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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 115 | "My bf doesn't do foreplay so I cOmmUnicated, countless times, but he won't change... why?!" | LIES MEN TELL | eat_me_off_your_ear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 11:54 PM |
| 8 | So many LVM out there... | LESSON LEARNED | eat_me_off_your_ear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Need help. Are these red flags ? | DISCUSSION | eat_me_off_your_ear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Another classic porn addict - naturally a terrible partner | PORN SICK, LIMP DICK | eat_me_off_your_ear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:45 AM |
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| 3 | Did you know that "aftercare" was a thing with BDSM?I was abused by a man as a little girl. And I'm sorry to say but even now I get aroused by the thought of what happened to me happening again. I have deep PTSD and this is part of it - I was groomed to be aroused by being abused. "Vanilla" sex doesn't turn me on as much - but guess what, it's the only kind of sex I want to have. Because being extra aroused isn't worth reliving my trauma. It isn't worth being hurt by a man and opening myself up to bring abused again. (I think if a man does that s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:07 PM |
| 9 | Beware LV people who think a relationships are supposed to be transactional.Ick, so relatable. My ex would do things for me that I made clear I didn't even want, and make a big fuss about how much effort it was for him to do those things. Then if I ever asked for the literal bare minimum - "please don't yell at me," "please don't take out your anger on me constantly," - he would immediately turn to "look at all the things I did for you and now you're accusing me of doing something wrong?! How could I when I'm so perfect?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 06:23 PM |
| 5 | I believe there is some truth to it for sure. Any thoughts ?I think this is true because men usually use "leaving" (or other rejection/negging tactics) as a tool to manipulate the woman into getting what they want from her. For example, my NVM ex got angry when I finally put my foot down and asked him to stop treating me like shit. He immediately dumped me as a tool to try to get me to acquiesce to him. Then when he realized I wasn't going to change my mind, he begged me to take him back and said he'd listen to me. He would then change his behavior for a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 09:21 PM |
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