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| 61 | This subreddit has helped me so much! | LEVEL UP | eating_dirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Physical/Mental effects of porn for women? | DISCUSSION | eating_dirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do other subreddits call us incels? | RANT | eating_dirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:33 PM |
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| 58 | At the hospital overnight for a small procedure. This is where the bar is:I think this sticker is a really good idea! You know how men get really butthurt when they’re bested at something by a woman? I bet the same thing happens here. They get really competitive and start to wash their hands more to “beat the women” and win their imaginary hand washing contest. Now THIS is some 4d chess 😂 we should have more of these stickers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 04:35 AM |
| 31 | All of my commitment-phobic exes…You don’t expect men to take the risk of ED, yet we’re expected to risk our own health on BC? (Long painful periods, hormonal issues, LOW LIBIDO, etc…) it took my mother several years to reach hormonal equilibrium after she got off BC. Why do you only seem to care about birth control side effects when they affect men? The burden is NOT only on us. If they want to have sex they need to accept their fair share of responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 12:57 AM |
| 46 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidWhat the fuck is this. If a woman kept track of her approaches, romances, and interactions like this she’d be called fucking psychotic and put in a home. He’s talking about real HUMAN BEINGS like they’re score points in a video game. I really wish he didn’t wake up and learn what was keeping him from being “successful” bc then we wouldn’t have to weed manipulative degenerates like this out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 06:52 PM |
| 57 | Imagine being this uselessMen don’t want wives they want mommies 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 08:51 PM |
| 41 | it's the phrasing that mattersI fell victim to the second example 😔 I like to lift weights 3-4 times a week and I let this guy that I liked (who also liked me back as well) tag along with me, but I was essentially carrying 2 people’s worth of effort with counting, where to go, and motivation. Stick boy couldn’t keep up so he stopped talking to me entirely. Boy bye 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 04:05 AM |
| 58 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)I 2nd your comment on the pepper spray but I disagree with your statement on having a mental plan. When you’re in the heat of the moment, you won’t be able to react unless you’ve been in training for many years! As someone who took self defense classes for a while (not long enough for sure!) you tend to overestimate your abilities. Your arms will turn to rubber and you won’t be able to whisper, let alone scream for help. As someone who has been in a pretty scary and dangerous situation, I was em… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:33 AM |
| 13 | Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside.Ugh this!!! My dad had skin cancer eating through his leg for YEARS and my mom pestered him to go to the doctor. Took 2 years for him to listen. Turns out it was malignant and he would’ve died if it wasn’t looked at. Now he has a recurring cough that “is going away” but is dragging his feet on going to see a specialist. He already has reduced lung capacity! Dad I love you but you’re killing me, mom, and yourself. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:38 PM |
| 45 | There are so many things wrong with this. I don’t even know where to startThere’s so much entitlement in this one photo… her response wasn’t even a no, it was a “sure, at a later time.” But he just couuuuuuldn’t wait for the FREE response that he was going to get for FREE!!! Ugh, I’m so glad I don’t work in customer relations, I KNOW y’all get a lot of this shit while you’re on the job. Y’all have a strength that I don’t possess, that’s for sure lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | This is the kinda shit we women have to put up with on OLDNever been happier to be an ugly bitch! 😄👍 no thank youuuuu! But fr tho does he think this strategy will work? On anyone? This is just sad to read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 06:24 PM |
| 18 | Did your dad/brother/male figures understand when you were being harassed as a teen?Maybe it’s an attractiveness validation thing? I made this child, people think the child is attractive, I’m related to the child, therefore I’m still attractive. Y’all obviously have more insight into this than I do but that’s what I think could be the reason why. Correct me if I’m wrong :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 12:24 AM |
| 16 | The HUGE upside to the rampant increase of male porn-sic limp dick ED syndromeWhat’s the point of even having this pump? Correct me if I’m wrong, but if you can’t get hard naturally then there’s not as much sensitivity. So why go thru all the bank breaking and recovery time just to have a pop up dick that doesn’t feel as much as it should? Is it an ego thing? Someone PLEASE enlighten me this doesn’t make any sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Was approached by a man in a parking lot. How to navigate in future?Yeah that definition makes more sense. Thanks so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:31 PM |
| 10 | Sad, unfortunate truths about the “friend zone”My bad, I didn’t elaborate. I thought by mound you meant the labia majora, and that he has gotten it mixed up with the mons. Also thanks for the definition for FUPA, I keep hearing people say it but I never knew what it meant lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Was approached by a man in a parking lot. How to navigate in future?Oh almost forgot!! Men don’t ask women for help or directions, so that could’ve been a warning from the start. I’m proud of you for listening to your gut OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Was approached by a man in a parking lot. How to navigate in future?Hey can someone tell me what “hustled” means in this context? I thought hustling was when you work a lot of side jobs to make money, but my definition clearly doesn’t work here. Thanks in advance! 😊 also personally I wouldn’t judge OP’s reactions in this situation too harshly, it all happened so suddenly. There’s been times in my own life where I’ve acted in ways that were totally against what I would typically do just because I was caught by surprise. I think you did your best and at least made… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 11:43 PM |
| 57 | Sad, unfortunate truths about the “friend zone”I’m so sorry that happened to you! Though I will be honest, the fact that he got those two body parts mixed up is a little funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:35 PM |
| 19 | Be careful out there ladies - they're finding new ways to target usYou’re fucking kidding me. Even if we do everything right (cover our drinks, be with trustworthy friends, etc) they’re still finding ways to hurt us. How are you supposed to counter an INJECTION that barely leaves a mark?? Seems like the only way to win is to not play 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 12:49 AM |
| 7 | Be careful about helping "disabled" men!(potential trigger warning!)“Men don’t ask women for help.” I love that quote, helps me justify that gut feeling I get in these types of situations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Have to come to this realisation that male friendships are pointless.I realized this too with one of my most recently ended friendships. I thought we got along great (I made it clear I’m WLW so there’s no chance of a relationship) but it turns out he would just use me to drive him places and give advice about his gf. I feel kinda stupid 😅 glad it’s over though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 06:56 PM |
| 14 | Porn isn't hot.I loved this essay!! This is a quick but thought-provoking read. If anyone has 5-10 min I recommend you read it. I liked how it put our society’s perspective shift on the function of our bodies into words. 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 06:22 PM |
| 45 | HA! StinkyOk so I get serious anxiety from this. It’s to the point where I can’t go up stairs or walk past people who are sitting down or short children. How am I supposed to believe that other people can’t smell what I clearly can?? I just need some convincing please. I hope I’m just being paranoid!!!! Thanks y’all <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 06:09 PM |
| 65 | I found my underwear in my brothers room, I am seriously paranoid & starting to think the worst. Just Why. Perversion needs to stop invading my life.Incest jokes are never jokes. Please stay safe!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 05:17 AM |
| 46 | I found my underwear in my brothers room, I am seriously paranoid & starting to think the worst. Just Why. Perversion needs to stop invading my life.🤢gosh I’m so sorry.. when you get your clothes back make sure to double triple quadruple wash that shit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 03:19 AM |
| 10 | **** In a sea of scrotes be a dragonfly **** Female dragonflies fake sudden death to avoid male advancesbUt WhAt AbOuT pRaYiNg MaNtIsEs?? tHeY eAt ThE mAlEs!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Mads Mikkelsen 😍Thanks for the article. I’m not that far into the show, but it’s nice to know that there’s no SA. I have a staunch rule where I don’t watch any movies or shows that have it. I don’t want to support that kind of stuff with my watch time. My dad tried getting me to watch The Hills Have Eyes 2 but got soooo confused when I got mad at him during the SA scene. My stomach literally dropped and I had chills and nausea. Do men forget that even though it’s a movie and they’re all actors, even just seeing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Mads Mikkelsen 😍YES!! Watch it while you still can!!!!! The last day you can watch it is June 4th. We still have abt 3 weeks so I’m planning on doing one season a week to watch it all before it’s gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:25 PM |
| 8 | Mads Mikkelsen 😍OF COURSE HUGH DANCY. How could I forget?? I’m only in season one but 💗💞💖💝💓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 05:03 PM |
| 40 | Mads Mikkelsen 😍Okokokokok..... I’m a lesbian but Mads can GET IT. 😍Currently watching Hannibal before it gets removed off of Netflix. I’m loving it so far!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:56 PM |
| 13 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”“Well if you feeeeemales would stop using those icky tampons and pads and held your feminine troubles inside we wouldn’t have rising ocean levels!!” /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 07:20 PM |
| 34 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳We’re supposed to trust the same brains that get crying and arousal “confused”(🤢) with nuclear launch codes, global Influence, and overwhelming power? No way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 07:05 PM |
| 26 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳I’ve had multiple friends confide in me and tell me their child abuse/SA stories and never ONCE did a sexual thought cross my mind because why the fuck would it???? I literally can’t even comprehend what mind space these men are in that would make them think and act in that way? When someone is confiding in you, it’s the most ultimate act of trust between friends that I can think of, how could you violate that trust like it’s nothing???? Someone is literally pouring their heart out in front of t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Facts ✌I saved the picture you linked. I’ll try to study while my laundry is going, but we’re all sharing a big loud washing room so I’ll do my best. Thank you again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:26 PM |
| 17 | Men Intentionally Act As If They Don’t Understand How Porn Negatively Impacts Women. It’s a Power Play. They Fucking Know.Ok, can I just say you are an AMAZING writer???? You had me hooked the entire time!! “You are a heretic and your self-esteem is a threat to his religion of female subjugation.” WOW!!!! I love the way you used metaphors and imagery. I especially liked the part where you said men’s eyes are literally “gouged out” and replaced with pornographic vision. It really sells it. I just wanted to say good job!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 40 | I appreciate FDS for being one of the few places to actually be FEMALE ONLYBeing raped is horrible, but there are male-specific SA support groups out there that are more tailored to his unique experience. The main reason that I could see him trying to sneak into FDS is to offload his troubles to unknown women online to perform emotional labor, not making genuine progress. I do hope he recovers and heals, but this isn’t the place to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:52 PM |
| 19 | I appreciate FDS for being one of the few places to actually be FEMALE ONLYI am!! Care to drop the name? Thank you!! 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Take your pick, ladies! - *sobs*Well hey!! At least cats clean themselves!! 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:00 PM |
| 3 | ‘Delete it right now’: TikToker confronts ‘creep’ who took photo of her working out at Planet FitnessNumber 2 is another good example of “men don’t ask women for help.” He was using it as a conversation starter to harass her. Also number 1 is sooo stupid. I’d bet money that he sat in his car and rehearsed that one. What a pathetic loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:37 PM |
| 7 | Facts ✌I just followed them. Thanks for the recommendation!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 07:38 PM |
| 22 | Facts ✌I know this is stupid, but can someone give me some basics in cleaning? My dad is the one that taught me how, and it basically sums up to “spray windex on it and scrub it with a paper towel, and use Ajax in the shower.” I know there’s more to cleaning than this but when I look things up online it looks so confusing. I’m about to leave the house for college and I really don’t want my dorm to be gross. Any and all tips are appreciated! Thanks y’all!! 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 13 | Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep itUUGHH. I did that just recently trying to trim. P.A.I.N. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:16 PM |
| 15 | When Simple Things Are Ruined By MenYeahhh idk, this seems kind of dangerous. Can anybody vouch for this method? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 05:14 PM |
| 13 | Keep seeing this ad on FB and it really irks me. Why is it that women are asked to make even their most brutal suffering a "fun family ritual"? Where is this child's father? Can he not mind the child until she feels better?TWENTY POUNDS IN TWO WEEKS? How could a doctor not absolutely flip their shit upon hearing that?!?! I’m so glad she survived, but to think that women’s health lies in the hands of these negligent doctors is scary... I already know doctors take us less seriously but I like to pretend it doesn’t happen for my own mental health. 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 01:51 AM |
| 8 | They’re always the victimMan.... this is kinda making me think about my relationship with my dad.... 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.That sounds absolutely vile. I’m feel so bad for those girls who get those skin diseases. Reminds me of those communities of men online that spread STI/Ds for the “fun” of it. They don’t respect us one bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.Yes!!!!!! This is exactly what I’m doing too!!!!!!! It’s such an amazing feeling being able to better protect yourself. I lift for protection, but the confidence boost is a major bonus too. Keep it up 💪💪💪💪💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Week 2 of dating myself. I'm the best partner I've ever had because I always buy my favoriteDoes the date the pennies were made count? I thought I heard something about old pennies being made of copper and new pennies are made of zinc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:14 AM |
| 80 | Came across this today I have no wordsThis reminds me of the... “why won’t girls date me they’re shallow, I’m only fat, broke, and ugly” “Have you ever dated a fat broke and ugly girl?” “Why would I do that?” Having normal bodily functions makes us extremely unattractive, but when the same functions occur in HIS body, it’s “why won’t girls date me” again. Come onnnnn just pick a stance and stick to it!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 10 | She Gets ItA really good horror movie that I love is Hush! It’s about a novelist woman who lives in a remote cabin. There’s a really neat twist (she’s deaf) and it actually functions in the plot really well. I don’t want to spoil too much, but she has to fight off an attacker using her wits and quick thinking. For me, it was one of those movies that made me feel strong, since she isn’t the damsel, she’s the hero. I hope y’all like it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 01:17 AM |
| 57 | TW: DV. And these are just the things they are willing to post publicly.Why would they? Reddit sees nothing wrong with that kind of talk and behavior. At least you tried to report them I guess 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:37 PM |
| 10 | Top popular post of today on whisper lol my friend sent this to me 😂 now more women can discover this amazing group 💕I hate how the word “toxic” has been thrown around so easily lately. It used to mean “manipulative, vile person who you should avoid” but now it means “literally anyone I disagree with.” Does anyone else feel this way too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 04:47 PM |
| 157 | ReminderAwwww, did you huwt deir feewings..? For real though, it’s crazy how fast men turn on us the second they realize we aren’t completely pandering to them. Hopefully someone saw your comment and had a change of heart...? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 04:13 PM |
| 8 | Ever since I was a little girl, it was drilled into my brain that the Male Gaze is dangerous. Now that I'm an adult woman, I'm supposed to just "get over it"?This ^ and not to mention all the cases of elderly women being assaulted and abused because they become weaker in their age. It makes me scared to grow old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:33 PM |
| 6 | Remember: in nature, the greatest accomplishment that a male animal can ever hope to achieve is mating with a female. It's time we human women recognize our power over men, and start acting accordingly.Do you mind me asking what religion it is? It sounds interesting and I’d like to look into it. Thank you!! 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 07:06 AM |
| 54 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏What height would you consider to be an Amazon? I’m 5’10 and wanna be part of the club 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:44 AM |
| 2 | I love cooking extravagant meals. This Xmas Eve, I cooked myself an amazing dinner. Prime rib, smoked Gouda mac and cheese, carrot salad, sous vide broccoli, and crispy duck fat potatoes...with a custard hand pie for dessert! Sipped homemade eggnog while cooking. Life is good, ladies!I’m happy that you were able to enjoy this meal, but does anyone else think the meat is really pink??? Idk I don’t cook meat very often. Is this just super rare? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:39 AM |
| 3 | What do men have against lotion???I also think sunscreen is kinda gross, but my family has a history of skin cancer. So I’d rather put my big girl pants on and lather up than get cancer at 50. Idk why men don’t do the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:51 PM |
| 13 | What do men have against lotion???“Hey uhh coworker... I heard some people engage in basic fucking hygiene... are you one of those people?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:49 PM |
| 4 | What do men have against lotion???WHAT??? 80%??????? I’m gonna pretend I didn’t read that..... 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:47 PM |
| 8 | What do men have against lotion???The funniest part is that their feet and knees are cracked and dry, but their hands are allllwwwaayyyss soft.... 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Then they say they're the logical sex, oofWait is it true that most men imagine having sex with their friends that are girls??? Ewww... and to think that I have mostly guy friends... 🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:45 PM |
| 6 | Then they say they're the logical sex, oofGoon cave!!! Lol that’s a new one, I think I’ll start using it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:42 PM |
| 8 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.Man, if paradise exists on earth it’s on that island! You have no idea how jealous you just made me lol. I’m glad you got to grow up somewhere so beautiful 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:52 PM |
| 7 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.Good on you!!! It’s so hard to cut family members off, but you were able to stand up for yourself. I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you. I hope your treatments go well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:46 PM |
| 21 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.Oh I totally get where you’re coming from. I just found out at thanksgiving that one of my great uncles used to molest his sisters/my great aunts. It’s so incredibly infuriating and enraging because I love those women to death, and the thought that they have to see their abuser at every family function makes me mad beyond belief. Not a single woman in my family has been able to avoid the corrosive touch of men. I hope I’m not next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.Can someone tell me what FTFY means? Is this an FDS term? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 11 | PSA: thank you FDA mods who go over and beyond 💛I haven’t seen any other subreddit so far with moderators as diligent as the ones on FDS. Thank you mods!!! 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:45 PM |
| 7 | How Are You Happier (Even If Single) After FDS & How Has FDS Short&Long-Term Changed Your Life?I think FDS has improved my life pretty significantly. It’s all about a change in mindset: changing from letting people walk all over you, to taking control of who you allow to take your time. Learning that other people aren’t entitled to my energy and life has been liberating for me. I’m still relevantly new to this subreddit though, so I’m still learning! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:32 PM |
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