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eazyThoughts/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:30 PM
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Abundance mentality, frame, approach anxiety, DGAF, all have to do with game though. The two other big factors are social status and appearance. If you have all three (game, status, appearance) then that's easy mode.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 06:01 PM
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Shut Up and Be Patient
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 05:54 PM
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Agreed. No reason you can't have LTR if you're smart about it. You just can't let yourself get too comfortable because you're getting a steady supply of pussy. Keep your options open and have back up chicks to quickly rebound with. Keep lifting and talking to other chicks. Remember you're the man in the relationship. It's her to job to cry and whine and throw tantrums. It's your job to stay cool calm and collected. If she wanted someone like her she'd be fucking a women, not you. Don't tell your…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 12:12 AM
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Basic Question 1: ”Are you a player?” Yeah do you only like virgins? Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” Stopped counting after I hit 1 million. Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone else?” Nah I cut off all contact from the world when I met you. Intermediate Question 6: ”Are you gay?” Are you afraid I'm going to steal all the guys from you? Question 7: ”Wow. Your friend Chad is hot.” You should talk to him. Question 10: ”Sorry, I don’t just give out my number.” Don't be shy. Advanced …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:04 PM
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It doesn't seem like a taboo to me, just a stupid question. Fuck you think there's some step by step process to getting a hot blonde? Like say this one line and you'll be sleeping with hot blondes. It's the same as getting any other girl, have high SMV. If you're trying to get with college sorority blondies here's a simple checklist of stuff that'll help you. Be attractive/fit. Be white. Be in a frat. Wear preppy clothes. Have high social status. Have game. If you have at least 4 of these you sh…
/r/askTRP29/11/15 07:19 AM
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The quality of life of literally thousands of men has been improved by that seed of an idea you had 3 years ago. I have no idea where the fuck I'd be without the TRP. Looking back I was so pathetic, lost, and confused. I think that's what bring a lot of us together, that feeling of despair when you're worthless powerless pathetic loser who nobody gives two shits about. Who nobody considers worthy of their attention or their time. Who nobody is willing to reach out a hand to help. So thank you so…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 04:26 AM
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Even more true once you have the bitch and she's fucking you on the regular. That's when guys start to soften up. "She does all these nice things for me, supports me, and fucks me daily, I should make her a bigger priority in my life." This is the slippery slope to a scarcity mentality. A beta downfall. The reason she puts you first is because you put yourself first. You should only ever reinforce good behavior with cheap but thoughtful gifts that pierce her heart. And this should be very rare.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 06:54 PM
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That's why, especially right now, it should be a small side project for you. At least until the ball is rolling how you'd like it to be and you've created a balance in your life. Far too many guys fall into the trap of making pussy their number one priority. They get decent SMV, get a hot girl that was out of their league before, and it's like nothing else in the world matters anymore. Don't forget the reason this girl likes you is because you put yourself and everything else came after. As OP s…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 08:09 AM
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There is a certain gravitas that accompanies an extroverted approach with women, the trick is not coming off as a ‘try hard’ and overplaying it, thereby overtly confirming your following a script. When you don’t believe it’s you it’s a pretty good bet she doesn’t either. It's easy to pretend you're a player. Speak from you're chest. Be entitled to her body. Be overly cocky. Tease her and flirt with other girls. Be sexual and create tension. Maintain frame and knock down shit tests. It's another …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 05:14 AM
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The key with fwb is to not spend too much time with her, like a bf would. After sex, be nice to her for a day so she doesn't feel used, and then go silent for 2-3 days. Then hangout with her again, smash, and repeat. This has been effective for me so far because the 2-3 day gap keeps it casual and prevents strong feelings from developing. Also try to keep it superficial, don't get too emotional with her.
/r/seduction25/11/15 05:01 AM
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She percieved me "shy", does this mean its over? Means you better stop being a pussy and escalate. You like the chick so why the fuck are you pretending to be her friend? A friend she sees, a friend you shall be. one thing that makes me anxious sometimes is that she is a student athlete and she is surrounded by so many more muscular and probably hotter guys than myself, they are not smarter though Oh trust me she's fucking em, or she will if you don't get your shit together. To be honest you see…
/r/seduction25/11/15 04:28 AM
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why do women hurt men like this? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2hzzrm/respect_is_earned/ "That’s not a fair thing to ask of women. It’s not her responsibility to stay with you on principle alone. It’s your responsibility to be the kind of man who doesn’t get dumped or cheated on. It’s your responsibility to earn her respect, every minute of every day. If she passes on a better offer just on principle, she’ll spend the rest of your soon-to-be-very-short-lived relationship resenting…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 12:14 AM
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Most these girls just haven't seen enough of the stable to know the difference between a stallion and a common ass. Yeah they'll come around in their 40's and realize what a stallion you truly are. Stop feeding yourself shit. The idea of Chad literally comes from the stereotypical college jock who plays football and has a negative IQ. I'm not saying you should aspire to be a fuck up like Chad, but you gotta accept that he's who 18 - 26 year old girls want to fuck. If you want to go after 40+ "en…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 10:21 PM
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I was surprised to be down voted. I thought it was pretty clear OP was hamstering up pathetic excuses on why college girls go after college douchebags and not him. I reconsidered whether what I said was right, and it is. I guess we're just having an influx of little bitches that can't swallow the pill. No, the sorority girl won't wanna fuck you because you've read The Rationale Male and make six figures. They'll much more happily fuck captain of the football team Chad who makes minimum wage and …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 05:00 PM
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Yeah they'll come around later and realize that what they really wanted wasn't Chad. No. They wanted /u/KnowBrainer 's enlightened dick. College girls are mainly riding the cc. All they care about is how good you look (SMV) and what frat you're in (social status). Calling college girls stupid because they don't want to fuck you is pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 10:58 PM
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Your priorities are all out of whack. Focus on cumming. You're right. I'm in my head focused on making sure I'm dominant and she's pleasured. She's going to be my fleshlight from now on. They're to get off and that's it. IDGAF if my fleshlight is enjoying being fucked, it's only purpose is to get me off. And I wish I could ditch the condom cause that's the biggest pain and she's on the pill but fuck that. I don't trust these hoes.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:31 AM
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Read a summary a while go but think I need to reread. Yeah I get to into my head and anxious when we're about to have sex because I am so concerned with how she feels and making sure I fuck her brains out. I'm gonna treat her like a fleshlight next time. Just use her to get off with 0 concern.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:07 AM
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I know im attracted to her. Ill get hard by just being around her or thinking about her. I think its that I'm self-consious about not being as experienced and dominant as I act like outside of bed.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:01 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Yeah this is def performance anxiety. I care too much what she thinks of me.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 12:56 AM
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Think about where your intentions are. What I'm saying is your intention should be to find out more about this person and possibly connect with them. It should not to find out what this person has to offer you and then see how you can use them. This means offering your time and attention to this person without any expectation of something in return. It does not mean simply being a spineless validation machine. If you disagree with them about something, tell them, they'll respect you for being ho…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 02:23 PM
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Sure. Don't be a leech. But what do you give? You give them your most valuable resources, your time and attention. You go get lunch with them and listen to them when they tell stories. You share your own experiences and connect with them. You put in effort and offer your time and attention without wanting anything in return, that's the key. Maybe you've always done this so it's obvious to you. But looking back I know there was a time when I would strictly talk to people who had something to offe…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 02:15 PM
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Try to give, not take. I see people "socializing" because they wanna use the person for something. Don't be that guy, it's obvious to the other person and you'll be known as fake. If you simply give to a person and socialize with them with no expectations of something in return, you will create a genuine friendship instead of one where you're trying to use each other. People will respond very positively when they see you're not expecting anything in return. One of the best tips I've gotten on ne…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 06:01 PM
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I'd still say girls who highly value relationships, family, and traditional gender roles are becoming rarer. The lack of traditional masculinity within households isn't just hurting guys.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 02:47 AM
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By "slut", I mean a girl who's willing to give up her pussy easily. Without any commitment or respect from the guy.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 07:05 PM
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"I want to apply game to get pussy until I stumble upon a LTR, but I won't settle for a LTR that falls for the game I applied." I think that's what I'm trying to get at.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 07:03 PM
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You're right, there's no way to negotiate passion in a relationship. Either she want's to fuck you or not. Either you're an alpha or not. What I'm trying to get at is the girls self-respect. I feel if I'm going to make the sacrifices involved in committing to one girl, I want her to be a girl that cares about more than how much she wants to fuck me. I'd wanna commit to a girl who expects me to be exclusive with her and who expects me to treat her with respect, before she succumbs to her desires.…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:29 PM
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Would you say she was slutty or not before you met her?
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:46 PM
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What are some good responses to these sort of statements? I typically just escalate, especially if the girls is responding positively. If the girls is being more sexual than you, you got to amp it up bruh. Regardless of what they say, girls love it when a guy is sexual with them. Missed a couple of chances to go for the k but I'm sure that will come with time. The vibe I'm getting is that you should go for it (probably should've gone for it on the first date). And don't forget to escalate after …
/r/seduction19/10/15 07:56 PM
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They have better options than you, and clearly, you don't have better options than them. That's whats happening.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 09:50 PM
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Your mother is keeping you from becoming a man. Spot on. It's not because she hates you, but because she loves you and cares about you, and doesn't want you to experience any pain or hardship. But they don't realize hardship is what makes men out of boys. Don't ever think your mother (or your family) wants for you, what you want for yourself. You want money. You want power. You want influence. This all requires sacrifice and struggle. Your mom wants you to live your life safely wrapped in bubble…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:14 AM
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What if she don't want to talk to me? Than she won't. She might be polite but her actions will usually give away her true feelings. Remember, focus on actions not words. What if she thinks I'm creepy? "There’s no such thing as a man who is good with women who isn’t also creepy some of the time." -Mark Manson What if I get rejected and dirty looks from other people? OMG what if other don't like you! Stop seeking validation from losers. Do your own thing and others will follow. Could all of fellow…
/r/seduction03/09/15 04:52 AM
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No problem. I highly suggest reading Cal Newport for academic advice and Zac Bissonnette for financial advice. And don't let college consume you. Newport talks about this in his other book, How To Win At College, that you should always be working on small side projects unrelated to your college work, especially if you aren't working a job. And if one of them goes big and makes you a billionaire, by all means drop out.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:28 PM
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Look, no matter how you cut it, college is a great financial investment. Especially if you go to community college or large in-state public colleges, and finish college debt free. "Research has shown college graduates on average make $1 million more in their lifetimes than those without a college education. The current unemployment rate for college graduates (2.7 percent) is also about half the rate for the general population (5.7 percent)." http://www.usnews.com/news/articles/2015/02/10/college…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 06:44 AM
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I generally agree with everything you said. Many guys today have no spine and will up with shit because there in other people's frame. I think being controversial (or an asshole) forces people into your frame and makes you your own mental point of origin. And putting yourself first is more important than being pleasant to others imo. If you can do this and still be respectful and pleasant to everyone than great.
/r/seduction19/08/15 03:23 AM
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A large factor in what results you get will be the context. When I said I was hooking up with lots of girls within 10 seconds, that was at raves in Atlantic City with sluts. But on the other hand, when I go clubbing or day-gaming in a place like DC, I consider just one hook up to be a successful night (and many nights are failures). I'm still the same guy, but in a different environment. The context of your approaches will play a big part in your results. So don't be too harsh on yourself if you…
/r/seduction18/08/15 11:46 PM
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she is very hot and seems very out of my league You're not gonna get her, I promise you. Get over our ONEitis and stop putting women on a pedestal. The moment you believe a girl is out of your "league" is the moment you just lost any chance of getting her. Always let a woman figure out why she won't fuck you, never do it for her. A lot of approach anxiety comes from your own self-impression – Am I smooth, hot, affluent, funny, confident, interesting, decisive, well-dressed enough to earn an HB 9…
/r/seduction18/08/15 11:38 PM
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Hopefully, this will become easier for me in time. It does. After a certain point, you just stop caring. Just keep approaching (and getting rejected). I prefer to "warm-up" before approaching girls. Like I'll ask girls outside of a club what the time is. It get's me into a social mindset, and by the end of the night, I'm hooking up with girls I met 10 seconds ago.
/r/seduction18/08/15 11:32 PM
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Had the same issue. Still dealing with it. Here are some of my thoughts. Since you already read Models, you probably understand why it's crucial to be polarizing. If a man isn't controversial, everybody will be indifferent towards him. You have to ruffle some feathers, and be willing have people hate you, in order to have others love/respect/admire you. How do I express myself freely without seeming stubborn, or displeasing others? And here's the issue. You're too invested in what others think o…
/r/seduction18/08/15 09:14 PM
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I was the original poster. He repeats himself a lot There wasn't much to say except af/bb. I saw the TSM post, got riled up, and wrote that post in 10 minutes. You just repeated what I said with less ranting (and humor). seems to insult his idea of nerds more than he analyzes what they're actually saying. I gave a description of actual nerds, because the nerds that chick was hamstering up were straight outta Disney.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 12:45 AM
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I felt so disarmed after reading that post that I bought 20 GLO shirts.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:57 PM
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Linking something at the bottom of a post isn't "manipulating".
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:16 PM
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Exactly. It took me a while to realize this, because I originally came across TRP out of a desperation for sex. I slowly realized women hate being the center of your life. "They want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the path he lays out." -chateau heartiste
/r/askTRP11/08/15 03:09 AM
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I'm hesitant to even call watching Netflix all day a "hobby". Kind of degrading to actual hobbies. What's worse is they're often proud. "OMG I watched netflix alllll day. I'm soooo lazy."
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 02:39 AM
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I think that's what it originally meant. I use it to describe dumbasses that fuck around without thinking about consequences. Like my friend that pissed in the middle of the boardwalk in Atlantic City at 3am and got a citation is a fuckboy.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 01:23 AM
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This reminds me a lot of the whole "dad bod" thing. It's just attempts for women to rationalize being with betas that won't run off. But deep down, they know that they actually want the alpha bad boy. They guy that every other girl wants. They guy that can cheat at any moment. And that's why no matter how much women try to rationalize being with human marshmallows and nerds, they'll still fuck the alpha's. Judge women based on their actions, not their words.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 01:12 AM
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Social media for most women (and many guys) is just a validation generating machine. But especially for women, just read the comments.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 12:27 AM
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You're a generous man. Bad face. Decent bod. 7 on a really good day.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 12:20 AM
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Quit being butthurt over my rant loser. As far as I see its no worse than %90 of the stuff posted here. I might be wrong, in which case one of the mods will swiftly delete mah "garbage" post
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 12:15 AM
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I know this isn't a "high quality" post. I'm not in the "anger phase" but bs like this does get me riled up (have to unfriend these hoes on fb). I wanted to vent and share this crap. Btw TRP is the place that accepts the anger phase guys. You shouldn't be telling them to "get out".
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 11:50 PM
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I'm currently in the suburbs, so I can't imagine any city having worse prospects than this. But yeah everything you said makes perfect sense. SF is extremely liberal so that explains all the fat neon haired SJW's roaming the streets. And there's probably lots of wealthy losers working in the tech sector, who throw money at women for shitty sex. Do you know which city in Cali is good for hooking up? Cause people say LA is rough as well. And thanks for the detailed reasons.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 05:54 PM
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Is that true for all of the Bay area? I've heard the ratio is better in Berkeley.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 07:00 AM
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Any advice for me Seddit? What would be a good way to ask her again? As a general rule... "When a woman intentionally makes you wait for sex, you are not her highest priority. A woman who wants to fuck you will find a way to fuck you. She will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroom window, fuck the shit out of you and wait patiently inside your closet if your wife comes home early from work – women who want to fuck will find a way to fuck." -Roll…
/r/seduction09/08/15 10:22 PM
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I know a lot of men who are pretty close to perfect You don't know them very well than. People are generally good at a few things and decent at everything else. That's just a fact of life. Nobody (including you) is good at everything. Perfect men/women exist solely in fantasy. Some people might be well rounded, but nobody is perfect. Everybody has vices.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 07:30 AM
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Sounds dope. Looking forward to the podcast. I just want to say that I think the format of your second podcast on Man In Demand was the best. It felt like I was sitting in on a casual convo between you and Christian. It wasent serious theory or a formal interview (like the Goldmund one).
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 03:56 PM
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That's why I admire Feynman. He wasn't afraid to say it like it is.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:44 PM
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I think you have an issue with liberals, not women. Plenty women vote conservative/libertarian. And as for liberalism "threatning democracy", Scandinavian countries are far more liberal than us, and are doing great. What threatens democracy is idiots who think opposing views need to be silenced.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:04 PM
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Planning to read it once I finish Meditations. Looking forward to it.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 10:09 PM
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Richard Feynman. Fascinating guy that made me see the beauty of learning and questioning. Fun To Imagine
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:00 PM
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Me too, but I just don't give a fuck anymore. I don't have the time and energy to feel sad for these losers. Go ahead and get your life/dating advice from feminists. Hope it works out well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 01:02 AM
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Top comment.... I'm over 30 cis-male, I suffer with depression and anxiety, and I've never been in a relationship. I feel like a worthless failure at the best of times, but being a 30 year old virgin also makes me not a man [...] Is there such a thing as feminist dating advice? sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/15 02:29 AM
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Also recommend his second book The Rationale Male - Preventative Medicine and his blog. Here's one of my favorite passages... The truth however is that the longer you remain uncommitted, the more opportunities will be available to you. It’s been stated by wiser Men than I that women are dream-killers – and while I agree with this, I’d say this is due more to the man involved, and their own complicity and apathy, than some grand scheme of women. Women are dream killers. Not because they have an a…
/r/seduction03/08/15 04:11 AM
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Well they're usually to loud for a convo so you should grab the girls hand and take her somewhere more quiet. A couch off to the side is fine, even though you have to still yell in each others ears.
/r/seduction03/08/15 03:21 AM
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No, your alone if you never open up yourself to others. The only reason to keep yourself so isolated is because you are invested in other people's opinions of you. If you never open up, and you never put yourself out there, nobody will love/hate you. When you open up and reveal your true self, your polarize people. Some people might hate you (like betas) but others will respect you and those are the people you form bonds with. I'm not saying you should be an open book. You need some ambiguity to…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 05:19 AM
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Everything by Robert Greene, Ryan Holiday, Rollo Tomassi, Dale Carnegie, Jack Donovan, and Nassim N Taleb is worth a read.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 03:13 AM
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I have a question regarding IM Maxim #63. "let her into the castle, but do not give her the key to the heaviest door. She will notice the door is closed. She will ask you what’s behind the door and if “you can let her in?” Ignore her protests and manipulations. Never open that door. Not a woman alive other than perhaps your mother is worth opening this door for. If you believe love entails “sharing everything,” you don’t understand love.” Could you expand on what the "heavies door" might be? I t…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 06:05 AM
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"Possible, if she plays her cards right..." That would have been good, but you really shouldn't be worrying about such pointless things. That's a lot more unattractive than any single line you said.
/r/seduction29/07/15 09:00 PM
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I just don't get why people give a fuck. He just put a link to his tee at the bottom of a pretty good post. I'm not planning to buy that shit but it doesn't detract from the post at all. Guess we're having an influx of whiny bitches.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 09:36 PM
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We get so stuck in our way of thinking that sometimes you need someone else to change your perspective. Exactly. I can say that the TRP has been one of the most positive influences in my life, and that's why I try to be skeptical of it. It's so easy for me (and others) to blindly believe in something that is so valuable. New perspectives/ideas are greatly appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 12:55 AM
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Interesting framework to view what's important to men and why. While all of these "states" are important, it seems like different men have a natural preference towards different states. I have always had a innate interest in strategy and systems, and you seem to have a innate interest in the "Philosopher" state, seeing that you seek to understand things. Looking forward to reading your future posts.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 10:23 PM
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One thing that has been massively helpful is to have a morning and night routine. Create a checklist of things you want to do right when you wake up and right before you go to sleep, and go through that checklist everyday. The biggest difficulty in maintaining a habit is all of the chaos in our everyday live. The two things that are constant day to day are waking up and falling asleep. So having a morning and night routine makes it easier to stick with your habits and not forget. Other than that…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 04:45 PM
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Thanks for the interesting post. Want to change your life? Change your daily habits. Change them, and even more important, then stick with them.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 01:32 AM
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Good examples. Agree & Amplify is one of the most useful skills you can have in interacting with women.
/r/seduction26/07/15 01:19 AM
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Maybe I haven't, because I can't think of a post discussing the specific difficulties of being a woman. Some subscribers might conclude that that means there are no specific difficulties that woman face in their lives. But I would assume that a sub focused on positive masculinity and sexual strategy for men would have no reason to discuss such topics.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 05:12 AM
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Essentially all facets of life are more difficult for a man, and a man has a greater potential to fail without a safety net in place I don't know about you but I've sure as hell never lived the life of a woman, so I have no clue how difficult their lives are. If your talking about all else equals (socioeconomic status, wealth, genetics), than I'm a bit inclined to agree, that simply being a male makes your life more difficult, especially today in the West. But I can think of many factors that ha…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 02:26 AM
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This seems to be in line with our current culture of treating masculinity in men as "abusive" while treating the same traits in women as "empowering". Thus raising a generation of androgynous guys who need a website to tell them what it means to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/15 02:06 AM
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Cold approaching in public places in broad day light is not a "thing" anywhere in the world. The vast majority of guys never do it, because unless you have incredible game/looks, your going to get rejected, a lot. The fact that you give a fuck about any of that means you need to read the sidebar some more and then go out and do 20 cold approaches. Any loser can approach a girl at a party where the environment is social and every bodies drunk. It's another thing to put your feeling out there in a…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 10:36 PM
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But is your goal to just have a lot of opportunities or to actually get laid? Because again, the type of guy that happily accepts less than what he was aiming for, is not the type of guy that gets laid often. A man has to know exactly what he want's, and have a "take it or leave it" mindset. That mindset forces you not give a fuck, while a "maybe we could be friends" mindset makes you seem desperate for any affection/validation you can get. Furthermore, it's never a good idea to be friends with …
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:56 PM
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Most guys would give up at this point. Instead, I go for the second best option. I say "How about being friends?" I disagree with being friends with girls you were trying to smash just seconds ago. It seems desperate and makes you look like the kind of guy that will happily take what he can get. "Let's just be friends" is a girls way of saying I want you to give me attention and comfort while I fuck other guys. If you like the girl, and for whatever reason it doesn't work out, just move on. Stop…
/r/seduction20/07/15 09:27 PM
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Girls say that type of shit all the time. "You're a great guy. I'm sure you'll find a woman who appreciates your value later on in life." And most guys are so desperate for validation that they eat this shit up. They turn a blind a eye when the same girl fucks the biggest asshole in town. "She just made a mistake." It's this false hope that prevents these betas from accepting the truth. And this works to women's advantage, because after they regret fucking "the asshole", they need a shoulder to …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 07:24 PM
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You probably dodged a bullet there. She doesn't seem like the type of girl one would want to smash. Still, you should have moved on earlier, especially after "we can hang but I only see you as a friend." The girl clearly wasn't interested.
/r/seduction18/07/15 07:40 PM
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"When a woman intentionally makes you wait for sex, you are not her highest priority. A woman who wants to fuck you will find a way to fuck you. She will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroom window, fuck the shit out of you and wait patiently inside your closet if your wife comes home early from work – women who want to fuck will find a way to fuck." -Rollo Tomassi It's not that she's not sexual. It's that she's not sexual with you. Stop puttin…
/r/seduction18/07/15 07:18 PM
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Exactly. What you say is honestly irrelevant. You could say the most retarded thing in the world, but if you have the looks/confidence/body language to back it up, you'll be fine. On the flip side, you could use the best opener in the world and will still get no pussy if you don't have a strong foundation.
/r/seduction18/07/15 07:12 PM
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I think your saying two different things here. First, that you should have some standards and desire something more than just sex. Second, that if you become selective and seek out people you connect with, it's no longer a numbers game. To the first statement, I agree that men should look for something more than sex with a women, but only after they have experienced lots of sex. After a man has an abundance of sex, he will better understand what he really wants in women, beyond the sex. But that…
/r/seduction16/07/15 08:05 PM
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Doubt they would ban TRP after what happened with FPH. But then again, they have shown that they have no clue how the internet works, so I wouldn't put it past them. Still good to have a back up plan.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 07:08 PM
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TRP has been an eyeopener in regards to how the majority of people live there lives. They only do work to get by, and their lives revolve around consumption and entertainment. Their main focus in life is when the next Call of Duty is coming out, or when they'll have enough cash to buy some weed, or what Caitlyn Jenner is doing with her life, or what topping they should get on their pizza order, ect. I always remind myself not to turn into a downer who works 24/7 and thinks everybody else is stup…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 07:04 PM
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Consent is simple; you either say yes verbally, or you give it physically. Exactly. What guy asks women for permission before every physical escalation? A beta bitch who get's not pussy, that's who. And what do the lawmakers care, as long as they get those SJW votes, and stay away from controversial situations. These laws are treating adults as mentally disabled children who can't comprehend that you can simply say "fuck off" when you don't like what the other person is doing. Apparently women c…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 10:15 PM
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Appear wealthy, live frugally, fight with pride, and fuck shit up in bed. That's my interpretation.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 09:46 PM
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Definitely check out the post, because he addresses some of the things you brought up. I especially think this part is worth considering... "Vulnerability is not a strength, and especially not when a man deliberately reveals it with the expectation of a woman appreciating it as a strength. At some point in any LTR you will show your vulnerable side, and there’s nothing wrong with that. What’s wrong is the overt attempt to parlay that vulnerability into a strength or virtue that you expect that w…
/r/seduction11/07/15 07:04 PM
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Opposite perspective from Rollo Tomassi if you're interested. http://therationalmale.com/2014/11/23/vulnerability/ I've been reading Models by Manson and his argument for vulnerability is pretty convincing, but I also have tons of respect for Rollo and his theory so I've been going back and forth in my head lately. Sadly, my personal experience is more in line with Rollo's views, that vulnerability is a turn off for girls. While I've made lots of genuine friendships by showing my weaknesses, it'…
/r/seduction11/07/15 05:22 PM
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Eh I think they have a long way to go before it's anything like real sex. This is VR porn, not sex with an actual flesh and blood human, I'm not saying I wouldn't try it.....just that it won't replace actual sex.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 05:00 PM
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Yeah you're obviously naturally going to be more compatible with certain girls, that share your interests, values, views, hobbies ect. I think the pitfall of most guys is that they get attached to girls out of a fear of loneliness and lack of sex. It's the soul mate myth straight out of Disney movies. That you're "destined" to be with some bitch you've known for a week because you guys hit it off great. No. Your just desperate for affection. It's the obsession over a girl we refer to as ONEitis.…
/r/seduction11/07/15 04:48 PM
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LTR's should be a byproduct, not the goal of picking up girls. A girl has to demonstrate value to your life and a desire to be with you, before you enter a LTR, not the other way around. I have been a 'lonewolf' for quite some time and i manage fine. Also, entering a LTR after a dry spell is never a good idea. You should get around some, smash a handful of girls, and you'll have a better idea of what you want in a women. A LTR right after a dry spell is a recipe for disaster. Get to the point wh…
/r/seduction10/07/15 02:09 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. You shouldn't be trying to get with your co-workers. You should be focused on moving up the ladder. Leave the pick up for the billions of girls outside of your workplace. Sleeping with a coworker is how you create easily avoidable problems. But as general advice, for when your not trying to smash a co-worker, it sounds like your on a straight path to the friend zone. You have to make your intentions clear from the start, and it doesn't seem like you've done that. But th…
/r/seduction09/07/15 07:45 PM
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He looked up at her. "Thank you," he said. "But you lose." This is the part when she regrets using her 20 chip without anything in return. So she complains to the managers that the machine took advantage of her and needs to be removed from the casino.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 06:11 PM
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Dat competition anxiety. "Imagination and competition anxiety paired with implied non-exclusivity are the cornerstones of successful plate spinning." -Rollo
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:57 PM
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Yeah it's a easy way to get social proof. If you're getting hundreds of likes and posting cool pics it communicates your a high status and a socially savvy guy. But you shouldn't use it for validation, as in sitting their obsessing over how many likes you have or following what everybody else is doing. That's the ultimate trap of social media, it can make you irrationally concerned about what others are doing, when that is irrelevant to your life. So focus on your life, do awesome things, and oc…
/r/askTRP08/07/15 06:58 PM
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Definitely. It shows in how Rogan handled the situation that he was in control. He didn't make himself look like an ass by spitting at her or just insulting her without reason (possibly what she was hoping he'd do). Anybody listening could tell that he was being reasonable and was justifiably angry.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 12:35 AM
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I just want to add one thing. I think the women was trying to get Rogan riled up, thinking that he would lose his frame and come out looking like an asshole after the interaction. For someone new to TRP, the best course of action would have been to just ignore the shit test and maintain frame. But Rogan was able to follow his natural instinct, get pissed off, but still maintain frame and put the bitch in her place. He didn't do what most angry people would do, spit at her or mindlessly insult he…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 12:26 AM
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TRP is a place to discuss our thoughts openly. As Rollo says it, it's a place where guys exchange notes. And yeah, I don't really learn anything new from TRP sub except from the occasional theory post that's like top of the month. But I don't think TRP loses value after you've finished reading the side bar/top posts. Unless you have a group of friends who enjoy discussing "deep" topics (politics, morality, machiavelianism, relationships, ect.) from a masculine POV, then that leaves you with inte…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 11:43 PM
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I think TRP advocates being in control of your emotions, and rarely letting your feelings come before your reason. When you lose control of your emotions, you lose your ability to reason. This allows people to start manipulating your emotions without you realizing it. For a beta in the process of unplugging, being in control means being calm and "stoic" at all times. But someone like Joe Rogan can get angry and remain in control. You could tell how strategically controlled the frame of the inter…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 11:20 PM
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Also, wife material yet other guys got to use her for her body? Ha. Could I get your advice? I'm currently exclusive with this chick and she seems to be starting to take the relationship seriously. For context we're in college. From what I know, she used to be slutty in the past, realized she was being used so stopped the random hook ups a few months back. But her body count must be at least 10. She's doing all the right things, really low maintenance and lots of sex. And she's really investing …
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