earlpfeiffer Archive

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0	Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman that you were starting to date told you she was seeing other men, how would you react? Thank god I’d finally met a living breathing piece of ass I didn’t have to take care of. Oh, I mean, respect her independence. Yes, baby, you’re free.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/19 07:04 PM
-1	Hate myself for not seeing the signs Here’s a sign. Your wife drinks to excess and does some blow and rather than help her you, what you call work things out and support her, you take her guilt and shame and negotiate a pass (which was out of the blue, right?) to go fuck around and you wonder how it is that you might have lost her? It’s not a sailor she wants, you simpering child, it’s a real man. Get it together bro. Take stock, breathe deep, and gather up your courage. It’s time to grow up. Go talk to a man you respect and take h…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/19 06:54 PM
1	Why are so many women having trouble with the Dating scene? Spot on	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/19 01:52 PM
1	Is it ever ok to open up to Women? If your? It is. Learn this. Don’t argue. Learn it. Understand it. (Why does she lose attraction?) Ask questions. Think. Observe. Don’t flinch. Don’t imagine. Try again.	/r/askTRP	28/02/19 10:32 PM
1	Options / Suggestions? I had a similar problem with my MSA. Of course, your lawyer but also consider an escrow through a third lawyer or the bank in which you both have to meet criteria to release or accept. Just a thought. Good luck. One last thing, my experience is that unless you want this sort of interaction forever the MSA should be thought of as a neutral corner and, frankly, you are just going to have to suck up some hypocrisy and bat-shit crazy or you will spend all your time in this. Just be thankful you neve…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/19 12:10 PM
3	Hooked up with my former oneitis and why you should never do it. Do you have all your fingers and toes? You’re not writing from jail, right? Your credit cards and bank accounts aren’t emptied? You don’t have a life threatening disease, didn’t lose your job and your dick didn’t fall off? No baby mama non-stop psycho calls? Fantastic. You won. You crushed your crush, dude Nothing to lament. Your takeaway is strong. Keep learning and you will be light years ahead in just a few years as all your mates start to divorce. One thing you might benefit from is to think…	/r/askTRP	28/01/19 03:24 AM
19	Girls are losers I spent a good part of my childhood with my hands kept closed with a rubber band and I find this a painful and insensitive line of discussion. My father was boiled alive!	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/18 04:32 AM
3	Love...not A guy falls off the Empire State Building and as he passes the 2nd floor, a worker inside screams from the window, "You're going to die!" "Why?" he says, "I've fallen 100 stories and so far everything is fine."	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/18 08:14 PM
1	A thought I had about the reason this sub even exists: 'Becoming a Man' is optional in today's world. it'a definitely a giveaway when you can disable an entire military force with nut butters	/r/TheRedPill	09/01/18 09:44 PM
6	Massive outrage after wife files for divorce in UK on "cheating partner" the MAN gets paid £2MILLION from court order! You underestimate people and overestimate lawyers. Most of a divorce, especially without children in a no-fault state, is just the listing of assets and debts. This is not really any different than filing your own taxes. And I am quite sure there would be a Quicken product for it were it not for one reason: you need a lawyer to respond to the other lawyer. Why? Because without one, the other lawyer is very likely trying to screw you so the only thing that requires a lawyer is the presence of ano…	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/18 08:09 PM
26	Massive outrage after wife files for divorce in UK on "cheating partner" the MAN gets paid £2MILLION from court order! No-fault marriage is a contract, a business model. Dissolution of the business is not cause-dependent (so morality, his or her behavior, infidelity, etc is irrelevant). In this case, probably because of the short duration of the contract, life of business, the judge decided one party should get 20% of the business and the other should get 80%. That's it. To view it otherwise is to romanticize marriage as something other than what it has become in Western culture, essentially a joint partnership.…	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/18 07:17 PM
5	Pulling the plug: going tech free for a month The studies I've read suggest the magic point is at 6-7 days of abstinence: https://www.livestrong.com/article/246689-the-effects-of-masturbation-on-testosterone/ The jury is still somewhat out on the effects of long-term abstinence but it doesn't look good for hoarding your precious bodily fluids: https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/6-things-that-happen-to-your-body-when-you-dont-have-sex-for-a-while	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/17 04:28 AM
3	[FR] All it takes is one night to change someones perspective of you I have been in this situation, not the rest of it, but the 3 girls in bed with me part. One girl was actively more into me than the others but I had ignored them all at a party at my house and so I had no idea. I had just intended to go to sleep. They all climbed into bed with me after the party ended. The one that liked me lay closest to me and she is the one who was first at grabbing my cock and then the others, who were on the other side of the bed giggling, start saying things like, hey, no …	/r/TheRedPill	08/11/16 07:04 AM
1	An observation: It's like every life stage got moved backwards, college became high school, 20s became college, and 30 became the new 20. See my answer below. It's basically the same answer except I'll ad no one cares what I think about anything at the DOE. Regs work for lawyers not careers.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/16 11:27 PM
3	An observation: It's like every life stage got moved backwards, college became high school, 20s became college, and 30 became the new 20. No one can make me change a grade but there is, for some well-heeled students, with persistent enough parents, implied pressure to appease the customer. There is an unspoken quid pro quo. The student is a more valuable product to the university than I am. There are roughly 250 Ph.D.s for every position and the trend is to replace full-timers with adjunct so in meetings, casual conversations in the hallway with the chair, etc, it is clear what is professionally smart. I can choose not to do it an…	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/16 11:26 PM
5	An observation: It's like every life stage got moved backwards, college became high school, 20s became college, and 30 became the new 20. Not just talk, but change their grade: the customer (student) is always right. For all intents and purposes, profs are in a service profession now.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/16 08:30 PM
6	Personal Finance Basics. There is a step missing: Never get married.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/16 08:13 PM
36	An observation: It's like every life stage got moved backwards, college became high school, 20s became college, and 30 became the new 20. As a professor, I found it annoying and ridiculous to have to speak with parents about a 20 year-old student's grades. There is nothing beautiful to me about the accumulation of experience without the ethic to put that experience to use for others.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/16 07:45 AM
8	After six month of monk mode I went out for the first time. You may find, at least I have, that those same people who didn't want you to improve will subtly try to bring you back into the mediocre fold and so you have to stay hungry. For me, I often think of the scene in Apocalypse Now about Charlie's idea of R&R.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/16 05:33 AM
2	The only advice I would actually give every single young person, but especially men. I thought that too as a grad student but then when I started writing grants I heard the real stories from some of my hero scientists after a few beers or whiskey. They were for the most part miserable, going to committee meetings, traveling to conventions, writing grants endlessly, and some hadn't done any research of their own in more than 10 years (although their name appeared on all the post doc work and they did direct things). But then all my experience was at public universities and maybe …	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/16 05:27 AM
1	Law 38: I know you all weigh in with your opinion here at TRP, good on ya... but, you'll look like a weirdo if you do so in real life, anywhere near the same way you do so here. I was thinking the same thing; this is my experience as well.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/16 05:18 AM
3	Mariah Carey seeking $50 million inconvenience fee for splitting with billionaire fiancé If you haven't read her yet, Camille Paglia writes about this in a number of books and essays (Sexual Personae and Who Stole Feminism? are two of the better ones).	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/16 05:13 AM
4	Mariah Carey seeking $50 million inconvenience fee for splitting with billionaire fiancé I remember thinking Tommy Mottolla treated her like a child and then after they broke up I realized she was one. And you're right about the family. Just as she was becoming famous I was teaching a writing class for older students and her uncle was in the class. He told some great stories but the one that stuck was her mom used to game the system by working for just 22 weeks, just long enough to collect unemployment. It always begins at home. That's where she learned to be a princess, and that, b…	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/16 05:08 AM
2	I would have been suicidal - but thanks to TRP - i don't give a fuck Your writing is heartfelt and visceral. More importantly it is brutally honest and descriptive to the point that I can feel it. If you are not a writer in some capacity you should consider adding it to things you might want to try. You are good at it and, if nothing else, it can be incredibly therapeutic. You are making monumentally difficult but very positive choices. This will be a lifelong process. I'm reminded of the line, "we can be through with the past but it is not through with us." I wi…	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/16 08:14 AM
3	You Will Undoubtedly Fail One quarter of all people will dramatically shift socioeconomic class at least once in their life. That means going from top 10% wage earner to poverty line. Most will shift a notch up or down. I have been broke as a grad student, made more than 250k, mostly 350k for the last 14 years and now after a divorce, I am struggling to hit six figures. Linearity is an illusion. Keep yourself healthy and strong and you will be prepared for the inevitable chaos that is coming your way.	/r/TheRedPill	18/10/16 04:23 PM
1	If you want a friend get a dog. If you want loyalty get a dog. If you want a chick magnet get a dog. Just get a dog. I have been surprised in the last few years how many girls I have met that don't seem that into dogs. It used to be a given but now I hear a lot about allergies or, and since my dogs are plus 200 lbs., how frightened they are of them. I can work with that. But the whole allergy thing is a red flag to me of high maintenance, snowflake likelihood.	/r/TheRedPill	18/10/16 04:10 PM
71	Jerry to George: "If everything you've ever done is wrong, then the opposite must be right" I modify this slightly to: whatever I think I can't do, I try and do it. My reasoning comes from whatever someone else can do, I can do. I bought my house this way, got my doctorate this way, started a business, wrote a novel, and ran the bulls by thinking this way. And it has always turned out, without fail to not only be true but to be far easier than I had imagined.	/r/TheRedPill	18/10/16 04:05 PM
2	Thinking about QUITTING DRINKING? Here's how you can start (and what to expect in the early stages of sobriety) I like it. Yeah, that about sums it up. I use to think the reaching out to people was bs but after a few years I did a lot of it because i wanted to not because it was a rule and I felt weight after weight lift off of me. It's a beautiful thing to own your mistakes.	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/16 07:34 AM
4	I'm just disgusted at how so many modern day women act So true but damn if I can figure out why.	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/16 01:52 PM
3	How Betas Are Made or My Short Life Story Good for you. That's what being a man is all about -- discipline. It doesn't matter what shit happens to us, it's all about getting back up off the mat. Hemingway said, "The world breaks everyone but some mend stronger in the broken places." I strongly believe whatever you invest in, invests in you. If you harm someone you harm yourself, even if you are justified.	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/16 02:09 PM
2	On Relationship Market Value: Once you can get her, you won’t need her. It's a principle because of emotions; most men aren't sociopaths no matter how tough they are. You have to be disciplined to keep your shit together.	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/16 01:58 PM
3	10 ways to instantly boost your appearance. Check out Buck Mason (No, I don't work for them). I got into them through their jeans but their t-shirts are cut perfect. I recommend the slub. https://www.buckmason.com	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/16 06:57 AM
1	I'm struggling big time to move on, emotionally left destroyed. The single best thing you can do is to create routines. Make sure you are covering your daily needs: shower, shave, clean your place, shop, eat healthy, pay your bills. I highly recommend the gym or any form of exercise you choose. Why? Because you don't have to think and the stronger you get, the clearer you will get. But it all takes time. If you are feeling really desperate then you need to get yourself to the ER. If you can wait, then go see a therapist. Maybe you will need some meds for a f…	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/16 02:11 AM
3	I don't know what to do... Hi, first, I feel for you, buddy. I went through a divorce last year and so much of what you said about losing yourself, your friends, your passions applies to me as well. Only you are lucky, you realize it much more quickly than I did. I have some suggestions informed by some of my recent experiences to relate on the chance they might be of use to you. If you can, begin planning how to create your new life. If you can get some credit cards she knows nothing about, setup bank accounts, setup new…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/16 02:57 AM
1	I'm struggling big time to move on, emotionally left destroyed. I'm not saying anything too big. All I'm saying is control what you can -- your actions. No matter what you feel like. Decide on what you want to do and why. As you do these actions, even if you are not feeling it at first, your feelings will catch up. Do positive things for yourself and soon you will feel positive and confident again. And you will know how to do this for yourself for the rest of your life. You will be free from needing someone else to do it for you And that also means that what…	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/16 11:59 PM
1	I'm struggling big time to move on, emotionally left destroyed. Feelings follow action. Action is determined by reason. You can't go in the opposite direction.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/16 07:01 AM
2	I'm struggling big time to move on, emotionally left destroyed. You're identity has been wounded. Just breathe. Traditionally getting drunk helps for a bit. Distract. Avoid all emotional situations. Heal. Just like any wound. Time. Rest. Some drugs. It will get better. See a therapist, or a hooker if you like. When you're ready, and you will be, move to as much exercise as you can handle and then add some, eat very healthy, take care of yourself, learn one new thing you always wanted to but she didn't, and reconnect with your friends and any goals you let yo…	/r/TheRedPill	06/09/16 03:29 AM
13	Blast Past Every Shit Test Just keep going with it. "Good call. I was feeling bad about the cats." Pause. You follow with: "I know. What if you gave your number to one of your cats and she can give it to my dog, and we'll let him call it?" She laughs, or at least holds back laughing. Pause. Let her come in. Maybe she does, "You have a dog?" You. "No, I just wanted you to feel ok about your cats," or "Yeah, but if you want him to do your taxes, forget it. He's loyal but he's an idiot." And so on. If she just doesn't respon…	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 10:33 AM
1	I compiled a collection of 'must read' books. Which ones helped you the most? The Naked Ape -- Desmond Morris. Excellent read on contextualizing human behavior as evolutionary rather than cultural.	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/16 06:21 AM
3	Your Sensitive Conditioning Should Makes You Want To Throw Up: It Was The Bait For The Birth of The Beta There is no up. No one is better than you. Any woman you give your attention to, your time to, is getting you, your time, all you have worked for and become. Any woman you give your time to had better bring her 'A' game -- you've got better things to do.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/16 07:31 AM
2	Status post divorce I can't say it any better than this: “We are all alone, born alone, die alone, and—in spite of True Romance magazines—we shall all someday look back on our lives and see that, in spite of our company, we were alone the whole way. I do not say lonely—at least, not all the time—but essentially, and finally, alone. This is what makes your self-respect so important, and I don't see how you can respect yourself if you must look in the hearts and minds of others for your happiness.” Hunter S. Thompson	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/16 06:47 AM