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LTR/MARRIAGEearthboundfrommars/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 02:49 AM
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ADVICEearthboundfrommars/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 03:08 PM
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That's what I've noticed too. 5's end up with 5's and 8's end up with 8's, etc. I don't think there's much more to analyze about dating apps. They are, after all, popular because you initially judge one another on looks. It stands to reason that you're going to attract people who are your equivalent or lower in terms of looks. I don't think men have it harder when it comes to dating apps- I think there just might be some high, unrealistic standards sometimes, especially with men being more visua…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 12:17 AM
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I'm a female- just kind of lurking in this thread- and wanted to comment in response to you saying you wanted your daughter to be with someone who would call her out if she was being dramatic. I didn't know that that was something I needed in a partner until I ended up with my current bf. I really respect that he was (and still is) ballsy enough to tell me when I'm being irrational or ridiculous. It actually is a really great trait to be paired with. I feel like I'm much more reasonable, and pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 04:53 AM
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I need to get back into a routine myself so I would definitely love to have some accountability!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 08:03 PM
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I honestly don't know what sets couples apart when it comes to living together before engagement. I live with my boyfriend and he brings up marriage frequently, but I believe there's several factors that have contributed to this openness and willingness. We were long-distance before taking the plunge to move in together, so I think the stakes were high from the get-go. We openly discussed our expectations for the future, as well as what responsibilities we wanted to take on before moving in toge…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 02:25 AM
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Oh, that's interesting! I haven't been here long at all, so I don't have much to compare it to. How was it different a couple years ago, if you don't mind me asking?
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/18 01:55 AM
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Judging from the user's Reddit history, I don't think we're gonna get much of an explanation.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/18 01:25 AM
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I'd be interested!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 11:13 PM
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Whoa. You go, girl!
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 01:00 AM
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I love that you're an organization freak too. I thrive on making lists, planning things, and writing notes. :) I want to learn how to make a bullet journal next!
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 01:58 PM
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My resolution is to be more selfish. Hear me out: I've had a lot of life changes in the last couple of months and it has left me feeling a bit overwhelmed and not quite myself. I figure if I can make myself happy, then I can be a better person in every other aspect of my life too.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 01:56 PM
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I second this. Even when I lived in a small, rural town, the very great majority of people didn't become homeowners until sometime in their 30's.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 04:09 PM
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This is what I love about RPW. What we have to do is actually so simple, but sometimes overlooked.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 05:35 PM
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I know. :( His license was suspended due to lots of speeding tickets. Yikes.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 04:05 PM
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I agree that it's absurd too. His license was suspended temporarily due to too many speeding tickets (and his court date is continually pushed out, prolonging the process). I actually read your response last night, and although I'd brought this up several times with him in the past, I felt compelled to talk to him about it again. I think it went well, but I can't really gauge how/if it made much of a difference until we're out on the road together again. We will see. Oh, and the moving in togeth…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 03:59 PM
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This is going to sound so silly, but it's mostly over driving (of all things!). Surprisingly, living together hasn't been much of the issue for us. He's in a position where he won't have a license for several months, so I'm his personal driver for the time being. We have incredibly different driving styles- he's rather aggressive and I err on the side of caution. He just dislikes my driving and is probably frustrated that he's not in charge in those situations, haha. It's not a situation we can …
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 06:09 PM
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I'm super sensitive, but I know sometimes keeping quiet is the best course of action when it comes to disagreements with our SOs. Any tips on how to let things go and learn to stfu without being a total doormat?
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 08:23 PM
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Thanks for a great post! Can't wait to see what's up next. :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 08:20 PM
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I don't have sources on me. To be honest, I'm recalling this information from when I was studying kinesiology and physiology in college. You don't have to agree with me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 11:44 PM
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Hey, I'm actually a personal trainer so I can't help but weigh in here: exercise accounts for 30% of weight loss, while diet is 70%, so it's true that what/how much you eat is going to play the biggest role in weight loss or maintenance. However, exercise will help someone reach their goals faster. I think it's a misconception that you need to start "toning" only after you've lost weight. For every pound of muscle gained, you naturally burn more calories (i.e. boost your metabolism) throughout t…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 03:01 PM
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Sure, thanks for commenting. I'm 25, and he's 27. We've been together for 1.5 years. When he's initiated it, he's been really sweet and has said he knows I'm the right person for him and that he'd like to be engaged within 1-2 years. He's brought up me giving him ideas for engagement rings. Just this week, he mentioned how I would be on his medical insurance at work within the next year and winked. (I had been joking about how lucky he was because my insurance isn't great.) He's brought up us ha…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 03:36 AM
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I don't know if my beliefs on this subject are RP or not. I personally am fine with pre-nups. It doesn't mean your spouse won't support you throughout the marriage- its just protection from them (or you) losing money you've worked hard to earn. Finances aren't romantic or sexy, but it's an important topic.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 09:55 PM
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I'm not going to lie to you all- I am 100% an advocate for the "athleisure" trend. If I could run across a romantic beach and into the loving arms (legs!) of leggings, I would. That being said, my go-to outfit for dates/public outtings is usually a nice pair of jeans and a top that's form-fitted and neutral-colored. (Think gray, black, tan, etc.) Boots or ballet flats are my favorite shoes to wear out. I top it off with a dainty necklace. I kind of like going for a down-to-earth look, I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 11:23 PM
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I've succeeded in washing my boyfriend's pocket knife, a lighter, about $1.87 in change, some gum sticks, and various receipts. I still never check his pockets first. I have learned nothing, haha.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 11:10 PM
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Thank you!!!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 11:06 PM
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I am brand new to this philosophy and this group, so I guess my motivation so far is that I find this way of thinking oddly comforting. Encouraging me to embrace my own traditonally feminine traits and desires has boosted my self-esteem. As an added bonus, I now feel more secure in my current relationship. I am really thankful to now be surrounded (virtually) by like-minded people. :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 05:56 PM
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This has been weighing on me a lot lately, actually. Social media typically affects my relationships very negatively because I have a bad habit of comparing my life to others. For instance, I would really like to get engaged to my SO and I usually feel sad when I get online and see someone else has just gotten engaged. Logically I know that doesn't mean that person's relationship is better than mine, but emotionally I wonder why not me. It's my own issue, but I know a lot of other people feel th…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 04:45 AM
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I will change my name when that day comes. It's a little complicated, but I'm not legally related to the family that my last name came from. I don't feel much of a connection to it. When I commit, I would like my last name to symbolize commitment to my life partner.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 12:32 AM
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