccomend being a cocky asshole when that doesnt make you more appealing to most women and only makes you more appealing to a minority of women who are really toxic? if we are wanting to be more attractive to the most women possible why say be a cocky asshole rather than be a confident masculine dude which is appealing to most women? a guy being masculine, assertive and having back bone does not make a guy an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:08 PM
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as a ex con myself i gotta say comments like this are so fucking stupid and just bizzare. most women are not dating guys like that. only a small minority of toxic women would specifically find a guy more appealing because of those things and those women are not the kind of guys most men would even want. i came out of prison a new man and so i was no longer interested in the kind of bad women i used to go with. i became a better man and i started pursuing better women which made it harder because…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:02 PM
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yes one should pay attention to how people behave and make a assemeent of that opposed to just listening to what they say but this generalization of women is just lame bro. its lame when either gender does this to the other. most chicks are overwelmingly honest about what they want and some shamelessly so. when it comes to what they want in a man and what they like they far more honest than not, women are very vocal about how they want a man who confident etc. very few women would ever say that …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:57 PM
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The majority of chicks are not selecting that way ya goof. What most women find attractive is masculine men and there's alot of people who want to demonize masculine men, both toxic feminists and weak bitter men alike. Theres poeple who want to falsely characterize masculine men as selfish or as assholes for being confident, assertive, having back bone and thus falsly characterize women as liking assholes for naturally liking masculine men for having qualities that make for a good man. We can al…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:52 PM
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I think thats an unfair assessment of women. Women typically do put importance on where that confidence is used. you can say Being a rude prick to staff and waiters is an act of confidence but doing that is a turn off to most women. Thats a very common "ick" god i still remember totally srewing myself over with this hot chick over that. Confidence and dominance are generally attractive things but of course it depends on the context and how they are displaying that confidence and dominance. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:30 PM
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When it comes to women who have self esteem issues theres a difference between tolerating a toxic guy and specifically liking a guy more for being toxic. a non toxic woman who has low self esteem will put up with a toxic guy but only a toxic woman is going to like a guy specifically more for being toxic. the thing is a toxic man or woman are more than the things that make them toxic, they can have alot about them that appeals to non toxic appeal that have nothing to do with what makes them toxic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:43 PM
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Yes, and this exact scenario takes place maybe... one a million? One in 10 million? How do you think its that rare? Plenty of women will tell you about their experiences with " nice guys" in real life and how they lashed out at being rejected but yeah in general when people are complaining about "nice guys" t hey are refering to guys making such entitled and bitter comments via text and online comments. aybe that's true for you but those are all things which have got me put into the 'fun best fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:16 PM
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When you think of the word cocky you are thinking of a something that is only attractive to a minority of women who are toxic but there is an endearing likable playful kind of cockiness exhibited by kind men that alot of women can dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:35 PM
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When you think of word cocky you are thinking of a cockiness that is only attractive to a minority of women who are toxic but there is an endearing likable playful kind of cockiness that most women can dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:33 PM
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If being a cocky IDGAF gym dude already gets the guy laid, why should he bother also being a nice therapy guy on top of that? Because that would make him more appealing to most women, especially nice women. also therapy could really help. Being asshole doesn't make you more attractive to most women, that would only make you more attractive to toxic asshole women. Being masculine and confident makes you more attractive to most women and of course you have people both toxic feminists and weak bitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:30 PM
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So your saying a guy on a motorcyle makes him a bad boy? lol. The funny thing about motorcyles is that guys who dont have them go on about how about how sexy that is to women and yeah theres women who are into that but motorcyles make you far more appealing to men than it does to women. it doesnt do much for most women. A woman on a motorcycle would increase her sexinesss to men more than a man on a motorcyle would increase his sexiness to women. There are more female riders these days which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:09 PM
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No man or woman wants boring but whats boring and whats fun interesting etc differs to different sorts of people. Bad girls are gonna like bad boys. like attracts like. so it’s just easier to default to being the jackass and to attract at least some women. yeah toxic women, if thats what those guys want then fine. not saying that every woman or man who dates a toxic person is toxic because of course not but only a toxic person would specifally find someone more attractive for their toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:01 PM
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She rejected me for a super skinny soft spoken guy Its not that she wanted a loud cocky asshole was it? was she a bad girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:58 PM
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When i was a cocky asshole i hooked with alot more women but thats not because i was more attractive to women back then its simply because i pursued women alot more and the women i hooked up with were bad bad girls, coke heads, hoes, female criminals. Most women are going to find a guy more attractive if hes masculine and confident but not a cocky asshole, the only women who would specifically find that more attractive are women who are the female versions of that really.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:55 PM
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wtf are you talking about? and lets not act like alot of guys dont give out advice that doesnt make them attractive to most women, that would only make them more attractive to toxic women. As a dude in most women who are actually giving dating advice beyond " be yourself" generally give just as good advice as men. women are very vocal about how they dig a man being confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:51 PM
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depends on what you mean by aggresssive. theres aggression that is attractive to most women and then theres aggressive that would repulsive to most women and only attractive to crazy chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:46 PM
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most chicks are very honest about what they want, women are pretty vocal about finding a confident man attractive. It depends on what you mean by an idgaf attitude, that can be a very attractive thing to most women or a very unattractive thing to most women. idgaf as not being concerning with dumb shit is very attractive but idaf as in not caring about hygiene is unattractive, idgaf as in not being considerate of others and being rude to staff is very unattractive to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:45 PM
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I think there is something of a misunderstanding of NiceGuy-ism. The usual strawman is of course that the 'Entitled Nice Guy (TM)' who pretends to be 'nice' to get in your pants and then becomes hostile and aggressive when that doesn't work out. I am not saying that never happens but it is ultimately a strawman, maybe that exact script takes place one in a million times. what misunderstanding is there? The issue have with "nice guys" is any way they go about being entitled and whether that is la…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:39 PM
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lame comment. bro chicks are overwhelmingly pretty honest about that they want and some shamelessly so lol and also just because a guy or woman fucks someone it doesnt mean they like everything about them, they just found them physcially attractive enough and wanted to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:01 PM
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Obviously there has to be enough of a physcial attraction and chemistry for someone to want to date you a guy helping children and being kind to animals def does make you more attractive to most women. And it depends on what you mean by dominance or cockinesss, theres a kind of a dominance that would be attractive to most women and then there's a kind that would be unattractive to most women and only attractive to a minority of women who are ya know bad girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:53 PM
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Of course cold approach works. People just want to fixate on people who cold approach in a toxic and disrespectful way. like when it comes to negging. I dont think anyone smart would say that negging or teasing is better on a cold approach than pozzing but the negging that gets a bad rap is not even what negging is supposed to be nor is it the negging that even works. The main pickup artist gurus who popularized negging made it clear that if you are coming across as an asshole then you are doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:35 PM
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sexlessness has skyrocketed because technology has advanced to where alot of people are now rotting behind a screen. alot of dudes are getting all their entertainment from a screen, all their socialization from a screen, all their sexual release from a screen. its no wonder guys are more lonley than ever and having less sex. and i swear to god people throw around the term harem way too much. a guy having casual sex with alot of women is not him having a harem nor is a guy having an open relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:24 PM
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making your attraction to her known, wich for some reason makes you less attractive to her. You can make your attraction known with out coming across as desperate. desperation is whats unattractive. . When you approach you are submitting in a sense If so the thing is theres plenty of chicks who dont mind that...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:11 PM
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Its so lame when either men or women want to be led by bitterness and villainize the opposite sex like this. You think its wrong for them to do it but okay you for to do it. two sides of the same coin. get over yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:13 AM
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Good men are not loosing to ex convicts dude. Why do you say that? Most women are not dating ex cons and also alot of the women who are dating ex cons are not the kind of women most men would want to date anyway. That's why I say it's a necessary evil because good men will actually think about trying not to make a woman uncomfortable but there's only so much you can do because you're still put in the position of being the pursuer you can be the most respectful man all you want but if you keep ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:34 AM
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They will go for the guy who's slept with a bunch of women in hopes that he will pick them specifically, confirming their specialness. The reality is that's not an appealing thing to as much women as some dudes think it is. What percent of women do you think would find a guy more appealing for specifically having had sex with alot of women - and that's discounting anything else about him. The issue with some red pillers is like incels they put pussy on a pedestal and act like a dude having sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:23 AM
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The gap really is not that huge bro, most chicks are pretty honest about what the fuck they want and What percent of women do you think are lying about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:17 AM
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It can be but thats not what most people would mean by " safe"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:07 AM
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but men do " i can fix her" just as much as women do " i can fix him"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:58 AM
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ust imagine a man who says he wants to choke or hurt a partner (again, consensually) is immediately viewed with suspicion. He’s violent, dangerous, or porn-brained. The desire is acceptable only when it’s framed as something done for women, not something men might also want. Yeah its alot easier for a woman to say tell a guy to choke her than for a guy to ask to choke her. Guys have to worry about a girl seeing them in a bad light where any woman assumes a guy would be happy to oblige her. Ive t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:49 AM
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Some men are just using a loud minority of whiney women to make excuses for themselves for why they wont approach. Approaching women can be scary and guys are going to look for excuses to not do it. The reality is its very unlikely a woman is going to do anything but politely reject a guy if shes not interested. if a woman is not interested then you politely and quickly move along and no harm no foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:19 AM
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It’s actually kind of striking how similar sex negative feminism is to religiously conservative sex negativity, which is why they support all the same policies (e.g. banning porn, criminalizing sex work, being anti-kink, socially enforcing sexual purity). Those sex negative feminists hate men like me. They think any man who wants to dom is na actual abuser. Theres nothing that appeals about kink to these women and so they just cant and refuse to understand why alot of women would like to be subm…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:14 AM
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This is going to sound controversial but women are still animals just like men women are still very much attracted to the old school primal masculinity despite our modern feminist understanding What is "old school primal masculinity" ? and yeah most women want masculine men. Most feminists would not deny that they are attracted to man being confident and strong, what they would object to is the way some men go about trying to display their masculinity. My dating life improved when I just stopped…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:09 AM
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the chicks that are really into smut and are straight up gooners typically are not the same women who have stuck stick up their asses about men being gooners. The isuse some men and women have is treating the opposite sex like they are a monolith. But yeah most chicks are not reading alot of smut and most smut is not really crazy or edgy, its just people want to cherry pick and fixate on the edgiest and weirdest shit to clutch their pearls about it. its bizzare how much im seeing guys do that la…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:51 PM
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Say what you will about the dark triad werewolf daddy in popular erotica, but he can’t hurt anybody in real life. Thats such a small minority of erotica and romance novels but i dont get why guys are so fixated on complaining women reading that stuff. ive seen alot of that lately. and the thing is when it comes to these fantasy vampire and werefolf characters is that often are actually kinder and more protective than most guys, these immortal beings and "monsters" are really humanized. Character…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:42 PM
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I think the reason we don’t see that behavior in movies but see it in high fantasy books is because those books are framed within a fantasy world. They aren’t in romcoms anymore because they’d hit too close to home, and we can’t unsee the problematic behavior as a culture. What behavior are we talking about thats shown in high fantasy books but not movies. i mean most high fantasty stuff is not that edgy at all to where its no shown often shown in movies lol .it sounds like they think women secr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:55 PM
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Plenty dont, theres all different sorts of smut, people can cherry pick and clutch their pearls over it- both feminists and whiney men alike lol. the end of the day its fiction and just because a writer or director writes or makes a novel or movie it doesn't mean they condone everything those characters do and just because someone reads a novel it doesn't mean they like and condone everything those characters do either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:49 PM
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and those two characters get alot of flack from women. The people who Criticize christina grey the most are feminists. Me personally as a man i think they get unfair criticism. Christina grey is a flawed human being who has issues but hes not a bad dude at all. The appeal of edward is not only is he a hunk and an immortal being with cool powers but hes also very kind and empathic. You call him a douche but hes far better than most guys. Hes a vampire but hes a kinder, more caring and selfless pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 10:12 PM
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great comment. self proclaimed nice guys are the such jackasses. You see so many comments from guys where they act like they should be enitled to a chick because they claim they are nice but obviously they arent nice if they lash out at women for not liking them back, obviously they are not nice if they think they should entitled to women because they are claim they are nice. genuine nice people don't do this shit. and those who demonize masculine men the most are not even women, its weak jealou…
/r/MensRights26/12/25 08:58 PM
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More misandry from so-called MRAs. Wtf are you talking about? Being a feminist is not beneficial to sexual selection Depends on what you mean. i think most women can see through the really performative guy who wears wokeness on his sleeves. Also being submissive is deeply unattractive to many women Well being a male feminist and being submissive are two different things. when it comes to BDSM male doms are often male feminist woke types.
/r/MensRights26/12/25 08:49 PM
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It doesn't seem that true crime makes makes women more paranoid, its because they are the physically weaker sex and more neurotic that makes women watch true crime a bit more than men to begin with- to feel a sense of control and preparation. defensive vigilance.
/r/MensRights24/12/25 05:41 AM
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What do you mean by side chicks? how many women are willing to be side chicks? the thing is people have this image of a side chick only messing with one man but alot of so called side chicks are fucking with muitiple dudes at once, they are not these sad victims people want to make them out to be. Most women are not going to be okay with sharing a guy at all (most women are jealous creatures) and the ones who are are the ones who wanna fuck other dudes. i know a dream for alot of guys is that on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:19 AM
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The deregulated sexual market has 4’s , 5’s and 6’s thinking they deserve commitment from 8’s , 9s and 10s because they can get casual sex from them such a bullshit incel narrative. This idea that chads are hogging all the women is just an excuse. as a red piller who is the top 10% like you you shouldnt be entertaining this bullshit. These fuckers are putting pussy on a pedestal. and There is a correlation between male attractiveness and number of sex partners but its really not that big. the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:15 AM
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What fucking dipshit is saying women are only attracted to 1% of men? we are saying its 1% now ? lol. and hypergamy is a thing but its fucking cringy how some guys want to exggerate the fuck out of it and also use to demonize chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:07 AM
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humiliated ? lol and Alot of those side chicks are fucking with more than one dude themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:04 AM
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bro How tf could you say that its a social lie? Obviously there are self proclaimed nice guys who act like because they are nice that should entitle them to women liking them back- these guys are not really nice, genuine nice people don't act like that and thus " nice guy" is used in a sarcastic derogatory way. and yeah most women would want a guy who is genuially nice but obviously there has to be more than that. no man would want to date a woman simply because shes nice and its same for women …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 12:44 AM
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women want romance and love just as much but they are able to cope with breakups and being single better because they have more of an emotional support network than men do. Women are social creatures who can be so mean to each other but generally they are more supportive of each other than us men are of other men. And the sad thing is its men who have made this system that is so bias against men, The courts, divorce laws, male police officers automatically believing any woman when its the man th…
/r/MensRights18/11/25 01:55 AM
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no man would want a woman simply for her being nice and its the same with women when it comes to men but to say women or men dont care about niceness because there has to be more than that for a romantic or sexual relationship is just silly. Most men and women do care. It does make a difference in different ways depending on what we mean by 'nice". Most women would find a guy more appealing if hes genuinely nice but most would find a guy less appealing if he comes across as superficial or a desp…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:02 AM
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If all you have to offer to someone is that your nice but not fun or interesting then yeah thats boring. no one wants to be bored by the person they date We all want with be with someone we find fun to be around. the thing is whats fun differs to different people and thats ok. The same way by virtue of being the bad boy cannot be lame nor boring since he is a bad boy. Wtf are you talking about ? bad boys are lame to women who arent bad girls lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:52 AM
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What are you refering to when you say " nice guys" but yeah no man would want a woman just for her being nice and its the same for women when it comes to men. Obviously for sex or romance there has to be more than that, there has to be enough of a mutual attraction and chemistry etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:45 AM
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And the thing is masculine or "alpha traits" are what enable mens goodness and kidnness. A man who is lacking in these traits to where it would be fair to call him a pushover cannot be considered a good man. The less a man is confident, dominant, strong the less he is able to be kind and good, The less he is able to do the right thing, the less he is able to speak up, the less he is able to help people, the less he is able to protect etc. People use the terms interchangeably but theres a differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:41 AM
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If you are saying its a negative then you are talking about a guy being a pushover or desperate people pleaser because of course most women value a man being genuinely nice. And althought people use the terms interchangeably theres a difference between niceness and kidness. Kindness is of more substance. Women want a kind man more so than a nice man but most value niceness too. and the real nice guys are the tough guys, masculine guys because when they are being nice its more likely to be genuin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:32 AM
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When people break up with someone and their excuse is " your too good for me" "who actually believes this shit? this is people just trying to sugar coat them breaking up with someone. Not to say that alot of people do not feel insecure being with people who are better than them in anyway but yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:09 PM
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No. When I say women treat me like shit when I am nice to them I do not mean I am being passive and submissive to them, The overwhelming majority of women are not going to treat a guy like shit if hes being nice while not being a pushover so if you are really trying to generalize chicks like this you are so full of it. . My sister jokes and says they're probably watching too much of those stupid murder shows and they're attracted to some sick ass idea of a serial killer so that is what resonates…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:05 PM
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Most of the men women like are decent men. you are just demonizing men saying this. And decent doesnt mean perfect obviously, we are all flawed human beings. To generalize women like masculine men and most masculine men are decent. Confidence, strength, assertiveness, dominance. These traits enable goodness and kindness.These are things that enable a man to go good. a pushover can no be considered a good man. People go on about feminists demonizing masculinity but what ive surely noticed is weak…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:55 PM
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>Negging works. The negging that works is what negging is supposed to be and not the negging that gets a bad rap. The main gurus who popularized it made it clear that if you just coming across as an judgy asshole then you are doing it wrong. " Strauss is equally clear that negs should not be used as insults: "a disqualifier should never be hostile, critical, judgmental, or condescending. There's a line between flirting and hurting. And disqualification is never intended to be mean and insulting.…
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:34 AM
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