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3

PUA, is one huge giant scam. I could even see that it was back in 2005,when it blew up when o was in the eighth grade. As for the guys that take the courses, I pity them for blowing there hard earned money and stuff that doesn’t work.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 03:50 AM
3

Netural, I guess. I’m kind of in a relationship right now. I’m not really implementing any ideas in it, I’m just going to see how it goes. And I’m trying to forget all the stupid red and black pill stuff I learned even though it’s been tough.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 01:33 AM
6

The 80/20 rule Men have no value and are only loved by what the provide Women are all are a hypergamous hive mind And that women lie I still struggle with all of this at times tbh, but I’m not as bad as what I once was. Edit: there’s way more I believed in but these are the biggest
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 04:55 AM
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Ugh, well this is depressing. I’m dreading my 40s even more now. I always knew it was a cope that life gets better for men as we get older.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 05:46 PM
11

I don’t care, but I’m a virgin male so I’m not sure my opinion counts in this.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 01:03 AM
0

Ugh, this is suicide fuel. It’s over for me if your struggling. I’m not even going to bother at this point.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 05:32 AM
1

I’m not planning on dating rich model girls lol, I’m not that stupid. But, if a guy who is making 7 figures is struggling to get dates that doesn’t make me feel optimistic. Plus he’s trying to date average looking girls
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 05:31 AM
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Ugh, I don’t have much to say. Other than this thread is extremely depressing, and almost just reconfirms all my negative red/ black pilled beliefs about dating and women . If you a 7 figures earner is struggling I’m probably beyond fucked.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 05:16 AM
7

I liked these two posts you linked, it really helped put things in perspective for me back in the summer. These probably should be pinned.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:28 AM
3

It’s a more extreme version of the red pill, basically black pill is all about genetics. If you aren’t born a “Chad” you are doomed a life of sexlessnes and loneliness no matter what.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 07:26 AM
6

K, so I was way more black pilled than red pil. But I held some red pill views as well. It just made me feel bad about myself and I couldn’t stand looking at women or the world that way anymore.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 06:33 AM
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It’s up to you, I keep flirting with the idea but always decide no on it. But if you post it on your social media,I can tell you it won’t make any women you know feel jealous, also it definitely will decrease the chance of a woman wanting to go into a long term relationship with you, that’s one of the main reasons I haven’t pulled the trigger and done it. Take it easy,I have been having kind of a bad mental health day too.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 04:08 AM
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I wish I was mature as you were at 23, hell I’m ten years older than you and you are still more mature than the current me. I get what you mean I wish I never learned about incels and red/black pill and all of that too, let’s hope me and you can reach are 2024 New Years goals 🤝
/r/ExRedPill02/01/24 04:15 AM
3

I just try not to pay attention to dating stuff, I used to and still get overwhelmed when I think about this. But I’m just going to disregard what the internet and incels and red and pink pillars have told me over the years and see what women and dating are really like. I have autism too, which I do feel is and undesirable trait to have has a man and puts me at a huge disadvantage but I’m just going to try and see for myself. Honestly with how bad you are feeling I advise you get away from Reddi…
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 03:27 AM
8

I don’t subscribe to any of the pills anymore, they are all fucking stupid.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 09:11 PM
6

I’m sorry it made you miserable too, I have learned from being in this sub and r/IncelExit that red and black pill stuff affects women negatively too. And yeah I discovered red pill from Reddit and 4Chan back when it was staring out in 2012. My detox as been going pretty good, it’s kind of tough though. But I don’t view realtonshps and dating as negatively anymore. I hope your detox is going well too.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 03:55 AM
9

Yes, that’s why it’s called r/exredpill.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/23 11:36 PM
8

Yep, there’s differences between the two but not much. Black pill promotes it’s all genetics and if you aren’t born a Chad your fucked, we’re red pill says you can become a Chad.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/23 11:34 PM
3

It’s the unsettling truth, they took it from The Matrix. Basically it teaches you that women only care about money,status,looks, and that they are a scary evil hypergamus hive mind. Really ruined my views on everything.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/23 11:31 PM
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Tbh, dude you don’t even want to know I would kill to not know about these pills. Really ruined my entire perception on dating and women, if I was you I would turn back and forget you ever heard about it.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/23 11:21 PM
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This is a pretty good answer, and yeah man deep down I know me and OPs worries are pretty irrational especially when you put it in this perspective.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 04:37 AM
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Male strip show depress me too, I would kill to have a woman look at me like that. I’m going to try to get a six pack again and get lean I got to be careful that I don’t go into eating disorder territory though with that. I know what you mean I can’t become hot or hung either. But I guess we can make the most of it. I don’t know the answer to this has I’m trying to work through this insanity with the red and black pill and looks and all that bullshit too.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 04:33 AM
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Just delete your Instagram, and yeah people would think your red pilled seeing that. They probably wouldn’t think your and incel, but red pill and incel ideology are pretty much the same bullshit with some slight differences.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 05:57 PM
1

I think there actually are guys out there that might genuinely like all those traits though tbh.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 06:52 AM
1

Holy fuck this thread is old! Lol
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 02:51 AM
1

Thank you
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 01:32 AM
2

Ik, I’m autistic too and I’m struggling with improving my social skills. But I think it’s the only realistic answer.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 12:38 AM
3

Ugh, I hate Wheat Walllfes and all his black pill “alpha male” fanboys so much! Even seeing his face throws me in a rage I would love to kick his smug ginger ass.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 12:36 AM
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Yes black pill is a cult, I’m basically going through cult deprogramming to get out of it. I discovered that bullshiit by accident on Reddit and 4Chan when I was younger. And those guys got me convinced I was subhuman who had no place in society. I honestly hate incel and pilled retoric.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 11:16 PM
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Yeah, that’s a pretty good way to look at it. Red and black pillars do focus on the most shallow and attractive women. And then they try to tell you all women are like that and it makes you feel hopeless. That content fucking sucks!
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 05:25 PM
2

Yeah true, it’s all stupid at the end of the day.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 02:48 AM
2

Lol 😂
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 02:27 AM
2

Oh I hate that sub lol, it was honestly depressing reading the posts there if your and average or below average man. I used to read stuff there to torture myself.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 02:26 AM
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It seems like the concept of Chad and Tyrone differs from person to person. To me a Chad was a guy who was perfect in every way and the guy all women wanted and could get and I would die alone because I never could be that.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 02:24 AM
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I haven’t either, tbh I used to read that sub all the time to torture myself.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 11:28 PM
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I think so too! they say the same stuff male incels say basically . The even got kicked off of Reddit for awhile for advocating violence against sex workers. It basically incels.is but for women.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 11:25 PM
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I only discovered it three years back or so when it was already filled with red pillars an incels and stuff. It really caused me a lot of mental damage tbh. I don’t know what it was like before, tbh dating subs are not good for me too look at. The women that posted there were mean and scary too I think it was a lot of the same women that posted in FDS.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 11:15 PM
3

Agree, I unsubbed from it five months ago I don’t go there anymore.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 04:17 PM
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I remember your post yesterday on r/Incelexit. And I’m just going to tell you the same thing I told you there stop looking at this shit and get the hell off subs like r/PurplePillDebate. You are just torturing yourself viewing that content
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 03:52 AM
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Yeah, those type of incel/ red pill mansophere corners claim to help men. But they always made me feel like shit. Pretty much how I feel now if those kind of guys are right and I’m doomed to a lonely miserable life. I would rather just be alone and miserable than rot on those sites or subs with all those assholes.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 03:48 AM
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I do think r/allpilldebate was slightly worse, Both are shitty though.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 10:20 PM
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Bro, leave that sub. I just got into and argument with a guy on r/Incelexit yesterday over that place. It’s trash all that sub is a bunch of incels,red pillars and MGTOWS bitching about feminism and women. Most male centered subs on Reddit are filled with that shit. That’s why I unsubbed from most of them.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 10:17 PM
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I’m ngl, I still get horribly depressed when I hear red and black pillars go on about male beauty standards like jawline, Hunter eyes, and how a man must be ten percent body fat or lower with a six pack before he can even talk to a woman. That shit caused me to get severe BDD and I’m still afraid to ever ask a woman out on a date because of this stuff. But yeah I agree I like a lot of different looking women I don’t really have a specific type that I’m attracted too.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/23 10:28 PM
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Ik, thing is with my issues full time work is not realistic. I have had multiple mental health professionals tell me that. I have money I just make a modset amount witch most does make my dating pool kind of small. I haven’t attempted dating I just know it’s going to be somewhat tough for me.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/23 07:39 PM
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Yeah, that would be interesting, I have actually never talked to and ex FDS member before, and thanks it hasn’t been easy but I’m getting there.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/23 04:31 AM
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Sorry, I wrote a lot in my og comment I just related to a lot of your struggles tbh. Anyways I do actually think there is some women out there that would be willing to date guys like us. It’s just that we probably would have to look harder to find them. But hey I mean there’s guys with serious deformities and guys that have been 600+ pounds who,have gotten girlfriends so I don’t see why we can’t.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/23 03:08 AM
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Oh man, I’m autistic and extremely shy with other mental disabilities/disorders I can only work part time and I’m 33 and still live with my parents it’s embarrassing. And yeah I used to watch those,videos too and would torture myself with red/black pill content and subs like r/FemaleDatingStratgey. The past six months I have been trying to get away from that stuff. Left every incel and red pill fourm and sub and have been getting serious with therapy. My advice for now is to stop looking at that…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/23 02:56 AM
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I would date a woman a couple years older than me, I actually won’t date date a woman under 24. Just ignore red pillars.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/23 10:10 PM
1

Dude, your good looking! I wish I looked like you I’m 33 and in kind of a similar situation myself. But there is nothing wrong with your looks or body at all. I do feel your question though is probably better suited for r/Incelexit.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/23 09:39 PM
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Yeah, as you know I’m autistic and red/black pill ruined my entire perception of dating and relationships and women. And I’m still kind of stuck tbh but better than what I was,Yeah we are targeted more by it by being autistic
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 09:30 PM
1

You really think showing compassion is coddling? Wow like I said to the other user go to r/PurplePillDebate if you want to debate. This is a support sub you guys that go in here with your mentally are just as bad as the red and black pilled troll that come in here to push there shit and tell us we are all cucked.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 04:19 PM
1

And I didn’t say it did, I just don’t see how telling him he is being broken beyond repair is going to help.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 04:16 PM
1

Holy shit! What is your purpose of using this sub, Pussy-fying really? You sound almost just as bad as red pillars. I really wish you guys that come in here with the debate mentality would just stick to r/PurplePillDebate.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 04:15 PM
2

Yes, your right it does need to be addressed but don’t see how telling him he broken beyond repair is going to help him.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 04:13 PM
4

Man, why even say something like this? this sub is called r/Exredpill for a reason because we want to abandon toxic mindsets. This guy is here for help not to be torn down.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 05:20 AM
2

No,your really young too. You need professional help especially since you have intense hate and fear of women. I don’t have a hate for women but I do have some fear of them. Because I overdosed on red/black pill content.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 12:54 AM
3

Yeah, this is largely what the dating advice for men is on Reddit. I still have anxiety that I have to be perfect in every aspect to get a girlfriend too. But irl it’s not as bad as what 4Chan,Reddit, red pillars/pink pillars and incels make it seem. And deep down I know this and I’m sure you do too. It’s just when you view that content they make things seem convincing and it makes things feel hopeless for guys like us who aren’t perfect and have flaws.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/23 08:41 PM
2

I don’t use them anymore, that’s why I blocked out all pill content and stop going to those sites and subs. I use this sub and r/ Incelexit to help me get away from that stuff.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 08:07 PM
1

Black pill, means women only choose sexual partners based on looks and genetics, and only go for the top 20% of men and hate and want the bottom 80% dead. It’s basically a much more extreme and nihilistic version of the red pill. Pink pill is the female equivalent of black pill. Basically the women in r/Femaledatingstratgey are pink pilled.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 08:03 PM
6

I still struggle with red/black pilled thoughts and Gynophobia, what I’m trying to do is remind myself. That my experiences with the opposite sex have mostly been positive in my life. And have disproved that the pills were real. I have also been having good interactions with the opposite sex online. I also believe it was wrong because the pills both me feel suicidal and worthless .
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 06:01 AM
4

Block out all red pill content creators and stop watching their shit, tbh my views on dating are still nit real good but since I have blocked out red/black pill content it has gotten better.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 01:33 PM
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Lol, hell no they make fun of you for that. They think depression isn’t real. I’ll never forget seeing that clip of Andrew Tate laughing and calling Robin Willams a loser for committing suicide.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 04:31 PM
2

Yeah, I had to click out fast. It wasn’t a good idea for me to look at the stuff she was saying. Especially while I’m trying to leave the red/black pill mindset.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 03:35 AM
5

I kind of agree, women red pillars are scary.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 02:33 AM
4

No, sorry I meant the person that told op he should go red pill. Her post history was all pro red pill stuff. She seems real mean and scary.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 11:51 PM
1

Wtf? look at her post history.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 09:24 PM
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That’s great man! I have been having similar conversations with my therapist too. Red/black pill both made me think women were scary and hated me. I’m glad you are coming out of this and getting better.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 01:01 AM
2

Yeah, agree and to me red and black pill pretty much both are cults really. They both use the same type of brainwashing tactics that cults use.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 03:38 PM
1

Yeah, that’s unfortunately true.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 02:10 PM
1

Hopefully , I would like it and black pill to both die.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 10:59 AM
2

I don’t get how they didn’t feel lonely when they first got redpilled in the first place. All I ever got out of reading red pill is you had to be perfect in every aspect to do anything.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 10:56 AM
2

I don’t really think a billon men are going to be red pilled anyways though. I think that’s just something op wants because he is red pillled
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 10:47 AM
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That’s best case scenario, but when I was at the gym in the winter I overheard two guys in there about my age (early 30s) talking about how Andrew Tate is a genius and is going to save us all.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 10:19 AM
1

Tbf, I don’t think the next Gen could learn from mistakes because I think that would mean end of population.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 10:17 AM
1

I hate red pill but tbh I don’t think it’s dying out unfortunately.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 10:16 AM
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I remember when it started, it was stuff on YouTube,4Chan,and Reddit etc. that’s how I got into black pill too. Neither one was caused by anything that happened in personal life other than some negative things about women my Dad would tell me growing up. I didn’t use either pill to my benefit though they just made me feel I better not talk to women my own age period because I was less than perfect. I even felt ashamed for being attracted to women because I just assumed after reading the pills th…
/r/ExRedPill16/10/23 10:14 AM
2

Yeah, true it’s not all bad
/r/ExRedPill15/10/23 10:33 PM
5

Agree,4Chan rotted my mind out I discovered that place all the way back when I was in the seventh grade.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/23 12:29 AM
2

I don’t go to 4Chan anymore, I had been going there since the seventh grade but I could no longer take it. Tbh Reddit isn’t much better for my self esteem.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/23 08:17 PM
6

I would say so
/r/ExRedPill14/10/23 05:01 PM
37

Everything except go to gym,take shower, and clean your room pretty much.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 11:41 PM
3

Yeah I’m in therapy right now. I’m trying to work on my anxieties pertaining the pills,women and dating. Progress has been kind of slow but I’m getting there ig. And yeah I have never done OLD I know it has been recommended to me by some people, but I associate it way too much with black pill stuff and it just turns me off too much because of that.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 04:03 AM
2

Tbh, I’m not really ready to start dating yet because I have a lot of anxiety about red/black pill stuff yet. But hopefully it goes okay for me.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 03:14 AM
3

Okay, sounds good. Thank you
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 01:31 AM
2

How about irl though?
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 01:03 AM
3

Question, how can you prove to a woman that you like that you aren’t into red pill stuff?
/r/ExRedPill11/10/23 12:47 AM
2

Congratulations,I’m glad you are out of it.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/23 08:27 PM
3

It is kind of mainstream, your right on that. I know there are a lot of marriages that disprove it. I can look at half the guys I went to high school with. And yeah height means jack shit, Tom Crusie Hollywood sex symbol is like 5’6 or 5’7. And my childhood friend is only 5’7 amd not that good looking amd he has a girlfriend. Amd I’m 6’2 still technically a virgin at 33 lol
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:27 AM
3

Oh okay, I,take antidepressants as well. When you said drugs I,thought you meant something else. Yeah I’m getting my Busbar for anxiety upped this week I hope it helps me.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:20 AM
5

Tbh, I never believe in women being low value. Red pill is very ableist along with the misgoney and it made me feel that women wouldn’t like,e because they only wanted the top 20% of men and that I was low value because I was mentally disabled/Ill. Yes there are men that think the way those red pillars do but I bet most don’t.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:11 AM
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Your welcome I hope better days are ahead for you.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:06 AM
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Thank you, I don’t think so either. I thought for a long time they were and I still struggle with it but deep down I know that’s not true.Another thing to take comfort in regard to men this sub and r/IncelExit both exist and we are all men in those subs trying to get away from these kind of ideas because we don’t want to view women that way anymore.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 02:04 AM
3

I’m a man who was affected by red pill.Please don’t take drugs it’s not worth it. I understand your frustrations though. I hope better days are ahead for all of us and that we can find peace.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:46 AM
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I don’t really see my friends much anymore but none of them believe this stuff we are all in our 30s. I find it interesting to see a woman suffering from the pills in the same way that me and a lot of men do. I wish I could take your pain away.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:42 AM
10

If it makes you feel any better I don’t believe any of these things, tbh red pill hurted me emotionally when they told me how women view men. I’m sorry it’s bringing you so much pain. It has bought me nothing but misery too. I can’t believe your husband said that.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:40 AM
6

Just ignore him he’s garbage bro
/r/ExRedPill08/10/23 04:53 PM
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Yeah agree, I’m glad we have these two subs too. And I hear you about being scarred emotionally and mentally from red/black pill incel retoric.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/23 07:49 AM
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Trash, that’s what I think of it.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/23 04:42 PM
3

Oh my God dude! I’m so sorry.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/23 04:20 AM
1

Secretly what?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 12:30 AM
5

In a way yes, I don’t really know anyone who was red pilled irl. But red pill always made me feel like shit and that I would die alone. Because I was mentally ill/disabled and not the rich NT alpha male that red pill says I had to be to get a girlfriend. In turn red/black pill stuff made me get Gynophobia because they made me think women my age looked at me with disgust and fear and hate.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/23 09:05 PM
1

He’s red pill adjacent, many red pillars today discover him first. And that is the gateway to the more extreme guys. While I do think he has some decent views and advice I do think most of it is the same old mansophere garbage. And I don’t care for him.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/23 01:16 AM
2

Your probably right, I still worry as a man I’m going to be judged for my income and being disabled a lot. Especially since I live in a country that wants to re elect Donald Trump and my generation created the whole hustle culture thing. I’m probably wrong though I still do have a lot of anxiety about red/black pill teachings even though I don’t really believe n them anymore.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 04:22 PM
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I know, I don’t really believe n red and black pill anymore but I do worry about them being right on the money part. I know not all women care about money but I do feel as a man my financial situation will be a huge dealbreaker for many. When I go to female centered subs I do see women making fun of guys that don’t have a lot of money. And that does concern me tbh.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 02:08 AM
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Yes, I hate that too that made me feel like complete shit having red pillars online telling me I’m low value and destined to die alone because I’m autistic and not rich
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 12:31 AM
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They use semi real stats but skew it big time to fit there narrative. Like the 80/20 rule for example
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 12:27 AM
9

Yes, to the average person this stuff does sound stupid. But unfortunately if you are very young or have social issues like Autism this all seems very real. That’s why these pills are dangerous.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/23 12:25 AM
2

It’s cool, I do think it’s pretty rare I never heard of it until just a couple of months ago. I’m glad you are getting out of this and have been going out on dates. Tbh I wouldn’t wish being red or black pill on my worst enemy this shit is absolutely horrible and I envy people who don’t know about this stuff.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 03:22 PM
1

No, it’s just best not to give up.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 03:19 PM
2

Yeah I do know incels larp as women in that sub sometimes. I know it’s not totally hopeless for me but I do think dating will probably be quite hard for me given my age plus issues.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 03:17 PM
2

I know, the incel sphere is very ableist. The one thing that used to upset me was they would say autistic women hate autistic men, and would just want to date and NT “alpha Chad and in r/PurplePillDebate pink pilled autistic women would comment and say that is true. I know it isn’t really but I do still sometimes think about that stuff because it really upset me.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 10:08 AM
3

It actually is, my therapist told me about it when I was explaining to him my train of thought. I never heard of it before, but it made sense I truly believed women my age hated and were repulsed and feared men who weren’t 10 out of ten NT rich alpha Chads and were all really like the women who posted n r/FemaleDatingStratgey and r/PurplePillDebate. Incel shit really fucked with my mind and how I perceived love, dating, sex, and women. But you are right I do have social anxiety and I fear reject…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 03:06 AM
1

I tried to have your mindset, it just doesn’t work if you crave it. Hopefully me and you get the courage to try,
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 02:50 AM
2

Yeah, I have been going to therapy for this and other issues. Plus getting help in this sub and r/Incelexit. It’s been a slow process but I have actually made some progress which is a miracle given my age and how long I was involved in all this incel shit.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 02:48 AM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 12:55 AM
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I don’t hang out in them anymore, I unsubbed from all of them on here and deleted my accounts to sites like.is and looksmax. And created a new YouTube account so I wouldn’t get recommended red/black pill videos anymore. I don’t even use 4Chan anymore and I had been going there since the seventh grade. That’s the reason I’m subbed here and to r/IncelExit so I can get help and support to leave the pill mindset.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 12:34 AM
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Thank you, incel and red and pink pill corners like that always make fun of autistic people. It always made me feel so bad. I do have a lot of anxiety still over red and black pill both. I don’t really because in them too much anymore but I do still worry about them being real at times
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 12:13 AM
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I wish I could find it funny it just made me hate myself and made me feel like I will forever be single
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 08:33 PM
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I’m glad you unsubbed from that shithole. It’s really damaging to mental health.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 01:50 PM
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I hate it too, and those dating subs are filled with incels and red pillars I had to unsubscribe to all of them. I remember in r/PurplePillDebate which is basically and incel sub. I mentioned having autism, and I got called a low vaule beta who was destined to die alone. Yeah fuck that red/black/pink pill dickriding sub and there shitty CMV threads. Sad thing is a lot of these douchebags that do this low value stuff are in there 30s too.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 01:38 PM
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How old are you? I’m 33 I just hope I get the courage to at least try someday.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 01:29 PM
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Not really, I was in involved with this stuff for so long. The only thing that’s different is I’m not going to Fourms or subs or watching YouTube videos that make me feel like complete shit. I wish I could get the courage to talk to women but it seems kind of impossible. I dread the thought of rejection. After hanging out in incel corners for years I ended up getting Gynophobia which is the fear of women.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 01:16 PM
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See, this makes me feel very hopeless all over again. I feel like people have been lying to me now. People have been telling me the average woman really doesn’t have great options and I would be able to get a girlfriend. But after see your comment I really doubt I’ll be able too. What would your advice be to and autistic guy who’s not rich on getting a girlfriend. Your comment just kind of reinforces everything I worried about tbh.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 10:06 AM
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Me, I’m one of the og ones from the late 2000s and early 2010s. I was really vocel though because I never even attempted dating and meeting women because I thought what’s the point? I’d just fail.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/23 05:57 AM
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I mean I don’t have anything against the profession I just don’t think it’s for me. I get what you are saying but I have zero confidence when it comes to women,and I felt women hated me and looked at me with disgust which caused me to get Gynophobia . I think me paying for it would just reinforce for me that red and black pill and incels were right and that I’m “low vaule”. It just wouldn’t be good for my mental health.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/23 10:14 PM
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Because, it just sounds horrible paying a woman to have sex with me and to pretend to like me. I feel like a failure at life for a lot of different reasons besides that. And yeah I’m ND,I do sometimes wish I didn’t have a sex drive tbh. I guess the only thing I can hope for is that I can find a woman that likes me and doesn’t care about about my inadequacies.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/23 08:40 PM
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You mean r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates? I just found out about that sub last night tbh. This list OP made is a variant of a list I made for r/Incelexit. And I got told to put that sub up as one to browse at your own risk because they have somewhat man vs women mentally there, and can get toxic.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/23 12:13 AM
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No, I was in that sub for years I never tried meeting women. I just gave up because I thought I was worthless.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/23 12:06 AM
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R/ForeverAlone is definitely somewhat toxic, but I don’t think it’s anywhere near as toxic as r/AllPillDebate or r/FemaleDatingStratgey .
/r/ExRedPill20/09/23 12:05 AM
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Deleted my og comment, I didn’t word it right. Anyways this is almost my exact post pretty much from r/Incelexit. The ones to definitely stay away from are the ones at the top like r/ForeverAlone or r/AllPillDebtae etc, the other ones at the bottom like r/dating etc that’s up to you if you can handle them. But the one’s at the top yeah definitely stay away from.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 09:30 PM
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I haven’t either , I’m a guy so I wasn’t going to sub to it. I just remember going there to torture myself to see women talking about high value and low value men and stuff. And yeah FDS is supposedly anti red pill but all their ideas about men and gender roles are very red pill like. I will say r/RedPillWomen wasn’t as toxic as r/FemaleDatingStratgey from what I remember, but still pretty toxic.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 09:15 AM
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How many women would you say on average support the toxic redpill ideas? Like man must be alpha provider and that kind of thing.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:47 AM
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I haven’t looked there in years, but when I looked there it was pretty toxic. If you go to r/FemaleDatingStratgey or r/PurplePillDebate you will see women there that have red pill type ideas and talk about how men must be alpha providers. Also I know FDS is technically pink pilled but yeah.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/23 08:44 AM
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I guess just keep telling him that you love him and that he’s not low value. I wish those pills would go away I hate them!
/r/ExRedPill18/09/23 09:15 PM
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No I wasn’t saying that I was answering your question of how I saw the world and women when I was pilled. I felt women my age viewed me with digust because I was “low value”. I probably didn’t answer this right. I really don’t know how to answer your question because I wasn’t in a relationship when I was pilled. The only way he is going to change is if he wants too.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/23 08:39 PM
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The only women I had in my life was my Mom,Grandma,my aunt and great aunt. I still loved them and didn’t think any differently of them,my whole thing was reading about red and black pill made me feel inadequate and like I wouldn’t be good enough for women my age and I felt they probably looked at me with digust. So I didn’t bother dating because I thought why? I’m just going to fail so I just tried to accept a life as a forever alone MGTOW incel even though I didn’t want to. Edit tbh believing i…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/23 04:27 PM
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Yeah, I did go to a horror con last month and I talked to some women there I think I did okay but was a little nervous tbh. I was pretty deep into the red/black pill incel manosphere pipeline for a very long time. I don’t really believe in the pills anymore but I do still put a little too much focus on my inadequacies still in certain areas which can make talking to women hard.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/23 04:40 AM
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Thank you, I don’t really believe in the pills anymore but I do have some anxiety still about them at times. That’s why I’m in this sub and r/Incelexit.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 09:07 PM
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I’m trying to get more comfortable talking to women, I am struggling with it because I was very deep in to red/black pill incel stuff for years. That’s pretty much the whole reason I didn’t even attempt dating because those pills pretty much got it into my head that I was “low vaule” and would just fail no matter what.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:51 PM
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Ik, I don’t think anyone likes it tbh. It’s even harder when you are autistic.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:31 PM
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Your asking the wrong guy lol, I know jack shit about adult dating I haven’t even attempted it
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:15 PM
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Tbh, I don’t even want causal sex. The adult dating scene is quite confusing and scary for me.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:14 PM
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I know, I’m not expecting them too. I just don’t think cold approaching is a good idea for me being autistic.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:11 PM
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I don’t use apps either tbh, everyone has told me cold approaching is a horrible idea especially since I’m autistic I don’t think I’m being a coward I just know it won’t go over well.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 08:09 PM
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I agree OLD is not good and it’s pretty much a sausage fest, but I think cold approaching is the worst thing to do tbh.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 04:47 PM
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Yeah, I feel pretty much the same if I paid for sex I would feel like a huge loser. And one if the things I’m trying to stop is thinking I’m a failure’s at life. And yeah if I ever do have a girlfriend again I,would hate to tell here the first time I had vaginal intercourse was by paying for it.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 04:45 PM
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Tbh, I don’t think you should not that I have anything against it. But I’m still technically a virgin too and embarrassed about it, and have thought about paying for it but I have never been able to pull the trigger because I would rather loose my virginity to someone who love and desires me. Also about women approaching if your socially awkward like me you won’t be able to tell if a woman’s flirting with you because they give off subtle hits. I only ever know if a woman as been interested in me…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/23 04:01 PM
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It means fear of women.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 06:14 PM
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Yeah, these pills are all destructive. I saw them start from the very beginning,I decided to leave all this shit behind four months ago. They did a lot of damage to me tbh they caused me to get Gynophobia. It doesn’t help that I’m autistic and struggle with black and white thinking.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 05:21 PM
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Yeah, I’m still figuring out what I believe as well. I finally decided to leave this shit behind four months ago. Tbh being into those pills just made me miserable and afraid of women.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 07:01 AM
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Yes, I was one of them tbh. Stuff like red/black pill targets autistic men because we struggle with black and white thinking and these pills give us absolute answers.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 06:34 AM
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Tbf, I did have girlfriends in middle school and high school just nothing after that. I became more isolated after I graduated school. I worry about something happening to me like with what happened to you with that girl. I haven’t ever used the dating apps.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 02:43 AM
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Yeah, I know I couldn’t take that stuff anymore that’s why I left all that shit behind. My lack of experience gets to me big time still. Although to be fair I probably shouldn’t complain because I never even tried to meet women.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 02:23 AM
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A lot of people are virgins at 20 I wouldn’t worry about it bro.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 02:10 AM
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Yeah, I agree with everything you said. I have heard stories of women turning guys 24+ down for being inexperienced too. Hopefully we can meet women irl that wouldn’t care. I’m not a good liar either and wouldn’t want to lie about something like that to a partner.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 02:09 AM
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Damn dude, I’m in the same boat as you I just turned 33 last week and I’m still technically a virgin too and have autism and a shit load of other mental disabilities/disorders. Yeah I worry about it being a turn off too. I have had women online tell me it isn’t I just hope the woman I meet in real life are understanding. I don’t really know how to get a girlfriend tbh. I’m glad you aren’t a part of red pill I was really big into red/black pill, incel, manospere, mgtow shit for a long time it fuc…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 01:59 AM
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Hopefully, I agree there are some positive things about this sub too. It’s just we get black/ red pill trolls and women that have that FDS mindset.I do like to help the guys, who come here like op has much has I can because really it is only this sub and r/IncelExit were guys like us can ask these type of questions. I do like to have as much support as possible another reason I stay subbed here. I’m going to wait it out, but if I feel it’s harming my mental health and exiting process I might uns…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 04:39 PM
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I do feel as a man in a patriarchal society I still am a little screwed especially since that orange fuck might be back in the White House next year, honestly I do debate about unsubbing here sometimes I like some of the people here like you and some others I recognize from r/Incelexit, but some of the commentators here just seem so angry and kind of scary tbh. Agree about the taxation is theft people.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 04:22 PM
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I hate it. I’m mentally disabled/Ill and I see comments like hers daily plus we have the fucking GOP hating me because taxtion is theaf 😒. That’s why i always feel I’m never going to be good enough. Also something I have noticed some of the women on this sub are making the same type of comments I would see on r/FemaledatingStragey or r/PurplePillDebate wtf is up with that?
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 04:06 PM
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I hate it but I feel her opinion is pretty popular unfortunately especially if your a man you are going to have to deal with a lifetime of ableism.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 04:00 PM
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Oh yeah you did say that, I agree that we shouldn’t be bound by gender norms or stereotypes. I don’t see anything wrong with being trans or non binary though . I have a childhood friend who came out as trans a few years back.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 03:55 PM
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You are probably right, tbh I really don’t think it matters the gender of the therapist for the most part part. Honestly for me it wasn’t that I saw women as inferior as more that I was/still kind of am afraid of them.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 03:18 PM
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I think it’s dumb too, I sometimes wish I didn’t have a sex drive tbh. But no fap is one of the stupidest cults.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 03:03 PM
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I do think talking to another guy about this kind of stuff could maybe be more helpful . As for sex work I have nothing against the profession I have thought about done it but have never been able to pull the trigger. It’s not really how I want to loose mu virginty tbh.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 02:44 PM
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My advice is stay the hell away from all red/black pill,incel,MGTOW,manospere content all together and if you need it therapy.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 09:12 AM
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I think it’s that and some of them just enjoy being pricks and puts people down tbh.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 03:50 AM
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A woman who posts pics like that or has a OF. Would intimidate me. Not that I have a problem with either one but that’s just how I feel tbh. But putting humans in categories as low value and high value is gross and degrading. I have had red pillars call me low value for just being autistic.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 03:49 AM
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I know, it’s funny you mention Trump I’m having a lot of anxiety about him becoming president agan. I don’t think I could go through that again tbh it affected my mental health so bad the first time. Your right it really does feel like we are living in Idiocracy.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 05:16 PM
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Lol, I wish I could really sue Andrew Tate and all those red/ black pill grifters and take all there money. I never used red pill to make myself date able red pill made me feel I was undatable and because I felt I was a “low vaule beta” so it turned me into and incel I believed a lot of the black pill as well. Some guys really do use this for there dating advantages and a lot of times it doesn’t work because women are repulsed by red pill tactics so it leads them into think there looks are the p…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/23 05:10 PM
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See, just five months ago I used to think exactly like you. Truth is that’s not real feminism that’s just crazy pink pilled r/FemaleDatingStragey bullshit. Yeah those women do exist obviously but it’s nowhere near as many as yout think. I get it though I thought like 95% if not more women were really like that for a very long time.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 06:34 AM
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I mean I still kind of struggle with this too . But the less and less I have been looking at pill and incel content the less and less I’m feeling that way. It just takes time for us to be deprogrammed but we will get there.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 01:56 AM
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Harsh, but true nothing turns a woman off more than a man that believes in red/black pill. Hopefully he can leave this all behind.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 01:51 AM
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Time to stop reading gender based shit. It fucks with your mind big time. I was thinking like how you are for a very long time it’s not healthy and it makes you view the world in a negative lense.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 01:48 AM
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Dude, stop reading pill shit! It’s fucking with your mind big time.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 01:46 AM
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Tbh, it sounds like he’s grooming you to be his idea of a perfect woman. I hate to say it I don’t see this ending well at all op. Also as a man I can tell you I don’t feel that way deep down. My whole thing was I thought all women wanted that. That’s the trouble with these pills is they make you think the opposite gender is a monolith.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 12:47 AM
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Red pill movement is filled with hypocrisy it’s too hard to even make sense of this bullshit tbh.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/23 03:01 PM
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It’s not that, I don’t see anything wrong with traditional relationships either even though they aren’t for me. And my Mom was a stay at home mom too. But the toxicity comes from how she is communicating things with op.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/23 01:26 AM
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Yes, I’m sorry she’s toxic this relationship would not workout.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/23 01:23 AM
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This and black pill both fucked me up bad. They caused me to get Gynophobia which is fear of women. I left both of them behind three months ago things are starting to improve but slowly. But I do feel for the first time in my life I’m getting my life on track and making my mental health my number one priority.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/23 09:07 PM
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I was diagnosed with High functioning autism, yeah those of us with those traits are more at risk of falling into those rabbit holes.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 11:40 AM
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Anyways I’m glad to here you’re getting away from this bullshit op
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 01:12 AM
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Ik, I struggle with mental health issues too. We are more vulnerable for being targeted to this unfortunately.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 01:11 AM
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Yeah same here, fuck the red pill and fuck the black pill too they both can suck on my big hard red dick lol.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 01:10 AM
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We all want different things bro, what I want from a woman is just companionship.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/23 04:14 AM
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Plus ditching all pill and incel content has helped too.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 03:22 AM
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Yeah, I think we will. Just got to be patient. I used to think I was fucked but I’m slowly getting away from that mindset. With therapy and getting advice on r/Incelexit.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 03:21 AM
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Yeah, sometimes if you wait to long she might think your just not interested. First I got to get a real life woman friend. Right now what I’m trying to do is work on my mental health and self improvement and just get more comfortable talking to women. And then try to date.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 03:15 AM
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I think too if I was going to ask a woman out I would rather get to know her as a friend first tbh.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 03:04 AM
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Yeah, I’m trying to get away from the whole league thing. When I wrote the response I was going to say something else but I was in a hurry now I can’t remember what I was all going to say lol.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 03:02 AM
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A lot of them think they can’t attract anyone though that’s the problem. Like with me I don’t really want Stacey but I don’t really knew what my league is.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 10:34 PM
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Ik, that’s how I felt I couldn’t even imagine a woman being attracted or desiring me.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 10:29 PM
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I’m a recovering incel, some of them just have very high unrealistic standards. But like with me I didn’t really want Stacey I just assumed most if not all women were out of my league so I didn’t even bother trying. Stacey doesn’t even really appeal to me all that much tbh. Yeah she’s nice to look at but I don’t think I would have much in common with her.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 10:27 PM
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Same, expect with me it’s I have and inferiorty complex and developed a strong fear of women because I felt I wasn’t worthy enough to talk to them because of stuff red/black pill taught me. I guess I’m going to have to practice talking to them though. Edit and when I was in school I didn’t have any trouble talking to them it sucks.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 09:14 PM
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I’m exiting the lifestyle, I just sometimes get so angry that I got sucked into it and made me so miserable. I’m not ready to start dating because I’m really working on my mental health right now plus my social skills are really bad. And nah hookup culture and having a harem as never appealed to me like at all. I would just want one girlfriend.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 06:16 AM
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What?
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 02:53 AM
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It does/did 😞
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 02:53 AM
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Personally, how I got indoctrinated was I started viewing the content as a joke and next thing I know I felt I was a worthless subhuman repulsive to all women who was going to die alone. I had dated back in school too. I think me being ND and being in a vulnerable time in my life and not being around women or anyone really in general was a huge cause of it tbh
/r/ExRedPill18/08/23 02:51 AM
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Good point! If those guys at 600lbs could get a girl to like them. I guess there is nothing stopping me from trying someday.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 09:53 PM
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Your going to be okay, nothing wrong with you. I genuinely believe this is just a bad bump in your life. Like I said you are very young it will be easy for you to unlearn this stuff. Your going off to college you are going to meet a lot of new people there, you know this pill stuff is bad. You are on the right track I bet by next year at this time you will have forgotten all of this. Also it’s not supper uncommon to make it to 20 without a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 09:59 PM
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I never did believe in black pill, it’s just way too silly. I mean yeah pretty privilege does exist but not quite to the extent they make it out too.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 08:42 PM
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Reading this made me feel genuinely sad for you, here’s what I think you should do go to therapy preferably a male therapist although it doesn’t have to be. Go to college like you said and get a job, and forget all this horrible red pill/ black pill shit. You are extremely young and it will be easier for you do too than me. What’s pill is bothering you more red pill or black pill? Because if it’s black pill that one is pretty easy to disprove.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 08:33 PM
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What I was always told if you were a man over the age of 20 with issues like autism and anxiety and don’t work a six figure job you are pretty much worthless and women find you repulsive. I have autism and anxiety and stuff and don’t work a six figure job so I haven’t even attempted dating as and adult. Because I just felt I would fail. They would make fun of women with mental illness like BPD a lot. Also fuck Andrew Tate. That pissed me off so bad when he said depression isn’t real. And I saw a…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 02:56 PM
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Yeah, I’m going to therapy too. When we were talking about my childhood it was my therapist that opened my eyes that I picked up a lot of this shit from my Dad. And discovering 4Chan and other similar internet spaces just reinforced all that. One thing I have done in the last month is ditch those kind of sites.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 03:03 PM
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How did you unlearn those teachings? I don’t and never did want to believe any of that horrible stuff but I do. It doesn’t help that I was taught all that stuff as a kid by my Dad long before red pill was even a thing. And I’m having a hard time leaving it all behind.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/23 02:39 PM
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It was affecting all of his relationships, with me, my Mom, his brother (my Uncle). I think he knew at that point he had no choice but to change somewhat.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 03:09 PM
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They do, I honestly never liked or agreed with most of the views. It’s just that I thought and still think a lot of their views are right. I don’t want them to be either, and that‘s why I’m here.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 02:18 PM
2

It’s a very long story, but after Trump became president he was getting worse and it was ruining our relationship. And I ended up confronting him about some of this stuff.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 02:14 PM
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Somewhat, I was picked on quite a bit in school because I have autism, ADHD, ODD, and quite a few other mental disabilities/ disorders. and as young as three years old I felt different from everyone and like I didn’t fit in anywhere. For the most part my home life was good. But my Dad is very conservative and would talk negatively about women in front of me and would go on about how women have very high standards. He was a good Dad for the most part, but he did make quite a few mistakes. He did …
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 07:52 PM
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Yeah, it does reinforce and validate negative beliefs about yourself that’s for sure. It’s sad that some guys take comfort in that. Being a man knowing about this god forsaken pill is horrible it skews your perception on reality.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 02:57 AM
1

Holy shit! Imagine comfort watching red pill entertainment. When ever I watch or read red pill shit. It just makes me feel bad about myself and super depressed the exact opposite of comforting me.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 12:46 AM
2

Thanks for the kind words, I honestly envy guys that don’t know about red pill and all that bullshit. It’s hard to unlearn all of it, but hopefully someday I do. Tbh I don’t know how this horrible pill could help any man.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 01:13 AM
1

Thank you! ❤️
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:23 AM
1

Yeah, fuck those guys anyways. I hate them, I’m not going to lie to you though. If depresses me a lot that those guys are in relationships and stuff and I suffer big time in that department. I honestly wish I never learned about red pill and black pill and all of that stuff. If there is truth to all of that, I wish I didn’t know. It just makes me feel more alone.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 10:50 PM
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Honestly, I never considered myself red pilled. And I always hated the modern red pill. But my thing is I believed and still do tbh. That I‘m low vaule because I’m autistic with a lot of other mental disorders. And the reason I’m in this sub is red pill content taught me to hate myself. And I want to escape the mindset but it’s really hard.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 11:03 PM
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Yeah, I had to leave that sub it was messing with my mind a bit.And thank you!
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 08:23 AM
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Dude fuck ppd! So many douchebags in that sub. If I would bring up that I was autistic there, I would always have some asshole tell me I’m a low value male because of that.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 04:30 AM
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I’m pretty sure they know they just don’t care
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 04:22 AM
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You can’t, no one who believes in the red pill is happy.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 06:32 AM
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Yeah, I agree red pillars are way too obsessed with height. I can’t believe someone said Brad Pitt is unattractive to women because he’s under 6 foot lol.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 02:01 AM
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Yeah, it’s tough because like I said I don’t really know how to go about dating. One of the worst things I did was join the dating subs here. Reading those just made me feel so hopeless, I had to leave all of them. I‘m a little embarrassed to admit this because I’m a full grown man. But reading those subs was really starting to fuck with my mind and skew my perception of the world.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 08:17 AM
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It depends on the person I guess, I mean I have been single for and extremely long time. I guess I deal with it okay other than it can be kind of lonely. And honestly I don’t have a problem with a woman being clingy for the most part. But that’s probably because I’m somewhat clingy myself. That is usually what would result is in my relationships ending as a teen.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 08:04 AM
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Yeah man, hopefully we can figure it out.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 07:11 AM
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I think men for the most part aren’t as happy being single as women. Although that isn’t true for everybody though. there are a lot of men who are happy being single and their are a lot women who are unhappy being single.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 10:12 PM
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There isn’t anything wrong with it, if you want to stay single it’s your choice. It’s just I’ve been single pretty much my entire adult life. And I don’t really want to be anymore but I don’t know how to get a girlfriend. Also I’m a guy so it’s probably a little different for me than it is for you .
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 09:48 PM
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What did you read that was helpful? Not hating just curious. I mean you might of read some good advice from them. But from what I have read there they hate men and just want to use us. I wouldn’t think they would ever want to help a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:43 AM
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Dude, don’t talk to those women! It will just destroy your self esteem and make you feel like shit. They will go out of their way to tear you down and make you feel hopeless. They aren’t going to want to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:36 AM
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I wish you luck and a bright future dude. Thanks man, and congratulations about breaking out of your FA status. I have been apart of that sub for years myself. And I wish you luck too 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:05 AM
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CMV, stands for change my view. And yeah I’m thinking I better leave this sub pretty soon too. I have felt hopeless for years about dating as and adult. But I always had slight hope that I would find someone but being in this sub has just made me feel so hopeless! Even if there is no hope for me in that department I think it’s better for me not to see some of this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:57 AM
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I do, I have been working on my self esteem for years. Right now I‘m dealing with a physical illness nothing serious but my sleep schedule is all fucked up from medication and I think reading stuff here about high vaule people and stuff as just made me feel even worse. I really wish I knew what my good qualities were. And yeah I know how rare it is for people to be nice most people are horrible. But all those red pill guys like Andrew Tate are all disgusting horrible excuses for human beings but…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:42 PM
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Yeah, I just feel like I’m a walking red flag I mean I guess I’m a nice person but I know that isn’t enough. I’m honestly really don’t know if I have any good qualities. I’m not around people enough to know. Yes what you described is basically modern red pill. It seems to be ruling dating culture right now unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:58 PM
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I‘m high functioning autistic with severe anxiety and some other issues. Also I‘m not into the whole modren red pill “alpha male” thing like at all. also I have no dating experience past high school really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:25 PM
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What do we do to make ourselves valuable partners? I knew I was pretty fucked as far as dating goes. But I didn’t realize how fucked until I joined this sub it’s honestly making me depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:53 PM
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I hope to God your right lol. I joined this sub because I’m trying to understand adult dating a little better. And holy shit does it seem bleak!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:02 AM
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It’s honestly depressing lol, lurking this sub has made me feel even more hopeless about dating as and adult than I already felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:09 AM
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Holy shit! After spending time on this sub I really have came to the conclusion that love doesn’t exist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:42 AM
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Yeah man, some people are dicks and should be treated accordingly. You can still be a nice person just doesn’t put up with assholes when they treat you like shit you don’t deserve that and neither does anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:57 AM
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I feel your pain bro, is your disability mental or physical? I don’t have any physical disabilities. But I have quite a few mental ones like autism,ADHD,sevre anxiety etc. I had some good experiences with romantic relationships back in middle school and high school but I know I most likely never will again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:52 AM
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I take antidepressants, and that unfortunately doesn’t slow down those feelings or my sex drive lol. But yes some do but not all of them!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:47 AM
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Yeah definitely, I really don’t like having romantic or sexual feelings, I’m autistic with other issues and adult dating was always going to be rough for me. But in the current dating market it will be pretty much impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:44 AM
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I know I’m sorry I’m just very depressed right now I will delete the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:27 PM
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Wait Joseph Gordon Levvit is not considered good looking? I thought he was supposed to be.A lot of girls seemed into him at his peak. Also what do you consider Channing Tatum and Taylor Launter on the looks scale? I’m asking because I have had people tell me I look like them, and I’m kind of wondering were I stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:43 AM
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My best friend is unfortunately very unattractive and autistic. And he had dated four girls back when we were in high school. And all four relationships ended horribly for him, and totally destroyed him. I would be typing all day to explain what happened but legal shit was involved. And he is still struggling mentally from it all 14 years later and has never been the quite the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:58 PM
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More like Incel porn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:40 PM
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I just realized I put gale were I meant to put fake how the fuck did that happen? But anyways I agree he’s not, I think he’s a piss poor excuse for a human being tbh. But his fanboys seem to think he’s the highest value man to ever walk the face of the earth lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:35 AM
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I have a feeling the comments here are going to be a shit show. Especially since you said Mr.Top G himself Andrew Tate is a gale high value man lol. But it does seem like the guys who demand a tradwife,do have some interesting views on how society should be lol. But to tell you the truth I honestly feel the majority of guys 40 and under, really don’t care about this sort of thing. I know I don’t I mean if I meant a woman I clicked with, and I ended up being the sole provider then so be it. But i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:55 AM
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I won’t lie to you OP, yes it is a little rare to make it past age 20 and not have any romantic experience of some sort. But it’s not uncommon. If you go to the forever alone subreddit there are a lot of guys and some women there who have. I wish I could say something that would make you feel better or give you some good advice, but unfortunately I can’t. All I can tell you is even though I have had romantic experiences I really do relate to a lot of what you said and how you are feeling. I’m au…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:40 AM
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Yeah that’s why I’m pretty saying fuck adult dating, it’s bullshit and a waste of fucking time if you aren’t and alpha male with a ton of status. Also I fucking hate Andrew Tate and his bitch ass prep school looking brother Tristan.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:54 AM
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Lol yeah I definitely exaggerated a little there. She’s not at all physically attractive though in my opinion. But I do think her bad personality has a lot to do with how I view her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:32 AM
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I would rate her a 1 lol, I usually don’t find most women unattractive but she really is. with a horrible personality on top of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:08 PM
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Yeah that’s why dating is pretty much pointless you can’t be confident if you got nothing to be confident about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:18 PM
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No clue what my rating is looks wise, I have been told I look like Channing Tatum and Taylor Launter. So whatever you rate them as I guess idk. But anyways if I was to use those god forsaken apps I would be looking for a serious relationship because that’s what I want in real life but that ain’t happening lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:30 AM
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I’m actually not going to argue with what you said it’s just very hard especially if your a guy like me with Autism and severe social anxiety.Surprisingly,I did get dates in school but that was because girls in my school would usually talk to me first so I didn’t have to put in a lot of effort I guess. Never done the whole dating app thing either actually. Adult dating as a whole just seems very depressing actually the more I read here the less I even want to try to jump in the scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:42 AM
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especially on a sub full of autists like ppd Why is it that you guys that are in this high value low value modern day red pill or black pill bullshit, act like being autistic is the worst thing a man can be? Is it because you think we are all like Chris Chan or something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:48 AM
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Usually when RPs use it they are referring to a guy that’s either ugly or not and “alpha male” with status or autistic or all of the above. I noticed guys and women that are in the modern RP really seem to hate autistic men for some reason. Honestly though this talk about low value and high value people is stupid anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:33 PM
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No clue, I’m always told by other guys online how fucked I’m going to be in today’s dating market because I’m autistic and not and “alpha male” with a ton of status. But I don’t think feminism had anything to do with that. I actually support feminism I just don’t like the radicals that hate all men and think they are all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:52 PM
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I know this is so depressing lol, I’m legit high functioning autistic with some other issues. And reading stuff here is not making me super excited about entering the adult dating scene that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:28 AM
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I don’t know if I would consider it immoral per say. I would just feel fake doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:39 AM
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can't be shy or autistic I hate that this as to be a dealbreaker for everyone. It’s not like I can do anything about it either. Fucking sucks hard donkey dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:58 PM
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I’m glad I didn’t, and yeah I guess I am a little frustrated because I really don’t have any dating experience past high school, and I’m still young but I’m not getting any younger. and I’m really starting to think about entering the scene maybe but it just seems like it’s kind of bad for both genders right now. And yeah I agree those guys especially Tate are like cult leaders. I mean I agree with the red pills advice about going to the gym and looksmaxing and all. But so much of the other stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:48 AM
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Yeah it’s stuff mostly other guys have told me, although I know there has been a rise in women that are super red pilled and use Andrew Tate type talking points. Had a very unpleasant encounter with one on a different sub. I hope I didn’t offend you with saying all this stuff, I know not all women are like that. But I will be honest it does cause me a bit of anxiety knowing they do, and hearing all the time about how guys are checking out of dating doesn’t make me feel real good lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:14 AM
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I believe you, it’s just I hear too many stories about women wanting that. And honestly all I want is someone that’s nice to me and that I find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:50 AM
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I’m going to get hate for this, I know but you asked. Please just don’t expect us to be “alpha males” with a ton of status. Carrying about how we look is fine. We all care about looks just don’t expect us to be these stone cold providers that have it all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:41 AM
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Maybe, I should look into this lol. I don’t really have high expectations for women and there’s nothing wrong with how I look. But I’m autistic and show signs of emotional weakness every now and then. Also I really hope someday they do create robots not just for sex but ones that could feel real human emotion like love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:26 AM
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Yeah, I’m not exactly the smartest guy in the world myself tbh. Also my only two standards in a woman, is I have to find her attractive and she has to be nice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:39 AM
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I’m a man, and only the first two things on that list imply to me and even then it’s only somewhat true for me. Honestly I’m not sure if most of the stuff on your list applies to the average man tbh. Although it does seem some guys are surprised that women care about looks for some reason. I guess what I don’t understand about women and I know I’m going to get a new asshole ripped for saying this, is why they care so much about a man’s status I wish they didn’t because I’m kind of a loner with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:13 AM
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I’m a guy and we are around the same age, and I went to school with a few girls who were very unattractive. And yeah it was hell for them the kids especially the boys would treat them like absolute shit and say the vilest things to them. Honestly I highly doubt it’s really that much different now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:38 AM
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No I probably wouldn’t, video games are too much of and outlet for me I don’t think I could give them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:59 PM
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I treat them like anyone else, I had a few girls that were real unattractive that were into me back in school I was friendly with them. It didn’t affect my dating life as a teen. Now I don’t have a dating life at all because I’m not really around girls expect when I go to the gym. But anyways I try not to treat people differently based on how they look I have seen how very unattractive people get treated and it is fucked up and I don’t want to be apart of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:57 PM
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It’s bad if you are a single millennial too, especially if your autistic with zero dating experience past high school. That was the one good thing about high school is you had easy access to girls. Also is anyone else scared to use dating apps because they might get catfished? Because I seriously am I have heard stories about it happening to guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:31 PM
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No clue, but I can tell you if there really will be AI robots and they can feel genuine emotions like love I am going to be the first to jump on that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:53 AM
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From what I have seen they definitely wouldn’t like me lol. I’m autistic pretty sure they would hate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:19 AM
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All of those women sound like awful human beings too. I think I would feel very emasculated dating any of them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:33 PM
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Almost never lol a lot of the guys here are pretty red pilled and I hate that shit. Although I do agree with them about going to the gym and looksmaxing and all that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:25 PM
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I’m a guy, and I honestly despise that red pill alpha male bullshit.I think it’s retarded. And Andrew Tate can suck my hard cock until he vomits lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:22 PM
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Yeah true, I think with me it’s I don’t really talk to people in general. So I really don’t have to put on a customer service face for the most part lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:59 PM
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They actually do though, although I don’t think I do too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:52 AM
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Both gender’s do, remember Ted Buddy? No one ever would of guessed he was out doing the things he was because he always had on a good “customer service” face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:48 AM
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What is NC? also I feel like I‘m the only man in the world who is neutral about Onlyfans. I mean I would never pay for one there’s enough free porn for me to look at. But I also don’t hate it or think it is destroying society or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:28 AM
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Inferior in what way? if we are talking physical you might be able to make yourself better looking unless your Quasimodo but that’s most likely not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:18 AM
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Shit, worth a shot I guess lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:57 PM
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Oh no I wasn’t saying it is impossible, I would have no problem dating a woman with a visible physical disability depending on what it is. Also I hope you didn’t feel I was putting anyone down in my comment I was just sympathizing how hard it could be for people with those issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:49 PM
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It’s not, I have it and I grew up in a good home it’s a neurological disorder you have at birth. It’s most likely genetic undiagnosed Autism is strongly suspected to run on both sides of my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:18 AM
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I don’t know it’s tough, I’m high functioning Autistic and I’m trying to figure out how to go about this. I have zero dating experience past high school. And I’m not getting any younger even though I don’t like to admit that. But I couldn’t imagine how hard it would be for someone with low functioning autism or a visible physical disability or worse yet a deformity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:12 AM
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Yeah, I actually remember like ten years ago that stuff was pretty much just on 4Chan and the misc section of Bodybuilding forums. I think Andrew Tate being so popular made it more mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:55 AM
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Eh, compared to me they are, Plus with these gender wars going on and all the alpha male and beta male stuff being mainstream it just makes things more stressful for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:36 AM
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Somewhat true, but I almost feel I’m too autistic honestly. Teen dating was actually way easier for me people seem too sophisticated and shit for me these days I just can’t keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:13 AM
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