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Im super ashamed of myself that i took as long as i did to end things with my fwb that would only cuddle me before sex but never after :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:53 AM
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lack of communication (seems way more common in casual sex) Yeppers peppers, most people have piss poor communication skills and when you take away the social pressure of commitment the rest of that goes out the window. You still need to communicate even in a casual sex situation for things to go well, both in and out of the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:51 AM
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I will say that for me questions to an extent are for safety. If you're messing with other women, i don't care since we are both casual. Thats not why i ask. If you have a gf or wife and youre trying to make me your side piece, that puts me in a dangerous position/sets me up for potential attack by the angry main woman. Also im very strict about std testing noth of myself and my partner. if youre sowing wild oats thats fine but i just dont want you putting my health at risk because you got the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:45 AM
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Thinking process is typically not "I have thought long and hard about whether I'm a relationship kind of guy or ONs kind of guy"... it's usually simply "I want sex but I don't want to do all that for a woman". ...all the "actually not ONs guy just a lazy guy that wants to feel special without putting in effort" guys figure out they do want to feel special after all and can't comprehend how she could sleep with them and feel nothing. Very well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:38 AM
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My impression is there's a massive surplus of men that want casual and a massive shortage of women. Its more like there is a massive surplus of men that THINK they want strictly casual, but really they want something that feels like a relationship in every respect other than title. There are alot of men that say they want casual, then when the women is on board with being strictly casual and is unfazed, start trying to turn it into a relationship or joke/allude to it. I dont know why this happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:35 AM
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Sounds like you need therapy lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:52 PM
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Your comment and everyone agreeing with you is absolutely blowing my mind lmfao. Did you ever stop to consider that not all women have the same opinions on stuff? Do you realize that the woman who disagree here probably are not on the posts that say the reverse of what OP is saying? Time and time again somehow men are shocked when every single woman on earth doesnt agree and say the same thing on one topic. i dont understand whats not clicking for yall 🤣🤣🤣 the point always is that some people wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:19 PM
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There is a middle grounds youre ignoring, which is being a decent person that doesnt get disrespectful or put you down when stating their opinion, but uses facts to state their point. Debate is not inherently negative and staying away from ad hominems and the like is perfectly okay. What youre calling a good/nice person, is actually a passive/nonconfrontational person, which is definitely annoying to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:38 PM
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This is a bit more nuanced than just "because theyre crazy", thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:18 PM
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I must say this is a really well thought out one, very mature and understandable take
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:18 PM
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How come? I hear this but i never knew why
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:10 PM
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In terms of finding people that at least pretend to want a relationship, chances are much better offline. Dating sites are intense in that regard. Op was talking in context of how to find people that want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:30 PM
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u/Circ-Le-Jerk ig this isn't slut shaming either to you then eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:23 AM
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Sometimes I want to leave this sub and never return, and then I see comments like yours. I couldn't say this any better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:01 AM
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I'm starting to think men are only focused on sex so they don't even develop actual connections with women I mean, you're sorta right there, I'm not a guy but I honestly think in society we don't socialize enough for men and women to realize you can be around the gender you're attracted to and not date/hook up. There's nothing wrong with platonic coed friendships but it's perceived as odd or because you both recognize that you're not attracted to each other and/or would be terrible in a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:54 AM
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It cracks me up how women of Reddit think men sit around in the locker room talking about pumping and dumping other women out in the open. It doesn't happen. Tell that to the women ITT talking about their personal experiences. Typical "I didn't see it therefore it doesn't exist" redditors bs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:36 PM
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???? Do you and u/tka42 realize that virgins and "low n count" women get slut shamed all the time and have hate thrown at them because some guys PERCEIVE random evidence of them being a whore? The fake wise "be the change you want to see" part is so ridiculous. I hold myself to the same standards I hold my partners to and that hasn't necessarily given me better treatment from guys. It came with having respect for myself. As a matter of fact, when I was younger I was extremely confused, because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:34 PM
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Your pro tip is so true. It's easy to idolize a crush but not every person that's our preference physically will necessarily be a good partner. I'll try to think of it less as "he rejected me because somethings wrong with me" and think of it as "we weren't on the same page". It's so easy to take things personally and want to change to suit the crush. Ugh emotions are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:08 AM
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Words from women are completely meaningless at this point - any man who takes a woman's words at face value is a fucking idiot. Honestly, it's so sad you'd even say something like this. I'll leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:52 AM
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Lmao I was slut shamed as a virgin too 💀 I was Hella confused about it too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:18 AM
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That being said, as an honest question, do guys invite women places because they enjoy her as a person? Because so far I'm starting to come to the conclusion that guys don't go out of their way to pursue plationic friendships with women-their friendships with us seem to be due to proximity either from work or school, nothing more. It seems like guys will pursue a 'friendship' if the girls pretty but in that case that's not friendship. I've not really seen guys say "oh I have common interests wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:17 AM
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What matters is real life. Reply to the ladies providing real life examples ITT then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:10 AM
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Real life is what is relevant Yet you have many women in this post relaying their irl experiences...the truth is, as a man you will never experience being slut shamed to your face, so you can conveniently choose to believe it never happens. You don't actually want to change your view. You just want to ignore and justify every example women ITT have brought. On top of that, what you view as a perfectly logical conclusion of guys saying they don't want to date someone because they're sexually acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:06 AM
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Wow you think his Lil dime sized areolas are giant😂but okay I hear you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:07 PM
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So dark areolas and prominent nips?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:57 PM
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I'm absolutely shaken by this plot twist, yall
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:48 PM
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but when we stop having sex with you it’s also abuse? Yes because it's abuse no matter who does it OBVIOUSLY the women who don't care about sex wouldn't be affected by having sex withheld from them. You can only hurt people through things they care about, so for the women that do like sex and desire that closeness with their partner, to have it withheld IS abuse. I'm not sure why it's so hard for you to imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:42 PM
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Thank you. Couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:24 PM
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what counts as ugly nipples to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:18 PM
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At the very least don't you think it's stupid for a promiscuous person to expect someone to sleep with them after shaming them for also being promiscuous? I see it all the time. Guys always want us to be sexual but not too much that it makes us "hoes". And then being a "hoe" in itself is subjective. You can jump around all you want and say it's not rude and that men are allowed to have different standards for their partners than themselves or whatever but it's definitely stupid. And it looks you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:14 PM
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This comment should be higher. u/thisishello69 If there's a guy I am not attracted to, I obviously won't want to pique his interest even more or take any random stuff I say to mean "make a move". There's stuff that guys keep a mental note of, and for example I wouldn't over share some things like how I get off or random sexual things like that because it can be misinterpreted. And you know that. So besides not wanting to be shamed, I also dont want the guy to think me saying "yes I like casual s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:09 PM
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If he didnt have his tag up saying he was black, you wouldnt even know he was. If he even is. I hate seeing this happen on reddit. You find out some tiny detail about an OP and boom confirmation bias Sounds to me like you need better game :p Ive seen guys with absolutely nothing going for them career or personality wise still get girls lmao...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 04:44 AM
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Yiiikesss...that even stung me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 04:41 AM
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Bro.... Lemme try saying it this way. My mom LOVES ice cream. Alot. She could eat ice cream at every meal and still want some for a snack. For me, ice cream isnt my thing but i eat it now and again when i have a taste for it. It definitely tastes good, i just dont wanna eat it all the time or as much as my mom does. You could say i dont have the same desire to eat ice cream. But have i eaten it? Yep. Have i liked it? Yes, and every now and the desire comes. Easier when its accessible and in my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:59 AM
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THANK YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:53 AM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:47 AM
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Im not sure what difference itll make with me telling you this, but to the men in this thread, being in a ltr w someone thats not the hottest person theyve met is lowering their standards. We women are trying to say, being in an ltr with someone thats not the sexiest isnt the end of the world.if not all of us, most of us here. And if not most of us, i am saying this. The guys they usually end up with aren’t as good looking. So what? Do you think good looks is gonna make a great dad, a fun person…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:46 AM
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Youre answering the opposite of what im asking If you were seeing someone that was really good in bed, the best you ever had or close to it, but had what you would usually consider red flags, would you stay with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:17 PM
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Ohhhhh I see. Makes enough sense. Yea you can tell the difference in effort. And if you complain about something they genuinely get affected, because they like you. You can just sense when youre not worth it to them. For me it's with conversation or opening up, you know when theyre just talking to pass time and talking to actually try to show you who they are as a person, including impress you. Idk man, you just know when theyre actually trying haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:48 AM
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I guess what im getting at is, would you pursue a relationship with someone who had red flags if it was the best sex you ever had?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:37 AM
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> That men only push the 50/50 stuff for women they don’t like or are unsure about. wym? what are you referring to >That men are just as put off by girls that are “too nice” as women are by men who are “too nice” yea this one shocked me a little bit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:30 AM
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reading this post my thoughts were "I wonder which of the guys I date are gonna think 'i wont have a side piece with this one' and which ones wont"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 01:26 AM
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Sex is the ultimate test for chemistry. Ultimate test for sexual chemistry*, you mean. lmfao. you cant tell if your relationship is gonna work and if yall are compatible just by seeing if the sex good. Plenty of wizards in bed that suck as people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:55 AM
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But the thing is... Many women dont know that most men see friendship im a torally different light and for the most part don't approach us for friendship. Many men arent interested in platonic friendship with us. So it already starts wrong. Then the girl thinks its a budding friendship while the guy is counting his brownie points hoping to get a lay. This is different to women exploiting men they know like them tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:51 AM
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I mean plenty of em are alone because thats what they prefer, lol. Some successful/stable women dont want a relationship or dont have time etc. Unstable ppl have plenty of time to whine about being single. Being single is what they should do to give themselves time to learn how to stop being such a mess...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:28 AM
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Pretty rough, i agree, and its pretty common. But i think having a council of friends for help is one of the best parts of the female experience. If you surround yourself with good friends as a girl, they will have your back to advise you when youre in a bad relationship. The problem is if you surround yourself with immature people that think height and looks are reasons to dump or reject someone, thats the advice youll get. Sometimes people cant see the red flags in their own relationships. Lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:21 AM
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Then why wasn’t the notion of “just move on” more prevalent during earlier eras? I think the answer is simple, it was much more looked down upon for women to shuffle around looking for a man/being with many guys, and many toxic behaviors were just tolerated during a relationship. Even getting abused. Women have more options buuuut society has also allowed for it and become more alert to toxic behaviors in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:39 AM
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Its hard for yall to believe some women dont care about height/use height as a meter of whether someones good enough to date, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:28 AM
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Societal pressure. People could be so much more free if they rid themselves of conforming to most societal expectations. And im not talking about actually harmful personal desires that affevt others, i mainly mean the dumb ones like you feel like you need to have a car similar to your coworkers or wear a similar watch. Things like that. I wish more women learned how to have value as a person other than offering good(only sometimes) sex but no ones really teachin em
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:49 AM
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Its funny because its like people have preached the "women cant cum from piv alone!!!!" doctrine for so long that they kinda forgot that some women are on the other end of the spectrum that thoroughly enjoy piv sex, even without orgasming. People are just so ready to dismiss what isnt their experience. And its amplified on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:37 AM
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But i would love to do that as a first date lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:24 AM
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Interesting, ill definitely look at that vid later
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:57 AM
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Youre putting a male pov on a female perspective of dating strategy. Youre saying it doesn't work because it doesnt achieve the end result you aim for when dating. This whole thread is women basically saying the same thing different ways regarding making a move and men dismissing every single comment and saying it doesnt work. But it works for us. Yall cant ask a question then quickly dismiss answers you dont think are the answer because its never been that way for you. The truth is as men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 08:56 AM
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TLDR: normal women will accept simple compliments, catcalling/overtly sexual comments ≠ complimenting I dont know why so many men take the things we say about being uncomfortable with their behavior and get so dramatic. When women complain about being approached or catcalled, the comment in question 9/10 wasn't just a simple compliment unless youre dealing with a mega feminist or spoiled brat. There is a major difference in some guy saying "miss, i think you have a beautiful smile" and "you have…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:00 AM
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Sweetie*
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:52 AM
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or he also has game and move on to another girl That's not the end of the world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:19 AM
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You put this so perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:17 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:06 AM
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The realest answer here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 06:02 AM
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I mean...i hope youre not saying an "ugly" woman not sleeping with every man that comes her way is having inflated standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 05:59 AM
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